An aggrieved housewife, Awele Nwani, 35, has allegedly bathed her husband, Frank Nwani, with hot water, claiming that her hubby denied her sex for three weeks.
The incident happened in Ibusa, Oshimili South Local Government Area of Delta State.The mother of six children, now on the run, also alleged that her husband had been having sexual affairs outside and threatened to make life unbearable for him.
But the victim (husband) dismissed her wife’s claim as untrue, saying his wife had been sleeping around.
He said, “My wife has been sleeping around, hence I stopped sleeping with her for three weeks. It is a taboo in my tribe and she violates the laws.”
Frank stressed that his attempts to stop her illicit affairs outside proved abortive when he took the decision to starve her of sex.
Trouble started last Thursday when the victim returned from a visit to a friend’s house during nightfall and in his usual jokes, called his wife a lazy woman, leaving her in wide anger as she fired back to call the husband a wizard.
Sources said while their quarrel lasted, the woman disguised to have put the quarrel behind her, dashed to the kitchen where she allegedly boiled water and unknown to the husband who was relaxing in the parlour, bathed him with the water and disappeared.
Police officers at the Ibusa Police Division, who did not want their names in the print, confirmed that the woman disappeared with the sum of N200,000 being daily contributions the husband received and kept in her custody.
The police said they were on the trail of the suspect while the victim is said to be receiving treatment in a private hospital.
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With six kids and shes still scrambling for sex like a he-goat?na wah
What!!!
ReplyDeleteWhy is everyone retorting to violence?
Na wa o
Get well soon oga
Loll na her right na. But what the...??? How could she do this? The marriage is simply over. See the baseless fight. Dayummm
DeleteRetort ekwa?
DeleteKikikiki
I no believe the husband. He sleeps around. If the woman was sleeping around, why will she be starved of sex?
DeleteI no pity d man at all. Ntuo ya
BAD ASS BITCH
I no believe the husband. He sleeps around. If the woman was sleeping around, why will she be starved of sex?
DeleteI no pity d man at all. Ntuo ya
BAD ASS BITCH
Were wife
DeleteMiss Aboki, it is resorting.
DeleteDon't thank me
Hit water cause of sex!!!
ReplyDeleteStella forget that stuff,some women,even old can't do without sex
Awele?
Delete*faints*
Don't mind Stella. Sex is the ish mehn. The husband has hoes out there, that's why he was starving his wife. Now he's in pains he could have avoided.
Deletemy hubby na once a month he dey give o. hot water loading.
ReplyDeleteKirikiri loading too.
DeleteLol abeg no try am o, before u spend easter in kirikiri.
DeleteNo try am o lol
DeletePls don't
DeleteOnes a month ke, no man should try that with me o. Even ones a week is not good not to talk of three weeks. But she really didn't have to, oga pele o.
DeleteNa real wa
ReplyDeleteWhom do I believe?
ReplyDeletestella evn with 12 kids if ur sex drive long frm naija to Germany u go stil want d tin, na jt grace to fit control yaself wen d urge cm. but pouring hot water on her hubby bc of sex is a no no
ReplyDeleteSMH!
ReplyDeleteToo many problems in this world.
I am done trying to understand what people really want from life.
And it keeps escalating...
ReplyDeleteFor christ sakes, if its not working out, say you no do again.
He married ashawo. Sorry sir
ReplyDeleteWow!
ReplyDeleteSome people have no soul
How can you do this to your husband cos of sex?
Sex? Smh
Maybe he's broke? Or u've forgotten ur usual narrative???
DeleteDelta again? Na only una waka come?
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahaa
DeleteYes na only Dem.
Delete*side eyes*
DeleteShe couldnt get a dildo or what. Just look at. I understand that body no be firewood but she allowed satan to get a hold of her. Chaiiii.
ReplyDeleteThats pure wickedness naw
The anger must have been building up.
DeleteWicked woman, I pray the law catch up with you soon
ReplyDeleteShe must be a nympho.
ReplyDeleteI just thank God for the kind heart he has given me, My husband has not touch me since beginning of this year, the last time he sex me was 31st of Dec, no evil of harming him ever crossed my mind instead I was planning of divorcing him in the nexr two month, cos I cant be married and still be sleeping aroind, I ve been masturbating anytime congy hold me, just three weeks na wah o
ReplyDeleteChoi
DeleteOga bet why?
