NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
19,GAY AND CONFUSED.
Hello Stella and Blog visitors, I Love you.
This is my narrative.
I am 19 and Gay. The later word would be invalid if I get advice/life experiences from you all as to why I am this way.
This is my story.
Stella I grew up in one of the most strict christian upbringing you can ever think of. I don't know why fate decided to punish me this way. I wasn't molested by anybody at least as far as I can remember. But, I've been plagued severely by how I feel since I can't say this to anybody.
They sent me to an all boys missionary secondary school. Tho those feelings stopped for a while but immediately I got to SS3 my hormones started raging. It still died again. After High school I got this app 2go which was in vogue then. I discovered 2 2go rooms popularly known as Men's Lounge, Mens Only. I started visiting this rooms frequently because everybody in the room are Gay Boys/Men. From the room I had a couple of friends from whom I learnt about Gay Pornography and Masturbation. Stella, till today I cant go a week without doing either of the two.
I met one of the guys who was my friend. He is 21 now. On one of the occasions when I visited him I don't know how it happened but we kissed each other passionately (my 1st kiss) romanced each other in a way I could not have imagined. In fact I could not picture myself sucking a Guys d*ck or letting a Guy suck mine. But it happened. S*X did not happen. On reaching home that day, I felt bad. I uninstalled 2go that night blocked all of my Gay friends and finally I resolved to being the born again that I am. I started trying my best to associate with girls. N/B I am muscular and in no way effeminate.
I had this girl I became really close with, strangely I never looked at her as I looked at boys. It killed me deeply because I wanted to be committed to this gurl. But it seemed not to be working. She thinks I like her but mehn. Not in romantic way.
Stella, this is where I am now. I've prayed and fasted but this feelings are still there. I've actually giving up all hopes to be straight again. Now I'm tempted to install that app 2go and continue making new friends.
I just need Blog Visitors to to tongue lash me and tell me how disgusting my life style is.
Stella don't forget to use your Red/Blue/Purple or any pen sef. I trust you Na.
God bless you all.
I am sorry,i am not homophobic but issues like this shock the living daylights out of me and i might end up cussing you out.its better i just read comments
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This is my narrative.
I am 19 and Gay. The later word would be invalid if I get advice/life experiences from you all as to why I am this way.
This is my story.
Stella I grew up in one of the most strict christian upbringing you can ever think of. I don't know why fate decided to punish me this way. I wasn't molested by anybody at least as far as I can remember. But, I've been plagued severely by how I feel since I can't say this to anybody.
They sent me to an all boys missionary secondary school. Tho those feelings stopped for a while but immediately I got to SS3 my hormones started raging. It still died again. After High school I got this app 2go which was in vogue then. I discovered 2 2go rooms popularly known as Men's Lounge, Mens Only. I started visiting this rooms frequently because everybody in the room are Gay Boys/Men. From the room I had a couple of friends from whom I learnt about Gay Pornography and Masturbation. Stella, till today I cant go a week without doing either of the two.
I met one of the guys who was my friend. He is 21 now. On one of the occasions when I visited him I don't know how it happened but we kissed each other passionately (my 1st kiss) romanced each other in a way I could not have imagined. In fact I could not picture myself sucking a Guys d*ck or letting a Guy suck mine. But it happened. S*X did not happen. On reaching home that day, I felt bad. I uninstalled 2go that night blocked all of my Gay friends and finally I resolved to being the born again that I am. I started trying my best to associate with girls. N/B I am muscular and in no way effeminate.
I had this girl I became really close with, strangely I never looked at her as I looked at boys. It killed me deeply because I wanted to be committed to this gurl. But it seemed not to be working. She thinks I like her but mehn. Not in romantic way.
Stella, this is where I am now. I've prayed and fasted but this feelings are still there. I've actually giving up all hopes to be straight again. Now I'm tempted to install that app 2go and continue making new friends.
I just need Blog Visitors to to tongue lash me and tell me how disgusting my life style is.
Stella don't forget to use your Red/Blue/Purple or any pen sef. I trust you Na.
God bless you all.
I am sorry,i am not homophobic but issues like this shock the living daylights out of me and i might end up cussing you out.its better i just read comments
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
BABY DADDY BROUHAHA
I just broke up with my child's father due to trust issues; he's this "who called you? you don't want to pick up your call cos it's a guy that's calling you" kind of person, if he calls and I don't pick up, it's trouble;I will have to explain and convince and the days I couldn't take it and i gave it back to him, wahala of "are you shouting at me? You don't respect me" will start, a lot between us asides trust issues that I can't pen down, I've been enduring but my cup is full.
Secondly; family differences and lastly; tribe, he's Igbo and I'm Yoruba and I'm so scared of what the outside world has got to offer, I've forgotten the pros and cons of starting afresh so bvs, let's interact, say it as it is. *winks.
Single mums out there, how is it going with the dating thing?
Married ex-single mum, what did you go through before you married your husband and what advice would you give.
Single sisters here who have a single mum as their brother's girlfriend or wife, how do you feel? You can also share your parent's take on the issue if you know their mind.
Guys who are dating or married a single mum, please share what it feels like and what stuffs you have to put up with as per the society we are in.
Also as a single mom, if you are dating / married a single guy, baby daddy, divorcee, do share your experiences. You can go anonymous or otherwise as you don't who you might be helping.
**No cussing please due to the baby daddy thing, I know most of you are Hail virgin Mary.
hmmmmm 19?
ReplyDeleteDearest friend, I had to comment on this so you know you are not alone and most importantly there is nothing wrong with you. Being gay is just your sexuality and doesn't even define you. Yes, there is always a slutty phase when you discover you are not alone but you have to be careful and play safe to avoid contracting stds and worst aids.
DeleteI am gay like, have always been. Prayed and fasted like you, felt something was wrong with me. Until I realised I was not the one with the problem but the society had the problem.they are used to hating things they do not understand and you cant blame them for their ignorance, neither can you let them set your life's standard for you. You deserve to be happy, we all do.
I have found love, and one day I will marry my partner. All I can tell you is to love yourself and accept your self. You don't need anyone's approval to be who you are, also try and hold off on sex for as long as you can ok.
Trust me man, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you, you're gay no doubt and living in the wrong country full of critics & bigots, no amount of prayer and fasting will take that feeling away..... I'd advise you learn to live with it in low profile in this third world country, I'm not gay but I consider myself a human activist, so I'm also a supporter of LGBT community, goodluck & watch ur back.
DeleteIt begins even at age 5 my dear. Now isn't this a prove that some people re born gay? How long do we think dis poster can keep up the fight not 2 b gay? Can he really truly love a woman? I'm lost 4 words or advice but poster please do not go back 2 d site and keep praying let's see if u can conquer the demon. Pls note in d course of ur struggles that ure not alone.
DeleteI sometimes slip into my curious blouse n begin 2 wonder what it feels like. May God help me too.
Poster one, I won't say anything but thank God you know your life is disgusting.
DeletePoster two, I'm not a single mum but I know for sure that you will find a guy that truly and genuinely adores you. Don't be scared and don't stay in a relationship that gives you headache. You already have a child in your life, focus on him or her and yourself and love will most definitely find you. Remember you attract your personality, if you know you have any bad attitude, work on it and develop yourself OK? It's well with you.
SHILOH BEGINS TOMORROW!!!!! YAAAY!!!!!
Poster 2 kpele.
DeletePoster 1- I know Hw hard an addiction can be Bt pls try to change. I really feel pity for ubcos dis kind tin, dem no Dey hear am two tyms. Oh well, it is well wit u.
DeletePoster 2- I hav a single mum as a fwnd n even doe her family helps her out, her depression makes her slimdown over night. If it's really worth it u can try Bt I dnt tink it's so easy. Aldoe some ppl will say it is sha
I just found out I am a lesbian.. I am 33. Looking for a hot ,mature, clean, rich chick in Lagos to take to cloud 9 and back. Can't believe how good I am .. Holla if u wanna meet discreetly .. Send ya email underneath this post.
DeletePoster 1= I understand how u feel been there also, so my advice is this THE FEELING OF BEEN GAY/LES NEVER GOES away
DeleteYou cant changed how you are wired, u can deny urself all u want and even spend Xmas at MFM prayer city....it wont go away
Been different isnt a sin, cos u didnt choose to be d way you are
Guess what out of ever 10 couples 3 members out of this lot are either gay/bisexual or swingees, i know cos we have alot of them crazy hypocrites in Lekki.
But if u still feel been cussed out here will make u feel guilty enough to change how u feel on d inside then goodluck bt it aint gonna work
God loves every human expecially the ones wired wrongly
Poster 1= I understand how u feel been there also, so my advice is this THE FEELING OF BEEN GAY/LES NEVER GOES away
DeleteYou cant changed how you are wired, u can deny urself all u want and even spend Xmas at MFM prayer city....it wont go away
Been different isnt a sin, cos u didnt choose to be d way you are
Guess what out of ever 10 couples 3 members out of this lot are either gay/bisexual or swingees, i know cos we have alot of them crazy hypocrites in Lekki.
But if u still feel been cussed out here will make u feel guilty enough to change how u feel on d inside then goodluck bt it aint gonna work
God loves every human expecially the ones wired wrongly
Wey dat silly child faith martins? I hope her Indian boss gave her a query over that silly dp and for generally being silly! Cowleen!
