Dont mind them jooor, it cant even happen once not to talk of twice. Best I can do is give you money to help out and surely not an amount that will cripple my own account. Love ko, man ni.
It depends on the foundation of the union, it'd be mch easier for her to do such if he has made immeasurable sacrifices for her in more than one occasion...a
Another woman who's a sucker for love & has the mentality of "money is no object" can also do such.
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Give what!!!! Give fire!!!! Mtcheeewwwww A real man provides for his family. I have nothing against a women supporting and helping the family. But some people just like taking things to the extreme.
If its this current hubby, yes i will give him cos i know he will never disappoint. So far as i will Be fully part of what he is going to do with it but if am not going to be part of it then i will not give him simple.
I don't accept this!! It's NAY for me. Which kind give a man all ur income? So if u give part of it to help once in a while doesn't it still make a woman real???
Just lik u said Stella, I can colct once and evn dat once God knws o wunt b comfortable and she can take mi out or evn buy tinz 4 mi ooo buh 2 colct all ah cash once mbanu
Yea...Did it once but never again and that was becos i was working 2 jobs so gave him all the income from one n kept the other did it cos he really supported me in getting the job...Menh not again oooo...I no wan turn mumu.
N men that ladies help financially end up cheating on them...
Yeah! The women that men always cheat on always help their men financially. The women that men never cheat on are the ones that has never and will never help a man financially. Oponu oshi!
LMAOOOOOOO.....When i'm nt mother christmas? Oya ooo,over to our female BVs dt will even lay down their life for a man. Make i read comments abeg...lmaoooo
I don't understand what you mean here by "her money". Aren't the two supposed to be one? So when the man is promoted, buys cars, sets up businesses . . . they become "our". When he dies, she wants to share from it all. But when the lady earns, it becomes "hers". We ladies should be realistic. As you make your bed, so you lie on it.
I have been married for more than a decade, earns more than my husband. We've have about ten accounts all together in our names with the mandate; "either to sign". We have never argued about funds. Everything we ever owned is in both our names. Our next of kin is our first child who understands that she is responsible to the rest. That's my understanding of family.
When one says "spouse" one is talking about "life partner"; husband or wife. If one has chosen above (all men or) ladies to live with "this fellow' as a life partner in love; then love is all about sharing. When one say "my husband's money" or "my money" is it not an anomaly? when one shares everything intimate (including sex); if they can't have funds together; where is the oneness? Hasn't the aim of marriage been defeated? The issue of oneness is in sharing everything. The excuses many give is "I don't trust her to know how much I earn or am worth". If one is a follower of Christ; who did Jesus give "his wallet"; was it not Judas? How much trust did Jesus have for Judas? These are some of the issues that intending spouses should define in courtship.
On a personal note; my husband and I had a common "account" from the moment I accepted to marry him. He decided to put me in charge of every financial spending. He makes contributions and there is no issues about that. There is no account that we have had since marriage that bears one person's name and the mandate is "either to sign". WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT "HIS MONEY" "MY MONEY" THEN THERE IS NO MARRIAGE HERE. THEY ARE SIMPLY COEXISTING/ COHABITING ALBEIT DECEITFULLY. In this age of technology, if there is alert on both phones once a transaction is made, how will either cheat?
Finances usually breeds quarrel among couples and the taste of the pudding is in the eating. Married for more than a decade an NEVER ARGUED is our testimony by the grace of God. When there is concealment of finances, the lady makes demands, suspect the husband of keeping a concubine etc. But when the two are open to each other in the way described above; thee will be no room for mutual suspicion!
