NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
SNOOPING WITH POSITIVE RESULTS BUT....
Hello Stella, I trust you are doing great
I'm up @ 23:03pm , awake and doing some analysis, after carrying out a huge stunt on snooping ( lol).
I'm impressed in my James Bond moves, I no fit laugh. After doing what I just did, me sef shock for myself.
So here goes the gist..... Le boo and I are planning to get married ,marriage counseling been undertaken.
We work in different states and see at most 2wice a week.
After a mutual decision to stay away from sex for like 7 months now. I noticed like 2 months ago we became distant, and le boo wasn't giving me the usual attention and calls.even when we are together , no intimacy. ( hardly even initiates kissing)
I confronted him, and he said he just doesn't want to start what he cannot finish . I concurred.
But this issue persisted ,and I nodded my head, I said MBANU!! Le boo is up to something, during this time there was this unusual calls at an unusual time,by a lady ( found out through true caller ).
I went to visit le boo unannounced last weekend lo and behold , he wasn't at home. I slept and told myself he'll come and meet me wherever he was coming from, yours truly came back and was surprised like he had seen a ghost....
I asked where he was coming from.... He began to stammer..... I was very calm. He said I should give him some time to sort something out, that he over stepped his boundaries and crossed the line, I mentioned the lady's name that I had seen calling, he said yes... That he slept at her place.. Said nothing happened.
I told him to sort out whatever it is , else I'll do so.
Fast forward to last night , le boo sleeps deep, so I decided to caress his thumb, whilst at that I used his thumb to swipe against his iPhone that is finger print protected.... Gbam phone just unlock..... Free information at my disposal...
My suspicions were confirmed ... This lady ooooo.. I read their chat, he indeed sorted things out with her... The girl was crying saying she is sorry for pouring out her heart to him and putting him in such a position.. And she can't believe she has lost him, and that she doesn't know how she can be just friends with him.
Make Una see something oooooo.
Now my question is what should I do?? Should I just keep entrusting le boo or tell this lady to back off.. Since she is the one that can't seem to let go.
I'm tempted to do so... But at this same time if le boo knows I contacted her, still after he did what I asked him to do, I don't know how he'll take it.
PS: since this incidence he has been extremely sensitive, intimate with me and calls more.
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
USING S3X TO BOOST ONES SELF ESTEEM
Hello SDK And fellow BVs,
Please don't judge me. I'm seriously determined to be free and want to start a new life from 2016 by God's grace. Here's my Chronicle:
I am a very young girl. But I've lived a reckless life.
Mind you, I have a good character. I am very compassionate, very kind and sweet, I love and enjoy going to church services, giving alms, trying my best to assist people in almost everything. I'm generally a good person with a great character.
But my major flaw is sex.
Most people believe I'm the purest tho. I have had sex with so many guys that I've lost count. Some, friends. And they'll even tell other friends to come to me and I'll succumb. And I've being used soo much, talk of forced fours*mes, etc.
I stopped dating because I don't want any limits to my 'sexing'. Even when I used to date, I date like 3 guys at a time and still have sex with other people. It's not for money. I have never collected a dime for sex. I do it to boost my self-esteem and for acceptance too. Sometimes to kill boredom.
There's this guy that we made an agreement to only have sex with each other. I cheated on him with two people at various times though he says he's faithful. The guy is hot(typical hot black model) and gives me the best sex. But he has this equally hot but very cute friend who we used to go to his house to chill. The friend asked me to introduce him to my friends so he took my bbm pin.
I introduced him to one of my friends who I think they are compatible. But myself and this guy do kinda flirt while we chat. And he says whenever I'm in his area, I should holla him. I'm seriously considering sleeping with him. I don't want to date him I just want to sleep with him, because he's hot and cute. Even if it's just once. It will hurt the guy I'm seeing and he could kill me. When I thought about everything, I asked myself how long I was going to keep living this kinda life. I have tried to change a lot of time but I find myself going back. Please I need help! Who has been in this shoes before? I mean people that use sex to boost their esteem and use sex to get acceptance? Please I want to leave a better, worthwhile life. I need advice or tips. Please don't cuss me out!
P.S. I was never abused as a child, neither am I deprived of love at home and my parents do their jobs well. I just have zero confidence.
Wow,i feel so sorry for you cos you are about to embark on a very difficult Journey but i am happy that you have realised your problem.I wish you were close enough to your mum to be able to confide in her.
I have never heard of anything like this before so i dont know what to say
I wish you all the best as you seek solutions to getting out of where you are.
*Sending you lots of E-hugs*
Jesus fix it!
ReplyDelete******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS******
Ode, he will fix ya rotten face
Delete1. Trust him. He fell but has ended it with the girl. Hes a good guy and seriously its always hard to be celibate when u r already having sex with someone.
Delete2. Wow...am dazed. When u say confidence, are u talking about it in the mental sense of it or physical? Truth is, u r only making it worse cos by the time u lose alot of people cos u r sleeping around, u will end up being depressed and those that want u only want u 4 sex.
Providing sexual companionship to women of class.
Am orally skilled and hung
@poster2... you are a bloody nymphomaniac.no need sugar coating my words
DeletePoster1...you alone know what is best for u.
*Tired of giving advice*
Poster 2. U can change, jst make up ur mind.
DeletePoster 1. I know u ll marry him, stop putting ur ish out here.
Lol Emjay I cover ur neck with holy fire...as people Wil definitely come for Ur neck
DeletePoster 1, Le boo said he sorted things out with her and yet slept at her place and he told you nothing happened? Mbanu!
DeleteTo cut the long story short and not to appear as if I'm concluding, play a stunt on Le boo by telling him you went to a guys place to sort things out and also slept at his place, let's see his reaction...from there you shld knw what to do...*sideeyes*
Better tell Le boo to call her right in tour presence to stay away else you will do it yourself. In fact delete everything that has to do with the gal on his fone, block her on true caller but before then send her a message to leave your man alone.
Poster 1,let it rest.don't make d mistake of harassing the girl further.just work on your man and keep praying and hoping dat he flee temptation weneva it arise.
DeletePoster 2,u need deliverance
@poster1 leave the girl and face your le boo else you might push him back to her.
Delete@poster2 AIDS is real, I hope you're not a carrier already.Sex is not food oh. I honestly think you should go for Deliverance.
@ poster 2 U dnt want cussing or wetin I hear. So, why u come post Ur story? U beta cool down make bv's fire beta sense into Ur head. U r into self styled prostitution. It's is a pure satanic urge tht u nid deliverance from. Self control & oda psychological help might u a little...... but the ultimate help is rescue via deliverance from the most high God.
DeleteIt's a pure spiritual battle to wreck Ur glorious future & destiny.
