Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

Thursday, February 11, 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

Hmmmm na wah!

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

DH ABOUT TO TAKE A WALK COS OF TTC

Stella, I don't know how to go about my fertility issues. My wife

hooked me with pregnancy in 2014 and was crying when I told her that I

was not yet ready for marriage.

However, I had to marry her traditionally and waited for the right time to have a church wedding.However, she miscarried in June,2014 and we've been trying to conceive ever since. All my money goes into fertility tests and still no

improvement. I would appreciate your candid suggestion, as i am

beginning to get tempted to look for another woman.

Thanks!

You want to look for another woman?because your wife cannot get pregnant?

*sigh*

My dear e be like make i slap you...that is a wicked thing to do.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

CHEATING WITH SAME SEX

Good day Stella,

I first want to appreciate you for this platform as I am an addict to your blog, now straight to the issue.....

I have been married for 3 years with 2 kids to an Esan man. My husband is a bloody cheat , initially I use to threaten him that I was gonna leave with the kids and even call his mistresses but along the line I just gave up, because the more I fought, the more he cheated and he even started abusing me physically and emotionally.

To had insult to injure he hardly makes love to me, and may I add has never given me head of which I love to get sucked. And I once snooped on his whatsapp and read his chats about how he gave one of his mistresses head which was heartbreaking , mind you I don't smell down there .

Now before I got married I got really curious about having sex with a girl and i ended up experimenting which I don't regret but it was something I did twice and never did it again. So in light of my husband's behaviour, not caring for me, Not noticing me , I decided to cheat with a woman and it felt good, am sorry.

Now the problem is that in my husband's village they have a tradition where if the woman cheats on her husband she dies, I was truly oblivious to this until recently , i am kind of scared as I don't want to die or even confess.

Please people has anyone ever been in my situation, is this really true , please don't insult or blame me that I cheated as you don't know what I have been going through and I just needed to be loved and I cheated with a woman because I thought it was safe , am sorry for and typo and punctuation errors as I am not even myself right now.

Thanks

YOU ARE MARRIED TO AN ESAN MAN?......My dear wahala dey!...Let me read comments instead.

236 comments:

Joblesshousewife11 February 2016 at 15:00
Hian!

joblesshousewife
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MzAnon11 February 2016 at 15:00
I'll be back
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Emjay11 February 2016 at 15:01
Jesus fix it all.

******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS******
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Roseberry11 February 2016 at 15:03
May God help those in need
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:03
Take your problems to God in prayer.. and ladies should learn to be self sufficient and independent! You have to brace up to your challenges and stop looking for who to throw you a pity party simply because you are a lady.

Lucinda
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Doppelgänger11 February 2016 at 15:03
Poster 1 you must be an illiterate with an Internet.
Why not go to the hospital and find out the cause. What if you're the one with the problem? Will you leave you self?

Poster 2 you are sex starved and married to a cheating and violent man.
You don't seem remorseful, I think you are feeling bad because you're scared of dying and I wonder why. You want to keep living with a man like your husband? Why not just let Esan superstition take your life and you rest from all these mystery?
Cheat liar cheater liar.
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MzAnon11 February 2016 at 15:04
You are both stupid. Get a life!!
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Blackberry11 February 2016 at 15:04
Poster two are u dead yet?
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 15:04
Hmmm. Lemme also wait for comments. I'm interested in knowing what advice will be given cos this same thought has crossed my mind.
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AQO11 February 2016 at 15:05
Let me also read comments. Hian!

Jesus is Lord.
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Iphie dearie11 February 2016 at 15:06
She hooked you with pregnancy? Are you a fish?

Did you not "hook" her Vagina? Dayum,you are not nice.

Stick with your woman!Go through this journey together,she does not need hassles from you.
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Quiksilver11 February 2016 at 15:06
Poster1
If your wife had to leave because of your tiny dick, will you be happy? Silly man. I'm sure your watery sperm is the problem.
You even had to open that your dirty mouth and say she hooked you with pregnancy. When you were nacking her raw, what were you expecting? Plasma TV?

