After I reported the abuse suffered by Blog visitor Flora Okwuosa,Dailypost sought to do a follow up on it and i gave them an Okay....Here are the details of what transpired and how hubby beat Flora blue black.....
''A 27-year-old mother of one, Flora Okwuosa, has lamented the ill-treatment and constant battery she receives from her husband, one Chris Obiekezie.
DAILY POST gathered that Flora who hails from Orisite Local Government Area, LGA, of Anambra state and married to Chris of Awkuzu LGA of the same state, worked with Nigerian Brewery Company and subsequently with Central Business Unit, Abuja, before her marriage to her husband on 21 August, 2014.
Chris, a factory worker, had however, asked her to resign from her job after marriage, saying he would cater for her and that she had no need to work.
According to Flora, her husband of less than 2 years has already turned her to a punching bag.
In a chat with DAILY POST, the battered mother of one who is resident at Agbara, along Badagry Expressway, Ogun state, said the last straw that broke the camel’s back was when she asked her 32-year-old husband for baby diapers.
Flora who recently lost her both parents to an undisclosed cause, further lamented that her husband, an electrical engineer had changed within such a short time.
Narrating her ordeal, she said, “On Tuesday, we took our one-month-old baby to the hospital and we were given a list of prescribed drugs to buy for her. I wanted us to get the medicines on the same day but my husband and his mother said we will do so when we get home, later in the evening. We ended up not getting the medicines.
“On Wednesday, my husband went out to see his brother and as he was staying out too long, I called to remind him that we needed those drugs unfailingly. He said he would be back in an hour and we would go to the pharmacy. I kept waiting for hours, yet he didn’t show up. So I asked a neighbour to hold my baby while I drove to the pharmacy to get the medicines myself.
“He returned home much later in the evening and like husband and wife, I called him to talk to him. First, I asked him why he showed less concern about anything that had to do with our baby. He didn’t give me any chance to speak further, he flared up and pounced on me, but I kept my cool.
“On Thursday, he was about to go out when I asked him for money to buy diapers for the baby. He said he had just N1,000 which he threw at me. I told him the money was not enough for diapers, which he knew. He asked me to use my money to buy the diapers, while he said that, he collected the money.
“I took the car key so I could go get the diapers myself, with my money. I was going to leave the baby behind with him because she is only a month old and not fit to go out.
“He asked me to give him the key which I refused because I had to drive to the supermarket. I am still not so strong after child delivery,” she added.
“I need help, I have taken so many tablets of paracetamol because I can’t take anything stronger because am breastfeeding.”
Flora said following her refusal to hand the car keys over to her husband, he grabbed her and strangled her with his bare hands and then with a wire which he also used to lash her severally.
“I was almost losing my breath, so I dropped the keys and ran out of the house. He followed me out and picked up some planks to hit me. I ran back into the house to carry my baby who was already crying, he followed me still.
“Again, I found my way out and he continued pouncing on me while I held our baby. He slapped me endlessly, beat my head, hand with planks and didn’t care if our baby would be hurt in the process. At that point, a passerby, a woman, came to my rescue and begged my husband to let me be.
This morning (Friday), he threatened to kill me and that nothing will happen. He reminded me that I was an orphan and if I die, nobody will look for me. He said he will kill me and take the property we both labored for and nothing will happen. He says my people are preaching “no divorce, no work it out.
“I have sacrificed my good paying job, my life savings, my life and family on the altar of this sham called marriage.
“I want to be out because the attempts to strangle me even with wire, pushing me down when I was pregnant and beating me regularly may just take my life one day,” she told DAILY POST.
“If I die any time soon,my husband, Chris killed me.
“I am still in his house and I don’t have anywhere to go. Besides, my people are in the East and I can’t travel with a month old baby,” Flora sobbed.
“I want to start life afresh, I may have resigned from my job and I know my colleagues will say we warned you, but I can’t die in silence.”
She, however, called on good-hearted Nigerians to come to her rescue and give her a free legal divorce service.
Once again her number is...
Okwuosa Flora
08160815757
Eyaah. Women should stop giving up their career bcos of marriage.
ReplyDeleteHelp has finally come!
DeleteBeen trying to call her,but her number is always busy.
#sigh#
Orisita and awkuzu local government?duno these lga in anambra
DeleteIt is Oraifite in Anambra State not Orisite then married to Awkuzu guy, Oyi LGA.
DeleteShe is from Oraifite not Orisite, married to Awkuzu guy in Oyi LGA. I called her and we spoke at length. Am sure when his brothers saw this post on Newspaper, they would realise fully Flora's ordeal.
DeleteI guess it's Orifite
DeleteWomen should also stop marrying poor or stingy men.
ReplyDeleteA man that cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel.
ReplyDeleteIt is a pity
Pray u don't end up with an infidel
DeleteA marriage of 2 years only. And it is already this violent. Divorce is the only way out
ReplyDeleteMoneymaker, please learn to gather your thoughts into a SINGLE comment!
DeleteShut up and wen did uu b'com SDK rep
DeleteAre you also poor in maths?
DeleteThey got married 2014 December.
How does that make it 2 Years?
Just sit there swallowing air and belching rubbish upandan.
Don't mind d fool. Littering everywhere wiv senseless comments
Deletethis guy is just a monster! someone that just put to bed a month ago? na wa. una con dey let me fear to marry.
ReplyDeleteI read this late yesterday.
ReplyDeleteSo sad. When someone you loved suddenly turns something else.
Flora, the Lord is your strength.
Why not go to your church, they should be able to accommodate you for sometime.
God bless you Stella for giving her a voice. Flora, stay strong. This is out there now, so be very careful
DeleteFlora please travel with your baby.
DeleteIf he lands you in igbobi, won't someone take your daughter all the way from agbara to igbobi?
Na wa o. That's how this guy made his 'debut' to public news as a batterer. And the Internet will always remember him as such. Sad pity. I can't even believe it.
DeleteYour wife adored u so much that she celebrated u on this blog numerous times. I remember I had a back and forth with a certain bv because of the way she insulted flora for constantly mentioning her marriage here. So is this how to shame and pay her back? You should be ashamed of yourself Mr Chris. It's utterly despicable
You are the sort of man that allows friends mock women who relish their homes. Turning them into a center of ridicule. This is not to discourage others. There are still some REAL men out there who'll appreciate their wives. Sadly, Chris is patterned as a wrong example.