Poster, u need to wake up before it's too late.
Make a covenant or a vow to God not to continue dis act of fornication.
Shiloh 2015 and Holy Ghost convention is still on, it's not too late to join us.
Poster 1, what else do u want?
@ poster 2 U dnt want cussing or wetin I hear. So, why u come post Ur story? U beta cool down make bv's fire beta sense into Ur head. U r into self styled prostitution. It's is a pure satanic urge tht u nid deliverance from. Self control & oda psychological help might u a little...... but the ultimate help is rescue via deliverance from the most high God.
DeleteIt's a pure spiritual battle to wreck Ur glorious future & destiny.
Poster, u need to wake up before it's too late.
Make a covenant or a vow to God not to continue dis act of fornication.
Shiloh 2015 and Holy Ghost convention is still on, it's not too late to join us.
Poster 1, what else do u want?
@Calabar chick u want her to end her relationship by playing dat stunt lol
DeleteCalabar chick pls read and comprehend before u give advice,cos dis is are real problems..Poster1 let d issue be or u push him into d hands of dat girl.U have seen d truth and he did wat he told he wud do.Pls dear give him benefit of doubt..
DeleteThat anonymous cussing emjay.
DeleteThe chronicles ull send. The weight to tragedy in it eyes have not seen, neither had it whispered onto the hearts of men
Dear poster 2. You can do it. You can and will eventually stop this fuck-ation you have so busied yourself with. The only pain you'll have is when you realise the consequences of your current SLUT-ation you're doing all over the place. Diseases? Duh! Lost opportunities, etc.
DeleteSo pipe low, it's bad as it is already. Don't make it worse!
Make up your mind. Be strong. Only you can sort yourself out of this mess.
Kind regards,
Magicblackxxl@gmail.com
PS I'm gay so don't even try *side eyes* just in case! Lol
Chronicles, we see alot here
ReplyDeletePoster 2 please drop your contact under my post. We need to talk
DeletePoster 2: U need a psychologist/ cancelor who can help you build your self esteem and make u see thag life is beyond a vita foam bed....u dnt need anybodies acceptance to see urself as a lady....all u have to do is accept thst ur a spectacular being and u will never need to have sex to feel comfortable around people again
DeletePoster 1,your issue has been settled by your man... so chill...
DeletePoster 2...am coming back
Poster 2, You just made me horny...
ReplyDeletePoster 2: I think you are a nympho. Perhaps you need to visit a counselor. Don't worry, you will be better. You don't need sex to boost your self esteem and acceptance.
DeletePoster1: that guy loves you no be lie. Just try and let it slide. For him to come clean himself although you partially caught him...
Lol
DeleteI swear, the story made my pussy tingle, God dey
DeletePoster 1 I stopped at visited unannounced. I seriously dislike that attitude in ladies, do not visit anyone unannounced and I don't care the urgency or party involved except of course an onigbese.
ReplyDeleteIt's simply rude and unnecessary to visit someone unannounced anyone try that with me you'd have the door slammed in your face.
Anyway why are you with someone you don't trust in the first place and he is acting shady.
Use your tongue to count your teeth.
Please shut up if you have nothing intellectual to say! He's her man and they are engaged. There's nothing wrong with that! It's women like you that make men think they're gods. This is someone she is planning to spend her life with so and can show up unannounced if she wants!
DeleteDoppelganger pls shut it right there. That's her fiance! She had every right to go there unannounced especially with the reasons she stated. If she hasn't done that, how on earth would she have known what was going on? When he dumps her, y'all gonna say she didn't play her part by snooping. I like you, but your comment today is just unrealistic.
DeleteMadam hold your man tight. You did the right thing abeg.
Doppelgänger it is ladies like you who sleep around the whole of nigeria with other people's senseless cheating husbands. What's wrong with visiting her fiancé unannounced! Just like one buffoon UI girl toke webster esho that has phd in sleeping around with men for money and trying to hook peoples husbands with juju. After committing adultery and abortion for Africa all over, flies be looking for shit to perch on.
DeleteAnon 17:06 because they are engaged, did she pay his rent? Awon desperado. Till a man has put a ring on it better pipe the fuck down and stop acting like it's a criteria to act like you own him.
DeleteGo on and keep visiting people unannounced, engaged indeed like that would stop him from cheating.
Did you say even on emergency? Sometimes u dey make sense babe
DeleteHadn't done that *
DeleteJust here flossing after downloading a very sumptuous meal.
DeleteWould have handed you all tampons because you are all leaking.
Ada-nne I have noticed you you can now go and sin no more.
I can't unsay what I already said just like a cheater can't unfuck a fuck.
Best comment so far!!!
DeletePoster 1: insecurity will not let u mind ur business after finding what u just found out.U have the upper hand at the moment yet u want to go and wake a sleeping dog with rabies baa? I wish u well, I must date by force syndrome.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: HIV, Staph and everyother thing u can think up are rly calling u in no time, u obviously don't have a problem go and enroll in a brothel maybe then ur brain will reset itself.Acceptance ko, self esteem issues they worry u.Lemmi ask in money makers voice " are u fat" in Linda ezes voice " r u ugly?" don't mind me, but nne just stop this.
Poster one, let it go!
ReplyDeleteHe has sorted things out, let it be unless u don't want again then u can create wahala for yourself.
Poster two, when maturity sets in, u will get confidence, hopefully u would still be in one piece.
But how does sex boost self esteem? Cos je nes comprendre pas.
Wow..U love sex??..wow? ?? That much??. Wow!
ReplyDeleteP2 u are a nympho and at same time possessed.
ReplyDeleteJeez sex to boost self esteem wet in???
Babe go for deliverance
When sez is food....
It always very easy for u all to keep sayin "Go for deliverance, Go to MFM"... Do u knw if she's a muslim?? Come to think of it, why do such rarely happen to muslims?? I mean its almost unheard of....
DeleteMuslims send in chronicles anon...
DeleteIdiot anon.who told u Muslims no dey experience such things.
DeleteWhat do u think they go to alpha for..those sadaka and prayers they do is their own deliverance
poster 1. Please i want to ask why you people abstain from sex when neither of you is a virgin. That shii is really annoying, hypocrisy is what i call it. Just confront le boo and leave the lady out of it.
ReplyDeleteI am with you on dis. D road don open already nothing fit close am ni. South shout to all d virgin in d house.
DeleteFirst poster. Your fiance is a good man, and from all indications he can he relied on. Don't push it. Don't bring yourself to ridicule by contacting the weepy side chick. He may see it as an insult to him and a challenge. Just manage am jeje. Don't unleash the beast.
