Hmmmm how far?6 years?Hmmmmmm!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
ENGAGED FOR 6 YEARS ....
Calvary greetings to you Dear Stella and to my fellow Bvs. Let
me go straight to the point. This life is full of mysteries. I never
knw it will be like this but all the same God knows the best.
I have been engaged for 6 solid years and all our plans of doing wedding has
failed countless time because of financial challenges . My fiance is
an ophan even though he is trying his best but His downfall started a
month after our engagement. It started like a dream to us untill his
shop turned to packing store with nothing but empty cartons. my own
story will make many to be speechless.
It is only the Grace of God that has being sustaining us for long now. i have prayed, fasted,just name it but all to know avail. my problem now is that different Pastors told me that I have a spiritual husband and he is responsible
for all the hardship and suffering we are passing through, that the
spirit is too jealous and want to destroy himself not me. that my
fiance can only be successful in life if I leave him or if he can look
for money and do church wedding.
Stella this guy doesn't know that i'm the cause of all these problems, I feel guilty each time he rant about his sudden downfall. he never seize to promise me heaven and earth when things be ok. if crying was food I don't think i will be
hungry in life. we don't know what else to do, where to run to. He
has nobody to run for help. no parents, relation doesn't know that he
exist, friends hate him for no reason. we received hatred in exchange
of Love. nobody cares to help us even the people he helped before. I
can't just imagine myself leaving him even though it's for his own
good.
I don't know if I should tell him or shut up and pretend till
when God decides to help us. but what if i tell him and the case be
revised what will be my fate? I'm confused right now! please don't mind
my write up all I need is solution to my problem.
WOOOOW...this is serious ish meeen!..be right back!
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
CONFUSED
I have been an ardent reader of your blog for 2 years now I comment too and honestly you are impacting lives. Well done
Please kindly hide my Identity. Thank You
Please Stella I need an advice from you and sdk family
I am 27 years, currently running my phd program. I started dating Mr A in 2015, but knew him for 5 years. We dated for two months with regular calls just until he travelled out on a vacation for two weeks, and calls weren't regular.
When he came back, calls became worst, he calls once in four days. We broke up because of lack of communication. Now we started dating again after six months and and are six months into it but he refused to change. He is older with a 2 years. When ever I talk to him about it, he feels so much at ease and replies ' sorry, I will change' and he repeats it always.
Funny enough since we started dating the second time he hasn't given me a dime so unlike him. He has never travelled to see me, I do the travelling as we live 5 hours apart...
I have snooped through his phone once but saw no sign of cheating except pictures of a particular girl and non of mine. I am a virgin so we haven't had sex, I am an AS and he is AA and he loves church going and is calm, that is why I am have been managing.
I am tired of dating a man who won't communicate for a week. Please what do you think. Cos he is highly comfortable financially, and he is self employed. But seriously I get him little thing I can afford when going to see him, his money doesn't matter to me cos I pray I make mine too. If you are in his place he will spend on you and give you transport fare back home. That's virtually it but I haven't complained.
I have pleaded with him to tell me if he isn't into this and I will easily let go but he refuses. Please I need advice on what to do. Thank You
THE HAND WRITING IS ON THE WALL...stop leading,read what it says and take action on whether to walk or stay but i think hes not into you..
folder is almost empty oooo.
Just negodu
ReplyDeleteSpiritual husband every corner,
DeleteNawa o,
Is this the reigning one?
Since you believe you are the genesis of his problem,
Kindly leave the young man alone
He has suffered enough so carry your ogbanje else where
All your plenty pastors can see but cant deliver you.
Abeg shift!
Poster 2
Is 27 that old that you are this desperate?
This guy is being very honest with you in a non verbal way
Some will never tell you they don't want till you see his wedding pictures to some other girl
He doesn't call for a full week, he doesn't spend at all, he doesn't make effort to visit and yet you are asking question?
Continue!
Poster 2 are you well atall? So at 27, you don't know when a man is not into you? You need deliverance more than poster 1. See your mouth like his money doesn't matter to me cos I'll make mine. It's women like you men use as door mat. Pls up your self esteem game.
DeleteHaahaha, just reading craziest things people did for love, funniest post ever Mehn! Queen and boss reply and yabs to almost everyone left me reeling with laughter,
DeleteEkajoy, the bj you gave by the express road, was it in broad daylight? SDk no go kill person.....lmao
Poster1, don't tell the guy that you are responsible for his downfall and who even told you that spiritual husband exists. Be using your mouth to decree negativity.
