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FROM FRYING PAN TO FIRE?

Hello Stella,
Thank you for this platform, i have learnt a lot of lessons from other chronicles...here is mine.

My name is mercy 30yrs ,married with a kid. I met my husby(Mr A) 2007 via a friend of mine on vals day. We got talking and the relationship started, i fell for him because he looks calm and cool headed, i was like i have seen the right man for myself. Hes this kind of man that likes coded things, no social network display cos he doesnt want other people to know about what is going on in his life and family.

2010 i came for my industrial training to Lagos for 6months so i had to stay with him, during this period i realised some bad habit which i didnt like, i spoke to him about it and he said he will change that its a matter of time and that he got into the habit because of his situation  because he was brought up by single parent, hes mad at his dad for leaving them, he wanted to make money so badly that he needed a fast link, he graduated with a third class. 

His bad habits (drinks like 6bottles of beer everyday, can smoke 1 pack of cigaret a day, mingles with different kind of friends and womanises)

2011 his aunty sponsored him to go and do his masters in the UK since there was nothing he could do with his BSC result as if he was sent to do masters in his bad habits... on getting there we were in touch steady for 5months and the story changed....during the process of changed story, his family took over...they were so nice to me, they will tell me he has no where to go since he has introduced me to them as his wife to be. I was rest assured.

2012 i stayed with his Aunty during my NYSC, mind you it was them(his family) that insisted i must stay with her and he supported the idea too. But the communication between myself and him reduced. If i complain he will say its work, its this its that, on my birthday he did not wish me happy birthday his cellphone was switched off i was so sad,the sis i was staying with noticed and i explained to her then she asked me was it only him i am dating ,i said yes, she shook her head and said that its not safe to date only 1 guy that what if things didnt work out later on...where will i start from? 

The statement got me thinking. 

Then there was this guy(MrB) i met during my IT and has been on my neck, i had to accept.

2013 Mr A came back with a lot of exhibit in his baggage, we quarelled ,i called it off and left. Mr B was disturbing me to meet his people but i had to use my brain and take things slow. Mr A (is a mummys boy) after 2months, his mum called and begged  me not to leave her son...sebi love don blind me, i went back to him. Now we are married i am not happy in my marriage,tired of crying,i have prayed, but still no change. Im getting frustrated, i am beginning to imagine evil things,i am confused,and keep blaming myself i took the wrong step.

I am about to do something i hope i wont regret from but before i take the wrong step again make SDK bvs advice.... Mr B is back again asking for a relationship, hes also married with a kid but not happy as well.........

I am tempted to date him, please what should i do at this junction? Cussing is allowed.

This woman,it seems you think your tohtoh abi?Continue you hear?..The tortoise will say''No,i wont stop,not until i have been disgraced..''

You want to jump from frying pan to faya?..Why are encouraging people to cuss you when what you deserve is one or two reality slaps...Empower yourself financially,get a job,do something with your time and comot mind for blokos...JEEEEZ!....You are lucky i am off commenting for a while...Mscheeew!