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Friday, December 25, 2015

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

Chronicles on Christmas day? oh yes!






NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
WHEN YOUR SPOUSE LOOKS DOWN ON YOU....

Good Day Stella and God bless you for this wonderful platform. Am an ardent reader and I comment as **** ....

Please I want advice from you and my fellow BV's...

 Am a 26yrs old woman, I got married last year to DH who is in mid thirties. My problem is DH does not regard me as a mature woman, he takes decision on his own and anytime I confront him he just looks for a way to cover it up.

  Recently he went to buy another plot of land ,though we live in our house, I was surprised one evening when he came back from work and said he wanted to take me somewhere that was when I knew he just acquired that land. I got very angry and asked him why he did that and his response was " its not everything you tell women" I was so confused, am I just a woman or his wife?

Though he's a very disciplined person and he stands by his words but this kind discipline on top marital issue don taya me. He sees me as if am a child and my opinion does not count when he is taking decisions. He just does what he feels is best for us as a family and when we got married last year he told me that I should try and obey him and we won't have a problem. 

He takes care of me and my daughter very well and I don't think there is anything will lack for now but that feeling of being regarded or seen as a child all the time is killing me.
Please has anyone been married to this kind of man? How were you able to cope? Please I need advice because right now I don't even understand. Stella abeg use your red pen.
Thanks everyone.



Do you work?Do you earn your own money?This is what happens when a woman totally financially depends on a man with this kind of mentality.In his mind,its his money so he doesnt need your imput into what he does with it.

My dear i dont know how you can change his mindset but in other not to turn this into something that will affect the 'understanding' you presently have,I would advise you to refrain from being angry and using abusive words and wait for the right time to tackle this....I hope my red ink helped,if not check comment section.



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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
KEEPING AN UNPLANNED BABY


Hi Stella, Thanks for being a great help to people. My problem is kind of weird. I have had 3 kids in the space of 3 yrs. and my last baby is just 3 months.

I fell ill and DH took me to the emergency where i did all my lab work and the PT result came out positive. Its so shocking because i have been on a contraceptive. But after a long conversation with my DR he said that my hormones are very high and that the only way to stop getting pregnant is to tie my tubes. 

Right now i am so confused about if i should keep the baby or not. My first child is 3 and my second is 2 my last is 3 months old. But they are all girls. DH is saying i should keep it, that it might be a blessing in disguise. So i want to ask if any BV has been in this kind of fix and how they handled it.  

Its just funny how we receive things that we didn't ask for and the ones we prayed and asked for never comes our way. I believe God gives and he knows why this is all happening.  I pray its gonna be a blessing in disguise. Thanks and have a very great weekend. Much love.


You call being pregnant for the third time in 3 years 'being in a fix'?...Oh dear!

By saying 'Blessing in disguise' are you both referring to a Male child?

Yes God gives but he didnt tell us not to use the common sense he gave us.If your hormones are high you should know by yourself with the frequency of which both of you hit the sack.
So by next year,it will be 4 kids in four years?Wow,thats great!

Speak to your Doctor about the best way to avoid getting pregnant again if you are no longer interested in doing so.Please do not get rid of the baby.
.....And oh,congrats,there is nothing to be ashamed of!



Those of you i asked to edit your Chronicles because of various reasons,please send it in,the folder is almost empty.Thank you.


136 comments:

  1. Chronicles! Chronicles!! Chronicles!!!


    ******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS******

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    1. Who is this emjay sef ? Agbaya even on Xmas day emjay haba. Now you will reply yourself again in the comment section na wao

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    2. @poster1 : you don't have a problem.
      He takes good care of your n your child,that the most important thing.
      At least he took you to show you the land.
      I don't see anything wrong with it.
      Enjoy your marriage.
      @poster2 : you are too fertility n too sexually active.

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    3. If u ask me na who I go ask*singing*
      Both posters wanna dey luk for trouble where there is no
      All I wanna say is receive wisdom to deal with it.

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    4. Go and DIE josh

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    5. Go and DIE josh

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    6. @Potable viv 'she is too fertile and sexually active'

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    7. you people aree very stupid even stella join no get sense.do you work? its always the answer to everything....howmany of una get job? thousand and one people are looking for job everyday and you think its easy to get job.sometime you guys comment just to coment.do you know weather she has the finacially power to even start a kiosk self? no be because you marry rich man you don become rich woman.
      please you guys should advise with sense abeg.