A couple we know lived financially apart. The man is reasonably well to do but the wife dared not ask or "take his money". He gave her "handout" of money from time to time; monthly allowances etc. All his businesses were solely in his name. He took ill and his doctor gave him a damning health verdict and he had a surgery fixed. He knew that he may not come out of the theater alive. He quickly summoned his wife and took her to all his accounts and made it Joint and she could sign. Made his kids 'next of kin" in all the accounts and re-registered all his businesses with the wife's name inclusive. Even the financial aspect of the surgery and bills, the wife was in charge. He told her, "If I do not come out of the theater alive, sell all the exotic cars and keep just two" etc. IT WAS NO LONGER AN ISSUE OF THE WIFE TAKING "HIS MONEY"; THE WOMAN WAS IN CHARGE. He confessed certain misdeeds to the lady and they prayed together and he got into the theater. AFTER 9 HOURS OF SURGERY, the news came . . . he survived it! It was this singular experience that changed his attitude towards family finances as concerns his wife. She knew about every penny that dropped or left the "family business" as it became.
Then he said to them, "Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions." (Luke twelve vs. fifteen)
You are are right, this is lady igo's story.She has said it before.
All my money or a bit (not some ) of my money? A spouse or boyfriend? I can give a bit to a boyfriend and all to my husband.
I can give my husband all my income depending on the situation and the type of person he is. So it is not black or white, there are grays in between.
For instance, I was not working for some years to take care of the family, when the children became older I went back to work, unfortunately my husband was not working that period. He has my atm card which he used in paying the rent, utilities and fuel and I used the balance to buy food at home. I did not feel it is my money but our money because he took care of our money for 15 years, so why now he had a little set back I will keep my money from him? He gave me pocket money from my salary.
My friend could not understand and saw me as a mumu, because she has been the one financially responsible for the upkeep of her family from day one of her marriage before her husband got a job and he gave her access to his account to manage for them.
Later my husband got a better paying job and left my money for me. I only contribute to the upkeep of our family as I wish. The point here is WHAT KIND OF PERSON IS YOUR SPOUSE?
U once said u grew up under very poor parents n u started seeing money wen u got married,dats why u call girls dat give money to guys mumu..u didn't have d resources to do it den dats why..it's a normal thing for immature,innocent person to give to d person he/she loves...everybody plays a fool @ a point n dias no exception to dat rule..most of us have sown wia we didn't reap n reaped wia we didn't sow.dats life
The question is 'who is the man' if it is my husband, i'll give if I feel that what he wants to venture into is viable otherwise NO. From experience I have come to realize that such actions will in the long run encourage him to be lazy most especially if he's the one that asks for it.
Stupidity in my own opinion. What stops the man from working hard and supporting his woman instead of being a leech and draining her off her hard earned money. I can never spend money on a man... not even my husband, unless there is a very very serious need for it. A man should be a breadwinner and a provider and not the other way round
No woman should ever do that,my sister gave her all to her husband,immediately her job stopped the man showed her to the extent that she hasn't made her hair in three years..yet her husband earns well..he just takes joy in seeing her look wretched
Give who what and y. Dis one married ooh carried my money and resident himself with one old end time burnt face nd knuckles gwegs with excess baggage. His cup of ogi. Lesson learnt
We kno them by dia comment, sha even tho I don't advice any man to look @ a woman's pause but anytime I'm getting married if it's a bv then it's gonna be a real woman.
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NO!
ReplyDeleteI cannot even give a man a 'pin' of my income.
It depends. Why am i giving him all of my income? What happened to his? Like I said it depends.
DeleteI can't try it.
DeleteNay 4 me!
Omo na endtime incomer giver gba! If the man can prove himself worthy, why not? But from my past experience I'm yet to meet a man that's worth it
DeleteMe too..,
DeleteI can only help, but all of my income? Never
DeleteViva but u can collect a man's hard earned income abi. It's not fair. You can support ur man if u see that things r not ok with him
DeleteTo help him out yeah
DeleteBut not all joor!
To help him out yeah
DeleteBut not all joor!
Make hin come collect am!
DeleteNaaah. I cnt be that 'stewpid'!
Delete@viva; but you will gladly spend his right? Fucking dependent runs girl bitch
DeleteI can't give even DH all my income.
DeleteNa end time income giver b tht.
ReplyDeleteLadies don't end time try it!
