No,not that every man cheats....It is better to say most men cheat!
Your mind must be so messed up that you believe this Amber Rose meme!
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Monday, March 21, 2016
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Not every man cheats please.
ReplyDeleteNot every man cheats!
DeleteI can testify to that..
I hate generalisation. Its just like sayin Every woman is lazy. Which is just plain ridiculous
DeleteBvs pls help me I think my husband has picked up an infection from God knows where because he will never admit to having stepped out, I am team snoop and most times i find calls that came into his phone at odd hours during times when he is away from home but when he is home he is open with his password and everything so Its either they know he is married or its flings. One time I found a number on his log he forgot to wipe because he does selective wiping which raised my suspicion, i used true caller to check the name and it belonged to one tacky looking chick but he saved the name differently from what truecaller popped up. Two days later that number only had been wiped from his call log, others still untouched.
DeleteMy problem is for about 3 months now I noticed that whenever we have unprotected sex(we have one child and condom is our mode of family planning for now) next mrng I have a patch on the tip of my tongue like a burn or something. I became attentive and noticed it and the appearance always coincides with whenever we have sex without protection. It dissapears after two days on its own.
I have been suspicious of his moves in the past because when my baby was six months old he suddenly became distant and always hanging on his phone and chatting and I snooped and called back one number on his log and a chick answered, he claimed she was his friends galfriend but she was calling at odd hours and that didnt sound right. I complained he peddaled down and then everything returned to normal. But through it alL he is always loving and attentive and would never agree to cheating. Which I dont believe because of the instincts I have atimes.
Please has anyone ever gone through something like this before, how did you treat it? Bvs should I confront him or not becuase I am just confused. I went for a swap test and results said I am clean but the tongue patch keeps coming after sex with him. Please help me o
I concur
DeleteUntil they have a clean opportunity to cheat every man cheats or fantasises about shagging other women apart from their main chick. Staying loyal to one woman forever in the name of marriage without the urge to tumble beneath the sheets with another is impractical. But this truth women never wants to hear or accept.
DeleteNot every man cheats!!!!!
DeleteAnonymous 13:36,
DeleteGo and see a gynecologist to confirm if you are free or not...
My mind is telling me that your husband is cheating...
Biko my baby don't cheat, can vouch for him wherever, whenever
DeleteAnon u have a viral infection but ur immune system is fighting it. Btw, ur hubby cheats wt diff girls.
DeleteIt's not about the truth women don't want to accept, I have heard men actually say that of a truth not all men cheat. That all men cheat is a lie that men tell themselves.
DeleteIdiotic statement my mind is telling me he is Cheating. Your dumb mind! Check your own man you BITCH
Delete@London playboy, then it should be all humans cheat because if everyone is given an opportunity to be with he one they fantasize about everyone will take it.
DeleteI would if there was no God, then I would lie (sin) to my husband I did not and I will not feel bad because there is no God and I am not accountable to anyone but since there is God, I have to put myself in check and make sure I am never alone with another man esp one I find sexy so that I do not fall in to temptation.
See a gynea fast and stop blowing him
DeleteAnon 13.36, your husband is cheating. Yes your instincts are right. Protect your health till you are sure that you are std free. Go see a doctor.
DeleteVery true. I concur
ReplyDeleteNot all men pls. Will u say Dr DK Olukoya of MFM or Redeem Pastor Adeboye cheat. Are dey not among men. Just say d men dat comes around u cheat but not all men. Cheat attract chect
Delete*Cheat attract cheat*
DeleteCheat attracts cheat? I totally disagree
DeleteNa all those pastors they cheat pass...
DeletePastors are the baddest cheat o😂
DeleteAgain illiterate statement! What is wrong with this mumu that calls herself Queen
DeleteI beat my chest for my pastor he doesn't cheat, even when he lost his wife and waited few years before he remarry he didn't mess up
DeleteThis "truth" is not fair to all men.Some women and their messed up mentality.
