Hian!,,,Na wah!
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE...
WHEN LOVE WONT GO AWAY..
Hi Stella, ...there's a situation am facing right now that I'll like to share and seek advice about.
Let me be straight to the point, there's this guy that I met about a year ago, we got talking and he expressed how much he likes me and all but he's someone who likes to call a lot and always just want to be in my space, I seriously hate that so I complained about how much he was choking me.
Although It took him a while to adjust but he slowed it down..I took sometime to get to know him, he's a good guy, caring and friendly but then i just realized I don't feel anything for him, so I tried to strictly friend zone him, but this didn't get me anywhere. I sent series of messages to him about how we couldn't be together and how he should look elsewhere for his life partner but he refused to let me be. I stopped picking his calls for sometime but he didn't relent, he started bombarding me with several messages in all my social network pages, I started to pray to God to divert his mind away from me, it didn't work.
He became more caring, he's ready to do anything just for me to say yes and anywhere we go together he's ready to introduce me as his fiance, sometimes he forcefully make me speak with his friends and siblings. But then I was still making my point clear that we are just friends and it won't change. He accepted his fate and told me that because he is crazily in love with me I would need to give him time to adjust and possibly find love else where.
I agreed to that not knowing that things would get worse, E just be like say I jazz am, have never seen a guy who is too crazy about me... He drinks a lot when I met him and I complained about it, he gradually reduced that and he started showing up at my church, joined the believer's class and his life became better. Hmmn my people shebi with all this am @least suppose to give him a chance but then shikini love like this I no get for am and I don't know how to pretend to love, am just a very blunt and straight forward person.
Have tried my best, have prayed about it a lot of times, at least if I can't love him back, God should give him another lady so he would forget me and did I mention that i am not in a relationship, its been more than a year that I have been single. Have just really focused on work and getting my life better.....the way this guy loves me is beginning to scare me, but then am I to say yes out of pity? If I say yes and we are married, are we going to last 1 week?
I mean how am I even suppose to give someone I don't love a trial? As much as I really wish to be married this year, this guy is a ready guy but sadly I am not in love with him, I just like him as a friend. Am not even sexually attracted to him, there's no such connection at all, abi will I marry now and start running away when its time to make love (lol)....am just too worried about this situation because he has made people believe we are more than friends that @times I just have to pretend and smile when we are outside so as not to embarrass him, even though most of these times I feel like slapping him for presenting me as more than a friend. ...
Please I need advise on how to make this guy leave me AND move on, maybe then someone can come my way too......and some people say its better for a girl to marry someone who is crazily in love with her than the girl to be the one who is crazily in love...how true is this statement anyway?
You are a very selfish woman..you are the one holding unto him because you enjoy the attention...you smile not to embarrass him when he introduces you?continue shining that your brown teeth until you close them and find out that the joke is on you.....Sit yourself down and have a conversation....if you continue holding unto this man,making him invest so much emotions,it might be dangerous to leave him and he starts seeing you with another man..
drag your ears and warn yourself..men who love the way you described him are dangerous when they are jilted.
You are lucky i am off commenting for a while....you for hear ween for my hand.
Make sure you leave a comment jhw
ReplyDeleteNobody is saying you should be mean to him and all, but it's because you hang out with him that's why he'll call and give you the phone to speak to someone. If he calls you and you don't visit him or allow him visit him for at least two months, his head will reset. Thank God you have changed his life, fine. But you have to use wisdom to push him away since he's not willing to be friends.
DeleteIf you're really serious and not secretly enjoying it (who won't enjoy this type of attention anyway) don't accept some of his gifts, be rude sometimes, not all the time o cos too much of everything is not good. May God give you wisdom.
Poster have collecting without giving spirit running in her. She is emotionally deprived. Leave bruh alone.
DeletePlease introduce him to one of our sisters here.
DeleteStop holding someone's horseband back......don't you know you are turning someone 2 a gwemz by holding this man back?
Heheheheheheheehehehhehehehe
Y am I this happy?
Poster from your narrative, you make it sound like the guy is obsessive. Ok jst take some time of from him, tell him you are going through a phase and you need time alone, mayb a couple of months, during this time do not have any contact with him and advise him to do d same, encourage him to meet other people and you too do d same.
DeleteWho knws you might actually miss him and decide you cn fall him love with him. Goodluck
All this commenting still you off commenting buhaaaahahahahahaha Stella ohh abeg chop kiss.