ReplyDeleteSecond poster- pele. Keep busy
Trust your man poster 1, try not to contact the lady, else you give her the imPression that she is a threat to your relationship, thus giving her the edge to go on
DeleteThis ones pass me mbok.
ReplyDeleteI never see where them dey use sex boost self esteem oohhhh, just negodu poster2 ohhh.
Shut up! Its you that sent that chronicle.... You're poster 2.
DeleteJust waiting for d day dat God will expose dis anon dat's on Emjay case!
DeleteAnon ur chronicle eyes have not seen neither has ears heard
DeleteLmaoooooo @ emjay and her buddies. Una no go kii person for this blog one day.
DeleteThis is serious,just pray
ReplyDeletePoster 1:you should be happy that he admitted that he did it...no body is above mistakes ...you nor get problem abeg
ReplyDeleteAbeg both posters shd seek d face of God. Poster one for worrying over nothing and looking for trouble where there is none.
ReplyDeletePoster two for being possessed with the spirit of immorality.
poster one -tell him to call the other woman ,that you arent sure his done with her ,he should call her i call it quits in your prescence .
ReplyDeletePoster 2 -sha use condom ,herpes 2 is every where ,people are addicted to different kind of things ,you just a sex addict Sha use condom ,double condom
Narrative 2
ReplyDeleteYou really need to pray hard and make a stand for u to stop.
Nothing good comes easy, no pain, no gain, so it's not going to be easy, but you'll have to make a stand determined to stop.
At first it's not going to be easy, but with time you'll be surprised you made it.
Don't forget to pray hard along.
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Very dull girl with empty brain!! I agree with d anon on IHN dat said u go n search for awof dts y u don't drop comments early on ihn!!
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DeleteNa on top emjay's progress u go die put
DeletePoster 1: End time Le boo
ReplyDeletePoster 2: End time 'itchy & scratchy'
Hahhhaaa lol @ end time itchy and scratchy...
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ReplyDeleteChai, I sure say this one 4get to enter anonymous! Am waving sorry to ur pussy
DeleteJeeeeeeeeeeeeeez babe come and delete Ur comments sharply hope dat ain't Ur real pics hummm d reason I hate going anon lol!
DeleteWhite print lol!
DeletePoster 2: What feeds this behavior is usually porn.
ReplyDeletemasturbation/Sex is addictive due to the hormonal interplay in orgasm etc. So there is bound to be tolerance issues as one grows up and it might make one to be insatiable by one man.
Before my daughter hit puberty, I taught her to manage her sexual urge like I did. Foremost, reading the gospels on her phone and learning to fast; most times fruit fast while at school and just water till noon on some weekends. channeling her energy towards good deeds; charity/volunteer works and it worked for her. She is focused academically and spiritually and for two consecutive semesters had made all A's. She tells me that she is happy and loving her svelte self too.
There is time for everything and the time for sex is when you get married. You will have your peace of mind doing it.
Yimu
DeleteI love this, God bless you for raising an upright girl. I pray God helps me to train my daughter well
DeleteYou're a sex maniac no doubt, you're not alone, what advise do u need now?? Ok!! Pls na, don't fuck ur BFs friend...
ReplyDeleteAll these comments won't help her, she will not rest until that guys dick is in her vibrating pussy... No amount of advice will help her.
Deletethis post is for poster two only.
ReplyDeleteplease don't change yet let me taste you too you hear
inbox me ooo, i am hot and sexy too u won't regret it
You need urgtent HIV abi?? Condom sef no go save u
Delete@ebuka hummmmm better go get artificial pussy! Dat will be better off though.
DeletePoster 1: Don't contact the girl, allow her heal by herself and let go of ur boo
ReplyDeleteJust so u know, your boo is a cheat so you gotta improve on your snooping skills because you're gonna be needing alot of it in future
Poster 2: you'll be needing God's grace and alot of self discipline
Goodlu
Bad belle, she should let go of her boo so you can snatch him Abi? He's a cheat Abi? Your own boo isn't a cheat? Nonsense and ingredient. Poster 1, please just let it go. You have a good man, yes, he made a mistake by encouraging the other girl but do you know how many men would actually heed to your words? Some would even lie that they've cut things off with the other girl when they haven't. Just communicate more with him. All the best to you mama!
DeletePoster1; don't try to confront the lady,u can loose your man
ReplyDeletePoster2;there's nothing God can't do,talk 2 him prayers,I overcame my addiction 2 sex,u 2 can overcome yours.
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ReplyDeleteWho is dis one? Dis is not LIB. .We dnt entertain such here...
DeleteStella biko do ur wrk. ...
Poster 1 feeling cool now lol, don't contact her.
ReplyDeletePoster2 lol I like u, "u want to fuck him cos he is hot"
My only problem with u is the no confidence part or for acceptance, y now?
How does sex boost ur sex esteem nne? I thought it was the other way round.
Some people are not into exclusivity but they do it because they want to not for acceptance, acceptance to what?
All I can say is be careful, use protection always,
If u want to boost ur self esteem, stop sleeping with riffraffs.
Sleep with people that can take care of u, that way u ll feel loved.
Love is the only solution to ur prob.
Go to Shiloh...poster2.....poster1...don't confront d babe....watch things as they unfold first
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmm.
ReplyDeleteposter 1 u did a good job and u should be happy Lee boo is a good man and this is a prove that he loves and respects u. but please let it end there, do not confront the lady in any way. all u shld do is keep a close contact with boo always profess ur love show him u care and how much he means to u. above all pray for him, that's most important abi u never see bride wey man dey dump for alter. so u better pray for ur man. poster 2 all i can say is that u need deliverance bcos i don't know what seems to be ur problem hence i can confidently conclude its spiritual. so please visit a strong living church and be saved. this part u are trading will destroy u if u dont act fast.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 you are a nymphomaniac, you need to go for deliverance asap. Wtf.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 since leboo is honest with you, don't contact the girl ok, make you no go use your hand spoil your relationship.
Poster1 let d sleeping dog lie mbok.
ReplyDeletePoster2;good u ve realised urself,pray nd get ur mind off sex nd kp urself busy too
1. Let sleeping dogs lie mbok. Lee boo has sorted things out the way you wanted, don't go and scatter it by warning the side chick else....
ReplyDelete2.Its well with you.
