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Friday, February 19, 2016

Chronicle of Blog Visitor Narrative..

Hmmmm,how i wish i wasnt on sabbatical from commenting..wo,wa rogbo!





STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
MARRYING SOMEONE YOU 'LIKE'

Good day Stella,please (the person i am writing about) is an ardent reader of your blog thats why i am gonna code my name and his thanks.The story goes therefore::                                                  


My name is Evelyn,i hail from Imo state,29yrs of age.I have a boyfriend by name Fred 32yrs whom i have known for 13yrs now,we have been very good and close friends but we officially started dating in 2012.Ever since i was dating him,i have been cheating on him cos he was never there,either out of town or not so committed to us,mind you,i really loved him but it was complicated as i was always pushing for us to see and hang out more often but he was very very laid back at a point i started doubting his love for me which led to me cheating.


Infact i really wanted out of the relationship because i was tired of being pushy but he just never lets me go. I cheated on Fred with two different guys and my love for him dropped.I stopped cheating in 2015 cos i had issues with the others,they didnt have genuine love for me,they were after fun and cookie jar and i saw Fred's love was more genuine and he was really faithful,as in very faithful to me.The only guy i have maltreated,emotionally with insults and all, but he still sticks around.


I broke up with him so many times but he never leaves,he has cried countless times for me cos i hurt him with my (trying to quit attitude),he is that emotional,he has always been there.Now i am learning to put my mind to him cos he is the only serious person.  He proposed early last year and i was scared cos i dont love him as much and thinking of my ill treatment to him,i feel guilty.We talked at length,i told him my love for him has dropped,and he said we havent really been intimate(which is true)and we need to spice up the relationship.

I am just too confused.

He has the patience to work things out.I am really worried becos my love for him has really dropped but he loves me to pieces,i like him a lot,a whole lot but the feelings are not there,plus i feel so guilty about my past but seriously it wasnt  my fault (no cussing PLEASE).

My question Is .......
Will i grow to love him cos he is very lovable,adorable,understanding and of course handsome (that was my first attraction) he pampers me a lot,he has the fear of God,so peaceful and down to earth.I understand husbands are different from boyfriends,he has the qualities of a father and a good husband
(very good person)...what do i do,I am not thinking of confessing my past to him o,lielie because i dont want to loose him! 

Just scared of marrying him cos i dont love him as much as he loves me,infact i just like him.I need the opinion of mature people that are married and understands the difference between mere relationships and marriages.I dont want to hurt him.

Will i grow to love him like i used to or even more???Dear Stella your red pen please and mature Bv(s),your opinion please......








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114 comments:

  1. Joblesshousewife19 February 2016 at 15:00

    Hmmmm

    Joblesshousewife

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    1. Unknown19 February 2016 at 16:53

      Naija women.. Not seeing the real deal in front of them since 1900...
      Kontinu..

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    2. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 17:32

      poster, u don't hv problem. IF you want peace in marriage, marry someone who worships the ground you walk on, respects you and loves God wholehearted and you'll be happy in your marriage.

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    3. Mosiwomeka19 February 2016 at 22:45

      Don't marry someone you don't lobe cos you'll keep cheating.

      When he finally gets tired of your attitude when you guys are married, that will kill you more. But nawa for you o, *Lips sealed*


      I don't even know where to start from

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    4. Mosiwomeka19 February 2016 at 22:46

      Don't marry someone you don't lobe cos you'll keep cheating.

      When he finally gets tired of your attitude when you guys are married, that will kill you more. But nawa for you o, *Lips sealed*


      I don't even know where to start from

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    5. Anonymous20 February 2016 at 04:30

      Sweety, as long as you put your boo on a scale of preference list, you will not love him...at least not in the way he deserves. Your situation is like that of a girl buying a red shoe and hoping that it would turn black when you get home...very unlikely. Marriage is not the solution to your problem, neither is falling in love. In fact, marriage amplifies the problems in your relationship so if you don't deal with it now, it would affect you later. Your problem is respect; specifically your lack of respect. People fall in and out of love but it is respect that keeps you from cheating. Respect for yourself, your values and for your partner as well. Even if your Fred became everything you dreamed of overnight and you suddenly "picked up" the love you "dropped" for him, without RESPECT you will still cheat on him. Build your self esteem. PS: This attitude of keeping a bird at hand and five more in the bush is unwise. Drop it!

