Anita Oyakhilome has finalized her divorce from Controversial Pastor Chris Oyakhilome of Christ Embassy.
Her Solicitors, Attwaters Jameson Hill, in a statement said the divorce was finalized on February 8 and stated Anita had dropped Oyahkilome from her name for Obhodaghe.
The statement, published on the United Kingdom-based law firm’s website, read;
“We have been requested by Anita Oyakhilome to confirm that on 8th Februray 2016 a decree absolute was pronounced in the High Court of Justice Principal Registry of the Family Division dissolving her marriage to Christian Onehirokpeana Oyakhilome.
“Anita Oyakhilome would like to confirm that she is no longer involved in or part of Christ Embassy AKA Believers LoveWorld INC.”
culled:dailynigeriannews.
Wow!!!..I still cannot believe this couple not just fell apart but divorced even when the Bible which contains the word of God which they preach advises against it...It confuses my Christianity and questions the role of the men of God in counselling...This really really messed up my mind reading this and I am upset!!!
It's well oh!
ReplyDeleteDon't be confused stella,its better to leave than to die there,alot of things happening behind closed doors,if revealed,nobody will like to get married.
DeleteThe men of God sometimes allow the devil to use them,its even in the bible which states that "if one lies on the bed will he or she be warm alone?"again can two walk together except they agree?divorce can only take place when one of the parties commits adultery,so stella abeg use ur tongue count ur teeth jor,heaven na personal race oo
She took a bold step!
DeleteStella why are u sad?the bible is against divorce but not when adultery and desertion is involved.i don't want to preach but pls read 2corinthians vs 7.there are 3 doctrines abt marriage in the bible:paul's,Gods,and the pharasees.if u follow God's doctrine which is the ultimate the terms are u should divorce ONLY if ur spouse commits adultery and deserts you.and the adulterous partner should remain single.its possible she has evidence against her ex husband cheating but out of respect and honour to God and regard for his ministry decided not to publish it.no woman should endure infidelity,it kills u from the inside out.God hates divorce but he doesn't hate divorcees.if he sleeps around give him the boot.weda him be arch bishop,who cares???
DeleteHello Stella,I will go anonymous on this one. Whatever happens to their marriage only God knows and it is not of anyone of is to judge but rather pray for them. I personally am going through a loveless marriage with beautiful two boys. To
Deletethink that this guy I married,who has nothing but depends on me most of the time treat me like shit. For five years, he's never clothed me, buy any gift, never gave me money to look after the house or buy food stuff. This man only go out when he likes to buy few groceries and stuck in the fridge and expect me to come and say thank you for buying groceries. Stella he doesn't pay school fees and house rent ooh. I clothe myself, and the kids, used to share rent with him but now no more he doesn't pay no more. He never cared about my upkeep but expect to fuck me every single night. He let his family abuse me and stand by their side. He's family never see anything wrong with whatever he's doing to me. To think that he was married and never told me only for me to find out after wedding when I put pictures on Facebook was the worst thing that ever happened to me. Thank God I got in touch with the wife and we had a one on one talk and I told her I never knew about his marital status which she understood. Stella dis is not marriage. A marriage of deceit and to think that our pastor who encouraged me into marrying him never knew he was married. Only for them to ask him and he said it was the love he has for me that made him to hide his marital status. And that moreover it was only trad they did. I know some people will say maybe I was desperate. Far from it,I was a banker doing well for my self and he was a humbled worker and highly respected in church and that qualities alone bit other suitors coming for me. But how wrong I was. Well my heart is made and his game is up. No turning back.