DeletePoster 2;
The guy is not into you. Bros just dey pity you. Because you think he's everything you want that y u are not seeing clearly. The man is made. You think nobody was there while he was climbing the ladder of success. Not every man have time for chatting and nonsense media stuffs. Get a life.
Poster 1,please pack ur load and forward Match to Divine Majesty Worship Ministry @18,olu irolu Street off Agency, ijeshatedo. I would advice u to stay for a week there, and if possible, u could take ur fiance along with u. I promise u u must testify!
DeletePlease concentrate with the Bible teachings as well, listening to the Word of God can bring about ur deliverance. I'm waiting to hear ur testimony. God bless u and ur fiance!
Ur joy will be full again!
Poster 2,isnt it glaring enough to u that this guy isn't so into u? Please concentrate on other things and forget about him. Oh u expect him to tell u he's no more interested? I pray o... Lol
DeleteChronicles
DeleteSpiritual husband every day
@poster1 : leave the poor guy,being an orphan is enough problem on it's own.
DeletePoster 1,why are you ruining someone else's life in the name of love? Do you realise that time wasted cannot be regained? Please stop, it's extremely wicked and selfish of you to keep him down like this. Set him free and find a solution to your problem. How would you feel of another woman does this to your brother??
DeleteAh!
Poster one. I prayed and fasted on my own. Poured out my heart to my maker. Guess what? During my fast, I had a dream that I fought the spirit husband. Violent fight in the dream with serious bible quotation. The thing left o. I'm now happily married and graduated after 12 years in uni. That power lies in ur hands, use it. Consecrate urself. Be determined. Olodumare a ran e lowo.
DeleteI meant Adeniyi Street and not agency o.... Auto correct take time o!
DeletePoster 2:
DeleteStop calling, texting or showing concern about his well being. Basically, try behaving as though you're seeing someone else and see if that makes him sit up.
If he doesn't, then take a walk.
If he does however, you also have the option of taking a walk or thinking seriously about what you're getting yourself into.
Would you want to settle down with a guy who would only shower you with attention, care and love when he feels threatened by another man's position in your life?
Meanwhile, keep the cookies safe, you will never regret it.
Poster 1:
Are you on 'the fence'?
Please search yourself very well. If you are physically intimate with your boyfriend, then you're wasting your time fasting and going for deliverance.
The fact that most ladies have premarital sex and get away with it(seemingly) doesn't mean that it works out that way for everyone.
If you have problems with a spiritual husband, physical intimacy (not necessarily sex) outside of marriage only strengthens the evil hold on you.
Dear Poster, be all in, or all out. The fence is a dangerous place... No let stray bullet hit you.
Chronicles!!!
ReplyDeleteBrb.
******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS******
Poster2, u begged him to tell u? How do u people date aka gum sef?
DeleteD truth of the matter is that all of u date the same men... U are always dating MrA and Mr B expecting nt to have problems.... I jst dey vex
DeletePoster one since your pastor says the solution to your problem is to either leave him or do church wedding, and you're not ready to leave him, why no get married since you both love each other and want to be together? Call few family members from both sided since you're both poor, let that pastor that saw the vision wed you both. You mustn't be a millionaire to wrd, if it's 10 derica of rice and 2 crates of malt then normal cake of 5k do your wedding and break the jinx, you mustn't beg or borrow, use the little you have. Then after the wedding if the spirit husban frees you and your finances improves, you do wedding anniversary in a big way.
DeletePoster two free the guy, he's tired of the relationship, probably getting the cookie from someone else or he's acting up so you'll give him your cookie
I will be right back
ReplyDeletePoster1
DeletePlease keep praying until God answers you
Don't give up
Have faith
The lord is your strength
Poster2
If you're not ready to have sex with the guy please stop wasting your time
Why have a tv if you have no plan of watching it
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DeletePoster one leave that guy and go for deliverance first. Go to MFM prayer city and u will be delivered. Some people even see their own spirit husband live. I've heard the stories. Even if u move on from this guy next guy will be same thing. Forget men now and deliver yourself
DeletePoster two exactly what Stella said. Pls move on with your life. If a man loves you he will pay attention to you and make time for u no matter what. You saw no signs of cheating but u saw different pics of a particular girl on his phone and none of yours? Pls open your eyes abeg
Stellastic post comments na!!
