Chronicles Of Blog Visitor Narratives

Today I am a virgin concerning comments...I have no say today.My two legs are tied together and its extends to my mouth and hands..lol

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
CHILDISH BEHAVIOUR

Hi Stella..I'm a regular visitor to your blog and I must say you are

doing great.

Well, people might not know the severity of this issue I'm about to

talk about but it's weighing me down big time

I'm 23, presently serving my fatherland. Everyone I encounter tells me

I act like a child, I'm not mature, and I feel it too. I don't have a

mind of my own, always so eager to please people and this leads to

people taking advantage of me. Even those I'm older them don't have

respect for me. in the place I'm currently serving, there are a lot of

Corp members but I'm the only one everyone seems to send on errands. I

tried to be all tough but people seem to see just the child inside of

me and treat me like one

..I am not even considering marriage right now because I feel I still

have a lot of growing up to do.. But it seems I'm not..I just want to

grow up buh I still relapse no matter how hard I try.. Do tell me what

to do please.

Hmmm,Make i siddon read today abeg.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
CHRONICLES OF A BABY MAMA

Stella, well done. You are doing a great work. I visit your blog every day. It’s worse than an addiction especially the chronicles. Here is my story, I am a single mom of 1 and I am 26 while my son would turn 6 later in the year. It happened that I had him in my third year in school. His father was my first everything that you can think of as a woman even my first kiss but unfortunately, he died in a road accident during his NYSC. 

For 4 years, I couldn’t date any man and when I finally gave in to this guy who I had known for years, he left me after 3 months saying he cannot marry a single mom. Stella, I didn’t hide that from him and he saw my son called me mommy each time he visited.

Now, my main problem is that there is a new guy who has been on my neck for like 11 months. He has sent all his friends and colleagues to talk to me including his mom. Without being proud, I am so beautiful and very curvy and I get a lot of compliments from men everyday but I still fear men. After the first guy that jilted me, there have been two other ones and I always start by telling them that I am a single mom but after a few months and of course after eating my cookies, they turn around and say that they cannot marry a single mom. Stella, I have suffered and men are evil.

Back to this guy who is dying for me, sincerely, I have been unfair to him. I have a great job because I still completed school and even went to the UK for my Masters and so, I have a nice paying job. Each time, I come out of the house every morning to put my son on his school bus, this man stands by the gate waiting for me to come out and for every time he does that, I embarrass him. It went on for like six months and he kept coming back until he stopped and funny enough, my son kind of missed seeing him by the gate and has been asking me about my “friend”. I never for once insulted him in front of my son.

About two months ago, his mom came to yell on me in my house that I should remove the love potion that I casted on her son. I was shocked as she said she doesn’t know what her son saw in me that made him want an “after one” like me if it is not my juju. Stella, I couldn’t believe that that would come from a woman and a mother at that.

The main story now is that I think I am now in love with this man but he has stopped coming to see me and each time, I see him, I see a new girl in his car and they are always both smiling and happy. I cannot go to his house because his mom lives with him. She is widowed and he is her only son. I have attempted to knock on their gate a couple of times that I had walked down to buy stuff around his house but I am so scared of the outcome.

I don’t know what to do or who to talk to. I think I overdid it. But I was scared. I wasn’t sure if he was different or if he wanted something else. Should I swallow my pride and go back to this man and pretend to be a mermaid until I am sure of what he wants? Is the new girl just to make me feel jealous or a family member or a platonic friend? Is the mother not going to keep embarrassing me?

 I am very scared. Please, no cursing today as that would break me even more because I have been emotionally down for the past three weeks now and this is affecting my productivity at work. Why did my baby boy got killed in that horrible accident? Because we would have been married for many years now and I wouldn’t have to suffer one single heartbreak. Stella, we were so happy and in love. I need advice not curses. What’s life?

Hmmm,make i read comments.....

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NARRATIVE NUMBER THREE

UNGRATEFUL FRIEND

Stella I love what you do with your chronicles. Excellent initiative... My story:

I have a guy friend that I've known for years. Then a friend of mine whose mum was pressuring her to marry (the girl is 20 years old) and me too as a good friend wey no even get man at that time set her up with this my guy friend. The guy visited our city three months later, I arranged for everything. Before, he was not interested but I kept telling him he will have to get to know her and all that. He even wanted half co chick and i found a way to take his mind to my friend. Anyway the girl started acted up once she met him and they got into a relationship instantly. When he tells me that he is coming and he has sent her details so I can make arrangements, she will tell me he never told her. 

I will ask her how excited she is that her man is coming and she'd ask me which man? shuooo!! me sef come dey shock.. I wonder if she thought I was interested in him because if I was interested in him, I would not have bothered introducing them. Anyhow sha, I started withdrawing from them..don't talk to him about her and vice versa. The funny thing is that his sister keeps giving me their gist telling me how he says they may get married this year and that he thinks she is immature but he hopes she grows into tit.

Anyhow my own is that the babe gave me so much attitude that mehn the thing come dey pain me like ahn ahn me that I was helping you...so I have been low key waiting for it not to work. I have been patiently waiting for something to go wrong in their relationship so that I will see if she will come cry to me and I will laugh..But, I am not one to wish people bad and really don't want to. But I can't start to explain the things the babe has done. 

One time she told me how I couldn't wear red to her wedding that I'd be trying to steal her shine. she then showed me a photo of what I should wear. Now Stella, I do not want to be at this girl's wedding even though the guy is my friend. How do I decline anything that has to do with their relationship nicely without coming across as I am bitter about their relationship? What do you think about this kind of babe sef? cos I have remained confused about why she did this.we used to even talk about the guy and all..

sometimes she will be giving attitude and the guy wanted to fashi her and i'd be telling her not to act like that..but a month after meeting, they got into the relationship and things changed.. how do you explain this? cos i have remain confused? Stella don't cross your legs and eat popcorn o. I need your input. BVs abeg what are your thoughts?

Please let me remain a virgin today...