DeleteLinda come collect kiss nnem
DeleteTweet berry you are just too naive,vouching for a man at your own peril
DeletePastors are the worst my dear,stop living in ignorance berry
DeleteAmber bitter truth . Some people b deceiving themselves since 1970
ReplyDeleteThis "truth" is very false and I am very confident about that. My reasons she did not consider the sexually incapable men, the monks, God fearing men, happily married, those that have vowed never to cheat.....
DeleteBased on this, you have refused to convince me all men cheat.
Is it me or does this lady look like Tyler Perry's Madia
ReplyDeleteLol.
DeleteIts u
DeleteChoi
DeleteThat was how i snooped on my hubby and found him chatting to several girls. One was actually telling him how she misses him so much she wanted to tear apart.lmao. He claimed it just harmless flirting and the girl was the one toasting him, disturbing him. I gave him the riot act. It's been 4 months now, i don't think he has recovered...it cost him thousands of dollars. He has locked him phone now...waiting for another opportunity to snoop. This time it will cost him more and he will not see his children again. That is the price you pay for ur wandering dick!
DeleteHmm kinda true tho
ReplyDeleteMy baby is incredibly faithful 10/10
DeleteGod I thank you for giving him to me
Sorry for the gods
DeleteStory
DeleteTell me that your baby's name and I will show you who he is fucking,mumu girl
DeleteNot Everyman biko...
ReplyDeleteMy husband does not cheat!...
Same here mami.
DeleteThey will soon start crying under dis comment!
They should keep dating yuppy yuppy guys.
Just tap n move on.
God bless the day I stumbled on ds blog.
No he doesn't, i believe you. Cos the stench from his mouth would drive any sane girl away.
DeleteYet you cheats on him? You area morally dead.Queen and Boss of hell fire.
DeleteStay there and be deceiving yourself
DeleteTell them!
DeleteSome people will come under here and start telling you to 'keep deceiving yourself' The fact that you have a cheating husband doesn't mean everyone else does.
PS: I don't like you very much.
I know say people like u no even get toaster, not to talk of boyfriend or husband....
DeleteEvery small thing, my this, my that....
Tufiakwa
I pity u....
DeleteYa right! Like e will come back and tell u.
DeleteGbam
DeleteLiar
DeleteYou wish... Be deceiving yourself inugo
DeleteYimu..... Even my wife thinks am the most devoted man on earth..... She will swear my husband don't cheat, he's 100% faithful.
DeleteHer BFF is fu*king me steady. Yeah all men don't cheat. I don't.
Be deceiving yourself, just say the beautiful girls are running from him cos of his mouth odour
DeleteHahaha....If I hear. Truth is 99% of men cheat those who don't just haven't seen the perfect opportunity or atmosphere or they are too good at hiding it.
DeleteHahahahahaha at Anon 13:53...
DeleteYour cup will soon full!...
How can you be so stupid to be fucking your wife's friend?...
Continue!...
I'm sure your wife cheat with a sexy friend of yours...
@anon 13:53,you are an asshole,out of everyone its ur wife's best friend?heartless mofo...as for the girl karma is awaiting
Delete@ queen, u know what someone that's fucking will spill out one day
DeleteJust keep reading SDKB
Hmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteWomen cheat more than men these days .. Especially married women
ReplyDeleteI cheat o!
DeleteI am telling you... Men we really need to watch out. Married woman no longer wear their all mighty wedding rings.. If you see any lady with a wedding band, know that she is a very new bride. She yet to be initiated by her fellow women.
DeleteSam X,
DeleteI cheat with my wedding band on!...
Really??? With this confirmation I am losing my mind... So its true... Choi married women ooooo... @QueenandBoss
DeleteHahaha.
DeleteLinda ooooooo.
No spoil me o
Lol @ Sam X you might just be saying the truth
DeleteNot everyman cheats.
ReplyDeleteHmmm, let me ponder on this for a while.
ReplyDeleteDamn! This pic of Amber is all shades of ugly! As for the meme, what do you expect from a stripper? All men that come to her are chests to begin with. That's the only category of men she knows. Please don't blame her.
