Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

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 NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
CONFUSED BOYFRIEND.

Please I will love you to post my relationship issue. Thank you.

My boyfriend is driving me crazy, we've been dating for some months now and it's been good and bad, this minute he is a sweet boyfriend and the next minute he is someone else. 

He doesn't apologise when he is wrong, he would rather push the blame to me, when I try to talk about things that are bothering me in the relationship, he tells me that I worry too much and that there is no problem. He barely calls, I do most of the calling, we chat once in awhile and thats only when I send him a message, if I don't make arrangement for us to see he doesn't bother to do so. I know that he is busy and have tried to be understanding, but it's getting boring by the day and ‎it's possible for his busy schedule to stop him from doing all this if I don't?? 

I'm just so confused and I'm tired of thinking too much. I promised myself not to complain anymore since it doesn't change anything and take the relationship just the way it is. I dunno if I'm taking the right decision or not??

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
TORN BETWEEN THREE MEN

Thank you Stella for this great platform, God bless you abundantly.

Not to waste further time, let me go straight to the point.
Let's call them Mr. X, Mr. Y and Mr. Z.... Let me give you an insight on them.  Mr.X and I have been dating for over a year, he's 17 years older, he's a medical consultant in a reputable hospital, not married. We are not in a celibate relationship. Still really handsome for his age, He's very well to do but He is not emotional or caring in the very least. he blanks out on me for no reason sometimes and then comes back after a few days to blame it on stress from the hospital. 

He is some what stingy...

 He earns more than half a million in a month (i know his salary) but when I ask him for money, he doesn't give beyond 20k (and that's when he's being generous). He has his good sides too, he made me more serious in my academics (I used to be a party freak), he puts me through my courses, he tries to make me happy and he's a very good listener that I can always talk about anything to.

Now, Mr. Y is serving, two years older than me, very handsome, could be very caring, doesn't earn as much as the doctor but gives me any amount I ask (I Dont ask for much). He's very much in love with me, wants to get married but he doesn't understand me. He listens but doesn't hear me. We quarrel everyday over the same things that I complain about, he'll beg forever but still repeat it tomorrow. He never learns! Dont do something, he'll do it, I'll get angry, he'll kneel down, beg and I'll forgive him yet he'll do the same damn thing tomorrow, he also lacks courtesy. Apart from that, he's a very sweet person and we are in a celibate relationship

Mr. Z is a business man, very handsome, a millionaire too like the doctor, buys me anything and everything without me asking. Hes 10 years older, He's very serious about marriage and we are just getting to know each other well, we are in a celibate relationship. We were friends for over a year before i finally decided to date him. He was a very promiscuous person and he has changed but I find it difficult to believe him, he dated my course mate between those 1 year I refused to date him and told me he wasn't serious with her, when I told him that I can never date him because of that, he broke up with her and decided to wait till I'm ready. I Dont want to go into anything with anybody that I Dont have total trust in. He's proven his faithfulness several times but....

I'm in my final year in the university, almost done with school, I'm a sucker for very handsome guys and I'm lucky to have three. Yes, there are three men in my life and that's cheating but I learned not to put my eggs in one basket in a very hard way. I Gave everything to one guy, was extremely faithful, he proposed marriage, my parents knew him, yet he brutally dealt with me. Woke up one day and broke up with me for no particular reason. And before bvs eat me up with "he had enough of your cookie", I was a virgin then. It took me over a year to get over him. 

I know its no excuse but I'm having a hard time deciding who I'll focus on fully.  Dear BV's, Help a sister out. Thanks Stella.