Abortion?In this time and age?SH*T!!!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
MARRYING A MAN WITH A PREGNANT SIDE CHICK
Good day Stella. Abeg my friend needs your help Asap. She just called me this morning, saying her fiance got another girl pregnant in December, that he said it was a mistake and she needed my advise because she is thinking of leaving him but they had done introduction and her mom begged her to just forgive and marry the guy so she won't be put to shame in the village.
I then asked her if she loves him and believes it's a mistake, she said yes. Told her to pray about it and try to forgive him Because she said the fiancee said she should still marry him and take care of the other girls baby. I told her that's not possible because the other girl is not yet dead and would never agree to such, and even tho she agrees to such, she will still find a way to come between my friend and the fiancé.
I beg stella, I need your advise because she has said she Will call me back later to know what I think. I think she is in a serious dilemma because she has never called for something like this. She had to even travel far away from everybody to clear her head and still hasn't come to a decision . Please help, don't want to give a wrong advise . God bless you
If the tables are turned,would he still Marry her?...Anyway whats my own,i am off commenting this week.hisss!
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
BREAKING UP AFTER A FORCED ABORTION.
Good day Stella and my fellow bvs,
I never thought I'll ever send in my own chronicles, butt I really need your help on this issue .
I have been dating this guy for about 5months now and I recently found out I was pregnant,I told him about it and he said I should keep the baby.i refused to cos i felt he couldn't take care of me and the baby and i also taught of the disappointment and shame I'll bring to the family and after much pleading with him,he finally gave me the money to remove it,and I did.
After this abortion,he stopped talking to me and started calling me a killer.this guy in question is not even ready to settle down.my problem now is that I love him soo much and I want to go and see him against all odds.please fellow bvs,do you think its the right thing to do?Stella please I need your red ink in this matter mind you,I'm still a student in the university.
CLOSE THAT YOUR TOHTOH AND FACE YOUR STUDIES..Mscheeew.You are just lucky i am off commenting...WTF!!!
Just passing
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DeleteStella this modern age even if person decide to close tohtoh all this stupid guys go begin dey lash outside. Poster one plz don't advice your frd to leave the man cos love mata person no dey put mouth, is obvious your frd doesn't wana leave so make she stay carry her cross. Poster two ask for forgiveness from God and move on, leave the past behind and neva make such mistakes again. My 2cent.
DeleteHow people freely have sex without protection is one thing I cant understand. A man you are not maŕried to? I'm no saint oo, but risking ur life cos of 10mins pleasure is beyond me. Babe move on, if I were the guy I wont forgive you either.
DeleteMtchewww. Like you didnt know he wasnt ready before you opened ur totoh for raw kpenshing.
Poster one, first, it's you that needs advice and not your friend. It might not be easy but honestly let her not marry him cos that is wahala. After intro, he's still sleeping with another person, Mschew, if the tables were turned, he'll abandon you immediately. Better respect yourself to prevent sending in future Chronicles. Your mum is just being emotional, don't accept him.
DeletePoster two, he doesn't want again, move on.
Poster 2,already aborted in five months relationship. Nawaao. I wonder what will happen when the relationship is one year. Enough gbenshing
DeletePoster two.... Go down on ur kneels and ask for forgiveness from God. And to that so-called boyfriend of yours, he gave you money for d abortion and started calling you a killer. I laugh in Spanish. If God wants to punish, he ll punish him inclusive because he ended up aiding the abortion.
DeleteI won't ask you to close your legs because I came to realise that 90% of guys and ladies engage in premarital sex and take it as nothing. We all will give account of our life's on the last day. May God help us all.
Poster 1. I had that kind of scare close to my wedding. After all the begging and dobaleing and what not i didnt call it off. the girl in question was even sending me messages of how this and that happened. Omo i called her bluff o. Told her to go and born the baby now. Is she the first baby mama? Heaven will not collapse. If you love ur fiance my advice to you is to forgive. I know its hard o but u can take solace in the fact that ur not the only one in that kind of situation. Besides wen the mumune of an ashawo saw that i wasnt going anywhere, pregnancy now disappered o. Maybe she was never pregnant, maybe she removed it or maybe it wasnt even my husband who was responsible... not my business sha. With men especially the ones here, ur mind has to be strong o. Do not run away from your home for anybody. Make sure u drive him to a lab and go and do all the tests known to man before u resume bedroom duties. There are soo many challenges ull face in marriage. It wont always be this easy to run out. The choice is still up to u. If u feel its worth it u sit put, if not carry ur bag n waka with ur peace of mind. And pele u hear.
DeleteEndtime chronicles
DeleteNaina u and d person in poster 1's story, will continue to have exposure until u get HIV.
DeleteAnyone who is married or about to marry and still has unprotected Sex outside his woman is bound to bring something home.
Mokop?
Chronicles
ReplyDeleteThis is a doctor in the house! I just want to use this opportunity to open your eyes on the rate of HIV spread in Nigeria. Can you imagine the amount of people that have unprotected sex? Seriously,just from this blog alone. The only safe people now are prostitutes! Everyone is scared of them but they are the safest.
DeletePlease please close TOHTOH as Stella said or use protection. You cannot undoo HIV oooo, you cannot abort it, no cure!
Poster number one, better end that marriage. Anytime you have issues with your husband in the future,he will go back to his baby mama. It will put you under pressure to give birth and you might not conceive early because of the emotional stress!
Perfect reply from Mrs korks.
Delete"CLOSE THAT YOUR TOHTOH AND FACE YOUR STUDIES"
Poster, don't be an end time tohtoh opener. Haba show some respect to tht ur TT
P1, tell your friend NOT to marry him, forget about the shame, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. The baby mama will always be a topic between them, he will be going back for sex whenever she offends him or when pregnant or just because he can do it! To spite her, the babymama might have #2 and he will marry her secretly! Your friend will be the loser. Let him go and marry the pregnant girl.
