The family of Christopher Okafor Onanwa in Umuoba Akabor village, Mbaukwu, Awka South Local Government Area, Anambra State have been in sorrow for the past forty years.Four out of the seven children born in the family have been blind from their childhood.
MRS OKAFOR WITH FOUR OF HER KIDS. |
To make matters worse, the mother of the blind children, Mercy Okafor, is now paralysed, following complications that arose after she had an injection.
Several years ago when Mercy got married to her heartthrob, Christopher, hopes were high on how they would live happily thereafter and raise kids that would in turn take care of them in their old age.
The arrival of the first child, Henry, a boy brought enormous joy to the family but trouble began soon after the birth of the second child, Chidiebere, a girl, who had what seemed then like a slight sight challenge and family attributed it to measles which was rampant at the time.
Somebody advised that she should be taken to the eye hospital in Kano. Frantically, the family ran to that place for solution. But after all efforts, she went totally blind. It was the same story for the 3rd born, Uchenna and two others Nkechinyere and Kaodilichukwu.
“Greater part of my motherhood has been spent on taking care of the blind children,” their mother laments.
As Mrs. Okafor told Sunday Sun, prior to the problem that afflicted her children, no member of their family was born blind or had ever gone blind. This fact left her wondering what could have caused the problem for her children. She is now a widow having lost her husband in 2001.
Her voice quivering as she struggled to stop herself from crying. She said:
“I had seven children, namely, Henry, Chidiebere, Uchenna, Ekenedilichukwu, Nkechi, Ifeanyi and Kaodilichukwu. While Henry, Ekene and Ifeanyi are free, the other four are completely blind and we have suffered terribly for the past 40 years.
“While I was healthy, I was the one running from pillar to post seeking for help on how to train and take care of the children. But I started having my own health challenge after some years until I was finally demobilised in 2012. Since then, I’ve been permanently confined to the wheelchair and the bed where I eat, pass urine and go to toilet.
“While I was healthy, I was the one running from pillar to post seeking for help on how to train and take care of the children. But I started having my own health challenge after some years until I was finally demobilised in 2012. Since then, I’ve been permanently confined to the wheelchair and the bed where I eat, pass urine and go to toilet.
“I was given an injection in a hospital which I suspect had either expired or had serious reactions on my system leading to paralysis of my two legs. I was at Amaku General Hospital, Awka for two weeks before my transfer to Nnamdi Azikiwe University Teaching Hospital, Nnewi, where I stayed for seven months, without recovering the use of my legs. I suffered from bed sore with serious wounds and the hospital fixed a urine bag and catheter on my system which I’ve carried since then. We tried all we could for the blind children.”
In the quest to rehabilitate the children, Mercy said the children were taken to Oji River, Enugu State, through the assistance of public-spirited individuals, where they were taught how to read and write. The family struggled to see two of them pass out from secondary school while the other two dropped out.
“The last one, Kaodilichukwu was in school when I broke down in sickness and that has been where we are since then. My daughter, Ekene is the only eye in the family now. She is the one who takes care of the five of us at home while her own future has been mortgaged because of our condition,” she further lamented.
The only sighted lady in the family, Ekene Okafor in a brief chat with Sunday Sun corroborated her mom’s earlier assertion that the problem of her brother and three sisters has put her in complete servitude.
“Taking care of four blind people and a bedridden mother is not easy. I used to be a petty trader but when my mother broke down, I had to close the shop. The first son of my family was involved in a ghastly road accident that nearly crippled him and in the process of treatment he lost all his fortune too.
Sometimes I ask God questions but I know that our Redeemer lives,” she said.
Adding their voice on the need for public spirited individuals and corporate bodies to assist the family in their predicament, the immediate past President General of Mbaukwu Town Union, Chief Omife. I. Omife and Chairman, Old Akabor Village Union, Sir Nwankwo Samuel told Sunday Sun that the problem of the Okafor family has been a long standing one that some grown up youths today in the village met the situation when they were born.
They noted that the family members are good people who don’t indulge in anything evil and never had issues with their neighbours or the community. They also disclosed that as community leaders, they have tried at their own level to assist the family by scouting for helpers on their behalf but the efforts can never be enough.