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    6. Anonymous20 February 2016 at 12:26

      My dear we all cheated b4 we got married. Biko what is love. As long as he loves u. That's all dat matters. Ur duty is to be submissive not to love. Marry him oh. At least u will have peace of mind. And if only people can be truthful to themselves, how many women marry for love?

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  2. Jojo19 February 2016 at 15:00

    Just negodu

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    1. Unknown19 February 2016 at 18:06

      When you nod your head yes, but you wanna say no...what do you mean?

      When you don't want me to move, but you tell me to go ...What do you mean

      Oh oh oh what do you mean....

      Dedicating this song to you poster. That'sAll!

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  3. SMURF19 February 2016 at 15:00

    Chronicles!! My favorite post

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    1. Unknown21 February 2016 at 21:58

      End time poster.
      You don't deserve to be pitied

      Delete
  4. excited courtesy19 February 2016 at 15:00

    my people chronicles of Friday don finally show.

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  5. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 15:01

    Just Negodu in emja's voice.

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  6. sugarcane19 February 2016 at 15:01

    Brb

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  7. Doppelgänger19 February 2016 at 15:02

    Go and buy a new scale and weight the level of love you have for Fred again.
    See her mouth like dropped.
    Get out of here my friend.

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    1. Doppelgänger19 February 2016 at 16:07

      *weigh. Thank you autocorrect

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    2. Peejay19 February 2016 at 17:43

      Dear Poster, please don't waste this gentle man's time. Search your soul, the answers are there.
      Doppelganger, I like you.

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    3. Doppelgänger19 February 2016 at 18:41

      Peejay, that's very kind of you. Thanks

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    4. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 19:12

      This teenager that you're using her picture to deceive people, does she know? For someone who is very active on this blog, I'm surprised!

      Delete
    5. Doppelgänger19 February 2016 at 22:57

      Anon 19:12
      1.You must have been at her naming ceremony to know her age.
      2.when you say deceive people, never ever have I claimed to be the one on my moniker.
      3.Am I supposed to go on a birth certificate search to ascertain the age of a person whose images are all over the Internet.
      4.you clearly do not have a life to be here clicking monikers.
      5.Google what doppelgänger means and don't come at me with crap.

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  8. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:03

    Can't read jare. Thinking about my life.lol

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  9. Mrs telema ronaldo(CR7 wife in making)19 February 2016 at 15:03

    Poster you need hot water to reset your brain.

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  10. xxxTrinityxxx19 February 2016 at 15:04

    You many to marry someone you "like" and whom you have cheated on countlessly?? Never marry or be with someone out of pity or out of desperation cos you will regret it much later.

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  11. Lizzy T19 February 2016 at 15:04

    You have no chronicle, just leave him and allow a more sensible babe into his life who he would love and she wld reciprocate too.

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    1. Unknown19 February 2016 at 17:21

      he is very lovable,adorable,understanding and of course handsome (that was my first attraction) he pampers me a lot,he has the fear of God,so peaceful and down to earth.


      Aunty if all dis qualities no make ur love towards d guy strong, nothing will. I think it is d guy dat should b sending in his story

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  12. ANGELRAY4SDK19 February 2016 at 15:04

    I don't love him, I don't live him data all I read up there,am sure he's just a normal struggling guy dats y u are talking of love, he was a bloody millionaire will u not jump at his offer, abed shift make I see road, small pikin chronicle, how old are u sef.

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  13. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:04

    Haaaa!

    Is there something you're not telling us?

    You don't like laid back men?

    Na adventurous ones you dey find?

    Be careful what you wish for, is all I can say.

    #WhiteDiamondOut

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  14. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)19 February 2016 at 15:05

    Poster,
    It's better for a man to love you more than you do in marriage...
    Am talking from experience...
    This one you are having double mind about him,hope he is not poor!!...
    My dear,RUN if he is a broke ass and don't look back...