Poster 1. You saw a fire that has been quenched and is just smothering and you want to pour aviation fuel into it. Go ahead.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Nice that you realized that you've been addicted to sex and have self esteem issues. I have been there. I used to have same. There was a mix of timidity added to mine; I couldn't talk to two folks together; I'd just start sweating and stuttering. It was so bad. it cost me friends; both males and females. But today, I can talk to a conference of people in the course of my work and take questions etc. How did it happen? I began to read the gospels! Sounds foolish;sure? I thought as much and told the friend who suggested it same. He asked me to take the challenge and report back to him in "two months time". It's been years and counting and I am just fine. I regained some of my friends from of old. They could not believe it's me. You know the good thing; I can even browse through the gospels right on my phone; that's my breakfast while in the one hour bus ride going to work! And when I drive, I listen to the audio. learning to fast with prayer will also help you to concentrate. Sexual immorality will only worsen the vicious cycle of low self esteem.
Narrative 1) please don't interfere biko let le boo end d battle dat he started, u don't have d right to write dat girl cos u're still his gf he has d right to choose. Thank God he ended it with her though.
ReplyDeleteLol poster 2 is just like me buh at least i have great self confidence! Oh Girl dont fuck ur niggas frnd oo,dts sumfn i dont do sha! Poster1 u shud have deleted d babe off hs bbm sharpely and code like she deleted him off, well all d best.
ReplyDelete*dat messed up silly girl*
1] Nothing for you..
ReplyDelete2] You need Jesus!! You need Jesus my dear!!! You need Jesus oo nwanyi oma!! God help you
Poster to sing with me. Oya..
DeleteThere is only one man i know...
There is only one man i know...
There is only one man i know oooo
His name is JESUS!!! Recieve your healing right now IJN... Amen!!!
Sister rejoice cos you are healed
p1 let the sleeping dog lie...nd trust again.
ReplyDeletep2 hmmm quite critical try engage yur self get busy, hangout with friends females, it may help.
Poster 1... if you want to forgive him, do so as he has done all that you requested. Girls self, no shame at all.
ReplyDeletePoster 2... kai, you be beautiful satan. See as you don turn to Keziah. May God deliver your soul from SPIRIT OF FUCKING. That is what is disturbing you. I hope no one has cursed you in your family by putting SPIRIT OF FUCKING on you.
It is well with both of you.
Poster one just leave it since he did what you asked of him. Just monitor him poo
ReplyDeletePoster two you are simply a sex addict. We r not in obodo oyibo you for go rehab. In the mean time just cast and bind the spirit of lust. Or visit MFM prayer city for deliverance
Anty animashaun...pls see a sex counselor.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, your boo is a good man, and he is trying his best to keep you. Don't contact the lady. Instead showere your boo with all the love and attention you can, that way if he really loves you, which from what you've mentioned above he does,he will forget the lady even existed and when she is tired she'll leave him jare. Right now you just need to up your game to remind him why he chose you in the first place and watch things go your way.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, I have no idea about how you feel or use sex to validate yourself. You obviously enjoy it like its a hobby, it makes you feel like you're in control, but the reverse is the case, the guys are actually in control. You're only in control when you can make a guy want you so bad and yet he won't have a taste, that is power, you control them that way. What you're going through is just a typical example of "you are what you say you are". In your head you're in charge, but you're not. When you're alone, just think and imagine what you want your future to be like and ask yourself if you're on the right path to that future. If you're not, then you need to start making amendments.
P1
ReplyDeleteDidn't you think of and decide what to do with informatjon you are looking for before starting to dig? Some will tell you to do dis while others will tell you to do DAT but I will tell you to do what you needed the information for before starting and I will support you
Poster one, one day you will find what you are looking for.
ReplyDeletePoster two :D, lets be reckless before the end of the year. Whayasay? I actually know someone like you with a serious bf and all yet I help her with d "cure".
On a more serious note, I dont know how to advise you.
Hian, today's chronicle is somehow shaa. @poster 1. Pls don't confront her oo. U might end up giving le boo freely to her without stress. Just allow him fix d mess. @poster 2. Nne, your own pass me shaa, thank God u discovered and admitted ur problems first. Talk to God in prayers and believe he will answer. God bless u both
ReplyDeleteTo POSTER 2: MAYBE MY STORY WILL HELP YOU:
ReplyDeleteI used to be an atheist but I had a drug addiction that defied every therapy for years. When a beloved Christian lady saw me on the street and smiled at me and handed a New Testament, I knew i had to read it. Even when I did not want to; her smiles seemed indelible in my subconscious, I still did read it. One day, I summoned up courage to pray (something like; "Jesus just help me out if you exist . . .")and that did it. The drugs were gone! I have been reading the New Testament for two years (the very copy that lady gave me and I don't need another). I do not attend church but i know that I am a Christian now; I have peace!
I don't go to church; at least haven't gone for six years now, but I am on such sites as biblegateway, biblehub, divine revelations, cbn.com, tbn.org, etc. If you like call me an "online believer" and I would answer you. I don't think I really need any "church" for now. I am having the time of my life!
A LOT OF TIMES, WE FAIL BECAUSE WE TRY TO DO IT ON OUR OWN FORGETING THAT WE WERE CREATED. THE CREATOR CAN FIX THINGS WHEN THEY GO WRONG IN US.
Alleluia !!'
DeleteYou weren't really an Atheist, you were Agnostic or a freethinker, cus Atheists can never start believing in sumthg they're very sure does not exist.
DeleteEm jay is correct whenever she says "Jesus fix it".
DeleteNo 1...u have no biz with the girl.. No2 biko do what u want..
ReplyDeleteWhat you are doing does not improve your self esteem, it does the opposite.
ReplyDeletePoster one:
ReplyDeleteDo what you think is best.
I mean, when you set out to snoop, you must have had a reaction and decision at the back of your mind.
Poster two :
So, since you started whoring out yourself, has your self-esteem and confidence been boosted?
That's the question you should be asking yourself.
You're probably a breathing receptacle of STDs.
You need more than advice. You need counselling.
#WhiteDiamondOut
thelma enemuwe said...
ReplyDeletePoster 1...do not confront the girl, don't even bring yourself to do that and do not act like uve read le book's chats..... Make gud use of this time to bond well with le boo....just calm down,its gonna be alright
Postet2....ure a sex maniac.... Random sex from all and sundry does not boost self esteem as you claim,its rather rids you of any pride Dts left in you, pls retrace your steps back to God and seek help from a counselor.... Whenever this unquenchable sexual desire flows tru ur vein,resist it,put a price tag on urself girl and close your legslegs
*faithful bv enemuwe thelma*
poster 2 is bosede olobo rofor rofor
DeleteStella, you need to do something about okija's wife. This is unbecoming! There's drama, and then there's her. You don't need this on your blog I tell you, please don't let her come here to pollute your blog with comments like this. I beg you.
Deletethelma enemuwe said...
