Friday -IHN

Hellooo....
Whats up with you all?
Can i preach?
Okay,listen up,i need you all to know that whatever is wrong in your life,GOD WILL FIX IT SOON!

MEMO TO BV LOVEME JEJE.

You asked a question yesterday?or was it a statement you made?

You wanted to know if i was the same person as busybodycorrecter?.

Busybodycorrecter is different from Stella and she attends to all the giveaway posts.

She attends to them and tries to verify every successful candidate.

I hope i have answered your question?Kisses.

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ROOM NEEDED

I Need a room and parlour self contain in ibadan

Good day stella,  please post this on ihn.I need a well tiled one bedroom flat with water and steady light around Oluyole Estate or challenge area. I can be reached on 08063048567

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FEMALE ROOM MATE NEEDED

#SDK,good day and happy new year to you!Please help me post this in IHN.I need a female roomie for a year.its a self contain located around Unilag 2nd gate,precisely 15mins walk away.its going for 180k a year or 90k for 6months depending.I would prefer a Unilag undergraduate like myself who is good natured and academically focused.I can be contacted via BBM pin 30ed231f. Thank  you Stella

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INSURANCE AGENT AT YOU SERVICE. 

Happy New year my fellow BVs.  We are moving from glory to glory. 

I work with the best insurance company so I bring good tidings to you. But First make I ask you. What re your plans for 2016? That land, that house, that car you want to buy/build how do you intend to save money for it? This is a new year, hope you won't end up not making investment like you did last year and blamed it on hard economy?

My dearest people it's time to embrace insurance policies and products.  We have different products tailored to meet your needs, be you pepper seller, oil and gas CEO, taxi driver, civil servant. As far as you are above 18 and have a means of income we go your back!! Insurance deals discipline you to save cos no one will give a ATM card or cheque book to withdrawal as it pleases you. Tax rebate nkor? Especially for those working in communication companies and oil and gas who re heavily taxed. Its time to wise up!! 

I can't list all you stand to benefit here else Na only my gist go full today's IHN. Our insurance company want to bear your financial burden with you. Times are hard, it's time to make hard decisions . Call me and let's talk business 07019932121

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APPRECIATION TO EKA MAKEUP STUDIO

Good day Stella, how do you do? I am an ardent reader of your blog. I want to show appreciation to Eka Makeup studio who did a giveaway for free makeup training to two lucky bvs, I applied for the free makeup training and I was picked though I have not been able to attend the training yet due to school. I met her in person at her studio, she is very beautiful, lovely, understanding, neat and friendly, she is very good at what she does be it professional makeup training, bridal makeover or personal makeup training.... you can contact her on WhatsApp: 08037422664 bbpin: 25BEB6DF or 1st Avenue corner shop, by 1st place supermarket Gwarinpa, Abuja. Thank you

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ACCOMMODATION NEEDED IN ABUJA

.I recently moved to abuja and I am in dire need of a 2bedroom apartment, any good location close to town, my budget is 700k-750k.Please anyone who can help should reach me on 08057724868. Thanks and God bless.

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GIVEAWAY APPRECIATION

 A big thanks to Trendy Makeovers for teaching me all I need to know about makeovers, make up products and gele tying. I learn't a lot and she was friendly and accommodating, in just a short time I could achieve so much on my own, pardon me my phone is faulty would have attached photos. Thank you ma. Please patronise and visit trendy makeovers, it is situated at water resources 55 adesuwa road in GRA Benin city. Phone no..07060597605...Thank you MA and God bless

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SNOOPING SAVED MY MARRIAGE

Sweet Stella, happy new year.  So i know that you are against snooping but i think we would always agree to disagree on that

You see, couples should have an open relationship with one another, where the husband cannot go through his wife's phone and vice versa for fear of "avoiding stories that touch" to me, that is not a healthy relationship.. It is living a lie, you just don't know it yet.