Poster2
I don't understand why these bloody rules do not apply to the cheating horsebands. What rubbish?
Why don't you divorce the nicompoop and experiment in peace?
All ye useless men with your dirty traditions had better not look my way.
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:06
Poster 1 u r the nwolu of fools, if it was u who is impotent would she have thought of leaving u? Shameless disgrace of a man,u r wicked in every way,no atom of patience just because.Listen to me, u just pissed me off that woman will find a better man who deserves her,prolly the pregnancy she miscarried wasn't yours, I'd be ready to sit and laugh when I hear u r d impotent mofo.(women dey marry shit call am horseband)

Poster 2: for us that are married to nsukka and esan men I have always wondered same abt if the curse holds if u cheat with the opposite sex, but as tradition doesn't favour women my dear im not sure of that opp sex thing.But for esan men I hear if u cheat on em with a man the husband and son die if u don't confess not u.My dear those things were done to favour the men, I won't judge nor curse u it's not in my place to do so.
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Roseberry11 February 2016 at 15:07
U slept with a woman and u are shamelessly saying it. Pray that God forgives u of that dirty act
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xxxTrinityxxx11 February 2016 at 15:07
Poster one chill. You are so angry with that woman. Very understandable but just hold on. Who knows she might get pregnant when you people least expect. But if you feel no love for her and feel caged in the marriage, I don't see any point of going on with it and bringing a child into the equation. But many men claim that women used pregnancy to pin them. Hope you are not lying.

Poster two I think that tradition meant cheating with a man. Not woman. I'm sure it might not have occured to them that women fuck each other so you are probably safe. Desist from lesbianism biko. Ignore your husband and he's cheating. Turn a blind eye and u will see he will start wondering what is up with you and start ahowing interest again. Work a sometimes
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KING Nwa AMAKA11 February 2016 at 15:07
Let me read comments today.

@poster 2 that old tradition is nothing. Jesus has taken all those belief away.
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I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)11 February 2016 at 15:07
Poster 1,
If looking for another woman is what you want,biko go ahead...afterall,you never loved her...
Everyone deserves to be happy mehn!..don't be in a loveless marriage out of pity...

Poster 2,
There is nothing wrong in cheating on your husband afteral,what is good for the goose is good for the gander!...
I would have advised you to stay and get a side bobo or a side babe but I dey fear for your life...
Biko divorce the fool and move on with your life...no go die because of a nonsense tradition...
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CANADA BLOGBRITY 11 February 2016 at 15:07
Marry your tribe ooooo
Esan man
I cannot even advice any of my buddies to marry from Edo. But I can keep them as distant friends.
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 15:08
Hahahahahaa. I married an exam man too. Chronic cheats but he takes care of me. I cheated with my boss when my last kid was 3yrs, did I die? Here am I after 14yrs n I'm forming good wife. Hahahahahaa. Ur mindset will kill u, nothing else.
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:09
Esan man? I rest my case like Aunty stellz
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Sweetheart11 February 2016 at 15:10
Poster one
Put yourself in your wife's shoes..If u were impotent and your spouse decides to get someone else, how will that make u feel. C'mob, u r just being selfish and if we have 2 of men like u in one community, the world is doomed!

Poster 2
You didn't know you were married to an ishan man before cheating right? Ok
Now u see two wrongs don't make a right. How do we help u? We'll remember u in prayers
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 15:10
In conclusion poster 2 you are a lesbian, a 14year jail sentence awaits u.

Postet one what do you mean you were tricked into marriage? Your wife forced you or what? Why did you even have sex with her in the first place? Nonsense
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Pisces11 February 2016 at 15:11
Hmmmmmm!!!!!..
P2i pray it doesn't apply to sleeping with ladies,I have heard of that of men.
Bvs that know should advise better..
Jesus fix this
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 15:11
Poster one:

Have you made a lady to abort for you in the past? See Proverbs 6:16. Whether you or your wife did it, not having a child of your own is one of the consequences of shedding an innocent blood (see Ex. 1 and learn how God blessed the Hebrew midwives with families because they refused to shed innocent blood). The solution is confession and repentance in fasting and praying.

Poster two:

Since you opened the door of your home to Satan through perversion, do not whine that your husband has refused to stop cheating. repent of your deeds and ask God in fasting and prayers to heal your home. Why are folks not bothering of eternal hell but bother so much about "(Esan peoples) juju killing them?"
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De Imperfect Chick11 February 2016 at 15:12
Am new here, and i have come to Stay. am drama free, get use to me.

De imperfect Perfectionist......
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Yori Yori Princess11 February 2016 at 15:12
Poster 1.... Oga you no get head. See what you wrote down there. Your wife hooked you with pregnancy. You be fish wey hook catch. You too check yourself am sure you are the problem.

Poster 2... Na woman you dey do too. Lesbian plenty for this blog ooo. You give head and the woman give you head too. No wahala. since na woman you dey do Eashan juju no go catch you.

If na man, wahala dey. The juju no get eyes to see say na woman you dey do
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 15:13
Taah I'm Igbo, married urobo, two days after my wedding I saw an sms from my bff to my husband thanking him for a good goodbye sex n she's engaged, I forwarded to my phone, n forwarded to her fiance, I have his number too, d guy got mad, we met n fucked, atlast he didn't marry her, she doesn't know dat I know n gotten my revenge. I got pregnant that same month but I dunno who owns d child, d child is 11yrs now.
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 15:13
Poster two:
Beware of the "queer and bus of this blog" who will tell you to keep on licking vagina and having your vagina licked. She talks that to scatter and harvest souls for her mistress in the depth of the sea! Think about eternal hell and the damage you are doing to your soul.

