Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

Members of #TeamSnoop badly needed inside this post. *frowning*

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

When Love Tortures

Good day Stella and Bvs, please I need your advice concerning my recent dilemma. Without further ado, I met this awesome bloke sometime June 2015 and he ticked all the right boxes, he was different and believed so much in me. I was happy because I met him when I wasn't searching for Love. Although we reside in different states, started out as friends, fast forward 3 months I developed feelings for this bloke. 

Being a helpless romantic I told him about my feelings but he said he wasn't ready because he's been celibate for some years now (one of the reasons I liked him) and would love us to remain close friends (Ouch friend-zoned). We agreed to focus on our careers while maintaining our friendship. After 5 months of meeting he told me the reason he’s been reluctant about us moving our friendship to the next level was because he lied about his age (I was a year older). I was surprised but still forgave him because he was matured therefore felt that can't constitute a problem.

However, I decided after six months I would ask him to define our relationship because I don't have time for games. Stella I was shocked when he told me on Christmas day that we should still remain friends, hot tears rolled down my eyes because I just couldn't fathom what his reasons were this time (all I wanted was for us to take our friendship to the next level, was even ready to be his ride or die). My friends kept saying I should let him go but I chose to wear patience’s cloak.

I made a decision to move on with my life and "keep being a friend". I recently got a new job, ready to settle in just for him to contact me out of the blues telling me how much he missed me and asking whether I thought about him all these while. Aunt Stella I became mum because truth be told I still have strong feelings for this guy. I hate the fact he has this hold on me, how can you want us to be friends yet you miss me and can’t stop thinking about me, isn't that torture…Please Bvs has anyone been in such “situationship” and how they actually moved on...thanks.

Asking you if you missed him or thought bout him might have been said jokingly...At least he was truthful about wanting to to be friends,some guys will pound your kinikan kinikan until it lights a candle.

Take it easy and let him go,he is probably also lying about being celibate,maybe he has a girl he is committed to...be happy he didnt take advantage of you...NOW MOVE ON!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

SNOOPING GONE WRONG - ADVICE NEEDED

Dear Stella, Happy New Year!!! Thank you for your great work and for choosing to yield to your calling. I would appreciate if my fellow bvs would help advice on this issue.

I sat still thinking on a way forward through the remaining part of the year when I got a message from my best friend. It was the usual number only content message and then a call followed by her....

She has been snooping and has seen a number called constantly by her husband and wanted to know what was up. As usual I pick up my phone and called the number pretending I was from Max store and the person on the other end had won a gift voucher from my friends husband(name mentioned) and then asked for full names and address which was given so freely for delivery...... To tell the truth the reaction of the girl was like she got something from someone she really liked.

 This is my usual assignment in the snooping game of my dear friend.

She has never caught her husband out rightly  for cheating apart from him giving constant calls to particular numbers which when confronted with says the girls are nothing but just friends. Previously chats from these numbers as she said are always deleted so really she has no claims.

The last accusations of cheating has gotten to her and she said she is so sure there's more to it from checking the lady's facebook pages. She has asked for my advice on a divorce and now it looks like my private detective job is going to break her home. Her husband has constantly been begging her  buying her gifts to forget this particular incidence  affirming his love making her understand that he can never cheat on her but she says this is the last she can take.

I asked her to think about  stopping the snooping game. Maybe that will do a great deal to her but she keeps asking if she should go on  for a divorce.

Guys how do I treat this...

She says normal friends don't talk for long n at strategic times (early in the mornings,during lunch n dinner) that's why she normally suspects those numbers. I really don't know how the snooping game works and how is been interpreted but I know that if you avoid it you get your peace.

Please who can  interpret if this issue is worth going through a divorce

Thank you for your advice

God bless you Stella

Ah,i no fit answer this one,let me leave it for #TeamSnoop.

*side eyes at the ALL KNOWING #TeamSnoop.