Hello Stella,I will go anonymous on this one. Whatever happens to their marriage only God knows and it is not of anyone of is to judge but rather pray for them. I personally am going through a loveless marriage with beautiful two boys. To
Deletethink that this guy I married,who has nothing but depends on me most of the time treat me like shit. For five years, he's never clothed me, buy any gift, never gave me money to look after the house or buy food stuff. This man only go out when he likes to buy few groceries and stuck in the fridge and expect me to come and say thank you for buying groceries. Stella he doesn't pay school fees and house rent ooh. I clothe myself, and the kids, used to share rent with him but now no more he doesn't pay no more. He never cared about my upkeep but expect to fuck me every single night. He let his family abuse me and stand by their side. He's family never see anything wrong with whatever he's doing to me. To think that he was married and never told me only for me to find out after wedding when I put pictures on Facebook was the worst thing that ever happened to me. Thank God I got in touch with the wife and we had a one on one talk and I told her I never knew about his marital status which she understood. Stella dis is not marriage. A marriage of deceit and to think that our pastor who encouraged me into marrying him never knew he was married. Only for them to ask him and he said it was the love he has for me that made him to hide his marital status. And that moreover it was only trad they did. I know some people will say maybe I was desperate. Far from it,I was a banker doing well for my self and he was a humbled worker and highly respected in church and that qualities alone bit other suitors coming for me. But how wrong I was. Well my heart is made and his game is up. No turning back.
Wow Anon 11.21, I'm so sorry you're going through this. But it is well. Your children are a blessing please look after them. Find something that makes you happy and hold unto that. In all hand it over to the great comforter and king of kings.
DeleteSorry hunni take heart,I can relate to that believe me
DeleteOh dear,your story just made me sad! May God heal your pain...
DeleteU post your wedding pics on facebook and fund out ur newly wedded hubby is married to someone else, and u still went ahead and stayed with him for 5 years and birthed two kids, na wa. So u r just making up ur mind now, u slow o
DeleteWhy didn't you leave when you found out? You are just being wicked to yourself.
DeleteI understand your plight, any marriage that is based on deceit should be considered null and void, the marriage should be annulled, with the way it stands, you are accommodating and feeding a full grown man, men like this should be taught great lessons, take your children and leave the house for some time, he should learn to fend for himself, when he begins to pay house house for himself he will appreciate you the more, I know it's easier said than done but a desperate situation requires desperate measures. It's very irritating when a man that cannot take care of his family wants to fuck at night.
DeleteStory!! Mummy Stella don teach us to be careful with one sided story.. ANiTA is wrong out if billions of women he chose you even you started the divorce proceeding he pleaded n even denied that's trying to make a way for reconciliation that thing you see outside we go soon know . The spotlight is on Chris now soon it will turn on you!
DeleteHmmmmmmm
DeleteAnon 11:21,
It is well with you..
To think I and my fiance re heading for introduction come April, this your post just makes me cringe.
Well I have started my Snooping spares already.
When I discover any fim, I call it off..
No time for stories
No time for had I known.
Why do people make divorce seem like its f greatest sin on earth. There are other things the bible is against but we still do it. Please we l are under the dispensation of grace not law. So SDK you don't need to worry or get confused.
DeleteAm still Speechless over this matter.
ReplyDeleteWell, I'm not speechless.... i applaud her bold step, most women will die in silence in such regardless & loveless marriage, they'd console themselves with "Better to cry in a Bentley than Bicycle".... She fucked all that crap & boldly put a foot nfront of the other, even when other regional frying hair pastors pleaded & tried to salvage the already broken union, a woman knows when that ship has sailed...... She's been living like a single woman wit a marriage certificate saying otherwise, alot of women are in same boat, but society & finance has shackled them beyond words, making the figure head walk like gods amongst men, fuck that!!!! Ask me and id tell u "A real man puts his family 1st" regardless how mch congregation he commands or zeros to his swiss bank account.
DeleteAtheist you re so so Right
DeleteAtheist you re so so Right
DeleteGbam!You head is there saying it the way it is.I was a member of Christ embassy and even worked with the Publishing ministry and the rot there is something else, she may not be perfect but endured a lot and Pastor Chris was not willing to make the marriage work.
DeleteAtheist,i just gained a new respect for u.
DeleteAfter they will be preaching nonsense...whatever it was Anita couldn't endure anymore, has be way beyond repair. my2cent. Ain't surprised
DeleteMadam Stella d bible said divorce can take place when there is infidelity! Do u know if that is d case? They are humans too pls! Let's not be quick to judge
ReplyDeleteInfidelity you said? It is only because of the hardness of their hearts,but you should forgive and it should be 70 ×7.
Deleteplease it is wrong to quote the bible when you are not sure of it or remembers it completely.
@ Elegant Nums But what of forgiveness and reconciliation? They are supposed to be examples to many couples.