Repent and seek God.
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Zany11 February 2016 at 15:14
Lol @ poster 2. Its like you're Yoruba. You said had instead of add. That's not the issue here. Maybe you'll be lucky and won't get affected cause it could be that the rule was specifically for sleeping with a man. I di smart. Lol. Still laughing. Ndo o? If not, you should have died by now o. Sha just change your ways.
Poster 1, you're a big she goat. Cow! Do you think she's finding it any easier. Its probably taking a huge toll on her. Now she needs you the most,you just want to look for another person. God punish you a hundred fold. You're a very wicked selfish man.Mind you, if you go to another woman, you'll see pepper. Evil somebody. Like its her fault or something. Mshewww
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:14
Poster 1,iri very wicked. Ishi ari gi nma. Just two years and you want to look for another woman? Unu ejikwala eji uche unu mara ihe? I mean Umu nwoke? Do you know if the problem is from you? Mtcheeeeeeeew.

Poster 2, I am not saying this cos of what Stella said. Esan men are.......... Esan people are.......... na you know the rest. Esan? Chai! Iga ta anya gi. You will chew your eye by the time you are done with whatever is going on with you.
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:15
Poster 2 u no try at all.
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 15:15
Poster two:
Beware of the "queer and dog of this blog" who will tell you to keep on licking vagina and having your vagina licked. She talks that to scatter marriages and harvest souls for her mistress in the depth of the sea! Think about eternal hell and the damage you are doing to your soul.

Repent and seek God. The thief (serpent) comes to kill steal and destroy but Jesus has come to give you life in abundance.

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ZIONA11 February 2016 at 15:16
Poster 1,it's obvious u never loved her and u are still did not end up falling in love with her.u sound vain and mean. If we check now I'm sure the major issue is u.do d lady a favor and leave her let her find a more deserving man not a coward like u

Poster 2,did I hear u say esan.sorry is ur name,even in isoko land sef if u cheat on ur husband na die b dat ooo.
Cheating is cheating period. Whether man or woman.didn't u know he was not romantic and did not like head.or u were closing ur legs like a mermaid
Now u dey disturb about head.these are things u should have known.these things that we assume are little are infact very big
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 15:16
You cheated on an Esan man you are married to? Be afraid, be very afraid. In the end, you would confess. I'm Esan, I know that.
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oladele shirley11 February 2016 at 15:16
Revelations of a blog visitor.i will read comments
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Missy Jay11 February 2016 at 15:16
Poster 1: what makes u think if u move to another women u would get a child.women r not toys, to be used and dumped. U r married so pls stick with uR wife she is gonna conceive just be patient and prayerful
Poster 2: hmmmmm who am I to judge u,we have all made mistakes and trying to cheat on ur husband is not the solution to ur problem one day u may eventually be caught and disgraced which is very bad. Just confess ur sins to God and ask for mercy, if any man be in christ he is a new creature behold all things are passed away so nothing is gonna happen to u, pray for ur husband and retrace ur steps. It shall be well with ur marriage
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:19
P2, no be only die, if any one has to die, it should be ur hubby. Mshew
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Esther Okoro11 February 2016 at 15:19
Poster one ,please be patient with your wife.Are you even sure the fault is from her. I'll just read comments @ poster two.
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:20
Poster one: Liar liar pants on fire!
Say the truth.
You wanted her to get pregnant before marriage, to be sure that she's 'fertile '.
I usually say this and yours is an example.
Asking a woman to get pregnant before marriage, just to be sure, is not right.
What if something happens to the pregnancy or child, and you have problems having another?
Una dey play God na.

Back to the matter, what happened to ' for better for worse'?
Oh, yeah, she 'hooked' you, so you didn't mean any of those vows.
FYI, you're married in God's eyes and that of man.
You think going to get another woman will solve the problem?
So, what if that one doesn't get pregnant?
You'll look for another?
Just less than two years, and you're already considering leaving her.
* sigh *

If she actually trapped you with the pregnancy, which I doubt, then, well, she should be expecting anything when things go south.
Na you sabi.

Just know that marriage is all about weathering the storms together.
Pray together, encourage her.
And I hope you go for tests too, and not assume that she's the one with a problem?

Poster two:
Hmmmn!
I've heard stories about cheating on Esan and Nsukka men, and I'm just here smh on your behalf.
Make I read comments.

