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Thursday, February 04, 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

Well well well....na as e be i talk am!!!







NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
CONFUSED ABOUT WHO TO MARRY

Good day Stella,I've been on this blog for a while now and have really learnt a lot from Chronicles. Let me just go straight to the point
I have two guys in my life right now,let me categorize them as A and B.



I've known Mr A since 2012,he has been a good guy to me,would go the extra mile at times to satisfy me,he is not romantic,very matured in thinking and ways even though he is just months older than I am.


Sometime around last year he stopped calling and said its becos he feels shy whenever I ask for things and he can't provide cos he is broke.He went on like that for months before he came back begging when I told him I was no longer interested cos I found someone else.I would insult him,he would still keep begging and begging,he couldn't sleep for months and would call me up in the midnight and beg me but all this was months after I started dating Mr B...

Now Mr B is super caring and romantic,he is naughty and adventurous,he is everything I want in a man except that he acts so childish and immature at times ehn,he can be easily manipulated and would heed others advice instead of mine,I can even try to cope with all dis but the problem now is that
Prophecy started coming out from his side and my side that we are not compatible,in five different places(both Muslim and xtian pastors)but they said he will be financially OK than Mr A but he will be a flirt but Mr A will be rich and take good care of me and will be faithful.


Can anyone pls let me know if all this prophecies are worth heeding to? I love Mr B and we have become very popular amongst our families unlike Mr A...
Mr B has cheated on me over 3times but Mr A has been faithful since I knew him..
Stella if you can understand my situation please use our red pen



I can understand your situation..your heart says MR B but deep inside you says MR A .....As someone who has been there,seen and done it all,i would tell you to take MR A..in marriage you dont bring crase into it,you bring maturity and Solomons wisdom and dammit you need a man whose blokos can find a permanent home inside you.
I dont care what anybody else will say.....stick with MR A and you will have peace of mind...

Remember that marriage comes with its own drama and if you go into it with drama,OMG!
selah!


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NARRATIVE NMBER TWO
CAUGHT IN THE MIDDLE OF THE BRIDGE



Well done Stella for creating this amazing platform to trash out our problem. Please I need your advice and that of bvs on this my issue. 

I'm a girl of 28.i've been in few relationships which did not work out.for the past 3 years now,i havent been in any serious relationship which bothers me a lot because it makes me think i'm not beautiful enough.the truth is that i've come across guys that tickle my fancy and even tried having a relationship with them,but none worked.

Recently,i coincidentally met a guy,i thought i had met my match,only for the guy to start withdrawing.we've met once and i've been trying to figure out how to i'll invite him for a hang out without coming across as a desperado.The issue i'm having now is that the guy no dey send me sef.i used to call him once a week or ping him,and he responds very well.

......but recently he started withdrawing.he hardly pick his calls,even when i needed to ask him something,he wont pick.if he eventually picks,he'll start apologising that he doesnt have my number,that he changed his phone bla bla bla...well,it might be true or he's lying.
Anyways,my main problem right now is i find myself thinking about him all the time.i've gone as far as checking his instagram and fb pictures and no evidence of a relationship.i've deleted his whatsapp number so as not to have any chat with him and to avoid seeing a pic of any girl in his dp which will be a heartbreak.
Also,i want to unfriend him on fb to avoid seeing his posts.....i dont know if its advisable or to leave it so he'll be seeing my pictures when i will be doing much better.
Bikonu, how do I get his attention or should I forget him?
N/b-A childhood friend living abroad has been on my neck for marriage,but he's not my type @ all.His attitude is disgusting  at times .so,he's just there.

Dear Stella,I attached my pictures for only you......could it be my height,nose or am I not beautiful that those guys will just come around before you know it,they are gone.could it be attitude,cos I get a little bit excited when I see a potential boo.but again,if I form hard to get,they might equally take a walk.so I don't just know again o.


You are very small bodies,not too tall,Light skinned,nose like mine 8maybe worse) but you are BEAUTIFUL so i dont see a problem with any man wanting you except maybe your character stinks?

Work on if thats the case and remember that beauty or being or ugly has nothing to do with love.....when a man who wants to keep you finds you,my dear,he will keep you!
Work on your self confidence okay?

Kisses!

173 comments:

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    1. its becos he feels shy whenever I ask for things and he can't provide cos he is broke.
      Been there and its 1 of the main reasons am single sef.
      Its heart breaking when ur boo has needs and u cant cater and the worst is if toasters are throwin her needs at her...na die be that na.
      Well mr A shows his kinda a good person and moreover qho wants any form of drama?

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    2. Mrs korks u b d best correct adviser. This is not an end time advice.

      "I can understand your situation..your heart says MR B but deep inside you says MR A .....As someone who has been there,seen and done it all,i would tell you to take MR A..in marriage you dont bring crase into it,you bring maturity and Solomons wisdom and dammit you need a man whose blokos can find a permanent home inside you.
      I dont care what anybody else will say.....stick with MR A and you will have peace of mind...."




      Best comment ever from the stable of Mrs.... K 2d O 2d r 2d K 2d S. = korks
      Poster 1, if u get beta ear u beta listen to what d spirit of a prophetess is saying to u.
      Life no get duplicate oooo
      Don't b an end time gra gra decision maker.

