The Nigeria Senate on Tuesday blocked a bill seeking equal marital rights for women.
The bill, titled “Gender Parity and Prohibition of Violence against Women”, was presented by Abiodun Olujimi, representing Ekiti south, during the senate’s plenary session.
According to Mrs. Olujimi, the bill would seek equal rights for women in marriage, education and job.
According to Mrs. Olujimi, the bill would seek equal rights for women in marriage, education and job.
She said if the bill was passed, a widow in Nigeria would automatically become the custodian of her children in the event of the death of her husband, and would also inherit his property.
The deputy senate president, Ike Ekeremadu, supported the bill. He said Nigeria would develop if women were given the same rights men have.
“Only last night, I was going through a document prepared by George Bush of America. Those countries that are doing well are those who give women opportunities,” he said.
“Where I come from, women don’t eat egg and are restricted from touching the non-essential parts of animal. But now that has changed. What is needed is time and education, not necessarily legislation. We will continue to encourage our women. I support this bill”, he said.
The Senate Majority leader, Ali Ndume, criticised the bill, and urged Nigerians to stick with either religious or traditional marriage.
Sani Yerima, a senator from Zamfara state, condemned the bill, arguing that it was in conflict with the Nigerian Constitution.
He said the bill negates the principles of the Sharia law, which the Constitution recognises.
The bill was defeated when the senate president, Bukola Saraki, put it to vote.
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Hmmmmmm
Stella.pls bring back the "N" in Nigeria..lmaooo
ReplyDeleteCheck ur heading.
Can u imagine.
DeleteEnd time senators with blocked head n leaking brokos
I am nt surprise dt Yerima didn't support d bill.
DeleteLeft to him, d female child shuld be on her back frm age 5, while d women shuld not be seen or heard of.
God protect us frm people like him.
Bunch of irritant
DeleteCrazy country
Hahhahaha over sabi for this blog no be small
DeleteHonestly I'm indifferent about this bill or the debate thereof. And I imagine the overzealous feminists already on their toes, ready to attack with their nostrils enlarging with venomous arguments on why this should be passed..lol. These are the ones that worry me.
DeleteLet's just say I'm comfortable with what we've always had as regards this gender ish, not to take away the rights of any woman... But away from human rights, our Constitution or its interpretation.. like was suggested up there, let's just allow tradition take preeminence and maintain what we've always had. After all it is only in exceptional cases that some women suffer gender inequality or are abused by the ignorant males around them.
I also think that highlighting this will only attract and stir up unnecessary feminism ish by females who cannot manage their rights and ego, and those who would think that they are now free to compete with their male counterparts.
Of course only the shallow ones will misinterpret this bill. But I'm more for the overall effect it'll have on every female in Nigeria. Again, only a very few will understand how to manage it.
Yea, u may not agree with me but this is my opinion darlings.
Well said, but no exceptions dear. Seen too many believe me!
Deleteabeg make una allow women too dey do as them like, all this men go dey cheat women any how.
ReplyDeleteWhy should there be gender equality in marriage Abeg? God knows why he didn't create Adam n eve same time. Some over zealous m greedy women sha
DeleteYeye people
ReplyDeleteIt won't even work cos some women won't allow it take effect! How would it be effective when some are aiming to be second n third wives? Abeg! Let's continue!
DeleteSome will prefer to die there instead of taking half of his properties in case of divorce! Shege jagwa!
You see, misinterpretation.
DeleteMuslims and their so called religion. Perverts walking around looking for children to devour. When more than half d Senate house is full of them, what will one expect.
ReplyDeleteSpot on.
DeleteNo be small pervs! I really don't understand dat religion, way too complicated! Tueh!
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DeleteWhat does this have to do with Religion?
DeleteIt is the African Mentality in Nigerian Men. I bet you that if they were all Christians, it will still turn out like this. Dont u see how all of them hold on to SUBMISSIVE part of the Bible like that is all they see.
A christian senator also rejected it too
DeleteStella and her half news
Wipe well oo. You and your husband are one and the same
DeleteExactly
DeleteYou all know who to hold responsible
ReplyDeleteThe best way to enslave a woman is to show her love continuously n excessively ...women don't run away from where they're pampered n shown much care
DeleteSo you know this Bentouttashape? That's just the truth o!
DeleteAll these senators are going gaga.
ReplyDeleteWhat are they afraid of.
