I was like OMG OMG OMG OMG the first time i saw this pic..........
I am sorry but that hair up there is child abuse and those of you who make little beautiful girls carry this load on their head but scream off your head when your hear someone beat their child till that child fainted,YOU ARE GUILTY OF THE SAME THING!
Selah!
Tan leru ese? Let kids be kids please
ReplyDeleteSince we are on ds matter, why do parent do 1 hair per term for their daughters? Is that good parenting? Cos I want my kids to avoid children who there parent do ds to them.
DeleteGosh the mother who said this should be done to her kids is evil. How can they even turn their heads when I'm a full grown adult and I can't carry such a heavy load on my head
DeleteLmao.......Which kyn load them kari give this small gals na......
DeleteEven hawkers never carry this kyn load....
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DeleteIf she wants, she'll plait it when she grows up! Their scalp is still too soft for this ish
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Never. Wouldn't do this to my daughter even as she's old enough now. I see mothers fixing weave on their daughters and I shudder. Allow the girls be girls abeg. Settle with the little barbie dolly hair and ribbons. That's enough.
DeleteWhen I see kids with hair extensions I get angry. If the child does not have good hair please cut it.
DeleteMy niece does not even like someone to touch her hair except her mum and her mum does not even have that time so she's on low cut.
This one is pure wickedness!!as an adult I still do yell at my hairdresser cos my scalp is just too soft..how much more this young girl!!wait oo!!are they crying posing or smilling?
DeleteWickedness of d most high!
ReplyDeleteI rem wen I and. My sister was like 6-8yrs! My mum wld take us to d twins @ surulere to braid our hair, 1million Braids! Suffering and smiling!
This reminded me of when I was growing up,went to a baptist school and all the hair style they call are alway rubber style,with that ugly wicked hairdresser always using cutting comb to pinch my head,I alway go home with tears and headaache and my mum never always believe me when I reported her instead she will be bragging to her friend about how my hair is so long so I had to help moiself..saved my christmas money and lo and behold,went off to the barber shop an cut eveything..lmao*mum saw me and started crying*omo yi ti ba temi je*till today if I see that hair dresser,na hiss I dey take greet her
DeleteMy sister and I.
DeleteThose are too much weave. Look at the posture on the girl in pink. In fact my neck is hurting looking at this picture.
ReplyDeleteI pity the small one pass. The hairdresser must be a really wicked witch! See as the pikin set head like tortoise and I'm sure she had support behind her
ReplyDeleteThe mother of this kids is wholly to blame for this nonsense. This is how u know women that had gorimapa and ringworm on it as kids children. Na all the hair them no make then dem go make sure their pikin do am now
Pure Child abusé ! Mon dieu. Bonjour Stella from Paris. Nwaowerri.
ReplyDeleteStella I agree with you o! Ezigbo child abuse. The load is too heavy. Be it wool, extentions or attachment that looks this big on a child's head is too much.
ReplyDeleteLord have mercy what's that on their head!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is too much. Who did this????
DeleteHelp me, the father of my child left me because his mother hates Igbo.
Some will put make up on their toddlers. Terrible.
ReplyDeleteOverload,i wonder hpw they expect the kids to sleep well at night.natural hair or wool is better for kids.
ReplyDeleteWool sef dey heavy, no kidding! Best is natural hair weaves...na all dese fashionista mamas dey do am
DeleteHow pikin wan take get sense with such load weighing the brain down??? Some mothers sha, are u teaching her to carry problems already??
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahahahaha @how pikin wan take get sense... lmao! Na gorimapa levels for me till I enter college and na my papa be my barber that year. My dad will tell you that any child plaiting her hair no go sabi book but shakara. White prints please don't make me laugh this afternoon.
DeleteHahahaha @white prints ur comment cracked me up
DeleteLooks like it was a struggle to pick the younger one's hair as the parting shows she has very little hair. What happened to side buns, high buns for little girls with a nice little ribbon or hair band???This is ridiculous. Looks heavy too.
