Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

A chronic liar is the worst thing that can happen to love....

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

A PAST THAT INTERFERES WITH THE PRESENT

Hi Stella,

 Well i have a disturbing issue. Its a long story but i am going to break it down. Way back in university, i used to date some guy and we were so in love and inseparable. We got so scared of losing each other that we took a blood oath and promised not to leave each other. Things were going so smooth until we fell out. I moved on and he did same after 5 years. 

We are both married with kids. We are still good friends and all. But the problem is that at night i see him in my dreams trying to have a sexual contact. I really don't know what to do. And i think he goes through same because he is always blaming me for everything that had happened. I really need the bv readers who have been in this kind of situation tell me how they went through with the whole mess. I already told my husband about it and we have been praying about it. I believe God's mercy and grace would intervene in our lives.  

I dont know anything to say or what kind of advice to render you,I just know that i grew up with some girl who took this blood oath and her life was destroyed permanently.Last time i saw her she was semi yaba-left.

When were in Uniben together she told me stuff that made the hair at the back of my head stand.All the men who tried to marry her died mysteriously.

I was so traumatised by her experience until she asked me one day''Stella who are you sef?''

I asked her why she asked me and she said she has been trying new friends every now and then to appease something or someone and it works but that every time she mentions my name a cane starts to flog her.My blood ran cold and i cut OFF ALL CONTACT with her.

It was horrible for me.

Then she was thrown out of hostel cos her room mates saw her floating on her bed on night.

Now she has become full possession of the juju that was used to make the blood oath.

Your case might not be so bad but all the same no one,even for the sake of love should take any kind of blood oath...NEVER!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

CHRONIC LIAR BROUHAHA

Good day Stella, hmm never believed I was going to send my chronicle here, life is full of sh*ts I swear. 

Fellow BVs pls what will you do if you find yourself in a relationship where you found out your supposed man has lied to you about almost everything, that you so got broken that you even doubt his name as a result of lack of trust?

Can you go back to such relationship even when he has begged and threatened suicide if you leave him,  and considering the fact that age is no longer your friend and family pressure is on you?

And how can you build back the trust since he has promised to change?

Can I go ahead with our wedding plans and hope he changes?

Having cold feet already?

Please bvs and Stella talk to me, I'm losing my mind. 

If you are marrying for any other reason other than love then forget it because the change he has promised and the patience you need to tolerate him can only work if there is love in the middle.

Other i would tell you not to settle for anything less than you deserve,otherwise you will get even less than you settled for.

Liars hardly ever change,what they do is go on sabbatical to gain back your trust and resume as soon as they know that your guard is down.

Sit yourself down and ask yourself questions,study him,your environment and surrounding and know if this is what you want.

A cancelled wedding is better than biting your fingers in regret.The Jollof rice can wait abeg!

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