And to those who have been ranting and using this as an avenue to either insult Flora or others, do not rejoice over this yet.. for if she falls she'll stand again. So hold your peace and learn from this instead of tormenting her.
Dating or knowing a man for 100 years doesn't mean that if he'll turn a monster overnight he wouldn't do so.. it just takes the grace and fear of God to always have it smooth. For a man who knows and fears God will never raise a finger to hurt his woman.. If you were born of a woman and appreciate your mother, you will never tow this lane of cowardice.
Note that many others are experiencing worse but have the tenacity to carry on as usual, so let's understand this as a very sensitive issue. And it takes a lot of courage and wisdom to announce such where u are known.
Above all, Let the will of God prevail over Flora and her marriage. Whatever you decide my dear, God will see you through.
Well said Sisi eko.
DeleteWhew!
Delete*sighs of relief
Sisi eko, I submit ur words as my Final Address. God bless u.
*its not over yet also means dt haterz shud watch dia back oooo
Chris is a demon with his mango head.
ReplyDeleteFlora help will surely come your way and I pray you find peace.
Seriously I don't expect you to still be in that marriage before the guy turns you to pepper soup
Stella,I love you more for doing this...
ReplyDeleteThe worst thing that would happen to any woman is to marry a broke ass...this is the reason why I keep preaching to you girls here to stop mingling with them...
Most of them are wicked,frustrated and bitter!...
Imagine that generator"engineer"using his wife as a punching bag!...am sure he can't face his fellow men outside...
See as shame catch me on your behalf by reading this story..
Your mates buys carton of diapers,milk,food stuff etc when their wives are in omugo including a nanny and a cook that would be taking care of the home...
You are a disgrace to Anambra men Chris! And God will punish you for this...
Idiot!!!...
*cartons...
DeleteYes, a real disgrace to Anambra men. An Anambra man will labor to make the wife happy. You are beating a woman with a one month old baby.
DeleteAla na-apu gi.
Preach it queen!!
DeleteI wonder y some ladies marry someone they barely know!
Y not take your time and know the guy.....atleast for 1yr
If you must be a stay at home mum,then have a hard work or a trade that you can do from home.
Hmmmmmmmm
Lolz!
DeleteNice one queen.... Never date a broke ass nigga. Not to think abt marriage
DeleteQueen don vex oh
DeleteCalm down abeg
@ port viv u nail it
DeleteLadies pls if u must sacrifice your work (career) @ list have handwork and work from home
Young ladies need to clear this rubbish talk of broke ass nigga......! When you jam the rich ass nigga that beats you to death you will ask yourself question. Secondly, if you are in a potential dangerous situation as a woman pls pls pls avoid provoking your partner! You only have one life and it takes a moment of stupidity on their part to kill you.
DeleteDate an average guy with full potentials
DeletePlease. Queen and Boss... It's not all broke men that mutilate their wives. It's not about being broke. It's about having a bad temper and failing to control it. Think about the things you post sometimes. This might be a forum where people come to have fun but these are serious issues and real lives are at stake here.
DeleteOmg!
ReplyDeleteFlora what are u still doing with that beast? Please marriage is not a dead sentence. I resumed work when my child was a month n two weeks. Please don't kill urself becos u have to answer Mrs. Marriage is not a do or die affair please pack ur bags and take ur child and leave that being that God must have regretted creating. Please leave! Look for somewhere to go. U stay I agbara so housing would be cheap look for another part of agbara and rent a room then try and get a job. There is nothing wrong with being a single parents and for Christ sakes u are just 27 u are still so young please if u die ur child would suffer. Would u want to do that to ur child? I know if u are ready to leave u would leave. We are a family here I am sure a lot of us won't mind contributing to help u get a place to start ur life again. Please flora u really have to leave. I tried calling u guess the monster is around. Please be strong n make sure u are eating well cos of baby. E-hug
This write up is horrible
DeleteTo think she just gave birth last month,oh God have mercy,Chris u dont and can never understand what a woman passes tru pregnancy,labour and room and after child birth,a woman gets to recover fully after 6months or more.a child dat brings joy to every family,what if she didnt take in after ur wedding? Ur type will kill her..ask God for forgiveness u deserve to be without a woman for the next 10yrs.
DeleteWe need to understand their living arrangement sef. Cos I read where she said they laboured together to acquire their property. If they both own the home and she has no where else to go, then, perhaps they should split it for individual convenience. At least for now, until a permanent decision is made. She cannot lose it all just because he wants to bully her out of what she deserves
DeleteOya anon take and chop ;,.
DeleteI have given u all the punctuation marks hope u are satisfied.
Chai!!!! Madam Flora..... Sorry o. He is obviously having serious financial problems and took it out on you cuz he thought you were not understanding and sympathetic enough to his problem. Meanwhile, he may also have thought you were being rude to him while you spoke. I'm not justifying his actions cuz he went on blind rage and did/said all that, but divorce isn't the answer. He needs counselling, you both do and I advice you be cautious around him.
ReplyDeleteBtw, you left Nigerian Breweries cuz your hubby asked to? Couldn't you two have come to a compromise about keeping that job?
I pray your husband becomes a tool for use by the Holy Spirit and your marriage works as well so you can give us a testimony very soon.
*bear hugs darling*
Senseless comment!
DeleteArrant nonsense!
@mz tee: are you advising her 2 stay and work it out?
DeleteSomeone that said if he kills her,nobody will ask about her.
There is nothing to work out here!
The marriage is dead already!
The guy always beat her up because he thinks she is helpless.....like she doesn't have anybody she can run 2.
Am sorry I have to call you a senseless woman.
Go borrow sense.
Your first paragraph made sense. I also thought in same direction.
DeleteI love this. Did she leave NIGERIAN BREWERIES??
DeleteJEsus!!!