Give this woman the D abeg
Madam, i think he's getting it outside oh.
You want to divorce your husband because of sex?? Why not sit him down and talk to him about it. If you have done that and it's not working, then go and touch him. Don't wait for him to start the touching. Meet him naked and started touching every part of his body and telling him you are in the mood and he shouldn't turn you down
DeleteUnless there is another reason for the divorce but if it's because of sex alone It's not worth it abeg.
Well, sex is not a life source. U can live without it omo!
DeleteEyah. But why? There must have been a disconnect and it sure didn't start now. You prolly weren't paying attention to it until it became worse. I won't ask if you've talked to him cos I'm sure you'd have done that. Hmmm.. sometimes men lose their libido. But u have to ascertain he's not getting it outside before u can absolve to that.
DeleteFire on the mountain..
DeleteDon't divorce him oh!...except you don't have kids yet!...
DeleteGet a side bobo and continue with the marriage...
*wipes tears*
DeleteWhat could be his reason?
My own is that I'm not sexually attracted to my man again since I discovered he was cheating. Now he claimed to turn a new leaf but the chemistry is gone. I only forced myself to sleep with him praying that he comes in time.
DeleteGo and touch him this night. Rub his dick on your clitoris. It will rise, then , insert and ride.
DeleteAnony 14:38 what if he has HIV and is trying to protect his wife
DeleteWetin prick and toto matter go cause ehn, lol. Get well soon mr husband, next time don't deny an horny wife of sex.
ReplyDeleteWomen are now leading in DV matters now
ReplyDeleteWho'd fight for this man now
If it's the other way round, ngo's wlda bn making noise upandan.
Mr man Pele o
A mother of 6kids cannot be lazy! That alone is a day job! Best believe.
ReplyDeleteThat said, menn,women are getting more violent by the day. No one should bottle up so much anger and bitterness ooh,now you will go to jail for attempted murder.
Does having kids calms one's sexual urge? she is 35 for God sake not 53.
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't conclud though cos this is a one sided story with both party accusing each other of adultery.
She was wrong by pouring hot water on her husband. That is so unacceptable, in as much as he didn't abuse her physically there was no need going that far.
And it is highly irresponsible of her, abandoning her kids just like that.
Am sure some sugar boy will be somewhere ready to help squander the 200k.
Mr man get well soon.
DeleteHaving kids does not reduce sexual urge Stella, except you mean taking care of them can leave one exhausted but I believe the older ones normally take care of the younger ones which is why the Madam in this story had time to think of sex
What the hell do you mean 6 kids and still scrambling for sex? Is sex only for those with a kid or 2? Mtcheeeew.
ReplyDeleteGigi.
What the hell do you mean 6 kids and still scrambling for sex? Is sex only for those with a kid or 2? Mtcheeeew.
ReplyDeleteGigi.
The way wickedness is flying around this days.. 2016 wl b hot definitely.. One has to be very careful.. wat happend to masturbation or getting a dildo if the thg is scratching her too much.. after human beings fear devil nt the other way round..
ReplyDeleteShe should get a dildo or masturbate when she is married?...hear your self!,,
DeleteIsn't better than having a sugar son? Hear yourself.
DeleteTessbaby, you should hear yourself. You think she has a sugar son? Then you're quite gullible to believe the man's story. If she was cheating, then she wouldn't have been sex-starved enough to go to that extent of voilence. What she did was very bad (pouring hot water on her hubby) but there's definitely more to the story and the man is definitely lying too. He his attempts to stop her illicit affairs proved abortive, since she wouldn't stop sleeping around, he decided to starve her of sex. Hello? Does someone who goes to different peoples' houses to eat food still come home starving and famished? The man is definitely making stuff up there and so it begs the question. What exactly is he hiding or covering up? This whole thing might not even be about sex at all or it could be partly about sex and also about other things........ Just Me
DeleteStella what has having kids got to do with someone having an affair? And why have you believed the man's story so quickly?
ReplyDeleteLets first establish the fact that the woman hasn't told her own story yet. Besides the real facts as to what transpired is only known to husband and wife.
ReplyDeleteI also would really like to know what sort of joke or form of endearment is referring to your significant other as a "lazy woman" and "wizard"?
I want to believe they are christians but typical of most of us (Christians) we conveniently ignore and choose whichever suits us and our circumstance. This is in relation to the provisions of the bible regulating how a husband should treat a wife and vice versa which I believe includes sex.