Those touched by the plight of the family and are moved to lend a helping hand can reach the family through Ekene Okafor on 07032150785 and or make monetary donation through the account of Jacintha Okafor (UBA account number 2077200008).
What a sad story!
Please help them with your widows mite if you can!
This is sad.
ReplyDeleteIt broke my heart to read this
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwww
DeleteBut what causes the blindness naaa?
the mother to my ex is blind tooo, the only hope for her then is that she's a government worker so she used all her salaries to do operations about 10 different eye operations.... strong woman!
DeleteOmg! Omg! Omg! Just when u think you've read it all.
DeleteThis totally broke me. There's no way this is passing me by. Pls let's try to donate wat we can no matter how little. I think this is d saddest I've read in a long while.
Paralyzed with four blind children?
ReplyDeleteIt's almost like the world is crashing on her.
Why do people suffer?
It troubles my heart to hear that people suffer.
God should just make this world sweet and smooth for us all.
None of us deserves to suffer.
As in...
DeleteSometimes, I wanna question God, but...
Quickie, I end up questioning him. I guess my fate isn't that strong.
DeleteAn enemy has done this!!!
DeleteOh my God! Just when You think you have problems then you hear some people's own and discover yours is still a child's play. May God help me to be a blessing to others.
ReplyDeleteI pray people come to your aid
Wow a very sad story.
ReplyDeleteVery sad indeed
DeleteThis story broke my heart
Kai, such sad story. God pls send help. Don't wanna imagine what dey are going thru.
DeleteSad story. May God put a smile in their lives in Jesus Name AMEN. God will bless all who lend a helping hand to this family. AMEN
ReplyDeletePastor tv Joshua where are you, u are needed in this matter, I challenge you to go restore their sight stop predicting a news, go restore their sight, shikena.
ReplyDeletePastor tv Joshua where are you, u are needed in this matter, I challenge you to go restore their sight stop predicting a news, go restore their sight, shikena.
ReplyDeleteLMAO OOOOOO
DeleteAnd I am lamenting of my lack. Father I thank you. I wish I could just make their problems go away. O God please help your children.
ReplyDeletePastor TB Joshua of synagogue church where are you, u are needed in this matter, I challenge you to go restore their sight stop predicting bad bad news, go restore their sight, shikena.
ReplyDeleteEeeyaaahh.....
ReplyDeleteMay the LORD see them through and send them there divine helpers in JESUS name Amen
Oh...so painful. God send help to this family.
ReplyDeleteWho could be against this family? How can a whole family be dealt with like this? This people needs serious deliverance and restitution
ReplyDeleteI agree. I see more spiritual that medical/physical problems
Delete*than
DeleteThey have bin delivered severally
DeleteSo sad a story.
ReplyDeleteSo disheartening to read such stories . Where are our religious leaders,pastors and the rest of them?All of you calling on prophet Tb Joshua,is he the only pastor in Nigeria?Where are the likes of pa Adeboye and Oyedepo,where are our reverend father's and bishops?Can't they also help the poor and needy?I want to give my widow's mite,but Stella help us to verify that account name and number, pls make sure that they get the money.Thanks
DeleteSo disheartening to read such stories . Where are our religious leaders,pastors and the rest of them?All of you calling on prophet Tb Joshua,is he the only pastor in Nigeria?Where are the likes of pa Adeboye and Oyedepo,where are our reverend father's and bishops?Can't they also help the poor and needy?I want to give my widow's mite,but Stella help us to verify that account name and number, pls make sure that they get the money.Thanks
DeleteAnonymous shut your ignorant mouth....what has adeboye and lye dept got to do with this? Fools like u look for every opportunity to insult men of God yet it's your type who frequent churches for one thing or the other...go to their churches and see what they do for the poor and needy before taking
DeleteI'm speechless..... Lord, I'm sorry for not been grateful for what I have.....
ReplyDeleteThis is too sad a story!
ReplyDeleteWhere is Mr okafor in this whole picture?
Anambra govt this is where you coming,even if it's 2kids take it up!