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    8. Leave emjay alone ooooo. She makes it lively. Filebe
      @ poster 1 & 2, kindly follow stella's advice. Xmas d merry!

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    9. Leave emjay alone ooooo. She makes it lively. Filebe
      @ poster 1 & 2, kindly follow stella's advice. Xmas d merry!

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    10. Bitter leaf JOSH what are you trying to do huh?

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    11. Josh leave my emjay alone and go get a life.

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    12. P1. he takes care of you then enjoy your marriage. You mo get problem.

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    13. Poster 1: once your start making your own money, table will turn around.

      Poster 2: many are dying emotionally and crying daily for just a child. Beside, you and Mercy Johnson are competing. You be better goal keeper

      Emjay how is ur niece abi nephew?

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    14. P1.ur husbands name starts with D. He showed me the land b4 u. That was last week.

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    15. @nancy,he showed u the land first,as what? Side chick? And Wtf are u insinuating?

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    16. So only sidechicks qet 2 see newly bought lands b4 d mainchick?

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    17. Poster 1 ur marriage is still new mayb ur Husby isn't used to sharing things with people give hime some more time and he would soon start sharing secrets with u
      Poster 2 don't abort the baby u don't know ur baby's destiny if he is going to be greater than ben carson and the rest

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    18. Yup @Nancy or nosey SIL
      P1: You no get problem.
      P2: Are you me? Lol

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    19. Baby magnet

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  2. OK...

    I dey come read comments



    @Galore

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    1. Poster one pls look for a job or open your own business. Try to make money so that you too can take decisions on your own. Since aside of this problem there is peace in your home try to talk to him and not make a big deal about it, after all you knew his type before u married him. Poster two pls keep the baby but after this one talk to the doctor to try and prevent another unwanted pregnancy. Merry Christmas everyone.

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  3. OK

    I dey come read comments


    Today o garagan




    @Galore

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  4. Poster 1,pray
    Poster2,pls kip d baby and don't tie ur tube.let ur horseband burst his scrotum instead.why shud d women always make d sacrifice.I repeat,don't tie ur tube oh,inugo

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    1. Bless you sister.
      I've always said the same thing.

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    2. Lmao@ let ur husband burst his scrotum

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    3. @Uzu You are soo on point. @poster 2, let him get a vasectomy instead.

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  5. Stella u r wrong! Not all men look down on their wives who ain't working, being married for 13yrs n my wife has never worked, her Msc is in her box, I've never looked down on her, I pay her a huge salary to stay at home n care for our 3 kids and will continue paying her till we r old n I retire. I tell her every thing before a major decision is made, I don't joke with my family. So not all men pls. That's why it's good to study whom you will marry before saying 'I do'.

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    1. Bros e never reach quarrel

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    2. You are a great MAN!!

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    3. I wish we have more men that think and act the way you do @ anon 15:07. I know someone who is in the same situation because she is a stay at home wife. Uncle, if it is that easily to study the man before saying I do,most wives out there will not end up with monsters today.....

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    4. My kind of man. God bless you for taking good care of ur family sir

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    5. I've often wondered why some men will marry a woman with MSc or an accomplished career and make her put it in a box. Why not marry someone whose career ambition is to be a home maker? What about her career ambition before she got married? If for any reason the man cannot provide for the family, will she be able to cope and support the family financially?
      Anon please do tell if you don't mind.

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    6. Ordinary boyfriend I had did it or rather tried it but he did it with the wrong person. Some men believe that a woman has no right to make decision. In this age and time can you imagine a man telling a working class lady to surrender hee pay pack every pay day?

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  6. This is Christmas chronicles

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    1. you people aree very stupid even stella join no get sense.do you work? its always the answer to everything....howmany of una get job? thousand and one people are looking for job everyday and you think its easy to get job.sometime you guys comment just to coment.do you know weather she has the finacially power to even start a kiosk self? no be because you marry rich man you don become rich woman.
      please you guys should advise with sense abeg.

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    2. So for your eyes now, the best way to advice is to cuss, before u advice. U beta Go & que up for cussers award before anoda person snatch am. Think before you vomit!

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    3. So for your eyes now, the best way to advice is to cuss, before u advice. U beta Go & que up for cussers award before anoda person snatch am. Think before you vomit!