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    1. Real Nutty19 February 2016 at 16:37

      Hey Quintessential maggot,u sound so cliché.pls diversify cos u r boring already.

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    2. Curious19 February 2016 at 18:05

      1. How old are you?
      2. Is your supposed world view real or you just messing with people's heads?
      3. Are you a nwa nsukka or a wawa person? I'm trying to understand the warped mindset.

      That'd be all for now.
      Grazie!

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    3. Anonymous20 February 2016 at 06:17

      Queen of sheba u be real ode. Big fool. Am sure u must be very ugly,short or smelly.

      Delete
  15. Emerald Bling NG 0806208740519 February 2016 at 15:05

    Marry him already...his love is enough for both of you

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  16. Blackberry19 February 2016 at 15:05

    Sound like ur Fred is a broke ass brotha!
    If he had hard core 'bubba' u would love him no matter what.
    U can grow to love him but don't take his loving attitude for granted.

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  17. Zany19 February 2016 at 15:06

    Will be back

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  18. ann19 February 2016 at 15:06

    Yes u will, it's a matter of time

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  19. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:06

    I really don't understand some women! Nne biko u are covered provided a man loves u more dan u love him, just try and receive sense. Ur likeness is enough. Or u can jejely call it quits for real this time so that the young man will find someone capable of truly loving him

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  20. Prettybee19 February 2016 at 15:07

    I hereby sentence you to 72lashes of koboko to reset your brain. U HAVE A GOODMAN YET SCARED TO BE LOVE

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  21. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:08

    Is he rich?
    How's the cocumber?

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  22. Mc pinky(Award winner of BV WITH THE MOST Gbagaun of the year 2021)19 February 2016 at 15:11

    U r a fool...ur chronicle is counterintuitive*Ode*


    Mc Pinky

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  23. Real Nutty19 February 2016 at 15:11

    My love for him has really dropped dats all I see....lol

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  24. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:12

    Yes

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  25. Amanda favour19 February 2016 at 15:12

    If he is rich please marry him chikena

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  26. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:12

    Better marry someone that loves you oooo!!! If you marry person when you love more than the way he loves you, na your chronicle go full Stella inbox ooooo.

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  27. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:14

    Poster1,u better marry him,u will luv him back with time cos good guys are hard to get these days oo.I was in ur shoes at some point in my relationship but i later gave myself brain oo,so u sef give ur sef brain.

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  28. busybee19 February 2016 at 15:14

    don't marry someone that you are not feeling abeg. u will end up an adulteress.

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  29. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:14

    Poster1,u better marry him,u will luv him back with time cos good guys are hard to get these days oo.I was in ur shoes at some point in my relationship but i later gave myself brain oo,so u sef give ur sef brain.

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  30. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:15

    Why are some girls so aimless and lack focus. Poster what's your problem? And you bvs please drop sentiment and be honest.. If its a guy doing this, he will be cussed out.

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  31. Yori Yori Princess19 February 2016 at 15:16

    See as i laugh at your koboko na (BULALA) you for call it.

    Madam FOOL. Go and get Musa Danjuma as your spec. Leave the broke ass guy because you dont want to say he is broke ass. you are just talking rubbish.

    you see that bulala under you, i will use it on that your waka waka leg like sai baba

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    1. Adanne19 February 2016 at 17:14

      The guy is obviously poor, hence the questions

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  32. Emeka Iwuji19 February 2016 at 15:16

    Seriously you are wicked to the core !! Stella now you wont talk abi, if is a guy you will know how to say it.. Poster seriously you do not love him and don't even bother to marry him cos you will definitely cheat on him once again !!! Seriously your wicked for emotionally abusing him like that !!!!!

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  33. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 15:18

    Is it just me or this chronicles is incoherent?

    more koboko please

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    1. Unknown20 February 2016 at 06:19

      Mehnn thought I was the only one that noticed.

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  34. Jonah ebere19 February 2016 at 15:19

    This comment has been removed by the author.