May God be there for them alwayz!
Mr. Okafor is dead.
DeleteYou didn't read the part where they said he's late
Delete*come in
DeleteRead it well!
DeleteLord!
ReplyDelete*sad sigh*
But have they gone for deliverance? Are they faithful christians?
What they need is total liberation from the shackles the devil bound them with.
And that can only come from God.
I pray they get the much needed help, financially and spiritually.
May God have mercy on them.
ReplyDeleteDis is sad....too sad. I couldn't read to d end. #1000 is money to these family..... No matter how big or small we should please help save a soul!
ReplyDeleteHeiyaa this is actually someone that needs tru help and not beggars on this blog whom their every organ is intact and still come here to beg
ReplyDeleteYesterday was baby walker as if their parents used walker during their own time
Who knows what todays own will be may be pant and bra.
Lmao kikikikiki
DeleteShut up! Ur busy body is bcoming 2much here.
DeleteAnonymous. If e dey pepper you too much for body, Drink rat poison or better still suck a dick
DeleteOMG!!! this family need serious prayer oh with the issues they have been having when they get the money it might eventually come to naught. Its obvious their enemies don't want to see them prosper. what a wicked world
ReplyDeleteGod heal them. Problems every where. Crying already
ReplyDeleteA very sad story.
ReplyDeleteOh nooo, I'm happy for them now cos I know help will come their way with this publicity.
ReplyDeleteWhy won't they have an account in the young lady's name? Why must it be a third party? They will not hand all the money over to them, trust me! So sad.
ReplyDeleteStella, have you sent your widows mite? Instead of sending money, organisations or anyone who can help, should take those children for some eye test, since they were not born blind, and see what can be done. i am not in support of giving them money, since it isn't going to them directly.
Oh God! I can imagine the stigma and pains. May they find help.
ReplyDeleteAs much as they need financial help, they also need the word of God. This is a deep spiritual problem I tell you. I will help with what I can. Babe God forgive me for complaining and not being grateful for what I have. Halloweth be your name!
ReplyDeleteI did my prescience in mgbaukwu. I remember Akabo hall was the only venue for parties. It was life in the bush. May they find their needed help. Amen
ReplyDeleteJesus! 4 out of 7 children blind? + mum paralyzed?? Omg,Wat a story?!... This broke my heart.. Chai!
ReplyDeleteLord, this family needs ur help & grace.
this kind problem
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
This is sad
ReplyDeleteVery saf
DeleteLord have mercy!
ReplyDeleteSeven children!!! Haven't we all learnt by now that the lighter, the better?? Oh Lord, remember your children and bless us with wisdom to manage our lives and prosperity to enjoy our stay on earth, Amen.
ReplyDeleteJust when you think you are going thru issues in life and life is not fair to u, wait until you hear the story of others then you start blessing God for your situation and life. How can such calamity be upon one family.
ReplyDeleteI don't want to think about the pains sorrows tears and struggle in this family.
God have mercy upon them, AMEN
So so sad,Lord pls make a way fr dem..wher there seems to be no way.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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I just cant imagine their pains i swear.... Am really sorry for them.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
May God send divine helpers to her.
ReplyDeleteMay God send divine helpers to her.
ReplyDeleteFATHER see them through(Amen).
ReplyDelete**Som Baby**
This is so sad! I pray they get all the help they need soon.
ReplyDeleteOh God!!!
ReplyDeleteWish I could really do something buh since I can not I think I'll just join pp in prayer for an helper to emerge.
God Save a Widow Please
sad...there might be a genetic defect that is yet to be identified
ReplyDeleteThis is very sad,may God Almighty send help their way both spiritually,materially and financially in Jesus mighty name...Amen
ReplyDeleteOooh Jesus
ReplyDeleteOh my God, I should appreciate you always. Look at what people have to go through!
ReplyDeleteWhat happened to family planning?!!!! Y wld she seeing that no 2 is blind continue to procreate? Such stories annoy me biko. Any one that can shld pls help but family planning is the way forward
ReplyDeleteWhat a sad story fr dis family..
DeleteLord have mercy & come to der aid..