ReplyDeletePoster 1...do not confront the girl, don't even bring yourself to do that and do not act like uve read le book's chats..... Make gud use of this time to bond well with le boo....just calm down,its gonna be alright
Postet2....ure a sex maniac.... Random sex from all and sundry does not boost self esteem as you claim,its rather rids you of any pride Dts left in you, pls retrace your steps back to God and seek help from a counselor.... Whenever this unquenchable sexual desire flows tru ur vein,resist it,put a price tag on urself girl and close your legslegs
*faithful bv enemuwe thelma*
like seriously? Especially because its not because of money. 2nd poster, it is well oooo...
ReplyDeletePoster one, ur boo just played a fast one on you. He knew u would snoop,so he caused himself to fall into a deep sleep just like God caused adam. And gbam evrything went down. Do not talk to dt girl afterall ur boo was the person that asked her out initially. Face ur relationship and pray to God to show you signs and to make sure u ar towing the right path.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm... Poster 1,i really don't knw what to say to you.
ReplyDeletePoster2 you are a nymphomaniac and you need serious help, at least now you realize you have a problem so getting the solution is the next step. All the best!
Poster 2 you are a nympho live with it. Whore
ReplyDeleteJudgemental fool... Im sure ur life isn't any beta
Deletemumu
ReplyDeletePoster1: He promised to sort things out and from ur snooping, u found out that he is doing exactly that, this guy is very sincere to u, don't bother contacting that girl, allow him to finish what he started.
ReplyDeletePoster2: I don't know how sex is used to boost one's self esteem or to gain acceptance.. Thank God u know u need help..
Be determine to stop it, stay away from friends that lure u to it
finally, take it to God in prayers.
THIS SECOND POST TOO SERIOUS..WHAT A LIFE!!!!.
ReplyDeleteFIRST POSTER ABEG CHILL..JUS DEY LOOK..DON'T DO ANY CONFRONTATION OO
Poster 2 i suggest you go for deliverance and i know God will surely set u free. Feel ur pain.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 i suggest you go for deliverance and i know God will surely set u free. Feel ur pain.
ReplyDeletePoster2....Jus give your life 2 christ.....
ReplyDeletePoster 1. It's good you followed your instincts and found out what le boo is doing. Well, his apology may be sincere. Don't know what to tell you but l think he did the right thing though. Don't call the girl. Your business is with dude.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. I have seen a few people like you. You need to go to MFM for deliverance. Stay away from that guy but your body nor go rest till you gbensh that guy. Good luck!
Poster 1: don't go fighting his side chic, its not worth it. Try and talk to the guy. No need to be scared, if God has destined it to be then it will.
ReplyDeletePoster2: its an addiction and it can be stopped only if you make friends that will encourage you morally. May God help u.
Poster2, u need a sex therapist.u are a sex addict so u can get the help u need.thank God u realised now.and pray about it aswell.i know say judginaas go get headache on top ur matter and claim them b virgins.get help and u will b fine
ReplyDeletePoster one,dont call her and complicate issues.but watchful ur Man for any suspicious James Bond moves
What is this 2nd poster talking about? What sort of rubbish "acceptance" is she talking about? U'r so on your own
ReplyDeletePoster 1.....he has respected you enough so stay in your lane b4 u do serious eleya
Chai u for just dey collect money na so we can know Ur occupation, giving it out freely makes u a cheap hoe, u want to change and u still thinking of Ur current bf friend okokobioko babe please fuck on I don't see u as someone dat want to change! U just wan use our head small.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 you got me laughing with this your narrative. Well as your guy have already made the move of breaking the relationship with the other babe, I suggest you let go and don't spoil things for yourself. Poster 2,I have never read anything like this but nevertheless the only thing without solution is death. Well from my understanding you might be possessed without knowing. Just go for deliverance and invite God into your life
ReplyDeletePoster one allow lee boo to fix d problem with d lady,buh if u notice he isn't fixing it,den u shud take some actions, buh don't go to d other lady no matter what...@poster 2 try ur best to live a decent life if u can meet a counselor or pastor that wud help...
ReplyDeleteWhoa!
ReplyDeletePoster 2
ReplyDeletePRAY!! Go for deliverance! Your not a bad person, and you're very wise to know you have a problem
You need to go to mfm
Watch what you listen to, watch ..guard your heart
Praying for you
Poster one it's clear you don't trust your guy is this what you will keep doing when you guys get married snooping around biko leave the girl alone call her and do what warn her¿ rubbish talk to your guy is he not the one entertaining the whole thing talk to him about it and tell him your mind.
ReplyDeletePoster2 it's a spirit a bad one for that matter knew someone that had the same issue and before she could stop it took a while you need to take God very serious that's the only solution to this problem some people will tell you it's okay to be this way come up with an excuse probably say it's psychological or something related to it it's not Pray about it God will see you through the earlier we start realising that this world is spiritual the better and that this world is orchestrated from the realm of the Spirit. *anonymous Lagos girl*
Poster 2, i wish i had lots and lots of partners when i was younger. Am just 32, but the way dh starves me of sex i don't understand. It is well sha
ReplyDeleteThis is the symptoms of evil spirit!!! Please pray hard.
ReplyDeleteSleeping with almost all men nawa ooo
P1 I keep saying almost all men cheats,but for the fact that he is showing remorse and he's not the one wanting the girl,u can move on
ReplyDeleteGirls eehn...we are evil
The only thing that will cure you is an incurable veneral disease. Then when you see prick, your mind will tell you that you're a carrier oh and you will be so afraid of what may happen if he finds out, then your morale for sex will reduce, inugo
ReplyDeleteAbeg oh, no pray for her to carry disease, na her type go spread am like mat.
DeletePoster1 I was once in ur situation, I told d gal off nd my ex got upset nd we broke up!!! I suggest u dnt tell her off.. Just be on le boos case nd insist he does it himself else he will find an excuse to dump u nd go for d gal!!!poster2 stop hvn sex already!! Ure abusing it biko
ReplyDeletePoster 1: I feel you should just leave it the way it is now and keep snooping to get informed of anything latest thing about him and the Bae. Just pretend as if you dnt know what's going on.
ReplyDeletePoster2: you need serious deliverance.
Fix it Jesus.....poster 2...you have to pray.and try to stay away from men
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ReplyDeletePlease fellow blog visitors,I need clarification on an issue,if a groom fulfils every requirement on the marriage list given to him by the bride's family &the bride's father decides not to mention the brideprice to the groom's family does it mean that she is not married?
ReplyDeleteThis thing is bothering you seriously as you are raising it for the second time, if it'll make you feel better, as DH to pay the bride price. Finish
DeleteYou africans can like to take things too serious jo... Ure married, ure married, why hang unto the brideprice? Your dad didn't collect, so what?? Didn't u do church or court?? Haba, until u use ur own hand to jinx ur marriage then ud rest.