DeleteP1: Don't believe d lie that God created u that way u are. Whatever God created was good, else He can't turn around and say homosexuality is a sin...no, it is an abomination!
DeleteSomething in ur past must have triggered it. I won't lash out at u dear. God is all about love.
Ur first step to being set free from this spirit is u calling it what it is....sin. And yes, homosexuality is a spirit, a demonic one.
But breaking free from it is not going to be by ur human strength. U may fast and pray and do everything u wanna do but until u realize u need Jesus to walk tru dis, then am afraid u won't be free from this. It's not ur ability but his ability in u(think about this saying. I pray the Holy Spirit gives u understanding).
Wish u could read my recent article on "this is one story u got to read. Stop struggling now" in mitchelleobatu.blogspot.com.
When God asks u to live righteously, He doesn't expect u to do it on ur own. That's why many fail and then conclude it is impossible to stay pure.
God expects u to realize u need Him to do this and He wants u to take a step further by asking Him to help u and submitting to Him and believe me when I say He will help u as long as u desire with all ur heart to walk in His will.
I have read the stories of men and women whom God delivered from homosexuality. And it all started when they encountered Jesus. Only God can do this if u allow Him.
U were not born this way. That's a satanic lie. Homosexuality is deeply spiritual.
I have stuffs for u on this. I wish u could take out time and visit my blog and read even older articles. Don't settle for this lie sweetheart. Ur eternity is at stake.
U can inbox me if u wish we talk further. U also need someone u can confide in and be accountable to. Just click on my name and u will see my e-mail. I really wish to hear from u so we talk.
Mitchelleobatu.blogspot.com
Sweet heart, It is very rare to find a guy that takes single mum seriously. Don't get me wrong. There are guys that will appreciate u as u are, But they are difficult to find. The easy ones you can access quickly are the married men. Because they can quickly relate to ur condition and still care about u. As for the single guys... Ehn!!! Don't just put the info b4 them. Take ur time to ensure they are into u. Not all single guys can handle the "How I became a single mum deetz" so take ur time. Be ready to do a lot of dating. Be ready to deal with trust issue. Kisses Dear
DeleteThe Gay chronicles remind me of a Gay story about a young boy you posted one night like that and later took it down.
DeleteNarrative 1 as mfm people on this blog will say, Please go for serious deliverance. Lol.for now please don't reinstall your 2go.have lots of girls around u. We can't say, God fit help u.
DeleteNarrative 2 the streets are cold for single mum's oo! But God will send your helper to you. Be strong!
Anony 16:42; for real?? guess am not bold enough because am curious about cloud9 or clean 9.u
DeletePlease stop all this I have prayed and fasted lies......prayers and fasting is not a visit to babalawo at all at all......people think they can just pray and fast when they have problems then after that they go back to their old ways, then when u don't see results you make prayer and fasting seem like no effect.....are you born again? Do you read the bible daily? Do you go to church and fellowship with other brethren? If you truly do all this you will grow and that spirit will leave you....you cannot be born again, have the Holy Spirit in you and be comfortable living the gay life.....you were not created that way.....God created male and female and he meant them to desire each other not to desire same sex.....God hates homosexuality like any other sin.....truly give your life to Christ , start going to church regularly, read the word of God daily, ask for the baptism of the Holy Spirit, spend time in praise and worship then come back and tell me you do not see a change in your life.........People should stop thinking u can just pray and fast cos of trouble then go back to your old lifestyle and problem solved.....God is not a babalawo
DeletePoster 2 I was a single parent for 9 years but happily married now. You will meet the good, bad and ugly just like any other single girl. You will have guys that will look down on you the minute they know you have a child out of wedlock, you will meet guys who are sympathetic to your plight but have no intentions of marrying a single mother and you will also meet guys who are not bothered about your status and genuinely want to get to know you. All these being said, at some point after struggling I worked hard and moved in a 3 bedroom flat, had a manageable job and an official car. Men I dated didn't look at me like a burden rather they encouraged me infact it was one of the men I dated that motivated me to make the best out of my life and not wallow in self pity. He supported and advised me up until I met my husband. My advice for you is to invest in yourself and child, do not allow your status define who are you and most importantly Pray! God hears and He answers
DeleteI feel your pain bro.. I as an adolescent has been molested by a neighbour and my very own uncle.. It took the grace of God to stop that by making me change location. But the feelings of being with a guy didn't change since they're the only sexual experiences I had. I haven't kissed a girl before in my life. The painful thing is that I am highly committed in church hoping for a change, yet every church I turn to, I meet another responsible gay dude there...it's not helping. Dunno what more to do
DeletePoster 1 you can conquer that feeling, I did and so can you.
DeleteChronicles haf come.
ReplyDeleteReading mood activated.
Brb.
*******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS******
Boarding school tufiakwa, poster1 don't knw wat to advise u, but knw one thing, if u really wanna leave that sinful life, u can,just give ur life to christ, may Jesus fix it for u.
DeletePoster2, what if the single mum, etc tell u it not easy outside there, you will continue with him, come out and breathe fresh air first, hainnnnnn!
Emjay, pls I'm tired of insulting you.... Lemme start blessing you. May ur find peace & love in ur life, money, cute kids, joy and laughter, AMEN.
DeleteI like your i-dont-care-attitude. People will keep insulting you yet you no send. If na me, I for don change my I.d. :)
DeleteAnon bomb nor dey ur head today?,hahahahahahaha, ur head dey dia.
DeleteI think am also getting Addicted to female..any lesbian in the house..please holla
DeleteShiloh starts tomorrow...... hallelujah
DeleteAnony 18:41 Holla back yeee
DeleteDemonic lifestyle
DeleteThe devil is working overtime to make people believe he doesn't exist and the abnormal seem normal
Poster one! You've just done the right thing. Don't be tempted.
DeletePoster 1..u r not wired that way...some ppl have strong urges to steal,have kleptomania but that doesnt stop it from being wrong!
DeleteChronicles haf come.
ReplyDeleteReading mood activated.
Brb.
*******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS******
Boarding school tufiakwa, poster1 don't knw wat to advise u, but knw one thing, if u really wanna leave that sinful life, u can,just give ur life to christ, may Jesus fix it for u.
DeletePoster2, what if the single mum, etc tell u it not easy outside there, you will continue with him, come out and breathe fresh air first, hainnnnnn!
Who wired him wrongly? Your papa i guess cus am sure God created him properly. Him missed it in boarding school just like many too. May God help you poster 1.
DeleteGay dude, just COME OUT and live your life abeg.
ReplyDeleteStop punishing yourself jare. If you like Men, go for them and vice versa. All the best!
Lol @purnishment. Ure right in a way tho but.....
DeleteVe his life? What about jail term? Hell fire? PlS let him go for deliverance.m
Deletehian
DeleteI have never read any sensible comment from you on this blog. Dumb
DeleteFor your mouth. U people be doing like you're not African. You're black, Quickie Black!
DeleteHmmmmn,end time things.I will just wait for comments.Yours sdkly dazzlinglizzy
ReplyDeleteDear brother, you are suffering from Loneliness Syndrome. And when you are lonely, staying or mingling with the same sex becomes priority, especially because you grew up among boys. More so, you are at an age where expressing your sexual temperament becomes a raging factor in your psyche, again your first point of call to douse this fire could be with same sex!
DeleteAs a Christian, think about how God hates homosexuality. Read Genesis 19. He hates it to the extent he destroyed Sodom and Gomorah. You said you are a Christian, nominal or practicing? Beef up your relationship with christ.
My dear, being straight is possible. If you are yet to get admission, go and acquire a skill(playing key board,etc), or even get a small job and save for school days. If you are in school already, target a 2.1 or even 1st class and work assiduously towards it, change your friends, possibly get a new sim card. Then above all, join a work force in your church, get so busy to the extent that a 5 hour sleep a day will be a luxury. Trust me with this last one, you will detest that TRAP called 'GAYISM'.
Shalom!
Gay poster I think donnie mcclurkin (the popular gospel artist) was gay. Read about him.
DeleteAlso I think u can be gay but not practice it or indulge in the act. So that means stay single for life. I mean Paul in the bible did not get married. Not everyone would. As believers we are called to take up our cross and follow Christ now maybe ur cross may mean u have to deny urself of all gay acts for life and be completed dedicated/focuses on Christ. May God help you as you keep to his word
Gmama most stupid comment I have read on this blog.....lol.....can be gay but not practice it? Dumb shit u just typed here...
DeleteDonnie is still gay.. A self hating gay in the closet.. Even some gospel ministers. .Just go to God personally.. Bcos if u wanna look at the so called representatives of God on earth. You'll be disappointed
DeleteAnon whatever. I still maintain my stance after all. Temptations are there but when you give into it, that is when it becomes sin. So yes he can have gay feelings but not act on it. Dumbass
DeleteJumzik covers speculation is allowed
Ehn! The gay dude abeg don't kid urself, it's curiosity that has been worrying u and nothing more.Who told u u r gay? Odiegwu, if u know the ish associated to gayism u will go celibate gaan.@ 19? Someone shoot me already d world is coming to an end.
ReplyDeleteNo salt E, it's quite different when ure just curious. Then u don't ve to fight urself u just slip out of that mode and continue, but in his case it will b so difficult 4 him 2 truly love a woman. He is gay.
DeleteI already did RIP
DeletePoster
ReplyDeleteJESUS will fix u
Just surrender totally to him
Poster 2
JAMB question
Lemme perch here...