ReplyDeleteWetin self?
Gbagaun a be flying upandan.
ReplyDeleteReading comments today.
DeleteOde...see yourself.
Delete@Poster 1, honestly I really felt for you, the fact is many people have this spiritual husband/wife, but they're more powerful than one another. My advice is continue to pray till something positive happens.
ReplyDelete@Poster, honestly I need to read comments, in fact it's a must I read comments.
*Larry was here*
P1. You need serious deliverance. Spirit Husband is real n it can torment who ever tries to mawi you until d person drains down to Square -1, Run to a fire burning MFM.
ReplyDeleteChronicles of life
ReplyDeleteuwadiegwu!
Is it just me? Y don't i believe in this spirit husband of a thing
DeleteDon't believe. Dey dia
DeletePoster 1,
ReplyDeleteYou are a wicked somebody!...
How can you tie a man down like this for years knowing you are the one responsible for his predicament?..
Free this guy and go settle your spiritual husband first!!,,.
Poster 2,
Dude is drifting apart because you have not given sex!...
Am sure he is getting it somewhere else!..forget all these churchy churchy men...na dem dey fuck pass...
I concur with this
DeleteVery true. All them churchy churchy guys are mainly hypocrites. I know 1 very well. In fact 2 sef from my church
DeleteToo lazy to type ryt nao! I wish both poster well!
ReplyDeleteHere we go again with spiritual spouses! Smh
DeleteP2, Bros ain't into you. Ladies, please, A man who loves you will definitely create time for you and he will spend also. Time and money are major in a man's life.
ReplyDeleteP1: don't know what to say. All this spiri Koko tinz tire mi.
* Ayah Shehu *
Poster 1, pls release the guy. That thing won't let you so long as you are with the guy and doing the "do". Secondly you can explain situations to him and let him do the benjohnson himself cos he will definitely leave if he knows what he is up against.
DeletePoster 2, are you ugly? If you are not, then walk away and give room for your own to locate you because it seems you are forcing yourself on the man. The man that really wants you will come after you even if you live in a hole. Dt guy has his interest fixed somewhere biko. Face your education and give room for other guys abeg. What is it with girls asking if they should stick with one SOB who is not into them. When did women Start forcing themselves on men?
P2. What has being a virgin got to do with whad you posted? Anyways, show little or no care, dun call him, dun visit him too, pretend you dun care about him anymore n see if he'll come running back to you, if he doesn't, I think something serious is bothering him or he's tryna fix someone else in your place.
ReplyDeleteGod bless Us.
The fear of Bvn is what made her say she is a vilgin
DeletePoster 1, I know of a guy, the day he engaged his gf, he lost his jo the next day. He looked for job for 1yr and nothing was forth coming. They broke up and less than a week he go a better job, few days later, his former office called him back.
ReplyDeleteWhy not broke up this engagement? How many yrs will you stay engaged for?
Poster 2, give him space. If he wants you in his life, he will change.
Anon 15.10 your English is very broke!
DeleteWhen is the time for singles and mingles
DeleteI feel for poster one
DeleteBut all this spiritual husband mata they tire person oh
Anon 15:22 you're Wicked. Maybe the anon dey type with 3310
DeleteToday is officially a #gbagaun Saturday
DeleteU guys shouldn't gbagaun in SnM or else no catch for u
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ReplyDeletePoster 2:
ReplyDeletesit back
allow him take d lead
if he doesn't, kindly alight frm dt situationSHIP. Am happy u hav nt given him sex yet. He isn't worth ur kiss talk more of cuddle.
Severe all forms of communication wt ur so called imcommunicado bf n make sure u mingle wt one of d singles on d S n M post today, cheers.
Ciao
Poster 2:
ReplyDeletesit back
allow him take d lead
if he doesn't, kindly alight frm dt situationSHIP. Am happy u hav nt given him sex yet. He isn't worth ur kiss talk more of cuddle.
Severe all forms of communication wt ur so called imcommunicado bf n make sure u mingle wt one of d singles on d S n M post today, cheers.
Ciao
P2, Bros ain't into you. Ladies, please, A man who loves you will definitely create time for you and he will spend also. Time and money are major in a man's life.
ReplyDeleteP1: don't know what to say. All this spiri Koko tinz tire mi.
* Ayah Shehu *
poter one i use to have those tought that am the cause of my boyfriend failure but i just want to tell you that its just negative tought.you are not the problem.my boyfrien bounced back witout me visiting any spiritual house so maybe u should start looking outwardly to find a solution to the problem like what and what he is doing wrong in buisness.