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    3. Any time I see ..." Let's say them A AND B"
      I will be like.....* same old story*

      Don't be confuse follow your heart
      I can see you love mr A more than mrB
      Go to God in prayers
      All your questions will be answered
      @poster 1

      Poster 2
      No matter how ugly you look
      There is always a man for you
      If you think am lying ask ..................lol
      Beauty is in the heart

      I advice you forget that guy
      Focus your mind on something else and you will see men coming your way

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    4. If i hear one more person talk about useless prophesy...just oneeeeee moreeeeee uggggghh

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    5. poster 2. I wonder how u ladies actually pine over a man dat doesn't send u, I have always loved a man bcos of d way he loves me. once he starts behaving funny, my auto switch goes frm crazy in love to indifferent real quick. ppl say it's not normal but I've been able to avoid heartbreaks cos of dis. Pls leave d man, e no send u b4 e do u chop clean mouth, dats if he hasn't already. all d best.
      poster 1. waka waka no too gd o, all dese prophets u are consulting sef, u get joy at all so?. Gd luck

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    6. poster 2. I wonder how u ladies actually pine over a man dat doesn't send u, I have always loved a man bcos of d way he loves me. once he starts behaving funny, my auto switch goes frm crazy in love to indifferent real quick. ppl say it's not normal but I've been able to avoid heartbreaks cos of dis. Pls leave d man, e no send u b4 e do u chop clean mouth, dats if he hasn't already. all d best.
      poster 1. waka waka no too gd o, all dese prophets u are consulting sef, u get joy at all so?. Gd luck

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    7. Poster1 there are men dat our flesh attracts and we have some dat our destiny attracts...God has been kind enough to show u all d wrong signal in mrB and ur flesh still dey push u..My dear pls marry mr B make chronicles folder no empty u hear.Women and their emotions shaa.I have never seen ppl dat lie to themselves like women

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  2. Dicide for her and fix it for her Jesus

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    1. Poster 1- stick with Mr. A. I feel he will make it. For him to feel bad for not being Able to provide for you means he has a good heart. Please leave Mr. B and STDs alone. It's not about today only, how about tmr? I take God bed you

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  3. Just Negodu!



    ******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS******

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    1. Poster1, marry Mr A.
      Poster2, work on ur low self esteem, and forget amu for now.

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    2. What is amu???.... lol

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    3. What is amu???.... lol

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  4. I just don't like chronicles. Too many sad/mumu stories

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    1. Poster 1 and 2 mumu stories.

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    2. Lol @ too many sad and mumu story

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    3. Poster 1, marriage is deep oooo.m
      No particular formula to it working out except d love of God.
      Wat just got me worried for u is d plenty 'men of God and maybe men of god' u ve consulted on una heads.
      U neva c pple wey trusted man of God prophesy unite yet dey divorce for irreconcilable differences? Somtyms d differences may not even include 'cheating or unfaithfulness'.
      Hmmmmmm
      Pray ur way thru seeking God's wisdom. Wen u see d light, follow. Wen u c d truth, u'd b at peace.
      My watch word to marry was PEACE. Employ it dear. If no peace, take a bow.
      My aunt says: "Only 2% of men r faithful and wat makes u so sure dt ur man is inside that 2%'? Save and Except he is in God.
      Wat matters to me is having a man wit Conscience.
      Riches wither like uncared rose.
      I term som1 wealthy wen d riches ve sustained time.
      Marriage talk on selecting right partner no be here.
      Let me rest dis case.

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  5. It was so inspiring to see the "snake girl" hissing and spitting yesterday. She came under my comment and even comments that aren't mine and spat venom everywhere. Went under multiple anonymous and hissed and spat more voluminous venom. Thanks for your inspiration. But you know what, he has given us authority to trample upon serpents and scorpions and overcome ALL the powers of the enemy and nothing shall by any means harm us!

    Let it be on record that I did not insult you. If you did not present yourself as a "Christian"; albeit a synagogue one, if you were not chanting "daddy in the Lord" on every post, I wouldn't have bothered, just like I did not bother so many others who propagate weird views. Yours have crossed the bounds of weirdness, it has gotten to apostasy, blatant blasphemy and unhinged, volatile and intractable hypocrisy and deceitfulness. Jesus never told any sinner "woe", he rather told them "go and sin no more", "surely you will be with me today in paradise" etc.. But to the hypocritical,(pharisaic) Pharisees and scribes, hear what he told them . . .

    Matthew 23:13 "Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You shut the door of the kingdom of heaven in people's faces. You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying to.

    Yes, you are shutting the doors of heaven for so many young impressionable girls here by telling them to:

    1. (telling) women to have "sugar sons for pleasure"
    2. Divorce their husbands or dump their fiance if he is "poor" or "not rich",
    3. visit mediums, get pigeons and fling to trap a man,
    4. tells girls and women to abort any baby they do not want or if the baby daddy is "poor"
    5. advises girls and married women to get a female sex partner to lick vaginas
    6. "Visits "Jazz man" (i.e. witches, mediums, babalawo, etc.)
    7. keep the bible and church aside and make people mad!
    8. verbally attacks anyone that advises a lady not to do any of the above
    9. Does all these with a cloak of synagogue religiosity.

    If any of the above is untrue or a lie about your comments on this blog, point at the number!

    Know your next move; you will soon tell beloved Stella not to enable my comments again. Because out of pride, you arrogate the status of being "the one that hire and fire on this blog". All the while you have been propagating these "doctrines of Satan"; doctrines of Balaam, nobody have ever risen on this blog to ask that your comments be disabled. It is a free speech world but not a hypocritical world; yes, even satanist do not tolerate hypocrisy, you either belong to them or you don't. You either belong to light or darkness.