DeleteAnon 16:39 seriously!!!! HIV has no cure yes, but it is not a death sentence anymore...go and update yourself abeg. These people can't tell me they don't know how HIV is spread but they choose to continue whatever it is they are doing so, what's your own??
DeleteThe merciful are not those who use word of mouth to forgive their neighbour. The merciful are those who have the juicy opportunity to exact revenge, but choose not to use it. Are you merciful, or you simply do not yet have the opportunity to revenge?
ReplyDeleteI have watched with keen interest the Hermes Berkin bag issue and I am amazed at the level of hatred people have for someone who has not stolen from them nor swindled them nor offended them in any way. I would be less amazed if such hatred could be directed to politicians and rich pastors.
Jealousy, anger, sorrow etc are all emotions that are supposedly natural. Nobody should be blamed for having these. What matters is how the individual manages these emotions. It is ok to be jealous, but when you act negatively as a result of that emotion, then that's not ok.
It is funny how people are advising linda ikeji not to show off.... for her own good.... like if smtn happens to her, they will be sad? Nah!..... most ppl are too jealous to have empathy on her if an unfortunate event befalls her. I see nothing wrong in showing off material things. Afterall, people post selfies of their beautiful faces, waist, ass, children, husband, wife etc. Some people are ugly, some people have no children, some people are single, some people have egg breast, some have no hips nor ass. The bottom line is, not everyone has these things, but we think it is ok to post them, while it is not ok for a lady to post bags and other stuff she did not break the law to get? Who sets these rules? You? With which reference? Nah..... I am disappointed at the level of hatred and bitterness. Why try to choose people's method of happiness? No matter how you deceive yourself to deny the feeling, it is cold jealousy.
Please, we are on earth to do battle, but not with our perceived enemies. The battle is within ourselves. We should fight to control our emotions, urges, power, pride, health, fat, addicts etc. Anybody that tells you that you should bind enemies, still has no idea of the real enemy within. Please be good and fight yourself always, for improvement of character.
Repent, be like me, stop banging pussies bcos you have the money and you know girls need money to outclass their peers. Stop commenting on blogs. Observe from afar and do charity like your life depends on it.
Whether you invest in bags, your body, charity, house, cars, marriage, children or anything that does not break the law, is for nobody to decide, but you.
Once again, to whom it may concern, stop allowing jealousy dwell in you. It will eat you up. Jealousy is an indication that you mean to inflict some kind of harm, but you don't have the means to carry it out.
I don't care if you missed me. I am out...... *bangs door*
My dear, the matter tire me no be small. You needed to see the way people were spewing bile and hatred. I personally don't like showing off, but I can't condemn one who does, BTW what do I have to show off ...lol
DeleteWelcome back mmyf....
Whenever she shows off, the next comment you'll see, will be...where's her husband?
DeleteIf I was her and no husband is forth coming...I'll go the "Monica Cruz" way! No time!
I miss u n u must care.. lolzz wat an AWOL going
DeleteBless u! Sue
DeleteWhich grave did this one ressurect from??
DeleteIf you like care if you like don't care all I know is that I missed you sooooooo much
DeleteWelcome back
Where u hide before?
DeleteWhere have you been?!!! I've missed your comments! Ok I didn't actually read this one but I shall come back to read. Too bloody long and I need to finish my work!
DeleteGod bless you for this comment!
DeleteHmmm!!! Welcome
DeleteWrong blog, you know where to post this comment, dnt bang door yet, carry the comment and put inside ur handbag and then bang the door
Delete1 million likes for this comment, I could have been this writer but I am a lazy writer.
DeleteLet me add to it, with this rate of jealousy, do you know that if something bad should happen to her(God forbids), some people will derive satisfaction from it
One million likesss..
DeleteI missed u baby
DeleteGod bless you so much really . People do not realise that the evil you wish people would befall you . Be happy for people and watch you progress
DeleteMissed u darln
DeletePlease shut up and stick to the point.
DeleteWe actually forgot about your existence.
Run along now...
After she gets married and have children, I wonder what people will use to yab her because so far that has always been people's form of attack.
DeleteBut you know u were missed....why are you now doing all this shakara?
DeleteLittle man, timid in the real world, lover boy on social media, ka dawo?
DeleteThanks, you said it all. We all show off! You talk about your wonderful job and I talk about my perfect marriage. No one should criticize the other. I have never seen Stella but the day I'll meet her one of the things I'll be looking out for is her hip because she has so talked about how big it is.
DeleteIt is how we are, we try to compensate for the things we don't have.
It is a weakness and we all have our weaknesses.
Truly missed ur comments. Now that u have repented we would still love to see.your comments time and time again.
DeletePoster close na
ReplyDeleteAbi u never gt sense???
Hahaha..she never get sense
DeleteHow do men impregnate by mistake?
ReplyDeleteHow does an erect penis enters the vagina by mistake? And thrust by mistake? And release by mistake?
His penis accidently fell into an open vagina.
DeleteHehehehehe.i think releasing by mistake is possible.doh
DeleteU av no idea..e dey happen na.uv forgotten d man dat claimed in court dat he slipped n landed on d girl wia she was sleeping only to find his dick inside her tin
DeleteIt was not the man's intention to have sex , it was th erect penis that found his way into her vagina
DeleteMr. Money, I have really missed you. I always look forward to your comments. They are hilarious, straightforward and truthful.
DeletePoster 1: tell your friend not to marry the man except she is ready to accept her as 2nd wife automatically. After delivering the other lady won't let the man be. Na the same mistake dey go dey do till the lady go born 4 more pikin for the man.
Deletewe are reading.