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteExactly. Birds of the same feather flock together.
DeleteNo comment can be better than this on this issue
DeleteAfi chests La brezz
DeleteCheats* not chests.
Delete@Anon you are crazy o 😂😂😂
I totally agree with her. All men cheat. All. But if he loves and respects you, he will hide it so well, you will never find out
ReplyDeleteWise girl,leave all these other mumu girls
DeleteTrue!
DeleteStupid comment!
DeleteU must really be dating or married to a small boy without self control.
I know it's difficult to believe or comprehend but no, all men don't cheat.
Am married and mine doesn't cheat! And yes, am a 101% sure!
Before u think am lying or pretending ask urself why I shud? Not like u know me or am commenting with my id.
So u all shud stop this nonsense of all men cheat it's an insult to men like my husband that have vowed to stay true to their wives.
The fact U've met some bad egg doesn't mean they are all same.
Shout out to the lucky ladies who are hooked to sensible guys that know how to keep their dicks in check. And oh! He's dick is massive! #AbegINeedToGetLaid..I've become horny, make I call oga biko. #Winks
Shout out bae
DeleteHehehehhehehehehehhehehehehehhehehehehehehehehehheheheheh
@anon 13:59...U re greatest fool of d century... Im sure ur husband will be laughing reading ur comment.. Men re cursed... They must cheat
DeleteShout out to all team faithfuls
DeleteI keep hearing this "all men cheat" thing esp. on this blog. I do not believe this but constantly hearing it made me to start believing.
DeleteI carried this mentality in to my marriage and it kind of messed me up because my hubby has never shown this side but of course the people singing this messed up my mind and I started having trust issues.
One day my hubby called me and asked "are you cheating on me", I said "never, why would I". He then told me I was always doubting him being faithful and people who behave like that are the ones with skeletons in their closet. That was the day I stopped believing the lie that all men.. because I was beginning to have serious trust issues.
It is the height of foolishness to say ALL men cheat. Real foolishness.
DeleteI don't cheat and the reason I will never cheat on my wife of over 10years is not just because of love or respect for her but because I fear God in that regard. I have built a mindset that sees infidelity as a spiritual stain that I should rather avoid.
I know many friends who will rather die than cheat on their wives just out of a God-minded consciousness. People who are trying their best to follow Godly principles. So where does all these fake statistics come from?
I realized early enough in life that sleeping with multiple women creates a dissatisfaction in a man's sex life with his wife. You must always compare and want more. For me, I have enough to worry about and would not want to add hiding password, looking for the next kpekus, secret phone calls, double life, scattered finances, bastards etc.
A man's life is simpler without cheating as long as you and your wife are trying to satisfy each other in the bedroom.
Please some men still believe that God says we should enjoy sex with our wives only.
Not all men cheat. I think it has to do with the man involved and the environment he finds himself. I'll give an instance with my husband (he does not cheat), he grew up in the US and has not really lived in nigeria most of his life, in summary he has a different approach to life. My husband is highly God fearing and does not look at other women, the urge does not even arise talkless of him attempting. He even says it all the time, that were he works, no one looks better than his wife, so what else is he looking for? The reason why Nigerian men who grew up and live in nigeria are mostly cheats is because everything around them symbolizes the fact that they are entitled to cheat. They have friends that cheat and that advice them to do same, my husband does not even have friends talkless of having bad friends (another good thing about him) and secondly most women in nigeria are money hungry and don't respect boundaries. So yea it really depends on the environment and situation one finds themselves. One of the reasons why I left all the suitors that were asking for my hand in marriage in nigeria and married my husband, he's a different kind of man. Peace of mind should be number one priority for every woman out there.
DeleteBitter pill to swallow, but I still believe their are some hard core faithful men out there.
ReplyDelete*there
DeleteThere's there, their, and they're.
DeleteAmber is right. In her own. Way. But, not. All men cheat. I don't know about this our generation. Though, where if u no. Want, them hoes will make u want by force. What a. Man. To. Do?
