The Ghanian actor shared his views on the right way to treat a woman....
17 tips From John Dumelo
1.Don’t compare your wife to other women. You don’t know
what their husbands are going through.
what their husbands are going through.
2. NEVER expose your wife’s weakness to your family or
friends or run to them whenever you have issues. Problems
are best solved between you and your woman.
3. Don’t think you are man so you can use intimidation,
shout or violence to communicate your moods. Agreesive
men don’t make a happy home.
4. Speak gently and calmly to your wife. Never raise your
voice at her, it demeans her and shows you think she is
stupid.
5. Do your responsibilities as man…don’t leave every to your
woman.
6. Never blame your wife if she doesn’t take care of the
home everyday. She is swamped with house work and
helping you raise the kids.
7. Don’t be wasteful spending money on drinks, friends and
extended family.The wife and children are your first
responsibility.
8. Sex is also important to women. Her pleasure should be
considered before your own.
9. Never compare your wife to your ex-girlfriends. If you
loved them so much why didn’t you marry them instead of
your wife.
10. Never shout down your wife or challenge her in front of
the children. The children are watching. They won’t listen
and obey her too.
11. Tell your wife she’s beautiful even if you know she’s
looking normal. Women love compliment.
12. Don’t forget that women also want attention and
someone to share their thougts with. Never be too busy for
your wife.
13. A prayerful man is a better equipped husband. Pray
always for your wife and family. Don’t leave the prayers to
your wife.
14.Treat your wife like a queen. Buy her gifts, take her
shopping and once in a while, cook for her.
15.Please don’t forget your these anniversary dates.
Wedding ,engagement,the first time you kissed. I beg you.
These dates mean a lot to women. (Don’t ask me why). I
also don’t know.
16. Your mother should not have the final say in your
marriage. You married your wife, not you and your mother.
Let her talk in her own husband’s house.
17.There are 5 days each month that you have to say “I’m
sorry”, “yes baby” and “I love you” more than 7 times a day.
That’s when she’s menstrating. #jmelo
He's very correct
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Better said than done!
DeleteNext please
Is he married ?
DeleteLol!!He never marry he is given all these advices..Fact is that you can't satisfy a woman,that's there nature.
DeleteAwww..I bless d day I met u..Rowmeu Max...hehehe..u go shock wen u c dis..mmuuahh..lwkm
DeleteThem go hear?
ReplyDeleteLet him marry first & we'll see if he treats his wife this way. It's not about posting this on the net. It's about doing it
ReplyDeleteDumb bitch! No wonder you are lyk this.
DeleteWord...they hardly practise what they Preach
DeletePreach it babe. Easier said than done.
DeleteAnon receive sense IJN
DeleteCorrect
ReplyDeleteGuys shey una hear!
To those guys dat like forming IRON MONKEY
Ok nice.
ReplyDeleteI hope he does all these.
End time tips
ReplyDeleteNice one John
ReplyDeleteMen should treat women as demigods.
These men don't know how difficult it's being a woman
They just don't know.
Enter your laugh: hahahahaha
ReplyDeleteNa wetin be the title of these tips?
...How to lose your brain loving a Woman!!! Hahahaha
Delete.......& yet he's still unmarried, same way Pastor Chris would be counselling married couples, same goes for Oprah.... Even That fashionista lady, toke....... They shld all pack well.
ReplyDeleteExactly.. I believe experience matters
DeleteRead the message and not the messenger.
DeleteI heard he's married
DeleteU'll be fine ok...
DeleteAnon preach it jare.
DeleteWho is in a better position to advice u to stay away from crime, a convicted felon serving a jail sentence or a priest who hardly sins?
DeleteWow from John Dumelo himself! Life would be better if these rules were followed. But some women will still find faults in their men.
ReplyDeleteRaise your words and not your voice..It is rain that grows flower not thunder.,well done Jmelo!
ReplyDeleteI love the last most
ReplyDeletelol @ 17... That is so me cos I'm always emotional on my period.. Always craving attention and down at the same time... I always want this level of assurance at that point in time... In fact I use to think something is wrong with me. All in all nice one JMelo!
ReplyDeleteDon't worry Menopause will hit you very soon...so no more worries
DeleteAnonymous... menopause will hit u and your entire generation soon! idiot! You think u can hide behind the nobody u are and type rubbish... fucktard!
DeleteLWKMD!!!