ReplyDeleteThere is something ABOUT ABORTIONS which I'd like us to see. When one kills (or encourages the killing of; see Prov. 6:16-17) innocent children, the consequences are three. 1. You deny yourself the joy of having a home (remember the Hebrew midwives who spared babies against Pharaoh's advice to kill them; God rewarded them with families; Ex.1) 2. You risk "sudden death" in the hands of another fellow/accidents etc. remember Gen.9:6 and thirdly, you deny yourself eternal life! What a life! God isn't going to call you to glory if you do not repent. Jesus said; come to me all you that labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest; that's Matt. 11:28. If you do not repent, you'd keep on laboring for the Serpent. But if you repent and make Jesus your Lord today and begin to read your scriptures; you'd find peace and the above three lots will not be yours. God bless you.
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ReplyDeleteLol @ off commenting. Stella nwunye Korkus u ehnnnn. Anyways brb. I have really missed commenting Here.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 pls let him go
ReplyDeleteDat baby will come wt so much love dt may mk d guy want d m m
Abor..what?
ReplyDeletePoster one! That guy is a liar jor! Which mistake? Cheating gone wrong! Naaa o
ReplyDeleteWhich kind temptation be this?
Poster, you are mad.
ReplyDeleteYou are not ready for a child yet you open your leg for him!
The guy told you to keep the child but you aborted it,infact you don't deserve him.
Ask God for forgiveness.
Rubbish.
Poster 1,All men cheat.
It's not a new thing.
Poster 1,
ReplyDeleteYour friend abi na you??...
The choice of getting married to the man is hers...
But left for me,I won't marry such a man unless he is rich I mean very very rich!!...
Poster 2,
Move on with your life!...
How can you be dating someone that is not ready to settle down?...
Girl you are a Mumu oh...which kain nonsense love are you talking about?...
Abeg leave him joor!...
Dats wat my mind told me.. U yourself is the poster one.. My frnd ko!.. marry him @ your own detriment oo.. I suport linda on the one..
DeletePoster two, u r still a student and u r opening leg for man? And a broke one at that?
ReplyDeleteWere u dropped on ur head when u were born? Infact I leave u for Linda Eze
Poster two, yes he can't take care of u n d baby cos he can't even afford a condom!
ReplyDeleteSkin to skin dey sweet.
Who lose?
Lol but skin to skin is sweeter
DeletePoster two that guy is just trying to make you feel bad and use it against you. He has no means of taking care of you and the child. I'm not really in support of abortion but that man would have absconded on you if you kept that child. Much later
ReplyDeletePoster one I don't even know what advise to give. What has been done has been done. She could go back to the man but will the baby mama let her have peace in her home? Well, the ball is in her court
Please help, low libido and never had orgasm.. Am I ok ? Help biko
ReplyDeleteU were circumcised then
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ReplyDeleteDo not shed the blood of any person, especially an innocent child because it will come back to hunt you.
The QUEEN OF THE COAST AND BUS OF THIS BLOG does not only advice ladies to abort, she tells them to poison their husbands and kill them if they "misbehaved". Beware ladies. There is a snakegirl on this blog.
Please how does a man mistakenly impregnate a woman?
ReplyDeleteWhy ask for advice if as a woman you believe a man made a mistake and impregnated someone else.
Well maybe she has fertility issues.
I don't see why people find it so hard to walk away from people who do not respect them. Isn't a broken relationship better than a broken marriage.
The way people are so eager to wed these days baffles me.
Poster 2 5months and you couldn't use protection during sex.
You ladies make me sick.
But claim to be virgins in public but fuck per second.
You all no longer fear STDs.
It's sex that will kill you.
Ewu Gambia.
Efulefu.
Have some shame.
Why did you even tell him you were pregnant and even went ahead to announce the abortion.
Too dumb.
Who told I she is a virgin.Leave virgins alone and stop bullying them,if u so hate them,pray to God that your daughters become prostitutes.
DeletePoster one, only ur friend can make her decision cos she knows where the shoe pinches her.
ReplyDeleteA colleague of mine who owns and runs a hospital does "abortions of all kinds". I had always wondered that in spite of being a well trained specialist, he seemed to have settled on just aborting kids and it gave him so much money. No matter how much we (his colleagues) warned him to "reform his practice", he did not take heed. Once he was travelling with his wife and two kids on an interstate highway, he suddenly began to scream; "look at that kid crossing the highway, imagine that kid . . .!" His wife who was seated on the front passenger seat told him that she couldn't see any kid, His kids behind said same (the man NEVER had any psychological issues in life and was NEVER on any addictive substance). next he matched on the breaks and the car flipped severally. He woke up after a few days in a hospital and when he asked about his family, was told that they were all dead; he began to weep. He wanted to get up and found that he was limbless.
ReplyDeleteExodus 1:15 The king of Egypt said to the Hebrew midwives, whose names were Shiphrah and Puah, 16“When you are helping the Hebrew women during childbirth on the delivery stool, if you see that the baby is a boy, kill him; but if it is a girl, let her live.” 17The midwives, however, feared God and did not do what the king of Egypt had told them to do; they let the boys live. 18Then the king of Egypt summoned the midwives and asked them, “Why have you done this? Why have you let the boys live?”
19The midwives answered Pharaoh, “Hebrew women are not like Egyptian women; they are vigorous and give birth before the midwives arrive.”
20So God was kind to the midwives and the people increased and became even more numerous. 21And because the midwives feared God, he gave them families of their own
Bloody liar.... What about Marie stopes in UK.... Oniro
DeleteYou for write fiction for the end na! Haba!
DeleteMschew! I know abortion is bad but please stop fabricating stories to proof a point. This write up looks like lady igo. Lies is also a deadly sin! God hates it.
DeleteI support abortion in cases of rape and incests and abnormalities! Nature itself aborts foetus when something is not right, which we call miscarriage.
But are you not the same people that advise AS couples to have selective evacuation if the foetus is SS? It is only black man that this evil only happens to, never the whiteman!
Abortion is wrong, I know, but humm!