It's end time anu b tht
Who send you?
ALL of my income? Maka why? Then I am sorry, I am not a "real" woman. I am fake! *sips water*.
DeleteI can help out with my income, but ALL? Mba.....
It's only men who are gold diggers that ask for their babe's money
DeleteEnd times boo
*stirs weed stew*
Am a sucker for love and pity stories.
ReplyDeleteSo yeah, I can do it over and over again.
Are you not ofe mmanu again?...it's normal for you people...
Delete
Deletei did it for 5months for my mother-in law, she's worth it, and my husband always thanks me for that, thabks me in different ways.
And @thefool and boss of fools kingdom, are you not ajekutamamomi na una way nao, na to die cause of money be una way, ode!
DeleteA foolish woman you mean?
ReplyDeleteIt depends on who u are dealing with.if he is a sincere p
ReplyDeleteIt depends on the man and it depends on the situation. But to make it a constant thing, nope.
DeleteHmm, a real woman will give her man "all" of her income not even part? yeah yeah yeah, I don't want to be a real woman.
DeleteIt depends.. If he's sincere n for a gud cause. I will gladly
DeleteBut everytime?? Mba
Men sabi collect awuf money.... but 2 return it will turn to end time problem
ReplyDeleteI agree!!! It happens NATURALLY if a woman truly loves a man! She just can't hold back anything 4m him
ReplyDeleteBuh men of today, have made MANY women to borrow sense! U mumuishly release all and he spends it on the next pussy (damn!!)
Nonetheless, even in that borrowing sense game; a woman that truly loves a man will still be feeling a prang of guilt while at it...
True
DeleteMy money is my money. His money is our money
ReplyDeleteOde
DeleteGbam!!..
DeleteIji Okwu!...
Dont mind them jooor, it cant even happen once not to talk of twice. Best I can do is give you money to help out and surely not an amount that will cripple my own account. Love ko, man ni.
DeleteIt depends on the foundation of the union, it'd be mch easier for her to do such if he has made immeasurable sacrifices for her in more than one occasion...a
ReplyDeleteAnother woman who's a sucker for love & has the mentality of "money is no object" can also do such.
Taaaa!!!
ReplyDeleteAsin ALL my income?
Akukonegwu Mike Ejeagha
Odiegwuu O°˚˚˚°. !
DeleteAll my income as in????ego govt nyere m for the month??? No naw...mumsy them do am then and not now abeg.I can't
ReplyDeleteI can give him, if he can give me his too.
ReplyDeleteSimple
Give what!!!! Give fire!!!! Mtcheeewwwww
ReplyDeleteA real man provides for his family.
I have nothing against a women supporting and helping the family. But some people just like taking things to the extreme.
If its this current hubby, yes i will give him cos i know he will never disappoint. So far as i will Be fully part of what he is going to do with it but if am not going to be part of it then i will not give him simple.
ReplyDelete"If its my"
DeleteU get past hubby nee???
DeleteCurrent?
DeleteAtheist its a mistake. I mean if its my hubby. Typing error joor.
DeleteHahahahahaha na real current hubby..una go dey expose una self one by one for this blog..nne how many have you had????
DeleteAnon 15.06. 100 of them. Are you satisfied? I dnt have time to tell unnecessary lies on top blog.
DeleteA virtuous woman can share but to give all? I do not concur
ReplyDeleteNah, I can do half tho
ReplyDeleteI can NEVER give a man all of my income!
ReplyDeleteI repeat;
I can NEVER give a man all of my income!
Like seriously
Taaaaaa!!
ReplyDeleteIf I catch myself
ReplyDeleteHell No!
ReplyDeleteAre you guys kidding me?
Even if I don't know what to do with money,my family should be the one I spend on not a man
yes but with wisdom
ReplyDeleteHmmmm *deep sigh
DeleteThe man you are dating must be a good man.
Depends on what ur definition of "man" is.
ReplyDeleteHusband.....maybe, but not on a monthly basis oo.