#WhiteDiamondOut
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De Imperfect Chick11 February 2016 at 15:20
so is only the woman that will die after cheating, what happens to the man? my dear, whatever u believe works for you. i don't believe in those shit. if nothing will happen to the man for cheating, nothing will happen to u. but remember two wrongs cannot make a right. just take it to God in Prayer.

fix it Jesus.
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excited courtesy11 February 2016 at 15:21
Oga poster one do wat want to do and forget us pls, cos ur wife us TTC you wanna look for another woman? how sure you don't have a woman outside your marriage self rubbish talk?

madam poster two d water way u put for fire dey boil, why you dey complain wen na u light d fire? are u saying you don't know that cheating us bad? pls face d music, go n confess your sins and sin no more good luck.
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vivychoco11 February 2016 at 15:21
Poster 1: U are just wicked. Is she God. Y leave her cos she has failed to gt pregnant again. Dnt leave dat woman else u will suffer dearly for it. poster 2: Dnt even know wot to tell you.
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Nwunyedoc11 February 2016 at 15:22
Poster one, aren't you a very wicked man, you got married to her cos she was preggy, now she lost it you want out. You can never cheat God. You and your wife needs to seek God's face in this your situation. Very unpredictable and wicked man you are. Mschwwww
Poster two, you aren't even remorseful, you better seek God's face and retrace your steps. People, the bible is so complete and profitable to direct. I have never seen a person follow God's word to the latter and regret.
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Mrs telema ronaldo(CR7 wife in making)11 February 2016 at 15:22
Poster 1,yiu are not serious.

Poster 2,you are in deep trouble.

Fear benin.
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:23
@poster1 : you are a very wicked man!
I think the problem is from you....u are impotent,so stop hanging it on your wife.

@poster2 : there is no different between you and your cheating horseband.

I pity your children.

#cheatingpapa
#lesbianmama
#endtimefamily

Btw,benin people are so loose
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Miss Ess11 February 2016 at 15:24
P1, it is only God that gives children not human. What if the fault might be from you; please leave the poor woman alone. wait on the Lord and be of good courage, I say WAIT.
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Ada Nwanbueze11 February 2016 at 15:24
Oga aren't suppose to support your wife in these trying times? Why do you want to abandon her now? Don't you know it takes two to tango? What if the problem is actually from you? Please don't leave her alone for there is nothing God can't do.
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 15:24
Esan mostly if the woman cheat on their man....it's the man that dies not the woman...Some not all
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ANGELRAY4SDK11 February 2016 at 15:24
@1, u don't love her, u only married her bcos she was pregnant, if u are tired abeg take a long walk marriage no be by force.
@2, Lesbo woman, ur action for cheating is justified but since u are scared of d juju un ur husbands village, y not divorce him so dat u can enjoy ur life, last yr a married woman died in d hotel room with her boy friend, this happened in Ph,my dear I don't know much about this ancient tradition, to avoid wahala just pack ur tinz and leave d bloody cheat u call a husband, he's not worth dying for.
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Otaswifey chat me up for your classy traditional marriage aso - oke at the most affordable rate11 February 2016 at 15:24
Poster1 she was pregnant before and had a miscarriage
And under 2years you are already complating trying another another woman

Haba fear God Mr man

How can you say she hook you with pregnancy, you never about condom when you were taking
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maggie11 February 2016 at 15:27
2nd poster, is not Becos u married to an Esan man but what u doing is wrong b4 God and man. U better tell ur husband about ur infidelity b4 u place curse on yourself and ur kids. Confess n b free
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She11 February 2016 at 15:27
Esans are the most diabolical set of people I have ever heard about in this country. So my dear, I no envy you all.

I was maid of honour to my friend who married an Esan man in 2008, till date she is still TTC. They have had many revelations that her husband's people are behind their childlessness. The man gets attacked in his dreams by some people who go to the extent of pulling his "thing" and he wakes up in pains. Different stories infact. My sister abeg fear those people.
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Ladybrown...11 February 2016 at 15:28
Poster 2, dis is serious. dat tradition depend on what part of Esan ur hubby hails from, in sme parts u cheat and still sleep/cook fr him its d Man/first son dat will first loose their sanity and die afterwards. In other parts its d woman who bears it all. i dnt know d effect of cheating wit same sex sha!

