A Lugbe Grade 1 Area Court, Abuja, on Thursday dissolved 10 months marriage between Usman Aisha and her husband, Ibrahim for starving the wife sex. In his judgment, the judge, Mr Garba Ogbede, said that the marriage had broken down irretrievably and efforts to reconcile them proved abortive.
“Since both parties consented to the dissolution of their marriage, this court has no choice than to dissolve the marriage. “The couple can no longer stay together because the marriage has broken down totally; both parties are no longer husband and wife, they are free to go their separate ways.
“Both parties are to keep the peace all the time; any violation of the order should be reported to the police for redress,” Ogbede held. Aisha of Aco Estate, Airport Road, Abuja, had approached the court for dissolution of the marriage because Ibrahim refused to satisfy her during love making. She said that she spend one month with Ibrahim after their marriage and he always arose her but refused to satisfy her when making love to her.
“ I pleaded so bitterly to him to satisfy me but he refused to change''
Aisha said that whenever she called him so that they could sit and discuss the issue, he would threaten to beat her. She said that she had reported the matter to both parents but nothing changed. I intentionally left our house for months after he refused to change but he never care to look for me.
“Though when I was with him for one month, he feeds me well, but when it comes to sex matters it will turn to fight. I am a woman and I have feelings for him. “He has failed in his matrimonial obligations, I am totally fed up, please sir, separate us. I am no more interested in the marriage’’.
She begged the court to dissolve the marriage because she did not want to offend God and to enable her move on with her life.
Ibrahim denied all the allegations but conceded to the dissolution of the marriage because he was also fed up with the union. “I take good care of her and provide all she wants. Please my Lord, do as she wishes, I have tried my best to settle with her but all my effort prove abortive. I am also fed up,’’ he said.
Culled - Vanguard.
*The man probably had some kind of blokos Malfunction that he didnt discuss with her..Tsk tsk tsk!!!
Hausa women have very high Libido. That is why most Hausa men take sex enhancement drugs. Another man will be waiting to marry her immediately. It's very easy for a divorced Hausa woman to get married.
ReplyDeleteI thought the reason they take sex enhancement drugs was because they always marry many wives, hmm na die be dat o, if a man has like 3 wives with high libido.
DeleteI think the guy is gay!
DeleteI might be wrong though!
Very very easy because of the fact that the can marry 4 wives.
DeleteAnother man will marry her now and put her at home as the 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife. It's hard for a divorcee to be the first wife again in another marriage.
See talk
ReplyDeleteWas he like this with his ex's? Are u neat? Are u romantic? Do u make d sex worth d while? When she get answers to this and all is isn't her fault, then there is really blokos malfunction.
DeleteThere are men who really do not like frequent sex. They do once in a while but satisfying.
Omo lomo ya gbe ja before it becomes too much to bear.
ReplyDeleteThat means i should dissolve mine also na, cause DH hasn't touched me for 6months now, na so so xcuse, tired of using dildo, i need a penis attched to a man.
ReplyDeleteNa wah oh
Delete6months is too much oh
Some men are insensitive.
Find out his reason why he has not touched you. Most men tend to hide the reason they are not touching their wives, most women always conclude he is cheating but that is not always the case.
DeleteI was in a similar situation until I "raped" him, I then understood his reason, he could barely keep his prick up, I felt pity for him but instead of crying over spilt milk, I went in to action. I changed his diet and asked Dr.google for help. Today, he is getting better, thank goodness!
Why should you be using a dildo when you are married? Sorry to say dildo seems unhygienic to me though I have never used it.
Delete6 months...abeg your dh don catch something!! Either that Or you are overweight and he has gone off you completely.
DeleteSweetie your hubby is either gay or maybe he has another woman outside or you have added so much weight so he doesn't find you attractive anymore or your personal hygiene....check it's one out of all above mentioned
Delete6mnths small sef.
DeleteMine is over 19months. Precisely Sept 2014. Yet pple admire us as Ideal Couple. Tufiakwa. If only they knew. Wish I was Mega made.
I ve lost interest.
Last sex sef, I had to lace his meal.
So madam how did u rape him witout him being hard erect? Abi u sef use Vega?
Wetin dey mariage no be ere.
Nonsense yet if it were d woman depriving d man of sex, d whole world go defend am to waka outside. Nonsense.
He may be HIV positive @anon
DeleteJust talk to him n know his reason for starving you of xes
Nawa..Better for her.Instead of being married and still be looking for sex outside.Cant imagine myself with some men that cant satisfy me sexually.Huh!