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    1. Unknown19 February 2016 at 19:41

      I totally agree with you oh. Tired of man,relationship,cheat,sex,lust chronicle

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  35. PLATINUM19 February 2016 at 15:19

    Dear poster you dont have any problem lailai. One would tink that at 29 you would be able to understand what really matters in life, , Especially in marriage, marrying someone who loves you this much after every thing you put him through isnt telling u something? Dude loves you to a fault, keep your guilt and confessions to yourself and force your heart to like him more, work on the little things you still like in him and give it time to grow n something tells me that if u let this guy go.... you will regret it. All the best!!

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  36. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 15:19

    poster why do you want to punish an innocent guy? if you don't love him, why do you want to play with his emotions? that koboko need to touch your body maybe your brain will reset to normal. why are ladies Like this, am sure you wanted so much gbenshing that is why you went ahead to cheat on him, chai, why do evil and wrong babes get lovely and nice men for relationship? we are here praying and fasting for a good man to come our way and someone is trying to let go of a great dude. if you let him go, wat do you really want? walk away and let serious minded ladies take good care of him, you see proposal you no crab am, you say you be 29?

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  37. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 15:19

    Just look at.. You cheated on him with two men still he wants you back..my dear you clearly dont deserve him..its people like you that make good men look foolish..

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  38. Pamela19 February 2016 at 15:19

    Now you have seen a man that loves you,down to earth and all.And you dont love him enough.Ok free him now to find peace and to people that deserve him.Why are you scared of loosing someone you dont love?Someone you only like?Well to me you are still with this man cos you ve not meet anoder person and that is a wrong excuse for marriage.This man have never wronged you and he is faithful.What else do you need woman??The choice is yours to stay or leave but make sure you marry him cos you love him and not out of pity or because you no other man is available.No need to tell him your past.Tell it to God.

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  39. Omonigho19 February 2016 at 15:19

    Why do ladies like giving demselves wahala and problems where there is none?
    U have a guy that loves u, he is patient, handsome, going to be a good husband/father and all that but u are still asking all d above questions.

    Abeg, stay where u are - with him.
    Except maybe he is not financially bouyant, dts y u re having doubting mind.

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  40. Ghanaman19 February 2016 at 15:19

    Some women get problem o! Kai!

    U don see person wey gbadu u now &u dey make shakara?

    Maybe u actually need Mrs. Kork's koboko.

    Una mata just tire me. Y'all are always complicated as usual!

    *Ghanaman signing out*

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  41. Ada Nwanbueze19 February 2016 at 15:20

    Mtewww yes because you don't have a problem

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  42. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:20

    Stella's koboko got me...hahahaha.

    Babe, lets face the fact, you do not like the guy. He is not your kind of guy, he does nt tickle your fancy, he doesn't leave you breathless anytime he crosses your mind, his touch does not give you goosebumps, should i continue???

    Drop him like a hot coal and find another boo which may turn out to be a 'pummeller'. Most guys with those wowing attributes listed up there are heart breakers, when they see that you have fallen inside love with them, you don expire be that.

    So diafore, pick a struggle sis.

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  43. LADYGEE (Crowd1 Biz)19 February 2016 at 15:21

    Poster why are you this indecisive. Your write up says he is adorable and all the nice things wrote there and you are still disturbing us. Abeg, the answers you seek are in your hands. Phew!

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  44. young FOREVER19 February 2016 at 15:23

    Still stylishly commenting,Stellz.

    As for you,poster, I dunno what you are still here asking us to help you do o.if you like,let the man slip away from you and you will forever regret it.

    My Rule: always marry someone that love you more than you do(I always gv ds advice to ladies o nd not men) and I am freely giving you now. You will be glad you did.

    Make sure you completely cut off from those side-men u r kwaffing upandan.you will grow to love him again since u did love him before.
    Good men r hard to find and most ladies WL go to any extent to get that man from you if they can get hold of any I do any him......

    Be wise

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  45. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:24

    If there is friendship accompanying the "like" then you can marry him.
    You ' might' grow to love him if both of you are committed to the marriage and ready to make it work.