DeletePoster one- I feel for you and I pray God will help you. Your story really touched me and I wish I could connect with you. Please try to ignore these thoughts (I know it's not as easy as I say), surround your self with good people and people you are not attracted to so you don't have those thought and please avoid 2go like a plague,it's like a devil''s workshop. I will put you in my prayers and I pray God helps you as well.
Poster 2- I'm not a single mom but I think the man has inferiority complex or he's just extremely jealous. Please be careful, he might end up being abusive. God will give you your perfect man in His time.
POSTER 1.
ReplyDeleteI was WAITING TO READ THAT WORD "PORN" AND I JUST READ IT; THAT'S ALMOST LIKE WHERE I STOPPED. YOU WERE TRICKED BY THE EVIL ONE INTO A PRISON; A JAIL; BONDAGE AND YOU CAN BE FREE. EVIL COMMUNICATIONS CORRUPT GOOD MORALS AND THAT WAS WHAT HAPPENED HERE. TAKE THE FOLLOWING STEPS AND SEE YOURSELF FREE FROM THIS EVIL THAT HAS PLAGUED YOUR LIFE;
How TO overcame porn/ masturbation: FIRST OF ALL TELL JESUS TO SAVE YOU AND THEN;
1. Veggie diet for a while to concentrate on the following 2. Work outs 3. reading of inspirational books; gospels; GET DOWN TO READING THE NEW TESTAMENT, BOOKS LIKE; tough times never last, purpose driven life etc. 4. setting YOUR gadgets on filter 5. setting life goals and being excited about them. 6. trusting absolutely in God and DIVERTING YOUR ENERGY TO doing charity works.
GOOD WISHES.
@poster 1 I really don't know what to say neither can I cuss you I'm not a judge
ReplyDelete@poster 2...I'm not a single mum...but currently dating a guy with a baby mama...
Truth is from the lil I have seen it's just not Easy most especially for the baby mama cos there is this stigma from all and sundry. You have come this far may God guide you..
Single ladies abeg. .be a wife before giving birth o jare...I'll rather date a baby daddy than be a baby mama society praises the guys that allow ladies keep such Un planned pregancies but castigates the women who do. And no matter what we say it's a man's world
Ul rather date a baby daddy than ba baby mama cos ure already in that situation. Society only term 2 condemn what they re not into but once they find themselves in that same situation, it becomes a normal thing.
Delete@tessbaby we are saying the same thing...dear.....truth is shit happen but one you won't see me dropping is carrying that tag babymama. .that title get wahala. .
DeleteAnd let's face facts.....no body castigates baby daddies .I'm not of the opinion that all men cheat but I have heard of alot of stories even on this blog of married men who tied the knot without baggages but along the line had babymama and a lot of women asked the wives to forgive if the man is repentant...but the babymama are being prayed against left right and centre.....what the world has termed norm is a baby daddy who takes care if the offspring as a good person and a babymama as a slut. .my dear...till time immemorial babymama would mostly be looked down upon
So this is the type of chronicles we will be having now abi?
ReplyDeleteEnd time chronicle indeed
Hmmm...cant even make a comment... #OpensMouthSalivaDrolling
DeleteEvery 'Gayhoodness' is traceable to pornography. Porn is the evil, the canker worm eating deep into the fabric of sane sexualty. Prompting young guys to lust after fellow men ad nauseum, women to crave the touch of dogs in their warm gooey places. Awakening absurd desires in men; prompting them to prod their young beautiful wives for butthole sex. Porn is the culprit. #shunporn
DeletePoster one it's not your fault you're gay. Society will never accept it but what to do. I feel really sorry for gay people cos of all they go through but it's also very difficult to understand how they became gay. I don't really know what to tell you
DeletePoster two I'm a single mum and I assure you men here don't take single mothers seriously. They don't care about how and y it happened. All they care about is not wanting to be burdened with the fact that they r dating a woman with a child. Many men you come across will be time wasters. Many will just want to get between your legs thinking you're cheap just cos you brought a child into this world without thinking about the circumstances that caused the whole thing. I'm not saying you should stay with that baby daddy of yours o. You've made your decision and you have your reasons. But also prepare to meet all kinds of stupid men who would want to take advantage of you. Some would even try to pretend they dont care you are a single mum till they sleep with you and their real colour will show
Dudette yours is the most sensible, problem solving comment I have ever come across on sdk's blog. God bless you
DeletePoster 1 ... Hell fire is calling you.
ReplyDeletePoster 2.... My brothers dont love yoruba girls. I hope you are not too dirty. Better leave that man/boy and look for your owambe guy outside
You're an ignorant moron, retards like you are the reason they're passing the social media bill, you mustn't comment!!
DeleteShut it already. How many igbo guys clean? Enough of all this tribal nonsense.
DeleteYou are a great ugly fool!!!
DeleteThunder fire ur bleached ass!!!
U r very shallow minded.
DeleteIyalaya baba baba re! Aja laje enue jakujakue Oloriburuku omoale
DeleteMaybe u mean your Biafran brothers. I'm a Yoruba lady married to an Igbo man with two beautiful kids. He loves me scatter!
DeleteSo psquare that married a Yoruba lady what do u call that? Why are majority of the Igbo tribe so tribalistic. These are the same Igbo men chasing and marrying Yoruba women. And the Igbo women that can die on
DeleteTop of Yoruba men's dick
My cousin is married to a yoruba girl and she's my favorite among all the wives in the family please. She's very respectful and classy. Well educated and doesn't have drama. My cousin showers her with praises when they are not together. But doesn't do so in her front. You know men and ego. But she knows he loves her so much because she has his mumu button even though sometimes my cousin can be annoying. But she knows how to control his madness.
DeleteLove me jeje, haba! Don't do this girlie
Deletekeep praying my dear........God will hear ur prayers
ReplyDeletePoster 1-
ReplyDeleteYou ve been around 'just boys' so much, now you are fucked up in mind and in body.
May God help you.
Poster 2-
May God sort you out
BlogLord that's not true,so cos he's been around boys a lot that will give him the yardstick to find same sex appealing ??lol
DeleteHave lived with women like forever,one of my siblings is into same sex marriage and I am as heterosexual as they come...
It's has nothing to do with your surroundings or what not ....
Regards.
Being around too many females or males brings about feelings for them o. That's y my child can never go to a same sex only school
Delete@Trinity, na lie o! I went to an all-boys school. Boarding house sef. And nobody likes women more than me.
DeletePoster 1: I really don't have anything to say to you. All i know is that i'll never enroll my kids in any boarding school when they get of age.
ReplyDeleteThat's usually where all these ynama ynama things start from. Break up with that poor girl you've been deceiving fast and let her move on to a better man biko.
Poster 2: So you didn't know he was like that before you got pregnant for him? Ok oooo
It's a tough world out there is all i can tell you. If you're lucky you might find the right man to love you and your baby. Good luck to una..
Boarding school give me the chills now.
DeleteNarrative 1: In the beginning God made Adam and Eve not Steve. Mingle more with girls. Watch romantic movies with girls. Ignore the feeling and above all take your burdens to God in prayer.
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2: Baby daddy? That means you aren't married to him yet. If it's that bad, you can move on, single mums do get married. But if it's something you can talk over then you can resolve it. Maybe you make him jealous, although he's over doing it but i'm sure he loves you.
You don't just choose to be a single mum, but when it happens, you pick up the pieces and forge ahead. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed not endured.
You are sure he loves her? Do you have problem with comprehension or you are just a daft imbecile? Mtchewwwwe
Delete@poster1 :go and start doing diaper advert.
ReplyDeleteBut seriously, you need deliverance
@poster2 : you went and got pregnant 4 a man dat hasn't paid a dine on your head?
Mtcheew
Baby daddy ko.....go n ask Anna banner 4 advice.
Your capacity for stupidity is epic! You have never heard of properly married women who are victims of DV?? You and Linda Eze are probably friends, house girls shagging madam's husband, very daft and narrow minded! I spit on u!
DeleteP1. Pls dnt go back to 2go.channel ur tots and energy into sometime more progressive.
ReplyDeleteP2. Didn't u see d signs before having a baby for him.wat advise do u want. diff stroke for diff people.
@ poster two;forget "World people"..
ReplyDeleteIts actually better for you to answer A "single mum" than running into A relationship or marriage where you are Emotionally,physically and psychologically being drained off totally...
If you are financially owkay to cater for that child;do it!!
Relationships isn't A "Must have" neither is "Marriage"..If you are good to go with being A "single mum",then stick to that!!
Do what makes you happy dear;that is what matters!!
About the question you asked;Truth is that it is so rare for an "Igbo" family to totally accept A single mum getting married to their male child.Even if the man in question agrees to marry A single mum;His family wont agree(i dont know why tho).and its always A problem from that stage..
Alldsame,i dont know how it works with your tribe but that is just the truth with ours..
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Martins aboy, u are making sense for d first time, ur advice to d single mum is notin but d truth, don't know why Nigerian women are so crazy over marriage, if marriage is dat sweet i don't think I will be reading chronicles of troubled marriages almost everyday, madam if u ve money abeg enjoy ur life biko.
DeleteJesus pls fix these posters!