Jeeezzzzz
I wipe for Nigeria...
With their half bake senators...
Always wanting to control the female gender...
Am just pained...
Am out.
Weep
DeleteIyawo, you 'wipe' for Nigeria?
DeleteWas it with tissue paper or baby wipes?
No be small 'wiping' my sister lmao
DeleteNigeria is so messed up mehn, the men always want to stay on top even in death? Na wah
*weep* thank me tomorrow.
DeleteWeep nt wipe *dntthankme#
DeleteWeep* not wipe
Delete"Weep" you mean?
Delete"Half baked"
"I'm"..
Nigerian graduates, come on!.. Haba!
It's "weep" and not "wipe". half baked much?
DeleteKeep wiping* for nigeria even though i have no idea what you are wiping
DeletePlease buy two copies of Brighter Grammar. One for you. One for James.
DeleteNne...is "weep"...don't "wipe" us mbok!
Delete-noraFab
Stellathis one na old news nau
ReplyDeleteAll these Nigeria senators with their half baked thought.
ReplyDeleteAlways want to control the female gender.
Am so pained.
Y now.
Am out.
Before nko? They won't support it. The African mentally of women being servants won't change, not any time soon. Na them sabi.
ReplyDeleteAlmost all the senators that voted against it were northerners and Muslim quoting sharia law
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ReplyDeleteBastards no be small one. They want to keep on marrying children and prevent them from speaking out. But do we really need the law to be passed before women starts standing up for their right. Just thinking shaa.
DeleteEnd time bloody bastards. Backward nonentities
DeleteI like you!
Delete#nohomo
Ali Ndume who happens to be a northerner was in support and spoke in favour of the bill, purge your heart of hate, not everyone up north is this close minded, contrary to popular perception a good number of us are very educated. I don't blame you though, you and many others who share your sentiments have been taught to hate us, until we do put aside our differences and see beyond ethnic lines, we can't and wont move forward as a nation, I am hausa Christian btw, incase you think every northerner is Muslim
Delete"Senator Bala Na’Allah also spoke for the Bill. He said that discrimination is a worldwide issue and that there is a need for adequate measures. Senator Na’Allah also spoke about the need to protect the widowhood and inheritance rights of women.
DeleteOther Senators who supported the Bill include Senator Ekweremadu, Senator Ndume, Senator Raji-Rasaki and Senator Garba." excerpt from a detailed article on BN, not all northerners are voted against it please, read widely. Stella you should have done a detailed article
monkey.must you politicise everything?
DeleteEnd time sexists
ReplyDeleteIs Nigeria btw@stella.
ReplyDeleteNaija, we dey learn fast oo, now is gender equlity? Of all the problems we have....chai smh..
since when ka gender diri equal for naija? talk more of thinking about the bill+passing the bill itself. Abeg, this is naija, nothing dey equal here ooo. Until women can stand and pee straight, then we can talk about gender equality.
Inukwa gender na equality. Na like this e dey take start. Better thing we no go learn from Westerners, na yeye things...(My2cent)
What do u mean sef?
DeleteIt is the likes of you that give those senators reasons to vote against gender equality.
DeleteSo the women abroad stand and pee straight abi what is dis one saying
DeleteI am amazed how a so called educated woman can spit out this shit.it shows the slavery mindset of ur thinking. Gender equality is very important, so it can't be swept under the rug
DeleteThank u. Before you know it water will pass garri. Gender equality is possible in marriage if you and your spouse understand and relate as such
DeleteEven God made one the head and the other a support system. But I support the aspect about custody and inheritance.
DeleteYou are so dumb
DeleteOh well# na my opinion be that oo. You can shove the insult in your throat.
DeleteGender equality my foot!
I know Sani Yerima will never support such bill. Mscheeew
ReplyDeleteWell what then can we say,we can only pray that God opens the eyes of our lawmakers to see beyond their ego and religion.Between,Dear Stella kindly edit your caption.Yours sdkly dazzlinglizzy
ReplyDeleteBy the way not between
DeleteYerima na afo anu
ReplyDeleteWhat did u expect rom that child molester Yerima or what. Is he not d same Senator dt passed d bill of child marriage. Shameless senators, dia death will be worst than a goat if they don't change from dia evil ways. Sharia law? Always using that to justify dia evil deeds.
ReplyDeletePlease check your headline "Nigeria" not "igeria"
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm.
