Ex- beauty queen Okhueleigbe Ebosetale popularly known as Stella Whyte is on the news again following a red carpet interview at the recent Nigeria Goodwill Ambassador Awards.
The former Miss ITV Queen who is a final Student Of University Of Benin rattled the media when she was asked about her relationship. According her "
in as much as I am a decent, hardworking and passionate person, I am very selective when it comes to dating. I don't date for fun..most guys I come across see me as a goal digger, some say I'm just too pretty to be real or true, that really irritates me...yes they think I am too pretty to be faithful, well don't judge a book by its cover"
She further added " you know i was once asked on a TV interview my kind of man, its still remains the fact that my man should be understanding, loving, honest, calm,very patient,good looking and a hardworking, if a man doesn't have these, I rather not date moreover I'm just 20 (laughs)and serious minded"
The pretty light skinned beauty started professional modeling last year after she emerged winner of Miss ITV Hot Leg Pageant in highly competitive contest. At her recent handover she was made brand Ambassador of Afriwomen Magazine for two years and also unveiled as fashion consultant for House of Claire Africa branch.
Taking about pageant she said "I'm still not sure of the pageant I want to contest for now because I want a very reliable pageant with a purpose and vision.
The ITV presenter who has great passion for modelling, broadcasting also love kids very much and believes in charity.....
I have a lot of very beautiful friends and most of them are even yet to find serious boyfriends because each one that comes their way do not believe they are not dating.if they call once and fone is busy,thats it!
Why are men so myopic minded sef?
Say no to filter
ReplyDeletePersonally, I feel ugly girls are more willing* to make men feel like a MAN than pretty girls...
DeleteNigerian men are too domineering by nature. As a Nigerian lady that wants a man, u honestly need to step off ur high horse and understand the way their mind works!!!
They don't have that time to patiently lick ur ass like a white man who is wowed* by ur beauty will do! Ur character* along the line will buy u ALL u want from them...
I learnt ontime as a fine girl* and I have been in a happy relationship! Other fine girls can learn too...
Why should she be surprised at what men think of her... U b Edo girl, prostitution na Una habit ... Again u look like an esan babe , wickedness na Una true legion ..... Men ain't stupid , ex beauty queen still get engaged and married but girls from Edo na high risk ...#fact
DeleteThis girl no serious ooooOo. Myopic minded? I thinks ladies are more narrowly minded than guys except if you are dealing with a kind of wrong guys.
DeleteYou are twenty and don't think you need a serious relationship, but when you are 32 you will run to Stella's blog for advice on how to attract a responsible man for marriage.
No matter what you might achieve in life, at a certain age as a woman, you beauty and career will no longer be your pride but your wonderful family.
Relationship is a serious business...take it serious from now dear, when you are 28 men will not fall from heaven...still the same men around, if they don't see you as been trustworthy now, is it when you've become less attractive.
Girl wake up from this fake celebrities lifestyle faaaaa.
Ur stupidity is appalling!
DeleteAnon 12;12, shut up ur tribalistic mouth! WTF do you know about Esan girls. If you want to comment, use ur brain not your anus.
DeleteI am proudly Edo, proudly Nigerian and not a prostitute. Stop stereotyping, its myopic and ignorant. There are so many fine Edo girls in beauty and in character. Don't allow your attitude make you miss out.
DeleteNa Edo girl kill u for ur former life @anon12:12???
Delete@anon12:12 You need a psychiatrist.
Delete@Anon 12:12...the more you generalize, the more your limits. Easy wit d tag please.
DeletePepe, you claim u are not a prostitute. Yet u are busy parading yourself around town with a married man and making the innocent wife cry. God is watching you.
DeleteYou don't know me and I don't know you anonymous 16:25. You obviously are looking for a scape goat. This is a public forum, stop accusing people wrongly. It will get you no where. If the one you know is named Pepe, it is definitely not me. God is also watching you, false accuser, whoever you are. Take a chill pill and stop calling Gods' name in vain.