This was a known story among doctors in UNTH in the 90s
DeleteI work in a hospital and the most cases of "septic abortions" (abortions that get infected etc.) that we see is usually during the first quarter of the year; a fallout of vaginal pounding during Christmas and valentine. Chai, come and see beautiful dead girls, lost wombs, bedridden ones and so on. What pains me most is that these girls will continue denying that they had abortion as if the doctor is a magistrate that will sentence them to death. One denied aborting till she breathed her last only for the nurses that were to prepare her body for the morgue to pull out a mangled baby's remains from her vagina.
ReplyDeleteAnd these boys just continue to prowl on the next victims -any vagina that opens! Girls, there is no "rest in peace" if you did not let babies find peace in your womb when the "mistake" of premarital sex was made. If this is your case and you survived it; repent, we all make mistakes.
The guilty ones who do not want to repent are those that will come under my post to rant. Having said it, they will perhaps hide under anonymous and talk about how "nothing happened"! It takes just one day for the thief and murderers to be caught!
p1 just tell her to make choice herself.
ReplyDelete_p2 you should have keep d baby, guts this days don't want abortion. u pray you get sense and close your legs.
I pray u learn how to speak gud english.
DeleteClap for yourself poster 2 for aborting that baby... Mtcheeeeeeeew..
ReplyDeletePoster 1, your friend knows what to do.. this kind matter nobody suppose put mouth.
Poster 1: women with their fish brain. Everything is marriage! Even the mother is equally foolish. She's so stupid for say her fiance got someone pregnant by 'mistake'. Jeez!!! I can't deal.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: your foolishness is wicked. Don't you know that's the tactics unserious guys use nowadays. They'll tell you to keep the baby, knowing fully well they are not ready to commit, and start acting all disappointed when the deed is done. So he's not taking any blame...blah blah
Do something better with ya life y'all.. Maybe yoga..hehehehe
Today chronicles need mai hiss mtcheeeeeeew
ReplyDeletePoster1:D deed has been done she just has to pray over it and forgive d guy.
Poster2:u need E-slap so u dint know he will not take responsibility before opening your legs for sex abi or u dint have money to buy condom, no advice for u sef.
Hmmmm am just gonna read comments,but seriously abortion isn't the right choice,narrative one,do forgive and take him back
ReplyDeleteNa wa for u
DeleteToday's chronicles get as e be!
ReplyDeletePoster 1
The decision lies with your friend,no one can make this decision for her because at the end of the day, BV's won't be the ones taking care of a step child or dealing with baby mama drama. She should just note that there is no baby mama without drama and should rather spend time getting herself equipped for it just in case she chooses to go ahead with the marriage.
Let her spend more time wherever she's clearing her head..She'll figure it out with time.
Poster 2
If only e-slaps could actually land on the recipient's face. You don't seem well..mtscheew!
You better sit your ass down and face your studies, you sound so mumu-ish and naive, you need to wise up girl. Tell Stella to send you the chronicle's archive, you need to read and learn!
lol @thank God i'm not commenting this week
I can't stop thinking abt sunday's sex, it was out of this world, I was Ontop while DH was under, sat on his mouth and while he grab my waist andd was eating me,i will licking his lollipop, then I gave him a nice cow girl ride. It's so outta of this world.
ReplyDeleteBf you mean abi?
DeleteHad a quickie in the kitchen.. it was the bomb.. wow!!! I nid such moments again.. anony thgs oo can't shout
DeleteOk congratulations for having a nice sex with your DH....I blame Internet
Delete@nene....nah..DH and not boyfriend
DeleteExactly wat i want now.. it been a while now oh.. konji wants to kill me.. le boo is fasting.. all dis redeem people. Cant wait for 29th.
DeleteI can't stop thinking abt sunday's sex, it was out of this world, I was Ontop while DH was under, sat on his mouth and while he grab my waist andd was eating me,i will licking his lollipop, then I gave him a nice cow girl ride. It's so outta of this world.
ReplyDeleteI came to read comments today, grabs a chair.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 it's a tough decision Mehn. I won't advise my enemy to go on with such, except she's prepared for excess baggage.
Poster one: leave the philandering man, a man that will love n respect you will come.
ReplyDeletePoster two: my dear, moveon with your life, face your studies and leave that dude, he is still immature. All the best!
Both of them are immature
DeleteAha, poster 2, he called you exactly what you are; yes, what you both are. Hired assassins. Killers! He gave you money to kill them (could have been twins or more). Well, you should think about your soul and the consequences of your actions and not about the person that hires assassins!
ReplyDeleteJesus did not come into the world to condemn the world but to save. Begin to mourn; fasting for that soul you killed. You will find peace!
Stella on Poster one, the tables cannot shake or turn, cus its never been heard that a woman marries 2 men, and both living under same roof.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: there's no amount of advise u'd get here that prevent u from going to him, just go and get closure, then rest... 5months, ure already hitting it raw, even without a ring & the dick inside you.
Hian!
ReplyDeleteYou can do abortion but you cannot write simple English, stupid geh and for poster 1: My dear don't start what you can't finish, If you marry your fiance, just bear in mind that the pregnant maiden will forever be in you face. She is family, believe it or not.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, I'm sure before u finish university u will be a serial abortionist. Move on with your life and look for someone to date
ReplyDeletePoster1 the only problem I forsee is if the side boo gives birth to a male child, your girlfriend will be in deep shit. That was why I broke up with my ex. She birthed a male child. Let her leave him. The shame wouldn't last as the pain of the baby will.
Yea!I believe there's likely a chance one would do another abortion after the first
DeletePoster 1: Your friend should pray 4 divine direction. In d flesh, I'll tell her to marry d guy if she still loves him. We all make mistakes.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: May God forgive u for shedding that innocent blood. What do u want to see him for? Better tie your legs, get involved in kingdom services and face ur books.
