Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

THE SUSPECTING HUSBAND 

Good afternoon to you Stella and all our BVN's. I know it's 3pm as you are reading this my long chronicle.

Let me go straight to the point, my marriage is 11 (eleven) years old last year September, i will say that the marriage survived all turbulence it faced because on our wedding night we told God that he is the chief and invisible pilot, and we are this moment pushing the autopilot button because we know we can't do anything on our own. I was 24 and she was 19.

Since then we don't lock our phones but we don't take each other's call except the name on the screen is a familiar one.

This year she said now that she's done with kids she needs to work so she can at least assist the family. I smiled and say okay that's a good idea. Does she have any job in mind? She said no but I can arrange one for her, I got a 60k job for her as a receptionist in a printing office not too far from our house.

Before she started I took her out for shopping that weekend so she can get some work clothes. After the shopping we walked into the Etisalat shop at the palms and I got a new sim card and registered it for her, she was surprised on why she needs a new phone and line after 2 phones.

When we got home that night I told her my reason for getting a new line and phone that cannot use internet (Nokia torch) for her.

Before now she is not allowed to give out her number to strangers male or female, and we are happy. The new line will remain permanent in her office, I know she will have new friends and Colleagues,even boss will only have that number. If her boss has anything to tell her after work hours he has my number. You don't bring work home from office. 

I told her that ''your new friends and colleagues will advise you against it but just tell them that your husband forbids you giving out your number, and that marriage doesn't have pattern, whatever that keeps us together and happy is okay.''

Now there's these 2 numbers that calls her during weekends if am there she will answer them rudely and say am busy. I asked her about it this morning but she didn't have an explanation as how these people got her private number. She said it's a policeman I gave a lift one Saturday I was going to see a friend he insisted on me giving him my number (Incase), Incase of what? I asked, Incase of anything call me your husband. 

What wrong have I done in getting her job that she knows that her salary does not cover our weekly expenses. I called her boss who is a friend of mine that she needs a some days off. I want to know the mind of our BVN's before I take my next step.

Please Madam Stells don't post my email id.

Thanks

There should be total freedom in Marriage...

No matter how you cage someone,they will still do what they want to do the minute they get a chance.

Your Narrative left a bitter taste in my mouth,MY GOD!....Even if you are the last man standing and i am mandated to marry,I WILL NEVER MARRY YOU.

See what you have done to yourself?caged your wife whilst you have been free to do what you want and now that she has freedom and trying to fly,you cannot take it...You think she asked for a job cos she needed to help out?No,she wanted to breathe from the outside.

I dont know what she is up to but whatever it is,you caused it with your myopic view on marriage.

Remember this and it will help you...You cannot shoe a running horse!

Let your wife breath,if she fucks up then you know but let her breathe for Christ sake!

I am in a marriage without rules or regulations,we just take each day as it comes and hope for the best....we breathe!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

WIFE WITH THE WANDERING THOUGHTS

Madame Stella,

I hail o,and all protocols duly observed. Decided to skip all the mushyness(love what you do,you inspire me brouhaha).

Straight to the point,I am a married woman experiencing a weird thing........ Been lusting shamelessly over a guy for a while now. Although it's not obvious,but when I am around him(work related),I literally get very very wet in my couch.... It's truly embarrassing.

Annoyingly,when it's time to gbe so with Le hubs, Vaginismus takes over. You would think I am about to be deflowered afresh......choi.

Please is any married woman going through such or have you gone through such? Cheating is an absolute NO NO for me and time has really tried to take it off my mind. But just typing this email about him is tickling Mi couchy.

Biko Stella advice O do highly necessary,what can I do to get over this craziness??

Bv's Biko give advice not curses,thanks.

You are like a time bomb waiting to explode and if it isnt this man,it might be another..

The fun and Romance seems to have died in your marriage and thats why you go dry when hubby wanna gbensh you.

Why dont you look for ways to bring the romance back to life...In Marriage it is normal to feel tired and for the romance to wane sometimes....It is normal to have wandering thoughts but please guide yourself back and discuss your wandering thoughts with your hubby if you can......It helps.

I am sure some goody two shoes and Judge Judys will jump in here to crucify you but they do worse in real life......