ReplyDeleteBelieve it or not,everybdy has dis gay traits..i could remember when I was in high school, I had like hundreds of shool sons and I could remember cuddling n stuffs was involved..God delivered me tho.the thing is spiritual tho #sipsMoetnChandon
DeletePoster 1 of to prayer city! Wen u go on 7 days dry fasting beri beri! Ur eye wwould clear off dat lubbish! Infact u won't even tink of sex for a long time! Dedicate ur time to God! Stay away from such pipu! And avoid porn of any kind, its a phase it would pass! Ijn!
ReplyDeletePoster 2: ur case I don't understand! U got urself into all dis! God help, go on ur kneels and talk to God!
Monitoring ghost spirits I fire u all with holyghost fire! So think b4 u comment under hia! Nonsense pipu
Loooool @biri biri fasting!
Delete@poster one....I really don't know what to say. This is complicated. Ask God for guidance but know that homosexualism esp gay ain't tolerated in an African soil. Sorry go be your name and u would be stigmatised for life.
ReplyDeletePoster 2....the sarcasm wasn't necessary. Which one be most of una be "hail virgin Mary"? Biko have reverence for the Mother of God. Carry your cross like gala n lacasera seller on traffic. Deal with your baby daddy issues. Next time nor use pregnancy try to hook man. Bye
You so on point! I feel so bad for that guy.
DeletePoster1 Go for deliverance
ReplyDeletePoster2 May God direct you
Gay brother, you need deliverance...MFM kind of.
ReplyDeleteSingle mum in the making, you sounded like you've made up your mind already, you just needed tips on how to keep the ball rolling.
I'm no single mum and i do not have sisters/aunts that are single parents but i have few distant friends who are. In my opinion, they are corporate runs girls, they took up the business like their life depended on it. These girls have this mentality you just displayed here, they wanted freedom and fresh air, They got it alright, but not without a price. So goodluck!
Poster 1, maybe you need to concentrate on something else, get involved in interllectual things for now, forget any romantic relationships. Since you don't wnt to be gay, avoid any contact with Gay pple/society. Study ur bible very well and build ur career.
ReplyDeletePoster two, trust issues kwa, ask yoursef fisrt, are you upright morally? Do u ve attitudes that mks ur baby daddy not trust U? It is not easy to find a single guy with ur status oh, plenty eligible babes dey town with no baby bagage so before e go reach ur turn, aiye leti pare. If u can resolve d issues with ur baby daada, pls do. Ko easy lati je single mum, I knew wat my mum went thru.
Peer attachments with same-sex friends can play a role in developing gender identity. Eventually, after years of interaction and bonding with same-sex peers, children enter puberty and begin to pay attention to the opposite sex. When this natural process is disrupted, it feels natural for a child to love and crave the attention of those of the same sex. When children with certain temperaments initially perceive rejection of the same-sex parent, they detach and bond with the other parent. They begin to adopt the patterns and attributes of the opposite sex. However, there is always a longing for a connection with the same-sex parent, love and affirmation from the same gender. These children believe that they were born that way, having craved love and attachment with the same-sex parents for as long as they can remember. Homosexual behavior thus begins as an emotional craving, not a sexual craving. It reflects a legitimate need for non-sexual love, an emotional need that ultimately becomes sexualized with the onset of puberty.
ReplyDeleteMost researchers have concluded that sexual orientation is a complex, multifactorial issue in which biological, social and psychological factors combine to play a role in the ultimate sexual orientation of an individual. According to Julie Harren, Ph.D., the formula for this interplay between factors might be represented by these equations:
—Genes + Brain Wiring + Prenatal Hormonal Environment = Temperament.
—Parents + Peers + Experiences = Environment.
—Temperament + Environment = Homosexual Orientation.
What’s missing from these equations are the existence of a soul, the choice of the individual, and the temptation of the devil (see James 1:14).
Although it may be easier, psychologically, for a homosexual to believe that homosexuality is inborn, the accumulated scientific evidence suggests otherwise. Homosexuals may have a genetic predisposition, but human choice is still a factor. A predisposition is not a constraint. Ultimately, sexual orientation is determined outside of the womb.
For those who are unhappy living a homosexual lifestyle, this truth offers hope for change. Clinical experience has shown that, with help, some homosexuals can change learned responses and defense mechanisms to early painful experiences.
In 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, the sin of homosexuality is listed right next to theft. Just as there is no genetic excuse for stealing, there is no genetic excuse for homosexuality. Environment, culture, and choice make one a thief, and the same factors make one a homosexual.
Christ died for homosexuals. God loves persons of all sexual orientations, just as He loves all sinners. The Bible says, “God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8). Jesus Christ “is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world” (1 John 2:2). The gospel of Christ “is the power of God for the salvation of everyone who believes” (Romans 1:16). In Christ alone we find the definitive source for healing, restoration, forgiveness, and comfort. He is the way by which we can all experience the affirming, unconditional love, value, and acceptance of our Father in heaven.
No b small preashing be this.
DeleteGay dude, don't install 2go. Instead, whenever the urge to watch porn or do something disgusting comes, fast for 3 days and pray. If possible, fast for 3 days every week. It will cleanse you and get you heavenly attention
Good one! Dear brother, in addition to this, you are suffering from Loneliness Syndrome. And when you are lonely, staying or mingling with the same sex becomes priority, especially because you grew up among boys. More so, you are at an age where expressing your sexual temperament becomes a raging factor in your psyche, again your first point of call to douse this fire could be with same sex!
DeleteAgain as a Christian, think about about God hates homosexuality. Read Genesis 19. He hates it ri the extent he destroyed Sodom and Gomorah.
My dear, wing straight is possible. If you are yet to get admission, go and acquire a skill(playing key board,etc), or even get a small job and save for school days. If you are in school already, target a 2.1or even 1st class and work assiduously towards it, change your friends, possibly get the new sim card. Then above all, join a work force in your church, get so busy to the extent that a 5hour sleep a day will be a luxury. Trust me with this last one, you will detest that TRAP called 'GAYISM'
Poster1:you are just a small fool,see what 2go has cause in your life,just because you want to enter ultimate.
ReplyDeletePoster2:you are just taking Yama Yama baby name fool..
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Miss Mebo Mebo, you need to get a private teacher Asap. I'm sure even the posters can't understand you if those of us reading can't. Thank me later
DeletePoster 1, your life so I won't cuss you out.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, whoever you end up with and however you end up with them is your decision and choice. Everyone has their own share of baby mama/daddy experience. To the nwachukwu's and innocent's on this blog, over to una.
Season greetings isis, I will continue to lick your ass, no be my fault say you get sense jor
DeleteHow are you kween bee? It feels good someone is licking my ass. Blow job to you babe.
Deleteohw chim owh! sippin kunu n waitn fr comments*sideeyes*
ReplyDeletePOSTER 2;
ReplyDeleteYOU DON'T NEED TO BE CURSED. You simply need to be more purposeful in life! Perhaps, a book like "the purpose driven life" will help you. but apart from that, one hopes that you've learnt from your mistake. What mistake; you "opened your legs" to a man that has not paid your bride price! If you open legs again to another man while dating or not, he confirms that you are cheap and filthy. But if you close your legs and focus on the things that matter in life; love, peace and pursuit of eternal life, and seek to better yourself as a person. Yes, better yourself both educationally and otherwise, you'd realize that men do not mind if you had a baby or not. They only love you for whom you are; who you have become since you found Christ and that is it.
A lady was raped by a trusted friend and she decided to keep her baby. She was told by many that she will never marry again. She lost a year at school to concentrate on delivering her baby being a teenager. She came back to school after she had delivered and her family was taking care of the child. She was abandoned by all her friends etc. She stood her ground in Christ. In her final year, a highly successful professional came close and before you knew it was talking marriage. The lady told him all he needed to know and he said "and so? How does that make you less of the wife I seek?" Long story short, I attended that wedding!
Good wishes.
Lady Igo the story teller!!! You always have a story mschewww
Delete@poster1...THERE'S ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU...many might not understand y i chose 2use d above caption but trust me GOD LOVES U REGARDLESS OF SEXUAL PREFERENCE,dnt allow anybody tell u other wise.
ReplyDeleteI know u never chose ds life style of urs,it just happend and u found yourself lusting after same sex.u didn't create urself 2b this way neither shld u admonish yourself.
Sadly we live in a homophobic country and people wld definitely come in here to lash out @u...ignore 'em.
As for being addicted to masturbation and gay porns,that i wouldn't encourage. Stop fighting who you are,dts d first step to overcoming these addictions.
2ndly, get more platonic friends with same orientation such as urs,trust me,it'd help
Lastly,give in2 ur desires if u must,get a boyfrnd if need be or better still get busy
Elena, he wasn't "born that way".
DeleteBeing born with certain behavioral predispositions does not equate to those desires being good, moral, and right in the eyes of God.
For example, I wasn’t born patient. Instead, I was born naturally impatient.
And self-centered.
And prone to outbursts of anger.
And unforgiving.
And a liar.
And greedy.
I was born with all of these things and more. These traits and desires come to me naturally, are quite strong, and are very easy for me to live with in lots of ways.
If you want to see many of these sinful behaviors in full bloom, you needn’t look any further than the nearest 3-year old child, who will be only too happy to demonstrate his true nature when you don’t give him what he wants or if you take something away from him.
Yet, each one of these natural tendencies is something every responsible parent works hard at changing in their child, and that each responsible adult should work hard at removing from their life.