My husband is one of a kind, really, he is. He has prioritized my happiness and comfort to say the least..he is good to my family and all, generous, respectful, painfully handsome,  a good father etc, but he cheated on me..i knew this because i snooped

This isn't a story of him even chasing her, it is a story of her chasing him and him taking pity on her and giving in because he dated her right before marrying me

After the snoop, i confronted him and it was like a reset factory settings for him because he realized how selfish he had been to consider another woman's feelings and not think of how it would affect me..affect us

He has begged and done all i demanded to fix us, he has called her in my presence and ended things and she in turn has begged me and we are all good now although, it still stings but we are a working progress and it has even made me and my husband more closer

What if i hadn't snooped and caught him?  Wouldn't he have still gone on with this girl? I have asked myself that question a lot and funny thing is, that was the first time i was snooping in months.

I know that, this still may not convince you about snooping but for me, it saved my marriage. And i would rather have an open, honest and healthy relationship than look the other way.

I don't freak out when he carries my phone to do whatever, so, he shouldn't give me a reason to make him freak out when i carry his too.

Cheating is not okay, the more we stop accepting it and teaching our sons this, the better it would be for us all.

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Birthday Idea for a 5yr  Old

Am trying to plan a birthday party for my 5yrs old son. Please my fellow bv's that has ideas on what I can do make the day a memorable one for him and his friends. I no get money for kids party planner else would have employed their service. Please if you have done stuffs like this before abeg kindly furnish me with your ideas. My email is temmytemi@yahoo.co.uk
Thanks and God bless

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ACCOMMODATION NEEDED IN IBADAN

Please I'm seeking for a decent self contain at Bodija, Ibadan. It should have its own bathroom, toilet and kitchen all en suite and should have borehole water, constant power supply and security. I'll be able to inspect the place within this weekend and next as I'm in a little hurry to settle in at once. I can be contacted on 08031355543.

Thank You.

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VACANCY FOR SALES ASSISTANT

Dear Stella,

Kindly help post this advert.

A Pharmacy store located at Kosofe LGA is looking to recruit sales people for its two outlets

Candidates must have sales experience and have energy and passion for sales

Educational Requirement is minimum of OND.

Qualified and serious candidates should send cv to julybikins@yahoo.com..

Thank you Stella.God bless you

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PLEA FOR PATRONAGE

Hi Stella,
Trust you're good, and the family? I'm a regular blog visitor, though i comment under Anonymous. I want my lovely family to patronise me, I'm into bead making, make-up and event planning. My prices are very affordable, and location is never a barrier for us.
We can be reached on 08062374242 (calls, SMS, and whatsapp)
BB pin - 5660E82D
Email - realempirepro@gmail.com

Special discount for those who include
SDK as a reference. I attached my Shoki Ahhh for my Bvs, Pls manage, thanks.

Mtn
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Etisalat
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Airtel
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THANK YOU TO SAVE OUR NEEDY

Stella nwunye kokors, I hail you oooo, you have been saving lives since long time ago, and today am so grateful to you for using this platform to reach me a poor widow like me. I saw the post on your blog and I apply for it
Save our needy organization visited me and my children today and brought to us, foodstuffs,cloths, beverages, books,shoes, as if they knew I was not having Handbag, lol, they also brought for me and so many other things. They are so nice to me and my children, so friendly and fun to be with.

What can I say then to say thank you Lord., thank you Stella, it's only God that can rewards you, thank you save our needy, you will never run dry, you will grow from strength to strength, Am shorts of words. Am so grateful to you.  May God bless you.

Chinwe Adeyinka Ayeyemi

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FASHION SCHOOL IN PORT HARCOURT

Good day Stellar and BVs.....Please I am currently looking for a good fashion school where  i can enroll. i don't  mean Tailoring shops o. i want to become a professional fashion designer by the end of the year .The location is Port Harcourt. i will  be very grateful if i get recommendations here. This  is my contact ,kikimauryn@gmail.com

Thank You all.

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MUSLIM WIFE NEEDED

Good day stella, i am in need of muslim single mother or even single

single between 26-32, interested lady must be muslim (08187631861)

watsapp or call. Thanks

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YUMMY CAKES AND MEAT PIE TO QUENCH FOR

I live in Lagos and make very rich and yummy cakes. This will be great for people who have super markets or stores as I can make in large quantities. For example, a 6 Inch cake would love most lovely in your store shelf. I also make for individual consumption.