Boyfriend or Lord of d ring, mbanu. I fittin't not mbok
If d man has proven his worth!
ReplyDeleteI don't accept this!! It's NAY for me. Which kind give a man all ur income? So if u give part of it to help once in a while doesn't it still make a woman real???
ReplyDeleteNo comment
ReplyDeleteJust lik u said Stella, I can colct once and evn dat once God knws o wunt b comfortable and she can take mi out or evn buy tinz 4 mi ooo buh 2 colct all ah cash once mbanu
ReplyDeleteIt might not go well with B as it goes to A.
ReplyDelete"with A"
DeleteNever!!!
ReplyDeleteI refuse to be a real woman if that's the case...
Illogical statement... under what conditions would she? What assumptions are involved?
ReplyDeleteI dont give all my income, but i can give half to help out
ReplyDeleteAbeg I don't think I can do that.. Maybe later. Remember I used the word "maybe"..
ReplyDeleteBut for now, "odiro possible".
Then I'd rather be a sensible woman than a real one
ReplyDeleteI can give but not all my income biko, I don't trust any1 that much. Let the real women Kwantinu.
ReplyDeleteHell NO!!! What about his income,what happens to it?
ReplyDeleteYea...Did it once but never again and that was becos i was working 2 jobs so gave him all the income from one n kept the other did it cos he really supported me in getting the job...Menh not again oooo...I no wan turn mumu.
ReplyDeleteN men that ladies help financially end up cheating on them...
U ended up as a Mumu afterward right?
DeleteYeah! The women that men always cheat on always help their men financially. The women that men never cheat on are the ones that has never and will never help a man financially. Oponu oshi!
DeleteLMAOOOOOOO.....When i'm nt mother christmas?
ReplyDeleteOya ooo,over to our female BVs dt will even lay down their life for a man.
Make i read comments abeg...lmaoooo
From my anon observation, 95 percent of ladies here have given men their life savings.
ReplyDeleteRushes to close post
Oso ga eme ugbua
Truth!
DeleteSpeak for yourself jare.
DeleteI am not against a woman supporting a responsible/focused man but to give all her income?? for what?
Nne talk for yourself. Unless I am drunk. All my income sey wetin happen. I would rather empty it for my family members oh.
DeleteThey woman hardly come out well.
ReplyDeleteMy words are my bond..there is nothing bad in giving out all my income to my wife provided she doesn't engage herself into infidelity.....love is all
ReplyDeleteMc Pinky
Challenge me if u can
All of my income?? Hell to the no.But will definitely give part of my income to him and won't count it as a loss,even if things go south.
ReplyDeleteMaybe once but for a very very very very very very very very very very very very very GENUINE REASON!!!!
ReplyDeleteI can't give a man all of my income, one need to invest wisely into a man. liquidation can happen anytime.
ReplyDeleteThe side chich moves in...and the cycle continues
ReplyDeleteI can't try it jare,NEVER... naija men r not worth it.
ReplyDeleteBankz
Some not all...but depending on the circumstances sha
ReplyDeleteIf he needs it 4 a bounce back, no wahala but it can't be a constant K!
Never say Never
ReplyDeleteBoyfriend hell NO! Hubby yes I can.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand what you mean here by "her money". Aren't the two supposed to be one?
ReplyDeleteSo when the man is promoted, buys cars, sets up businesses . . . they become "our". When he dies, she wants to share from it all. But when the lady earns, it becomes "hers".
We ladies should be realistic. As you make your bed, so you lie on it.
I have been married for more than a decade, earns more than my husband. We've have about ten accounts all together in our names with the mandate; "either to sign". We have never argued about funds. Everything we ever owned is in both our names. Our next of kin is our first child who understands that she is responsible to the rest. That's my understanding of family.