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    1. Gifted Hands, is that you?
      * runs away *

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    2. Hehehehe...I like d way u're taking ds serious...Stella is doing a good job and it will be unfair if d younger ones here take seriously d above mentioned advices

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    3. No vex anon 15:01. Some ppl can b so demonic eehn.
      Yeye dey rotten sombori!

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    4. You mean you wrote this for one person?
      Men!!!! You gat time

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    5. Beautiful write up ! Linda witch of this blog . Come and answer ur surname o ... Where do u belong? Light or darkness??

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    6. Anon,this is a faceless forum,everybody came here to catch fun.

      It's okay

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    7. Thk u for addressing dat idiot. some will never say d truth cos dey fear her whether dem write "beware of dog" for her forehead I never know but thk God someone is coming out to point out her double standards. talking wiv her forked snake tongue, dats why she contradicts herself and talks her master d devil dat also pretends to be an angel of light to deceive ppl.

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    8. Thk u for addressing dat idiot. some will never say d truth cos dey fear her whether dem write "beware of dog" for her forehead I never know but thk God someone is coming out to point out her double standards. talking wiv her forked snake tongue, dats why she contradicts herself and talks like her master d devil dat also pretends to be an angel of light to deceive ppl.

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    9. To whom it may concern...take note o. To those who always rushes down or up to read her comments...take note

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    10. Ok now! Sweetie, don't you think you're taking this too far? Unless you are new on this blog, you should know we have some naughty characters here. Some of Linda's comments may be offensive and downright ridiculous because that's what they are all about HILARITY! Laughable suggestions that only a disturb or excessively desperate reader will take seriously.

      ‎ So what would you do if you had met another colourful character who goes by the moniker "M-amie"? ‎Burst a major artery from high blood pressure induced by irritation and anger? Sweetie, please learn to loosen up and ignore comments you find offensive especially if they aren't directed at you. We all have different pallets but we must learn to accommodate one another. What you call offensive may be refreshingly honest to another and hilarious to yet another. If it's a direct attack, that's understandable.

      Isn't it rich of you to pontificate, quoting scriptures with so much disdain while you accuse some of hypocrisy? Honey, perhaps you should save Bible verses for much later when your temper cools down. If Linda is such an agent of darkness, wouldn't a more productive tactics  be to pray for her and counsel her in love? Personally, I think you are going too far with this and you are making Christianity so unattractive.‎

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    11. You actually took your time to type this epistle to a woman who is just having fun on a blog? You should have saved your energy for something more meaningful really.Madam righteousness you just need to chill the fuck out and breathe honey, just breathe.

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    12. Shut ur end time mouth sassy. R u linda?

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    13. @ Ronalda, does Stella ignore offensive comments?
      Don't be an end time bv.

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    14. @ Ronalda u r not making sense at all.
      Christianity unattractive? If don't know what 2 say......bac seats pls.
      End time mumu!

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    15. Be like me. Ignore them. And create a profile name from their insults. That way they will shut up. Many people here are frustrating but if you have real life dreams and challenges you won't let it get to you. Kapish?

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    16. Ronalda d ass kisser, who send u msg? All in a bid to famz linda so she can be on ur side u ended up sounding like a fool wiv ur epistle. Nah am not d poster. Famzer oshi

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  6. Poster 1 Mr A and B is this and that, I wonder what you bring to the table.
    Don't get down on your knees and pray instead of chasing prophecies all over the place.

    Poster 2 if you don't like yourself who would? There is someone for everyone.
    Even disable people get married, how much more you.
    Focus on the things that matter and enrich you.
    Having a man shouldn't be your own standard/ambition, a good man will come when you least expect it.
    Get something doing while you wait.

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    1. Please forgive poster 1
      Lol

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    2. What do you mean by 'even disabled people'? Aren't they human beings? Please stop making such comments, sounds derogatory. Next time use other terms. Thank you

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  7. Poster one are you sure u want to live with a childish man who won't listen to advice from you and puts others opinion first before yours???

    Poster two forget that guy. He's not into you so he's using attitude to discharge you. Pls move on. It might be hard but always remind yourself that you deserve a good man who cares for you and dsnt act like you're disturbing him. The right man will come your way. If you continue pushing yourself on this guy he will end up using and dumping you

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  8. Poster 1,marry me a.

    Poster 2,ignore the guy biko.
    Face that your childhood friend based abroad cos age is no longer on your side.

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    1. Telemas advise is on point.. ...try and build something with the guy abroad.

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    2. But she said she no like the abroad dude. So una wan make she write another chronicle after marriage , arh arh naa guys

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  9. Poster 2.. let him go. U will surely find someone who will love u unconditionally.
    Poster 1... Mr A.

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  10. Poster 1,
    Mr A is doing all those lovey dovey because he has nothing to offer!...
    You know a good man when he is rich!...
    I would advise you go for Mr B!!...
    Yes most men cheat!!..and that your Mr A will still cheat when he starts making some money...infact,his would be worse sef!...

    Poster 2,
    You are a whore!...A cheap one at that...
    See how you are begging a man to date you...you no get shame!...
    Tufia!...
    Abeg move on joor and look for a bigger fish!...

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    1. Linda my sugar pie

      You never disappoint

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    2. I love this woman. I maybe new on this blog. But i can detect a sincere heart when I see one.

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  11. Poster one..u get problem. Na me go help u choose? Both men have problems u come be saint? Keep looking, don't choose yet. Don't listen to me, I'm arahere.