Hahaha...pray for direction? There are some things I believe one shouldn't disturb Baba for.
DeletePoster 1,tell ur friend that the husband to be is a randy dog waiting to explode,marriage gets boring when stories like dis get worse.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,he told u to kip d child,u go abort,he doesn't hv money to care for u and the child,but u are dating him and diving bare? Ok. What's my own?
But Stella,u still commented on the two chronicles na!
ReplyDeletePoster 2,the guy will always see you that way.since the deed has been done,carry your two legs and turn away from his life.don't continue giving urself emotional torture cos that's what you will get if you force urself on him. Pray God forgive u and never repeat this act again.u scaled it now doesn't mean it WL be DT easy for u d next time. Close ur legs or insist on a condom.u r still in sch.
Poster 1,if ur frnd mind is made up and she WL be able to tolerate it when after marriage,d guy keep seeing d oda lady(which MUST happen cos there is a child inbtw), then let her go ahead but if not,let her carry her two legs and turn away from the guy to avoid stories DT touch.. Just D's December, when did they do their intro,d guy s not a faithful one,planning a wedding wt someone and still kwaffing another.is the pregnant lady a random one or an ex he s still not over with? ?a lot of thinking before any decision.just tell her to sit and analyze d situation well but as for me,I go waka o
*adjusts pillow* *Zzzzzzzzzzzz#
ReplyDeleteStupid Poster 2: dd d Hediot u aborted for put a gun to ur head bfr he slept wt u? Were d shops n chemists where u can get condoms on strike wen u hung ur legs on d burglary n was collecting prick? So why are u crying foul and claiming "forced abortion". U beta move on, its over its over!!! Kindly get d message cos dat guy won't marry a careless n shameless person lyk u. After all dat Stella nwunye Korkus preaches on ds blog u still refused to tie ur legs... Just 5months into d r\ship u don soil ur hand wt blood. Mschew. May d Lord fix u.
ReplyDeleteAnty Stella, your 'no comment' comment got me.
ReplyDeletelol
P2 : you just want to go collect prick again. Pains of abortion don comot for ya body abi? Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Love ko, fuck ni.
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P2 : you just want to go collect prick again. Pains of abortion don comot for ya body abi? Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Love ko, fuck ni.
ReplyDelete* Ayah Shehu *
Poster 1: hmmmm being a step mum she should ready to tolerate a lot and to think that the guy was still sleeping with the girl means that he was cheating and could do more in the future wen they r married. If she is sure that the man has turned a new leaf and she is still in love with him then she should go ahead but if she is not she should move on he is not the only man in the world
ReplyDeletePoster 2: please face ur studies and leave that man alone u killed his child so he is still upset with u confess ur sins to God and start life afresh
Poster one: If na ur frnd be get belle for anoda guy, shei her fiance go still gree marry her and acept d pikin???
ReplyDeletePoster two: Just 5months and u hav startd having sex and then abortion!!! My dear u had beta move on with ur lyf and work toward a beta u.
Cathryn Praise
I will forever preach my sermon here. Are girl's brains filled with potatoes? I said it a few days ago that after Christmas and Valentine, FUCKED AND DUMPED CHRONICLES will fill everywhere, and someone came under my comment to say that I am mad. Incidentally, she is the one that uses charms to make people mad which she has commented multiple times on this blog.
ReplyDeleteWell Hosea in chapter nine verse seven told us that: The days of punishment are coming, the days of reckoning are at hand. Let Israel know this. Because your sins are so many and your hostility so great, the prophet is considered a fool, the inspired person a maniac.
WHO opens legs for sex?
Who get's pregnant?
Who bears the guilt of abortion (the man shares in the consequences though; see Proverbs 6:16) and cries every second/everyday?
Who is heartbroken and shattered and confused?
Who has insecurity and low self esteem?
Who is seen as the whore?
Who has suicidal thoughts (yes you murdered a human being or more see Gen. 9:6)?
Who sulks even a decade after the man has moved on, married and had kids?
Who is dumped?
On and on and on.
LADIES, WHY NOT CLOSE THIS HOLE CALLED VAGINA UNTIL YOU GET MARRIED? THE TEST THAT A MAN "LOVES YOU" IS THAT HE IS ABLE TO RESPECT YOUR BODY TILL HE PAYS YOUR BRIDE PRICE.
When the man finishes with you he moves on to the next "gullible victim"
Leave such men who are only interested in you body (no; just interested in your vagina and breasts) alone and face your life and make it right with God and do not kill kids etc.
Jesus says; "whoever comes to me I will not cast away". Matthew 7:6 "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.
Continue preaching my dear,may God bless you and people who love your comments with godly children,anyone who insults u shall birth evil kids.
Delete@ poster 1 I feel for you, seriously u need to ask yourself some questions and honestly provide the answers: can you cope with a cheating husband later in life or can you out rightly forgive ur hubby and be able to deal with step child(ren) as the case may be. Think about it nobody will be there with you, even your mum. Know exactly what u want. Open ur heart to God
ReplyDeletePoster 1, he got the other girl pregnant "by mistake"? Like he was walking on the road and he fell on the other girl and somehow his dick fell into her pussy?
ReplyDeleteYour friend should thank God for her life o, this is God saving her from a randy man who is claiming "circumstantial randiness". The shame of now would pass o, she will be the one to live with a baby mama on the side for the rest of her life.
Poster 2, she should let the guy go. He gave her the money and then calls her names afterwards. They are both KILLERS and MURDERERS! Tell your friend to stay away from that guy. He will keep using it against her.
She doesn't want to shame her family!? She should close her legs. Pregnancy ain't air borne.
Poster one...this is a technical issue...well. allow her to clear her head...whatever she decides support her
ReplyDeletePoster two...grow up already. Silly lil tramp
Decided to leave annonymous league
Dear bv's how do u get over a failed rship
My heart aches n I jus wanna call him
I need friends (male and female)
To serve as distraction
*sobs*
Ehya!! Nne doh! You should have surrounded yourself with friends, work and hobbies long ago, not now your relationship has ended. Try yoga :)
DeleteSory doll.. u wl b strong. In no time
DeleteThanks dearies...
