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 DUMPED AND IGNORED

Hello Stella,

I am an ardent reader of your blog especially the 'Chronicles', 'Saturday andSunday Laughs' and 'The Motivating and Inspiring Section'.

Well, based on Monday's narrative, I decided to drop what happened to me on Monday. I saw my ex in the park, she quickly put on her Sunglasses, I couldn't have mistaken her. I waited for her to come closer, when she did I called her but the poor girl called my Bluff and just walked past. I later sent her a text that he action wasn't necessary.

Rewind to few years back, she was my flame-my second girlfriend. I loved her, got her a banking job as a full staff and did so many things for her but on 30th November, 2013 she dumped me on phone. It was the most callous thing any body should do to someone he/she claims to love. 

I had passed the night in her place when I visited my parents because she lives in the same city. The next morning she travelled to Lagos while I returned to my base - that was it. She stopped taking my calls even when I called to confirm if she arrived safely. It continued for weeks till I reached out to her best friend who confirmed she had another guy and that she said I haven't had sex with her(we met in Church oo),  She doesn't know what I do(on several occasions we have discussed while am at the construction site) and that I planned traveling abroad(when I wanted to go meet my siblings outside but I later cancelled it ). 

But are they good enough reasons to dump 'the love of ones life' over the phone? Well, the next 8 months were horrible because it was difficult believing another man has taken her. I went on sabbatical on anything relationship till my mind was free to love again and I met 'my bond girl' last year. I proposed after 6 months and we are getting married soon. 

The problem is why she's trying to pretend like I offended her. We dated for sometime but I refused to commit because of her lies and dishonesty. If she tells you she is in Warri, she is actually in kano. She tells you something today and you ask tomorrow to follow up but she denies it seriously mist especially when it relates to her family.

 I kept telling her because I didn't know how to commit to such attitude but she never changed. She was a CONFIRMED Virgin that I was packaging for our wedding but she left for another man which she even confirmed after he dumped her.

Please, put your red pen to use. How am I supposed to apologize to her when she dumped me and how can I tell her am getting married since she doesn't take my calls and avoids me. I just feel I owe her that right to inform her.

Hmmmmmmm