End times husband :)
DeleteI feel you though, no mind me
*cooks weed beans*
THE ISSUE HERE IS "TRUST"
ReplyDeleteWhen one says "spouse" one is talking about "life partner"; husband or wife. If one has chosen above (all men or) ladies to live with "this fellow' as a life partner in love; then love is all about sharing. When one say "my husband's money" or "my money" is it not an anomaly? when one shares everything intimate (including sex); if they can't have funds together; where is the oneness? Hasn't the aim of marriage been defeated? The issue of oneness is in sharing everything. The excuses many give is "I don't trust her to know how much I earn or am worth". If one is a follower of Christ; who did Jesus give "his wallet"; was it not Judas? How much trust did Jesus have for Judas? These are some of the issues that intending spouses should define in courtship.
On a personal note; my husband and I had a common "account" from the moment I accepted to marry him. He decided to put me in charge of every financial spending. He makes contributions and there is no issues about that. There is no account that we have had since marriage that bears one person's name and the mandate is "either to sign". WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT "HIS MONEY" "MY MONEY" THEN THERE IS NO MARRIAGE HERE. THEY ARE SIMPLY COEXISTING/ COHABITING ALBEIT DECEITFULLY. In this age of technology, if there is alert on both phones once a transaction is made, how will either cheat?
Finances usually breeds quarrel among couples and the taste of the pudding is in the eating. Married for more than a decade an NEVER ARGUED is our testimony by the grace of God. When there is concealment of finances, the lady makes demands, suspect the husband of keeping a concubine etc. But when the two are open to each other in the way described above; thee will be no room for mutual suspicion!
A couple we know lived financially apart. The man is reasonably well to do but the wife dared not ask or "take his money". He gave her "handout" of money from time to time; monthly allowances etc. All his businesses were solely in his name. He took ill and his doctor gave him a damning health verdict and he had a surgery fixed. He knew that he may not come out of the theater alive. He quickly summoned his wife and took her to all his accounts and made it Joint and she could sign. Made his kids 'next of kin" in all the accounts and re-registered all his businesses with the wife's name inclusive. Even the financial aspect of the surgery and bills, the wife was in charge. He told her, "If I do not come out of the theater alive, sell all the exotic cars and keep just two" etc. IT WAS NO LONGER AN ISSUE OF THE WIFE TAKING "HIS MONEY"; THE WOMAN WAS IN CHARGE. He confessed certain misdeeds to the lady and they prayed together and he got into the theater. AFTER 9 HOURS OF SURGERY, the news came . . . he survived it! It was this singular experience that changed his attitude towards family finances as concerns his wife. She knew about every penny that dropped or left the "family business" as it became.
Then he said to them, "Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions." (Luke twelve vs. fifteen)
Lady Igo I greet. This write up here is so you!
DeleteYou are are right, this is lady igo's story.She has said it before.
DeleteAll my money or a bit (not some ) of my money? A spouse or boyfriend? I can give a bit to a boyfriend and all to my husband.
I can give my husband all my income depending on the situation and the type of person he is. So it is not black or white, there are grays in between.
For instance, I was not working for some years to take care of the family, when the children became older I went back to work, unfortunately my husband was not working that period. He has my atm card which he used in paying the rent, utilities and fuel and I used the balance to buy food at home. I did not feel it is my money but our money because he took care of our money for 15 years, so why now he had a little set back I will keep my money from him? He gave me pocket money from my salary.
My friend could not understand and saw me as a mumu, because she has been the one financially responsible for the upkeep of her family from day one of her marriage before her husband got a job and he gave her access to his account to manage for them.
Later my husband got a better paying job and left my money for me. I only contribute to the upkeep of our family as I wish. The point here is WHAT KIND OF PERSON IS YOUR SPOUSE?
Once bitten twice shy..........i v done it before nd will never do it again even if u re my husband.
ReplyDeleteI can give to my husband not boy friend.And that is if what he needs the money for is for the good of the family.
ReplyDeleteIt all depends on the situation. P.S that situation better be a one time thing. Me I cant shout biko.
ReplyDeleteIt all depends on the situation. P.S that situation better be a one time thing. Me I cant shout biko.
ReplyDeleteWhat man?