DeleteMost beauty queens are flirts abeg! They have many sugar daddies and some guys can't tolerate that,them queens will keep telling u " those men are my sponsors" bt they fuck the men tooo.... there's no Queen that have less than 3 sponsors they fuck...
ReplyDeleteVery correct fact, Na dia sponsors dey fuck them. Any beauty queen that mentions my sponsor, run for ur dear life if u no wan carry hiv
DeleteThat's one of their problems.
DeleteAll I see is "too pretty to be this", too pretty to be that.Abegii
ReplyDeleteToo much filter and that her tummy has a touch of photoshop.
DeleteWhy is every beauty queen afraid of being more than 20yrs?
Cheregodi first... osino 'goal digger'? issorai.
DeleteWish ya luck in ur search for Jesus look/act alike.
Funny enough, all I see is that tummy. I love.
DeleteLol . blog addict u no well
DeleteThe prettiest ones are mostly the loneliest because everyone out there feels we are "taken".
ReplyDeleteToo bad.
Story of my life *sigh*
DeleteSame here. No serious relationship for almost two years cos every guy I meet seem to think am already in a relationship or I have a lot of men in my life. When I tell them otherwise, their reply is always, you're too beautiful not to have a boyfriend, I am so lonely and sad. I didn't create myself, God made me beautiful and I believe he his preparing a good man for me.
DeleteHmmm not true ooo. It depends. The most important question is are they approachable cos most of them allow their beauty to enter their head. Feeling funky and all that forgetting that the beautiful ones are not yet born.
Delete@jojo
DeleteSide eyes
Mail me lets get talking
Gbam! @ sexiest mother.. That Used to be d story of my life. I used to have this 'dnt even dare come close look' until my aunt sat me down one blessed day & we had the girl talk. I followed her tips & 2day i'm engaged.
DeletePretty girls really need to get off their high horse s.learn to be accommodating. It helps.
Blog Addict, thank God for you cos most of them dont want to listen to advice, a guy will approach them instead of them to atleast give the person a chance, they will be like Ah, he is not my type, he doesnt look presentable, he doesnt speak like british and all that. On a first dateooo hahaha. Why not give the person a chance atleast let him express him self first even if at the end of the day you didnt find anything interesting in the guy, you can in a good manner tell the person u aint interested and still be friends with the person. Manner of approach matters a lot but sorry to say most beauty queens/pretty ladies i have met here in lagos when i got married newly then dont have that . So they end up attracting people that are players or people that are not Serious. They should learn how to be friendly and mingle with people. Even if that person doesnt know to how speak like british, you can teach the person or encourage the person to enrol in any evening clases for adults or go to bizness school or part-time and not rubbing it on the peesons face. Most of them are the cause of their problem. The beautiful ones are not yet born coupled with the rate girls mature this days. Imagine an 8yrs old girl already has breast and looks beautiful then also imagine how she will look like when she gets to 15yrs. So they should mellow down cos umu asa juru everywhere.
DeleteTell me about it, Ebosatale!
ReplyDeleteI totally relate.
Why are men myopic minded indeed!
Same conversation I was having with a guy yesterday.
He disagreed with me,as regards many beautiful girls still being single, because men automatically assumed that they are in relationships.
He said that even if a beautiful girl is not in one, that there is always some guy by the sidelines, filling in for the ONE, pending when he shows.
I kept shaking my head in amazement.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Them dey fear the Edo/UNIBEN in you. Hahahahha. The one that will take you serious will come
ReplyDeleteSee beauty, my future wife had better look this gorgeous
ReplyDeleteWhen you carry face like gorilla? Mtchw!
DeleteLmao. Brutal.
DeletePretty to be real kwa
ReplyDeleteAsanwa
ReplyDeleteOmalicha nwa
Gorgeous girl.
ReplyDeleteAfricans,not just men.
You see a pretty single girl,you assume she is a prostitute.
Every fair girl is dating sugar daddies but those dark ones that are doing "mighty" things are good girls.