DeleteSo we shldnt judge a man that's meant to be winning souls for the lord? We shld turn a blind eye when he flogs his members secretly abi??
DeleteThe Bible encourages divorce in a case of adultery but there is a clause which makes me wonder if God actually wants couples to divorce
DeleteHe said couples should divorce in cases of adultery but none of them should remarry until one person dies..
So meaning even in divorce, your vow still stands (till death do us part)
And if one person remarries without the death of the other, it's adultery..
Make she forgive until she carry HIV abi?when she dies na marriage certificate go carry am enter heaven abi?
DeleteI am upset as well Stella and I think Anita does just want it to work out.. This one is on Anita!!! We should pray for Chris this trying time.. She allowed unchristian member of the church to mess up her mind.. Jealous evil women looking for their own downfall. Sad really sad.. But just as Benny Hill reconciled with the wife let's hope and pray that somehow maybe they work this out in the future.. Sad honestly! All of a sudden you realize he's violent aggressive and a flirt
ReplyDeleteImagine what u are saying,why blame the wife?do u know what she's been going tru?na ur type dey die inside husband hus even if he pounds u like apostolic band or sleep around like a nympho.
DeleteWhy should we pray for him? What if he is the reason she is leaving? I really commend this woman for taking a walk out of the marriage, some of these women married to these so called pastors suffer in silence for fear of what congregation and people like you will say. Pastor Chris is god, so the problem has to be the woman. Stella they are human beings like every other human being, nobody is above sin.
DeleteAbeg make we hear word which kain its on anita its becoz of ppl like u some of this men of God get of doing the wrong this na until she die una go knw sey she be better person abi! After all the shit she has endured mayb if she was ur mother or sister u wld hv seen it differently
DeleteDid I read all of a sudden? The woman suffered for many years.
DeleteOh shut up your mouth, you ignorant person. Is Chris Oyakhilome a pastor? Someone who teaches people how to speak in tongues. Who says masturbation is not a sin. Who charges money for people to hear him preach. Who allegedly commits adultery with church members. Have several seats and go and read the Bible.
DeleteRespect her wishes, u don't know what she's passing thru, if she's okay been divorced,than go depressed then be it. These are some of the reasons Y DV women don't speak out coz of what u jst wrote up there
DeleteWhat is this one saying. It's people like you who encourage dv and celebrate men who are cheats. You listed all of the above and you expect her to stay with him because? Oh because she's not having a black eye. Let her stay so that she will come and answer her own 10 questions after death. Go to church for God no carry pastor matter for head. I wonder if it were your sister you will ask same questions.
DeleteHonestly you are calling another church member unchristian. This statement alone makes you unchristian. It's on Anita... I hate the way some of these followers are so blinded. Are you a party to the marriage? When your pastor with his fried hair was cheating why did you not tell him it is unchristian or tell him it is on him. Anita should find out and sit quiet because?? He does not hold the key to heaven make anybody di Waka find e salvation. Awon supporters. Leave trash for lawma
DeleteShut that hole in your face you call a mouth!!! Of course it's always easy to blame the woman.Do you think it was easy for her to have come to such a decision?Chris is the 'saint' abi? Confused 'Christians'
DeleteShut that hole in your face you call a mouth!!! Of course it's always easy to blame the woman.Do you think it was easy for her to have come to such a decision?Chris is the 'saint' abi? Confused 'Christians'
DeletePray fire! Abeg Nigerians should focus on praying for themselves jare. Na so we go carry our busybody reach God side.
DeleteYou cant accept that he was useless in her life when she lived in UK and he lived in Nigeria. What kind of marriage was that
DeleteNawooo...see as you summarized it. Wia you dia?
DeleteEhen! Judgina... Because Pastor Chris said so, it is now true that it's Anita's fault abi? Do you know what it takes for a woman to back out of her marriage?
DeleteWhen she accepted to leave her husband to live a luxury life in the UK what did you all expect.. You all want to put all blame on Chris do the same for your brothers and sons Rubbish! Women keep your home forgiveness is key he pounds you forgive na so una go deh rush rush comot.. Same as one woman posted the pic of her bf gf.. You all gutter breed bashing this lady take several seats... Anita was also aggressive and violent na only Chris una see..