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  7. Stella u r wrong! Not all men look down on their wives who ain't working, being married for 13yrs n my wife has never worked, her Msc is in her box, I've never looked down on her, I pay her a huge salary to stay at home n care for our 3 kids and will continue paying her till we r old n I retire. I tell her every thing before a major decision is made, I don't joke with my family. So not all men pls. That's why it's good to study whom you will marry before saying 'I do'.

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    1. Hi...Let me be your side chick.

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    2. See your mouth like side chick...and that is what you will ever amount to..side chick. Say amen

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    3. Sir thanks so much for taking good care of your wife and kids... God bless you.

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    4. Lmao.
      Quicksilver you are sick.
      They will come for you

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    5. Hahahaha!!! Quicksilver ole

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    6. Lol. quiksilver, I will chop n clean mouth just once.

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    7. Osi?
      Ichoroibu side chick?
      Rotfl

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    8. It happened that the man is very proud ..his attitude is from his foundation

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    9. It happened that the man is very proud ..his attitude is from his foundation

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    10. @Quicksilver you no well.

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    11. Ugly G, e never reach fight na. Is he your horseband? No vex o
      viva ciara, lol, let them come na. I dey kampe

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    12. *Rotfl* quicksilver o gbadun rara...Pweety G calm down ojare & find your sense of humor...

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    13. Quickie way to go.

      Oga. Even if you wan chop and clean mouth sha pay well.

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    14. God bless you sir, your wife is blessed with priceless crown. Make she guard you jealously.
      Ole ni e quicksilver...lol

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  8. Poster one: Merry Christmas
    Poster two: Merry Christmas
    Forget your troubles and chop jollof

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    1. Them no get problems,I wish their problems are mine.

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  9. I dread it when Stella announces that the chronicle folder is empty.
    Because one get to read different orisirisi stories henceforth.
    Btw, Stella, your red pen for poster one didn't werk for me. What are you saying sef?

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    1. Exactly. I don't agree with her advice to poster one. To poster one to me you have got nothing to worry about period in as much as your husband is not into anything fishy

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    2. U go fear end time advice.

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  10. Not giving advice today because its CHRISTMAS.
    Do not abort.. Do not expect a male child till after d child is born

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  11. P1. Let sleeping dogs lie jejely o abeg. P2, even if its not a blessing in disguise leave it alone.

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  12. Ís it your money?

    You are so naive. You dont have what it takes to earn the moola on his level but you wanna dictate how it should be spent

    Thats why I love my wife she knows her place, she knows there is a reason why I am the big earner

    The same knowledge and grace God gave me to make the paper is the same ones he will use to show me how to spend

    Stay in ya lane shawty and get your money up! Or at least work on small common sense

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    1. Pussy ass nigga. Making mouth with your little change.
      Kindly fuck off oga!

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    2. Are you sure you are married.

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    3. Gerrout abeg. Arrogant man

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    4. Anony Osi?
      Help me tell your wife ndo!

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    5. moneymaker Is that you?

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    6. Your Wife Sent This incase u dunno

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    7. Pls I would like to know your wife. My doormat is getting old and I need a replacement. Thank you.




      Some of you aren't qualified to be called men.

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    8. Story story forget that thing. Am sure its d other way round. All this Anon and their formings.

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    9. You do not know what it means to have a wife....yes, you have no understanding!! You will only find real happiness whe you get that wisdom to run your marriage the way it was designed to be. When the chips are down m believe me, all this bravado will not help you. Only this woman that you've refused to give her rightful place in your heart. She's the only one that will get you out but by then, regret will be your middle name.

      I pray you get understanding before it gets to that. Then and only then, will you know real happiness

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    10. Abegi ,it is not me,MM ooo.I am not yet married ooo.

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    11. Quick silver this is not the real you. I am suspecting that ur account has been hacked or u had too much Xmas red wine. Babe easy nah!

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    12. Women are so dumb. You hoes should learn to be independent. I'm not moneymaker. I'm actually a boss hoe.