This is why some men end up with girls they import from their villa that comes to "township" and shows them pepper. They turn out to be the biggest gold diggers with their poverty of the mind mentality.
So True..
DeleteLolz. But you are right shaa. But also remember destiny plays its part too.
DeleteYour comment makes a lot of sense.
DeleteYimu.
Delete99% of mod3ls are olosho. Thats all i have to say. Sleepibg arnd and be saying the people are their sponsors. It is an open secret.
Asanwa
ReplyDeleteOmalicha nwa
lmao can't hold it sha
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
Pretty girl problems, I suffer same.
ReplyDeleteSharaaap
DeleteSlum whore,who see u?
Mechie gi onu, Pretty gals dey marry every saturday, goan check ur character. Runs girl alert!
DeleteAnonymous easy naa. Haba
DeleteDoppel the Doppel, lol...
DeleteAnonymous always have the most to say, your mama did runs and had you, don't mean I am into that sort of thing.Stop getting upset, I am still chilling.
DeleteDoppel or wareva, na u get tym to ansa dem. Guilty conscience fears no accusation.
DeleteAll I see is the second pic with the blond hair! Tacky!!! If you only meet guys that think you are a gold digger, that means you have only met shallow minded guys...this brings me to question the way you present yourself. It's called packaging!!!
ReplyDeleteLucinda
You are a fool.
DeleteThank you joor, if you attract only guys that just wanna fuck you , then you are indeed a gold digger and ashawo
DeleteNot necessarily true.
DeleteThey don't believe a pretty girl can be single
ReplyDeleteIt's so annoying
Someone was told me
I can't marry someone like u and keep in my house coz men would continue chasing me and I might finally cheat one day
Mxcheew ...who wan marry someone like him before?
This beauty Queen fine oo
So many beauty queens in Nigeria
Ammie Ifeandu, but u r not pretty na, just a little yellow with johnny bravo shape
DeleteAt 5 ft 4 inches????
DeleteI have dead.
Bwahahhahahhaha
DeleteNow i've confirmed most of you anonymous peeps are really crazy
Hahahhahahahahahahahhahahaah....These anons won't kill me abeg.
DeleteSmh
ReplyDeleteWoooow...see body...shes really beautiful...it must be hard for a man to concentrate on anything else but her body.....stella I'm back...and u must enjoy me
ReplyDeleteHeey babe,where have u been??
DeleteSherry's Daughter
To London to see the queen.lol....Thanks sherry hun
DeleteWelcome back d Juicy one.
DeleteWelcome back I missed your comments.
DeletePretty girl,most men don't take very beautiful girls seriously. My beautiful model like friend is cooling her ass in the hospital because her boyfriend dumped her.
ReplyDeleteReason be that he can't deal when men stare at her and throw compliments whenever they are together.
You fine wahala, you ugly wahala, infact rapture should come and carry these men away jor.
And leave the women ???
DeleteLmao..... Abeg make rapture never carry them now o.... make I see my own pick first
DeleteBuhahaha! U re hilariously funny! I cnt stop lol@rapture shud cm carry dem guys,chai
DeleteBabes haba rapture.
DeleteHahaha! Pls it shouldn't yet ooh. Lemme marry my own first.
DeleteLol @kokomistress
All i see is a beautiful woman
ReplyDeleteI am very pretty and mostly married men come my way, the single ones that come don't have the true quality I want so I turn them down, I see alot of single Nigerian guys are mostly gold diggers, its a turn off, luckily I jammed one single,over loaded, good looking, sweet dude,girls are on his case but he knows what he wants, sometimes i read their messages and I laugh, too many desperate ladies, I know he will be my hubby soon, we share same idea and this guy likes me alot, I don't really act like I like him, I hide my feelings, I know he is the one, I am grateful lord ahead of this blessing.i am hiding him from my friends, this guy is every lady, s dream.
ReplyDeleteKindly close your legs while you wait for him to pop the question.