ReplyDeleteI was not surprised to see the names of the Senators that criticised the bill.
ReplyDeleteNotherners enjoy the way they trample on their women, lord over them and reduce them to face covering entities.
These northerners don't just want dis country to move forward.
ReplyDeleteWhat the fuck is that stupid sharia law. Is d North another country on its own that it would be allowed to have its own laws?
When exactly will they scrap this nonsense sharia.
Kai, this country disgusts me.
All ur insults, right back at u.
Very sad that they rejected this bill. This would have really helped a lot of widows who family members want to send out on the streets with their kids. Very unfair
DeleteThat is y we should divide, Nigeria is not a religious state but secular. Make them dey do their own,we obviously don't have the same ideologies.they keep thinking of only how women's function is to satisfy their p***ck.hizzzzzz
DeleteNo Insult madam Chairlady of Bitter leaf Clique
DeleteI'm disgusted too! Tufiakwa
when will ur stupid fake book stp lyn 2 u??fool.bastard,ashawo.@least we r nt wife beaters fool
DeleteI hate the idea of or biafra but there are times I wish the north can be a country of their own. And let other part of Nigeria be one. They go against so many laws in the Nigeria constitution siting sharia law.
DeleteANIMALS. ABOKIS
ReplyDeleteAnimals 419,Ashawo nd blood money plp.if u cnt liv wit it go 2 hell fire
DeleteI watched the news yesterday... I was so angry!!!
ReplyDeleteIt was clear the Senate has no regard for women.
I was shocked and disappointed that such a bill was turned down by the majority in the senate. I watched it on TVC news yesterday and was flabbergasted. The senators reasons for rejecting the bill was so lame and dumb.
ReplyDeleteWomen should not give up on this bill until its becomes a law in Nigeria. We only need to go back and strategically bring it on in a much better way.
Besides the fact that there just has to be a specified rule of order in homes, gender equality shouldn't raise so much dust. Why kick against it if you have no bossy intentions? Some just enjoy wanton towering which is often an illiterate getsure. Your wife is your partner, your other half, your pair. Heirachy comes handy in division...except that's what you breed. My wife should share equal rights with me as long as she can handle it. I won't marry who can't.
ReplyDeleteI'm a man, I would support the bill still.
The country needs help!
ReplyDeleteOffcourse they will reject it cos to them women are slaves.
Hungry senators.
*of course
DeleteThis is Nigeria. This is Africa.
ReplyDeleteWe are not European or Americans.
A woman can never be equal to a man. It is a sacrilege.
Any woman seeking equal right with her horseband should relocate to to Europe or US.
when you want to sponsor a bill, you need to make it less ambiguous, the tittle of the bill should not at face value give every detail of what the bill contains. The title "women equality " gave the bill away already but that's not even what the entire bill is all about More importantly I hope we're gradually seeing that the south and north do not have the same concept of life and living and the sooner we accept this the better for us, whether we agree or decides to cuss ourselves does not solve anything but moving forward is for all our good. I hope we know what moving forward entails.
ReplyDeleteHow can a child molester support the bill.
ReplyDeleteNortherners always ready to make women their slaves.
God help this country
ReplyDeleteDo I blame the law makers... Is Women that gave birth to them, without God/women there'd be no man! It will all end in praise in the end, is not the end yet
ReplyDeleteI hope that all the women challenging their horsebands for superiority can now bow their heads in defeat
ReplyDeleteMy problem pass gender equality. Always knew that bill can never go through
ReplyDeleteNot just your problem oo, Naija PROBLEMS pass equality. Let's start with JOB...I'll rather the youth are empowered more.
DeleteSo far it is in Nigeria, I for one knows it's not possible because Nigerian men have so much ego in them. They don't want to be rubbing shoulders with women not minding the fact that some of them reason with their anus.
ReplyDeleteI just love what a follower, a woman wrote on Caro's instagram page yesterday, after she called on women to unite.
ReplyDeleteThe writer asked if women are ready to share equally share children's school fees, house rent, feeding money, and also if woman are ready to start playing bride price.
Such a woman will never have any problem with her DH.
So u troll women on IG too? Waoo!!
DeleteWhat sort of equality do women want again, dont they contest and get elected in elections? dont they get political appointments? don't they head top blue chip companies?... What do these women really want ... Ok good , u can go and become labourer at Lekki gardens and also okada and cab drivers, no one will stop u... Again , u women can start by stop looking for rich man to marry or rich bf to date... that will be a good start
ReplyDeleteI wonder why the sharia law is in the Nigerian constitution..