DeleteU are married,stop worrying urself. Ur dad has done d right thing by not taking dt bride price, I ll do same 4 my daughters.
DeleteDo you know that even after collecting the bride price, the father of the bride returns it back to the groom or his family. Now, does that mean they are not married? Please stop being a nuisance on this blog, and enjoy your marriage because you are married. And btw, some fathers don't collect bride price from the groom. My father didn't collect my sisters bride price. Enjoy your marriage sis okay, you are rightfully and gainfully married. All the best.
DeleteDon't worry about whether or whether'nt ur dad collected any amount OR how much he collected as dowry. What matters is the items on the list and the traditional proceedings carried out on the trad wedding day. The Dowry is not a sacrificial or some holy money paid to an inlaw. My own dad never took any money (not even N100) from my sisters hubby on their trad wedding day, he (my dad) told them that the money he ought to receive shd be used to help support his younger children's education. I saw it in their wedding video. So anonymous relax ur mind and stop worrying urself over NOTHING.
DeletePoster 1 u are in a bad relationship already, please don't make it permanent.
ReplyDeletePoster2 one of your ex. Has a demonic sex problem. Never in back to any of them. Try to be very prayerfull.
ReplyDeletePoster1 you don't have to contact the lady.just trust your man. You will not like what will happen if your man find out you contact her.
ReplyDeletePoster2 you need to give your life to christ,and devote all your free time in to serving God in a unit in your church. I think that will keep you busy.
Poster the problem is you're a woman with the ego of a man.
ReplyDeleteNow the only thing is you should have an open relationship,that's the only thing that can work for you and your partner should also want an open relationship.
Tough* one u meant, Stella....
ReplyDelete#2. Its a good thing you are forthright in accepting that you have a huge problem.we are all humans and we battle with different kinds of problems.but the good news is that you can summon the courage and will to put a stop to that vice today. Whenever you feel the need to validate yourself before boys and have a morale/confidence boost by sleeping with them,you end up hurting yourself the more and inflicting more damage to your very fragile or rather non-existent confidence. Its like you are carrying out a hara-kiri,and that,my dear isn't the right way to go.
Now the solution is pretty much simple. You are created in the image and after the likeness of God.that means you carry the power inherent in the trinity in you.u can ask anything of the Father,in Christ's name,and it would be given to u.as long as u exercise faith and belief in His ability to do all you ask of Him.all you need do is confess ur failings to Him,pray and ask Him to put His spirit,the Holy Spirit in you.tell Him you don't want to be living such life anymore.n ask for the grace to remain holy and committed to serving Him and doing His will. Believe me God hears our prayers,and He'll come to ur aid.remember Christ never condemned Mary the adulteress,however she was told to ' go and sin no more'. Always study God's word n fellowship with true believers. His grace will carry you and help u leave this life of bondage to sexual immorality.God bless.
Postee1: welldone.but dont contact the girl if not u will drive him back to her
ReplyDeletePoster 2: may God deliver u.
*Tough @ Stella.
ReplyDelete1. Don't confront the lady. Your guy should be in a better position to cut every means of communication with her. If he's man enough to sort it out he shld equally cut the rest off. Marriage is not akamu and always pray for him.
ReplyDelete2. I like you. Why? Because you realised your 'flaw' and has decided to change for good. God will help you achieve that come 2016, but pls try rebuking that evil spirit of fornication whenever it comes.
Work on your mentality about sex, life and marriage and believe in our Lord Jesus to direct you but PLEASE GO FOR DELIVERANCE. All the best.
Poster 1 Pls don't call d lady involved at all. Since u ve read from chat n ur guy had told u same,give him another chance. Sometimes distance weakens relationship n is in ur hands to build it now and pray more for him n ur relationship
ReplyDeletePoster 2 all I can say is stay off sex n have some dignity. May God help u.
Poster1
ReplyDeleteOk
Poster2... Don't confide in your mother or anything, what you need is professional help... its not going to be easy, I assure you that... There is a programme called Alcoholic Anonymous, they help in rehabilitation of hopeless alcoholics, they do so by a particular 12 stage of religious and spiritual activity and eventually, they succeed in rehabilitating alcoholics that even some very good psychiatrist/Psychotherapists can not .... I'll advice you to take some tips from them and try to curb your prob with sex.... you also have to take your involvement in church more seriously....
I pray you find solution to your challenge.
Thanks BVs for sending in your chronicles, I hope I helped.
Go for deliverance at MFM. And be determined to change. God help u. In Jesus name. Amen
ReplyDeletePoster 2.. U need to put more effort in trying to stop sexing with different guys and as u do that talk to God in prayer on your knees .BB
ReplyDeleteTough one,reading comments only
ReplyDeleteTough one,reading comments only
ReplyDeleteP2...thank You for realising this a,d seeking help. If you are a Christian attend a good Church and seek out God for yourself, all you need is to fill the void with God. It sounds cliche but this is what you are missing. All this sexing and yet you still seem acceptance. So you should know the need is more than sex. Please start to look at your self in a different light, you do not need a man to make you complete. These men do not respect you and will only make your esteem issues worse. I pray you truly turn a new leaf.
ReplyDeleteP1...Hmmm watch your man and tell him that you need him to cut off communication with the girl. Being friends is a foolish thing to do. If he will not cut her off, you will be back to square 1.
Pray and God Almighty will help you. Also tell your mom immediately!
ReplyDeleteTell your mom and make her sad for the rest of her life. Don't mind stella oh. Go and tell your pastor
ReplyDeleteTell your mom and make her sad for the rest of her life. Don't mind stella oh. Go and tell your pastor
ReplyDeleteTell your mom and make her sad for the rest of her life. Don't mind stella oh. Go and tell your pastor
ReplyDeleteYou no give am sex, he collected it from someone willing to donate her own to him. The truth of the matter is that most of the time we ladies say 'no sex', even if the guy agrees, be sure that he will get his satisfaction elsewhere. You are lucky you didnt lose him to the lady in question. No need contacting the lady, but let him know you intend doing that if she persists.
ReplyDeleteTell your mom and make her sad for the rest of her life. Don't mind stella oh. Go and tell your pastor
ReplyDeleteBabe, you need deliverance, simple! it's spiritual and no matter how hard you try to fight it on your own, you'll still find yourself going back to your vomit. I pray you get the spiritual help that you need. If I may suggest, try God's Spring Assembly in Kubwa Abuja. The Pastor is a trusted man of God who can pray for/counsel you with his wife. May God deliver you
ReplyDeletePoster1......Thumbs up,I'm impressed with your stunt but pls don't overstep by confronting that girl, you'd make matters worse,handle Leboo from your end and let him handle the girl from his own end but then if you notice/suspect some wrong moves then you can proceed with your 007 stunts.