ReplyDeleteAmber is right. In her own. Way. But, not. All men cheat. I don't know about this our generation. Though, where if u no. Want, them hoes will make u want by force. What a. Man. To. Do?
ReplyDeleteNot every man but most men cheat and cover up with fake love.
ReplyDeleteTotally disagree with the meme!
ReplyDeleteUntil I find out den I can believe... Becos believing is seeing for me
ReplyDeleteMy mind ain't messed up Stella.cheating is not by sending love mags,having sex or chatting or sending nudes ONLY.as long as u r a man,u WL HV looked at a woman one time or d oda in a sexual way,fantasize or imagine time in ur mind once in a while.that is cheating!!!
ReplyDeleteas long as u r a man,u WL HV looked at a woman one time or d oda in a sexual way,fantasize or imagine time in ur mind once in a while.that is cheating!!!"
DeleteThis statement above is true but it should then be remodified to all humans cheat
Yea most men do but definitely not all
ReplyDeleteI believe love matters a lot but a man first has to convince himself that nothing will make him cheat for him not to cheat. I am a guy and started dating late at 25years of age and I kinda got carried away because I always had at least 5ladies as gfs and lovers at any given point in time and I used to kiss and tell. When I met my wife during NYSC in zamfara I knew she was the one and though another girl was after me seriously. I knuckled down and became faithful, as a matter of fact, since I met her till date I don't even spare other women a second glance. We have been together almost 4years...married for about 3years out of those and expecting our second kid and I can still say I have never cheated on her. I love my wife to the moon and back
ReplyDeleteThank God for your life
DeleteGuy, thank u very much... I am a man too...
DeleteI have been married for six years and up till now I have never looked at another lustfully not to talk of seeing her pants or cheat in whatever form...
I see my pretty wife everyday and each time I am returning from work, getting to the house and seeing my wife, is like my body is shaking like am meeting her for the first time...
I dated a girl for three years and I never cheated, e family said we couldn't marry cos of tribe and that was that, before meeting my wife. By all standards I am a rich man, but I have never cheated.
I go to club, I go wit my wife. Sometimes I ask her to take time off from work to follow to business meetings where I spend days in hotel. Sometimes wey r outside Nigeria and whenever she couldn't make it, I stay with friends who r married through out d durstion of the meeting/conference.
So make Amber Rose, chill.
My dear come back when u are mid forties to fifties to say this same thing,for now take a chill pill
DeleteAnd how old are you?
DeleteMay God bless u
DeleteI suspect you're poor! Come back and repeat this statement when you have arrived.
DeleteStory
DeleteRight inside the epistle, you still accepted that you are amongst men that cheat.
DeleteAbi when you had 5 girlfriends, what were you doing?
All men cheat, US the same as "All have sinned and come short of the glory of God", it doesn't mean there are no Born-Again Christians.
God bless u.
DeleteI had this 'every man cheats mentality'. I even carried it into my marriage. I expect him to cheat and he keeps disappointing me. Slowly I am realising that I married one of the few good ones. I'm even the bad person in the r/ship.
Thank you jesus
I am happy for you ma'am..looking forward to spend the rest of my life with that kind of man while I am becoming one everyday..
DeleteMisery really loves companion.
DeleteThese men have come out to say they have never cheated on their wives but No, you guys don't want to hear that.They should come back when they are 100 so you will believe them.
Believe it or not,men are randy, a large percentage cheat but definitely there will be that 1% that do not cheat.
Good one! You remind me of my husband.
DeleteNot every man cheat. The meme is wrong
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Sexiest idikwa sure? Cheating doesn't necessarily mean sleeping with another woman in my own context of "every man cheats" when a man you respect a lot disrespect you, that's Cheating.
DeleteOlori lolz hahahaha abio. I agree with that ur context lolz. Kikiki
DeleteCheating has levels sha,but still all cheating is cheating
DeleteYes every man cheats. At some point in their life they have cheated.
ReplyDeleteNot all men cheat
ReplyDeleteHer opinion, for her own men.
ReplyDeleteNot mine.