May God Give ladies Wisdom
You seem somewhat inconsiderate and disconnected with reality. Sorry to say. You think she hadn't tried all these things you're busy suggesting here? By the way, financial anything is not an excuse to put your wife and child in danger with your own hands. Will he be the first to be under financial stress? Even if the wife has a stinking and nasty attitude every single hour of the day, she just had a baby and could be hormonal; he should be the understanding one here and not the other way around. You're busy saying divorce isn't the answer. Really?!!! Will you go and wake her up when he finally kills her as promised? You're asking if they couldn't have come to a compromise with her keeping her job. Does he sound like someone willing to do that or someone who would have beaten her black and blue for not obeying him as the head of the house? You might be somehow trying to help with all these questions and suggestions but imagine how annoying and frustrating it must sound to the victim. Your concern seems to be leaning more towards the girl maintaining a Mrs status and petting the husband while walking on eggshells around him but your main concern should be for the safety of the mother and baby. The guy put them in this mess to start with by forcing her to quit her job, now he's endangering lives with violence. First, helpers need to come to this lady's rescue financially etc (I would donate something too if something was set up) and then the guy needs to be taught a lesson for himself and others like him. It should be at least illegal in Nigeria to beat your wife who just put to bed especially while she's carrying your baby in her arms. We as Nigerians need to start encouraging safety instead of "what people/society will say" or what we think is moral. The bible never said to stay married to a violent and potential killer. Even preachers are advising women in those situations to get out before it's too late. She's going the right route now, what she needs is help and safety away from the monster......... Just Saying
DeleteAnonymous well said. I still haven't gotten over the news of that lady who stabbed her husband to death last week. Now he's dead and it's her words against what he went to his grave with.. as no one will ever know. Imagine the man didn't return to that house after he was first stabbed with a scissors.. he'd still be alive today. Flora can be pushed to rage next time (God forbid).. or her husband... who'll be there to rescue either of them? When an environment is no longer conducive the first n best thing to do is to evacuate yourself to safety.
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ReplyDeleteCounselling when dead,abi?
DeleteDon't mind the shriveled nit wit.
DeleteIs that not the mz tee advertising that her 45 year old brother that works in a fish pond, on every snm? Abeg shush.
All I can say about domestic violence is that if you as a woman don't have your own money to be prepared to leave that marriage it is hard. My husband beat me blue black and red I did the right thing I left first I went to the police they laughed at me rained insults on me for not being a "good wife" I left packed my bags took my child and went to my relatives house to stay my mother came and asked me to go back that "that is the way marriage is you have to endure" and sternly told me none of her child will marry and return back so that "people will not laugh at her" my father said "it is good as my husband beat me next time I will learn to mind my business in my husband's affairs if he wants to carry other women it is none of my business he is a man" they all sent me back I got no support I had no job and no means to support myself. So now I'm here quietly minding my business being the mumu "ok" wife and judiciously planning my escape on my own terms with my own money no trash or rubbish from anybody because I won't need a dime from them. Till then I'm the "foolish obedient wife"
ReplyDeleteHmmm, people really need to change their perspective on a lot of issues in that society.
DeleteClick my name for all your celebration cakes and cupcakes, cheers
Sighs! *****
DeleteOur tradition is very bad!! Am sure you are igbo too.
My dear this is exactly my case. The mumu wife is what I am acting right now.
DeleteBut seriously planning and working towards my exit route.
Am also an orphan like Flora.
Same story with me infact mine is that my husband is a homosexual and our families both know and still insist I stay with him and I have no where to go to for now so I'm foolishly minding my business and planning.
DeleteHuh??
Delete*faints*
Hmmmmmm. Maybe ua just learning to be submissive regardless
DeleteHmmmm. It is well. We really need to stop this cycle in Nigeria o!
DeleteSome parents are really not helping matters at all. They would prefer their child dies than leave an abusive marriage. Evil parents.
DeleteI faint n woke up
DeleteChimo Homos3x.. what?
U guyz are scaring we d single ones o o
Marriage Marriage if u no marry society no go let person rest
U marry, u no no d devil in disguise that u are married to
U b'com baby Mama people go dey drink Panadol for your own headache
Oh lord
Lmao, una plenty married prople wey dey suffer o. Chai. It is well with you all.
DeleteAnytime any married woman brings any tales by moonlight fairytale come my side.
Na just side eye I use look.
Especially those ones wey dey form counselor meanwhile na iron their husband dey take fight dem for house.
And I no dey EVER tap anything, NEVER, make I no go tap everlasting curse.
No wonder dey are always quick to abuse single women.
So that the single ladies outta shame will quickly jump and accept any man and join them in their suffering.
I jump and pass o.
*Settles back in bed with coffee and cheese sandwich.
*Marriage is a beautiful thing, marry the right one.
Chineke Nna!!...
DeleteJust negodu akuko!...
Marriage is not meant to be endured but enjoyed. It's just sad, too sad.
DeleteSome men are pure animals
ReplyDeleteI pray you find help soon,this is bad,God give you wisdom to handle the situation
DeleteOh God! Does it mean all these signs don't show during courtship? Why do ladies end up with such men? God pls help her out
ReplyDeleteIt breaks my heart to see women go through this.
ReplyDeleteThe way men change after marriage is baffling. Better leave that house before that monster of a husband kills you. It s obvious he hates you. PS: you are brave for speaking up.
ReplyDeleteThis is really serious...That her husband deserve to be castrated...
ReplyDeleteOdiegwu
Hmmmm. What can i say.
ReplyDeleteMay God help you Flora.
You mean she is still in his house ??
ReplyDeleteNnem you sacrificed a lot for this marriage seriously, I don't want to go hunting details cus that's the last thing u need now. Help will come ok??
*Daily post una don add two more LGA to our 21 LGA??? Issokk!!!!
I tire for daily post o! I wonder when awkuzi and d other village became local govts.
DeleteNna na wah!
ReplyDeleteI went through her wedding post yesterday, and the irony of all these, isn't lost on me.
I mean, look at all the praises she showered on him.
You would have thought that he was the last real man on earth.
Now, this.
Seriously, I don't understand men who ask their wives to give up their jobs to mind the home front.
Even if you'll pay me my salary equivalent, I no do o.
Times are evolving. Women have proven and still prove, that they can multitask efficiently, which includes raising children while managing their careers.