ReplyDeleteThat's too much load even on an adult how much more Lil kids.
DeleteSome women turn their kids to accessories in the name of fashion.
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Ahan na... na wa o.
ReplyDeletethat's how one Xmas period, all in the bid to make her baby fashionable, this mother made "Rihanna" on her baby(less than 6months) that kind of Rihanna where they would 1st of all use bandage or net, then use adhesive bond to add the extensions.
Itss too much, let babies be babies joor, they would grow up and do grown up stuff .
She must be a crazy woman
DeleteI don't believe this story.
DeleteNuvi!!! This lie dey fear me.Jesus is Lord!
DeleteNuvi nor dey lie at all. Come my villa for Igbo ukwu during Christmas and see wetin these women do their babies. You go know say this Rihanna na Small case. On Xmas morning for church, you go see pikin from back she look like old short woman. When she turn you go see pain for little baby face. All for sake of "baby fashionista"
DeleteNo be lie o. I don see baby less than a year with braids
DeleteChai,this is punishment.
ReplyDeleteI even hate seeing little girls under 5 wearing braids, what happened to nice weaves and then use those cute beads at the tip
ReplyDeleteAnother one is little girls wearing heels WTF there's a time for everything, allow that girl be a child when she's old enough she ll decide if she wants all these things or not.
Interesting, dis kain hairstyle sef go cos distraction 4 class
ReplyDeleteLack of sleep join,as in Why evils? This children are suffering in d disguise of beauty...
DeleteLmaooooooo!
ReplyDeleteThis one pass ibu-agbor
My wife make mistake do this kind hair for my daughter, I'd so shave her hair and my daugters hair together...... Make we all go Amber rose.
ReplyDeleteLol.
DeletePoor children, I believe they were forced to even smile.
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DeleteHahahahahahaha
DeleteWhite prints am telling the quarrel no go get part 2
DeleteHahahaa..
DeleteWP you're a man? Oh my
DeleteChild abuse na understatement sef......haba ontop fashion abi wetin....Hissssssss!! #LynxxGal#
ReplyDeleteI think the hair is 2 heavy on them biko!
ReplyDeleteWhich kind load be this?
They are cute btw..
I feel so sorry for the little one in Pink.
ReplyDeleteI don't know what's wrong with blacks I swear
ReplyDeleteThis is a No plz.
Exactly no white man would do this to their kids.
DeleteI agree with you
ReplyDeleteBut this is too much na. It will even be heavy for me sef.
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Jeez, this is too heavy naa, especially on the younger kid. She can't even keep her head up. Choi!
ReplyDeleteI don't support this for kids.... I pity their scalp
ReplyDeleteEndtime mother
ReplyDeleteYou don join one trillion lol
DeleteEnd time hair
DeleteThis jasmine are u crushing on eka
DeleteNo mind the idiot Jasmine.
DeleteIf Eka wan crush her she no go look back sef.
I shook my head the first time I saw this pix. Some mothers tho
ReplyDeleteLmaooooooo!
ReplyDeleteThis one pass ibu-agbor
There mother and hairdresser should be persecuted for child abuse.
ReplyDeleteLoool. I love braids for Africa, but I would not even try this
DeleteHow dramatic Stella
ReplyDeleteI don't know how some mothers cope with making their daughter(s) go through such pains and burden all in the name of making them look beautiful.
ReplyDeleteI always cringe whenever I'm at a saloon and I see a little girl whom ghana weaving is being done for.
I can't even stand the pains from ghana weaving myself and I don't know how they cope.
When I have my daughters, I'll just stick to simple weaving and braids for them.when they grow into teenagers,they can then do whatsoever they so desire.
Hahahahahaha
ReplyDeleteThis pic is so funny
Especially the little girl
Hahahahaha
When u see d hair on some kid's hair,u wonder if it was their biological mothers that took them to d salon...