ReplyDeleteMy dear don't compare yours with another. Take it from one who has really seen it. Count yourself lucky that it's not thesame in your case. Those things exist. For calling my own ugly, I'm went through the greatest pain and shame imagined. I was asked to pretend it does not exist but for where.
DeletePoster pls jejely leave that man alone. He is not into you at all. So don't force it
ReplyDeleteGood advise and luckily she's still got her pride. ...if truely she's a virgin at 27.lol
DeleteChronicles don land. Will be back to read comments. But wait o! Now adays Chronicles Naa so so spiritual husband this, spiritual husband that. Jesus fix it.
ReplyDeleteSeason of spirikoko things
DeletePoster 1:
ReplyDeletesorry about ur predicament. Its a pity many so called pastors wud pin point where d 'problem' but wud neva proffer solution. Hmmmmm ds life only Jesus can fix u, u need to focus on HIm n HIM alone. U need to open up to ur boyfrend n fight ds battle togetha except u wanna wait until Jesus comes again.
My thought exactly. Some would even give you appointment for deliverance and start avoiding you.
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ReplyDeleteThe Serpent has started again. "Forget the Churchy, churchy thing and give him sex, before marriage?" Huh? Where is all the "daddy in the Lord" you chant here? When them go attack you, I will join. I been dey defend you the other time.
ReplyDeleteWhat is this one rapping?
DeletePoster 1u need to come clean with him if u truly luv him, so u guys can put yr heads together and sort it.
ReplyDeleteIt is unfair to hide such from him and u watch him suffer.
Try and go for deliverance in Mountain of Fire too.
Cheers
Poster 1u need to come clean with him if u truly luv him, so u guys can put yr heads together and sort it.
ReplyDeleteIt is unfair to hide such from him and u watch him suffer.
Try and go for deliverance in Mountain of Fire too.
Cheers
Poster 1, my advice for you is to deliver yourself asap. Go to The Lord's Chosen @ Ijesha after cele bus stop, Lagos. u know that church that likes to wear yellow apron; yes go there and you will testify. They have a 2 day crusade @ the moment called "From sorrow to Joy" on the 6th n 7th Feb.
DeletePoster 1,you have a very jealous spiritual husband.
ReplyDeletePls go for deliverance.
Poster2,you have been upgraded to a side chick level...Are you blind, can't you see the handwritting on the wall,he is no longer interested in you.
Pls move on cos you don't have a boo.
Poster 1,if u were d one going thru hardship,that guy will not hang around for 6months,lord of d rings.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,its obvious he doesn't want u.
Poster 2, A PHD student scattering gbagaun upandan? d Lord is ur strength... Maybe this one of the reason ur guy is avoiding u,coz ur grammar is weighing him down!
ReplyDeletePoster one:
ReplyDeleteHow does someone have a (spirit) husband without knowing it? Do you always see "an unknown man" you don't know having sex with you whether dreaming or awake? All the pastors telling you so, what help have they offered? Are spirit husbands (devils) more powerful than Jesus? Where in the bible did God or Jesus when he came here or the Apostles do wedding or teach that weddings should be done in the synagogues or churches? Don't you see that this pastors want to use your ceremonies to populate their church and enrich themselves? Did this pastors tell you to keep your body pure till marriage; don't you think that "giving this man vagina" could have led to what you call "downfall immediately after you began dating him"? Did not the scriptures tell us that the "way of a backslider is hard?" (Proverbs 14:14)Don't you know that once a man pays your bride price, you are married? You fasted and prayed; for how long? Have you done like, till evening fasting for twenty one days like was done on this blog last month; if not, why not?
Gbam!
DeleteMy tummy hurts badly....dear Lord!
ReplyDelete224 comment 2016
Enter your comment...yeah finally have a blog ID
ReplyDeletePoster one:
ReplyDeleteYou can have a simple church wedding without money, if it is true that you have a spirit husband and must do a church wedding, all you need is the blessing. I know a couple who got married like that, they went and all the joining was done, then they returned home. When things get better and money begins to come, you could do a lavish ceremony.
POSTER 2:
ReplyDeleteKeep your virginity and keep away from such a man who do not communicate. He does not love you because "Love always protects, always trusts and is not self seeking (1 Cor. 13:4-8). If this man loves you; he will seek you out.