U can still put an end to it all na,tradition or not there will surely b consequences for every action. Be firm nd let God prevail ur marriage
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:31
Sowi Stella ur reply to poster 2 is funny. Madam jux confess to Jesus and ur hubby and let God fight for u. Poster 1 please endure and strength ur wife. Plus u people should go for fertility test to ascertain the problem.good luck to both of u
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 15:32
Hw do u women get married and then cheat?.. I can understand if it's a man.. but for a woman?.. haaa
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 15:33
So Esan Man Will Cheat And Stay Alive While IF it Were The Wife She will Die??? Gerarahere mehn...Using juju to threaten women since 19 korodom
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Tha Prettiest11 February 2016 at 15:35
Mr you have been married fir two years and u want to leave your wife bcus she hvnt given you a child? Just 2yrs,go and ask people that are 17yrs in marriage nd still childless,am not praying that yours will get to that...buh you have to know that its God that gives children except maybe you dont love your wife anymore.
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:35
Poster two confess your sins to Jesus n ur hubby let God fight for you. Poster 1 be patient with ur wife na u people should go for fertility test to ascertain the cos.good luck to both of you. But Stella ur comment to poster two is funny.
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Real Nutty11 February 2016 at 15:39
Hmmmmmmm.so men are allowed to cheat in Esan????
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Ikebe Super11 February 2016 at 15:39
Poster 1,your marriage is just few years old and you are this desperate and complaining already.
You are suppose to stand by your wife in this trying time. That woman you want to go and meet,does she have reservoir for children? The earlier you understand that God gives children, the better for you.
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The General's Wife11 February 2016 at 15:39
@ First poster,u are a Wicked Brazen man.You came here to ask this?Imagine d temerity.

Poster 2,I am sorry u are going via dis.so sorry hun.I just imagined irregular love-making.and I imagined the No-head-giving and just trembled.

What do we do now?I don't want u to die.Chai.
Can u try and bribe d Medicine man?
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:40
Will read comments too
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 15:42
Poster 1. You are a very wicked Man. Please, go ahead abd looknat other Women. Infact, make sure you pregnant the new Woman ASAP. You need to join your Wife and wait on the Lord.

Poster 2. I do not know a thing about that oath stuff those people do. Take style ask your Husband. So,you decided to remain in an abusive marriage despite the fact that he has gone physical on you. Okay, stay there and be doing other Women. I heard that thing they swear kills when you cheat. Good luck!!
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:44
The 1st chronicle are u guyz up to 10 20 years u see how wicked men can be hmmmmmmm.i rest my case here for u.and chronicle 2 that's actually lesbianism no b only ur husband tradition won kill u oh if u r in Nigeria u better run na 14 years u dey use joke so .if u can't deal with ur husband cheating divorce him even if it's not biblical it's better than dis one u r doing u hear
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Onyi tessy11 February 2016 at 15:44
TTC for just 2years and u want to get marry to another woman what of those that have been trying to conceive for 10years
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BluntIjebuChic'*GiFTED'*11 February 2016 at 15:50
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Monkey Face 11 February 2016 at 15:50
Linda Eze, is that you as poster 2?
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BluntIjebuChic'*GiFTED'*11 February 2016 at 15:51
Poster 1..you write and I quote'My wife
hooked me with pregnancy in 2014 and was crying when I told her that I was not yet ready for marriage..did I read hooked?you must be a shameless he-goat for making such statement*am not sowie to say that*so you didn't wanna get married but you could fuck her till you got her pregnant?what happenedd to condom mr coward?or I guess she hooked you with raw sex too*mcheeew*my advice is for ya wife not you..its high time ya wife appreciate what God has done for her and dump ya stupid ass cos she never reach her destination andd that why getting pregnant is proving hard..when she meet her own husband,she go dey get belle like say na only her God remember and as for ya lazy hubby*Gerrahiamehn
Poster 2-Jesus Fix this
Am Out
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Aeegurl11 February 2016 at 15:51
Poster 1,what if she hooked you with someone else' pregnancy? Maybe you are the one with problem. Do you go for the tests with her or you just conclude she is the cause. You don't even sound like you care about her.
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:52
poster 1just 2 years and u want to take a walk?u are a coward...
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 15:53
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Everly Rockin'11 February 2016 at 15:53
@ Poster 1 - I think the tension is affecting u and ur wife. Try and relax. Remove ur mind from it and it will happen.

@Poster 2 - I'm not sure the ancestors had ur own type of cheating in mind when d established dat rule bcos back then, that type of sexual orientation was not in existence. Relax and cheat no more. If however u notice that ur body is doing u somehow (meaning that d ancestors are not looking the other way on ur actions) then 'fess up immediately to lessen the punishment. Worst case scenario, u wud be sent packing. (Dats not d end of life. Better women have been sent packing for no offence!) brace ur self.
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kowmah11 February 2016 at 15:54
P-1 you are confused and wicked, you accuse her of hooking you with pregnancy that you didn't want n now you want to look outside, just two years na was you. Please fear God...give it time.
P-2 will read comments, does this apply to Benin people too
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esan chic11 February 2016 at 15:54
hmm......this is for poster 1,first of all i am sure you dont love that your wife and u feel she hooked you.so now you are looking for an out of it and thereby going th very wicked insensitive route of leaving her as a result of current predicament.
sad but u know what ? if your heart is not in it and u are just looking for a baby making machinr please kindly take a bow. she may be distraught now but u are saving her from your future ccalousness and ill treatment towards her. long hiss......... I THINK YOU ARE A TERRIBLE EXCUSE OF A MAN. I THINK YOU ARE SPINLESS.
(PS: FEEL FREE TO DISPUTE THIS)

