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Sunday, January 31, 2016

Unhealthy Competition


Day 21 of 21






Unhealthy Competition.

I was jogging one morning and saw a man in front of me, about 1/2 a kilometer. I could tell he was running a little slower than me and I thought, good, I  shall try to catch him. 
I had about a kilometer to go my path before I needed to turn off. So I started running faster and faster. 
Every block, I was gaining on him just a little bit. After just a few minutes I was only about 100 meters behind him, so I really picked up the pace and pushed  myself. 
I was determined to catch him, that I finally caught up and passed him. 

On the inside I felt so good. "I beat him" of course, he didn't even know we were racing. 
After I passed him, I realized I had been so focused on competing against him that I had missed my turn. 

I had gone nearly six blocks past it. 
I had to turn around and go all back, then it hit me, Isn't that what happens in life when we focus on competing with co-workers, neighbours, friends, family, trying to outdo them or trying to prove that we are more successful or more important? 

We spend our time and energy running after them and we miss out on our own paths to our God given destinies. 
The problem with unhealthy competition is that it's a never ending cycle. 
There will always be somebody ahead of you, someone with better job, nicer car, more money in the bank, more education, a prettier wife/fiancée a more handsome husband/fiancee, better behaved children, etc.

But realize that "You can be the best that you can be when you are not competing with anyone."

Some people are insecure because they pay too much attention to what others are doing, where others are going, wearing and driving.

Take what God has given you; the height, weight and personality.
Dress well and wear it proudly! You'll be blessed by it.
Stay focused, live a healthy and happy life.

There's no competition in DESTINY, run your own RACE, wish others WELL and you will live a fulfilling life that you never could imagine.
Prayers......

Today, spend at least 10 minutes giving thanks to God for everything. The good, the bad and the perfect.
Thank him for his grace upon you 
Thank Him for your family, job, life and salvation. 
Thank Him for the tears, the pains and always remember that for as long as your eyes and hope is in Him, your story is bound to change.

 ''For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end''. ( Jeremiah 29:11)

God bless you all.

Shalom 
BV GIFTED HANDS


If gifted hands or anyone wants to continue with sending in stuff like this,please do,this page is open to all as long as it IS THE WORD OF GOD...just make it short and straight to the point.

16 comments:

  1. Thanks and bless you for this.

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  2. Thank you BV Gifted hands. This came at the right time.

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  3. What if I want to send in the word of Allah? Is this a Christian blog?

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    1. Pls don't come here with that ur muslim mentality. Always competing with christians. Pls keep ur word of allah to ur self.afterall muslims don't do evangelism.

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    2. Hahahahaaa.. love your response anon 12:55

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  4. Gosh this post is for me... Back in my university days, I knew someone dat was always in competition with me. Amazingly I was always steps ahead. Then just this morning someone told me she is getting married. And I thought to myself wow! This babe is doing something before me, this thought threw me into a jealous mood until I came across this post. Thank you for posting

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  5. no need to copy or envy one cos behind d glory there is always a story. Lord always bless my hustle so that I will never ever look at other people and envy them.

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  6. Gifted Hands,thanks for all the beautiful posts you've been sending in.

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  7. God bless you Gifted Hand. Plz continue sending

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  8. Stella, let me start sending. Thanks.

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  9. Thank God it has ended. Gifted thank u

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