DeleteHope they reconcile like Benny Hinn and wifey did. I'm not surprised sha. Him and Chris Okotie na the same category
ReplyDeleteReconcile ? When Christian is busy collecting anal and giving anal. You never see chomtin.
DeleteJust Amazing, how did u know? Do u live with him? Oh! You've given him anal b4 abi? Mtchewww!!! Judginas
DeleteAwwww that's sad! Stella don't be confused ooo! All d more reason 4 us not to look unto any man as an example or role model. we all vulnerable to d same temptations and sins. To each man his own race, seek GOD n heaven for yourself, let JESUS be your counselor that way when man fails u won't even be bothered by it.
ReplyDeleteAll d best to both of em
There is something she isn't saying.
ReplyDeleteThere is more to it than the obvious.
May God grant them peace.
STELLA IS EBHODAGHE
ReplyDeleteNOT OBHODAGHE
Goodluck to her. When Pastors cannot keep their homes, how they advise their members
ReplyDeleteUpset about what? The woman was a virtuous woman. She did not deserve what she went through. Now let that dark lady with a Yoruba name take over officially. Madam, start your own church. You sinceerely love God.
ReplyDeleteHa!! Dark lady with a yoruba name ke? Hmmm, na wa o.
DeleteStella u ought to be oo. Most of d so called Men of God are actually MEN OF THE WORLD, most of them got into church thnz cos of money nd fame. Thy do not hv conscience, can someone tell me wot d homes of all his members will turn to in few years to come?no one is judging any one here for dos dt will com under my comment to rant. I hv bn married for d past 18 yrs nd hv so many reasons to divorce but I cnt nd will not Bc God hs a lay down principle for marriage.so my question is ' why can't a so called man nd woman of God not endure nd giv him everything to find peace in their home? Recently I noticed dt it is very easy to preach than to practice, holding d microphone, dressing well nd good oral diction isn't wot qualify one as a man of God. I do not hv any personal grudge with pastor Chris, but his case is a wake up call to all d self acclaimed men of God. God can not be mocked, if u cnt keep nd manage ur home, stop deceiving d poor masses. Enough of all ds nonsense
ReplyDeleteU are blessed my dear. U just. Spoke my mind. Same with Okotie dat has married more than 3 times. What a shame!
Deletethat's why as Christians Jesus and his word should be what we look up to, not pastors.
ReplyDeletepeople help me with any meaningful and beautiful girl names beginning with letter G na.
Georgina, Geraldine, Grace, Glory/Gloria, Gift, Genevieve, Gladys, Gold, etc etc.
DeleteGeorgina, Geraldine, Goodness,Gertrude
DeleteHere you go:
DeleteGABRIELLA, GABRIELLE, GENEVIEVE, GISELLE, GLORIA, GINA, GABRIELA, GIADA, GWENDOLYN, GRACIE, GUINEVERE, GLADYS, GERTRUDE, GILLIAN, GIULIANA, GERALDINE, GLENDA, GRISELDA, GWENEVERE, GEORGETTE, GABI and GISELA just to mention a few. You can google for more.
thank you.
Deletedivorce is allowed if there is absent of fidelity.so good luck to chris and good luck to anita and i wish her another best love of her heart which i believe pastor is already have.
ReplyDeleteIs your comment meant to be a joke?
DeleteEnglish atago kwanu afufu..i need glasses mbok
DeleteYes, prish it boy. Your 'ed dey there.
DeleteNumber 1 candidate for Sunday Laughs! Stella take note!
Deletehow will they advice their church members who may fund themselves in their situation?
ReplyDeleteExactly what I thot
DeleteNa wah oo..this is not good news at all.
ReplyDeleteIn as much as two must agree to have an agreement, the day one disagrees, that agreement is no longer whole and termination of the agreement becomes the only way forward for each party to find and have the opportunity to agree with some other party of interest thereby consenting to a brand new agreement all over again. One's Life & salvation are too precious to be determined by just one human being. The ultimate is your r/ship with your creator. Note: if divorce is a sin like every other sin, and all sins can be forgiven especially the sin of a mistake or error in judgment, then pls quit that which puts even your salvation in jeopardy. God be with us all as we continue to live under his grace. I judge no man.