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    13. Quicksilver you stupid hoe...no be only toh toh and make up all you dry bitches got to sell

      Even transgender is competing with you so please apply common sense

      Fuckgirls

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    14. Take note wife beater alert

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  13. Hmmmn
    Poster 1-what exactly is the problem?
    Poster 2-keep dat child

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    1. My point precisely! At least he showed u. Don't go hinting for trouble where there is none. Just take interest in what he does and what he acquires and advice with wisdom. After all that he showed u means he has u and ur kids in mind. I don't see any problem here. Go ask the women that their husbands buy houses for their girlfriends withour recourse to them then u will know wahala. In my opinion, ur seeking to have an issue with that just solidifies his thinking that u r a 'child'. Wisdom sister! Pray for it and live in peace

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  14. Poster 1, gist with him more often...I guess you pple hardly gist dts y e finds it hard to tell you somethings...
    P2: m sorry I knw nothing abt chid birth and fam planning!

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  15. For the 1st time,i'd just read comments.

    *2over fed 2write an epistle*

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  16. Poster 1...its because you ain't financially contributing to the affairs of family.So he doesn't see the need of consulting you.But that's bad really and the only solution is to get a job or learn a trade that can fetch you money.
    Poster 2...Una too do ooo,just three months n you are pregnant.Took us four months to start having S3x,at least be free from pains from childbirth.Please leave the pregnancy and try to visit the hospital for you to be educated more on family planning.

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  17. Poster 1, Before I even saw Stella's pen, that is also my question. Do you work? I am sure you don't, that's d reason he treats you like a child. The best way to resolve this is to get smthn doing and don't be 100percent reliant on ur hubby. Take up small things in d house. It cld be paying for little things like dstv. It cld be buying small house hold things, buying things for ur daughter etc. This issue is not so serious. There are some men like that, that are very private even to dere wives. I am not married yet, but engaged. My fiancée doesn't like talking about his biz to me. He wants to buy a new car, he will just mention it, he won't even tell me d brand he wants. He wants to travel, he might just tell me 2days to the time. My dear I can't shout. So far he's treating me well and giving me all I want, which he does. I just ignore dat aspect in him. Madam don't use ur hand to spoil ur marriage. Have a talk with him, if he still continues, let him be. Poster 2, don't touch dat baby. Not d baby's fault u and ur husband like fuck fuck, and you're not smart to use proper precautions. Have your baby and tie ur tubes after this. Whether girl or boy, d economy is to harsh for anythn after 2/3 kids, but since u don add 4th. Abeg stop there. When you tie ur tubes, dere are procedures dat it can still be reversed, but I don't really know why anyone wld want baby again afta 4th.

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    1. How can I be able bodied and I allow my woman pay for common dstv or buy kids clothes? Am I ok? What am I a man for? The day u start competing with a man, he will just allow u do ur thing,then u will complain he does not care.

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    2. Hmm......just thank God u're able to take care of your home!there are so many men who can't! Not bcos dey are lazy but just what life dish to dem.....don't sound proud or arrogant just be grateful.....its all by Grace!!!

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    3. Dear Ma this is desperation at its peak...Am out

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    4. The only thing dt made my ex a man was a penis dt he did not even know how to use.

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  18. Poster 2,keep the baby,I had 4 children within 5 years, afterwards went for family planning. I'll advice u do same,copper T is the best for me.

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  19. Poster 2,keep the baby,I had 4 children within 5 years, afterwards went for family planning. I'll advice u do same,copper T is the best for me.

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  20. Ndi arama ara @ Poster 2. My yoruba neighbour is by name Ramaotu. Nne m Ramanu oo afterall na person name. Lol. Don't mind my humour making. Nne there's nothing to be ashamed of. Stella's said it all. Poster 1, Marriage comes with its peculiarity. Oga is the neanderthal type. Ike his type gwuru madu! Shall I ask you to pray about it? There's nothing he won't do. Your marriage is near perfect just this. Gwa chineke okwu! Ndewo nu

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    1. Hahahahahhahahahahahhahahaha!!! You made my Christmas!

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    2. Hahaha nwa nnem oye owerri nno ooh ha ramachi ike

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    3. Unless you didn't date him before marriage, if you did, then you don't have this excuse...sheI, he told you to obey....but then to marry was shacking you....

      Girls, una no de learn....

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  21. Some men are just like that, they find it difficult to adjust to the fact that they are now married. They are so use to their freedom and it will take time but he will change, just don't keep quiet about it but do it without nagging.
    Poster 2: keep your baby.

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    1. You are so correct at finding it difficult to adjust to the fact they are married. My hubby still does somethings that just annoy me (Cooking before I wake up, staying late to watch tv etc.) but I can't shout because I know he's still trying to adjust to married life.