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  46. Default Smile now a sweet mum of 2 Kings19 February 2016 at 15:25

    Nawa....
    a man loves you wahala.....he doesn't love you wahala

    315 comment 2016

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  47. Tha Prettiest19 February 2016 at 15:25

    Nawa for you...that guy does not deserve you I swear

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  48. KING Nwa AMAKA19 February 2016 at 15:26

    Who are the so called matured Bvs. How do you rate maturity? Age or experience?

    My advice to you is to stick with a man that loves you. If you love him more, the relationship will not be exciting because he will abuse it. Remember that the woman's happiness goes a long way in making a marriage work. The honest truth is that when you get married to him and probably have kids you will begin to love him. Does the guy have money? Broke men are usually the ones that don't let go even when they know the woman is not faithful. There is a possibility he knows your movements.
    Pray about it and let God handle the rest.

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  49. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:28

    What do ladies want? You have a very good Man.. you don't need to love him.. u like him.. good!! And he loves u more.. that's great. He will always adore you. As time grows, u ll love Him.. I wish I have a man that loves me more.. good and easy going girl like me..

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  50. Masculinist19 February 2016 at 15:28

    I don't have advice for you but I have for Fred! Fred listen, I know they say a guy must love a woman more than a woman does a man but that thing is BS. The ratio should be 4:3.9 if it is not 4:4! Never marry a woman with love ratio of 4:1 with you being 4 and her 1.

    I had a gf who I loved like that. I love her so much from university days when I was doing yahoo and boy did she have the best things. 2014 came she would still put her 'I don't care attitude' up and upload pic of her and a guy all loved up and put love emoticon tI'll I couldn't take it anymore.

    Baba if ANY female can't do 4:4 with you....to hell with her! It is not only females that deserve good things. Don't spend your life trying to convince a woman you love her even after showing her over and over again abeg!

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  51. Nakupenda19 February 2016 at 15:30

    Hmmmm!!!!
    I understand ur plight, you are just not into him like that.
    It's better you let him be so he can find someone who will reciprocate his love cos this is a case of not knowing the value of what you have.
    The other guys you've hooked up with only wanted your cookies, still you couldn't come 2 your senses 2 realize Fred is a treasure.
    Don't let the devil use you thereby making you regret your actions in the future.
    Be wise!!!!!!!

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  52. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:32

    My dear, if u like him,you can go for him.. The most important thing in marriage is for the man too love you more dan you do.... YES Very important.. Go girl!!!!!

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  53. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:32

    *to

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  54. Queen of Queens aka Boo's Barny19 February 2016 at 15:33

    @poster marry him,It's better he loves you more than you do.thats the coco

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  55. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 15:34

    Better leave that man to find his match cus you lack sense

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  56. Dewdrop19 February 2016 at 15:36

    Marry him.u would grow to love him now that he has shown commitment

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  57. De Imperfect Chick19 February 2016 at 15:39

    some have food, they cannot eat.
    some can eat but have no food
    God please help me to have food
    that i can eat.

    unto the next one.

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  58. adaedo19 February 2016 at 15:41

    so this is how ur village witches has refused to leave u alone.
    'he is very lovable,adorable,understanding and of course handsome,pampers u a lot,he has the fear of God,so peaceful and down to earth + he is patient too.just negodu! yet u left all these to be hopping around unserious guys.

    but seriously why do ladies maltreat the one that loves them and obsess over those that use them.

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  59. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 15:41

    Are u dumb or u are dumb.. The person u r writing about is a bv nd u wrote all ds here, ofcus he will read it nd knw it is hm u r talking about. No nid to confess to hm,, hm don alredi read am. Nd u r sure he has been faithful to u? Hmmn?
    it would v bn a perfect union fr u, if he is all dat u say he is, he sure loves u more and dats ow it shld be. But den, u gone nd spoilt thingz alwedi.. Oga o..

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  60. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:42

    Dnt marry him, u cudnt stay faithful when u thought u luved him hw mch more wen u feel u just like him
    Its better to cause him heartache nw dan in d future

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  61. Myah's Lifestyle19 February 2016 at 15:42

    Just let him go.