This is why the “born that way” argument fails in general. Its implicit foundation is flawed because it assumes that if a person is born with a particular inclination towards a behavior, then it must be moral and good. That just isn’t true.
Being born again changes our mindset. Whollup, this is not to imply that becoming a Christian instantly eradicates all sinful desires from a person; Paul’s statements in Romans 7 prove this thought to be false.
But spiritual regeneration is the beginning of a person’s recognition that their born-that-way behaviors are sin. This is then followed by the empowering of the Holy Spirit that moves a person toward a life of personal holiness and sanctification.
The Bible tells us the fruit of the Spirit is, “love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control” (Galatians 5:22-23). When we manifest these things and reflect Jesus, we can thank God that He has overcome our past sinful inclinations and now has caused us to be “born His way” instead of “born this way”.
I hope God will be lenient wit u when you die for leading a young boy astray. Yes God loves him and every other sinner but God is not mocked. He hates the acts because it defies the very essence of human existence. His words remain forever homosexuality is bad. Even me talking I was almost becoming a lesbian from watching too much lesbian porn. I had opportunities of meeting lesbians but I could not just do it. I even joined 2go to yet I could not do it, I used a defense mechanism and it's working for me. It takes time but I tell you, the power of imagination is strong. I stopped watching lesbian porn or any kind of porn. I reduced masturbation but anytime I do it when I want to cum I just imagine I am wiv a man that I love. I put so much emotion on the thought of the man when am cuming that the feeling is unbelievable. I have used this for a long time and I got myself disentangled from homosexuality. Now I don't like to imagine myself wiv a woman. It irritates me. I almost went back one day when I ventured into lesbian porn again because I was trying to understand abi learn how women squirt. I saw one video of two lesbian having sex in very close view. The way their cum was rubbing on each other like okro or catarrh looked so disgusting and I wanted to throw up. I was like this is exactly how it looks like when two women have sex. The asshole is where shit comes out from. Imagine fucking a guy and u touch shit. Keep that disgusting imagination in your head for a along time.My dear, it's a long road but u need to first stop watching porn and use your imagination to correct your abnormality. It will suppress the urge and God will help u eradicate it completely.
DeleteIs this the advise u 'll give ur son or brother who is not happy with his life style? God show u mercy.
DeleteI just lost the small remaining respect for you. Don't you ever mention God in the same context as this gutter infested crap u call advice. Ur kuku bisexual, how won't you encourage the lost boy to get a boyfriend! Amadioha hammer u!
DeleteOro buruku lenu eye
DeleteHow you take compose this trash
And try as much as possible to retain your manliness. Most of the people you see even though married are closet homosexuals and this is due to the society you find yourself in. And always remember there is a penalty if you are caught. Only God can judge. I'm no gay but I cannot discriminate because I'm in a society where you orientation is respected and I have friends who are gay.
DeleteI will advice you to stop going to all those sites you mentioned and be more prayerful. Connect to God. If your feeling is a spur of the moment thing, it will go but if that's how you are created, there is nothing you can do.
True, God doesn't hate gays, but he hates their act! Leviticus 18:22 is very clear on that and God will not break His own word. Also, God created man and woman, not man n man, woman n woman, which He definitely did for a purpose. It is very clear that God is displease with gay sex, Romans 1: 26 - 28 has it.
DeleteWith a knowledge of what God likes and hates, you can always go back to God and tell Him about the feelings and how you want to do His will as He created you for a purpose; pls call Him, He answers.
Hmmmmm.
ReplyDeleteJust nee poster 1
God help the 2 posters..
God intervene in der case...
Just Negodu. Gay guy I dont no what to say o.
ReplyDeletePoster 2:
ReplyDeleteI think your problem is "self-esteem issues". How did I know? I used to have same. There was a mix of timidity added to mine; I couldn't talk to two folks together; I'd just start sweating and stuttering. It was so bad. it cost me friends; both males and females. But today, I can talk to a conference of people in the course of my work and take questions etc. How did it happen? I began to read the gospels! Sounds foolish;sure? I thought as much and told the friend who suggested it same. He asked me to take the challenge and report back to him in "two months time". It's been years and counting and I am just fine. I regained some of my friends from of old. They could not believe it's me. You know the good thing; I can even browse through the gospels right on my phone; that's my breakfast while in the one hour bus ride going to work! And when I drive, I listen to the audio
Good one I will try this
DeletePoster 1. Wow..first of all, i do not *(and neither does anyone else) have the right to condemn you. I am a christian, born again. But I totally get you. D fact that you r not comfortable withyour lifestyle shows that you know its a sin..unlike other g
ReplyDeleteHomosexuals that defend it. I will like to state here that stealing, lying etc are all sins too...meaning there is no greater sin. Since u acknowledge its a sin, then it means all hope is not lost. Keep praying about it and God will help yoi suppress it. Dnt try to force yourself on women or dont try to force yourself to change..if you keep praying and allow God, d situation will change..you jist have to be patient. Pls dont let anyone tell you that lifestyle is ok..because its noy..and you know it. Donnie Mcclurkin gave a similar story..you shd read about him. Best of luck and God bless.
nigga your own done finish o that's all I have to say
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My dear being a single mum is not easy but the joy of bringing a soul into this world will make you forget the pains and financial stress, it will actually make you fight more and succeed in life cos you wont want to fail your child/children. I thank God in my own case cos my parents were fully in support of the separation and vowed that even if i agreed to go back that would never agree to me going back. The support alone from my parent gave me the courage to fight back and be the best i can be.
ReplyDeleteYea poster 1; you may never had been molested etc. but have you ever been to a "medium" (palm readers, babalawo, "some pastors" who operate with witchcraft, dibia, any cult, done "yoga" etc.). These are portals that the evil one can enter ones life and begin to introduce "inordinate desires"; strange desires. If you have done any of the following, then serious fasting and prayers and studying the word of God is the way forward and you will see that the Lord Jesus will set you free.
ReplyDeleteOh please.... Shut up already (in my surrey accent ) RUBBISH
DeleteI was watching a tv program one day about Nigerians leading in goggle porn search and the age was between 12-31; they go further to say these have made them very active not on positive things but highly negative stuffs like gay and wanting to experiment animal sex. Internet in Nigeria has done more wrong than good. When you listen to how kids of these day talk eehe...hmmmmm. my dear@ 19 u 're this messed up but u can still get it right only if you are willing. Be strict to yourself, discipline ur mind. For the fact that ur mind has crucified you,it means u 're still willing to change, just hold on to that good side of u and everything else will fall into place.
ReplyDeleteNo virgin here dear, we are all saint online and toke ayinda at home.
ReplyDeleteNo1,you need to stay close to your parents,confide in them,they are in best position to help.because no matter hard you try,you ll still find yourself back in your vomit until you shame the devil by confession. no 2 ,sorry to say,your type.make people to abuse Yoruba,you are not ready for marriage,you still want to be having affair outside,you think is easy? So you Are too arrogant to submit,you can't submitti your hsbd,year yourself,you ll give him back. Is dat how you are brought up?I pity you,singles never marry finish,Na u wit ur bad manners go marry. Mccccchhhhwww. Humble yoursef,stop looking outside,those men outside LL fuck you and nothing u LL not get
ReplyDeletemasturbation is addictive due to the hormonal interplay in orgasm etc. So there is bound to be tolerance issues as one grows up and it might make one to be insatiable by one's spouse.
ReplyDeleteBefore my daughter hit puberty, I taught her to manage her sexual urge like I did. Foremost, reading the gospels in her phone and learning to fast; most times fruit fast while at school and just water till noon on some weekends. channeling her energy towards good deeds; charity/volunteer works and it worked for her. She is focused academically and spiritually and for two consecutive semesters had made all A's. She tells me that she is happy and loving her slim self too.
Teenage years are formative and they need to know that there is more to life than sex and orgasms.
Hmm, poster 2, I believe he didnt just start now questioning you or acting poasessive. It must have been there even before you knack out your baby, right? What do you want us to say? Yoy have been managing him all this while, keep on managing it and try to be open in your dealings with him. Shikena.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, I dont have any advice for any gay-to-be person cos I dont really know what to tell you only that you sha be careful so as not to be disgraced.
Poster one, you are not gay. It is the dirty thoughts you allow to occupy your mind that make you think you are.
ReplyDeleteAvoid anything that triggers gay tendencies and you will see it was all in your head.
Poster two, the only way to get the answers you seek is to make your own experience. Everyone's story is different so no matter what you are told here, your circumstance and social circle will determine the outcome of the situation in which you currently find yourself.
Poster two, don't have anything for you. Use your tongue and count your teeth like in Fuji house of commotion.
ReplyDeletePoster1, I won't just the band wagon of those that will tell you it's your life when God clearly detest the act of homosexuality. You are possessed with a demonic spirit. And if truly you come from a Christian home like you claimed you will definitely know what the bible said about homosexuality. In case you have forgotten, kindly take your time to reflect on this word of God.
Leviticus 18:22, "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination."1Leviticus 20:13, "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltness is upon them."1 Corinthians 6:9-10, "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God."Romans 1:26-28, "For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, 27 and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error. 28 And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper."
Homosexuality is clearly condemned in the Bible. It undermines God's created order when He made Adam and Eve, a man and a woman, to carry out His command to fill and subdue the earth (Genesis 1:28). Homosexuality cannot carry out that mandate. In addition, homosexuality undermines the basic family unit of husband and wife which is the God-ordained means of procreation. Again, homosexuality cannot do that. And, believe it or not, it is also dangerous to society.