ReplyDeleteAm not surprised.Nigerian men will never grant women equal right both in marriage and other areas. And Our women will never learn to support each other rather they are busy looking for ways to bring down their our fellow woman.
ReplyDeleteWe run the world
ReplyDeleteWhether they like it or not
Truth be told,The bill endangers men,lots of women will be in marriage to kill and inherit the husband's property. This is no gender equality. What happen to Will? If we sit down and study the bill,it has commas.
ReplyDeleteWomen should know that they can get the equality they so desire without the Senate passing the bill. Oh yea! Don't ask me how though. I no dey mood to type epistle. Lol
DeleteShakes head.
ReplyDeleteada nne you are a very stupid female or whatever u are.....fool. it is women like you who allow men treat them like bullshit
ReplyDeleteAnd you are....?
DeleteSo they can continue to marry their underage wives & keep them in bondage useless men!
ReplyDeleteI weep for women in this country...it's only a few widows that have the backbone to fight their wicked heartless in law after the death of their husbands. Thank God for my father ...1st man in my village to decree that no woman in the family should be forced to scrap her hair when his father (my grandpa) died including the widowed wife. We all both male & female have inheritance in my father's house...contract workers farm on the land & remit money to me. How many men can do such? We need to start taking the plight women go through more serious in this country.
Please most of the issues contemplated by this bill have been taken care of by the Constitution and a plethora of Supreme Court authorities. What we need to change is our mentality and practise all these things we preach in our daily lives and dealings with our women. Enactment of more laws isn't the way forward.
ReplyDeleteShame on some women who support the disgusting decisions of the majority of our stupid senators. It is women like you people that will keep putting your kind down. Nigerian women need to be more socially conscious. The fact that conversations about gender issues in our society are met with a lot of apathy by women is a massive impediment to making a Nigeria a better country for all women. It doesn't matter whether you feel like your status in life means that some of these issues do not affect you as much.
ReplyDeleteLet me tell you about a colleague of mine from somewhere in Abia, (bende region). Her husband died very mysteriously making her a young widow still in her early 20s with kids. Before his body was cold his brothers drove this lady out of her husband's house, and reclaimed all the man's properties. Worst of all they drove her back to her family with her kids. Till this very day they have neglected the family. The lady and her kids have no claim to their father's assets. This is the tradition in that part of the country and many others.
What this bill seeks to do is stop such injustice in the name of religion and tradition. It seeks to protect women from domestic violence and discrimination. The fact that some women don't believe in this cause baffles me. Yerima a known husband to an under-aged bride struck the bill down based on Sharia (the same justification for the marriage of under-aged brides by his like) Ali Ndume who made a very disrespectful and sexist joke on the floor of the house on international women's day struck the bill down and encouraged Nigerians to stick with antiquated traditional and religious standards (the same standards that keep women down in our society). Ike Ekweremadu the deputy senate president who supported the bill said what was needed was education not legislation undermined his own support with his comment. It is also important to note that most of those against this bill are from a certain part of the country. We need to become more progressive in this country for the betterment and development of the society.
Hmmm..interesting analysis. Btw I'm one of those who isn't particularly bothered about the stalling of this bill. It however doesn't make me a subservient woman or less enlightened.
DeleteEvery woman can still get her individual right and justice in whatever be her predicament. There are subsisting laws that treat the disservice to any woman. They just wanted a compendium of those rights passed into law. That it didn't work does not invalidate the existing laws.
ReplyDeleteI find this so astonishing..
Keeping tradition aside.
Most of the women bashing the out come of these bill, are the same that go to church every day.
I wonder what they all go to church for.
Oh yeah I know why they go to church..
For miracle to happen in their lives.
I bet they never open a page of that so called bible to read trough.
Your can as well advocate for same sex marriage(relationship).
Truth be told.
It is not in our nature(Black race)to accept hypocritical ideologies such as these.
If you are not happy about the failure of the bill, and you so much want to be like Oyibo, you can relocate to the western world biko.
The only way for Men is MGTOW
Pls there shld be gender equality as soon as possible,bcos am nolonger thinking of marriage,I just wanna have two beautiful kids from one man and give them d best so that my old age will be okay. Or maybe adopt two from the motherless home.
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