Plus there's a sense of making an impact that comes with making your money out in the society, as opposed to receiving monthly stipends from the hubby.
You feel useful to the world.
Not to talk of when the man just asks you to sit and home, while he does the providing alone.
Flora,don't you have a friend who can put you up somewhere, while you and the baby get strong enough to travel?
It may look like the man can't do shit again, because now, the whole world knows, but you never can tell with animals.
I just hope help comes your way fast, before he snaps, from being cornered.
From the story up there, I don't see anything worth salvaging, really.
May God strengthen you and give you the wisdom to follow through the legal proceedings when it's time.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Nice comment
DeletePlease I need a link to her wedding post. Lemme look at the face of the animal she married!
DeleteGo to yesterday's IHN
DeleteNo need to look at any post, just imagine a monkey.
DeleteThe animal's name is obiekezie Chris on fb.
DeleteDis is getting serious o but Thnk God, u didn't keep quiet abt d DV and so, madam Flora u won't die.
ReplyDeleteDt ur horseband will be dealt with.
That man is suffering from home trouble. Sorry for your troubles. Hope you get help soon.
ReplyDeleteBut the question I would like to ask is if its the first time this is happening. Has he ever beaten you before this medicine and diaper issue? Cos it seems like something just set it off. Is he still working sef?
Didn't you see where she said the man pushed her down when she was pregnant....
DeleteHe is a very violent man!
He also dealt with her while preggy but she endured
DeleteRead properly...he had bn pummeling her before now. She just got to her breaking point.
DeleteSo Mrs Flora even when pregnant and your husband was beating you black and blue you were still coming to mock single ladies. Buahahahahahahaaaaaaa
DeleteI know our Men (Anambra) are know for that pride of relieving their women of their job because most of them demand for this selfish authority and ego but I cringed when I read that ordinary factory worker too demanded for such pride..
ReplyDeleteinukwa nu Akuko bikonu!!
*That*. *known*
DeleteBeating her while she held d baby?what if one of those planks had hit the one month on the head?
ReplyDeleteA first baby that should bring soo much joy to a couple and the household?
U are an Animal Chris!
I went through worse and still going through.. I have no where to go to and can't speak up.. In due time I will.. Infact mine will be epic!
DeleteChris beast of no nation#.... Flora you need to relocate fast to another state as quickly as possible!!!!
DeleteAs in ehee...oh God dis flora will be passing tru pains now,had it been her mum is alive..God please console and heal her
Delete@Annonymous 12:19. You better speak up before you end up in a coffin. No need to wait for an 'epic' reaction.
Deletejust like the 'archaic way of duping ppl in Lagos'.... If a man asks u to leave ur job, my dear its a sign.
ReplyDeleteHe wants to subdue u, bring u to nothing, n mk u tink u worth nothing, so dat u can dpend on him for everytin. Den the beating wld start proper.
Even to provide salt u no go fit buy on ur own.
If u check it, young babes don get sense, u wld marry ur man in Lagos, u wld keep ur job in lagos , n ur husband wld go back to his base in Kaduna.
Madam u self no try, all the sleepless night in class, plus schfees not forgetting d hardship in naija, for no reason shld u av left ur job. Ur job is ur dignity, it sometimes an hideaway from all d stress at home.
Lemme not chastise u too much, cos UV already bin try enuf. I wish u wat u wish ursef. I hope after all d advice ppl wld give u, dat dey can gather money for u to start smthg, instead of only asking u to leave d man.
Cos most wld ask dat u leave ur husband, madam if u do? The proper suffering just started. As ur kid grows, d more d responsibilities. U need a job 1st, a distractn, n to avoid d beast.
Am not surprise at the number of men who hit women in Nigeria. U ask me y? A stupid joke was made abt DV and dabota n u need to see d numba of women (more than half of the women on dis blog no get sense, n as frm today, i wld stop replying many)dat found dat insensitive joke funny.it was den I understood were dis men are raised from.
Too many dysfunctional homes, its a vicious cycle.
U no the best decision to make.
Some men will pay you 10 times of what private compaines will pay,my dear we still have good men out dere(myhubbyinclusive)if dat man is a true child of God he ll understand what it takes to take care of a child,if flora shld start work now,who will take care of her baby?all she needs now is money to cater for baby till when the baby is 6months she can enroll her or him and den look for job,is not easy at all but God is her strength.
DeleteAs much as I want to pity her. I read some post from some people accusing this girl for always insulting single ladies. If it is true. I think married women should learn from this. Because u are married does not make u better than single women. Secondly a lot of you seem to forget that the world is ruled supernaturally. Sometimes it's best to keep quiet about your marriage, etc. Do u realise that some people are advised to do small marriages by their pastor. This my epistle is not for idiots who believe in God yet do not believe there are demons or principalities. Your case is worse than Atheist . Back to the matter, we need to be careful and more discreet. Now adays witches don't need mirrors to see you. They are seeing everything. If u don't have heavy spiritual barking from christ, sorry is your name. You think all this celebrities just come out and give info like that. U don't want to no where their legs have been or how much they have prayed. You think they don't have sorcery in their lineage. People need to be more discreet. All of you putting wedding proposal on Internet. All sorts of rubbish. Stop it. This is africa. Evil is everywhere. Might not even be your family. It could be friends and acquaintances. Be careful. Seyi!
ReplyDeleteSee ehn, forget people. I don't think I've ever seen her directly insult single people. I don't even think she looks for trouble on d blog. But I vaguely remember one time she missed a give away and Stella mentioned her name, then people started cussing her out and I'm quite sure u don't expect her to ignore.
DeleteBtw, even if she had cussed out people before, what's d point of beating up someone that's already down.
It's well. I feel for her
ReplyDeleteLord have mercy!!! #tears! I'm just seeing this n I'm so broken. Calling u right away.... Oh No!
ReplyDeleteaiit o
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
Hmmmm
ReplyDeleteYou will be fine Flora
And for you, Chris or whatever ur name is called! For taking advantage of her cos she is an orphan, u would have cause to regret this in every way all the days of ur life! Wicked animal! U asked her to stop work so she could be ur slave sheh? Silly goat! Shame on u n ur cohorts!