Good to know
ReplyDeletePoster 1 God doesn't respond to tears he responds to our faith and trust in him. Don't sit down there waiting for when God decides to answer you as u put it. You have to actively seek God. You will find him if you do. I invite you to any living faith Church branch near you tomorrow. Your life won't remain the same.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 give the guy space. Stop making all the effort. Once he feels your attention has shifted from him he will start craving it.
Linda, you don't start again. Which one be say make poster 2 keep church aside and fuck her virginity off. You want make I spend all night write my own? Ok oooo, I dey come. The one wey dem write that day go be mai mai case. Be deceiving small girls since Adam. E be like say, you get bad marriage small come dey advise other girls make them scatter their marriage and body finish. Make you no fall my hand for this blog.
ReplyDeleteEnd time chronicles
ReplyDeletePosster1 please don't listen to what people are saying..leaving this guy won't solve the problem.I can tell you what to do and am very sure it will leave permanently cos some stupid incubus spirits can be stubborn.I will love to talk to you.but I can't display my number here.I will drop my contact with Stella and expect a call from you.don't be afraid my dear things will turn around.with God all things are possible
ReplyDeletetoo tired to advice today.
ReplyDeleteWhy is "@ Queen and boss" deceiving young girls. So this thing is really true. Did poster 2 tell you that she wants to blow up her hymen? Why tell her to keep church aside and give sex? What is the relationship between communication and sex? Latter now some people go come say you dey catch fun. How you go dey catch fun on top the souls of young girls?
ReplyDeletePoster two please ignore this wicked soul. If you man is not communicating, correct him and if he does not respond, take a walk. If he loves you, he will pursue you and not the other way round.
Ol boy, greedy pastors don step up. Church wedding de pursue spirit husbands now? Hahahahhahaha chai! Shame de catch me for them self.
ReplyDeletePoster1 please break up with this guy for now and don't let him know y, take yourself for deliverance .there's nothing God cannot do.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 this guy is not that into you, am sure he is just holding unto you because he hasn't got a replacement yet
It is well
ReplyDeletePoster 1 & 2 kindly leave both men. Thank u
ReplyDeletePoster 1- spirit husband ish again.
ReplyDeleteThis is my opinion, are you a Christian? If yes then you are not the problem, cos a genuine born again christian is "free indeed". God is not a liar. A woman was not made to be a burden to a man but a "helper". As a Christian you have been given not some but "all authority" in heaven and on earth. You have immeasurable power within you, why not speak the word of God into your life and that of your husband to be not shabbily but with confident. How do you do all this? Your sure weapon is the bible and prayer, not running from one prayer house to the other. Take a day out, fast and pray with your mouth. Cry out to God, you will be amazed at the results that will show forth. Don't be lazy about your destiny, take a bold step. Oh and if you are a muslim or pagan dunno what to say to you. My 2cents.
It is well
ReplyDeletePoster1 God will direct you on what to do....your casenis critical
ReplyDeletePoster2 abeg ex the guy....its not worth it....
Which spiritual. Husband?its not real*
ReplyDeleteCome to winners and u wiLl see ur sef acclaimed spiritual husband No more*
Yes it's REAL!!!...
DeletePls my fellow Bvns I must get rich wether thee devils wants it or not, I just dey waka up and down am a graduate I don waka tire. All my friends av deserted me, my Rich parents don't even send me den no see at all...... One of my best frend insulted me last week that am becoming Ugly I felt kinda humilated ....abeg na who I offend?
ReplyDeleteYou offended your village people...
DeleteVirgin at 27? No wonder dude is getting tired! Seems like you're a churchy somebody.... Fuck him or go find someone who's a virgin.. Hian!
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm mm @ Poster1, poster 2:stop calling & visiting him let him take the lead..
ReplyDelete..
Poster1:I hate listening to dis spiritual brouhaha will just advice u to pray over it.
ReplyDeletePoster2:I will advice u to leave him for Sometime and let see aw it goes whether he will cum begging or not if he does not dat meanz he his soooo fed up of d relationship.
Poster 1, i don't believe it. But if you think walking away will solve the problem then do it. For the good of you two
ReplyDeletePoster 2.
Dude is so not into you, is OBVIOUS, you are in relationship with yourself.
Madam wit spiritual husband have you tried MFM?