Delete@sHB
Men li this are very dangerous and can kill,so if you really mean that you don't love the guy,you better look for a way to let go of him,i mean relocate for a while or something or pray harder.
DeleteStop giving him false hope.y are u always in his company where he intoduces u.dnt u think it's ur subconscious luving him.u jst denying becos he doent fit dat perfect dream guy u wanted(mayb he is not dat tall,or bald or stammers). My friend it's best u stop hanging around him and let his find his bearing.
DeleteKeep chasing him away! Keep it up! Until you begin pay money for dating site! Abeg chase the guy well!
DeleteIf the guy is filthy rich now,you will be doing fasting to be married to him,but because he is an average guy your playing him.am not into him ko am not into him ni mtcheeeew.....
DeleteGirls en dia forming!!!abeegi..u knw wah 2 do if u really wana leav him..stop forming biko..we no geh tym 4 lng finz!
DeleteStellz; so you are off commenting? kikikiki. I hear u boo.
DeletePoster, leave him alone please.Stay away from him. I have two people like that on my case, I speak politely, and sometimes do not respond to their messages for hours; but I never go near them. Before I wake up 20years later and wonder how I got married to one of them.lol. Stay away from him.
first chronicles for the week is here o. i wanna chop pop corn a little.
ReplyDeleteStella o,u won't "kee" me.keep d comment wt ur red ink coming girl.!.
DeleteAs for you poster, if u will continue this way leading the guy on,be ready for whatever comes ur way d moment u make up ur mind to walk away. Stop seeing him nd stop going out with him.
Many bv's r going to ask u this " if he is rich nd spoiling you silly,will u be here asking these qstns".? And its true,I don't think the guy is well bouyant financially,if not u wont ask us these qstns. He is not cheating ,he s gradually adjusting for ur sake and he s caring? What else do u want?. Of recent, someone sent a similar chronicle of whether she can marry someone heads over heel in love wt her but she doesn't feel same and almost everyone advised her that "its better she marry someone that loves her more than she do love the person". Pls look for that post and borrow some brain before we hear another chronicle of how the guy jilted you after staying wt him for so long. I m telling you,its d day D's guy WL find another girl and starts diverting s attention to her that you will know what u missed and pls don't twist the story for us when sending in the chronicle to make d guy look like d bad one.
Hmmmm! Use koboko, lol!
ReplyDeleteStella why so rude? She doesn't know that's why she's asking for an advise
Deletehmmmm
ReplyDeleteWetin happen?...
DeleteMumu
DeleteWhat kind of chronicle is this.
ReplyDeleteDumb a** one
Deletehehehe umuchima
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
Poster,I know why you don't love him...
ReplyDeleteHe should go and make money joor...which busy man stays up choking a woman with nonsense love...
Biko run away from him...
The guy is not rich dazzol.
DeleteAnd poor guys can get sweet mouth eh
They will start calling you wifey,introduce you to their parents and all that crap
Who love help?
Hehehehehe
U can be foolish at times but this one u said is very true
DeleteMoney is the causer of lack of love. If he were half as rich as Dangote, it would have been testimony in place of chronicles.
DeleteStupid ashawo woman like u is all about money. Meanwhile my guy that shagged u the other day said you have a smelling pussy.you're here doing Queen and boss of blog.
DeleteHian. Why can't you ppl respect private part for once?
DeleteTaaa anony,which your useless guy?...
DeleteHahahahaha...the way you people forge stories here is so so funny...
Lwkmd!...
FYI,I don't shag dirty Nigerian niggas that walks around with all kinds of orishirishi disease with their portruding tummy and their extremely dirty inner wears...
So forge another story,this one no follow...
I wonder how u really look. That's how blogbrity was spewing gutter here and turned out worst than her mouth. Why your own papa no be dangote? Dem go use u do money ritual one day if u no take time. Idiot. May money kill u there. Ezi bida
DeleteBut you forge stories just to bring people down? You telling me I have spiritual husband is it real or fake?
DeleteDo unto others what you want......
Babe if you really wanted to get rid of this guy like you claimed you will. You're no the only one that has had guys insist and breathing down their neck. You know what to do. It's obvious u r enjoying his attention and u might get jealous when he actually moves on but abeg leave him. We don't need to tell you what to do. You kno wlaready. Only way he won't let u be is if he is a stalker and now obsessed with you
ReplyDeleteShe is collecting his money.pls can I contact you. I love them with kids.
DeleteDoes he have money? Marry him if he does. Who love help?
ReplyDeleteLmao @ who love help...Abegi love help me ooo
Delete@la Katie you are so right,na who love really help? Love is sweet,bitter and frustrating.