ReplyDeleteIt is so clear that u r a member of his church, keep deceiving yourself nd bn living in sin and continue to shout Grace.. intellectual foolishness
DeleteIt is well with their soul. How will both of them ever preached about marraiges. what examples will they be setting for people. Majority of Christ Embassy Members looks up to them. I pray none faith will be affected
ReplyDelete*preach
DeleteSo sad.
ReplyDelete306 comment 2016
Lol, be upset na. The early some of us stop glorifying these so called Men of God, the better.
ReplyDeleteAll ye daddy in the Lord activists, be guided.
Earlier
DeleteTell em
DeleteThey are only human after all. At least it sends a message out to women in toxic and abusive marriages, that it's okay to take a walk or run as the case may be.
ReplyDeleteOh too bad, it's well.
ReplyDeleteNa wa o.
ReplyDeleteStella, it shouldn't mess up your mind. That's why it's good to look up to Jesus and stick with the word. These men of God are humans after all, they aren't angels. They are not the standard, JESUS is the standard.
ReplyDeleteExactly!
DeleteYes o Jesus is the standard.
DeleteWhat do u expect when his best friend is Chris Okotie? Birds of a feather. Soon, TB Joshua might join them but I reject it on his behalf
ReplyDeleteThis is what you get marrying a white woman. They are not like black people that love staying in a marriage that is not working.
ReplyDeleteWhite woman? With a Nigerian surname? Is she not from Edo state ni?
DeleteShe is not white, she I from edo state
DeleteWho told you Anita is a white woman?
DeleteYour foolishness is epic. Not every time ihn
DeleteWhat is this one saying?
DeleteEasy guys, Truth be told White woman are more likely to leave a relationship that is not working for them than Black women.
Deleteyou dont need to be born white to be 'white'. You can be 'white' through your Acts and 'UnActs'
This is sad, I hope they'll reconcile in future.
ReplyDeleteWe need to pray for our pastors daily for Peace to reign in their home
ReplyDeleteOde oshi,pray for ur home
DeleteMumu. Have you finished praying for yourself?
DeleteLMAO...jehova. but she hasn't said anything that warrants an insult.
DeleteIt is well
ReplyDeleteLet me c who he would marry next....men of God ehn! Lol kai....do as I say pastors.
ReplyDeleteAbi o
Delete*Sighs*
ReplyDeleteLord, fix this cos the weapons of our warfare are not carnal...
Stella, you don't need to be angry. They're mortals and susceptible to errors and temptations.
It's well.
*no condition is permanent*
l hope this is lesson to stupid Nigerian women. Leave the man if hebis not making you happy. I dumped mine as well. I am happt and l amnot looking for another one. Well done Anita. Stella sorry but rememberthat only she knows whatnwent down.
ReplyDeleteStill on d matter, potable Viv I have a crush on u!!!! Call me babe or gimme ur digits
ReplyDeleteKelvin dat Edo Boi
She said she's married. Leave her alone
DeleteI feel really bad too, but let's not be quick to judge cos he is still a servant of God, we did not call him, God did,so let God handle him.we should be very careful how we speak on this matter.God bless
ReplyDeleteU ar a miserable fool. U ar just a blind goat. I pray u jump into a well cos ur stupid pastor asks u to. Its so glaring that this useless man is fake but some idiots still follow him
DeleteDear anonymous 11:27.Your misery and blindness is yours and yours alone. Stop explaining yourself, we get it
DeleteGTFOH!
DeleteHow do you know who God called and who He didn't? It's people like you that worship pastors instead of God.
DeleteAnita are you here?? Everyone is not meant to agree with everyone else!! I'm sure their kids no matter the situation wouldn't wish their father be separated from their mum.... Mummy Stella I'm sure you are raising your kids well please scrutinize any potential girlfriend..
DeleteAnon 13:44 please carry your stereotype reasoning out of here. When your daughter gets married to a man who doesn't respect her and uses her for a punching bag, encourage her to work it out. You will be reading ten questions like the one that pastor left for his dead wife to answer. The good news is, you will be the one to answer the questions. In as much as God encouraged marriage in the Bible, I didn't see where he says a woman should be treated like a slave or stay even if her husband beats her. In other words what all you and your troops are trying to say is God does not love women. Till death do us part does not mean till you kill me. I hate when people try to use the name of God in vain. All ye pharisees with your lip service way of practicing religion.