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  12. No be chronicle be this,so boring.poster 1 and 2, should I say una never know wetin una want

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  13. Poster 1; Pls Stop Patronizing Woli Agba, Follow Ur Heart, Put God First, Poster 2; Free D Dude He Might Be Gay, Get Busy Wit Work, And Pray

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  14. Poster one, must you gather prophesies to marry? Why not seek God yourself.

    Be mindful of those who will tell you to "marry him because they said he is rich".

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    1. Poster 1 you need Jesus
      Poster 2 You need Jesus

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    2. Poster 1, I hardly comment on chronicles but even b4 u got to prophesies bit, my heart already chose A for you. I'm always the first to preach don't marry a broke man, but take it from Me, Mr A is a better husband material that will love cherish and treat you right. Mr B na for show, typical characteristics of a play boy and that's why he appeals to you, we girls prefer men like that but they are not the best for us. Biko marry Mr A, will be here waiting for invite. All the best sweetie.

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    3. @ Inabeto may God in His infinite mercies grant u all u need in life....I really appreciate this.tnk u

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  15. Poster 2:

    face God

    face ur career

    read books dt wud boost ur esteem
    work on bringing out d best in ursef, potential will locate wen u least expect.


    Sustaining a gud r/ship no b by physical appearance. Be wise

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    1. Poster 1 you need Jesus
      Poster 2 You need Jesus

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    2. Poster 1...Stella has and you, good advice...Poster 2...physical beauty does not keep a relationship,if you are in doubt ask Tara Fela Durotoye. Even one of my brother's wifey is not a beauty Queen yet he adores her...too many examples...so let your character shine through!!!

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  16. Poster two free d guy abeg. Be like u no be eye candy.

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    1. Poster 1 you need Jesus
      Poster 2 You need Jesus

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  17. Chronicles! Chronicles!! Chronicles!! Oya, let's read and assist with our own 2cents.

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  18. @Poster 1, MR B is out of it, someone who cherish other people's opinion than yours, and he behaves immature. MR A on the other hand, when you're close to him, teach him how to be free with you and he be romantic, he will soon loose up and won't be shy being with you. Above all, pray on your own and don't depend much on your Pastors and Alfas for your everlasting happiness.


    @Poster 2, take desperation out of your life, build your self esteem and above all, love your self, then, you will find a man Who will appreciate you and never leave you.




    *Larry was here*

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  19. I don't understand why a lady in her late twenties will address herself as "girl"?

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  20. Poster 1: are u mad? Take Mr A.


    Poster 2: the man is not yours. Forget about him. Yours will come and will not withdraw

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  21. Poster 2 stop eyeing fine boys,
    Even fine girls find it hard to keep their attention,
    You are too invested in looks,
    Haven't you seen girls you are finer than happily married or dating?
    Appreciate your looks 1st and see yourself as fine then it will help your confidence level.
    Poster 2, I don't care about prophet said any trash
    You yourself confirmed that Mr B aka everything you want has cheated on you more than 3 times(to your knowledge) and am sure you told Mr prophet this little detail hence the "prophesy"
    Look,there's nothing like a man that loves you and shows it in every possible way.
    The little things count n you ll appreciate it on the long run so I think Mr A is better

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  22. Chronicle is here, poster 1: follow ur heart, A is acting nice cause he is a broke niggar and would eventually turns to B wen is financially okay.

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  23. Poster 2

    Don't be a desperado
    He is definitely in a relationship, the Lilian esoro type that don't bring their love lives to d media, delete his number from your phone, unfriend him on Facebook, and unfollow him on Instagram.

    When he finally calls u after 2 weeks tell him your Facebook was hacked n u lost most friends. That's the best way to get over obsession. Ull feel relieved. Party more now dear, decent rich parties. Ull meet d 1 soon.

    Do not let desperation make u settle for d America wonder o.

    Poster 1 go for MR A. Ull teach him romance. Stop looking for fully baked bad boys

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    1. That your advice to poster 1 is Bvn advice

      Lol

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    1. How e wan take finish?
      When valentine is knocking on their door

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  25. Lol, Stellawi self. you need a man whose blokos can find permanent home inside you.Hohoho. walahi you are badt. Lmao. * wipes tear*



    * Ayah Shehu *

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  26. A guy that is "out there" that cheats, flirts,immature with no mind of his own is who you are considering for marriage? It's like you don't like peace of mind? You better accept Mr A before a wiser girl grabs him. Mr B is not even boyfriend material not to talk of husband material...but if you so wish, marry Mr B but unless you don't love him your marriage no go sweet...his immaturity & indecisiveness will mean that every sister, aunty,uncle, friend, colleague etc will have a say in every decision affecting you in your house,his wandering prick won't give you rest of mind & his naughty ways will mature into something unexplainable...ka chineke mezie okwu

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  27. Poster1. ..too much waka from one place to another has made you confused.

    Poster2. .. Hian. Pray against rejection. Pray for favour upon you.

    XOXO MYSTERY

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    1. Poster 1, you are not ready for marriage.You want to marry a cheat? If he cheats before marriage, multiply that by 100 and that's what you'll get in marriage. Find out what is morexpected important to you in marriage: Money or Peace of mind. The prophecies didn't say A will be poor right? Be guided.

      Lmao @Stella. We already have an idea of what Poster 2 looks like. That said, poster you need to check yourself. Is there something about you that turns men off? Personal hygiene or something else? Trust me, looks don't matter, although it may be a plus, but overall, it does not. Deleting him will make no difference if he doesn't care about you. Make an effort not to call or text or check his Facebook page. Btw, are you below 23? Cos this might be infatuation, I may be wrong tho.