DeleteHahahahahahahaha..
DeleteI'm tired and bored of all these damn rules!!!! Everyone just seems to know the rules to get or love a woman!!! Hian!!!! #Boring
ReplyDeleteWell said...
ReplyDeletePractice what you preach bro.
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ReplyDeleteNa wa for your baker friend o,dint u tell her it was for an elderly person?
DeleteD baker na oversabi mumu
DeleteHian!!! Your bf's mum is a hater. Lmao
DeletePeople like reading meaning to things alot, my dear the baker didn't do dt on purpose.
DeleteThey rejected the cake cause they're diabolical.
DeleteYou should be the one that ought to be careful
What's wrong in a red velvet cake?
Well, not everyone likes red colour but that's not enough reason for them to reject your cake.
What kind of archaic family are you marrying into? Them no sabi red velvet?! Hian!
DeleteAnd see how they have polluted your mentality already. You want to blame the baker? How would she have known she was supposed to make you a traditional cake?! Preferably shaped in a mortal and pestle style in brown color?!
Free the baker, except you specified and she didn't do what you asked her to. Flee from that family because if you beg your way back, they would monitor your every cough and sneeze!
So what advice are you looking for?
DeleteMy dear you don't want to be in a family with that kind of mentality over red velvet cake.
DeleteAdmin.. y u remove this comment na? I for like read d gist, based on d replies, it must be a tantalizing story.
DeleteSo he finally got married! ?
ReplyDeleteFunny @ the last one. Well said John D....
ReplyDeleteI don't think this was my first time of seeing this.
ReplyDeleteWaoh that's the basic fact ,gush I just can't wait for mine to come { marriage sweet sha) smile
ReplyDeleteAre u sure u have kids?
ReplyDeleteIf u do, are they really for your husband?
If they are, are they half-cast?
Hahahahahahahahahaha
Nice... True talk
ReplyDelete#weldone sdk#
Wow! That last one is d bomb!
ReplyDeleteVery true @ 17
ReplyDeleteSpot on!
ReplyDeleteI am one lucky woman then.
ReplyDeleteDumelo my crush before before
ReplyDeleteHypocrisy he knows all that but could stay with his wife. If he had treated his former wife half way all these dem for no separate
ReplyDeleteJohn sound like some body that is watching a football match in television..
ReplyDeletena when you married you go know all
May God help Our Men. Amen
ReplyDeletePoster with boyfrndz mother issh,red velvet cake is to die for,buh thz women n booz mum cld b witches of d same coven as they saw all d redness as msg...dnt knw wah am saying,buh i sha luv red velvet cake.HL
ReplyDeletei've read this severally
ReplyDeleteGbagam!!!
ReplyDeleteHubby needs to read this oo..if only they will make it to 60% then life will be better..
ReplyDeleteSweet pikin
ReplyDeleteI hope he practice what he preach.
ReplyDeleteThose people that are single 2 stupor can give relationship advice sha,I can relate.
ReplyDeleteLolzzzzz....@single 2 stupor
Delete*blessed child*
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Bachelor giving relationship advice..... Serious matter...
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Do you practice what you preach?
ReplyDeleteJohn Dumelo needs to shut the fcuk up and stop taking advantage of women from maryldan to Minnesota and all over africa.
ReplyDeleteIf i tell you this guys gist you will feint. 419er.
Dont let his good looks fool you.
One day his cup will be full
Women stop falling for all these broke ass Actors, just cos you saw them in a movie character you fantasize. All of them are broke as hell.
Spill ! Spill !! Spill!!!
DeleteI know say dem no get money
DeleteNa small small endorsement dey help dem
Plus sugar mummy/daddy things.
End time hmmmm
ReplyDeleteGod bless d men hu do dese en Women hu reciprocate..As 4 me en my boo..we wee serve d Lord en each other..Wink*
ReplyDeleteI wish my dad would do this for just 10seconds.... All he does is scream and call her all sorts of unpleasant names. Yet she never complains, feeds 4 kids including him, prays and cries her eyes out.... I wish I could help out with finances but No job looks to be forthcoming, instead I'm fast finding seclusion and depression a much better reprieve from all these heartache... Sometimes ending it comes to mind but I picture my mom smiling and I can't help but pray for her.... Lord pls give me a better story this year just so I can make my mom stop crying.
ReplyDeleteAwww...it is well
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