DeleteStella, I'm sure she knows the bible but we all don't know why she took that decision. It's btw her and her maker. If she's happy, I'm happy for her. No one ever knows how the shoe pinches. Good luck Anita!
ReplyDeleteStella, I'm sure she knows the bible but we all don't know why she took that decision. It's btw her and her maker. If she's happy, I'm happy for her. No one ever knows how the shoe pinches. Good luck Anita!
ReplyDeleteIt's a pity, but they wear the shoe and know where it pinches
ReplyDeleteI am not upset about the breakup but with the way they made couples who fell out of love to remain married by making them believe that divorce is not of God yet so many of them cannot stay in marriage simply because the man refuse to put them in control of the church affairs. The same pastors mount the pulpit everyday to remind us that husbands and wives are one. They tell us there is no ME in marriage but US. I don't know what to believe anymore. If they find love elsewhere good for them. I really don't care on the last day I will answer for myself.
ReplyDeleteHow would you even believe that she refused to stay in the marriage because the man refused to her in control of the church? Why would she even think of being in control?
DeleteShe wears the shoes, and she knows where it pinches.
Stella, Its nothing to be upset about. The guy is a fraud and lacks the presence of God, am glad she is no longer a part of his gimmicks
ReplyDeleteAbi. Big time fraud
DeleteAnonymous, you better don't take sides in issues concerning couples. U aren't in their home how wld u be sure she's wrong. # elegant nun, can you Pls quote where in d bible dat if there's infidelity one can divorce. At least so I can use as a backup when issues like dis is discussed.
ReplyDeleteNow I am confused..
ReplyDeleteBible says you can divorce on ground of infidelity and after divorce the both Parties should remain unmarried except in death but another chapter says that God frowns at divorce.
Am not a very good Bible student and will be glad if am clarified justly on this???
Two very clear reasons for divorce are laid out in the Word:
Delete1. Sexual immorality, committed by either spouse.
Matthew 5:32 says, “But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” Later, Jesus reiterates this in Matthew 19:9, “And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
2. A nonbeliever leaves the believer.
In 1 Corinthians 7:15, Paul instructs the believer who is married to a nonbeliever this way, “But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace.” Someone who does not claim to be a Christian cannot be held to the same standards that God has laid out for His followers. But the believing spouse who is divorced by an unbeliever has not sinned against God, because it was the unbelieving spouse who did the leaving.
All that said, God does not encourage divorce. It is not something to be done without much thought and prayer and consideration for any children involved. Divorce was not in God’s original plan for marriage and the family. He always wants us to seek reconciliation first whenever possible. Divorces can get nasty, especially when kids are involved.
Hmmmmm.... Speechless
ReplyDeleteIt seems like 'fidelity' was one of the issues but it's not even the justification that am looking, what I hated the most was the LIES! Chris Oyakhilome is a human being just like everyone else so why was he hiding the fact that they were separated for years and years? He always painted pictures of a perfect marriage, he'll publish 'Rhapsody of realities ', put the woman's picture there whereas water had long since passed under the bridge! Haba
ReplyDeleteNow, it's time for all those high-waist-trouser-wearing, beautifully painted choir mistresses and all, to scramble for her place in his life.
ReplyDeleteOriegwu!
This is not the first time I'm seeing a preacher not practising what they preach, so, my head is not messed up by this news.
#WhiteDiamondOut
It is well. I wouldn't blame Anita, I'm sure if she decides to open up on all she's been thru,,,,hmmmm.... Judgement truly would start from the church!
DeleteNa dem sabi. I guess by now plenty gals are running around to enter the position of the next wife. All these coming from the house of God. Are they still fit to counsel couples have troubles in their marriages?
ReplyDeleteWhat are we even afraid of, that Ms Anita divorced Mr Chris BASED ON ADULTERY allegation? These Pastors be deceiving their members by commiting adultery, extortion, etc while using the Scripture to brainwash them "THOU SHALL NOT JUDGE".
ReplyDeleteAnd we have refused to tell them the truth that's why some of them have been practicing EVIL and we thought God is happy with us. Until we rebuke EVIL, evil will not leave us alone.