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  62. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:43

    Stupid chronicle
    @poster: please receive sense ijn

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  63. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 15:45

    Yeye dey smell.u see who love u naim make body dey sweet u.

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  64. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 15:45

    At 29 you have the sense of a dummy.
    No time to advise a fool.

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  65. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 15:47

    There is no perfect Man nor Woman out there. You need to move past your cheating escapades and start being civil to this Guy. You have seen how The other two Guys treated you. Nice Guys are very few and hard to come by. Settle down with this Guy as he has most of the qualities you like. Just keep being nice and civil to him and with time, you will begin to develop feelings for him. Don't confess nothing like you said oo!! Not down the road when the gbeshing begins, you start to sing like a Canary. Good luck!!

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  66. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:48

    Na wa oh... babe u harsh sha!
    Stella has said it all... u really need to be flogged with koboko.
    If you dont love him then let him go and stop wasting his time.
    In this era that we looking for faithful and loyal mate, you eventually have one and u still complaining.
    Ok.. Wait have u ever asked yourself what exactly you want?
    you sampling other guys, complaining u not feeling your guy and also same time you dont want to leave him.
    I guess he managing you out of love. #seriouswashy

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  67. miss Aboki the great19 February 2016 at 15:50

    Lmao @ the koboko pic
    Poster u re a big foool!!!
    So for your mind you don code abi?
    You just confessed about your previous philandering ways with your own mouth.
    It's not your fault that you cheated abi?
    So whose fault is it? Stella's i guess
    Stay there and be asking silly question ooo
    You will soon turn to a gwegs.
    Ewu! Ewu!! EWU!!!

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    1. Unknown19 February 2016 at 16:22

      It's not your fault that you cheated abi?
      So whose fault is it? Stella's i guess... Loool

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  68. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:51

    You are a child even at your 29 years.. please allow the poor guy to go look for someone that will appreciate his love and reciprocate.

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  69. Unknown19 February 2016 at 15:58

    Boring chronicle

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  70. xxxTrinityxxx19 February 2016 at 15:59

    You many to marry someone you "like" and whom you have cheated on countlessly?? Never marry or be with someone out of pity or out of desperation cos you will regret it much later.

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    1. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 17:01

      Stfu , what do u know , I guess u a kid cos that is how kids reason... Mature and experienced minds will say marry the man that loves you most for a beautiful marriage and happy peaceful one too

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  71. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 16:06

    This is absolutely self Pandemonium!!..."he loves me", "I don't love him", "I feel for him", "he has been there for me", "I cheated because he has not been there", "now he is always there", "other guys only want cookies", "he is the only genuine one amongst them"...Pls Fred (not real name as she coded) but I know you can decode as you are an ardent reader of this blog run!! for your life, this Lady will cheat on you if you marry her, there are one thousand and one ladies out there that deserved you. At poster you don't know what you want CHIKENA!!

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  72. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 16:12

    She don try to leave the guy but the guy no wan hear, so she kukuma bring am here codedly so that the guy go decode by himself since he is an ardent reader of this blog lol. Abeg fredo the babe want to dey enjoy herself free her with your emotions.

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  73. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 16:15

    I dont quite understand what you said about him being God fearing yet preaching initimacy.. Girl,swerve! Choose one!

    Hey but on the other hand.. You learn to love people. Let me re-phrase, i didnt like my bf wen he was asking me out.. Now ehn, the love is too much sef.. I am trying to reduce it. How did that happen..? He has money! 2.. He pampers me like crazy.
    I dont know about the former because you didn't say, but your bf has the qualities of the latter. then again, mine is bf/gf shit.. Yours is marriage. Which is totally different.
    Goodluck! If you cant stand him and you are sure the love can't resurrect, leave him be.
    Cheers!

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  74. Nkylorah19 February 2016 at 16:18

    Poster you are not serious. You need hot slaps to reset your brain. In marriage you don't need to love a man so much to marry him. It's better the man love you so much than u loving the man so much. Receive sense in Jesus name. Amen

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  75. Miss Ess19 February 2016 at 16:19

    See talk...

