Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

HEIGHT ISH AND THE PROBLEM WITH SOCIETY

Hi Stella, how's work and every. I don't know if this falls into Chronicles or IHN. I just really need your opinion and that of other bvs. 

I am 5"9 and I'm engaged to a guy who's 5"4. My fiancé is the sweetest guy ever and he doesn't have any problem whatsoever with my height. He even wants me to wear heels when we go out together.

 I don't have any problem with his also if it's just the both of us. My ish is with society. The stares we get when we go out, the comments people make. How do I make them not affect me?. I know people will usually mock at what they don't understand but it makes me feel self conscious at times when we have to go out together but i just hide it do it didn't spoil our outing. 

I bring this up now cos we'll be getting married soon and I don't want it to be an issue between us.

I need to hear from people who have been in my shoes. Thank you very much.

Learn not to give a damn to what people say,hold your head high and ignore them....I am still on sabbatical but had to chip in something.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

IN A BAD MARRIAGE SITUATION...

I am 32 and presently in a very bad marriage , I got married in 2008. There is this guy in my church I knew before I ever thought of meeting hubby, who has been a very good friend(platonic ),though, wanted a relationship back then but cos I was very young and scared of parents I rejected him,wanted a relationship with me again during UNI days but refused cos he looks playboy to me. 

2 years back, he started pressurising me for a relationship again, though he lives abroad, unfortunately, he lost his wife in January, and for the past 4 months been disturbing me to leave hubby for him. Matter of fact, am beginning to have feelings for him but am so scared. Remember I said he looks play boy to me back then cos he is too handsome. 

Please I need mature advise on this as I don't know if I can cope with him or just stay put with hubby and keep on hoping for the best?

What kind of situation are you referring to?.....

I love this song that used to be told with an old story...The tortoise will say..''not until i have been disgraced,no i wont stop''

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NARRATIVE NUMBER THREE

OBSESSION OR LOW SELF ESTEEM?

Hello stella please help me publish this story cos i need advice from people on this blog.It happened that this year January i started dating this guy and hes so amazing,he doesn't stay in the same town as mine,but the problem now is i don't know maybe am beginning to get obsessed with him cos i found out i can't concentrate again on anything.

I am always the first to chat him up and i always feel like hearing his voice every minutes.It has even gotten to the stage that he's getting uncomfortable with it and telling me to cool down cos at times i would call maybe when he's in the middle of an assignment.He's the busy type so at times if he doesn't pick my call i dont feel okay that even start crying.If he offends me or even talk harshly at me am always the first one to beg him back and this making me to lose my self respect.

Hes even seen my weakness  that at times he won't even call after maybe an argument i will still be the one to call and start begging him.Am fed up.

I had to tell my friend and my friend told me not to call or chat him up for three days,i got fed up on the third day and i was even the one that called again ..There are so many suitors on my neck dying for me but i dunno why am feeling this way towards this one that doesn't even send me.I need your advice please help me, is this obsession or what?please what can i do?plus am not desperate oo,I am just 25 and am always tough with guys but dunno why this is so different.please i beg of you, help me with advice..

Work on your lack of self respect and low self esteem.Learn to love yourself so much that if you have to settle for a degrading situation all in the name of love,your left foot kicks in your right foot and screams ''WALK''