DeleteStella how you take know she has brown teeth. You don turn to winch.
ReplyDeletePoster, you dey enjoy the game. carry go, nothing do you. Enjoy it while it last. hope you will feel better when another woman takes him from you. We dont want another chronicles from you. I will save this your chronicle, if i hear pim from you, you will know.
Hmmmmmmm....while some people are looking for half of this. Am sure you'll regret it if you loose him.
ReplyDeleteHe is fat and not cute that is why u don't love him period! He is not broke but not wealthy to your taste is number 2.
ReplyDeleteStop picking his calls n free him to meet a better match
Lol, you're wicked
DeleteProximity breeds affection!
ReplyDeleteThe more closer u get to him, the affection u hav towards him will bear fruits.
*Ghanaman signing out*
I don't believe this. My baby is hours away from me but our love knows no bound.
DeleteOde anonymous, he's not saying u can't love someone who is far. Go back to school
DeleteI feel bad for the person that his or her chronicle was skipped to publish yours.
ReplyDeleteI think the folder must be empty.
Thank you.
@Iphie dearie,same thought I had too.
DeleteStella, u for tell us say chronicle no dey nau. What is this?
Lmao! What do u mean, iphie? Lol
DeleteLmao
DeleteLol
DeleteThis chronicle is a deadbeat.
Loving Iphie like no tomorrow.
Epic comment
DeleteStella is off commenting bt she typed a full page Hian!
ReplyDeletePoster just leave him make another person enter
Your mouth is saying NO, but I bet your actions are saying YES.
ReplyDeleteBabes, if you really want to let him go, DO IT and stop sending the poor dude mixed signals. He probably thinks you are doing the usual "ladies shakara".
Poor man.
End time Lover Boy
ReplyDeleteStart asking him for money cos am sure u ve never asked him for money,by the time u start asking for big big money, I swear guy man will disappear.
ReplyDeleteI swear, your head is there. I didn't even think of this. Poster, ignore my comment if you read it and ask him for money then you'll see that he'll pack his kaya and vamooze.... Correct money o, not small money.
DeleteExactly how I chased one toaster like that oh
DeleteI asked for huge amount of money that I know he won't be able to give me even in his dreams
Till today the guy never call me again.
Hehehehe
POSTER ooooo!!!!!! Come and see the best advice here. It works like a charm aswear!
DeleteIf that guy was stinkingly rich, I swear, I for no c this chronicle.
ReplyDeleteAnd it's true o
DeleteLove for just appear like pimple
DeleteHehehehehe
DeleteNo mind her
The guy di poor.
Seconded Stella
ReplyDeleteHummmmmn
ReplyDeleteI get the part where u want us to know know there's this guy really running after u and bla bla, nne we all had a point in time in our lifves like that.Stand there and be faking smile to his friends and siblings till u clock 50 by then who knows he might be gone.
ReplyDeleteYou haven't even calmed down to know and understand him, u r just enjoying the fact that someone is having headache over u.Continue praying him away till he finally goes to someone who will love n care an appreciate him.Then, he will be replaced by someone who loves giving and receiving headache u will now know God works in mysterious ways.
Lol...but na true talk sha
Deletebabe let the guy go if you can't give him a small chance, do not hold unto him and still be saying you do not want him. try and give him a little space, give him a space for more than a friend. am sure you will fall in love with him someday, good luck to you poster.
ReplyDeleteYou are right. She never reach dt level of any man will do. God don give you, you dey refuse, tomorrow you will not let God have peace of mind.
DeleteLol na real piece of mind.. she wants tall handsome and rich.. tall handsome and rich is coming with plenty baggage but d baggage doesn't matter as long as he is tall handsome and rich.like say u be God,na u dey create
DeleteLmao.
ReplyDeleteAfter you don comment finish, ehn Stellz.
Woman, if you don't love him, nor want him. Break off all ties with him.
It's not rocket science.
You no get problem abeg.
Nextttt!!!!
#WhiteDiamondOut
Poster seems happy about the luv tin.be deceiving ursef by enjoying the fun. I sha pity d guy
ReplyDeleteU really don't "like" this guy.Yea I know u say u "like" him but one can tell u aren't in Dat way at all,at all.
ReplyDeleteI always tell young ladies to go for men who love dem more and worship d ground dey walk on.but dere is something about this ur own dat wouldn't just let me tell u to "try and give him a chance"
Rather I am inclined to say "stick to ur decision"
And with wot u described,if u wanna help him get over u,u May have to move away from ur present environment or u'l have a stalker on ur hands.
