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BITING THE FINGER THAT FED YOU AND THE CONFESSION

Hello Stella,

I hope you are doing good. I must say you are doing a good job and God will continue to bless you.

Something is happening to me and i want to know who it has happened to and how they coped. First of all, my husband is a confident man with a good dose of ego. I find that sexy and i still do but then for someone with all of this ego to come home yesterday night and prostrate to me fully on the ground and start begging me just beats me.

There is this girl that i took as a sister and she comes around our house a lot. This girl finished from UNILAG with a first class and i love smart people. Her dad died somewhere along the way and finance got hard. I talked to my husband and he paid her project money and fee and all and even after service, he got her a job in same place he works. I love this girl and even though she is making more money than me, i still buy her things and clothes whenever there is a wedding and we have to go together.

This girl has got a body to die for but i foolishly believed that someone with 1st class has too much things on her mind than to put a man's matter on her head. She doesnt even talk like she is interested in men like that. She talks about being independent, don't live for a man, don't force yourself on a man, don't blah blah blah for a man but i was deceived.

Fast forward to the main thing, there was a trip about 10 people from my husband's company. She was there with my husband and they got drunk and had sex. She got pregnant and miscarried the baby at 5months but i didn't know. Hubby tried to retrace his steps but the girl won't let him. She keeps texting and calling. There was a time he changed his number but she got his new number from me but i didn't even know that was for this whole thing. She has threatened him with blackmail in the office that can get him sacked but he still wouldn't continue with her and now she is threatening to come to me and spill it all this weekend coming.

 My husband came home and prostrated, told me everything from A to Z and showed me text messages she had been sending. This girl is very very very intelligent, she will send messages that if anyone else read, you won't figure what she is trying to say. Only the person it is meant for will understand or if it is explained properly. My husband saved her number as 33022 so i think it's a promo call when i see that number ringing on his phone, i just end it. I don't snoop so i don't check his phone.

I don't even know what to do. I love this man but this drama is too much for me and i can tell he will lose his job very soon with the way this girl is going. 

Anyone had something similar? How did you handle it? Please let me know.

N.B: I have 2 lovely boys already and the idea of being a single mom scares me.

*I am honestly dazed....too dazed to be comprehensive.

WTF!!!..I dont normally like physical altercation but this ones needs the beating of her life!..SHEEDIOT!!!!

If she comes pull out her hair and re-arrange her freaking dentition...WTF!