#WhiteDiamondOut
She's right. As a young man i know there is a lot of temptation. But a man who has no respect for his wife won't bother to be discreet.
ReplyDeleteLook at it this way; a man who loves or at least respects his wife will make sure he doesn't embarrass her by his actions. He knows her finding out would shame her even though the shame should really be on the guy so he'll take extra steps to make sure that doesn't happen. What you don't know wont kill you.
Correct prof
DeleteLol
ReplyDeletePlease Kindly visit my blog Www.onenairaadvice.blogspot.com
Muva is right
ReplyDeleteMost men cheat but claim not to until they're caught.
Still watching my man like watch woman
Shit is going to get real when I catch him red-handed.
VERY WRONG AMBER. Not every man cheats. Because they cheated on you does not qualify that every man on the street cheats.
ReplyDeletePlease Kindly visit my blog Www.onenairaadvice.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteMeme right or wrong, my DH doesn't cheat!
ReplyDeleteThis is an insult to the very few that don't cheat.
ReplyDeleteWhy should she be expected to make any sense by the way?
I don't know what to believe.
ReplyDeleteKindly believe that not all men cheat, please. God can lead a woman who yearns for Him to man who fears Him enough not to cheat on her.
DeleteLove is not enough
ReplyDeleteSo True!
ReplyDeleteNot every man cheats until they are caught.
ReplyDeleteIf you're not married yet, I pray you find one of the remaining 2%
ReplyDeleteYour belief in this kind of thing (may) show(s) the kind of family you grew up in. Because I would assume that ALL men includes one's father too right?
ReplyDeleteI cannot attest to my boyfriends and their whereabouts when I am not there but I can boldly say my father has never cheated.
That's why one has to pray for a man who TRULY fears God. A man who fears God will NOT cheat. Joseph during the Portiphar's wife encounter did not say "why will I do this against my master?" He said why will he do this and sin against God. God and his fear is all a man needs to be faithful.
That being said, le boo is not cheating (the way he fears God scares me sometimes sef)
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DeleteGod bless you, Bipolar. Please help tell the nay-saying ladies that there are men who don't cheat.
DeleteThe fear of God is the strongest antidote to the cheating nature in a man. Other deterrent may be poverty, illness or lack of opportunity or 'courage?'
Upbringing too helps. My father was not a cheat and he tore our eardrums with sermons against womanizing.
Its an insult to say ALL MEN CHEAT. I feel somehow when some ladies say that rubbish because the idea of cheating is actually repulsive to some men.
Its like saying ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES. That's definitely not true.
He fears god But fucks u ryt? Mtchew!
DeleteAll men cheat,show me a man who doesn't cheat and I will show you a liar and a pretender
ReplyDelete...but you know with this your statement you can push the weak minded faithful ones in to cheating because they think oh we are not appreciated for this because they thing we are liars. Pls STOP this all men cheat thing, it is not fair to the faithful ones and it motivates the unfaithful ones to continue being dogs
DeleteI dont cheat.
DeleteNot all men.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe all men cheat but I believe in getting what u believe in, so if u believe that all men cheat, God will give u a man from the cheating specie.
ReplyDeleteWomen have taken over o! Lol
ReplyDeleteHide their shit so well u would swear to God.
My husband does not cheat but I can never use it to swear because I know he is human and we both can fall in to temptation.
DeleteSpot on Amber..
ReplyDeleteEvery man will likely cheat,depends on d stage u are in life as per age wise and financial status, nobody should beat chest for anybody
ReplyDeleteI am happy you said anybody, anybody can be a man or woman because it is not fair to alway rope men in while women continue cheating in secret
DeleteAll men are cheat but ALL women fantasize about being Fucked by other men or some random guys......
ReplyDeleteThen that makes everyone a cheat doesn't it
DeleteI think men should come out and speak or perhaps write for themselves. As for me me if you believe this then their is no way in hell any man you meet won't cheat on you. Always be careful with what you wish for.
ReplyDeleteNot all men cheat,but maybe d once. She av met cheated. That's her experience.