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  28. Poster 2,waka waka.y all this pprophecy waka,that's y U are confused.besides U don't know a good thing if U se it,so U prefer a cheat to a decent man.when U reset ur brain I will advice U.

    Poster 2.do U have body odor or mouth. Cause from your write up the guy was good until he met you. ( but even dirty girls have boos).then it's ur attitude. If it's none then pls stop dreaming of a guy that does not like U.have some self respect. Value urself and Mr right would come

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  29. Abeg i tire for man woman matter.

    Poster 1... you never add babalawo inside now. why you stop at Imam and Pastors. Na wa for you. CONFUSIONIST that is what i will call you.

    Poster 2... I no read your matter. will look into it by next week and give you the answer

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  30. Poster 1: u r a such an annoying twerp. so all d prophecies given to u by 5 muslim and christian pastors neva do u, na d one wey d endtime prophets on ds blog go give u na im u go heed to? Okwaya! Btw Wot happens to talking to God ursef if u r still in doubt. Mschew tmoro now u will send in anoda chronicle of how Mr B romantically infected u wt stds n may Hiv. *smh* Recieve sense u longer throat greedy muntula.

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  31. Poster 1
    Keep going upandan for prayers,u hear?
    From the narrative up there, any sane person would tell u to go 4 Mr A, the decision is yours to make at the end of the day.

    Poster 2
    You come across to me as someone with low self esteem and I guess it so so radiates that anyone could sense that from afar, work on yourself!

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  32. Poster 1, Mr B is not for keeps at all. You just love the fact that he is spontaneous and adventurous. His type is for fun and fun only. Mr A is the ideal guy for a husband. Go for him now before another correct girl takes his heart and you start crying to us. #Enoughsaid#

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  33. 1- Marriage is not boy-friend-girlfriend stuff. It needs lots of maturity, tolerance, patience, perseverance,commitment, love and lots more. Do you wanna start laying your marriage foundation on 'CHEAT' which won't stop but increase, so my dear, if you want to be happy go for the one that accepts your flaws. Don't forget to pray for God's guidance and don't let anyone choose for you.

    2. Go for deliverance, humble yourself, tell God what you want and put Him first. Forget that guy, your own will definitely come.

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  34. P1... If you are really confuse n does'nt wanna let either of em go, mawi the both of em. He's cheated on you 3 times, he's immature yet you really do love him. Young lady, you are there for the money, if you continue that way, you might end up sending chronicles for the rest of your marital life with him.

    If you ask me, I'll say MR A. But If you dun like him Cus he's broke or something, you can as well check/wait for a 3rd person.

    P2, Every woman is beautiful, dun think it's because of ya look. Check your character or probably you Ve'nt met the right one yet.

    God Bless Us!

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  35. Here we are again, relationship bruhaha, need to soak some garri carefree about fucking lassa..

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  36. P1 I hate ABC for chronicles, we go school na ABC, XYZ, we come social media again na same thing, wetin.

    P2 he didn't find u attractive enough to date or marry. He doesn't wana play games with ur heart, biko let him be.

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  37. Stella did you just say to poster 1, that she needs a man whose blokos can find a permanent home inside her? Lol..
    That's thunderbolt magun things oo!! My hand no dey!

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  38. U guys already know what to do.

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  39. don't you people have any other thing going on in your lives apart from man issue? na wa o

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  40. @poster 1 it depends on your age and what you want. If you are in your early twenties and not looking for anything serious, go for Mr B. But if you are looking to get married soon, Mr A is the better option. @poster 2 calm down. Your pepperbody is too much.

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  41. No 1 follow your heart but pls make sure you marry a mature and understanding man biko.

    No. 2 stop showing guys you are desperate, d guy knows you like him wit d way you are calling and pinging him all d time. pls get busy and blank d dude, be focus. who told you that is cos you are not beautiful? wen your real man appears to you no excess. ladies stop selling your self cheap to guys, read this book think like a lady, act like a man. don't let any man rubbish you and stop seeking for their attention. good luck in finding love.

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  42. Poster2 you are very funny! What if Stella had told you that you are ugly? Would you have hanged yourself? You don't need someone to tell you that you are beautiful before you feel that way. Learn to love yourself by yourself, if not, people will not appreciate you for who you are, and you will keep trying to fit into other people's stereotypes. The guy u seem to be salivating after does not want you. Forget him. Forget about his opinion of you. Focus on becoming a better person. You are not beautiful until you decide that you are.

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  43. Poster 1, Mr. A is the kind of man you should stick with for marriage. Mr. B is a series of heartbreaks waiting to happen.

    Poster 2, when a man wants you, he will pursue you. Even when he loses your number, he will work hard to get it. Work on your self-esteem because questioning if your beautiful shows that you are not confident enough. The way you see yourself is the way others will see you. Blessings

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  44. poster one : just take mr A marry him and be pra

    ying for him , things wl be better for him

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  45. If u r nt truly ugly, y didn't you allow us to see u? Stella don see plenty ugly faces oops! Beautiful faces.