ReplyDeleteI sincerely blame blsme flora for leaving her job. How did she think a factory worker would be able to comfortably finance their home?
DeleteAnyway, the deed is done now; hope she's able to find something doing and get back on her feet.
Oh Lord God......
ReplyDelete287 comment 2016
Again, this made my stomach churn..
ReplyDeleteYou have nowhere to go? Your excuse is that you can't travel with a one month old baby?
You are still in the house and seeking divorce? Can't you move out first? When the divorce is finalised won't you still leave him? My fear is, what if he beats you again? What then?
I don't think there's any women shelter in this country,you would have moved out there.
Pls philanthropists reading this, it would be nice if we could start building shelters for abused women and children.
Its something I will also love to be a part of in the nearest future.
I hate to see anyone in any kind of pain.
The man is a frustrated broke ass. He is just taking out his frustrations on his wife. Ewu gambia.
ReplyDeleteWow. Tnk U so much Stella 4dz platform. God bless u muchly. May God c Flora thru.. Amen!
ReplyDeleteFrustrated husband. Flora is not d causer of your downfall. Anambra men na their way be DAT. Always telling their wives to resign. HeGoat
ReplyDeleteOh she just gave birth even and the animal had the guts to beat her?
ReplyDeleteChris obiekezie you are a monster!!!
Son of an ancient ape!!
Real men don't beat women
Wipe tears* this thing called marriage hmmmmm.
ReplyDeleteOMG! please leave ASAP...
ReplyDeleteGod will provide for you and your kid...
Help is coming your way...
E-hugs...
This is so sad!!!! I wish I could help you but I think the best thing for her now is to leave that house, I'm afraid the beast might kill her!
ReplyDeleteSighs...isnt marriage overrated? it baffles me how a full blown man will raise his hands on a weaker vessel, someone he claims to love and adores.
ReplyDeleteIt's so sad, really sad.
shame on you Chris, you're a disgrace to the men folk.
Flora, just divorce his stupid ass. God will see you through.
*no condition is permanent*
Hmmmmm,so she is 27 again,afta she posted her 30th bday here,see lies evvrywhr,madam God wil hlp u o,hmm so u are afraid to answer ggwegs caus u don yab gwegs here,u are more dan 30 so Welcom to gwegs lonely club,karma has visited u,sam way it wil visit all d two faced suferin and smilin housewives who shame single girls and call dem gwegs on dis blog.help wil com ur way,i hope u learn frm this.
ReplyDeleteSome of you are stone hearted.
DeleteHow you can even mock her is completely beyond me?
Stella, stop enabling these sort of comments, it defeats the purpose of the fight against DV.
This girl has chosen life over death and should be encouraged, counselled, not mocked.
If you do not censor comments, trust me; no one will have the courage to ever speak out. They will rather die in silence.
Stella Dimoko Korkus Awarded Blogger Of The Year By Nigeria Writers Awards.
DeleteThanks to all members of Bvn. You all rock
SHE HAS BEEN NOMINATED AGAIN !!!
City People Social Media Awards Nominates Stella Dimoko Korkus For Blogger/Blog Of The Year Category
Voting ends on February 26,2016.....click http://citypeopleng.com/citypeoplesma2016/ and vote for stella Dimoko korkus (click on her name and make sure you click on vote beneath. Let's do it sdk way
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Anon 10:13, na wah o. You sabi am from somewhere before? I had to look it up, she didn't say she was 30. Her birthday was on the 30th of the month. About her yabbing gwegs, where is the evidence? But honestly, even if she was doing that. At least it's understandable now, her monstrous husband must have been the cause. I've always said a happily married woman would be too happy to be spreading agro or throwing jabs at the single ladies. Sorry ehn, don't worry. Once she gets the help she needs, she won't yab you anymore. Just continue to pray for her and other women in her shoes. Also pray for Nigeria to change so more women can start enjoying their homes with loving and supportive husbands instead of domineering and impossible ones. May the Lord hear all our prayers. Amen!
DeleteEesah you no dey hear word abi? Continue begging for votes, beggar. .
DeleteNawa wa!
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you dearie, I don't blame you for loving your husband but he has proven that he doesn't deserve it, you have made the right decision you need to stay alive to care for yourself and your baby. Please don't listen to anyone telling you God frowns at divorce when a man has refuse to honor his marital vows made on the Altar of God that is the height of it.
ReplyDeleteJust continue to keep your cool until you move out may God be with you, regards to your baby.
May u to find help bv Flora.I'm happy u spoke out.
ReplyDeleteThis is no time to blame you but you made some grave mistakes along the line before your marriage to that ozu town council husband of yours. Anybody who says "keep praying cos it's not good out there" nne that person is a beast and osochi egbu. In all of these happening since yesterday, where is that your husband man sef?
ReplyDeleteNo matter the jazz a man gives you, do not resign your work to stay at home because too much asking of money dey reset their brains at times.
ReplyDeleteI guess BEATING is one of his hobbies but decided to conceal it for you.
I pray God gbatara gi oso enyem'aka
Chaiii. Umu nwanyi eriela nsi aboki na aka umunwoke
ReplyDeletena wa oh! this journey called marriage, na only God can save us.
ReplyDeleteFlora pls be strong, I can never wish anyone what your going through right now, hope ur out of the house? I know by now he knows the news is everywhere before he starts beating u again. God would see u through
ReplyDeleteEarly stage of marriage is very tough cos u both re trying to understand each but not violently. Jeez
anybody that finds even a single way to lay blame on this woman will suffer a far worse fate than her.there is absolutely no excuse for abuse.one month old baby?smh for this man
ReplyDeleteThere is no company like Nigerian Brewery Company or Central Business District.
ReplyDeleteMy worry is that you are still in 'his house' while making these allegations. It could turn up the greatest beast in him.
You are silly! How can you say that NBC, my uncle is currently a manager there and you say it does not exist, my dear google is your friend and stop displaying your ignorance.
DeleteNigerian bottling company n not brewery
DeleteNigerian Breweries isn't NBC. NBC is Nigerian Bottling Company.