Do you know the health danger of homosexuality? Take your time and research about the dangers of a man digging his dick inside your anus.
Lastly; just close your eyes and imagine how your family will feel when they catch you in the act.
Poster 1,I think you should look for a good church where deliverance is conducted. Ask to see a pastor and tell him your predicament. Since you decided not to do it again and totally surrender your life to God. I wish you all the best. Poster 2,I don't have answer to ur question.
ReplyDeletePoster one. Don't give up on God
ReplyDeletedon't stop fasting and prayer
don't go back to ur gay friends
stop .
Stop watching gay porn.
Consider yourself a deliverance candidate. Run to any MFM church near u for deliverance.
Make sure u give ur life to Christ. Become a committed and devoted born-again christian
you will see how God will transform ur life and gay spirit will be cast out.
God save me from karashika. 7 December 2015 at
ReplyDelete14:12
I saw your comment in IHN saying that the person that got alert from no where cannot be God's blessing?
Excuse me?
God can choose any means to bless anybody.
When he promised the children of Israel the land of canaan. .. did it occur to you that the land already belonged to some people? Did he compensate the original habit of canaan? No! Did he tell the israelites to negotiate with them? No!
Moral of my story
God's ways are not like man's
He can choose any way to bless anyone
To poster 1...you just have to be determined and commit yoyrself to God's hand..it wont be easy but you just have to endure the pain...I pray God touches you and heal you
ReplyDeleteI will be crazy 0f me n0t t0 t0ngue lash u p0st0r1 , u need t0 get laid, I mean get seri0usly fucked t0 the p0int dat u will hate aving an erecti0n. Wat the fuck is wr0ng with yah. S0 u w0uld rather fuck a shit h0le dan a pussy huh. U better get ur head t0geda. And all u saying I w0nt judge u are crazy. S0 yes I am judging him, its wr0ng get 0ut 0f it. If u were my br0da and I knew ab0ut u being gay u will regret d day u started aving an erecti0n. And stella I swear I d0nt understand why u refuse t0 cuss him 0ut and tell him d truth. Wah happened t0 be blunt and h0nest? W0uld u say dat if he were ur s0n? He needs ur help and dia u are sipping c0ffee and saying n0tin. If u like use my c0mment and c00k affang s0up.
ReplyDeleteits not easy to be a single mum, just hold to ur baby dad since he is still responding at times. endure till u win, am also a single mum and have been enduring a lot for the past 4 years, I hope to win one day.
ReplyDeleteSame here
DeleteStella is a clown with her side eyes....
ReplyDeleteDon't miss this year's Holy Ghost congress tagged FLOODGATES OF HEAVENS,starting today 7th December to 12th December the Redemption Camp @ Km 46 Lagos Ibadan express way. Come and be blessed.
ReplyDeleteDear Poster1,i almost made the mistake you made by downloading 2go and befriended lesbians. One girl in particular was dotting on me and sending me recharge cards as well as her nudes. I wanted to experiment. However, like you, i had strict Christian upbringing and if i had towed that path, it would not have been easy to recover. Mind u, i had developed feelings for the girl in question. I sent her a lengthy txt msg apologising for leading her on And deleted the 2go app. I have never had any sexual or or emotional relations wit any girl after that encounter. The moment you re-download that devilish app, you are headed for a downward spiral. So if you are really interested in fighting that horrible deamon that only has HIV and a destroyed anus to offer, stay away from that app and watch your mindset. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteOmg!!!! What have I been reading?? Respectfully, stop trying to defy God. Most of you including Stella are saying "I'm not homophobic", while others feel you should go on, its genetics n Jesus will love u the way you are". So if someone suddenly desires to sleep with animals, then there's nothing wrong with bestiality, its just the way he/she is wired abi?
ReplyDeleteI know its your opinion but c'mon, this young man needs positive guidance not destructive encouragement. Ihe ojoo wu ihe ojoo, its not about how u are wired. Even if I agree that Christ loves us all, no garment with blemish is entering heaven, take it or leave it.
Now Poster 1, you need to abstain from evil communication, go for deliverance n embrace God with all your heart, seek him diligently and you will find him... I really feel bad for you.
**e hugs, Jesus will save you**
@poster1, I really feel for you and I want u to understand that u not the worst person on earth. Remember the bible said we can do all things thru christ that strength us.
ReplyDeleteThis is what u will do, try and read and mediate on the bible daily and always pray. U can set ur alarm to pray atleast very 4 hours tell Jehovah to help you. God is interested in you and he loves you so much. Best regards
@poster2 I don't have any advice for you cos u are happy as a baby mama but remember life is the greener at the other side.
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ReplyDeletePoster 1, I don't know what to tell you because whatever we tell you here, you will always feel the way you are feeling. Nonetheless, the best solution is self discipline. Good enough you are listening to your conscience. Just let your conscience lead you. That's the voice of reason.
Poster 2, whether you are a baby mama, single or gwegs, don't let anybody harm you emotionally. There is always someone for you out there. That you have a child for a man does not make him your automatic hubby. He may even not be your destined husband. Since you have the wherewithal to move head, please don't look back. To me, a union is meant to be enjoyed, not endured.
Poster 1....please fight it as hard as you. Can.you have been around the male folks for too long.you are not gay,you r simply being possessed by a bad spirit.Please. Associate more with girls,go out on dates etcc.quit the porn watching and masturbation.do so many other things to drive ur mind to reality.Forget the gay world,they don't know what they are doing.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, nobody was born gay that's a lie from the pit of hell, the Bible said that the god of this world has blinded the heart of men so that they can't see nor come into the light. Go back to the beginning the Bible said God created them male and female and gave them the mandate to procreate and after that God saw that what he created was good so my dear you can't knw more than the manufacturer. Just knw that what ever feelings u think you are having for guys is a Mirage it's not real it's just a lie from the devil. Romans 12:2 says "don't copy the behavior and customs of this world but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God's will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect"(NLT). But mind you this can only happen if you give Jesus your all allow him to be Lord of your life and then you will have true peace that passes all human understanding. And you'll realize that u have a great destiny ahead of you, that's what the devil is trying to steal from you. Don't allow him taint your destiny with this lie. I hope God gives you direction on how to go at this.
ReplyDeletePoster one: for the fact that ur mind still condemns u, it means u r not totally lost. You have asked for God's forgiveness. receive it and thank Him continuously. Also, since you have being in church for awhile, stop playing religion and get a fellowship with God. Read ur bible frequently (even wen u don't feel like Romans, Galatians and d whole of the new testament), pray always and confess what you are according to God's word and confess what you want to be daily.
ReplyDeleteDon't you ever accept the lies of the devil or anyone on this blog that God made u gay. Stay away from anything that bring such thoughts. Always never be alone with guys if possible. Check out your friends and those with same traits, do away with them.
Don't go looking for a girlfriend and sleeping with her (it wont cure u), cos that is a sin (fornication) also.
Get involve in ur church, get a job(if u r not in sch), learn a trade.Keep urself busy, don't stay idle.
Go to someone u trust and talk to dem to help u out (someone much older and spiritual like a Pastor)-optional though
Most importantly, Keep confessing daily that you are not gay or a masturbator. But a new creation in Christ, made in His image and likeness.
Don't worry, as long as u don't deviate from him, He will see u through
NB: Incase, u make another mistake, pls run back to the saviour and receive forgiveness. Don't u ever give up and allow this evil to swallow u up.
Poster 2. Offer your Jamb questions to God, He will answer you.
ReplyDeletePoster 1. It's good you've acknowledge that you are sinning but pls my dear. Go to any mountain of fire church, speak to the pastor privately and watch what God will do in your life. I mentioned mountain of fire cos what you need is vigorous prayer and counselling and what is wrong with you has eaten deep. God help you. E- kisses. I AM FEMALEOOO
ReplyDeletePoster1, my dear it's well with you. Jesus died for us all regardless of ur sexual orientation, but u 'll ask urselves if that same Jesus is happy with u been gay? Now channel that energy Into something better,be open minded, ask Jesus to help u then u work towards changing ur orientation, study the word of God, ask the holy spirit to help u become who he wants you you be. It's not easy but gradually u 'll be free. Like I said earlier, evil communication corrupt good manners, avoid those friends of yours, I know how tempting watching Porn is but pls avoid it. At this age u should even be concerned with building your career not sexuality. It's well with u my darling.
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ReplyDeleteLol Stella this your side eye wan pop out? P1,hmmmmm, take a big bold step of faith and tell your pastor, you need deliverance and right about now it is only God that can save you. P2, you sound like someone that is not submissive and wants to be free. See the way you analysing all you want hmm ask me please, single handedly training a child is not one plus one o, you better be humble and let your baby daddy do his part.
ReplyDeleteGay guy I wish you were in Yankee. But in a country like niajia then I must say that I feel sorry for you.
ReplyDeleteElena uv jst confirmed my suspicions
ReplyDeleteIt is well with both posters...
ReplyDeleteAm going to Read al comments poster 2 am in ur shoes n last nyt i jusr decided i was not going to take it anymore.
ReplyDeletePlease i need a teaching job in ikorodu please contact me o.
Poster 1, giv ur life to christ. It is obvious d devil wants to use fornication to get u, so run frm any kind of sexual immorality, be it to a girl or boy. Read d bible daily. Prune ur thoughts.