Delete24hrs seems like a month.
Poster 1 and Poster 2... the rate of immorality is very high.
ReplyDeletePoster 2... foolish girl. instead of you to be happy since you dont want a baby, you are thinking of going back to collect another fucking. ASHEWO. DONT GO AND GET FIRST CLASS. still thinking of going to the foolish man or na boy self.
Poster 1.... if you are not happy, leave the relationship. forget about what your mama dey talk. It is your happinness not hers.
stupid men everywhere
ReplyDeleteGood to know that Madam Stella is joining me to tell girls to close that hole called vagina and face their studies. And wait patiently to get married. I am most impressed that you broke your "sabbatical" to scribble in red. Bravo my lady blogger of the year!
Poster 2 is a disciple of "The queen of the coast and bus of this blog". These are the little girls she leads astray by her "having fun" pieces of advice on this blog. Now the person who hired you to kill is calling you a killer.
Poster 1,dey aren't fully married and he got a lady preggers?
ReplyDeleteSo that means by d time dey clock 3 Years in Marriage,he soul jab had 3 baby mamas and prolly 5 kids(if one baby mama luckily births twins)
D man couldnt be tamed while he was stil newly in love.den u think he wil be tamed later.
Na so Caro's own take start.til she couldn't take it anymore.
I am not saying she can't forgive.just wanna let her know wot she is up against.
@ Poster 2,so u were fucking what/who couldn't take care of u?
Close una legs.mba!u won't hear.
Iti akwu!
Poster one: if I was in her shoes, I will not marry him, he has been cheating all this while. And he wil kip on cheating and will expect u to forgive him, how wish the side chicks didn't get pregnant, the man would ve been claiming been faithful to this girl. And as for collecting the baby from babymama,is he mad to collect a baby from his mother? No matter what that man and side chick will alwz see and still have sex. Women are one of the reasons Y men cheat and go free, imagine what her mum is saying
ReplyDeletePoster two: are u mad or stupid? A guy called u killer when it was both of u that did the deed, u dnt want to bring shame to ur parents and u dey fuck raw what were u expecting? Birkin bag? Just forgt dt guy,and move forward and in years to come,u will even ask ursef,wetin I bin see for this guy wey I bin dey die for.
I am craving for chicken peppersoup.
Poster one: if I was in her shoes, I will not marry him, he has been cheating all this while. And he wil kip on cheating and will expect u to forgive him, how wish the side chicks didn't get pregnant, the man would ve been claiming been faithful to this girl. And as for collecting the baby from babymama,is he mad to collect a baby from his mother? No matter what that man and side chick will alwz see and still have sex. Women are one of the reasons Y men cheat and go free, imagine what her mum is saying
ReplyDeletePoster two: are u mad or stupid? A guy called u killer when it was both of u that did the deed, u dnt want to bring shame to ur parents and u dey fuck raw what were u expecting? Birkin bag? Just forgt dt guy,and move forward and in years to come,u will even ask ursef,wetin I bin see for this guy wey I bin dey die for.
I am craving for chicken peppersoup.
Poster one: the girl your fiancé impregnated has to be invited for interrogation.
ReplyDeleteIf I were in her shoes, and it's really a mistake like he claims . I will call that lady make her to understand certain things.. Put her in her rightful place .
I have a friend who same scenario happened to exactly... Guess what they have been married for about 5years and still moving on..
Poster two: what is your problem ????
Don't you love yourself ?
Pls learn to love yourself first , I can see you don't love yourself.
Hmmm... So I put myself in your friend's situation @poster 1. It's not easy, but she has to be strong and move on. What does she do for a living? That's why we encourage women empowerment. You won't find the likes of Sandra Bullock sweeping such issues under the carpet, all because she wants to answer Mrs or bear kids. She divorced her sorry husband's ass when she discovered he cheated and did what would make her happy, even though it wasn't easy. She adopted a kid.
ReplyDeleteMonica Cruz went to artificial insemination to have a child, because the wrong people had been coming her way. She wouldn't want to allow desperation blind her all cos of menopause.
Marriage is an institution ordained by God himself and should be respected. If it was me, I would walk away.
Poster 2; you have to move on, I hope you've learnt a lesson. Don't force yourself on him. Pray to God for forgiveness, and put Him first in your next relationship.
Stop fornicating, fornicators apartment in hell are the hottest
*went through
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ReplyDeleteStella, your friend don apologise for the birkin bags. She wants to help women now. I think your write up made sense into her.
ReplyDeleteyou are cool man
U just commented Stella
ReplyDeletena wah for these kind chronicle o. lemme sit and read comments
ReplyDeletePoster 1. You need to walk. What if she gives birth to a male child.? Do not forget that will be his first Son, regardless if he married his Mom or not. Whatever you have after you get married will be second child. I left an eleven year relationship. We started when l was in class five. I went for A'Levels (Upper and Lower Six), went to the university, then youth service only to move back home as l was based in the Northern part. I got a job only to hear a confession from the love of my life that, "This Girl is pregnant and said l am responsible but l am not" his family went and brought the Boy home. This Child is a carbon copy of my Boyfriend. My dear, l left because I never wanted my own kid to be number two. So, it's your friend's choice.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. If the Man or Boy told you to keep the Baby, you should have listened. He will always use that against you. Pray hard!!
Fortunate poster 2 that you survived the ordeal of abortion. The girl that was rushed into the emergency room yesterday died. She had had an abortion in a private hospital earlier in the day. She was screaming the name of the boy till she breathed her last. A final year student of law and an only child.
ReplyDeleteWill girls learn?