DeleteAnd he is just 32,his type will have one stupid small girl he pets and do heaven and earth for...mtcheww
ReplyDeleteO boy yeeeeeeeeeeh!!! Flora is one brave girl. Her horseband go hear am. She's truly a lioness (UNN graduate). Great lioness, I know it'll only get better from now on. I wish you the very best.
ReplyDeleteEiyaaa pls anyone who could help her should pls do.sum men eh tufia
ReplyDeleteNa Wao, I pray she finds help, all dis pressure on marriage is really not worth it, sometimes being a single is even d best, it will save u d stress of living in bondage.
ReplyDeletechaiiiiiiiiii God please help her and punish him
ReplyDeletenne am so sorry for what u are passing tru now, but I dont tink its a good idea to still be in d same house with him.just to be safe,go somewhere else abeg.
ReplyDeleteSome men are just beast.
ReplyDeleteWhat in God's name would make a man who vowed to take care of his woman turn round to kill her?...this woman should be saved o
ReplyDeleteUberhautelooks.blogspot.com
God help you madam!
ReplyDeleteTo think that the marriage is barely 2yrs old....
Please come out and rearrange your life... You are an orphan does not mean you won't survive.
Flora, I've been thinking about your case since I read about it yesterday and all the comments that have followed and I have a few things to say, I hope you're able to get the purpose of my "epistle" and not see it as an insult.
ReplyDeleteSomebody pointed out a comment you made sometime ago dissing single women and calling them names, see, and this goes to all ye almighty Mrs on this blog and beyond, NOBODY knows tomorrow, that is why it is good to keep ones words sweet, just in case one has to eat them again!
Insulting women like you because they're single and you're not is so senseless, have you ever heard men diss each other like that?
Now, God Himself has humbled you and showed you the NO ONE is beyond tribulations.
Now your shit has hit the fan, I hope you know some of the people who will rise to help you are, to use you people's favorite word, "gwegs"?
I wonder how you will, in good conscience, accept help from people you have so much disdain for?
If an unmarried lawyer comes to your aid, I hope you turn such down, afterall na "gwegs"
If a single person asks for your account number, I pray you decline because na "gwegwelina".
Now you've joined the "gwegs" club, I hope you now know EVERYONE has a story
I hope from hence, you chose your words carefully
I hope to God you stop looking down on people in WHATEVER situation
I REALLY hope you've learned your lessons
And same goes to all you members of Association of Mrs, NOBODY knows tomorrow and men ain't loyal plus, that gweg you mock today may find the best hubby tomorrow.
Lastly, do you know some are single by CHOICE?
Moving forward, let every man(woman) mind his own business and stop seeing some as beneath them for whatever stupid reason!
Oh, before I sign off in this, let no one even bother speculating about my marital status as you'll get it wrong and even miss the point of this comment
As a rule, I NEVER leave even the slightest hint about myself on any blog, I read, laugh, sometimes drop a comment and leave but if you're bent on it, pls feel free till you get a migraine!
God bless is all!!!
SHARONNA
God bless you.
DeleteGBAM!
DeleteKeep your privates private, una no go hear. Be discussing on who uses water to wipe bum like children in nursery school.
Efulefu.
Meanwhile, oh how the 'mighty' are humbled kikikikikikiki
Flora several people have made this allegation against you since your story came out , you need to issue a statement of apology for that if you really did call out single girls.. You see God doesn't like mockery , apologise today and let help come your way!!!
DeleteShe does not need to apologize for anything. This is not primary school.
DeleteEveryone is entitled to use their mouths as they want.
Some will use it as a grave or as pit toilet, others for better things.
When it's time for you to reap, you WILL reap.
Look at that Angel4rayskd or whatever yesterday on ihn selling danshiki or whatever. Almost 300 comments, not one positive one to that person, not one. See insults flying left and right. Even a potential buyer after reading the comments on that anglesomething will be afraid to buy.
We cannot escape it, we will reap the fruits or the weeds from our mouths.
Stella why you no crest your name for this one na?
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteFlora, I've been thinking about your case since I read about it yesterday and all the comments that have followed and I have a few things to say, I hope you're able to get the purpose of my "epistle" and not see it as an insult.
ReplyDeleteSomebody pointed out a comment you made sometime ago dissing single women and calling them names, see, and this goes to all ye almighty Mrs on this blog and beyond, NOBODY knows tomorrow, that is why it is good to keep ones words sweet, just in case one has to eat them again!
Insulting women like you because they're single and you're not is so senseless, have you ever heard men diss each other like that?
Now, God Himself has humbled you and showed you the NO ONE is beyond tribulations.
Now your shit has hit the fan, I hope you know some of the people who will rise to help you are, to use you people's favorite word, "gwegs"?
I wonder how you will, in good conscience, accept help from people you have so much disdain for?
If an unmarried lawyer comes to your aid, I hope you turn such down, afterall na "gwegs"
If a single person asks for your account number, I pray you decline because na "gwegwelina".
Now you've joined the "gwegs" club, I hope you now know EVERYONE has a story
I hope from hence, you chose your words carefully
I hope to God you stop looking down on people in WHATEVER situation
I REALLY hope you've learned your lessons
And same goes to all you members of Association of Mrs, NOBODY knows tomorrow and men ain't loyal plus, that gweg you mock today may find the best hubby tomorrow.
Lastly, do you know some are single by CHOICE?
Moving forward, let every man(woman) mind his own business and stop seeing some as beneath them for whatever stupid reason!
Oh, before I sign off in this, let no one even bother speculating about my marital status as you'll get it wrong and even miss the point of this comment
As a rule, I NEVER leave even the slightest hint about myself on any blog, I read, laugh, sometimes drop a comment and leave but if you're bent on it, pls feel free till you get a migraine!
God bless is all!!!
SHARONNA
Hmmmmmmm
DeleteDon't mind them. I said it yesterday that some of them will just be talking anyhow as if they have lice in their throat.
DeleteLike that potable Viv with that her shriveled Donald Duck hands mtsheww.
Kontinue, what is waiting for you is in front.
Nawa o,women passing through hell all in the name of Marriage.Stella, where did they acknowledge the story was from you? I don't see no acknowledgement here.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm,speechless.