I can make plain cake, banana cakes, marble cake, Jesus food cake (I like to call it that and not the other name LOL) and rich fruit cake. Please note these are uniced but well packaged cakes at an affordable rate. It would be great to have in a hamper or for people who just love to nibble on something good without too much sweetness. Give me a call on 08172025123 or send an email to twitwicreamycakes@gmail.com. I also make meatpies to quench for.

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THANKS TO TTC BVN

My deepest gratitude to BV ttc of Tuesday's IHN. I called and she said she had already picked someone BUT this sweet Angel went ahead to bless me with #3000 which came as a huge blessing to me.

My prayer is that God will give Her an outstanding blessing this year. ‎Amen 

God bless you too Stella. Thanks

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Appreciation to Quincy Cakes and Pastries

This is to appreciate Quincy cakes and Pastries for picking me for a free online training last year. She taught us how to make Sugar coated peanuts, banana bread, Pound cake, buns, Samosa, Peanut burger, Chapman, Royal icing, chocolate cookies, kokoro, fondant, baba dudu, carrot cake, shawarma, puff puff and a lot more.ciate all her efforts.

THANK YOU QUINCY CAKES and PASTRIES, May God bless you abundantly and bless the works of your hands.

She is also doing another training this month but it is for a token. She can be reached on quincycakesnpastries@yahoo.com  /07088173722.

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Culture and common sense, which should Prevail?

Happy new year to you Madam Stella.  Blog mentor, woman motivator and inspiration to many.  You deserve my woman of the year 2015. Will like to know readers thoughts on an issue that is really bothering me, it is not to start an argument, as the  case is being resolved, just to find out if many Nigerians still hold on tenaciously to cultural norms.

I lost my mum on Christmas Eve, 24th December 2015, a day I can't forget in an hurry.  I give thanks to God that though  her death  was a surprise to many,  as there was no reported case of previous ailment, no sickness,, accident, hers was a natural accident but it is still a shock. 

Mary oghenerume Adegbaju (18th Dec 1959-24th Dec 2015) preached and prayed till she died, which gives us joy that she is resting with Christ.  But what amazes me is that in these time of modernisation and advancement, some still hold on to old culture and traditional beliefs, their actions though  unintentional still cause more pain and grief.
My mother hails from delta state, traditionally, an urhobo woman is supposed to be taken back home to be buried.  In fact, part of the dowry is returned just to ensure this, as it is believed they are not selling their woman and her body dead or alive must be returned when demanded for.  What happens if the woman has stated her wishes repeatedly she doesn't want to go back home, but be buried with her husband or wherever her children is, where does Christianity and tradition meet, if the Bible has said, for this reason,  a woman shall leave her family and be joined with her husband in sickness or death.  


Who bears the cost and pain of moving a body from one place to another, tend to the grave.  Not the relatives that insist but the children and the surviving husband.  Does a body know what happens to it after death, I believe all these adherents to culture should. Rethink instead of fostering disunity and incurring unnecessary costs for their own gain.  Ironically, most of them insisting on bringing the woman home are not familiar with her. 

The immediate family should have the final say, they feel the loss the most and to have peace must respect the wishes of their loved ones.  If only we can allow peace to reign, and stop tribalising individuals even after marriage can we have a one Nigeria devoid of rancor and selfishness. 
A day is yet to be fixed pending agreement by both families but latest February.
So which should Prevail,  common sense, culture or spiritual beliefs.
This challenging period has been an eye opener for me, soon am going to write on coping with death of loved ones and moving on.. It is not easy, just God's grace is sufficient. 

RIP to your mum.....

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PLEA FOR PATRONAGE

This is a plea for patronage from my fellow Bvs. I bake very fluffy, mouth watering cakes,simply put,the taste heavenly#wink#. From vanilla to coconut,to red velvet and chocolate cakes. Give us a call today for your birthday, anniversary or wedding cakes,we re very affordable and you are sure to get more than you paid for. Give us a call today 09094843839 for your cakes and events decoration4. Events By Tegz

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VACANCY

Dear Stella,

You are such an inspiration to Millions, please keep it up.

Kindly assist me place this on IHN. 