I assume that both of them being from the same place means they are aware of the what they must do and rites which must be observed in any matter that relates to the commission of adultery. So if this is true and they are both aware, I believe issues like is to brought before the family to be trashed out.
I am of the opinion that the man hasn't said the truth and the allegation of commission of adultery leveled on his wifeat this point is very convenient. Man and wife has been in an abusive relationship /marriage for years but this very act is the icing on the cake.
Can't you see where they said the woman also said the man was committing adultery hence the reason why he wasn't sleeping with her
DeleteThe man only came out to defend himself and removed the allegation charges from his head and leveled it on the wife
They might both be committing adultery.
She had no right to pour him hot water.
If it was a man that poured a woman hot water we wouldn't be looking for excuses for the woman or man
As na man be the victim now, all ur grammatical prowess don dey show in their full might! Weldone o!
Delete*Ghanaman signing out*
How can somebody who's regularly getting sex outside now come and injure you because you refused her sex? Make una think am now? The man don dey lie, make he talk true true. Pouring hot water on somebody is still bad tho
DeleteDeltans kwenu!kwezuonu
ReplyDeleteOh shut up
DeleteEwu gambia
Thanks
DeleteStella, even though he starves her is that why she should bathe him with hot water. Common that's too much.
ReplyDeleteI wonder o
DeleteSome women are something else....
ReplyDeleteThe 'WAHALA' of PENIS.
ReplyDeleteDomestic violence is becoming too rampant in our society. Na wah
ReplyDeleteAm waiting for queen's comment.
ReplyDeleteI can't shout
We all are...keenly!
DeleteI'm sure her narrative will be the man is broke...as usual! E no fit pass like dat!
*Ghanaman signing out*
That woman is a witch. That's what you get when you marry a retired prostitute.
ReplyDeleteMtcheew evil she goat on heat. After six children she never tire
ReplyDeleteIt is well oh.
ReplyDelete#Somebody must to love me tonyt!!!
Uuuhhhnnnnn !
ReplyDeleteIfe high libido na acause. Nwoke dibe oh.
ReplyDeleteDibe gini??
DeleteWe wouldn't say same if reverse was the case
Biko the woman should be caught and charged to court for attempted murder, causing harm on another and any other allegations they can find.
That's what happens when they turn Sex into food.
ReplyDeleteThe woman no try at all. She should just have intensified her outside runz.
Agarachas.
This is strange, after six children she's still running after dick she needs deliverance.
ReplyDeleteMy darling Linda Eze, is this uuuuu????? E no pass ur handi work o, na wetin u fit do if prick too hungry u & bros no gree drop! Biko nwayo nwayo o, oo!
ReplyDeleteHahahahaaaaa...you wicked walahi..
DeleteStella, no dey talk dt tin joor. Don't u knw d body get use to it when one is married tho waht she did is terrible.
ReplyDeleteHonestly how do married women stick with one man sexually without loosing intereat
DeleteQuite sad.
ReplyDeleteOh dear! Sex is good for this woman
ReplyDeleteAbeg leave children matter.
ReplyDeleteFuck dey sweet die forget.
But who person go believe? Husband say na wife gbensh outside, wife say na husband. Choi. Amu ge gbu madu o.
Stella, what do u mean? Is she not a woman?
ReplyDeleteAwele, you are finished. Frank will deal with u. Better run o
Thumb up to the woman!...
ReplyDeleteI don't know why she didn't stab him to death and claim it's self defence!...
Serves the useless man right!...
Ha!Linda, stab him to death coz of what? It would've been better if you had suggested the usual sugar sons thingy.
DeleteLinda you are so evil I swear Kai.
DeleteHahahahahahaha
DeleteLol. Because of sex?
DeleteHahahahahaha
Please calm down. It's not that serious.
How many men u don stab to death?
DeleteJust dey run mouth like tap for this blog
Ode!
Because of the need to sound controversial, you keep writing silly comments.
DeleteStab him to death over what?
You are incorrigible.
I tok am!
DeleteShe should have tried to tame her anger and not injure the man. Actually sex is "that" serious, because when one is sex starved and is being neglected and ignored, it can badly affect one's sense of self and even one's psyche, especially if the neglect is from someone who is highly loved, esteemed or respected and attractive. If said person is a spouse, partner, or lover, his or her neglect would be very hurtful, especially if said person is seen giving love or sex to someone else and can elicit thoughts of revenge, which can later be carried out if care is not taken.
