A 39-year-old woman, Bose Ayinde, has asked an Igando Customary Court in Lagos to dissolve her 18-year-old marriage with her husband, Nureni, accusing him of abandoning her and children for 10 years, after getting a job in Owerri.
Bose told the court that all efforts to reach her husband proved abortive and that she had been the one paying the house rent and children school fees since his disappearance.
The petitioner said since her husband stopped communicating with her 10 years ago, he neither called to ask for the children’s well-being nor visited.
She said: “My husband abandoned me and the children after he got a job in Owerri 12 years ago. He stopped calling me 10 years ago. All efforts to reach him proved abortive.
Testifying before the court’s President, Mr. Adegboyega Omilola, Bose accused her husband, who was not in court, of lack of care.
She added that whenever she goes to husband’s parents in Abeokuta, Ogun State, for assistance, they would tell her to “wait your husband will soon come.”
Vanguard cullage.
10years? He must have remarried....wicked man!!!
She's crazy to have waited a decade.
ReplyDeleteAs in ehen! Was she hoping for the man to return? Is her name patience? Mtewww rubbish.
Delete10years! Gosh I wish I have enuf to help her out! Tufiakwa for some men. If u won't think of ur wife, can't u think of ur kids who are ur flesh and blood?
DeleteHow is she crazy?
DeleteShe has lived with him for 8yrs b4 this
So she woulda just bolted off?
Have u been in WAITING for anything in ur life before? Hoping and praying???
Learn to walk in people's shoes before rushing to drop ur opinion...
Stella please don't blame the poor man. Those yellow girls for Owerri don use f#ck disable the guy. The guy has been quarantined and is therefore isolated from his family while the Owerri "chickitos" are jejely downloading his money.
DeleteInstead of his wife sitting down and folding her hands, she should have employed the services of a superior power to hack into the domain of those yellow girls and recover her husband's body system.
Or maybe they used him for money rituals.. igbo thingz
DeleteWell she needed that for a good case in court as seven years is the maximum time to be apart when modes of recociliation has failed
DeleteWow 10 good years.....?? My dad deserve an award for being there for his children and wifes.#polygamy
ReplyDeleteIt's wives
Delete# thank me later
Hmmmm
DeleteShe tried abeg!!!
Can't deal.....hope the man is ok shall
Shuoooo!!!! Amazing!!
ReplyDeleteOwerri girls have taken him away....trust me. ~ Blunt Truth
DeleteLet's be objective her.
ReplyDeleteThere is something wrong somewhere.
No man can abandon a good wife for no good reason.
Maybe
She doesn't 've good manners.Or
She maybe quarrelsome.
Or that She became FAT.
Lol. Joker
Delete*here
DeleteFOWL
DeleteGood manners right
DeleteWhat abt his children? They are quarrelsome too right?
For once let me talk to u wit my id
DeleteShut up
Dissing fat women doesn't increase ur bank account or give u blood
Mechie onu gi
Thank God you didn't say "querulous" today.
DeleteLmao
DeleteYou are so predictable!...
Sharrap there....a if she's bad ,the children too much suffer.you must be very irresponsible
DeleteDumb comment...Be making comments like you don't live in this society. I helped someone whose husband had abandoned her for 8 years with a divorce not too long ago. And what do u mean by "she became fat"? Is that a disease? I'm sure your brain is under your shoes...
DeleteYou are not being objective at all
I can see that you are really stupid...Ewu
DeleteChoi abim brain under shoe. Kikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikiki.kwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakw
DeleteLol
DeleteU lack decorum. Fool
DeleteWomen ought to be careful the kinda men they settle with
DeleteOne that reasons like this, I smh*
Lmao. @Flora.So,u are one of my anonymous attackers.Na waah.
DeleteAre they sure he is still alive ? 10years!
ReplyDeleteIf he was dead, she would have heard, I'm sure. His family don't see, worried and that can only be because he's still alive and I'm sure they know why he abandoned this other family.
DeleteSmh....God keep my husband safe from all these women oh
Ukwu nwanyi Owerri av taken her husband. Pele
ReplyDeleteAbi o!
DeleteThis man is wicked. It is well
ReplyDeleteBut she's patient sha, I fitn't !!!
ReplyDeleteShe try to even wait up to 10year cos if na me. I no fit. 10yrs no be 10days. The court should grant her the divorce cos the woman don try infact she over try.
ReplyDeleteVery wicked somebody
ReplyDeleteBut wait.. What if he's dead? Just saying
And howz is this news?
ReplyDeleteAimoye husbands dat have abandoned their families!....she get time to wait 10yrs.