ReplyDeleteThe one that hurts me d most is when u see wool braids on d hair if a 3mnths old baby..do u want to kill that child?
And this one that xmas is coming,we will see new ones...pls mothers be careful...
This isn't right..thus is Child abuse...
See these kids can't even raise their head right...
Saw the pics too on instagram and couldn't help but scream too..This is so common in our environment..All in the name of fashion..I can imagine the headache these children will be feeling with this 20kg load on their immature brain..hmm..God help us..
ReplyDeleteThose kids r suffering & smiling.
ReplyDeleteLol @ suffering & smiling
DeleteI even doubt the authencity of the pix... Like why will a mum want to suffer a kid like this
ReplyDeleteIts 'authenTIcity' :)
DeleteThis one na *Ibu anyi dan dan*
ReplyDeleteThis is child abuse, don't tell me otherwise.
Oh dear! See how the little one is carrying her head.
They are in serious pain trying to fake a smile for mommy dearest.
ReplyDeleteWalahi! Flogging is highly recommended for their mother and the hair weaver.
Too much show off these days
ReplyDeleteWhy cant people act normal n simple
I must belong, even children are involved
Smh
Even as an adult, I can't carry that heavy load on my head. Not to talk of the poor Lil kids.
ReplyDeleteIt's uncalled for. Too much for kids to carry. I don't even know what to call it.
ReplyDeleteDis one is way too much. Maybe it was for a movie role......
ReplyDeleteChai! The mama don finish these children. For wetin naa. Headache wey go worry these kids no go be for here. Too bad sha.
ReplyDeleteHehehe, by the time they loosen these, all their hair go don fall join the attachment due to force of gravity. Lol
See as the kids bend their heads in pain and still trying to force out smiles.
Is a No,No for kids.
ReplyDeleteOver load. Who did that to them? Mtchwwwwww..
ReplyDeleteChoi this is too much abeg
ReplyDeleteO gini bu ifea. But the hairstyle fine.. For an adult
My cousin is guilty of dis nonsense. Shakara no be by force now
ReplyDeleteI swear this is child abuse! Headache for life
ReplyDeleteWhat???!!!
ReplyDeleteTheir mother(s) should be severelly flogged.
Ouch! Oucher!! Ouchest!!!
ReplyDeleteWho does dis to a (her) child?
This is madness raised to power infinity.
Even me wey be an adult I can't endure dis type of load on my head let alone hurting a child this much.
Poor poor kids!
Ndo nu!
They are paying for their grandparents punishment...... load of life...
ReplyDeleteCarrying the loads of many generations.... Buh the parents are cruel sha
What a heavy duty! See the way they are bending.
ReplyDeleteToo much and ugly, and the pain is only imagined
ReplyDeleteHorrible.
ReplyDeleteWow the hair is too much na
ReplyDeleteThose are Havana crotchet braids, best suited for an adults.
ReplyDeleteWhy can't some mothers let their kids grow like normal children? I can imagine the neck pain associated with this hairstyle.
When I was little, hair sectioned into three or four with those colourful plastics (I called them humpty dumpty) were appropriate, and very cute for children.
There are many other different styles, which includes braiding the child's hair and using her hair to create very beautiful updos.
I'm also of the opinion that mothers should not relax their daughters' hair, till they are old enough to decide whether they want to or not.
That's part of teaching the girl child to love herself in whatever package she comes.
Hardly do you see kids brought up that way, having confidence or esteem issues.
Sadly, we have a lot to learn in that aspect.
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DeleteIf the hair strong put conditioner
Shebi, it's cos these days even pry schools now allow any yeye hair. In my own days, they call hairstyles for us and God bless ur soul, let ur mum make anything contrary for u, u will lose it in class in front of d teacher. No excuses and still chop cane on top.
