Have you learnt any Lessons since January?
I made a shocking discovery this year and what i discovered is that Love does not beget love anymore,well not always..If you must love and help anyone do it because of GOD and not because you expect anything in return....
Learnt also the true meaning of letting go.....
I made the shocking discovery that despite all the cry against Violence,80percent of the women who walk away from their abusers return to them and then pass the blame on themselves.....
what have you learn that you wanna share?
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ReplyDeleteI agree with ur love don't beget love...
DeleteSo far, I have learnt to be calm in the face of hard situations. Talking too much or panic makes no headway...
Calmness helps ur brain function better and faster!
I have learnt end time mummy Stella is so nice n kind.
DeleteI learnt that truse IN God is key. Just tell Him and leave it. No need having high BP. Don't put your trust in pepole they always fail. God is the God of the 11th hour.
DeleteHmm, I have learnt to rely on God and Him only
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DeleteHmm,I've learnt a lot this year.I learnt especially that there's nothing prayer cannot solve.Thank you God for the good work You've started,and I know You'll definitely perfect it.Patience though not easy is a very big virtue.
DeleteYes oh. Prayer prayer prayer.
DeleteI have learn neva to give up in life no matter the situation one is facing because dis saying is very popular but very great when there is life there is always hope. And apart frm that the knowledge have got now, I wish have got it when growing up, I think things would ve taken a different shape of life for me. But all glory to God almight.
ReplyDeleteI've learnt that things are never the way they seem.
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ReplyDeleteI have learnt that in any story before i judge, i should hear from both sides.
And thats why i dnt give advice in chronicles
Your English sucks!
DeleteGood.my idea too
DeleteAre you a lawyer?
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DeleteFoolish Anon 13.47
DeleteIt sucks just like ur mothers pussy
Anuofia
Anon 14.45. In the spirit
Jesu!sexiest mother buhahahaha
DeleteNne iwe na ewe gi o,no chill at all
Ur atitude sucks I must say, that's someone's mother u just insulted, are u for real? Why r u so pained that someone pointed our ur error? babe even if u hv all working out for u as u "claim" it doesn't end here. If I could remember u posted ur pix sometime ago.
DeleteInternet never forgets, beware of people with shovels who r ready to dig up ur past on this blog.
I've learnt not to write off people so easily. And that we might end up staying single just cos we are looking for our "type" but when you step out of that and open your eyes and forget the "my type" thing, we will find something we never expected
ReplyDeleteSo so correct especially @ 'my type' thing.....I'v come across the 'not my type' persons, and was left amazed @ what I discovered!!we are so blinded by our own never-existing fantasies and not seeing the real thing staring @ us. Mtchewww d heart can shaa mess us up
DeleteOkay. Happy married life
DeleteI have learnt to wait on the lord.......
ReplyDeleteI have learnt to ignore people with negative vibes.
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So far, I have learnt to persevere more. I have learnt to let go in the real word. I have learnt that all that glitters isn't really gold. I have learnt to know my circle of friends. Yes! I have learnt to love and trust enough and giving you all benefit of doubt not to throw it all on my face.. I have learnt that some people really and truly care about me even when I don't know. I have learnt that no matter how hard life is, it's also very fair with a pigment of albino to some people.
ReplyDeleteISIS to footwear.nice.
DeleteAnyway try expanding your business to the east especially uyo, abia, and imo. it rains almost everyday here.
Anyway I have learnt that nothing is worth killing my self for.try my best and leave the rest to God.
@ olori
DeleteNice point
It's Isis and not ISIS. Two different word. One is a name, the other is an acronym. The former has been in existence before the latter. Thanks
DeleteLesson learnt:girls should get disvirgined early no gain again.im 31 still one more heartbreaks COs no man will stay some think i have a problem when i jst want to do d ryt thing.Regretssss
ReplyDeleteSorry about that.
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DeleteThat's not true, got married at age 32 as a virgin and having a blast now, though virginity is not an automatic ticket to happiness in marriage, it saves you from unnecessary drama and attachments, stick to God whose commands you are obeying and see him give you your own man who will worship the ground you walk on
DeleteY are u complaining? At least Ur virginity is there for u to hold on to ..
DeleteY are u complaining? At least Ur virginity is there for u to hold on to ..