for poster 2..........i completely understand it all
the pain,the hurt,the feeling of rejection etc you have received from your man,I mean who wouldnt?
well first of all it is not all esan families that have that tradition,but you will need to do your resarch well to know if your hubby's family is or not.but not from hubby though.
AND ABOVE ALL if you belive in God n are a good christian commit it all to God,only God has the power to judge and purnish you ,nothing and no one else can .so pray!but you have to desist and have faith.
I cant judge you cos i have been where you are and I found my working formula and now everybody is happy......unfortunately I cant say it here.
dont be scared!
Just pray and research.

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Mamannukusdkblogceleb ��11 February 2016 at 15:55
Esan in my language mean something else o

Biko esan is which tribe so i can know how to advice you.

poster 1 stay with your woman God might be testing your faith. if you marry another woman she sef no born nko?
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Anointed11 February 2016 at 15:56
Hmm aunty stella tribe does not matter o,esan men are good people now,yes madam if you cheat on ur husband,you definatrly we die ,it was in the reverse case before but they have change it cause Innoncent men do die for what they know nothg abt ,but now it is the women ,madam no matter what your husband do ,DAT does not give u d right to cheat .madam just stop whatever u are doing ,cause is not right and you are digging your very own grave.
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:56
Cheating is cheating either with the man or a woman!!!!

But seriously I don't understand that Esan and "part of Delta " tradition that forbids a woman to cheat and upholds a man when he does...
I wish to be enlighten more please..
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Oma11 February 2016 at 15:56
Poster one just one year plus of marriage you are complaining already,odikwa egwu
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 15:58
Poster 1: don't break up with her instead join in finding solution to it though u re angry she trap u down with pregnancy, then poster 2: it's there any need cheating on ur hubby instead go on ur kneels and start praying for him to change.
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 16:02
Poster 1
Mr Poster, may I ask this....were you sure she was pregnant? Did anything (human intervention) lead to her miscarriage? Well, these are some things you need to clear here. But all things being equal, pls this isn't a GOOD time to leave, after barely 2yrs? I have a cousin that could not conceive for close to 10 years - after which she had 2 boys within 3 years or so......she later had to manually stop bearing children. Pls, sir, don't give up, not yet. BTW, what if the new/intended woman didn't conceive after 3 years? Also, I know one man that married one of my friends more that 2 yrs ago simply bc the first wife could not conceive. Now, my friend is running helter-skelter looking for solution bc medically, she's said to have fibroid. Oga, man is not and will never be God.

Poster 2
I am ashamed for you, if you can't deal, why not take a walk. Two wrongs can't make a right, woman, allow God to judge your hubby. As per your hubby's tradition,I would have taken it as bull-shit if it's against a good thing but alas it's also in line with God's word. Imagine, you are not afraid of God's punishment but man's tradition. Whether you cheat with a man or a woman doesn't matter - all wrong doings have reward. Ehhhh! you want to still live and continue with your atrocity, right? Pls woman, return to your Creator and get yourself ready for eternity, other things are immaterial.

Echi di ime!!