Whatever,I hope u get God's wish for u.
Well said...I'm not here to lick ass but single ladies should look out for your comments...I read ur comments a lot and I'm glad u represent d married folks well
DeleteThe best advice coming from maami. Receive kisses oh jawee!
DeleteGbam,not broke ass sha ,because broke ass men can worship for africa ,if his ok financially and spiritually and physical go for him .
DeleteThis woman is the only one I actually take her advice on board. You are a born counsellor Madam. Bless u
DeleteLmao.
ReplyDeleteAfter you don comment finish, ehn Stellz.
Woman, if you don't love him, nor want him. Break off all ties with him.
It's not rocket science.
You no get problem abeg.
Nextttt!!!!
#WhiteDiamondOut
Lol stella...but poster if u dnt want him why still go out wit him...and also u still go close to him for him to mk u talk to family...sister truly u lik d attention
ReplyDeleteSend him to me if he is handsome. Don't worry about money, I got my own. Another thing, he must love me the way he loves you or even more. And I don't share my money o.
ReplyDeleteStella we all do long comment n u r off commenting. Lmaoo
ReplyDelete334 comment 2016
Are you sisters with portable Viv?
DeleteSo it's today you know that she is same as potable ViVian.
DeleteLeave that thing, you are enjoying every bit of it. How can leaving a man you don't have feelings for be that hard, unless there's more to it. All ye girls with lying spirit!!!
ReplyDeletePlease leave that man NOW, asin fast fast, girls are single and looking for men desperately. we dey talk say better men dey scarce....
Am 27yrs old a student of fedpoly owerri ND2 I have been taking care of my education all alone no family, relative dat help me I don't even av a boyfriend I don't av anything in dis world dat makes me happy I look myself as someone who is all alone in dis world no happiness no joy I av been trying by taking care of myself in terms of finance bcs before I gained admission I was working ad during my ND1 dat was last year i was working ad also schooling it was nt easy for me then I stopped d work December last year although I saved some money which av finished now but dat is nt my major problem my problem now is laptop I will use to type my project ad I want to go for catering training how to bake cake how to do decoration ad so on so dat by d time am through with my ND which is dis year I will be able to have a handwork dat can help me save money for my HND but wen I got to were I can learn it the amount is 40k ad i cant afford d money bcs I av some other debt to pay in school, pls am begging my fellow bv to help me get dis amount if any one who base in owerri dat can training me for free i will appreciate it ad my God will bless who ever dat help me in one way or the other I really need a handwork to use help myself u can reach me with dis number 08036430425
ReplyDeleteMen who love like this are scarce o, better love him o
ReplyDeletelol....
ReplyDeleteChia, Stellakork nwayioma haf vex ooo
Giving it out as it is.
I too love u Stella, jus saying the truth since 1900...
Poster, u re not being fair on the young man.
Why cant you love him?
Is he not rich enuf for you ni?
Jus asking, cos if he has all the qualities u said he has above and still loves you to the moon and back, then y dont u love him too?
Anywayz, every aboki with his kettle.
I was in your shoes some years ago I eventually dumped the guy when I got tired of everything. But my dear I am regretting that action today cos it is over 20yrs now and i'm still single. So if you will heed my advise, pls marry him.
ReplyDeletePls how old are you?
Delete20yearS? There's a deeper problem
Delete20yrs or 2yrs?
DeletePerson wey get head no get cap, one way get cap no get head.
ReplyDeleteReport him to the nearest police station for harassment. I'm sure next time he sees you coming after being invited by the police, he will cross the road.
Chai! See talk. Leave him alone nau....
ReplyDeleteThank u stella please tell her..my thoughts exactly, she is holding him back n still pretending..ah ah madam fear God now, y go out with him if u realy want him to let u go? Y grab alllllll d attention he offers? Abeg park well let pipo with real chronicles come in jor..mtsswww m pissed jare
ReplyDeleteThere's way more advantages for a mans love to supercede the womans,
ReplyDeleteHe will always be sexually attracted to you, which keeps erectile dysfunction far away for decades & infidelity at zero level.
Such love automatically comes with respect, making ur opinions/ideas count in the house.
He will always feel the need to protect you from any form of harm, just like the mother-hen, no matter his stature.
Smiles on ur face will mean alot to him, and he will do watever it takes to see that happen at all times, being that ur state of joy affects his.
He will automatically be in tune wit ur love language & everyother thg will fall like a domino....