DeleteMonkeynofine so you regret giving out your virginity to the aboki down the street..ntooor!
DeleteI have a close pal in her late 30's, single n searching. She is a very decent lady but Mr right is just no where around her.
DeleteWhy do "virgins" have this attitude problem that they are "good", therefore they deserve the best men, home, job, bla bla bla .
DeleteNo one is good only God is, we can only try. Thinking you are good is what irks God. That woman who is no longer a Virgin might actually be more favoured in God's eye. I am tired of hearing "I am a Virgin, I regret not enjoying myself"
If you want to keep your virginity good but do not come here and expect us to give you a prize or look for a good man for you. Your business is with God, you been a Virgin does not make you good.
Being a virgin doesn't make u a better person or give u a perfect home. It's just a personal decision
Deletelol..........on top of dat,they'll now go down on their knees and say "God let the 1st guy be my husband,ni wahala baa beere,some1close to me is still licking her wounds,the boy no enter well well but him leave trademark there na him dem say aunty make up wiv him cos of your previous prayer point,my dear na so wahala start o,the boy blocked her on all social media say her wahala too much;cos him na fine boy nw Yankee based single dad of 14yr son,my friend has entered prayer and fasting on top the matter cos she will be 30 in 2yrs time omolomo.i tot it was funny but it isn't cos she cries all d time.sweets I'm sorry I had to spill but this is our house so peeps have to learn.
DeleteAkana akodu akuko virginity?
DeleteWhat matters most in a woman is a good character and being ur real self without pretense
One-I have learnt to drink water and mind my business.
ReplyDeleteTwo-Speak only to God about issues bothering me and not family or friends.
I have learnt that hard work cannot kill,yes it can be overwhelming sometimes and u feel ur superiors r nt being fair to u bt in d long run it helps in preparing u for the future
DeleteYesooo. Minding my business before umunwanyi ndia na e treat fuck up side chics difa etinye mu na nsogbuoo
DeleteI believe the first quarter of the year should be April ending, Stella babe. Quarter is 4,isn't it?
ReplyDeleteQuarter means 4..so if u divide 12 months into 4..u get 3..so March is d 1st quarter of the year..kapish..
DeleteI've learnt that not everybody loves u,don't trust anybody not even your blood......yes even your blood.trust in God alone:Allah loo sure juu and anything can happen @ anytime.
ReplyDeleteYou are right. Self love is the best/trusting in God
DeleteI have learnt to love God more.
ReplyDeleteEhi, I would hv loved to come to your shop for a wig but I don't know how to exchange addresses with you here.
DeleteI learnt that all these while,God has got my back,I thot he abandoned me bcos things were so terrible for me.
ReplyDeleteI also learnt that its not too late to find love,true and sincere love biko locate me in Jesus name,Amen.
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DeleteYou have a choice. Please leave the love less relationship. You will be alright. 👍
DeleteI have learnt to be patient,humble and keep my business to myself. Not everyone you can friends/family have your back when the chips are down. And like you said Stella Love does not beget Love... Am moving from a bad relationship and moving on with my head up high.....
ReplyDeleteEeyaaa. Dont worry quote me ur next relationship will be perfect then when its sealed. Ihotago that kain thing
DeleteYou will now buy me Ompa.
I have learnt that it takes patience and love for marriage to work.Also its being the mercies of God that I am where I am today.It is not of him that willet or runneth but of God that showeth Mercy!
ReplyDeleteI agree with you my Sterra of life. I have learnt not to get angry over petty things. I just overlook and move on. Pple take my silence for stupidity but I smile and concentrate on loving God more. I admonish pple to ignore troublesome individuals too
ReplyDeleteWhere do I start from?
ReplyDeleteLife has been so good to me,i realised I wasn't thanking God enough.
So lesson learnt, appreciate God more for the little joys and blessings...I ain't perfect but he made life beautiful for me.
I learnt to be more patient. Before now? I can't deaaallll,Lolz
Learnt not to be too quick to judge...you don't know people's stories. You don't know how bad they hurt. So when I perceive genuine cases,i try,i try to be objective these days.
I have learnt to be more trusting. I'm still learning that one.
*Zapping Out*
Uhmmmm...leassons learnt
ReplyDelete1. Gods time is the best, patience is pertinent to live daily.