#Shudders
DeleteI wish these beautiful ladies will listen.
To even get the money for the abortion na war.
They will soon ask you how you lived your own life.. like is that even supposed to come into play when you are trying to save someone's head through your advice?
Girls,just be careful,love yourselves.. this is all I have to say abi type.
Poster1: Mind your business. Poster2: you are a confused being.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: if ur friend have prayed and yet she doesn't have peace concerning her intending union wt her so called prick wandering finace then I think she shud kindly move on. Love alone is neva really enof in marriage. I must confess dat ur frend's fiancé is a male hoe n he has no regards for ur frend. Biko Let him go n b wt d side chick cos no one knows tmoro oooo. wot if ur frend doesn't conceive for him wen dey eventually marry? Wot if d so called man isn't even meant for her n God is saving her frm future wreckage. She had better shine her eyes n b wise. Introduction doesn't solidify a union so she can still pull out now she has not gone far. Her mother's opinion shud b d basis of wot she finally settles for.
ReplyDeletePoster 1. Don't let your parents out you in a mess all because they are avoiding the shame (selfishness). That guy has been cheating on you all along, and you think is a mistake?is just an introduction no be marriage so what's the big deal. Don't be DESPERATE, at least you saw the sign now. I'll rather you leave the guy and wait for a man that knows your worth.
ReplyDeletePoster 2.
The last thing you need is something that will make you not finish school. The guy has helped you a big deal by not calling you, please do the same, you will eventually get over it. Focus on your studies biko. Trust me you don't want to spend the rest of your life with him. It will be a living hell. Move on but pretend to be a mermaid until u finish with your education.
if i hear say i advise any of una ehn. kudos to madam abortion, kontinue sleeping without protection you hear. year never finish first quarter and you are already flushing foetus? o di egwu. as for madam i must marry, a mistake pregnancy? asin your husband to be pulled his pants, knacked raw and couldnt even pull out, he emptied his sperm inside a woman and you say it is a mistake? ok ooo, God will help our mothers to stop advising us to SETTLE as because they did. well aunty you are wife NO 2, What if you cant get pregnant for a few years in your marraige? God forbid bad thing
ReplyDeletePoster one,i can categorically put it to you that man does not love you the way you think.So you guys have gone as far as introduction and he still got the mind to inpregnate anoder woman??? He said you should marry him and take care of the other ladys baby?And what will the lady be to him? A sex mate?? Let me as you this question,if you were the one pregnant for another man,will he still marry you?Well its better to avoid problems than seeing it and you still enter.That man is a cheat and will never change.Ohh well if you can endure a public penis then continue.The choice is yours.Goodlock. Poster 2,Condom no dey una side?? Oh i see you want to enjoy it raw abi? Then you should be able to deal with it.Where you expecting a plasma TV when you kwanse raw?? Leave that guy and face your studies.Better days ahead.
ReplyDeletePoster one, stories like this annoy me. Why are some guys irresponsible?? Your friend should better move away from that guy cos he ll impregnate more wen they are Married as well as infect her with stds.
ReplyDeletePoster two, face your studies and stop having unprotected sex.
Ur sister has d final decision but if she knows him too well and she is sure it was a mistake then she can go ahead but let her be ready for series of drama.but even if she must marry na person way carry pikin for back she go marry?
ReplyDeletePoster 2 possibly d guy was waiting to be challenged into marriage u don shit for church ooo.I doubt if d guy will take u back if he does trust me he won't marry u.
Narrative 1, your friend's fiance cheats on her and is stupid enough to impregnate another girl meaning they had raw sex and yet you're telling your friend to pray for him and forgive him.. your brain is upside down I suppose... pray for him for what exactly if I may ask??? He is there saying he would marry her and she can take care of his daughter from his side chic. Huh?! How possible? Tomorrow the side chic would come and cause discord in that home. Tell her to move on with her life because she would NEVER be happy in that marriage.
ReplyDelete@poster1 : it happened to you n not your friend.
ReplyDeleteOya receive sense!
@poster2 : Oya receive sense join tohto
Poster2:u really need a hot slap to reset ur brain idiot.foolish girl.....
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Biko take a walk. The baby mama will make ur marriage hell. Meanwhile this one he has started mistakenly sleeping with ladies now when u guys getting married what will happen?
ReplyDeletePoster 2: something is wrong with u. U had better face ur studies.
Poster1- I think that 'your friend' already knows what to do which is, she cant marry a man who 'mistakenly' fvcks a woman without protection, gets her pregnant and expects her to play a delighted step momma! She's being put under pressure by her Mum and what people will say if she calls off the wedding. For her own peace of mind, She mustn't go ahead with that wedding except she's willing to face baby mama troubles even before she says 'I do' and for the rest of her married life.
ReplyDeleteAshawo Japanese @Poster 2
ReplyDeletePlease ohh..tell her what she really is ooo..ashewo kobo kobo..using a sin to cover a sin..hmmn u r on ur own..instead of facing ur studies u r there doing disgraceful things that will make ur parents wish they never had u
Deletebetter talk some sense to ur self oo
Hmmmmm! God av mercy! How can a gal agree to marry a man that is already unfaithful to her after intro? N2, move on
ReplyDeleteEnough with the "I never thought I would send my Chronicles"
ReplyDeletePoster 1: You have a choice now. Forget the people that will laugh. The aide chic did not get pregnant alone. When your boo was sleeping with her, he definitely did not think about you. Dust yourself and run. If you decide to stay, don't send us another chronicles two years down the line.
Toke Makinwas story should be an eye opener for you.
Poster 2: You are not focused. You better go and ask God for forgiveness and face your studies. You didn't know you could get pregnant when you were doing skin to skin abi. Silly
Poster 2 ..Don't know what to tell u , but jus know dat u are Jus Plain stupid, Don't u have anything else to do in Life, be dieing on top Dick, he is not capable of taking care of u & after removing what u tag a big shame & Disgrace , U are still running like a fool
ReplyDelete.Stupid Gurl , geez people on these Generation does not have any atom of vision or Self Respect again ,foolish . Don't go & build ur Life.