ReplyDelete2 Corinthians 10:4-5 says "For the weapons of our warfare are not CARNAL, but MIGHTY
through God to the pulling down of strong holds;) Casting down IMAGINATIONS, and every HIGH thing that
exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing
into captivity every THOUGHT to the obedience of Christ."
Truth is d devil has seen sumtin in u, n he wants to steal it. So u shud flee as much as u can, n gv ur life to Christ. Mind u, if u do not giv ur life to Christ, d devil will steal it.
Poster 2: ur youth is wasting. D most difficult part of adulthood is decision-making. U av already begun badly, n u still don't kno d devil is playing 'shoki' wit ur life. U had better run back to God so dat He can make ur 'crooked way straight'. It is obvious ur human wisdom has failed u, in order not to now fail completely in life, seek God while He may b found, call on Him while He is near.
God bless u
Poster 1 I think you are just curious,same way I see transgenders as confused people,Porn teaches no morality and anytime you go that path you feel bad right?...I know Gayism is as old as the world itself,just lay it down at the feet of the lord,a lot of ladies I know have also tried experimenting with women and always come back void,if its not in you its not in you darling...
ReplyDeletePoster2 I don't know what to say but I think baby daddies are the most unserious fellows,you may be lucky to meet a good man like terry crews wife though,Me I just can't deal with baby drama...
poster 1 i would strongly suggest u read mystique comment,it is d most reasonable comment so far,i av always believed dat homosexuality is all in d head of dose who practice it der is no such thing as being born with it,no sweetie.if u truly dnt want to be gay u need to fight hard against it,u never know this could be your test from God ....jez tink about monks or priests or eunuchs who do not have sex,sex is nt important
ReplyDeletePoster1.Only christ can help u.. Uv opened d door already nd trying 2close it urself isn't possible without the intervention of God. Attend a deliverance ministry
ReplyDeletePoster 2...i was raised by a single mum,nd i can say it wsnt easy 4her at all as she has to play both fatherly nd motherly role in our lives... It takes only d strong
Poster1,i think there is still hope for u cos u haven't delved in fully to be defiled,so there is high hope!but u have to be determined.so first thing is to tell urself that u are not gay nor are u attracted to men,by the time u do dis,u willstart believing it!then change ur activities:sites and places that expose u to porn and gay maturbation,avoid them.make sure finally dat ur first real sexual experience is with a woman,else having a gay sex will only make u feel it's d best meanwhile it isn't,remember in ur case as a well brought up child,its just d devil trying so hard to fu#k with ur mind in order to spite God in ur family,so u have to fight him to a stand still.wish u luck.
ReplyDeletePoster 1.Your school environment contributed to you having emotional feelings for boys.,but you aint gay,Don't allow the devil to mess up with your mind , please try and talk to any close family member of us , maybe your mother or better still go to church pastor for counselling.Don't download that 2go app forget about intimate relationship and focus on making your life better you are just 19years..flee from your gay friends and be friends with straight boys.
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Dear Poster 1,
ReplyDeleteYou are not gay. You certainly find the sexual act that occurs between two men appealing just as a lot of women find the act between 2 females appealing. But that doesn't mean they are lesbians. Rather than explore the act itself, perhaps you should explore why you find it more attractive. For women, it is said that the lesbian sex is appealing because they crave a more feminine approach to sex. That is more gentle caresses, softer kisses and oral sex. That said, ask yourself exactly what you like about it. Also bear in mind that at your age, you are having a massive rush of hormones therefore visually feeding on pornography as well as other channels that contain sexual content is like pouring fuel on fire.
Engage yourself with productive activities, you are what you think I'm told. I'm also told that being gay doesn't come with an on/off switch. You either are gay or you're not. In your case, you feel gay when you watch pornography or mix with people who engage in such.
Poster 1 ,I feel you should confide in your mum or better still your family. You can't fight this battle alone. Since you are from a Christian home they 'll understand it's a spiritual battle. They might be shocked @ first and their reaction might scare you. They'll get over it and definitely stand by you and help you win this battle cos they won't want to lose you. I'm speaking from a Christian mother/parent point of view.That's d beauty of d family support system. Don't let d devil use d shame game on you. This is wat we've to deal wit @ dis time in d world. Don't let d devil mess u up. I wish u d best. You 'll definitely overcome dear.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, give yourself some space from your baby Daddy and weigh your options. Cos u 've a child does not mean you can't find someone who 'll love u and ur child. Give it some time and weigh your options carefully. Cheers.
No advise for both posters.
ReplyDeleteSee why I hate all boys or all girls school. If my hubby decided to send my kids to a boarding house, then it should be a mixed school. Dear Lord, protect my kid sis abeg
Poster 2
ReplyDeleteUnless baby daddy puts a ring on it, honey you are a single mom. Now to the question of dating as a single parent. I would say that the game is pretty much the same but the priorities would have to shift a little. Where TDH ranked high on your list, you would have to look for a man with fatherly qualities. A man with a big heart because he's going to not only have to love you but also have enough room in his heart to love your child. The dating rules would have to be tweaked a little too. No sleep overs at your place; at least not until you're certain that things are going in a serious direction. All the best girl. I hope you fine "him"
Young man dat thinks he is gay, all I ve to say is dat u r really stupid. God has given men abundance of beautiful women with crazy ass bodies to choose from and u r out there exploring gayism(don't know if its a word sef) if I give u one girl wen go blow ur brains ehn, u go forget dis rubbish. Stupid boy, by d way r u not suppose to be in sch or sumtin? Dave
ReplyDeleteAs in lmao
DeleteCan't think of what to advice. Poster 1, the issue of homosecuality confounds me. Don't get it... and can't quite condemn.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: U are the only one that can help yourself. It starts with you acknowledging what you are doing as wither right or wrong, then you decide to either continue or stop. Remember your decision will either make or mar you. Also put in mind that whatever you are doing in your closet that you cannot confidently tell anyone or your family about is wrong.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: I imagine you are still very young otherwise, you will know better. What am i even saying...."agba o ko gbon". If this guy had impregnated an igbo woman, he would have done right by her as the family will not take any shit from him. You need to have self-worth madam. He impregnated you,he does not dim it fit to show you some respect by wifing you yet you keep dating him and making him feel like lord over your destiny. Pls just gerrarahia!
first time of commenting on chronicles Poster 2 not everyone wish to be a single mum but when u get there BUCKLE YOUR SHOES not because of anything but because of the child/children involved also don't say because a man did not make u happy did not mean you should make another woman unhappy because you wanted to marry/date her husband i was in your shoe the day am going i wept but i have no choice than to tell God to be with me and surely he kept his promise during the time i left i lost my job i cried all day but God sent someone to me that started giving me 1k everyday for my upkeep along the line he told me to marry him in which i will never do cos i can never make a fellow woman cry ITS MY CROSS AND I CARRY now my sister the money that the man gave me then through savings i open a shop and started selling something i believe the creator of my child will send me helper to furnish the shop to my taste and not by making my fellow woman cry,once again u will COPE WITHOUT THE MAN IF U HAVE FAITH IN GOD
ReplyDeletePoster1 seek God that's all i can say.
ReplyDeletePoster2 seek God also.
With God all things are possible that's if u believe in him
Poster one, pls go to a monastery or the mountain and stay there till God speaks to you. Poster two: God will send forth a better guy to you....Amen
ReplyDeletePoster one, pls go to a monastery or the mountain,stay there and pray till God speaks to you. Poster two: God will send forth a better guy to you....Amen
ReplyDeleteplease poster 1,i beg u in d name of everything u hold dear, DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT pay attention to all d people telling to go on bn gay, don't listen to them plz... I was once a lesbian, ddn't care if anyone found out or not..was so "in love" with my last girlfriend that i was so eager to tell anyone who cared to listen...i got born again &?...did i quit immediately? NO, was it easy?NO..just like u, I fasted & prayed to God that i shld stop already...but, it was as if i was pouring water on a stone..& what then did i do? I PRAYED SOME MORE, INVITED THE HOLY SPIRIT to help me & then STOPPED TRYING TO QUIT BY MYSELF...i surrendered completely to God, told Him dat i cldn't & wldn't b able to do it myself...& then what?did HE step in? did i quit? ABSOLUTELY dearie, I suddenly found myself irritated wen a lady tries to get down with me...what am i saying love?..u can stop, that's not how God made u, that's a lie from d pit of hell that u ar created that way..NO WAY..don't let d world mislead u, whose report shall we believe sweetie?d report of God or of man/d world?..is God not against homosexual & all other sexual immorality?..don't b decieved, fight for ur destiny...PRAY PRAY & PRAY SOME MORE & TRUST GOD for ur DELIVERANCE..U are blessed!