2. God works in mysterious ways. Ypu can sleep broke and wake up a millionaire e.g Olajumoke
3. No one knows tomorrow. Things can just change and everything will change forever.
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Now you are talking sis..... I love your courage... You've been on my prayers request list..... He is faithful , even to the end
DeleteDefault smile. Biko keep the faith alive. Biko never give up. There is actually a product from china my friend and her neighbor who sells babies stuff use to take last yr and as i am typing this now one has given birth while the other is pregnant and about to. If u re interested, i will help u find out the name of the product. All i know is that its a chinese product and the husband and wife do take it. She told me it works well. I dont know the name shaa
DeleteLearnt not to conclude fast
ReplyDeleteWhen God remembers you, there's no looking back.
ReplyDeleteNever give up, never write off people even befor I get to know them. Learnt love is no more unconditional and true as used to believe. Learnt to rely and trust fully on God. Learnt that not all friends are friends and not al are meant to stay by ur side @ tough times.....I recently also learnt that worrying solves nothing
ReplyDeleteLet me rant here, @ almost 30, no boyfriend nor any man to call my own, can't even travel to the village for Easter cux those nasty relatives won't let me rest, they keep reminding me how old I'm, how my biological clock is ticking telling me how a woman's life is fast going n how monopause is knocking at the door, how unorganized my life is until I marry, phew!
ReplyDeleteBut come o, I'm alive, I'm not in the hospital, I'm not managing any terminal disease,a wonderful family, a good job n a God that loves me so much .
The same cliché rant, almost 30...no boyfriend....people question me.....
DeleteLadies I am tired of reading it. Guys go through it also but you do not hear them complain. When I read such things, it reeks of desperation and I hate desperate ladies, they are the ones that go on to break people's marriages to become Mrs at all cost. Pls stop this rant and work on yourselves. There are many men out there waiting for the ONE. Stop this cliché rants ladies.
Just 30 and u are talking?my aunt married in her late 30's now she got 2 sons.Its never late for God
DeleteBe Grateful o......Walai iyanu mashele Masha Allahu very soon.
DeleteI've learnt that everything is never as it seems
ReplyDeleteI've learnt to look beyond the ordinary
I've learnt to show love and to forgive
I've learnt that God always has his special plans for us which sometimes may not work according to our own plans but his plans are for the best
Exactly my dear....God has a grt plan for us.
DeleteI've learnt to tie my leg like a mermaid's and not give in just cos of love... all that glitters isn't gold.. tomorrow is always pregnant
ReplyDeletePlease how do I tie my legs like a mermaid even after getting disvirgined?? Am 32,and am still waiting on God for husband,3 major guys on my case,I cnt give them the cookie,will dey not run away again,how do I kip posting dem? Kai! This is way too confusing,and am falling in love with one of them already,I feel horny most times,I have not had sex for 9months now,chai! Its not easy oh! And I dnt know how to masturbate,am not intrested in learning bcos I learnt its bad and addictive. Mehn, otu rawara arawa adigo loyal,chineke merela'm ebere biko.
DeleteI have learnt that you should try as much as possible to help people around you.
ReplyDeleteWhen you help people for humanity sake, you have the good feeling of accomplishing something significant and the fact that you have help someone in life you are satisfied that you have made the life of someone great and you have moved that person to a better level.
I also realized that because you are such a loving person does not mean you would find the best person in the world, people would take advantage of you, cheat you and take your love for granted. I have realized that despite all of these, one should never lose faith in believing that at the end of the road something god would surely come up. At the end of the cloud there is a silver lining.
To cope in this world, just have the mentality no one likes you.
DeleteOnce you have that engraved in your mind, there is nothing any body can do that will surprise you or make you feel bad because in the first place you do not have any expectations of them. It works for me
It pays to be selfless my people, The benefits u will not be able to number.
ReplyDeleteI have learnt that the only permanent thing in life is change. Therefore, I should not expect much from anybody. They can fail at anytime. The most important thing is to trust in God always. He is the UNCHANGEABLE changer.
ReplyDeleteI have learnt to never give up on life,life goes on and we must continue to strive to succeed in life,even when people try to pull you down,cause people we always do that.