Poster 2- Move on already, and if you must be sexually active please use a CONDOM!!! Don't throw your life away because of 3mins of pleasure,be wise!
ReplyDeletePoster 2 ..Don't know what to tell u , but jus know dat u are Jus Plain stupid, Don't u have anything else to do in Life, be dieing on top Dick, he is not capable of taking care of u & after removing what u tag a big shame & Disgrace , U are still running like a fool
ReplyDelete.Stupid Gurl , geez people on these Generation does not have any atom of vision or Self Respect again ,foolish . Don't go & build ur Life.
#1- She should follow her heart. With all the problems in this world, one shouldn't invite another knowingly. With God all things are possible.
ReplyDelete#2- You knew he wasn't ready to settle down but you opened your legs and got preg and still planning to open again. Where is Common Sense please come back from your journey. You've planned what you wanna do, so what do you want again?
Poster 2, aren't you supposed to be sober after this abortion you did? I think you're a nut case... my advice is this, go and seek God and ask for forgiveness instead of seeking for one guy that is done with you and probably on to the next victim.
ReplyDeleteSo Stella is eating my comments. Let it fill your soul.
ReplyDeleteI am just Amazing
poster 2...what were u expecting, Birkin Bag?
ReplyDeletepray for forgiveness, i cant judge cos i too am was never perfect.
experience they say is the best teacher so recieve sense henceforth
@poster1, i'ld advice u tell ur friend to leave the guy, coz a broken courtship or intro is beta dn a broken marriage. Some men can b funny dt after d birth of d child he'll see noyin elz bit d child.
ReplyDeleteAm not going to judge anyone but I wonder why women don learn from others mistake.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: tell ur friend to run Bcos there is danger ahead. A man that can do dis when they are not married will do worse when dey do. I don't understand why some pple can't see the handwriting on the wall, they want pple to read for them. If she does not want to write another chronicle in the future let her run
Poster 2: Am not here to judge u but you need to repent and let Jesus heal u. Some pple will pay any amount to have a child but u who refuse to cross ur leg decided to get rid of the baby that u cannot create. all in the name of 5mins pleasure. Pls repent and ask forgiveness. If u can't cross ur leg, go marry. The bible says it's better to marry than to burn.
Post 1: Please tell her to leave the relationship immediately. He will definitely keep cheating on her.My sister is in deep shit rite nw, just bcos of ds similar issue. Pls wise up.
ReplyDeletePost 1: Please tell her to leave the relationship immediately. He will definitely keep cheating on her.My sister is in deep shit rite nw, just bcos of ds similar issue. Pls wise up.
ReplyDeletePoster 1... it's a little over two years ago I was in this same dilemma. My then boyfriend impregnated a girl while I was in Nigeria and they are both in the UK. She got pregnant Dec, he came to Nigeria that Dec too to finalise my travelling and I was given visa. We did our introduction, it was the second day I knew through snooping. I confronted him and he pleaded that he never loved the girl she just wanted to use him for papers. I was broken, felt lost,already had my ticket, paid my tuition fees all to his cost.
ReplyDeleteI made up my mind not to discuss it with anyone at that time, I forgave him and we came to the UK together. The girl lives on her on, she gave birth to a beautiful girl and my husband sees the child at a restaurant twice a month.
Long story short I will also be birthing a baby boy in 2 months time. He tries as much as possible to tell me every conversation they have and I try as much as possible to snoop as well.
I must tell u it wasn't easy at first, but when I look at all the sacrifices my now husband made even after realising the girl was pregnant, it was convincing enough to tell me how sorry he was.
Tell her to follow her mind. I followed mine and it worked for me. I love him and I took him and his mistakes and sincerely I couldn't have asked God for a better man.
Poster 1... it's a little over two years ago I was in this same dilemma. My then boyfriend impregnated a girl while I was in Nigeria and they are both in the UK. She got pregnant Dec, he came to Nigeria that Dec too to finalise my travelling and I was given visa. We did our introduction, it was the second day I knew through snooping. I confronted him and he pleaded that he never loved the girl she just wanted to use him for papers. I was broken, felt lost,already had my ticket, paid my tuition fees all to his cost.
ReplyDeleteI made up my mind not to discuss it with anyone at that time, I forgave him and we came to the UK together. The girl lives on her on, she gave birth to a beautiful girl and my husband sees the child at a restaurant twice a month.
Long story short I will also be birthing a baby boy in 2 months time. He tries as much as possible to tell me every conversation they have and I try as much as possible to snoop as well.
I must tell u it wasn't easy at first, but when I look at all the sacrifices my now husband made even after realising the girl was pregnant, it was convincing enough to tell me how sorry he was.
Tell her to follow her mind. I followed mine and it worked for me. I love him and I took him and his mistakes and sincerely I couldn't have asked God for a better man.
That was what happen on val day.the boy put a condom and the girl refused
ReplyDeleteto sleep fuck the boy becos she said she dont enjoy sex with condom
and its better we forget about the sex imagine?
The truth is that many ladies sleep with their boyfriends or men in general
ReplyDeleteSome are wise enough to use protection
Some are also Thoughtful enough to to take post-nor 2 after an unprotected sex
Few are lucky the dont get pregnant from careless sex
Many get pregnant and abort it one way or the other without telling anyone
Some girls think they cant possibly abort but end up doing it anyway or they are just talking because it hasnt happened to them
If you fall into ant of the categories above, you have no right to chastise anyone for aborting- 'for you all have sinned and fallen short of the Glory'.
The truth still remains that Sex is Overrated and Jesus Christ remains the true solution to all problems.
receive Christ and be saved.
Preach it! Aim to Live it!!