Etc...... So there u go poster, but don't marry him if u don't feel a pinch of love for him.
Gbam!!
DeletePsychologically speaking, you are correctly correct.
DeleteYou are enjoying his company and using him. Simple! You are wicked. Pls let him go.
ReplyDeleteYou dont even like this guy let alone love. If you like someone they dont choke you. Everytime a woman says they are choked they dont like the guy but enjoy having some male attention waiting for another person. Let him go. Tell him you dont even want friendship. Dontbe seducing him with body language saying no with your mouth. Ladies we all know this right. We can all drag on an infatuated man to the point of distraction. Its immature behaviour dont do it
ReplyDeleteMtttsssccchheeeww
ReplyDeleteMayb d guy is broke n ugly.becos if dis guy get money na testimony d poster for send come
ReplyDeletePoster, drop his number here and let's see if he will still call you by this time, next week.
ReplyDeletePoster please stop pretending, if you don't love him as you claim i don't think you will agree to follow him up nd down for visiting before introducing you to people, oya drop his number here let all this aunty gbengs help u settle his brain, when he finally back up now, you will still come here to tell us what to do like one chronicle i read the other day.
ReplyDeleteNna nawa o,the way women are using styles to in there bbm number nd here in search of men bafuss me oo, baba.... Am even ashamed of them... Babes relax na, men doesn't behave this way.
ReplyDeleteI won't even say anything about your other errors, but what is "bafuss" biko?
DeletePoster, you are very selfish person, you enjoy his attention and you can cope yet cos is either his not financially stable the way you would have wanted !!! Pls let him go and dont cry when he finally left cos you will look for him.. I remember a chronicle when a lady started looking for a guy that stands in front of her gate every morning, after he left she started looking for him.. Make you own no be like that ooo..
ReplyDeleteI smell acid!
ReplyDeleteGirl, you didn't tell us that you are collecting money and things from this guy; aren't you? Let's assume you've not opened legs.
I smell acid!
@Poster - You didn't state your age whether its on your side or not, also the guy's age. From your write-up it seems dude is a small boy of 20-25yrs which has nothing to offer in terms of marriage.
ReplyDeleteHowever, if he's above 30, hold unto him but tie your legs together to avoid baby-mama's story because I have heard of how a guy went as far as changing his religion, joining choir/usher just to woo a lady and after their wedding, his true colour came out. I hope those changes are for good and not cunny cunny change just to woo you.
Poster if you don't love him and he is introducing you to poeple as his fiance please don't even be his friend break up completely, so dat guy can free himself too.
ReplyDeleteKwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa @brown teeth.
ReplyDeleteStella, U came too hard on her. There are ways you could have made your point other than that. That was quite rude.
ReplyDeletePoster, I understand how you feel. Cut all ties, let him go. Your been 'available' is raising his chance.
You really can't force love. Its not just abt money. I have been in ur shoes. Infact, d guy was just too rich, but i dint feel a thing for him.
I'm happily married now with a kid, and one on d way.... No i'm not gwez or whats dt ppl on dis blog say? I'm 26.
Thanks
DeleteThe same thing happened to me, poster the truth of the matter is u r encouraging him with ur smiles and going out with him, seeking him out in church after service, having long conversations, etc. But if u want it to end just stop the whole thing and he will stop. Stop doing STOP IT I LIKE IT. Cut the guy off he might even be my future darling, let him lose
ReplyDeleteI bet the guy is not good looking,and his not rich enough lol
ReplyDeleteStella give her ween jor.... what are you waiting for?
ReplyDeleteI had similar experience with one Akwa ibom guy like that hmmmmmmmm. I told the guy I no do yet him no wan hear I just farshi him side. The guy do do do still no wan rest. At some point I became sacred for my life especially with the way he will be begging to see me. I told my elder sis I'm scared the guy might harm him. I thank God he gave me the wisdom to end his madness. The only way was to marry without informing him.
Babe leave that guy for good if you don't love him make another babe enter the picture bec from your narrative you're really enjoying the chase.
I wish you all the best in your non feeling/love chase
Chronicle of a narcissist.
ReplyDeleteah ah...stella kila gbe kile ju
ReplyDeleteWhy r u taking this p?
Which one is brown teeth?
Abeg park well jor!
If u nor fit advise then keep shut
Poster beta tell us s truth and forget about dis am not interested tin
ReplyDeletePeaceful Jay says:
ReplyDeleteHmmmm....Who love don help?