DeleteGoal digger kwa? Don't worry u will end up with a billionaire.
ReplyDeleteShe is pretty.
ReplyDeleteYou have a decent look maybe you are truly a gold digger (not my cup of tea ojee
ReplyDeleteChange your look abi na nature
ReplyDeleteStory of my life, you're too beautiful to be single so there must be a character you're hiding, some say 'I can't have peace of mind if I date/marry you'. Atleast she's still young
ReplyDeleteSame here o, even though I'm not really beautiful but guys just automatically assume I'm in a relationship. na wa ooo
DeleteI'm still looking for the beauty.Stella,today is Sunday o...stop the hype abeg.
ReplyDeleteLolz.
DeleteWho wants to take all these yeye models serious sef.
ReplyDeleteMost of them are only good for gbenshing o jare
Gbensh and move on to the next one
The happiest thing in life is that there is seed time and harvest time PLUS EESAH here is gonna have daughters too! Lol
DeleteBut his daughters will look like him so no wahala
DeleteYes o and the daughters would go into modelling!
DeleteChoi! Eesah.. YOU ARE BAD!
DeleteI just peed in my pants.Anon 12.36 haff finished me here.Hahahahahahaha
DeleteBlog addict EESAH is not bad , he is just innocently mentally depraved
DeleteSweetie, if you ask me, na who I go ask?
ReplyDeleteSimple advice? Leave Nigeria men and go date a white man. They are not as myopic as our Nigerian brothers here..
Cuss me at your peril!
No one will cuss u even if they do, u no get mouth too and hand to type? Anyway u re right. White people are free minded and doesnt carry tradition for their head unlike some nigerian men that will tell u to do this or that and on top will still be cheating for Africa
DeleteKeyjeh...hate to agree with you but you just might be right. Story of my life *sigh*
DeleteAbi O. I am thinking of it sef. Nigerian men na wa.
DeleteBut white guys don't like pretty African girls. They like the ones that look like those Benin carvings.
DeleteOmg. Lmao.... Bini carvings?. Jesu.
DeleteShe said she is just 20!That's very good.
ReplyDeleteGoal digger? Dafuq is goal digger? RIP English
ReplyDelete...marry ur sugar daddy ooo.
ReplyDeleteDnt come and be giving silly excuse bcos nobody dey stop u
Is she digging goal or gold? Hehehe.. She is very pretty btw and sexy bod.! I like..
ReplyDeleteLesbo things..
DeleteLesbo alert..
Deleteyou're pretty alright, but you're wrong about all me being myopic.
ReplyDeleteSo she see herself as a beauty queen?
ReplyDeleteThe word beauty has gone to exile
To tell u, beauty fades! Xter matters.
ReplyDeleteWhen a woman is 20 and you tell her that "someone wants to marry you", she will say "who is the man"?
ReplyDelete@25: "someone wants to marry you". "What is the man'?
@35: "someone wants to marry you": "where is the man?!"
@45: *No one is coming to marry you *: "I want to get married and have my own kids, or even adop , even if there is no one, I want to have kids" *weeping*
Mstcheeeeeew
DeleteWhen a woman is 20 and you tell her that "someone wants to marry you", she will say "who is the man"?
ReplyDelete@25: "someone wants to marry you". "What is the man'?
@35: "someone wants to marry you": "where is the man?!"
@45: *No one is coming to marry you *: "I want to get married and have my own kids, or even adopt , even if there is no one, I want to have kids" *weeping*
Awwwww boo boo story of your sister's lives?
DeleteYou are 20yrs? Walahi,i am 12yrs old. You are pretty tho
ReplyDeleteWhy u come dey laff wen u talk ur age? U sef know say u dey lie. U look 32 in the last pix
ReplyDeleteStory of my life. Isham girls rock though
ReplyDeleteNna eh nwa nkea riri mma n'onu. So beautiful both face and body. Omalicha nwa.