ReplyDeleteAmber is right,men are polygamous by nature,they are moved by what they see and love has nothing to do with lustful desires of men,women often confuse the two.A man can love you and still cheat on you all day everyday,but he will try to be discreet about his escapades and respect you as much as possible.The reasoning being that as long as he comes home to you,then thats all that matters.I am a married man and it's time women become educated about these facts,I also notice married women are catching up on this cheating norm lately.two can now play the game
ReplyDeleteWell Mr married man stop justifying rubbish with polygamy,do you know how much it hurts to know your partner cheats? The only way I have learnt to ease the hurt is when I cheat back and I do not feel bad at all because I know he is likely doing the same thing and in his mind, I am his quiet little angel who is always in church... haha.
DeleteBy the way if your partner loves church so much be careful there are so many sexy men there. Father God help us all.
Well Mr married man stop justifying rubbish with polygamy,do you know how much it hurts to know your partner cheats? The only way I have learnt to ease the hurt is when I cheat back and I do not feel bad at all because I know he is likely doing the same thing and in his mind, I am his quiet little angel who is always in church... haha.
DeleteBy the way if your partner loves church so much be careful there are so many sexy men there. Father God help us all.
Maybe sha, eye Don see plenty.
ReplyDeleteShe's so right..
ReplyDeleteOne way or the other men cheat.cheating is not just sex but chatting and saying sweet things to another woman.
ReplyDeleteIf u are a man and u are not yet 45/50 years pls keep mute,if u are a woman pls don't even begin to swear cos u will just die for nothing.
ReplyDeleteHmm, pray tell why that age bracket because I just got married hubby is in his late forties, does that mean a newly wedded man that took so long to married is not yet tired
DeleteIt is only what you know that will hurt you..she has a point there
ReplyDelete98 percent of men cheat
ReplyDeleteA man must cheat. The earlier women accept this the better for us all. You can't expect a man to stay loyal to one woman when there are just too many succulent babes out there to explore. That's just selfishness and wickedness for a woman to rope a man down to her alone. On a personal note, it's impossible to stick to one woman, I only do till an opportunity to lash another comes up. That's how it should be. Anything otherwise is unnatural and unacceptable.
ReplyDeleteWow!
DeleteShut up Mr London playboy, I pray you end up with a woman who will always cheat so that you will know how it hurts.
DeleteI used to think all men cheat. Till I met my bf and that thought left me. I started to believe that not all men cheat till he told me he cheated. I just have mixed feelings about this phrase.
ReplyDeleteTruth of the matter is that even the few who don't cheat can sometimes unknowingly fall in an unguarded moment and they will feel bad about it. Your friend may have capitulated under serious sexual tension.
DeleteNot cheating means you have to constantly guard your senses against the many internal and external stimuli that would make the average man fall. It is natural to cheat. Faithfulness is supernatural. It is a resolve born out of sound principles and a fear of God.
Not all men cheat but for a woman to draw that conclusion,then you know she really must be messed up!
ReplyDeleteEven if it's one out of a billion, I believe there are still some faithful men out there!
Men have been cheating since adam and eve but these days the women are doing more of the cheating both emotionally and otherwise.men don't be fooled when your so called faithful house wife cling to her phone and always on fb,whatsapp,imo,etc.a lot of things are going on behind your back.Married Women are becoming more exposed to affairs these days.
ReplyDeleteNot all men cheat biko. My hubby have not cheated on me beside we been married for 9yrs.
ReplyDeleteDepends on wot or with whom. It is moni or attitude or shit like dat den I concur but with chicks but side, left n ryt den I disagree with dat
ReplyDeleteA man with the fear of God will never cheat
ReplyDeleteForget the fear of God. I noticed its those with the fear of God that cheats more. Because they know the grace they have.
DeleteNwa Amaka..You will fear God and abound in sin because there is grace?!
DeleteYou need to reconstruct your understanding of the "fear of God" and "grace" dear.
You fear God and cheat more?!!that sounds so wrong on all sides.