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  46. Poster One: End time confusion

    Poster Two: End time Nose

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  47. So, there's this man, married with 4 daughters who has been on my neck for months now.
    "What does he want"? You ask....
    Dude wants us to go into a relationship! I am married and my daughter is barely 4 months old. He knows all this but still wants to chook his head.
    This week, I have received nothing less than 8 calls from him asking that I come over to Abuja from Port Harcourt for the weekend. Making small talks like making a reservation for 2 nights @ Nicon Hotels and all sorts of thrash. True, This ancestor of mine is a multi millionaire, He has the cash to spend but come on!!!! What is happening to the men of this generation?
    You chase your first daughter age mate, e no do you.
    You chase your secretary, e no still do you.
    Now you want to face a married woman???

    Smh.
    Now I understand why some men are called He-goats

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      For real?

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    2. Kikikikikikiki

      For real?

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    3. If u gree ehn.. ur future will be wrecked. No go ooo

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  48. Poster 1: Ashewo ni e. You just wanna fuck ba? You go tire. It takes more than gizz-gizz to sustain a marriage o. Hian
    Poster 2: Receive sense abeg. Marriage is too serious to beg a man to look at you o. The journey is too far. If you beg now, will you beg him to plant your firstborn? Pay rent? Shine your congo?

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  49. Poster one u don't have problem go with Mr A.

    Poster 2 the right man when he comes won't even see ur big nose or small frame. He is going to love u for all of those things.

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  50. Chro chro
    Poster 1....Mr A
    Poster 2....stop calling and checking on the guy and go out often where people can see you and toast. Always wear a smile and exude a positive attitude and spirit. Good luck

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  51. Lemme read and digest these two chronicles,would be back for advice. Stella stop storing my comments Biko

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  52. Poster 1: I didnt know there are Muslim Pastors too,Nne u can waka eh. Poster 2: You sound clingy. Most guys I know never set out to take any woman seriously. Cos they are all scared of commitment. So when yoy meet them,they can sense "clingy" from afar and it scares them so they start to avoid you. Let a man chase you. Let him be the 1 to call to wanna hang out. When girls start taking the lead,guys get scared that they are clingy and will be trapped. Work on your self esteem. If you dont like your nose,contour the heck outta it! Stop forming #teamnatural #teamnomakeup. If you feel you are short,by all means wear heels! Strut like the queen you are. In reality,how many Nigerian men are cute? 70% are basic. So y feel ugly?

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  53. Poster 2 I have been in your shoes oh. That thing can pain ehn..
    What to do: ask if he has a girlfriend. Time dey go oh. Get the whole thing out of the way if you have no chance with him. There's someone out there who's better than him I promise. If he says no, tell him you like him. You wee nor die. If he gives you a negative answer biko block all the blockables. Wasapp, everything. Block him abeg. Nonsense. Lol.

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  54. mtcheew@both Chronicles

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  55. poster one, Madam Stella has said exactly what I would have advised you lol.

    Poster two, Just go for deliverance or wait for the real man to come your way. Stop hoping to meet your future in a particular place jor.... try and explore.

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  56. Poster1, Mr. A is d right guy and pls follow stella advice.

    Poster2, stop calling that guy. A man that truly loves you will leave whatever he is doing just to make sure he hears from you and know what u are upto.

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  57. Poster 1..how long are you gonna babysit a grown ass man?abeg stick with mr A
    Poster 2-if a man aint showing interest in you,then you back down for sometime..if he misses and want ya back..he will find a way..
    I know been single can sometimes be boring but you have to take a chill pill..ok. Its well

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  58. Poster 1..how long are you gonna babysit a grown ass man?abeg stick with mr A
    Poster 2-if a man aint showing interest in you,then you back down for sometime..if he misses and want ya back..he will find a way..
    I know been single can sometimes be boring but you have to take a chill pill..ok. Its well

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  59. 1st chronicle, I'd stick with? Mr.A if I we're to be you.. 2nd chronicle, ermmm I would advice to love urself first..feel on top of the world..hv the mindset that every woman is beautiful in their own skin..."beauty queens" ain't got nothing on U attitude, and you'd be just fine.. whenever I looked at my 1st date pic with now hubbyKikikiki from 5yrs ago.. I go "OMG girl you was looking really bad with my acne n blemishes" kikikiki! Guess what? Beauty is skin deep..what a man that truly loves U comes across U, he'd looked beyond ur imperfections... you gatta love thyself first young lady..I hope U heed to me advice...

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  60. Poster 1: if am the one go for Mr. A, a rest of mind is far better than riches.
    Poster 2: try to love yourself first, then love will locate you.

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  61. Post 1 follow stell's advice
    Post 2 pls forget d guy, he doesn't like u

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  62. Poster one, you are seeing all reasons not to be with any of them you are still asking us?? Have men finished??? Move on if you know you don't love any of them.

    Poster two, you need to start loving yourself, develop yourself...then you can now talk about having a boyfriend or so.

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  63. Stupod chronicles!! Poster 1,I was reading your story and was already thinking of how best to advice you until I got to the part you talke about Prophesy bla bla bla.I hate guliible people with serious passion.What nonsense prophecy? Can't you talk to God yourself? Don't give yourself brain,keep letting pastors and imams deceive you,Ewu.
    Poster 2,your self esteem is in the gutter.See the questions you're asking.And you say you're 28?Passing six no be passing sense sha.You better work on your self confidence and esteem.Love yourself enough to be able to enjoy your singlehood.Stop being a desperado>Women always having men isssues.I don tire jare.Everyday,same stories told in different ways by different people.Y'all are just like Nollywood repeating same storyline,just different cast and crew.Y'all be gone already please.

