Doctors In House Section.

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VIRGINITY TEST

Aunty Stella, I don’t know o. I just think I should ask Doctors and everybody in the house. Am I still a virgin?

I’m 19. My boyfriend is 20. And we have been dating for 3 years.

I have never had vaginal sex because I’m from a strict Christian family.

 My mom use to check my honeypot if the seal is still there. Her confirmations has made her trust me. She has zero trust for me before the confirmations and her untrustworthiness is coming back especially with the news spreading about the other teenage girls in the neighbourhood. Although the last time she checked the cookie jar, I was 18 and it was sealed.

The truth is I give my boyfriend heads like every day (like six times in a week) since I was 16. He eats me out too. We just chillax when our bodies both do greeee. We watch lots of porn too. In our private time apart, we do phone sex. He talks dirty and we both masturbate to it. He taught me all these things and I enjoy it too.

One day, I was discussing with my mom and one thing led to the other and she asked if I have a boyfriend in the university and I said yes and she talked about sex and then, she checked it but she wasn’t still convinced because of my knowledge on sex and sexual issues. She took me to our Pastor’s wife and I told her that I haven’t done it before and she believed me without further questioning because I have always been a worker in the church since I was a child. So, my mom let go.

My Dad on the other hand isn’t so religious. He just says make sure you don’t get pregnant. He doesn’t believe in bed undefiled stuffs. I’m the only girl in the family and I have two younger brothers.

Last week, my boyfriend said he wants us to break up because he wasn’t getting enough. He said the heads and the few times he masturbates aren’t enough substitute to the real thing. I told him the situations of things with my mom but he said he was tired of hearing that. Eventually, we tried anal. He only inserted the head when I cried. We stopped midway. I told him to go if he wants to go. He begged me and we reconciled.

Yesterday, I was having a discussion with my mom and this virginity thing came up again. Actually, a neighbour and childhood friend got pregnant for one jobless man and hid the pregnancy from her mother for 6 weeks. This time around, my mother said she is taking me to a Doctor for the test and if I’m not a virgin that she would perform pregnancy test too. I know I’m not pregnant but the issue is I don’t know how they do the test. Do the Doctors just perform the test on the vagina or they perform it on both holes? The other hole might not be a virgin.

What should I do? What should I expect? The tests aside, am I still a virgin? Technically, I would say I am because I still have a hymen but I’m not sure I really am.