ReplyDeletePoster 1,make your deliverance a project,until you are free,dont stop.incumbus and succumbus are very wicked spirits,they hardly leave thier victims.Discuss it with your man and team up with him against the wicked.DONT ACCEPT DEFEAT AND LEAVE YOUR MAN or else you wont marry.Embrace JESUS with all your heart and go to MFM with him for deliverances.NOTE:themoment you start living worldly after you are delivered,it comes back and worst.so be careful you cant make it away from JESUS.
ReplyDeletePoster1: don't tell him anything , you need to go to any winner Chapel church , Do Not Tell him anything
ReplyDeletePoster 2: leave that guy ,if I was you , I will start to dress up more and Go on more date , you shouldn't never settle for Unhappyness
There is plenty guys who are single and cute with money , looking for a wife , Go out more and be nice to people everyone not just a men you don't know who will know your future husband , girl leave that guy , if you like church guy , go to any other church you will find find someone , sometime God gives opportunities to choose who we want , your age doesn't matter , start making a guys friend , just friend that is all and let them lead and to chase you , you are the women you have all the power , you are your own country you decide who to give a visa to
Don't call this Guy , and when he call avoid all his call he will understand that you don't want anything with him , oh trust me we will be mad and will said that he want you back , Don't go back , you just teach him a lesson
start to go out it really fun to be single , I love being single it give you all the power and it fun , learn to love it
What the fuck is this spiritual husband/wife wey I dey always see for this blog....which kain nonsense be that....i wonder why people believe in that nonsense and una dey educated o! Kai!! God abeg no bring any lady wey believe in that rubbish my way when I'm ready to marry, Amen!!
ReplyDeleteHahahaha...
DeleteNa your type dey marry ogbanje sef...forget education,that shit is real!!!
Post 1 read d word of God n believe
ReplyDeletePost 2 leave d guy, a man that want u will chase u
Poster 1 biko leave that poor brother alone.. u r tying his destiny can't u see.. haba.. 6 years nothing is happening.. Plss talk to him.. u both shud disentangle and start afresh with other pple. How long do u want to keep him, for the next 4 years. That's wickedness.. tell him the problem, go seperate ways first and then Start praying to God for a successful relationship. Pity the guy pls..
ReplyDeletePoster 2. Aunty u r dating urslf.. when a man wants sumtin.. he goes for it.. a man dat can't visit u doesn't have u in his mind.. dnt kill urlsf there.. u dnt sound happy. Leave him, God made u AS, he will sure bring u someone compatible. U r nt too old to be single.. find ur peace.. it's very important.
Stella biko post my comment.. u have nt been posting my comments lately..
Poster one ,
ReplyDeleteRight from day one i sleep with the woman i married today was the day every
bad badluck come out from everywhere ,things are no longer moving fine i mean
everything become very bad but i keep on hoping ,so one day my wife called
me a lazy man who love only eating and sleeping i was in tears to hear such words
from her mouth becos she knows how blessings i was before she came to me and married
me,so with angers and pains in me cos we fight with words about it,i left the house
to stay with a friend,behold God blessed me 6days later i was out from her,
i won close to 8millions with the money i wanted to use go spend in club,,something
asked me to gamble the money than going club and i did and won,,,she come back and
begging me to come back,i forgive her and after some few months all the money
finished,i dont know what really happend,,,,but today i have learn from this topic
cos i asked her today that so some woman have a spirits husband?she was shocked
and pretend that she never heard me and she later change the topic,,,,
my angers now is that why did she knows all this but still called me a lazy man?
becos i can help her find a solution if she has ever told me about this,,even she
was the person who get pregnant and was crying how her parents will kill her
if she ever have a child outside marriage and i married her ,,,how wickedness?????
Don't go and pursue your wife because of what you read online ooh.
DeleteSort things out.
Poster one ,
ReplyDeleteRight from day one i sleep with the woman i married today was the day every
bad badluck come out from everywhere ,things are no longer moving fine i mean
everything become very bad but i keep on hoping ,so one day my wife called
me a lazy man who love only eating and sleeping i was in tears to hear such words
from her mouth becos she knows how blessings i was before she came to me and married
me,so with angers and pains in me cos we fight with words about it,i left the house
to stay with a friend,behold God blessed me 6days later i was out from her,
i won close to 8millions with the money i wanted to use go spend in club,,something
asked me to gamble the money than going club and i did and won,,,she come back and
begging me to come back,i forgive her and after some few months all the money
finished,i dont know what really happend,,,,but today i have learn from this topic
cos i asked her today that so some woman have a spirits husband?she was shocked
and pretend that she never heard me and she later change the topic,,,,
my angers now is that why did she knows all this but still called me a lazy man?
becos i can help her find a solution if she has ever told me about this,,even she
was the person who get pregnant and was crying how her parents will kill her
if she ever have a child outside marriage and i married her ,,,how wickedness?????