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Beddingsnroses11 February 2016 at 16:03
At narrative number 2, it's a pity☺☺ stella u dey run so? 😆😆😆she needs ur advice
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 16:04
Poster 1: what if the initial pregnancy wasn't yours, that's why she isn't able to get pregnant since you got married.
Poster 2: Esan husband??? Choi... Serious things. Just pray hard and truly repent
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 16:07
NAwa oh, dis is too much to process,lemme read comments
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 16:14
You will surely die in within 21 days. Start packing your things and be ready with the explanation you will give your creator. Go and confess NOW, the time is ticking, your children are small.
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 16:21
Pls is esan in edo state? someone pls tell me it's not true cos I am returning this ring. I also heard they don't bury the wife in her husband's village when she dies and they don't know how to take care of their wives? Is this all true? OMG!!!!
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Uzo11 February 2016 at 16:21
Wow!The kind of advice and suggestions and the way we justify wrong doings on this blog. Its obvious some of us need JESUS.Just a handful of people try to preach truth.Udo!
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BEDS AND ROSES11 February 2016 at 16:25
Poster 1, this ur statement dey vex me "hooked me with pregnancy". So you were not the one dat fucked her without protection and deposited ur dirty sperm inside her.
See your mouth, how much have you spent? Just since 2014 o. Do you know some men have paid for Ivf once, twice, three times for dere wives. With each cycle costing N1m or more each time. Still yet the thing fails and they keep encouraging their wives. It's just since 2014 she's been trying and already you are tired.
Lazy man, I'm sure ur the type that even if your wife is pregnant you won't still let her rest, she will be cooking and washing ur dirty clothes per second per second. Even carrying okada going to market to buy things for stew for your dirty stomach. Now she's having little delay you are thinking of quitting. Anuofia
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MamaOj11 February 2016 at 16:29
P1: cud it b dat ur wife's preggy b4 marriage wasn't really urs? Cud it b dat she hooked u wt it cus u wr most eligible? Have u checked urself? Just asking ni oo
P2: same thin applys in my place, if u cheat on DH, u'll becom afflicted wt an illness (ibegwu) whr u'll bcom bloated & swellin all over till u die. Except u confess to DH & d necessary ritual is done. Bt in a situation whr ur DH is aware of ur cheatin & stil kip mute wtout speakin out for d needful to b done, na em go bloat up com die o. Bt if u b igala girl com marry anoda tribe u ar excepted. That's d ancestral tradition bindin all igala daughters.if u lyk say u b born agn or no bliv in d tradition go do anyhw while married, oyo 4u. Bt I kind of like it coz it tames hot pants young brides
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 16:33
Is it true that when a woman cheats on her husband from Enugu state, igbo- Eze to be precise that the woman will go mad or die?
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 16:42
Poster one- Your story is incomplete, anyway you are lucky you didn't marry her under the act so you can easily end the marriage and continue with your life. Abstinence is the way foward.

Poster 2, Na God go judge your case. Useless lesbian.
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Mao Akuh (Oriflame)11 February 2016 at 16:44
#1- Oga pls be patient with God. Look up to him and humble yourself. What made you think that if another woman gave birth to your kids, they'll live and be healthy? Be patient and get ready for God's amazing miracle, abi you no believe in miracles?
Where is your faith? Don't leave her.

#2- It appears anything adultery punishes women more. Madam fear God and stop that. Ask God for forgiveness and stop it, what did you gain from such? pleasure that lasts forever okwaya? You won't die because Jesus came to give us life and in abundance, so confess to God and humble yourself.
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Jasmine11 February 2016 at 16:55
Poster 2: lies and more lies!!! Nothing will happen. I've heard same thing about calabar, Esan and Yoruba but i've seen people 4rm those tribe cheat. Men and women!!! They r only scaring u abeg. Tho, don't cheat o. Just 'try' and ignore.
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Unknown11 February 2016 at 16:57
Poster 1. Iwu onye isi mmebi, anuofia like you, just two years you are complaining, what if you are the cause of it all will you walk away from yourself?
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MOTHER NATURE........11 February 2016 at 16:58
Dear Anon (Always posting about abortion) Please stop posting that nonsense. God's grace is sufficient upon his children. Look around you will see so many women who have aborted several times and yet they have kids for their husbands. You are not God and don't play God either.

Stop quoting that verse... Look for better things to do with your life. I really get irritated every day when you post that nonsense. Please go and sleep jor. In what way are you better you wey never do abortion? Stealing, lying, and cheating has its own consequences too check your bible well.

People will be forming saints that dey are not. You won't quote the part that speaks about redemption and winning souls always abortions.... what rubbish!!!
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 17:06
Lady, get your act together. If you're not happy and don't see a way of resolving issues, pack up your shit and LEAVE! It's just that simple. As for whether you'll die or not, me I don't know oh.

As for you Mr. hooked man, I hope you do know that half the problem might be from yiu. Silly man, opening his mouth to say ehn, and she hooked me. Were you asleep when you slept with her unprotected? Own up, rather than shifting blame, it only makes you look more stupid
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MOTHER NATURE........11 February 2016 at 17:09
Poster one, oya go na what are you still waiting for? Wicked Man!!

You men always want women to stay with you and suffer but you can't do same for them. Must you have a child? Are you God that gives children? Have you ever created anytin with your hands before. God knows the plan he has towards us is that of good and not evil. You can't hold hands with your wife and pray for God's blessings.

No wonder the bible says the heart of a man is desperately wicked. I pray you don't have a child from the women you want to marry. That will be God's punishment for you. Moreover no be you ask her to f..k you. If you wore CD, they wouldn't have been any preggy so stop blaming the woman.

Poster two, Abeg that thing no follow at all. Why do I have a feeling that we've met in a wedding in Abuja. Mummy Andrea. Anyway just confess to only God and repent of your les bobo sin. Sleeping with a man is better than doing it with a woman. The man will be more irritated self if he finds out. To cut the story short, no one is better. But all the same, I wish you a happy f..king days ahead (that is if you choose to continue).
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pinklady Aka Veteran Side Chick11 February 2016 at 17:11
@poster 1
When you were fucking her without a condom,what where you expecting?
Do whatever makes you happy and deal with the consequences!