Needed is an experienced Driver for immediate employment. Salary is N35k, to work Monday-Saturday. Other Terms & Conditions will be discussed during Interview. 

He must live within easy access to Sanya/Ijesha Area.

Please contact Sola on 08057571557 or 08026119097

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ACCOMMODATION

Dear Stella

Happy new year. 

My rent in estate nwigwe Woji is just wasting since i have relocated to lagos and I still have three months left before my rent expires. Please any bv  who is in need of accommodation and is wiĺling to renew by march this year can move in asap. I want to sell off my furnishings and electronics too as my house is fully furnished. Its a 2 bedroom apartment and the rent is 400k. Interested  persons can contact me via 08033741486. Thanks.

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CAKES AT WHOLESALE PRICE

Happy new year ma'am, May God bless the works of your hands in Jesus name. My fellow b.v's May God make all your endeavors fruitful in JESUS name. 

My fellow b.V's I have glucose, gelatine, flavor, Browning, preservatives etc for sale at whole sale price. Location is suleja and we can deliver to anywhere.to place your order please 

Contact: 08035955223

                08034990153

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PLEA FOR MAKE UP BRUSHES

 Please, I need a favour. I'm about to learn to be a professional make-up artist so as to empower myself. However, I have a huge challenge. I'm expected to come with a set of the various make-up Brushes for ease of learning unfortunately I can't afford it. I'm appealing to fellow BVs, please even if its an old set I won't mind. I need other things too but this one seems most important. Please help a sister and God will bless you. I'm based in Lagos but I won't mind paying for waybill if I have to. I can be reached on 08090782377. Thanks in advance.

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Sparkles Jewelries Rings/Gift Voucher Winner.

Hello Bvs,

The Lucky winner of our 5k Shopping Voucher is Amara Okelue, with the IG handle"Ogejess". She emerged the winner by being the first bv to comment "SDK GIFT VOUCHER" under this picture as instructed.

We are sorry,but only one winner can be picked for now,but in due time,it will go round.

Please the Winner should Contact us today via WhatsApp on 08099779355.

Thanks.

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PREGNANCY BOOKS

Good Morning Stella and happy new year to you and all the SDK family!!!

Please I am in search of some pregnancy books with tips and guides, most especially the book "what to expect when you're expecting by Heidi Murkoff".

Please any blog visitor with an e-copy of the book and any good pregnancy book should please kindly mail it to me.

Also I would appreciate any advice/tips on giving birth in the USA any mother who can share her experience and the process from visa to delivery to birth certificate please all info is needed! 

Am considering Atlanta Georgia or Houston Texas because I have friends in that area. Please advise on which is more affordable and if you can help with some hospital names. Thank you Sdk Fam!

Babybump01@yahoo.com

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NEED TO BUY A SECOND HAND PHONE

 I desperately need a fairly used phone. My phone mistakenly failed down last Wednesday  and the screen broke. I have taken it to two different phone repairers yet non could revive it. I feel so empty without a phone but don't have enough money for a new one now. Please anyone that has a second hand phone for sale should contact me on 08128834855.

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FELLOW BVS PLEASE READ THIS.

A job well done Stellz!

I have sent you stand alone narrative before and the house was divided; the boys on my side (girls should not pin a guy when he is not ready), and the girls on the ex's side (men should not break the heart of a girl that loved them unconditionally). Fair! Not to dwell on that, even though on same story, this is not an update. 

Yes, of all my exes she loved me the most. She did EVERYTHING a girl would do right to win a man. She was loving, caring, matured. She may be "ghettoish" and resolve issues with fights, but she is an amazing person. We both are abroad. While we were still students and I was looking for avenues to invest, I was scammed $5000 and that was the last shishi in my account. My parents would not even listening, and there was no where to look to. She took me in for 3 months not minding what people would say. This is the same person that also prophesized that I would make it big.... I have. 

She did not have much, but she would share the little. Everyone likes her. I might have done many stuffs for her, I still appreciate the little things she had done for me.

BUT, I was not attracted to her physically. I was in love with her person. Stellz, I can't marry someone I am not attracted to physically.I would be punishing the two of us. I would go looking outside and I would deprive her the chance to marry someone who would love her as a whole package. Many folks do it here, especially when permanent residency is involved. Not me! I rather be honest. I let her go, gladly, knowing I did not take advantage of her. S3x was never involved.