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  76. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 16:23

    Am not going to cuss you am simply going to tell you my own experience, it might not work for another though buy it did work for me. A lot of time people are being maltreated by the ones they love simply because they fell in love for the wrong reasons. I got married to the person I dreaded the most of all my suitors. As a matter of fact my friends were scared for me. I have had people I loved,who also claimed to love me in return but a long the line something happen I start seeing wrong signs and then heart break sets in. I reluctantly decided to settle for this man because from all indications he just seemed to be the will of God for me after so much prayer. All you need in a man is the fear and love for God and you and every other thing will be added. I don't regret the decision I made to marry that man because the practically adores. If a man gives you do much love, care , comfort and attention my dear loving him in return won't be hard work at all. In fact I can say I love him now to a fault.

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  77. MOTHER NATURE........19 February 2016 at 16:33

    My dear, all I can tell you is that your doubt of love for him is because he is broke. I've been there so I clearly understand. only broke ass guys kiss ass oh make I tell u. That guy will go back to square one after marrying you. Some men are good at coding their cheating ways that it will take the devil himself to fish his boys out.

    Please don't marry him just let the young man be biko. Once you use sentiment to marry, the next case na sorry for you go and ask.

    Abeg your chronicles no be chronicles.... just use ur brain finish.

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  78. Mao Akuh (Oriflame)19 February 2016 at 16:44

    My advice for you -

    @POSTER - YOU need JESUS

    #vagueChronicle

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  79. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 16:53

    He may loves you endlessly but you will still cheat on him if you marry him and you guys will eventually parted ways. he is not a mumu o!! If you don't love him, Let him go and find his happiness.

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  80. Speaking Out19 February 2016 at 17:07

    I understand perfectly what you are trying to communicate.
    Many people here can relate to that one way or the other but alot of them will choose to Pretend they don't.
    listen to my one Piece, Shits happens!, You messed up and he is still there. Forgive yourself and give the relationship your best because truth be told Men like him are hard to find. Don't cheat on him ever Again. He deserves to be happy too, and if you been with him Makes him happy, babe give him that. You already Respect and have Gratitude towards him that's good Enough, Love will follow as soon as you close your heart to other options.
    Ultimately, Try God. Jesus Christ is the solution to all your problems.
    Preach It! Aim to Live it!

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    1. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 21:20

      I just like this comment of urs

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  81. @michelleogo19 February 2016 at 17:41

    MARRY HIM! It's better he loves U more atleast that was what I was told.
    But then again u sound confused, how can U like someone and don't want to loose them and u re still confused. Mbok marry Him

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  82. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 17:49

    I think a mans love should be more than a womans in marriage.

    Women are nurturing in nature and can grow to love someone.

    I am not in any way or form in support of your cheating but I suggest you think of why you are cheating on him, if you have no aorta or love for him then you should move on otherwise stop cheating.

    Marriage is not all about love. Love fades but friendship is what keeps it going.

    After all said and done follow your heart.

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  83. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 17:50

    Go get a life joor, u no gist.

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  84. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 17:52

    Go get a life joor, u no gist.

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  85. Unknown19 February 2016 at 18:42

    U r not worthy of being/ marrying the man u just described..
    please let him be..u go look for akporoko like urself thats all i fit shout abeg..

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  86. Anonymous19 February 2016 at 19:23

    Please pray about it.

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  87. Eastner19 February 2016 at 21:29

    look@you!!! m just smh for u. u dont realise how lucky u r to ve a man who Absolutely loves u. shebi if it was that rosy outside,u wouldnt ve turned back to ur guy. those two guys u cheated with only wanted d cookie jar like u said.. i bet u loved them but they messed up,right?see eh,marriage isnt perfect. itz more about compatibilty than anything else. back in d days,our mothers learned to love our fathers after getting married. it is better when ur man loves u more. in d end,itz ur choice.

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  88. Chyluv!19 February 2016 at 23:23

    Receive sense!

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  89. Anonymous20 February 2016 at 02:49

    Why is this Lady very annoying like this ?
    I blame the guy o. Tomorow you will look for church to sleep. You answered your questions, you cheated and you want natured answers.
    We need to move technology forward so that some people's phone can slap them . Just negodu

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