Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

ONE MISTAKE AND YOUR MAN WALKS OFF INTO A NEW RELATIONSHIP

Hello Stella,

I can't even believe am sending in a chronicle but honestly I have been unable to solve this puzzle on my own and not even with the help of my friends so I need your matured minds to help me on this one.

So I met this guy some few months ago,he was pretty much awesome (best guy I have ever dated apparently) all was good till he travelled out and came back and I saw him chatting up this particular girl Linda (linda was a girl he met sometime before me but they didn't spark up enough to be in a relationship and we met and started dating almost immediately because the connection was too good)

So I got upset seeing him chatting up Linda while I was seated next to him,we were in a gathering of hes friends and I stood up and angrily walked into the room and I called him to come into the room and when he did I asked him why he was chatting her up right beside me and he showed no remorse rather he asked me why he couldn't chat with anybody else.

I got upset and walked him out of the room and shut the door against him...and that was how he walked out of he room and walked out of my life also...I tried to talk things over but he said he can't deal because he dosent want us to get into a fight like that again and he would have to hit me.

I still like him very much and want him back but my dear bv's guess what? He is now dating Linda...in fact immediately we broke up he started dating Linda just a few days after,I tried on several occasions to make us see so maybe we could talk face to face but he avoids having contact with me because he says he still likes me very very much and is scared that if we see he might start having regrets and he respects me too much to be with me and Linda at the same time.

Now I don't really know what to do because I still really like this guy,I have prayed countless times about this situation but it still remains same,please I need your help to crack this puzzle,please tell me what exactly I can do to get my man back and oh I forgot to mention that we still keep in touch very well and I know he misses me.Thanks for your help in advance.

LMAO!...My dear let me read comments today.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

WAHALA DEY!

Good day Stella, I hope this mail meets you well. Am going to try to make it as short as possible. 

I Am a very regular BV and my story is a very annoying one. I already know I am going to get an E-SLAP from you, and to BV's i know say una get bad mouth but please easy with the curses. I have given myself enough already.

Back to my story, i was in a relationship with a guy ,he is 29 and am in my early 20's. Am done with NYSC but waiting for a job. He was all loving and sweet but at a point he became cold. No calls.sms, hardly returns chats and all that. I cried, begged, asked him if he is tired but i never got a good response from him. He is a Naval Officer and we have been together for long. 

At a point, i got tired and gave another guy a chance. Let me call this other guy "B". "B" gave me all the attention, care that i needed(so i thought) and i fell deeply for him.I travelled to Ghana for few months and we were waxing stronger, he started disturbing me for marriage,telling me he wants to see my people even in my absence. 

Guy "A" realised his mistakes, begged, his family begged even involving my elder ones, i have known guy "A" since we were kids we were best of friends then. I got confused on who to choose and who to send away. Guy "B" was getting impatient with me. He booked my flight so i came down to Nigeria, we went to see his people, went to the hospital to run tests and all that. He was now on my neck to see my dad but i told him to chill till christmas, because i was still considering guy "A". 

I was with guy "B" at his place for a week, and somehow, the mermaid thing didnt work. On the day I was to leave, i overheard him talking to a woman outside the gate (am a team snoop member but I dont snoop on phones sha) so i tiptoed to the gate, the woman asked if am the one he said yes, that he loves me so much and that is why he wants to make me his second wife. 

I was shocked, I went back inside and confronted him and that was when he told me the truth that he is married and that his father was a core traditionalist that handed it over to him. 

He is 29, and wants me 2 be his second. Told him its over my dead body that was when this guy opened a room in his house and i saw things that i have never seen in Nollywood home videos before. He said he is going to change my face to that of a masquerade and guys will run away from me. I told him I serve a living God. 

Now am back in Lagos, i went to church to pray and guy "A" and i are very cool now. He wants our introduction to be by January, thought guy "B" is still threatening me with his spiritual stuffs. 

My reason for sending this is that just this morning, i found out am pregnant, i have never gotten pregnant before but back then my elder sisters always say in our family even if you are a day pregnant you have to go through D and C. I cant even tell my mum because she might die. She is very sick and has high blood pressure, dad is no more, no job and my sisters are always on their own, they don't help me with anything. Am at a crossroad. 

Thanks for your time Stella,God bless you

*Meaning that you are Pregnant for Guy B the native doctor?