 Plus I had a plan to study further, marriage would derail me. I miss her every other day. How could I not? The last time I saw her was 3 years ago. My girlfriend now is not comfortable that I talk, call the name of my ex a lot. It is true. I just don't like the way it ended. It would be nice if we separated in peace. She will not talk to me, reply my messages or even pick my calls. I was very convinced during this breakup that I had done the right thing, It was not an issue of Indecisiveness -she is not the one for me. 

Exactly one month from today, she would be married. I am super happy for her. I always pray she gets someone better than me. I would imagine she is happy too that she can let go off the anger and we can be cool again, obviously from a distance. I think we need  closure. What should I do? How can I convince this girl that it does not hurt to be friends after breakup? I am still friends with girls that broke up with me. She  is an amazing person that I would wanna at least be cool with. Am I being greedy? Should I accept that till Jesus come, I would not talk to this girl again?

Thanks BVs, I am waiting!

I decided not to make this a narrative because it is an update even though you say it is not.All updates belong inside IHN.

Now to the matter,why is your conscience pricking you?abeg leave her alone and face your new life,let her be!

I have an ex that i am not talking to and do not wish to speak to even though he has tried all to get us to be friends.there are some people that do not belong in our lives as friends.She has found closure and that is why she is getting married,you are still there floating and looking for who to float with abi?

LEAVE HER ALONE AND FACE YOUR NEW GIRLFRIEND,ITS BEEN 3YEARS,MOVE ON!

*Hisss!!!

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URGENT EMPLOYMENT

A leading photography outfit is looking for experienced photo retouchers with expertise in portrait, beauty and fashion retouching.

Applicants must have requisite skill in Photoshop and well as other image manipulation softwares such as Lightroom, Capture One, Exposure 7 and a few more.

Applicants must have done international standard retouch work on black skin mostly.

Submission of best previous works in applicants portfolio would be a good advantage

If this meets your interest, send your CV and portfolio to retouchrecruit@gmail.com.

Regards.

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MEDICAL LABORATORY

Good day ,am a visitor of your blog please I wish to appeal for help for a BUSINESS PLAN on how to set up a MEDICAL LABORATORY, am currently a Corper (a medical laboratory scientist by profession). I wish to have a  business plan on how to set up a lab and also to show to potential investors who may wish to invest but currently I can't afford to pay to obtain one . Please any one that can help should reach me on 07064903491 through whatsup or call. My email add isidara425@gmail.com,akpan_r@yahoo.com. thanks in anticipation

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FOR SALE

 i have 30 plots of land for sale at Emene,Enugu for 1,5million each. call 08100844540.

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FROM MY INBOX AN HOUR AGO

''I want to cuss you out so bad. I mean, like so bad, but i haven't

quite particularly found the right words and how to weave them so I'll

just let you be and leave with my heads up. Peace out''

FROM BV Bich Its Michael

I dont know you so your cusses mean nothing for me.You are the one who has been sending me inbox messages and as far as i remember,i have tried to be nice to you.Takecare.

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AWESOME APPRECIATION

I can't hold the joy in me right now, so I have to quickly tell you the favour I received from your blog.

 29th Dec IHN, I saw a scholarship post for sponsor of  a widow child  or an orphan . I quickly applied on behalf of a widow with 4kids I knew while I was still in lag(she lost her husband 2013 after birthing her last child).  You won't believe this angel, has enrolled  one of her kids to a very big school that pays over 100k per term which is 300k yearly. imagine , a child that has been enrolled to a govt school immediately they lost their dad will now attend a very big school in lagos. 

I can't even thank you enough, but God will surely reward you for the platform you created  . Your children shall never lack and they will always be a source of joy for you in Jesus name. 

Bv Ade Esther

WOOOOOW!!!

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Signing out....

SDK Nwanyi oma...The agbradagbururu 1 of SDK BLOG.

SDK toh obo n soro teh le teh le.

I hail una oh..lol

 Take a seat and relax.stop stressing your head cussing me out,i mean no harm to no one...TAKE THE SEAT!!!