ReplyDeletePoster2..Pls help me understand what you mean by using sex to boost self esteem and acceptance cos I honestly do not understand that, good thing is u've identified your problem I pray u find a solution........It is well dear
Poster one,relax and watch things unfold, just in case , he need to go for test because you never know if he has been having unprotected s*& When you don't.
ReplyDelete#1..no be ur guy dey get close to d babe,na d babe wan do na
ReplyDelete#2..change from ur promiscous ways (after gbenshing guy)
Just fuck him
ReplyDeletemmmmhmmm!!! poster 2. i understand your plight. be more prayerful.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, let him handle it.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 u need deliverance
Please since they are random guys, hope you make sure they wear their condoms. Also try and go get a cervical cancer/herpes vaccine for yourself.
ReplyDeleteEhen, I wanted to first secure you your health first.
Secondly, you really need to work on your self esteem seriously. That will be your major call. You are young as you say and your sex appetite is high.Calm it down biko. Before you wreck yourself. Its not food.
@poster1 : don't confront the lady.
ReplyDeleteIs left 4 your bobo to cut all contact with her.
As una no dey d same city.......fear go dey.
@poster2 : your problem is that you are just too lose.
You aren't boosting any self esteem instead, is reducing your self worth.
Work on yourself.......
Your toto has worked more than your brain and I think you should give it a break.
I love Ur advice to poster 2...
DeleteJesus take the wheel!!!!
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Because You Want To Bear Mrs By All Means,You Are Painting The Picture. Your So Called Le Boo Is Cheating, And He Will Continue Even After Marriage. Confronting The Lady Won't Change AnyThing. Keep Deceiving YourSelf. Despirado!
ReplyDeletePoster 2 the difference between you and a friend of mine is that you said you use sex to boost your self esteem while she just loves having sex but most time with a partner whom might be engaged, married or single. I think it's a mindset to end it which I know might be difficult but doable. Just focus more on other things, better still engage in new hobby.
ReplyDeleteP1: this is a tricky one since you both live in different states. After what you've found out, I wouldn't advise you to completely trust him. Still have your eyes on the ground. If you notice this girl is still in the picture, ask your man to call her while you're there and tell her that they can no longer communicate, even as friends. While he does that, talk a little in the background so she can hear and so that she knows that you are aware of what's going on (she will feel stupid and embarrassed and might hang up the phone). It will make her feel really stupid. Also, sit down and ask your man if he really wants you and wants the relationship to work. Tell him firmly that you will no longer condone any form of cheating of flirting. Give him an ultimatum to either be with you whole heartedly or move on. Do all this while maintaining your composure. Try not to turn it into an argument. He will know you are not joking and he will sit up! Never contact the side chick! Never! Oh, also make sure he he deletes her number and unfollows her from all social media in your presence. It works for me. Hope I helped :)
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POSTER 1 PLEASE MEN GENERALLY ARE CHEATERS BY NATURE, SINCE HE ACCEPTED OF OVER STEPPING HOS BOUNDARY AND FIXING IT. TRUST HIM AND CARE, LOVE HIM MORE THAT WILL DEPRIVE HIM THE OPPORTUNITY TO CHEAT FURTHER, AND U HAVE TO BE A PRAYING TYPE TOO. HOPE THIS YOUR ABSTINENCE FROM SEX WILL NOT HURT YOU IN FUTURE, BECAUSE I AM GOING THROUGH HAD TIMES IN MARRIAGE NOW, PRAYING THAT GOD WILL FIX IT THO, I LOVE SEX AND VERY SEXUALLY ACTIVE BUT I TOLD MY HUBBY NOW THAT NO SEX TILL AFTER MARRIAGE HE ACCEPTED BECAUSE I REPENTED AND DID NOT WANT TO FALL INTO SIN AGAIN, BUT AFTER WEDDING I FOUND OUT THAT MY HUBBY IS A ONE MINUTE MAN, IN FACT IS SO WORST THAT SOME TIMES I AM GIVING HIM HEADIE, HE WILL EJACULATE AND THAT WILL BE ALL, AND YOU A WOMAN I WILL BE BURNING IN DESIRE TO BE FUCKED BUT NO WAY HE IS OUT AND DONE, MOST TIME TO BE ABLE TO SLEEP AT LEAST I WILL USE ME HAND TO PAY WITH MYSELF TILL I COME. EVERY PRICE HAS THERE SACRIFICE, MY ADVISE NOW, DON'T CONFRONT THE LADY IN QUESTION, ALLOW HIM TO FINISH WHAT HE STARTED, BECAUSE CONFRONTING THAT LADY IS TANTAMOUNT TO SPOILING YOUR RELATIONSHIP, AND MAKING HIM FEEL INCOMPETENT TO HANDLE ISSUES IN THE HOUSE AS A MAN.
ReplyDeletePOSTER 2 PLEASE THE ONLY PERSON THAT CAN FIX YOUR ISSUES IS JESUS, THE HOLY SPIRIT TO BE PRESIDES THAT IS HIS MISSION FOR MAN, THERE IS DEVILISH URGE PUSHING YOU TILL HE GET YOU DESTROYED HE WILL NOT REST DONT GIVE THE DEVIL A CHANGE. I ONCE LIVED THAT LIFE EVEN AFTER BEEN MARRIED BUT I FASTED FOR DAYS PRAYED TO GOD, I CANT TELL DH THE MARRIAGE WILL END, BUT I AM SURE JESUS HAS FORGIVEN ME. AND ANYTIME THE URGE COME I REBUKE IT AND BEGIN TO SPEAK IN TONGUES. AND TODAY BE HIS GRACE THE LORD IS BEEN AWESOME, YOU TOO CAN BE FREE IS ALL BOUT YOUR DETERMINATION. MAY THE LORD HELP YOU. " PRAY THAT THE LORD DESTROY EVERY LOST OF THE EYES AND FLESH, THAT EVER FORCES TO RIDICULE YOUR GLORIOUS DESTINY, AND DIGNITY LET THEM COME UNDER THE JUDGEMENT THRONE OF GOD. I WANT TO USE THIS MEDIUM TO INVITE FOR THE ON GOING SHILOH 2015, COME TO WINNERS SATELLITE CENTER OR CANANLAND OTA, YOU SHALL COME BACK TESTIFYING. GOD BLESS YOU
What you need is deliverance and prayers @ poster 2 and for poster 1 better shut your damn mouth and stop snooping.