DeleteIf it's not ur bday, u are not even allowed braids at all
Wickedness in motherly places...the girls are so uncomfortable
ReplyDeleteThe first time I saw this pix, I was like wtf. Looking at the lil one you would notice how heavy the hair is on her.
ReplyDeleteMy friends daughter has a very long and full hair and I have tried telling her to cut it a bit but she is adamant. Mind you the girl is barely 3yrs and her hair is way past her buttocks( she is Biracial), her mum finds joy in experimenting wit d lil girls hair weekly and I am tired of talking to her about it.
Some mothers need to be flogged.
Is it your child? Cut her daughter's hair just to please you? How is the hair hurting the child? Jealous goat
DeleteWhy should she cut it?
DeleteI smell jealousy.
Haba, if it's her natural hair then that's OK. The weight of ur natural hair can never be a burden. I'm biracial too and I have really long hair, and so does my daughter. Managing it as a child was bliss. Once it's packed neatly u are good to go.
DeleteStella don't worry, they won't carry it up to a week when they'll start pulling it. But dat twist ain't heavy, it's actually light.
ReplyDeleteWhat is wrong with some mothers, why we they let their daughter's endure cruel and unusual punishment. Look at the strain on their necks, this my cause a damage to this little girls. God I just feel like slapping their mother, this is child abuse!!!!
ReplyDeleteLol. The second girl cannot raise her head well.
ReplyDeleteIts wrong for the mother to allow them carry such load on their heads. Haba! Does she want to remove their necks?
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See how the younger one is bending her neck
ReplyDeleteThis thing is too heavy for an adult talkmoreof of for a kid
I feel for this beautiful kids
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DeleteSo my baby just turned 2 last week and I make bold to say I have never braided nor attached beads on her hair. Her hair is soft and curly and free from relaxer like mine, I take abosulute care of it with completely natural products and oils like carrot oil,avocado oil,coconut which I take out time to extract at home! Now I get pissed off when people demand I braid her hair and attach multicolored beads to make her"beautiful" . And some ask if I intend to send her to school in January with her hair undone? Well, if the school refuse to accept my baby because her hairb isn't braided then their loss! Why would I let a toddler cry for hours in the name of saloon time? Mshewwwww
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ReplyDeleteThis is living ur hair fantasy on your child..... Pure child abuse.
ReplyDeleteDon't get moms who do this.and d thing is that dese extensions don't make d kids any cuter.if not anything,it makes dem older.
ReplyDeleteStella I agree with you 100%. I shake my head in amazement each time I see them at the salon, cringing and in pains. Their mum's are there saying "sorry my princess, you want fanta?".
ReplyDeleteLmao at you want fanta?
DeleteLwkmd. So true.
DeleteEnd time hair
ReplyDeleteWhy will a mother do this to a child? Making the child look way older than she is. Na wa o.
ReplyDeleteInnocent children.They were even force to fake a smile.
ReplyDeleteNa real child abuse ooo
ReplyDeleteI honestly detest parents who do these and I know this Christmas kids would have to endure the torture.
ReplyDeleteThe ones who would give their kids high heel shoes and handbag to carry while trekking are the worst.
Why put a child through that for godssake.
Pikin wey fine fine no need for too much serenre.
I have taken out an expensive hair just a day after making it because it hurt so much and I couldn't sleep.
STOP the abuse e Jim chukwu yo unu.
*these things.
DeleteKids don't wanna be kids anymore
DeleteThey look so cute.. l love it!
ReplyDeleteAs in my thoughts exactly, this is wickedness oh!! That thing looks heavy ehn..... the little ones face says it all
ReplyDeleteTheir mother must be smoking dried ewedu
ReplyDeleteThis is wickedness biko.
ReplyDeleteWhy would a mother do this to these innocent kids that don't know anything.
As an adult, I can't carry this type of braid.
I know someone would come and say the braid is light. But how would they sleep at night?
See the look on their faces?
