I made a Lemonade outta the lemons thrown my way....
The choice is yours,stop the pity party on yourself!
Monday, November 02, 2015
Life Threw Lemons Your Way?...Make A Lemonade!
Please take out time to read this....I decided to post it after work time today.
I made a Lemonade outta the lemons thrown my way....
The choice is yours,stop the pity party on yourself!
I made a Lemonade outta the lemons thrown my way....
The choice is yours,stop the pity party on yourself!
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They laughed @ my dreams but I kept to myself,all I have to say is,look who's laughing now-i love this
ReplyDeleteThanks stella for this. I decided to open it at bed time cos that's the time I do a thorough check on myself. No better time to have this words of encouragement than now
DeleteBeen so depressed with my jobless life recently! Thanx stella, you hit the right button.
DeleteThanks Stellakork for dis words of encouragement.
ReplyDeleteYep! Mrs boring and Mr excuses never had a gathering like that!
ReplyDeleteI love these writeups
Believe in yourself that you can do better. My watchword every day
ReplyDeleteVery nice and inspiring.
ReplyDeleteAfter receiving d title "stella blog booo" mony maker suddenly receives Sense. Very very nice and truely inspiring.
DeleteLmao anony
DeleteStella thanks for this o!
ReplyDeleteLove yourself. Make peace with who you are and where you are at this moment in time. Listen to your heart. If you can't hear what it is saying in this noisy world, make time for yourself. Enjoy your own company. Let your mind wander among the stars. Try. Take chances. Make mistakes. Life can be messy and confusing a times, but it's also full of surprises. The next rock in your path might be a stepping stone. Be happy! When you don't have what you want, want what you have. Make do! That's a well kept secret of contentment. There aren't any shortcuts to tomorrow. You have to make your own way. To know where you are going is only a part of it. You need to know where you have been too. And if you ever get lost, don't worry cos the people who truly love you will find you.count on it. With all the goodness and grace inside of you, make life beautiful. Live while you live. Live and don't leave. Most importantly, believe.
I'm inspired, tnx
DeleteLook who is laughing now oh yea....
ReplyDeleteI dare to be best that I can be, oh yes it's a lot of effort, greatness has a price- am willing to pay that...
See you at the top..wink*
Stella this is coming @a right time, I'm tired!!!My strength has failed me, MSC is hard, I feel like giving up but....i'm motivated....
ReplyDeleteMe too...
DeleteMy English language teacher once asked me to come stand in front of the class while going on to tell everyone who cared to listen, "you are a truant and I doubt if you did even make to the university" (about 2 weeks to Jamb). What she didnt know was that I had passed my GCE exams a year earlier and was just waiting to write Jamb. My dear people of SDK, I had the second best jamb score in the arts/commercial class and today a qualified lawyer.
ReplyDeleteYesooo. Just the way i am living my life now. Love more and careless. No matter what you do in this life people must talk especially people who dont know anything about you.
ReplyDeleteNice post stella.
Encouraging
ReplyDeleteDamn right! No need to go on self pity. No one is your god. You can make it without the so called gods.
ReplyDeleteOur deepest fear is not that we are inadequate our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
ReplyDeleteWe ask ourselves who am I to be so talented,gorgeous,fabulous..
Actually,who are you not to be?
~Maya angelou
My everyday mantra..
"Our deepest fear... I luurr
DeleteThis quote gives me the strength to multi task,to work my ass off!
I personally do not take NO for an answer,like NO is not in my dictionary,i want it,i get it...#Positivity#
My friends say: Babe how do you do it, we thought you were too fragile to handle all these, Wifey,Motherhood,Career,Education and trying to know a lil bit of what goes on in the world etc
I say to them: you don't know how strong you are,until being strong is your only option!! Done did it!!!!!!!!!
Hallos Norie..
Hmmm interesting post!
ReplyDeleteAmen! I choose to make a big, fat jar of chilled lemonade and have a blast. I see someone saw to comment in IHN about my S&M post and wondering why I have 2 kids and do not want a divorced or deparat
ReplyDeleteYou are just a mumu. You have TWO kids, but don't want a man that has kids abi? You can't eat your cake and have it... you go old for that place when you dey. Greedy bitch!
DeleteI love these!! Some of these have always been my motto. I just added new ones.