ReplyDeleteI have learnt that God is still in the business of answering prayer. Most importantly I have gained the power of patience and faith.
ReplyDeleteI have learnt to be sincere,kind and servicable.
ReplyDeleteHave also learnt to never allow circumstances determine my character.
Moreso,have leanrt to always allow james to fool himself often and also give room for stupid pple like the Anon
Mc pinky
I've learnt in all things to give God thanks... echi di ime
ReplyDeleteI have learnt to let Go and let God! What happened hurts so much, but God knows best!
ReplyDeleteI will continue to draw strength from Shirley Ceasar's Song - "He'll Do It Again"
Lesson learnt: Don't Let Negative And Toxic People Rent Space In Your Head. Raise The Rent And Kick Them Out.
ReplyDeleteI have learnt that patience and perseverance is very important. There were times I almost gave up on some things but I realised that they worked out eventually because I was patient. I have also learnt that things will fall in place. Just be prayerful and thankful while waiting.
ReplyDeleteLesson learnt: Don't Let Negative And Toxic People Rent Space In Your Head. Raise The Rent And Kick Them Out.
ReplyDeleteHmmm, have learnt that this world is all man for himself, if you don't have God and think you've got persons then you re on your own. Have learnt not to rely on family too,cos ur friend might be berra than your close relation
ReplyDeleteI have learnt that people never truly change.
ReplyDeleteI've learnt that in this harsh economic situation in the country,one has to have 2 or more source of income to avoid going hungry or to beg.
ReplyDeleteYour best friend is another person's best friend... learnt that what I can do for my friend without thinking twice, cannot be done to me. It still hurts.
ReplyDeleteI've learnt to disregard ppl's flaws n embrace their bright side.
ReplyDeleteI learnt that nothing good in life comes easy.
ReplyDeleteI learnt nobody can give me the joy, peace and love I seek except mysef.
I learnt to be my own bestfriend thag pple can forsake you at anytime.
I learnt that most times pple only care for you aslong as u are on top. Nobody wants to be friends wen u are down.
I learnt most importantly that all that glitters is not gold.
I learnt to be careful while picking stones so as not to loose my diamond.
Life teaches us alot everyday, bt I must say that from january till now, I hv grown soo much, I hv learnt alot. Im not strong enough bt im getting stronger each day.
Finally, I hv learnt that God is who he is " I am that I am"
I learnt that God gat my back and that his plans for me are of good and not of evil to give me an expected end.
I have learnt that people that are quiet have so much evil thought going inside them,osochiegbu
ReplyDeleteO buro kwa obere osochiegbu.
DeleteNot fair, I am quiet but that does not mean I have evil thoughts in me, I just do not like unnecessary talk and I prefer serene environment, watching films, surfing the net.. to been a gossip and talking unnecessarily. When you talk too much you are bound to be a gossip and God hates Gossips.
DeleteBy the way, I hate lousy people, aargh, they give me migraine.
I meant I dislike (not hate) lousy people before some people "come for my head"
DeleteI have learnt to put my trust in God the more
ReplyDeleteI've learnt that patient can never be too much only if it won't be enough.... Patience is the best virtue...I've learnt to be swift to hear and slow
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Learnt not to look down on people and also help d needies because I have seen what most people go through in life
ReplyDeleteHave learnt not to complain over things i have no power to change, things only God has the power and final say on, life is full of ups and downs.
ReplyDeleteHave learnt to keep holding onto God no matter the pressure or situation He only Has the final say over my life. Have also learnt never to please human beings but to please myself.
ReplyDeleteI have learnt we can't do anything on our own without God involve, when we truly serve God we don't need too much prayer and fasting for him to do the things we want, I have also learnt when you meet the right person peace of mind follows..i have also learn how to be patient.
ReplyDeleteI leart dat 1 nids 2 Folo his/her drm no mata d cost
ReplyDeleteI have learnt Matthew 6:33 wait on God do his will, serve him deligently and win souls for him then he wil settle all your needs. FACTS
ReplyDeleteA REFLECTION OF GOD ON EARTH
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I have learnt that there is nothing like motherhood.Everyday i thank God for my God given son.
ReplyDeleteI learnt to go dumb even though I can speak, go blind when i can obviously see n turn deaf when I can hear.
ReplyDeleteIt's the best, am learning too. God help me.