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  64. Poster1,forget all those prophet of doom go for who your heart desire. Who told when the poor nigger becomes rich that he can't cheat on you? And what made you fink Mr. B can never change for good? Just go for what your heart desire
    Poster2: in whose report shall u believe? That of God that says you're fearfully and wonderfully made or in that of looks? Lemme tell u something, beauty is from within if u don't think it,its won't radiate for people to see. Why not start by changing your perception about yourself,begin to think like a QUEEN and act like a princess. Dress well bcos packing matter, carry yourself with high level of confidence and respect. Yes,respect whom u see in the mirror everyday. Take yourself out whenever u want to. Use good cream and eat good food,bcos grooming matters alot.finally,pray and fast,asked God for your own missing rib. Hope am able to help. Shallom.

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  65. Nehii nehii... namaste... Chronicles...
    @Poster 1, Please choose Mr A.... Learn from what happened to me on Zee World...
    @Poster 2, you are too desperate, relax... All these things don't happen here in Mumbai, India... Nigerians, e get as una be oo... yeh vada raha!! Opps!! I just spoke Pidgin Hindi... Its me Saloni...

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  66. Shuuu, so you expect Stella to tell you you're ugly?

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  67. Stella this ur description of poster 2 na wa! Lolz

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  68. Poster 1 you need Jesus
    Poster 2 You need Jesus

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  69. Poster 2: Kenny is that you? Your problem is just attention, you want too much attention! If i dont work hard for money now, you will still kuku leave to find another guy that is rich. I wonder why you feel like this, its not like we have had sex. We have not had sex so why are you acting like this is a breakup! I can't string anyone along on my pursuit of happiness, if i get what i want and you are still available...good!

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    2. Don't worry you big head ... That girl up there is not Kenny

      So if you're are working hard to make. Money you won't call your gf?..... when she finally call ...... You will tell her I misplaced my phone I don't have your number

      Gerarahere men!!!

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  70. Poster 2: attitude is the key in any relationship. Work on yourself

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  71. Poster : Accept Mr A

    Poster2: Work on your character MUST READ

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  72. Funny stella,hahaha y not com out straight & tell us dt 2nd poster is ugly & u r beating abt d bush.Although dt fairness don giv her an edge 2 uyayi but Is she Yoruba or? Poster 1,Marry A or wait 4 mr C. B is nt huby material na boyfrnd material or mugu material . Poster 2,pls build ur confidence & do shakara.Let me tell u somtin oh,na Ugly babes do shakara pass oh.One 4 my estate wey ugly no dey gree say mmiri oku n'egbu mbe.let ur shakara & dressing bring d type of man u want since ur physical appearance can't .I am outaa here catch me if u can.

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  73. Naija pple sekem!!! Open ur leg.. one hand on ur waist one hand on ur chest oya sekem sekem!!

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  74. Poster1He don cheat on u 3 times already abeg follow Mr A.....poster2 if a man wants to reach u he will look for your number inside hole sef, phone lost nor b excuse, he for reachout to you for fb if he serious. Nor worry the right guy will come.

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  75. Funny stella,hahaha y not com out straight & tell us dt 2nd poster is ugly & u r beating abt d bush.Although dt fairness don giv her an edge 2 uyayi but Is she Yoruba or? Poster 1,Marry A or wait 4 mr C. B is nt huby material na boyfrnd material or mugu material . Poster 2,pls build ur confidence & do shakara.Let me tell u somtin oh,na Ugly babes do shakara pass oh.One 4 my estate wey ugly no dey gree say mmiri oku n'egbu mbe.let ur shakara & dressing bring d type of man u want since ur physical appearance can't .I am outaa here catch me if u can.

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  76. Narr 1.
    I have come to realise that in life generally, money is not everything if you doubt it go and ask Ms Dabota Lawson. 
    I have come to understand life much more deeper that it is better to endure on a Keke maruwa than cry on a 2017 Range. 
    All we ladies need is love. Happiness and respect irrespective of the monetary value cos it will surely come someday. Nobody is born poor. God did not create us poor. These are the focal point in marriage.  
     
    You can soak garri with Mr A and still be happy knowing things will turn around for good for him tomorrow. But a man with a wondering dick, coupled with immaturity? Forget it.. 
    I will advice you stick to Mr A who cherish and adore you, EXCEPT if you know he's lazy that he can't hustle. 
    Forget Mr B for now.

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  77. Poster 1. Im in the same shoe as u. My A, B and C are good. The slight difference is that different pastors are saying different things. The prophecy thing saved me from a bad previous relationship.Altho i had felt that i was with the wrong man even before his real character manifested. This guy initially was a saint and trust girls and envy, all my friends started envying me. But somehow, i knew i wanted to be like my friends who didnt hv rich bfs like my ex but they were truly happy.I couldnt tell any of them that i had lost my self esteem with my ex. If u hear insults wey d guy dey pour on me, u go fear. At d end of d day i made up my mind to leave. Some prophecies were saying dont walk, others were saying run! It was not easy as d guy sabi beg for forgiveness and after forgiving him, he wud say bitter things again. I just travelled to south africa to clear my head before knowing what step to take.. By d tym i came back, he had moved on. What am i saying, do your own prayers and be calm in your spirit, God will drop something into your spirit. Presently, with my current A,B and C now,my dear im treading carefully. Different prophecies hv come again but i just knw deep down within who best suits me..im still doing my prayers, i'd like for u to do yours too. All d best. On a lighter note, if any of dem is yoruba pls pick him o, cos my yoruba brothers rock!( just teasing but na true sha)

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  78. Stella i suppose to be the first commenter here today but i don't know if you select comments, anyway! Let me come again... Poster 1.. I prefer a man who loves me more i do nd ready to die for me than the one i will be begging nd apologizing to even when he knows that he offended me.. Some men are like that... Nd according to the way i sees you, that is exactly what you want.. If you fulishly go for Mr B... We all will be glad to read your part 2 chronicle... Coconut head.