ReplyDeleteNawa o. The people on this blog and their self righteous ways. Nne, you are addicted to sex and all you need is a good therapist and self control. You have to work on your self esteem too, you are beautiful and smart and more than just sex. You are like most Nigerian men. I am all for having good sex when ever you want and being in charge of your pussy and orgasm but not with multiple partners because of STDs and unwanted pregnancies. 2016 should be your year of abstinance, give your self 3-6 months so you can control your urge. Go online and look for books and articles on sex addiction and how to handle it. Limit your sexual partners to one man that you love and that also has a good libido. All you need is God's guidance, forget all this deliverance rubbish. Sexual addiction is like any other addiction e.g alcohol or smoking. May God see you through Hun. Xo Poster 2
ReplyDeleteShe is a nympho..no matter how hard she tries she can't stop it. It is incurable. The only thing that can help her is prayers..no amount of therapy can help a nympho. As she is..she can sleep with anything called man even mad one sef. She needs prayer
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ReplyDeleteyou are fake .
i will get back to you
Poster 1: confront her and loose your Lee boo to her.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: no advise
@Poster 1 i don't have any comment for you now. But as for poster 2 u've got to work on yourself, if not it would affect your future if it has not started affecting it.
ReplyDeleteWhere is 'money makes women fuck a lot of guys '
ReplyDeletePoster 1 now is time to trust him more and face ur preparation. But still you can be wise and kip ur fingers crossed but let him know d next time won't be so easy for him. Ignore the lady, don't bother talking to her but u can at least give le boo a second chance.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 why do i have this feeling i know you? Are you a calabar babe
ReplyDeletePoster 1; don't confront the girl. if u do, u might loose him. if he realised u snooped also, he wont trust you around.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile, always keep intouch with him daily. calling, texting, chatting etc. dat way u can monitor his every move. then pray that God keep ur relationship. Get him to be more serious with God, more involved in church also.
Its only God's grace that can keep pple free from sexual immorality.
Let ur purpose of abstinence be for the Love of Christ and obeying hi. that way, he (God) will step in and fight for u.
Poster2 : by strength shall no man prevail. First of all, give ur life to Christ. Ask the holy spirit to deliver you from this fornication. wat it means is that u r going to live a celibate life. No having boyfriends/sex partners.
then, get involve in ur church, in studying the bible and praying, while constantly resisting the devil in this regard.
Even wen u fall, rise again.
P1 stay ur lane t0 av0id st0ry dat t0uch
ReplyDeleteP2 d0 u kn0w h0w rich u c0uld av been if u were d0ing it f0r m0ney? Dia aint n0 different between u and a h0e 000h wait dia is dey are actually m0re b0uyant dan y0u. Y give f0r free na? U l0ve t0 fuck den fuck f0r a better reas0n bik0.
P1, thank God your guy has ended it with the babe, please work on it to make it better. P2, thus time I need Jesus to fix it for you guys
ReplyDeletePoster 1, all dis ur no sex when you were doing it before with him I don't really understand. Its ur choice nways, but since ur getting married to him soon, whats d point. You beta think 2wce, this girl can find a way to get to ur man, and say good bye sex, from that she will tell ur hubby she's pregnant. Like Toke and Maje's baby mama. I don't have advice for you, you know what is best for ur relationship.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, i think you need deliverance. Someone from ur village is chasing you. You beta be careful so you don't carry HIV one day. Must you sleep with any thing in trouser just cos you feel like. A lot of women get attracted to men on a daily basis, doesn't mean you need to sleep with them. I hope you don't find ur father or brother attractive one day and sleep with them. You have realll issues. Pls leave dis guy and ur friend u introduced, ur own too much. Going after every available dick. When i was single, there are times i wasn't in a relationship, and i kept myself for like 1yr or so before i met my hubby. Sex is sweet believe me, but when you start behaving like a female dog(bitch) on heat. You needs to check urself
Poster ain't pretty that's y she ain't that confidence so she feels by sleeping with guys shows she's being appreciated. The truth is if u ever hear wat those guys say behind ur back after sleeping with u u'll realize u need to appreciate urself for who u r and work on urself by urself n won't need anybody validate u before u think u r someone I seen girls like u b4. If u don't contain it now b4 u know I'll spiral down the path u wish u never would. Obviously u r still young now so dats y u ain't seeing it dat way.my advice is to break up from every guy even ur so called present guy and rediscover urself.
ReplyDeletePoster ain't pretty that's y she ain't that confidence so she feels by sleeping with guys shows she's being appreciated. The truth is if u ever hear wat those guys say behind ur back after sleeping with u u'll realize u need to appreciate urself for who u r and work on urself by urself n won't need anybody validate u before u think u r someone I seen girls like u b4. If u don't contain it now b4 u know I'll spiral down the path u wish u never would. Obviously u r still young now so dats y u ain't seeing it dat way.my advice is to break up from every guy even ur so called present guy and rediscover urself.
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ReplyDeleteThis is for Poster 2, I have not been in your shoes but I think I have been in your socks. I have slept with guys because my self confidence was low. I didnt have a job at the time. So I slept with a top management guy in telecoms and the MD of a booming company (both unmarried). I didnt want to date them, just wanted to have sex and have conversations with them. The truth is, sex doesnt fill the void. You need to be self fulfilled. Thats what you need. At the moment, i work and im doing very well, i dont even have sex with my boyfriend. I got my selfconfidence back but not in sex. Find out what is missing and work at getting it instead of sex. Dont forget that God fixes all. He will help you find your way. Wish I could get your number.
Very good comment.
DeleteJess fix poster 2
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ReplyDeleteCulled SDK comment Perception is everything, lots of times people behave to you based on how they perceive yourself, work on your self esteem. Make this confessions out loud in front of a mirror..
Gift Edition, © 1997 by Word Ministries, Inc. Rebuilding My Self-Esteem
• I am a new creature predestined for greatness. (II Corinthians 5:17)
2 Corinthians 5:17King James Version (KJV) 17 Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.
• I am a child of God fully accepted by the Father. (John 1:12; Ephesians 1:6) John 1:12King James Version (KJV)12 But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name: Ephesians 1:6King James Version (KJV) 6 To the praise of the glory of his grace, wherein he hath made us accepted in the beloved.
Gett the complete in bv comments
God loves you and blesses you daily. Evit from triggers occupy your mind withe the word which a two edged sword. Speak cry remember when you a child and you wanted to get your way hold God's garment . Sexual perversion is stubborn you too be relentless
Poster 1: Please, forget it. Let sleeping dogs lie.
ReplyDeletePoster 2..my cousin was a sex addict but overcame her's by surrendering her life to God.. and asking him to change her for him alone can do that..
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Sweetie, just let the matter be. Atleast you have confirmed that bae did what he said he would.
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