@Nwa Amaka Fear of God is different from man of God.I fear the wrath of God too much to cheat and I have not been to church in a while
DeleteMiss ESS is right. We are talking about real fear of God frim the heart, not the one you just preach about to sound godly - The Joseph versus Portiphar's wife kind of fear of God.
DeleteFear of God means you just respect Him enough in that regard and decide not to indulge your cravings.
As for me, Its only the fear of God that can stop from cheating on my wife, not just love or respect for. And if a man TRULY fears God, his actions will tend to portray him as a loving husband most times.
Not all men, hubby doesn't cheat
ReplyDeleteEve if hubby does not cheat do not say it to people outside esp bitter women with cheating spouses. They will make you believe he does
DeleteEvery man does at a point in their life, I have known my husby for 7years, married for 5year, initially, I snoop a lot but I always find nothing, so I stopped, let's say in 6 year out of the 7 I have not snooped just yesterday, I went to my inlaws birthday with the kids, got home at about 8:30 thinking that husby would be home but he wasn't. Got the kids ready for bed and started waiting, I didn't want to call blc properly he went to watch soccer with his friend so waited till like 11:30pm before I called, his background was not like where guys are watching soccer and he quickly said am coming and hanged up. I snooped when he came, Saw messages and even pictures, surprisingly I just smiled and went to wake him up with sex, since that's what he went out for. After the 1st round, rested a bit and I started again, he quitely asked, "you still want to go" I said yes and we went again. After that I only went to the kitchen got us water and headed back for round three, on getting to the room, I saw him with his phone, pretended I didn't notice, gave him water and started touching. He then asked" babe did you touch my phone" I was like, ha can't I touch your phone Again, continued touching, he just sat up and said I know you know, was like shhhh stop killing the mood with your talk, omo see beg, babe am sorry, it was my friends o, they were all carrying and urged me to. At this point my anger came all at once, stood up, got dressed and went to sleep in the children's room. Am at work now, he has called like a thousand times, my phone is already screaming no space for messages delete! Though am not angry anymore, I feel if I just let things get back to normal, he will take it for granted. According to him, it's the 1st time he cheated on me in 7years and I believe him, so at a point men will eventually cheat.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahahaha...
DeleteA very good way to suppress the initial urge... By multiplying the sex rounds... Nice Move.
DeleteWow. Pls I want to be your friend. See skill. I would have killed him before I even think of a solution this smart.
DeleteExactly what am saying.
DeleteHe's saying it's the first time cause you caught him.
But you tried. I cannot offer my body to a man that just cheated on me with another woman. I will show you what I found out and leave you to ur conscience. I can't Abeg
DeleteSmart girl.
DeleteHmm u get mind,omo I can't ooh
DeleteLow self esteem!!! How can you have sex with a man that just cheated on you. Get angry, fly off the hook...let him cry and beg first. Mine didn't see my knickers for months after i found out his escapades...and it was just sexting o.
DeleteSexy diva...u are blessed with E.I...
DeleteIf all ladies can master E.I....marriages will last.
DeleteThat's the problem ... Bad friends! If I were you I would tell him to choose between me or his friends. He should avoid bad influence and get rid of these evil people around him who force him to commit adultery against his wish
DeleteA man might till love you but cheat on you. It's actually kind of fun for them.
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ReplyDeleteThey should be treasured....i concur
DeleteNot all men cheat pls, what do other women have that my wife doesn't...please change that mentality. I am a married man and I haven't cheated on my wife, we ve been married close to three years now, the fear of cheating alone is something else and I will say its by Gods grace. When you fashion your mind to be faithful to your partner and are determined to live by it, God will help you overcome. When you sleep with another partner you have broken your marriage covenant and if that person is cursed you will be cursed as well because you are now joined with that body. Sex is not just a pleasure that will last few minutes but it is an exchange of covenant by both partners indulging in it, it becomes negative when that person is not your lawful wedded wife or husband whether you are single or not. Please let us accept Jesus into our lives and witness a tremendous transformation. I know am preaching as some may say, but what else can I do.