ReplyDeleteWe need to stop feeling sorry, and having pity-parties. Faith over fears anyway anytime!
*separated man. I have no business defending my choices to you. Marriage is final and I aint messing with that. Sue me. I guess you missed the 'preferably Yoruba and a father' part. Pfft.
ReplyDeleteYou ain't messing with that, but you were able to mess with your toto and produced two shuren abi? Ashawo kobo kobo... dey there dey wait for single guys. You go soon dey beg for grandpa... unless na jazz you want take hold dem.
DeleteWhat is your problem anon 21:38. She has the right to choose whatever she wants so I don't understand why you're making it your problem.
DeleteStella, your S & M don reach 1,247 comments. May God help everyone ooo. AMEN.
ReplyDeleteStella RANT should not be weekend oooo. i need to rant small oooo
the invites ehn... na dieee
Delete*you tried it.
ReplyDeleteTo all my haters.
I AM STILL HERE and would be for a very long time.
Stop being foolish dazzall we ask. Can never forget when you said it's cute that a woman died. I hope you have received sense
DeleteYes oo when you move things begin to move forward but when you stand it get stagnant or backward.
ReplyDeleteAww, dearest Stella..
ReplyDeleteThis is so nice.. I practically saved almost all..
And my boss have to delay me till now,even when he know how terrible Lagos traffick is.On top 35k,God pls provide a good rewarding job for your girl.
ReplyDeleteLucky you, My own dey delay me on top 25k and my daily expenses is 1k per day: t fare and meal only. i know God is preparing something better for us.
Deleteoh yes!
ReplyDeleteNice one.
ReplyDeleteHummm, thanks so much for lifting me up with these words. I'm so so down and humm.... Only God knows what I'm thinking about.
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Wow...so inspiring!
ReplyDeleteI've got no time for self pity anymore
ReplyDeleteThanks stella!
ReplyDeleteI learnt something.
Hmmmm
ReplyDeleteWord!
ReplyDeleteWord!!
Word!!
Especially, number ten of 10 steps to self care.
Drama and negativity, prevents one from seeing the big picture.
If only everyone sees this.
I am so making chilled and delicious lemonade, with the lemons thrown my way.
Watch me do it, world!!
#WhiteDiamondOut
Oh Stella, bless your sweet heart. I so needed this!! Going to some challenges right now...I'm about to splurge with the tiny bits of the season colours thrown my way!!
DeleteYou will be fine@Sassy
DeleteNobody said it will be easy hun,but after the rain....comes sunshine.
It only gets berra.
Thanks ma
ReplyDeleteStill waiting for my own lemon from Baba God,I can always turn it to lemonade!
ReplyDelete#WORDS# merci Stella! Bonsoir a tous!
ReplyDeleteFacts!!!
ReplyDeleteKudos stella,very inspiring. I need to start living by the 10 rules to self carem
ReplyDeleteLong live sdkb
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that frightens us most. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and famous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in all of us. And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”~Marianne williamson.
ReplyDeleteInspired
ReplyDeleteYESssSsssssa!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteAWESOME!!! THE BABY'S SMILE DID IT FOR ME..THANK YOU MA. I AM STILL AT WORK THOUGH (SHIFT THINGS) LOL....GOD BLESS YOU
ReplyDeleteThnaks stella.
ReplyDeletevery inspiring comments - At least that is the reason for getting education, the ability to commit yourself to absolute values. Faced with dilemma to make decision re: going into partnership today. Yes business seems lucrative but stake in it constrains my ability to adequate physical need to my family. I worked it out and got out by sound decision making "I can not afford it"; Being honest to myself,hoping that's not end of life.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you Stella...you don't know what this post did for me....God bless you sister
ReplyDeleteWord!
ReplyDeleteNice collection
ReplyDeleteWord!
ReplyDeleteMy lemonade must be very sweet!
True
ReplyDeleteNoted
Anyone..
But it isn't easy
Thanks stelz, this motivated me....daalu nwanyi di mma
ReplyDeleteNice one, soo motivating
ReplyDeleteAmen Stella , am making lemonade out of the lemons thrown at me , way to go .
ReplyDeleteI'm motivated by this. Thank you Stella.
ReplyDeleteWaoh!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing.
@North Dakota. That is not a Maya Angelou quote, neither is it a Marianne whatever quote.