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  22. Poster 2,woow.u are the real tourch and follow, u to like that thing Kia,in just 3 months una,Don dey knack.look.it can b a bit embarassing having kids every year esp when ur friends give you that look like u have been busy and u can't control urseves.but the truth is its a blessing whether Boi or girl cause some are doing serious fasting for jjust one.

    Poster 2, since you married a made man Its difficult for him to put u in his agenda cause he has been making those decisions before without u,so he doesn't see the need to involve u,like Stella said don't b rude or insult him.u need to prove to him ur are matured by ur actions cause it's ur actions that is making him think u are a bay,start by taking the initiative to do things without him telling u,stop whining.

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  23. Poster1:u shud have corrected dis behavior wen u guys were still dating,I had d same issue wif ma guy cus he kip to himself alot and wen I complained nt jes once or twice...he changed and believe me you he cnt do anyfin without telling me.
    Poster 2:Have ur baby ooooo,infact be proud of it and scientifically its okay.

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  24. you people aree very stupid even stella join no get sense.do you work? its always the answer to everything....howmany of una get job? thousand and one people are looking for job everyday and you think its easy to get job.sometime you guys comment just to coment.do you know weather she has the finacially power to even start a kiosk self? no be because you marry rich man you don become rich woman.
    please you guys should advise with sense abeg.

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    1. Frustration at it's peak!
      Sha don't commit sucide @anonymous 15;40

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  25. Wc dr said to tie your tubes? From which shrine? Keep your baby and use a method of contraception after birth...its absolutely free

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    1. Oga/madam, didn't you see the part where she said she Still got pregnant even with contraceptives? Plz stop reading with your yansh but your eyes

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  26. Poster 2--- Keep that baby and be sure you start d use of condom as soon you start up again. Could be a boy and you'll never know if u abort it then the "wat if" set in.

    Poster 1--- Be a virtuous woman who builds her home with her own hands not the foolish who tears hers down!

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  27. There is something ABOUT ABORTIONS which I'd like us to see. When one kills (or encourages the killing of; see Prov. 6:16-17) innocent children, the consequences are three. 1. You deny yourself the joy of having a home (remember the Hebrew midwives who spared babies against Pharaoh's advice to kill them; God rewarded them with families; Ex.1) 2. You risk "sudden death" in the hands of another fellow/accidents etc. remember Gen.9:6 and thirdly, you deny yourself eternal life! What a life! God isn't going to call you to glory if you do not repent. Jesus said; come to me all you that labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest; that's Matt. 11:28. If you do not repent, you'd keep on laboring for the Serpent. But if you repent and make Jesus your Lord today and begin to read your scriptures; you'd find peace and the above three lots will not be yours. God bless you.

    B: THE ABORTIONIST:
    A colleague of mine who owns and runs a hospital does "abortions of all kinds". I had always wondered that in spite of being a well trained specialist, he seemed to have settled on just aborting kids and it gave him so much money. No matter how much we (his colleagues) warned him to "reform his practice", he did not take heed. Once he was travelling with his wife and two kids on an interstate highway, he suddenly began to scream; "look at that kid crossing the highway, imagine that kid . . .!" His wife who was seated on the front passenger seat told him that she couldn't see any kid, His kids behind said same (the man NEVER had any psychological issues in life and was NEVER on any addictive substance). next he matched on the breaks and the car flipped severally. He woke up after a few days in a hospital and when he asked about his family, was told that they were all dead; he began to weep. He wanted to get up and found that he was limbless.
    Exodus 1:15 The king of Egypt said to the Hebrew midwives, whose names were Shiphrah and Puah, 16“When you are helping the Hebrew women during childbirth on the delivery stool, if you see that the baby is a boy, kill him; but if it is a girl, let her live.” 17The midwives, however, feared God and did not do what the king of Egypt had told them to do; they let the boys live. 18Then the king of Egypt summoned the midwives and asked them, “Why have you done this? Why have you let the boys live?”
    19The midwives answered Pharaoh, “Hebrew women are not like Egyptian women; they are vigorous and give birth before the midwives arrive.”
    20So God was kind to the midwives and the people increased and became even more numerous. 21And because the midwives feared God, he gave them families of their own. NIV

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    1. Wow, I like your narrative and love even more your bible verses.i pray we all see and read in btw the lines in all that we do, poster 1 , pls take note.