@poster 2
Are you a jobless housewife that you cannot walk away and start afresh?
Pls leave that horseband of yours before he kills you with beating or HIV!
Meanwhile,leave pussy alone...dick don finish?
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Chidinma Grace11 February 2016 at 17:11
That's why if u can't cope with a mans tradition, don't marry him. Esan man ko, that's why he is behaving dt way bc in his mind, he is sure of his Wife bc of his stupid tradition. Pele
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 17:16
Poster1, if she had children would you love her?
If child bearing is the only problem, medical science may help you and if you choose to trust God, then it's not even an issue at all.

But you've got to be more sincere to yourself and your family because this your story of 'Hooking you'....

Poster 2:
I believe there should be better ways of handling the issues with your husband especially since he's gone physical.

Side Boo/Bae may only console you and help you endure but will by no means affect his attitude and abuses.

Biko look for a more lasting solution.

Now seriously am hearing of this Esan/ Nsukka believe for the first time.

For real????
And I have been a Nigerian all my life.

Na wa.

'ANONYMOUSLY MOI '

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DON11 February 2016 at 17:37
Poster 1, Leave her n find yourself another, if it was the other way round the useless hoes on this blog will advise her to run. Poster 2, How re we suppose to know ur Punani doesn't smell.I will never head a dirty girl, dat turn me off. we need a prove it doesn't smell like dead fish. Shikena , if you like no post my comment
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Anonymous Chielo11 February 2016 at 17:37
Poster 2: Please get the movie War Room and watch God fight your battle...
I am not married, and I don't have any experience in that area, but one thing I know for sure is that as long God has blessed your union and you've asked Him to be the King in your home, no woman/man born of a woman, no demon or witch can come into your home and run it, you have to give God the front seat.... It's not easy but the Lord will strengthen you.

Poster 1: No comment
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Anonymous Chielo11 February 2016 at 17:38
Poster 2: Please get the movie War Room and watch God fight your battle...
I am not married, and I don't have any experience in that area, but one thing I know for sure is that as long as God has blessed your union and you've asked Him to be the King in your home, no woman/man born of a woman, no demon or witch can come into your home and run it, you have to give God the front seat.... It's not easy but the Lord will strengthen you.

Poster 1: No comment
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Uriel (Freshdew)11 February 2016 at 17:52
I don't know much about Esan but I know God almighty. Nothing is bigger than God, go to God with a genuine heart of repentance and ask for forgiveness. Keep your mouth shut, nufin will happen to you. But you must sin no more lol. My opinion.
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zamfy11 February 2016 at 18:19
Poster 2, forget! All na superstition. Africans though, so it is okay for the man to be a chronic shameless unrepentant chic( does not even respect you enough to keep it froom you), but it is wrong for you to cheat to? Very lame. Abeg cheat on but please I don't support same-sex relationship though. I do hope you have a sensible source of income just in case though. If you have the guts, you can even divorce him(not highly recommended).
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Ayoola Oyinlola11 February 2016 at 18:33
God take control
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Ayoshyne11 February 2016 at 18:35
God take control
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 18:40
Marriage sad stories,is marriage so boring? Waking up every morning to meet d sme man,everything,its boring. Person dey tire for one soup na.
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 18:53
I can see that the snake girl is hissing and spitting today. She is really working hard to make disciples for her mistress in the deep sea.

"Queer and bus of this blog" you want poster two to lick vagina and not to mind the "14 years"; sure, when they catch her, you will have achieved the aim of your mistress in destroying the "happiness" you preach that she should seek? And you want her too to keep quiet so that folks will not know her as an adulteress, what are you? If it is only adultery that you are committing and hiding under "daddy in the lord" smokescreen, who will bother. Soon you will tell her to also get "sugar son" for pleasure; the teachings of your really "Mommy in the sea".
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 18:53
I can see that the snake girl is hissing and spitting today. She is really working hard to make disciples for her mistress in the deep sea.

"Queer and bus of this blog" you want poster two to lick vagina and not to mind the "14 years"; sure, when they catch her, you will have achieved the aim of your mistress in destroying the "happiness" you preach that she should seek? And you want her too to keep quiet so that folks will not know her as an adulteress, what are you? If it is only adultery that you are committing and hiding under "daddy in the lord" smokescreen, who will bother. Soon you will tell her to also get "sugar son" for pleasure; the teachings of your really "Mommy in the sea".
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Anonymous11 February 2016 at 19:22
Anonymous that fucked her bff fiancé raw; that was a classic revenge! You go girl!
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