DeleteSome women can be hot in sex aspect. But she went too far. Na ur ppl na Stella.
ReplyDeleteThe woman is highly irresponsible. A she goat.
ReplyDeleteSome women wicked sha, after six children instead of her to look for a way she will take care of her children. Mtscheew
ReplyDeleteHmmm...
ReplyDeleteNa wah....
That was too hash of her mehn.How can she do that??Even if the man denied her sex,will this solve the problem?Madam you no try at all.
ReplyDeleteThe mother of six?on the run?alleged that he's been having sexual affairs? if she's on the run,how did she allege?who she allege/confide in?...I hate anything news these days.....!!
ReplyDeleteMadam Stella, learn to write the story and keep your opinion on it. You contradict what you claim to stand for sometimes. Is it a shame for women to have grate sexual urge after 6kids. Am not saying what she did is right but I think you need to find better angles to some responses. Many people may admire your opinions that's why you have to be careful.
ReplyDeleteWomen are now taking over the game. Gone are those days when men were prime dv suspects.
ReplyDeleteWomen are not smiling these days.
DeleteShe is a she-goat,very stupid thing.
ReplyDeleteNaaawaaoo!!! What can easily be resolved quietly, but nooooo the woman was quick to anger and poured hot water on him! Naaawaaoo! Quick recovery to the victim. Say no to Domestic Violence in any form.
ReplyDeleteOnly three weeks and she's dieing. It confirms the husband's claim of her flirting
ReplyDeleteNa wa o!
ReplyDeleteShe would've just divorced him and move to someone who can satisfy her sexual urge.
Look at da way she destroyed dis man's body.
She needs a good lecture from some sdk wives that have been starved for 9 months.
DeleteStella,na rilli wa o.tomorrow dem go dey find govt way go help dem train pikin
ReplyDeleteThat's what you get when you marry an Ashana
ReplyDeleteWhat's this??? that woman needs serious prayers. Wonders shall never ceaseth . If you marry or no marry,Wahala. If you born or no born, Wahala. Sex or no sex nko.., all na Wahala. abegi na to stay OYO better naa
ReplyDeleteStupid woman! Just 3 weeks? She should come and shake me that had sex with my hubby since October last year when he travelled out of the country, yet am still faithful to him. God is my witness. No be moi-moi sha....lol. Mine is just 2kids. God is my strength.
ReplyDelete*e-handshake*
DeleteSo not cool!
ReplyDeleteMy namesake from same town too. Godforbid. Awele why nah. Too bad.
ReplyDeleteAwy!!!!!! How far?
DeleteYour waist, your waist all I want is your waist! She had plans to leave already ojare. May she meet a man that will so tear her punani before she is caught. Nonsense
ReplyDeleteThe defenders of women rights in the house...Make una come justify her actions. We dey wait!
ReplyDeleteIf the victim was reversed, 421 comments with 418 of those swearing for the man & his ancestors & how the male species is the worst thing God created!
We still dey wait!
*Ghanaman signing out*
Lets first establish the fact that the woman hasn't told her own story yet. Besides the real facts as to what transpired is only known to husband and wife.
ReplyDeleteI also would really like to know what sort of joke or form of endearment is referring to your significant other as a "lazy woman" and "wizard"?
I want to believe they are christians but typical of most of us (Christians) we conveniently ignore and choose whichever suits us and our circumstance. This is in relation to the provisions of the bible regulating how a husband should treat a wife and vice versa which I believe includes sex.
I assume that both of them being from the same place means they are aware of the what they must do and rites which must be observed in any matter that relates to the commission of adultery. So if this is true and they are both aware, I believe issues like is to brought before the family to be trashed out.
I am of the opinion that the man hasn't said the truth and the allegation of commission of adultery leveled on his wifeat this point is very convenient. Man and wife has been in an abusive relationship /marriage for years but this very act is the icing on the cake.
This woman is simply wicked and heartless.
ReplyDeleteHusband and wife accusing each other of adultery, no more fear of God.
End time nympho
ReplyDeleteHmnnn
ReplyDeleteDH came home last night with lipstick smeared over his lips down to his jaw. I was too shocked. His defends was that he ate biscuit while driving home. Biko what kind of biscuit has red toppings? He is going about as if nothing happened but I swear I am losing my mind. what do i do to this man?