DeleteIve learnth not to look in the hole bcos i might find a snake,to let sleeping dogs lie...and also to drop friends that dont deserve to be called one.
ReplyDeleteI have learnt that true friendship does not exist anymore. I have also learnt that dissociating from family foundations matters alot. Alot of the battles we face in life are as a result of those idols our ancestors served and tied us to via covenants and sacrifices while we were yet to come into existence... Jesus is always LORD!!!!
ReplyDeleteI have learnt how really powerful God is, he is not always good too. God can bless your enemies who did evil you too and allow you suffer, God can refuse to answer your prayers and watch while you are humiliated and there's nothing you can do about it.
ReplyDeletei have learnt that Your life can come crushing to a halt even after you have shed uncountable tears for God intervention, and people around you will encourage you to thank Him. you have no choice really!! he is GOD nah.
I have learn that even if you obey all church instruction and fast etc, if god still wont answer your prayers He wont.
What can one do about it? well nothing. just accept and cope till He either decided to change your situation or take your life. He gave you right?
I am tired.
My love with this mindset, u can't receive from him. Forget church instructions, our God is not a task master, he chooses to bless u weather u go to church or not, what matters is ur relationships with him. We all are his children ur enemies inclusive, surprised? But my God is ever faithful, he 'll do it when u least expect.
DeleteI await ur testimony darling
I've learnt,I need deliverance from Stella's blog.one time the blog wasn't opening on my browser,oh boy,there was nothing i didnt do to fix the problem. Initially i was calm thinkn it was a general problem,but when i discovered it wasn't,I just went into my room,shut the door and started drinkn,it was like Stella's blog broke up with me or something.
ReplyDeleteSmiled at its like Stella's blog broke up with me.
DeleteHAVE LEARNT TO LOVE ALL BUT TRUST ONLY GOD.
ReplyDeleteHAVE LEARNT TO CHOOSE MY CIRCLE OF FRIENDS WISELY.
HAVE LEARNT THAT GOD'S TIME IS THE BEST.
HAVE LEARNT THAT SILENCE IS BETTER THAN A THOUSAND WORDS.
I have learnt to let go of things that I can not change and to be patient and wait on God.
ReplyDeleteI have learnt to let go of things that I can not change and to be patient no matter how desperate d situation and wait on God
ReplyDeleteI have learnt to always give my tithe to God. Ever since I obeyed Him in that area, I have never gone broke. He has been answering my prayers and doing wonders.
ReplyDeleteTruthfully speaking, I am yet to learn anything.*sighs*. I would learn!hopefully
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Start today you won't regret it. Write out a goal you would like to meet no matter how little it seem. And make every effort to achieve it daily, weekly or monthly. Thank me later.
DeleteTruthfully speaking, I am yet to learn anything.*sighs*. I would learn!hopefully
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I have learnt that GOD often removes some people in our lives for our protection, & we should always remember that wen we go running after them.
ReplyDelete@Foniee, quarter is one fourth so end of March is first quarter of the year
ReplyDeleteI have learnt that God exist and is ever faithful.I hv also learnt that it is good to be optimistic in life
ReplyDeleteHmmm what have I learnt? I have learnt to be slow to speak and swift to hearing.
ReplyDeleteI have learnt to trust God in all ways....
ReplyDeleteI also learnt that if you don't make a move things won't happen.
I have learnt to hold unto Gods promises,I have learnt to clap back at those who ask why I am not pregnant & I have learnt to grateful for small blessings I took for granted before.
ReplyDeleteI decided not to enter 2016 with a relationship that was leading no where .
ReplyDeleteI was heart broken , was sick for days , God gave me the strength to walk away . Now I know it was never meant to be . Now I put God 1st in everything, asking Him to lead me .
I needed that lesson to be able to understand that I needed God ... I would wish that heartbreak upon myself for as long as it takes me to learn that invaluable lesson
I have learnt .
God before all .
Now I am happier , God has showed me he has Wayyy bigger plans for me than marriage at the moment . It will come ... But not yet . I am 28. I am happy and tapping into my unknown potential .
Stella I am bursting with excitement - I see now , that I can reach the peak ! I don't worry anymore .. . I trust God completely
I have learnt to confess your sin before going to sleep
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