ReplyDeleteUna think say we no get sense abi... If truly your character fine as u fine like... U for see as guys go queue for you like petrol station. Truth is, with most gals, characters and beauty never dwell in same body.If you are beautiful yet 'boyfriendless'...omalicha...check ur character biko...which man no like better thing?
ReplyDeleteKzy check your own character I hope you are not a COMMUNITY PENIS
DeleteNa ishan girl , Na karashika them be ooo
DeleteIf you say you are not in a relationship they will say its a lie, they start asking you stupid questions.
ReplyDeleteHmmm i dont believe it.
ReplyDeleteMay our beauty not be a curse
ReplyDeleteThere a man for every woman
Urs will surely come
God bless the day I tell a guy I'm single and he believes me... Being pretty ain't easy at all cus people just assume and make up stuffs about you which ain't true! The most common I hear is *so you want to tell me there is no man servicing your engine as fine as you are* or I'm sure you've up to 10 boyfriends *sigh*
ReplyDeleteVery correct
DeletePls stop using dis 'I'm pretty nd all men think am taken' mentality to deceive urselves. If u hv a good character, no man wud want u to slip frm their hands. Come to think of it, who doesn't want to get married to a beautiful girl?
ReplyDeleteI like marshmallows and jellybeans and licorice and candy cane, the ones they sell in Lagos are just horrible. Still waiting for someone I can pay to bring some in from the UK.
DeleteLmao @ these comments. So everyone on Stella's blog is now a beauty queen... oriegwu ooo *in the queen's voice*
ReplyDeleteAnyway shaaa, I think beauty attracts men but character keeps them. Many beautiful girls attract lots of men and lots of men also want to marry a very pretty lady. If men are saying she's a gold digger, then she must be doing something wrong. Maybe she's greedy, bleaching, not homely or a free-giver of her ... or maybe she's possessed. Beauty should be an advantage
Pretty hurts...... Sobs***
ReplyDeleteDo "gold diggers" actually have a generic look? I think it's more about a person's attitude and, perhaps, profession or whatever one does for a living. They are various stereotypes attached to certain occupations, like the notion that female bankers in the marketing department are morally bankrupt. Same yardstick female nurses are measured by, pretty or not. The fact that there are a few who are morally upright doesn't count, they all are grouped as one and the same. Perception trumps truth, unfortunately.
ReplyDeleteI guess men are discouraged from having any serious relationship with most beauty queens, not because they are stunning but the stereotypical notion that beauty queens earn their crowns by parting their thighs and other body parts to the "ogas at the top". I know a lot breathtakingly beautiful women who are married to very responsible men who never pass on the opportunity to show off their pretty wives. And I know for a fact that when a man is smitten by the beauty of a woman, he behaves like he's under a spell, even if she has a questionable attitude.
When a lady is perceived as hard-working or has a decent job or owns a successful business, no matter what she looks like, the term "gold digger" doesn't come to mind. Yet behind the veil, she may actually be a prolific gold digger. That's the irony in certain assumptions.
Most of the men I know actually love the fact that they are blessed with gorgeous wives or lady friends. It appears she gives off the wrong vibe or acts in a particular way which portrays her as a gold digger. Beauty is supposed to be a plus and not a disadvantage. It becomes a disadvantage when it makes a lady uppity because she's aware of her beauty and the effects it has on men.
My sweerie poraro Ronalda.
DeleteStop this disappearing act na.
You should have a blog ID in 2016. Am I asking for too much? Lol
I kwn de r some good pretty ones out dia, bt de r BITCHES... One came to church ds mrn flauntin her ass and car keys has she walked past d audience.... NoNSense..
ReplyDeleteLol! U r not d finest in 9ja biko.
ReplyDeleteEveryday beauriful galz are getting hook-up, how come urs is exception?
You better bring down ur feathers.
Take God serious and men will come i.e. serious guys
ReplyDeleteFeels like Ya using one or two experiences to judge, Only guys with low self esteem act that myopic and we have lots here in Nigeria
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