ReplyDeleteIs this lady not taking this too far? She should just leave that house for him and stop all this unnecessary publicity cos she has her own faults also. Divorce neatly and quietly Biko.
ReplyDeleteYou go dash am the money to do all that?
DeleteI felt so bad reading this.... Your help will locate u soon. Amen
ReplyDeleteI wish I can help you Flora, I truly wish so..
ReplyDeleteGod will see you through this ordeal and it will end in praise for you and ur daughter..
#sayNO to domestic violence #
*faithful bv enemuwe thelma*
Bake her a cake na, at least you've helped.
DeleteTnx Stella for the publicity this issue is getting I hope the husband get sacked from his miserable job and face life of perpetual hardship for being so mean to an orphan. Madam Flora help will locate you soonest and don't listen to any beg from that animal called your husband because he has a secret agenda to kill you so run far away from him. That's how my niece whose boyfriend beat, reported him to police and when they came to pick him, he was crying like a baby that's love that made him and sister was almost giving in but for one of the policemen who turn to our language to rebuke her and insisted that even if she want to forgive let him get to the station to receive one or two slaps from female police who're very passionate about such cases. Doooh
ReplyDeleteFlora, silver or gold I have not but I can provide thugs that would beat him thoroughly till he lands at Igbobi, God willing.
ReplyDeleteIf you are interested, click on my profile and send me a mail.
That's the only help I can render. I aint too financially buoyant.
That unfortunate imp must not go scot free. I am very pained.
You sef fuck up. Person wey you suppose watch until he relaxes and hit him with plywood from behind.
Hit his back till he cant stand no more and leave the house.
If a man hits me like that, he has to make sure I die. As long as I do not die, he would never remain the same. Maa sha ni igi gidi l'eyin.
God help him if he does not lose his spinal cord.
Walahi! To think that the beast has been beating her even while pregnant. Allah, na to arrange thugs sure pass
DeleteNa this kind men wey dey flex muscle person go hit with plank and before you say Obi is a boy, e don fall for ground die.
DeleteThis kind person ehn, you go give am sedative for night. When he don sleep like fool, you tie am up. When he wake up, you go beat am then take am go hospital and abandon am there. The next time he hears your footstep he go get small sense.
DeleteIt is well dear
ReplyDeleteHer first mistake was resigning from her job. Haba!!! Who does that? In this Era? Eyah, I pity her sha
ReplyDeleteYour help is on the way,madam
ReplyDeleteA lot of women die due to pregnancy complications and Chris ought to be thankful to God for his mercies on this family. You think getting pregnant and birthing that child is a child's play?
ReplyDeleteChris, it is bad enough you look like a riff raff, must you als act like one? I loathe men like you with your "amugbo" looking face.
For those who will say she should check herself, save it, there is no justification for this nonsense.
After all, I remember a silly neighbour who went bunkers because he wanted a boy and the wife had a girl.He couldn't hide his disgust for his wife and barely carried his baby.
I pray God gives you a fresh start, I will call you.
Whirlwind u couldn't have described him any better. I was trying not to mention his appearance and how he has likened it to his behaviour. Very indecent and scruffy. She tried sef. Mshew
DeleteI hate DV...but I can't shake off the feeling I have regarding this tale. There's something just not sincere about it. I don't know why. But hey, whoever can help should help. God guide us all.
ReplyDeleteAnon 11:14 I feel the same way too but I cant put my finger to it.
DeleteI honestly hope I'm wrong and Flora gets help fast. My fear is that she's still not left the coward's house. I hope he doesn't see this post cos God only knows what he'll do. Cowards don't react very well when backed into a corner.
Flora can't you go to church? Carry your baby and go and sit down in your church. You have to be desperate about this. Your baby maybe one month old but trust me, she will adjust. Nothing bad will happen to her but you have to leave that place!
Hmmmm....life!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteI really feel for her. But this your lepa husband na Tiger oh. I personally will beat shege comot for him body.
ReplyDeleteHelp is on the way.
Has anyone reached out to her Husband?
ReplyDeletePlease ooo. This is so scary. Now i am giving my boo side eyes. How can someone change from sweet to beast.
ReplyDeleteNever ever leave your job for a man.Forget this pride thing that men do.If you love me,you won't give me conditions to marry you.A normal man will even buy things in bulk before the baby comes so you don't have to stress for those little things as somebody who just had a baby,God is your strength.We pray ceaselessly for God to give us a man who'll give us peace and joy.
ReplyDeleteMy dear,u r a vry beautiful woman cuz I went back 2 check ur wedding pix 2ru d link Blogbrity posted.U r an African beauty & so many gud men here wld giv anytin 2 hav u as a wife.Pls leave d houz & plan ur life.Its like d guy & his family dnt hv regard 4 u & ur kid.Pls luk 4 a way out & tak kia of ur kid.He doesn't knw d value of wot he had cuz he has lost u already .Pls kind hearted Nig com 2 her rescue.May God c u 2ru Amen
ReplyDeleteMy dear,u r a vry beautiful woman cuz I went back 2 check ur wedding pix 2ru d link Blogbrity posted.U r an African beauty & so many gud men here wld giv anytin 2 hav u as a wife.Pls leave d houz & plan ur life.Its like d guy & his family dnt hv regard 4 u & ur kid.Pls luk 4 a way out & tak kia of ur kid.He doesn't knw d value of wot he had cuz he has lost u already .Pls kind hearted Nig com 2 her rescue.May God c u 2ru Amen
ReplyDeleteAbeg I pitied her for 2 seconds and that's about it!
ReplyDeleteHe is FACTORY WORKER! And you happily resigned from your "good paying" job?
In a bit to to remain a "Mrs" you chopped beatings but would come here to insult single ladies?
"Your baby is 1 month old and not "fit to travel to the east"? You're so daft! Keep giving excuses inugo?
Well done stella
ReplyDeleteOh my God.
ReplyDeleteIt is well, ur husband is a beast.