Some women don't even know they have a spiritual partner...
DeleteNna mehn,if you are my brother,I would advise you to leave that marriage biko...but since you are not my bro,I would advise you to help her get delivered!!..
Poster 1, my advice for you is to deliver yourself asap. Go to The Lord's Chosen @ Ijesha after cele bus stop, Lagos. u know that church that likes to wear yellow apron; yes go there and you will testify. They have a 2 day crusade @ the moment called "From sorrow to Joy" on the 6th n 7th Feb. You can still attend the tues/thurs services.
ReplyDelete@poster 2
ReplyDeleteAt some point i thought u were talking about my ex until u mentioned ur age diffs nd genotypes cos he is As
Anyways my dear d fool i used to date never calls ohh,u wont believe how far we had gone in the relationship,he had literarily met my ancestors in my village everybody in my family knew him,he even gave me a ring(just sold it at yaba hausa market..lol) but he hardly communicates,and hes sooo fuckn stingy he claims he has problems so he cldnt provide much for me,he traveld late last year to the uk on a business trip,and continued the rubbish lack of communication attitude,i endured for a while but on the 31st of december i had a heart to heart with God (cos one of these prophets told me i would regret it if i leave him hmmmm)i told my God that he(mr umeadi s.)would also regret not having me too cos he just lost a gem if that be the case cos i just couldnt deal anymore,i know he has an ex that lingers and he couldnt marry her cos shes AS,but he still couldnt concentrate on hes relationship,even couldnt delete her pictures on hes phone its that bad i didnt snoop but he showed me himself,as an illiterate he never understood the consequences of some actions mschhewww....
My dear @poster2 am a no nonsense person and i really hate B.s in my life on the 1st of jan. I barred hes calls from coming through thats if he ever remembers to call,i blocked d fool nd reported him on watsapp,deleted hes nos ,pictures,messages and every memory of him on my phone.
Babe u need to go hardcore on that guy.tell him to fuck off now or regret it,he has someone else and he doesnt love you.
@poster 2
ReplyDeleteAt some point i thought u were talking about my ex until u mentioned ur age diffs nd genotypes cos he is As
Anyways my dear d fool i used to date never calls ohh,u wont believe how far we had gone in the relationship,he had literarily met my ancestors in my village everybody in my family knew him,he even gave me a ring(just sold it at yaba hausa market..lol) but he hardly communicates,and hes sooo fuckn stingy he claims he has problems so he cldnt provide much for me,he traveld late last year to the uk on a business trip,and continued the rubbish lack of communication attitude,i endured for a while but on the 31st of december i had a heart to heart with God (cos one of these prophets told me i would regret it if i leave him hmmmm)i told my God that he(mr umeadi s.)would also regret not having me too cos he just lost a gem if that be the case cos i just couldnt deal anymore,i know he has an ex that lingers and he couldnt marry her cos shes AS,but he still couldnt concentrate on hes relationship,even couldnt delete her pictures on hes phone its that bad i didnt snoop but he showed me himself,as an illiterate he never understood the consequences of some actions mschhewww....
My dear @poster2 am a no nonsense person and i really hate B.s in my life on the 1st of jan. I barred hes calls from coming through thats if he ever remembers to call,i blocked d fool nd reported him on watsapp,deleted hes nos ,pictures,messages and every memory of him on my phone.
Babe u need to go hardcore on that guy.tell him to fuck off now or regret it,he has someone else and he doesnt love you.
Poster one. I have a feeling you are giving up easily. If you both are really children of God, you will hold on, hold onto God's words, hold onto his promises. Please don't give up because victory is yours.
ReplyDeletePoster two, when your guy starts reducing communication, it is definitely a sign that something is going on. Based on my own experiences, it happened to me. When this happens, it is time for you to start drawing back as well so as not to get hurt. Love matter no be by force. I always screen my relationships. I use my heart but my head as well. Any small change that does not have a good enough reason, I am out of the door. My heart was broken once and I was not ready for it to be broken again. There is always a good man out there. That which is yours, you will know cause he won't hurt you!