ReplyDeleteplease poster 1,i beg u in d name of everything u hold dear, DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT pay attention to all d people telling to go on bn gay, don't listen to them plz... I was once a lesbian, ddn't care if anyone found out or not..was so "in love" with my last girlfriend that i was so eager to tell anyone who cared to listen...i got born again &?...did i quit immediately? NO, was it easy?NO..just like u, I fasted & prayed to God that i shld stop already...but, it was as if i was pouring water on a stone..& what then did i do? I PRAYED SOME MORE, INVITED THE HOLY SPIRIT to help me & then STOPPED TRYING TO QUIT BY MYSELF...i surrendered completely to God, told Him dat i cldn't & wldn't b able to do it myself...& then what?did HE step in? did i quit? ABSOLUTELY dearie, I suddenly found myself irritated wen a lady tries to get down with me...what am i saying love?..u can stop, that's not how God made u, that's a lie from d pit of hell that u ar created that way..NO WAY..don't let d world mislead u, whose report shall we believe sweetie?d report of God or of man/d world?..is God not against homosexual & all other sexual immorality?..don't b decieved, fight for ur destiny...PRAY PRAY & PRAY SOME MORE & TRUST GOD for ur DELIVERANCE..U are blessed!
ReplyDeleteGod bless you dearie and keep you. Touched by your resilient and faith.
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ReplyDeleteP1 :it's well with you!
Talk to God..provoke him by goin into a covenant. It works.
P2: I pity you cos o ti mo bo'shenlo
Poster 2: I got divorced from my child's father and was a single mum for a little while before getting married again. To be honest, there wasn't much of a difference with dating (at least when I compared notes to my other single friends who have no kids). The one thing I made sure to do was tell guys upfront I have a child so that if they want to take off they can do that sooner rather than later...lol. You will have to develop a thick skin because people will say all sort so things and make a lot of assumptions about your lifestyle. My current husband had never been married before me and didn't have any kids (so divorced men and baby daddies aren't your only option). He has taken my child as his and treats her exactly the way he treats the other kids we have together, bills, school fees, vacations, quality time and all..
ReplyDeleteLike all marriages we also have ups and downs, but nothing that can't be managed. It also helps considerably if you have a decent relationship with your child's father cause if there's constant conflict, it affects your child and your relationship.
Good luck!
You already think you are gay, you have to start seeing yourself in a new light and tell yourself you're not. Keep disassociating yourself from things that lean towards gayism, God will help you.
ReplyDeletesingle Mum, my Mum was a single MUM to 5 kids and it wasn't easy but we all turned out great. please don't stay with anyone out of fear of no finding someone else. please just make sure that your baby daddy won't become abusive as he sounds controlling. Don't think the tribe should matter
ReplyDeletePoster 1, pls go to Liberation City(Dr Chris Okafor) at Ojodu Berger for deliverance. Let God direct your path
ReplyDeleteAt poster one, is that what the devil told you, the bad exposures you had and friends you moved with? And you believed them?
ReplyDeleteGod never created you that way dear and he's the only one that can never lie to you. Your feelings is as a result of wrong association. Don't buy the lie pls. I am a married woman and marriage is sweet when you find the right person.A lot of beautiful woman are out there that will love you and above all,God loves you. Pls go to Shiloh, Rccg convention or prayer city. You need help and its spiritual.
The enemy just want to destroy you. Pls don't give them a chance. Some so call gay are still killing themselves cos they ain't getting fulfilled like they were promised. Don't forget diseases and all. Above all, fear the God who can kill and maketh alive. He loves you, he's not judging you and he wants you back.
I love you too and I know you can be straight, cute and marry a woman.
Poster 1 if have done the whole porn, lesbian, stealing, lying etc. In short, I have done a lot, but God delivered me. Knowing the truth and doing these things made me feel like dirt inside. The guilt almost makes one for mad, but I refused to give up. Evendors though I lived in a society where these things were accepted, I just knew it wasn't right. Please occupy your mind, soul and body with the Trinity, God three in one. When the urge is strong play gospel CDs, go to a church. Do anything that will keep your mind away. Confide in someone eg your Mum, sister etc that will help you along the way. You can do this. One song that comes to mind is Deitrick Haddon's song "God is able".
ReplyDeleteExceedingly, abundantly, above all, all you could ask or think according to, the power, that worketh in you
God is able to do just what he said he would do
He's gonna fullfill every promise to you
Don't give up on God cause He won't give up on you
He's Able, yeah, He's able
Chorus (2x):
God is able to do just what He said He would do
He's gonna fullfill every promise to you
Don't give up on God cause He won't give up on you
He's Able (2x)
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Oh, oh oh oh, oh oh oh
He's Able
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Oh, oh oh oh, oh oh oh
He's Able
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He's Able
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Don't give up on God cause He won't give up on you
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Single Mum. So you would stay with him to avoid being single? Do not listen to any one telling you you will not find love. You will find what we call serious love if you are patient and focused on building your life. If you do not believe, seek out a single mother who is very focused, successful and no nonsense. It is not the best route to take because society is harsh on single mothers but honey you are better off on your own than with a man who does not mean you well.
ReplyDeleteGet out and allow him marry whoever but do not be a troublesome co parent. This will reduce drama in your life.
Do not go sleeping with him when you leave and he is remarried. Please respect your self.
When you meet men. Let them earn your trust and love. Do not sleep with anyone. Some men thing single mothers are an easy lay. This is not true, you should be the most serious type of woman. You are at an advantage in the dating game. You can carefully pick because your man must be about you and your child. Be careful to pick a man who isn't a molester. Single mothers remarry every Saturday. So do not be scared. Please do not become any man's dumping ground. You can rise from past mistakes. Hold your head high and be all you can be. A great man will marry you in time. All the single mothers I know are married to single guys. The thing is these women are very focused women. So decide what path to take and be on that path. Do not be desperate please.
Poster 1I understand how you feel it happens its really hard to stop its a bad spirit tho because being gay is not in anyway normal society is all messed up and people think its ok to be gay I must tell you just have to fight and resist it and keep on praying hopefully youl overcome it someday but dont give up yet.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 its not about being hail virgin mary mehn forget that shit what is bad is bad abeg why would you get pregnant for someone you aint married to yet what about your child what if he asks of his dad?apart from that didnt you know all this before sleeping with him I dont understand some ladies you know a guy has trust issues with you and you know you cant cope with him but youre just enduring for the moment still hes not willing to change but no youl still be in the relationship having faith wont you leave now you're complaining after you don born for am finish abeg dey one side. ××anonymous lagos girl××
Aunty stella. I do like to address an issue. Please read this. Gay, homosexuality or whatever you would like to call it does exist in Nigeria. We got gays in Nigeria. When I say gays. I don't mean, those men or women who just fuck another man or woman because of the money or whatever. People are born gay. It's unfortunate that we live in a homophobic society where gays are being shamed and can even be killed. I'm a lesbian. I wasn't molested as a kid. I didn't go to an all girls school. I love women. That's who I'm. The internet didn't make homosexuality popular. Nigerians have been gay for as long as they exist...it's just that now gay people have a platform to meet each other. The gay boy poster is gay. 2go didn't make him gay. As I write this; my heart's heavy. People are misinformed about homosexuality. You can't stop someone's heart from beating for the person he or she loves. Nigerians will say homosexuality aint part of our culture bla bla bla. Big lie! I have made lesbian friends over the years. We exist here In Nigeria. We are like a loose chain of people with a common interest. We have found love and friendship in one another. it's not easy being gay in this part of the world. You practically have to hide to love that person. It's hard...hard on us all. Prayers can't change a gay person. People are born gay.
ReplyDeleteSmh you need help thers nothing like being born gay all these things are demonic its a spirit incase you dont know thats the trick of the devil youre eyes have been blinded from the truth and society has fucked things up hugely thinking its normal and ok to be gay thats pure nonsense and youre even proud of saying it my dear you better go to church this is nigeria not yankee I dont think you read your bible its in the bible homosexuality is a sin to God better repent. #last days#.
DeleteNo body is born gay. That is the lie of the devil.
ReplyDeletewhen God made man, he looked at man and he said "he was good". Every evil we see today is the devil trying to corrupt the good God created.
Poster1....u were not born gay. If you discipline urself and keep meditating on Gods word. Your freedom is certain.
Ps: Shiloh starts today 8.12.2015. God will uproot everyhold of the devil in your life. God bless you
1. That's one problem with boarding schools. The spirit of homosexual is so strong but only those that truly believe that JESUS can help them are being delivered/saved.
ReplyDeleteMy dear the environment you are is not helping you. You need to believe in Jesus that He came and died for our sin. He's Able to deliver anyone, call on Him in the right way and always rebuke that spirit of gay when that feelings come. Goodluck.
2. I hope you are not idle if not you go hear nwii. Believe in our SAvour Jesus and He alone will direct and help you.
POSTER 1:
ReplyDelete- God loves you.
- It's a good thing that you acknowledge that the gay feeling is not right and you seek to change
- You're not the first to go through this temptations/feelings. Many have gone through it and overcame it by the power of God
- Do Email me Adegoke_faith@yahoo.co.uk so we can discuss more. I might be able to help, by God's Grace.
Again, God loves you.
POSTER 1:
ReplyDelete- God loves you.
- It's a good thing that you acknowledge that the gay feeling is not right and you seek to change
- You're not the first to go through this temptations/feelings. Many have gone through it and overcame it by the power of God
- Do Email me Adegoke_faith@yahoo.co.uk so we can discuss more. I might be able to help, by God's Grace.
Again, God loves you.
POSTER 1:
ReplyDelete- God loves you.
- It's a good thing that you acknowledge that the gay feeling is not right and you seek to change
- You're not the first to go through this temptations/feelings. Many have gone through it and overcame it by the power of God
- Do Email me Adegoke_faith@yahoo.co.uk so we can discuss more. I might be able to help, by God's Grace.
Again, God loves you.