ReplyDeleteThe earlier the better. But sex na food?
ReplyDeleteBut you know sex is food😁😁
DeleteDo all but don't starve me of sex abeg.
ReplyDeleteI pray she finds the kind of man her heart desires.
Good luck to both parties.
They are not meant for each other. Sex is not their main problem
ReplyDeleteSex,breaking marriages since 1900
ReplyDeleteNa waah.
ReplyDeleteOne man's meat is another man's poison.
When girls are running away from me due to excess sex action
Lmao
DeleteNa lie
I need proof.
Odiegwu!!!
DeleteLmao...
DeleteMoney maker u are crazy
He shuda use buruntashi abi buruntashi naa.
ReplyDeleteLol.. muslem girls bad
DeleteEyah...blokos matter is a serious one
ReplyDeleteThe man is not equal to the task
ReplyDeleteHe's not an OG
The woman should move on jare
Good sex is life.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteIf you can't play your part in your marriage , please remain single.
Nope, his thing is fine, no malfunction. He is on the "DOWN LOW". The marriage was just a cover up. He was probably being delusional that the wife will just be quiet. The marriage was just to fulfill that societal norm of 'I am married '.
ReplyDeleteExactly my thoughts
DeleteI think he's gay
Good point..
DeleteObviously, the man has a problem but he's refusing to admit it which is typical of some men especially when it comes to issues like this but the dissolution is in the interest of both parties. The man needs to seek for solutions to his problem.
ReplyDeleteIs better dey divorce to avoid story dat touches the heart ooo.
ReplyDeleteTo avoid stories that touches the armpit #lol
DeleteSex is not food.
ReplyDeleteThe woman must be a retired Asawo
Sex is not food but very essential in marriage.And No she's nt a retired asawo but a woman with integrity and knows what she wants.
DeleteMadam u no get point for dissolution ooooo!
ReplyDeleteSo sex is now what marriage is all about?????
SmH.
I hope you both find love in ur next relationship and madam "notabletosatisfy me" I hope u get d type dt ll knack 6r more times a day.
If she cheat and the man send chronicle we go insult her.
DeleteShe does not want to cheat on him biko.
Hausa women don't play with sex at all. They don't even joke with it because their libido is very high. That's why their men drink things like magani burantashi. Lool. To make them perform very well. In fact they rely on it. Ask any man whether Christian or Muslim that you know has dated a Muslim hausa girl and they will tell you sex with them is something else
Deleteo
Wat is marriage without sex, won't they have children? Or is she not a human being with feelings, if you doesn't have sexual feelings you better go nd check your self because it's a normal thing.
DeleteYou are joking with Hausa women. Sex is the major thing in marriage for them. If they don't get satisfied they will dump your silly ass.
Delete@Stella,,u bad,wat do u mean by blokos mal-function?..se u no read am say d blokos dey rise?.mayb na dat kind man wey no like sex too much.
ReplyDeleteLafin tinz here ooo
Mc pinky
Better that way, to avoid cheating on each other
ReplyDeleteWen it coms 2 sex 4get hausa women dem b machine, I av stayed in jos, Nasarawa n Kaduna so I knw
ReplyDeleteDis is 1 of d reason y itz gud 2 du b4 marriage, assuming say dem don du wella nau she 4 don knw say d mak weak and she no go marry am
ReplyDeleteAwww feel so sorry for her, sex is very important in marriages, hope she finds someone to satisfy her
ReplyDeleteDifferent strokes for different folks, hubby turn my body to breakfast, lunch, and dinner,using every slight opportunity to come home for lunch, and a man is somewhere that can't satisfy his wife. Chai!!!
Uhmmmmmm....end time dissolution!
ReplyDeleteBlokos malfunction??? Hahahahahahaha
ReplyDeleteMake she come make I cure her craze...
ReplyDeleteThat is because they are allowed to marry more than one wife.
ReplyDeleteLol Stella, no be only "he always arose her".Na "aroused her" na.Love your blog though.
ReplyDeleteJust after staying with him for 1month?
ReplyDeleteLmao Stells, no be small blokos malfunction o. Its very annoying when u are aroused by ur spouse and don't get penetrated, and when penetrated, u don't feel the heat. #Smh Sex causing "marriage crash" sinse 1900
ReplyDeleteMarriage is a joke these days
ReplyDelete