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  28. It's Christmas jawe.... reading comments all the way

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  29. Poster 1 am in your shoes, my husband feels he doesn't need to tell me everything since women are like children. I wasn't working after all the school I went oooooh., I decided to start something small which later blossomed to something quite big so I thought since am ok financially I've earned the right to "belong" wuusai, if I buy anything in the house he says am competing with him, I give money to my children in school he says am undermining his authority hmmm I just cucuma started saving my money but I feel very insulted especially when his sisters come to my house to discuss how their husbands seek their opinions in every issue. Poster just chill some men are like that only God can change them.

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  30. Poster 1 you don't have any problem Poster 2 please live the baby

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  31. Poster1, you don't have problem at all just get a job or rather get busy and leave your husband alone... Anyways what do I knw me sef never marry
    Poster2,you are married so pregnancy is always a blessing

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  32. On christmas day k,abeg poster one and two

    Merry christmas

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  33. This poster 1 is an idiot,you siddon jejely for your husband house na you wan begin create problem wey no dey inside your home,continue ok....you don't have a problem,make you leave the matter,you hear.

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  34. Poster 2! .Keep the baby and after delivery(6wks) go for IUCD (Copper T). This will depend on your monthly flow, if it is heavy use IUS.
    I don't know why your Doctor will tell you to go for that, Your doctor should have allow you to explore other options.
    Merry Christmas! !!! .

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  35. Poster 2 I feel u pain. I v having my 3rd child in 4 yrs and I just found out its a boy. I had an open mind weather boy or girl it's a blessing. So dear keep Ur baby

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  36. Poster 1, I don't know your problem. You don't have marital issue and you want to create one ipity you. As long as his decisions are to the interest of everyone why are you hurting yourself.

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  37. Women and their complains, hmmmm. No need to add mine. Enough given already.

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  38. Make I start wth @ poster 2.judging 4rm ur story u must b 4rm d eastern paart of Nigeria 4 u 2 ve 3 kids in 3yrs & already preg wth d 4th child. My sista, take am easy ooo. U knw hw Nigeria economy be now oooo. U & ur boo 'ld ve a serious discussion on d numba of kids u wnt 2 ve & let it be witin u guys means. U hear wetin I talk.
    As 4 poster 1, Sista Stella, I asked dis questn Ystidy & I ve bin asking dis questn all my lyf, why do women always disturb demselves wen diaris no problem. Hear her ' he takes care of me & vry well ' so wat else do u wnt madam?. U 'ld b happy u ve a man lyk him. In his mid 30's u guys re already living in ur own house & just bought anoda piece of land Madam u re vry lucky. He's nt womanizing neither drinking or keeping late 9te's 'cuss u 'ld mentioned it.
    To cut a long story short, poster 1, wat u need is 2 gt ur self engaged in smetin. If u re nt a working class woman luk 4 a wy 2 convince him 2 set u up on a business. Sikena, dat's wat u need.

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  39. Poster 1:-your hubby is not lookin down on you nor disregarding you.what wild u av said if he had nt shown you the things he has been up to.relax.men re men naturally.as women we don't always know everything.sometyms dey just take dat decision.you should be happy abt the things he is investing into.just keep praying for him dat things kip going well.

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  40. People and Drama every day na wa oh!Una no dey tiya?

    Well it's Christ day so take all your problems to Christ in prayers.


    MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL.


    PEACEFUL AND ENCOURAGING WIFE.....

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  41. People and Drama every day na wa oh!Una no dey tiya?

    Well it's Christ day so take all your problems to Christ in prayers.


    MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL.


    PEACEFUL AND ENCOURAGING WIFE.....

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  42. Enter your comment...alright poster1.nd poster2 go take a course on family planning.¤emjay new boo

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  43. @nancy do you have any sense at all?

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  44. Anon 15:07 that's an awesome comment you dropped there..Stella not all housewives are being treated that way..I v my Msc,my husbands own his company am the director.i go when I want to and I get my great salary and my personal allowance and yes he tells me every single thing we decide together and not otherwise...So its not cos she is jobless its the husbands mentality...Give her another kinda advice...

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  45. And some men understand taking care of a woman is not stressing her even if you want to stress yourself most sweet men don't want to I have a daughter and on another..It has to do with personalities not joblessness...Ans most importantly God fearing spouse.

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  46. Music should strike fire from the heart of man, and bring tears from the eyes of woman. See the link below for more info.


    #tears
    www.ufgop.org

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