ReplyDeleteAfter 15 years come back n gist us
DeleteI pity your wife cos your type will be a slow poison.
Delete1,000,000 likes for ur comment...spot on
DeleteWhy is it the women that are blind, deaf and dumb on this matter,the men are telling you that they cheat and you are here swearing for your hubby same as wifey will be there swearing for me that I'm 101% faithful ,smh at dumb bitches
DeleteMy brother, the truth is the truth. Preach it till it sinks, if you can. Only the fear of God can keep a man truly faithful.
DeleteI'm really heartbroken when I hear people say ALL MEN CHEAT. It is gravely erroneous. I know many who don't.
Ladies if you follow God with all your heart, pray to Him for a godly man and you will have one of those men who don't cheat.
Though it is in everyman's nature to cheat but those who depend on the supernatural strength and principle of God's word avoid it like a plague. And there are many of such men, albeit a low percentage.
i dont believe this
ReplyDeleteI couldn't stop laughing chai!
ReplyDeleteSo many women are busy taking sides for these men then my question is, who are those sending in chronicles about cheating hubby and boyfriend? Ladies please stop standing in for men. Cheating is of different levels. The man doesn't necessarily need to enter the place before you say he is cheating.
Emotional cheating is the worst form of cheating any partner can get. Pray not to be cheated on emotionally. A man not taking care of his wife is also cheating. A man who beats his wife is also cheating on her.... Cheating is Cheating. No be until him fuck another woman be cheating oh! Make una no dey deceive una self.
My foolish husband neva cheated for 6 years of our marriage but d idiot went and took a second wife. And his now forming husband of d year. Spoiling me silly upandan as if dat will heal d pain of his betrayal. I wish I can walk out of d marriage but after 3 kids,where do I start from. With a very good job at Shell.If I leave him now dos chewing gum boys will be chasing afta someone's money. Den d useless girl will now be wife number one. God forbid
ReplyDeleteGod pls bless me with a husband who ll never cheat on me.
ReplyDeleteI don't pray for such.
ReplyDeleteNot all men cheat. I think it has to do with the man involved and the environment he finds himself. I'll give an instance with my husband (he does not cheat), he grew up in the US and has not really lived in nigeria most of his life, in summary he has a different approach to life(almost naive in my eyes cos I am a correct Naija babe)... My husband is highly God fearing and does not look at other women, the urge does not even arise talkless of him attempting. He even says it all the time, that where he works, no one looks better than his wife, so what else is he looking for? I believe that The reason why Nigerian men who grew up and live in nigeria are mostly cheats is because everything around them symbolizes the fact that they are entitled to cheat. They have friends that cheat and that advice them to do same, my husband does not even have friends talkless of having bad friends (another good thing about him) and secondly most women in nigeria are money hungry and don't respect boundaries. So yea it really depends on the environment and situation one finds themselves. One of the reasons why I left all the suitors that were asking for my hand in marriage in nigeria and married my husband, he's a different kind of man. Peace of mind should be number one priority for every woman out there.
ReplyDeleteIt is the height of foolishness to say ALL men cheat. Real foolishness.
ReplyDeleteI don't cheat and the reason I will never cheat on my wife of over a decade is not just because of love or respect for her but because I fear God in that regard. I have built a mindset that sees infidelity as a spiritual stain that I should rather avoid.
I know many friends who will rather die than cheat on their wives just out of a God-minded consciousness. People who are trying their best to follow Godly principles. So where does all these fake statistics come from?
I realized early enough in life that sleeping with multiple women creates a dissatisfaction in a man's sex life with his wife. You will always compare and want more. For me, I have enough to worry about and would not want to add hiding passwords, looking for the next kpekus, secret phone calls, double life, scattered finances, children outside wedlock etc into the mix.
A man's life is simpler without cheating as long as you and your wife are trying to satisfy each other in the bedroom.
Please some men still believe that God says we should enjoy sex with our wives only.
Take yourselves out of the moral gutters when looking for faithful men. Though I agree it takes God's grace to find any.
This una statistics dey pain person for body.