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My father married two wives. My mum is the first with only female children. In 2004, one of my younger sisters church member came to our house with her two children, a boy and a girl. She discussed with my mum and left. My mother later called and told us the lady wants her children to stay with us.

 The lady is a widow, her husband died few months before then.  My father was really against the children staying with us. We don't have enough to eat more or less taking care of another. It became a problem between them. The woman died few weeks after.

According to my mum, before the woman's death, she told her and my younger sister not to release the children to her husband's people, her only sister or her pastor because of the way they treated her while she and her husband were ill. The burden of taking care of the children was placed on my mother.  

The gap between my parents widened because of these children, My father said as long as those children are with us, he will NEVER give my mum kobo again nor pay any of my siblings school fees. Life became more difficult for us. 

My father abandoned us and faced his second wife and her children whom he loved more because she has sons for him.

I registered WAEC for the boy last month and my step mum heard about it and told her husband. My family has been a battle field since then. My step brothers, Step mum, father are mad with us. 

They have withdrawn their greetings which is the only connection between us. My father is insisting that these children must go back to their village.  Go where I asked. These kids don't even have a single block in their fathers house.  According to my mum, their parent stayed in a neighbours house before their death.  

All my mum ask is for them to allow this children write WEAC,

The boy will be 20 next month, We want to put him in any kind of work he wants to learn as we can't afford to train him in higher institution, My youngest sisters did not go to higher institution due to lack of finance. During his apprenticeship, we would rent a room for him and allow him go to his village when he is ready.

As the eldest of my mum,  I am honestly at a fix now. Whose camp do I join, my mum or my dad's. My old mum has resolved  to leave her marriage instead of throwing these children to the streets.  My father has vowed to send her parking for allowing those children stay with her. 

The only relative they know is us and their mum's elder sister who got married and was abandoned by her husband because she could not give him a child.   If I take them to my base, I am still single, I can't feed or cloth them, my pay hardly take's me home.

Fellow BV's kindly help?.  What do I do?.

Make Bv's give you advice,i am coming oh.

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