ReplyDeleteWhat man?!! Buh your stupid brothers sabi collect from women.
DeleteThat man
DeleteI have done that on several occasion and I've not regret it.
ReplyDeleteThey called waman with gud heart maga,if u give them,they give it to whom they love!!! Gaskia
ReplyDeleteAm i mad?...
ReplyDeleteBut I would give my smallie sha...
U once said u grew up under very poor parents n u started seeing money wen u got married,dats why u call girls dat give money to guys mumu..u didn't have d resources to do it den dats why..it's a normal thing for immature,innocent person to give to d person he/she loves...everybody plays a fool @ a point n dias no exception to dat rule..most of us have sown wia we didn't reap n reaped wia we didn't sow.dats life
DeleteYeah I can give my man my income
ReplyDeleteFor a worthy cause..
If the man has proven himself worthy of my love and trust then I see nothing wrong in that.
ReplyDeleteI can never collect from her. Yes my ego would make me work hard n give to her.
ReplyDeleteYou are a man my brother!...
DeleteAm sure you have an Igbo blood running in your vein...
Make I read comments abeg. Queen, its yours i'm waiting for. LMAO
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha...
DeleteNay! Nay! Nay!. It can never happen. You know the saying that experience is the best Teacher. Half of my income kpakpa I won't give.
ReplyDeleteThe question is 'who is the man' if it is my husband, i'll give if I feel that what he wants to venture into is viable otherwise NO. From experience I have come to realize that such actions will in the long run encourage him to be lazy most especially if he's the one that asks for it.
ReplyDeleteNothing wrong provided he does same.
ReplyDeleteJehovah! Her man being le boo or hubby? In either case, I can if the thing he's venturing into will carry my name and that of our kids as partners!
ReplyDeleteI can give him my income but not all
ReplyDeleteThis is a difficult question!! Yes I can!
ReplyDeleteI can give all without holding back any.
ReplyDeleteStupidity in my own opinion. What stops the man from working hard and supporting his woman instead of being a leech and draining her off her hard earned money. I can never spend money on a man... not even my husband, unless there is a very very serious need for it. A man should be a breadwinner and a provider and not the other way round
ReplyDeleteI can give a man that has done same for me
ReplyDeleteNo sane man would even want to collect
ReplyDeleteAccording to the law of submission... yes but according to the law of NATURE (i mean the world we live in right now) NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
ReplyDeleteNaijagislive feeding you guys with information
ReplyDeleteI can do it for my husband . He is a God-sent to me. May God preserve his life and health in Jesus name, amen.
ReplyDeleteDesperate situations calls for desperate measures. I would give it a pleasant thought.
ReplyDeleteOnly if am married I can give yo my husband. I have done it to a boyfriend before, mo te bo ni
ReplyDeleteNo woman should ever do that,my sister gave her all to her husband,immediately her job stopped the man showed her to the extent that she hasn't made her hair in three years..yet her husband earns well..he just takes joy in seeing her look wretched
ReplyDeleteI'm sure it's an edo man,especially those losers from edo state,esp okpella.Lord why don't u wipe those demons out of this earth??? Why?why??why????
DeleteNo way! I cant
ReplyDeleteGive who what and y. Dis one married ooh carried my money and resident himself with one old end time burnt face nd knuckles gwegs with excess baggage. His cup of ogi. Lesson learnt
ReplyDeleteA REAL MAN REJECT THE INCOME OF A REAL WOMAN COS IT TAKES A "RESPONSIBLE" MAN TO BE "REAL".
ReplyDeleteA REAL MAN REJECTS THE INCOME OF A REAL WOMAN BECAUSE IT TAKES A "RESPONSIBLE" MAN TO BE "REAL"
ReplyDeleteno, no, no no no i no do ,my hubby know na.
ReplyDeleteWe kno them by dia comment, sha even tho I don't advice any man to look @ a woman's pause but anytime I'm getting married if it's a bv then it's gonna be a real woman.
ReplyDelete