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  79. I tremble and shudder! See Linda Eze calling poster 2 a "whore". Hahahahhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. Really? To call you a "Whore" is to dishonor prostitutes who "work very hard" to earn money; yes filthy money it may be. Whores aren't married and cheat on their spouses "for fun"; no they are making monies and cheating only against God and their bodies.
    But most prostitutes do not claim to be Christians. Prostitutes do not "have sugar sons for pleasure", they are not married with kids; are they? No they are not married with kids and liking pussies; are they? Most "whores are not foul mouthed and proud". NO, they don't shit through their mouths. Common, no one should dishonor "whores" by calling you one!

    Oh "good men have money"? Yes, arm robbers have money. Drug pushers have money; are you richer than El Chapo? Some drug barons have even asked to settle their countries debts running into billions of dollars so as to be left off the hook. Ritualists have money.

    Proverbs 30:20 "This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth and says, 'I've done nothing wrong.'

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  80. I tremble and shudder! See Linda Eze calling poster 2 a "whore". Hahahahhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. Really? To call you a "Whore" is to dishonor prostitutes who "work very hard" to earn money; yes filthy money it may be. Whores aren't married and cheat on their spouses "for fun"; no they are making monies and cheating only against God and their bodies.
    But most prostitutes do not claim to be Christians. Prostitutes do not "have sugar sons for pleasure", they are not married with kids; are they? No they are not married with kids and liking pussies; are they? Most "whores are not foul mouthed and proud". NO, they don't shit through their mouths. Common, no one should dishonor "whores" by calling you one!

    Proverbs 30:20 "This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth and says, 'I've done nothing wrong.

    Oh "good men have money"? Yes, arm robbers have money. Drug pushers have money; are you richer than El Chapo? Some drug barons have even asked to settle their countries debts running into billions of dollars so as to be left off the hook. Ritualists have money.

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    1. Omo we need to deliver you like seriously ,who made you judge ,na linda matter you carry for head like gala ,you will be surprise linda will make heaven you wont ,judgemental church goers every where,Jesus came to the world to save the sinners not self claim righteous people like you .i love linda ,and we love her so .

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  81. Wow! The married one that cheats for pleasure says that poster 2 is a whore?

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  82. Your star has been exchanged take it or leave it.  
    You need a strong man of God to break you off from that circle of relationship disfavour etc.
    No matter how ugly a girl is, there's still something guys see that will  tickle their fantasy and not the Other way round.
    It could be her skin, smile, the way she talks, her walk, etc. 
    Go and see a strong man of God I don't mean some of this hip hop pastors we have around.
    Well, I won't tell you the church to go, ask the Holy Spirit to direct you.

    If you have bad character, work on that also with prayer. 

    And stop acting desperate over guys.

    It is well with you.. 

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  83. When night opened chronicles and saw poster1 I was depressed couldn't even read thru..honestly i am getting fed up of all this chronicles of MrA MrZ if u are confused about who is right for you please what do you know???!!! Stella pls ees ok plix!! Not like they take the advice anyways they will still do what's on their mind.

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  84. Na man matter be una problems abi? E be like say una don chop belle full.

    Poster 2. At 28 years of age, you reason like a dunce.

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  85. Poster 2; you sound like a very nice babe.. I've been in your shoes before.. walk away.. forget about the guy, one day you'll look back and laugh.. you deserve better.. don't let any man make you loose confidence in yourself

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  86. TELEMA and poster A are both fools.. Misplaced runz girl. Useless bitches forming smart.

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  87. Queen and Boss of the blog and poster A are both fools.. Misplaced runz girl. Useless bitches forming smart. I believe your husband missed road to marry you Queen and boss. Wake up and stop giving out pussy to your sugar sons for pleasure. They will only release and go. While your hubby swim in your expanded well pussy. I like you because you are YOU. But don't be stupid like the MUMU pretending form form LA'Fresh with no level.

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  88. @Ronalda, perhaps you would have told Jesus not to tell the Pharisees "woe to you". There is a difference between sin and wickedness/hypocrisy. Look at this:

    2 Tim. 3: 16All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, REBUKING, correcting and training in righteousness, 17so that the servant of Goda may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.

    John 8:44 You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father's desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies.

    Remember that in the first verses of John 8, Jesus actually told the woman caught in adultery to "go and sin no more". But when he encountered those who hide under the name of God and "daddy in the Lord" (we are Abraham's children) to propagate murder, lies and hypocrisy, he addressed them squarely. Why not pick out from number 1 to 9 and say, "this one is not truly what she says here". Christians or not; Truth remains truth, and does not change.

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  89. Poster1 marry Mr A,
    poster2 go get "A lady, her lover n her Lord" by T D Jakes, read it, that 'll help u build ur self esteem

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  90. Poster two we both in d same age bracket sounds like u describing me.abi at 28 person no dey get boo n any one dats comes my way I always imagine marriage.

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  91. Poster1: u alone knows wch suitor suits u best, all u need do is watch,pray and think..... Poster2: *gbo nkan ti olorun da dara-dara ni*..... Develop ur self confidence.

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