Please BVNs, Do you know you can vote for stella every day until the end of voting. Please copy and paste link in your browser to vote SDK. http://citypeopleng.com/citypeoplesma2016/
Let us do this the SDK way.
The best way to get rid of this guy is to post his details in the best S/M am sure he will forget about you in a hurry when he see beautiful bvs in here. Pls dearie just make sure u don't get jealous when he finally finds someone here. Shoorrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
ReplyDeleteI guess Stella is off commenting..lol. Poster same thing happened to me but the difference is that I shunned the guy immediately cuz my NO is always NO. I always stand on my decision. As a matter of fact, a time came he was going about to tell people that I must agree to him because God said am his wife, that the way he created Adam and Eve was same way he made him and I....lol...can you imagine the rubbish. He also said spiritually, God said I am his wife but physically I am rejecting him. This is a guy I have never for one day had a positive dream about. Standing on my dreams and the physical hatred I have for him and his family ( his family over maltreated my family and I when things were more than rough before God smiled down on my parents), I gave him his the final warning of his life. Especially when he boldly said to my face that girls that always form hard to get are the cheapest. In front of my elder bro, I finished his career. And unlike big bro, he allowed me to tell the guy his life history without shutting me up. I dont care if he turns out to be mr president or the richest man tomorrow. My own is that I hate him and his entire family. And my blood boils for revenge anytime I recall the sufferings my siblings and I plus parents got from his wicked family. And I was always beaten like a slave because I was the most outspoken of my siblings. All these happened because his father game my family a free house when there was nowhere to go after dad got a sack letter from office. Then I was 10 years old and elder bro 12. There was no helper but God. Today, my family is living larger and larger than theirs. Parents have more than.........properties in PH and some places, and now I am 26 the mumu is coming to marry his dead body telling me God says....who is he trying to deceive sef? Anyway, he knows he cant enter cuz dad hates him and his family with passion. In conclusion, this life is turn by turn. Never you look down on anyone....With what my family went through, I rather help the poor than the rich cuz no one knows tomorrow. Off to church, God is the ULTIMATE!!!! Sorry for grammatical errors, gat no time to edit.
ReplyDeleteI really don't understand the comments here! Stella like did you even read the chronicle? She has told him severally yet the guy wouldn't bulge! She isn't leading him on jare! She is simply being nice and trying not to hurt his feelings! Poster belive me I have been there and done that! I met a guy that was crazy in love with me.( still till today) he is every woman's dream man! He is 34 and I will be 28. We both stay in the uk! Like he is so crazy about me and wants us to get married ASAP but I don't feel anything for him! Belive me I have tried to see if I can at least like him but NO! I just got no love for him and am single ooo and searching kwa! The guy in question is very very comfortable so pls you guys shouldn't just judge if you have not been there! The truth is the heart wants what the heart wants! You cnt force love or affection! If you don't love someone you don't love him! I really pity this guy and have told him severally how I don't feel anything for him yet he doesn't care and keep telling people that I am his wife to be! So poster Biko don't marry or be with any guy out of pity and don't mind these deceivers that would say marry a man that loves you more than you love him or a man that worships you Biko if you marry a man that loves you and you've gat no love for him then how will the marriage work? Would would you kiss him, make love to him ? Carry his child and live with him for ever? It will only make you miserable and thus the man unhappy too! So pls let love find you !
ReplyDeletePlease guard your steps and try and avoid Him for good.
ReplyDeleteLive him back abeg
ReplyDeleteOkay...
ReplyDeleteThis girl is enjoying it .
She just came here to show off.
In those days when a man wants to marry he goes to papa and say papa I want a wife end of story .
Papa hoes and look for a girl and she marries him.
I have asked those who married like that and they said after some time they start loving the guy .
But as a guy I take style blame this man.
I have been told that as a man face your business and find yourself .
Why does this gut think this is his woman?
Man that should be chilling and enjoying himself ...and achieving all he can . He has made this girl his life achievement and the girl is catching trips on his head .
She no even complain. She only felt like slapping ...
This one she dey talk when she marries the guy na she go begin give testimony here say she no know say collaboration be like that.
She seems to be under tension . Anyways wetin be my own...
I be anonymous for this gbege. Even the man no even know say gbege dey....
God save us from friendly enemies and time wasters.
Watch the movie THE PERFECT GUY.
ReplyDeletePlease o .I have not read any part in the bible that says a woman should be crazily in love with her would be spouse or even husbqns.My dear, he is supposed to love u the way he is doing now.
ReplyDelete