Odiegwu.
#mtcheeeew
Just d way ur bad atitude pursue ur yoruba husband. Mama zara.
DeleteJust d way ur bad atitude pursue ur yoruba husband. Mama zara.
DeleteSome people have no conscience
ReplyDeleteSTELLA! Una women and una conclusions na wa.
ReplyDeleteChai! Owerri gals have held the man,
ReplyDeleteBut then she should be sure the man is still alive.
His family would've been more worried than the offhand 'go and wait for your husband to come'...evil people. I'm sure they are hearing from the man and if he is their breadwinner, they won't want to reprimand him so he won't cut them off..
DeleteYoruba family members can maltreat their wives ehhhhh
Wait for what??
ReplyDeleteBut she never said she went looking for him once....
Only to his parent's place...
Issue dey o!
ReplyDeleteOh Chi m!
ReplyDeleteHow some men abandon their wives and kids is still very unfathomable to me.
Some men tho... May God help her.
ReplyDelete**Som Baby**
Na wa.
ReplyDeletewicked man. please the woman should go ahead with the divorce.
ReplyDeleteUmu Nwanyi Owerri Na ukwu sugar ha egbuola Onye ofe mmanu.
ReplyDeleteMaybe the man is dead
ReplyDelete10 whole years?? This Life
ReplyDeleteThat extreme. Ada owerri agba go ya egwu ukwu n'isi. Chai! There is God oh.
ReplyDeleteStella why must you say the man is wicked or has remarried, what if the poor man is dead and no one knows, 10 years is a long time now..
ReplyDeleteThen why would his parents keep saying "he's coming"? If he was missing or dead, they (both wife and his family) would be looking for him together. The fact that they keep saying he's coming means they are in contact with him and just don't want to deal with her. Lord knows what he's told them about her and the children. There definitely is more to the story
DeleteOr something bad has happened to him?
ReplyDeleteThe man has eaten Ofe Owerri. He has seen the difference of Ofe Mmanu and Ofe Owerri
ReplyDeleteHahhahaha
DeleteExactly,lmaooo
DeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteWoman even waited for too long.
Wicked man!! I pray the court tells him to pay for child support since he left!!! Such a wicked act and he needs to be punished for it. 10years
ReplyDeleteAhn Ahn
ReplyDeletepoor woman
Fellow Bv's please give me names of female nigerian celebs that have round face..does Anita okoye have a round face?
ReplyDeleteThelma Enemuwe
Deleteheartless man. it is certain he has gotten married to another woman.
ReplyDeleteWait for a man for 10 years b4 divorce. . She tried to have been this patient. ... 2 years no husband's call na divorce without waiting nah... marriage nor be do or die thing
ReplyDeleteChaii! The woman tried oo. 10 years no be 10 days.
ReplyDeleteFix it Jesu.....,,,,,
ReplyDeleteWoman should have moved on, long ago. Useless man shifted his obligations and ran, gosh what a coward.
ReplyDeleteLee70, av u been able to reconstruct ur face?
DeleteAlways feel sorry for u anytime I rembr dat ur face. Odikwa too somehow mehn
This Igando sef, na wah for that place.
ReplyDeleteHmmm...owerri girls don carry go
ReplyDelete10 years? She try
ReplyDeleteStella and her hasty conclusions. That man could be dead you know. Maybe she should start by going to look for her husband.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
God, this is nothing but wickedness......
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
How are we sure he really got a job in d first place??? Maybe all na format!!!
ReplyDeleteUnu amarala shi umu mgbogho egbu owerri ewerela iko dajie nwoke nu ukwu? Chaiiii.
ReplyDelete10years? What manner of husband. Either His family is not responsible like him or they are part of his new arrangement.
It's not fair o. Of na her sister?
Wicked world it is.
As nwamgboto Owerri i demand an apology ugbu ugbu.
Delete@Anony...hahaha. Ishi nini? Apolo gini?
ReplyDeleteEshim nyekwere gi apolo nganu, ma nlaghuru hie, ma mu etetekwele. Owu kpaa umu amakohia-akwakuma jiri adaji ge umu nwokhe ukwu na ezi Oronto. Azhii gbakwa!
Onwedighi otu anya unu gara ahuta dim.
Anony...you say what? Apology you say?
If I ever apologize to Owerri chics here, if I go to bed and sleep, make I no wake up. That's the way Amakohia babes dislodge men's waist by Oronto way in that city.
God forbid! Your eyes will not see my Hubby.
Anonymous 11:23 named Abim that helped someone get a divorce. Are you Abimbola Johnson? Yes, small world
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