ReplyDeleteNice quotes Stella. I have learned to have my own philosophies as an adult. Some quotes are outdated, some are untrue. Some were consolation words to whomsoever wrote them. For instance, "Beauty is nothing without brains". That's not true. Beauty is on its own, a gift, just like brains. I think most people who keep making this comparison are those who yearn for beauty.
Depends on ur definition of beauty dear. Everyone is beautiful, it depends on who's looking. But I don't understand when u say "Brain is a gift". Does it mean our children shouldn't go to sch again since its a gift?
DeleteHmm. If you are beautiful but stupid nothing for you ooo. It doesn't even necessarily academic brains. You have to have sense beautiful or not. And strength of character or else that beauty will fade in the end and you will have gotten nowhere
DeleteInspiring words !!! Oh yes say no to self pity!
ReplyDeleteMy dear Stella, life threw me lemon o. My DH I loved with my life started cheating and rubbing it on my face when I found out. I cried and cried. He started buying properties in his name alone. I cleaned my eyes and decided to make lemonade. I got a job with business at the side, saved my money, and in 6 years I bought over 15 plots of land in my name alone. Went back to school to do my masters, now I'm about to switch to a better job. Now I'm sipping my lemonade with ice. DH no know how to beg. I can afford to fly to any part of d world on holidays o. I'll go anon on this o.
ReplyDeleteYou are the real MVP.
DeleteAm facing the same thing..but I don't have a job.so sleepless nights with cry
DeleteWoooow you are one in a million. Woman of substance. Sometimes we have to shake things off. If your husband is doing anyhow and you sit there crying every day talking of love. You are OYO!
DeleteWhaoooo. ....Godwin on your behalf, keep soaring higher.
DeleteShake me *give you hand* I don't know why women would be crying over cheating husbands and wasting their time when there's so much money to be made. Hian! The last fear I have in marriage is a cheating husband. But I fear being broke more than anything in this world and continually ask God for wisdom to make wealth. Men!!! They will always be men oh. Awon crying wives of cheating husbands, your tears won't change him. So better ignore the yeye man
DeleteIt's okay to cry, it frees d soul. I'm sure I cried a drum, but God healed me, I encouraged myself in God and he opened ways for me. I can never take God's glory. God factor is very important.
DeleteThank you Stella. What a beautiful encouragement to end the day.
ReplyDeleteStella thanks so much for this inspiring words, am really motivated. I really such encouragement now, baba God please bless my hussle
ReplyDeleteQuite interesting
ReplyDeleteI needed this. I have an 8 year old, 5 year old and 1 year old. I fee like I am not doing enough for them. This has encouraged to keep pushing ahead. Jesus, I thank you o.
ReplyDeleteNever give up! Never ever give up. You hear me? You may not be able to give them everything now, but with continuous hard work their future will be better for it. One day at a time *hugs*
DeleteAm a lady of 27yrs,i need a single, caring and loving guy,who will lov me for who I am,frm 30-35 preferably frm south west,pin2bb63075...pls I dnt wnt married man ooo.
ReplyDeletesorry oh
DeleteLife threw me a sour lemon,and am going to add honey and sugar to it,to make it a juice. Really needed dis post to keep me going. Stellatiscal I throw away salute ooooo
ReplyDeleteThanks Stella for these beautiful quotes.I think I can actually use some motivation right now.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you as you keep reaching out.
Stellz don't make me love you cos I have encased my heart in ice but bless your heart for this motivational words on marble! My few favourite Stay Strong make them wonder how you handled it (This is for me who was suicidal thrice)now people are wondering how I got my shit together,i showed them shit is going to get done with or without them and my secret and which I told them is GOD....GOD...GOD! Can and will talk of the love and mercies of God.. The best thing I did was rededicating my life all over to Jesus Christ.... They laughed at my dreams but I have kept to myself and is still keeping to myself sort of because am saying right now look who is laughing...my dreams are almost there Stellz Kork... almost and am holding strongly to the hemp of God's garment cos we both will laugh together... no man will take the Glory of God in my life.... Ok I love you Stellz Kork...let me call my big sister who will giggle and laugh while are face is buried in a magazine called National Encomium, lil me didn't understand...now I crack up in the office and its like whats up? and am like Stella Kork but I call her Stellz...
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