Stella,thank you so much for this post.one thing I have noticed about this blog is that,ones an corrective topic is raised on this blog,Fiam all "members of bv "becomes saints,so who is guilty?
ReplyDeleteThis is too much na, I can't carry this thing on my head. Na wa 4 some mothers
ReplyDeleteWhat good example are you showing to this children? Is this a Godly way of training children.Please is too early for this. May God help you.
ReplyDeleteThis is wicked and child abuse of the century !
ReplyDeleteNah Nah.
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure dis r Nigeria kids...
The Nigeria mums I knw will Neva do dis to der lovelies!
Smh
Wow! This is not nice at all. I wonder how they sleep at night.
ReplyDeleteThis is too much now.
ReplyDeleteCome to my area of Lagos this Christmas and see little girls on the streets looking like Nollywood witches with blond/red/blue weave on and braids. Told one woman last year that her daughter looked ugly with her hairdo, she never talk to me since then.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahaha
DeleteMen they are going to have neck pains ...
ReplyDeletePoor kids!
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ReplyDeletenso ke eyen edue
ekot emi uyai?
Abasi enyong emi adahare ono eka ndito emi enama uto ibak emi ke ibuot npkri ndito emi.
Stella abeg permit as i see dis all my ingrish for head esop.
Its very bad ,I can't make my daughter go thru such burden.
ReplyDeletei showed my daughter the pix and ask her if she will like to make the hair for xmas.
ReplyDeleteshe said God forbid.
Nooooo, they are suffering this lil kid
ReplyDeleteThe look on d small girl tho, their mother need to be jailed.
This is absolute wickednes, all these mothers taking their children to make heavy braids and relax their hair are wicked.
ReplyDeleteNot only hair issue sef. Other issues like putting too much jewelry on a child is another issue I have. And also for little boys, some mothers grow their hair and put stud earrings on them...boys o. I'm talking Nigerian mothers and not Americans o. I look and wonder what they hope to achieve. Some think that by that people will think they are rich or are westernized. Forgetting that the way ur children appear represents u as a mother. Oh, and the down side are those women who'll dress themselves up nicely while their children will appear very dirty and unkempt. That's a story for another day.
ReplyDeleteNo one is even talking about the lipstick they are wearing! These are just kids, someone please tell their mom not to live her childhood fantasy vicariously through them. Rme
ReplyDelete-Me!
That's why i love northern parents in situations like this hair issue,the female kids plait their natural hair & it's very beautiful,though some add wool or attachment but it's very rare.We in south west $ south west don turn Americana overnight.
ReplyDeleteAll I see is torture.
ReplyDeleteHmmm... interesting! Have you thought about kids that actually want their hair like this? I'm not saying it's ok. It absolutely isn't, but sometimes it might not be the mum insisting they have their hair done a certain way. My daughter is going to be four this week and whenever the hair stylist comes to make her hair she says "I want it long like Elsa's"... of course I tell the lady to make kinky twists for her cos it lasts longer but nothing close to Elsa's length. Some mums don't know how to say no so would give in to their daughter's request.
ReplyDeleteWhat does a child know? That's why you are the adult, the parent!! You don't give in to all demands? Even if they cry for itcos you're supposed to know what's best. IJS
DeleteTheir mum is not well at all. In my time the highest we did was packing gel and fine weaving styles. The way some mothers experiment with their daughters' hair is annoying, all in the name of fashion. There's time for everything. God knows my daughter's hair won't smell relaxer till she finishes secondary school and decides what she wants.
ReplyDeletewhat happened to koloba, suku, patewo, and other traditional hairstyle with beads patterned with it, it is always cute on kids............. this picture is part of what is wrong with our generation. mothers building insecured kids........
ReplyDeleteyou can tell this is single parenting...AKA BABY MAMAS .....WALKS AWAY SINGING CYNTHIA MORGAN'S VOICE
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