ReplyDeleteDH came home last night with lipstick smeared over his lips down to his jaw. I was too shocked. His defends was that he ate biscuit while driving home. Biko what kind of biscuit has red toppings? He is going about as if nothing happened but I swear I am losing my mind. what do i do to this man?
ReplyDeleteLmao at he ate biscuit!...
DeleteHahahahaha...this lie can wake up the dead!...
Lwkmd...
Your husband is funny!..chai
You better start snooping so you can catch him red handed...
Hahaha
DeleteAbeg just pretend to accept his lie .
DeleteHuman(female)biscuit with red (lipstic) topping. Men sha!
DeleteLies men tell. Stella needs to make a post on the 'baddest lie you've ever been told'...lmao
DeleteMaybe me I overdid it already becos with just 1kid my interest for sex has already reduced. I can't even remember when last I had sex with hubby it must be more than 3wks.
ReplyDeleteDear Ghanaian,
ReplyDeleteYou write so well.
You gave me a different perspective to d aluu 4.
I feel ur right
Lol.... my dear forget it dem say no be wen pikin pour oil for ground dem dey pay na wen e pour water.... talk about it and forget it.. of cos u weren't expecting you to say yes to Ur point.. is normal and shows respect.. just be counting it still d day e go do the one wen proof dey den u show him the kind of stuff u are made off... just a little lesson next time even if he does it.. him no go leave half clue say something like that happen...
ReplyDeleteThat woman cant pour him hot oil over sex ,something happened ,a woman he claims she is been sleeping around will be sex starved ,no no there is more to the story .
ReplyDeleteThe Ghanaian,
ReplyDeleteYou write so well.
The analysis on the Aluu 4 was an eye opener. When that incident happened, i felt horrible anytime i remember for weeks. I always them my children to say away from cult issues, but when i read the eye opener yesterday to another angles of the story, it made me weak.
Must there be cultism?
Does it start from our parents being "cultist"
After school, most of the gra gra cult boys no dey get anything to show for their committment to the creed.
There's always three side to a story.
When it comes to sex, don't be too quick to condemn a lady who allegedly has a high libido and craves sex from her hubby. Unfortunately, some women never got to experience the pleasures of sex either because of the strict upbringing which now makes them link sex to a shameful or dirty act, only to be enjoyed by the men and endured by women or some women had a very nasty 1st time experience with sex which left them psychologically and emotionally scarred.
ReplyDeleteIf you have a healthy sex life with your hubby and both of you are still sexually attracted to each other, having 8 children shouldn't be a reason to keep sexual intimacy at bay. The reason most women don't seem to care about sex with their hubbies is the way their hubbies make them feel. Some men cheat blatantly, refuse to provide for their wives and kids, they don't even make their wives feel sexy or attractive. So the women channel their affection to their children but that doesn't mean they aren't sexually frustrated, with time some women learn to turn off all sexual urges and they become cynical and aggressive, which is unhealthy too.
If you're lucky to be married to a man who still treats you like his queen and makes sure you lack nothing, unless there's a physiological or psychological or spiritual problem, you'll still want sex at 65 years. If your hubby has sex with you only once a month, that's not healthy. Just because you've learnt to channel your frustration to other venues doesn't give you the right to shame a 35 year old mother of 6, for wanting regular sex with her hubby. God created sex to keep the bond between man and wife intimate and fresh till age, disease or death do them part. Please don't paint women like us who love sex with their hubbies, as bad or "hoes". As long as our hubbies are the happy recipients of our "whore-ism", I don't see why it should be a problem.
I'm a proud mama of 2 adorable angels, will turn 38 years in a couple of months, been married to my heartbeat for 14 years (2016) and happy to have a healthy sex life with my man. It's so exciting because we keep trying to out-do each other with fun and exciting surprises to keep things hot and spicy in the boudoir. Sex/love making seems to get better as we get older in each others arms. So please, you can be married with kids and still "swing from the chandeliers" if you so desire.
You think your husband enjoys the same food for the past 14yrs, I don't think so.
DeleteRonalda is back! You are right dear. And I am glad you are one of the few women enjoying their husbands.
DeleteExperiencing the thing in my marriage, but what I did is to pour all my energy on my 3kids,exercise, my craft and church programs. I no send Hubby. It's now all about ME,I will not destroy my destiny because of one species call MAN.
ReplyDeleteSo after all your activities you don't get horny?
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