GOD's GRACE.
Stay strong Ms Anita.
That was how one yellow paw-paw calabar sister was almost leaving with the Kano Christ Embassy branch Pst B. then,they'll go to church on sundays together, come back together, sleep, etc and when one talk, na thou shall not judge you'll hear. Thank God Pst Biodun later married her.
there own wahala.
ReplyDeleteSo this matter that Christ Embassy members were hiding and denying has finally come to light?! If na d other Chris own, una mouth go run like gutter water. Now una dey talk like person wey get hiccup. Hypocrites!
ReplyDeleteI wonder what they advice couples who are having issues in their church to do.
ReplyDeleteI dont understand why a man of God cannot subdue his flesh.
It's a pity but am not surprised since he started frolicking with TB Joshua.
Itts a pity his church members see her as d bad one. Well,its all good. A born catolic till I die
ReplyDeleteOf course they see her as the bad one because they are all being brainwashed by that fraud they call a pastor.
DeleteAnon 11:21... since you are a banker and have beautiful kids, why dont you leave the idiot and start all over again. Look at what you wrote and you are still there. I must be MRS BY FORCE.
ReplyDeleteStay there and continue writing more chronicles. Na read i go dey read and advice if possible.
This is an eye-opener for everyone carrying his or her pastor like God himself. Salvation is aa personal race. Pastors have their own life issues as well as in the case of Chris Oyakhilome and wife. She is the one who knows what really went down in marriage. May God guide her accordingly.
ReplyDeleteWow!its really crazy how humans condemn,criticise and judge people. Even the ones that do not even have an idea of the happenings or know about a person's story..Jeez!! It's so sad..Just because social network gives us the chance or opportunity to air our view shouldn't be an avenue to judge or condemn.its very bad. If we do not know a thing concerning an issue,we can aswell go to the next page..Judge not so yea might not be judged. We don't have to comment on all post!!#justthinkingaloud#
ReplyDeleteWhile i commend pastor Anita for owning her reality and doing what she felt was best for her. I do not believe Adultery was the issue here as it was not cited, i think they just grew apart and pastor Chris was never really there as a husband for her. Wish them both the best. The grace of God is sufficient
ReplyDeleteAnd dere goes d Dearth of once upon a Happy Marriage.
ReplyDeleteChai.
Na wa oh!
ReplyDeleteSerious matter but I'm happy for her. You only live once and its better to do so on your terms, life is too short biko
ReplyDeleteI'm not a great fan of Pastor Chris (putting it lightly) but I cannot help but feel sorry for this man and this woman, and I cannot judge either of them. I've been married for 15 years and I can tell you marriage is work, and it involves both of you working at it, there is no perfect human being, no one is right or wrong what we have is a lot of pain and resentment and coming from a broken home, some very brokenhearted children.
ReplyDeleteI cannot see Pastor Chris as a brute or Pastor Anita as the victim or vice versa, they're both wrong, so how do you judge a case where both parties are wrong? Many as usual will take sides and judge this one and stand for the other and speak like they can do it better, if you're married happily or otherwise you should not be able to condemn anyone, it takes two to tango and you must know it is work.
Truth be told we expect more from our pastors and teachers, after all they're the ones we run to when we're in trouble right? Yes, but does that exempt them from being human beings? No it doesn't and this whole thing has proved it. So rather than putting them on a scale like we're better, let's do what the bible tells us to do speaking in the context of Christianity since we're talking about pastors, pray for them!! Lest ye face your own heavy temptations Galatians 6:1
I am sure Chris brainwashed members will tell him ride on pastor, we are behind you.
ReplyDeleteI hope Anita got a substantial share from that investment. She worked hard with her soul and body.
My advice for every Mummy G.O: You are not there only to wear big hat, gold jewelries and the likes, preaching, seeing clear and unclear visions. Make sure your name is included in the constitution of the Church. I have come across the constitution of some of these churches. They are purely owned by the G.O's and their families. Mummy G.O's make una no dull unaselves o.
For people who are disappointed; it a strong message from God to look unto the true God as God and not mere mortals. This is what happens when men try to make a God out of anything that isn't the true God... they fail woefully. .
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