May u find help Flora
ReplyDeleteWho says you cant drive or travel with a month old baby? You are still there? May be when he kills you those your people will come and carry your corpse to the east abi! Be giving excuses why you cant leave. You and I know those excuses are not the reason why you are still there. The truth is that you just dont want to leave because of what the society will say. Na only who dey alive get hope oooo! The society will stil talk if you stay. Please run for your dear life. Think of that child, if you die today he/she is going to become motherless.
ReplyDeleteLeave am. Them never tear am better slap. E be like say the beating never Belle full am. Round 24 dey come, you hear'wait first.
DeleteIf they told you, come to East to collect 5 million. You will say, your baby is too young I can't travel abi??
Issorai. Just wait there.
May God punish you christ.
ReplyDeleteNnem biko ebesina. Help is on the way.
Infact this babe is now vexing me... how on earth will you leave a well paying job (working with Nigerian brewery is alot of people's dream. How dare you do such?) what love made you leave such job.. OMG! Am short of words but it's really painful you dint heed to people's advice before leaving abuja to lagos. That man is just a beast after convincing you to leave your job he stil can't fend for your needs.
ReplyDeleteSingle ladies I hope you are all learning. Please let's be wise.
Flora you've made the mistake but I pray God send you helper to start your life afresh. Good you are still 27yrs
And by the way did th man jazz you? He's just a factory worker.. wtf?
ReplyDeleteYou left a good paying job for someone working in a factory? What do you expect? The day you lost it was when you tendered your resignation letter. May you find help.
ReplyDeleteYou didn't marry a millionaire or billionaire, so I am trying to imagine how he coerced you into resigning you job if you aren't lazy yourself.
ReplyDeleteI felt sorry for you yesterday for a tiny weeny bit but not anymore. You laid your bed, so lie on it.
You obviously do not value your life or that of your innocent child by sleeping one more night in that house.
What exactly is keeping you there when it's not like he broke your legs.
I have seen women who just had a baby and took bike back home with that child because that's the only means they have.
You are still there yarning dust or maybe you want a magazine cover like Olajumoke.
You are an orphan but you still have brothers, relatives and old friends who can put you up for a while till you can get back up but no you choose to wait and wallow in self pity waiting for someone to come uproot you from that prison you have known and called life.
I am done talking about it but remember that wisdom is profitable to direct and God won't come down from heaven to give you sense.
I think Chris is not happy Flora had a baby girl,hence his nonchallant attitude towards the baby. no real love for the wife, we need to send more cusses to his face book wall,with my 3beautiful daughters my husband doesn't joke with me,and we've been married for 10years. marriage that is less than 2years see beating, Chris Obiekezie, Akwuzu he goat,she doesn't have any body,but we on this blog gat her back,u will see hell frustrated bastard, I guess your mom supports u beating her.mumu,ezi bida,nkapi esut,otologbagbuo gi,anya ka pussycat. and the person u are beating is beautiful.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe her story jare . Scammers evriwere. U ppl better go and check her out before dropping ur hard earned money!!!
ReplyDeleteChei!!!
ReplyDeleteNaija men fear God. Love your wives as Christ loved the church!!!!
The idiot must be an illiterate too na, doesn't he know it's his y chromosome that determines the gender?
ReplyDeleteMkpi.
Flora, I admire your courage to speak up where you're know and have praised the monster of a man who did all this to you. Kai! I respect you babe. Don't worry all will be well soon. But why are You still there nau, go and meet your women leader in church or pastor to help you out with a place to stay till you're able to decide what you want to do.
ReplyDeleteDew drop is right, if you decide to leave today, I trust sdk family to help you out. The ball lies in your court. Remember, your daughter deserves better and shouldn't grow up to see an abusive family. Consider her in your decisions please. A separation for now is appropriate to make the monster learn a lesson if at all he will. Be strong dear. God be with you.
@Doppleanger that thing you said is too harsh. Wetin dey pepper ur body on dis blog? Shebi you are a working independent woman, why not do transfer to her account. There are better ways to address things plssss.
ReplyDeleteI also fear for her safety the way she's remained in that house, especially as he even reads dis blog. But do you think it's easy for smone who has exhausted her resources to pack bag and go. Smone dat doesn't have 1k for pampers. Flora dear, don't you have even ur pastor or church members house to go. It will be nice if we can all contribute even if it's 1k, especially you mrs Doppleanger, ms know it all.
Flora d greatest mistake you made was leaving your job, but dis isn't d time to casgate you for that and for abusing single girls. I know uv learnt ur lesson on dos issues.
Aunty please learn how to spell Doppelgänger before you come for my head. What have I said that is different from what other people have said.
DeletePlease drop your own account number let me send money to you, you obviously need it to employ a teacher who would teach you how to spell.
Everyone would come for me and even you this thing think you have the audacity to do same.
If she didn't bring her business here I won't be in it.
I work real hard for my money to know better than hand it out to just anyone. The people I have helped on this blog without announcing it know themselves.
Don't dare try this next time.
Doppelganger took some weed , don't mind the idiot.
Delete@ Doppelgänger....Exactly my thoughts.....
ReplyDeleteStop looking for magazine cover like Olajumoke..get your sorry ass out of that house already..
You were probably lazy to have left a good paying job for that looser of a "thing"..
Pity that child..hard-knock life so early..!!
Anonymous 12:44 God bless you real good!
ReplyDeleteCHRIS,you are a fellow Anambrarian,so let me tell you something cos I know you hv bn alerts to Thi post:
ReplyDeleteNkïta ndi Calabar ga alacha gi Anya Na uwa gi.
I read a dumb fb post written by her some time ago where she 'advised' single ladies against doing domestic chores for a guy when you visit his house. Yet in the story, she visited the guy's house, chopped rice and chicken and went to bed send slept like a baby.
ReplyDeleteAfter reading, I though to myself, this article must have been written by a not so smart person.
And what is 'not so smart' about not turning yourself into a mini slave? What was dumb about the post? That she wasn't huffing and puffing doing 'our wife' washing undies, scrubbing floors for someone who might have 3 or 4 side chicks spread over the country.
DeleteAbeg, go fuck yourself if you have nothing sensible to offer, nkita. Idiot oshi.
Here is the link to FLora's traditional marriage:
ReplyDeletehttp://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2014/12/blog-visitor-traditional-marriage-was.html