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Wednesday, November 11, 2015

Lessons Learnt From The X

Hmmmmm,even in a bad situation there are lessons taught and lessons learnt.....



I dont mean any below the belt kicks with this comment but i was taught that ''If you think the devil is a liar,wait till you fall in love with a ****** man!''

 I also learnt never to give up on love no matter what ISH gives......Love with one person and love universally.

 That's what i learnt,I cannot put the tribe there for obvious reasons.




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218 comments:

  1. Emjay11 November 2015 at 13:00

    Never to....

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    1. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:41

      I learnt not all tall good looking guys are good in bed.... Even 6pack dsnt guarantee sweet sex, I speak from xperience.

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    2. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:43

      Never to........ Be sensible!! Emjay abi???

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    3. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:48

      Which one is never to?. Lol you're really mgbeke

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    4. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:52

      I learnt never to lower your standard you will regret it someday, fear those guys that knows how to quote the bible they are more wicked than satan

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    5. Mosiwomeka11 November 2015 at 14:08

      Never spend on a guy no matter how broke he is. Only your husband.

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    6. Emjay11 November 2015 at 14:59

      I like this post.
      Kikikikikikiki

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    7. Emjay11 November 2015 at 16:13

      Never to... is an incomplete sentence beautiful goat,so who is an mgbeke now,of course ur very daft self,mgeke feeling funky.@anno13:48.

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    8. Unknown11 November 2015 at 16:55

      I ve learnt never to tell abt ur past or what u ve gone tru,never gist abt ur family fault or it will cum to bite ur ass and used against u. emjay I like u

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    9. Nmasinachi11 November 2015 at 20:48

      Never to tell anything from the past. lip sealed, never killed anyone.

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  2. danny fisiye11 November 2015 at 13:01

    omo never call always


    don't show your love



    #GODWIN™

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    1. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 14:13

      He taught me that even if you cook all the whole African soup well, do all the styles on bed, give him all the money you have, the day he decides to go he goes with out looking back.

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    2. Irene Bernards11 November 2015 at 15:41

      Hahaha.
      It's not by style
      Not by soup


      These guys ain't lpyal

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    3. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 15:44

      Hehehe....u be learner

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    4. Unknown11 November 2015 at 15:57

      Nice one @anon 14:13

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    5. SDK FIRST SON11 November 2015 at 16:26

      Anonymous 14:13, you've summarized everything, let him who have ears......

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  3. CatwalkwithPAT (Please click on my name)11 November 2015 at 13:02

    I dont have an ex.

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    1. RICHBEE11 November 2015 at 13:45

      Same here and and I pray never to have

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    2. Unknown11 November 2015 at 14:42

      My Ex taught me never to.... What is ex bikonu? Ex ko ex convict ni. Nonsense and ingredients.

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  4. danny fisiye11 November 2015 at 13:02

    never sacrifice



    never never

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    1. marachi11 November 2015 at 15:50

      I learnt to put myself first before any other. #self love all the way

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  5. Ayosblog.com chairlady11 November 2015 at 13:02

    my ex taught me not to love a man completely! and never suffer with any man

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  6. nzubeizuu11 November 2015 at 13:04

    He taught me that time heals all wounds.

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  7. praise11 November 2015 at 13:04

    I have from my ex to never fall in luv but rather stand by luv

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  8. Super Lady11 November 2015 at 13:05

    Just gonna read comments on this

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  9. praise11 November 2015 at 13:05

    I have learnt from my ex to never fall in luv but rather stand by luv

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  10. NUVI HONEY11 November 2015 at 13:06

    Ok na. No lessons learnt I've never Been dumped.

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  11. PHINITE11 November 2015 at 13:08

    Long time relationship is crap and a waste of time.

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  12. Joblesshousewife11 November 2015 at 13:08

    hmmmm

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  13. edDREAMZ11 November 2015 at 13:09

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
    .
    I guess yu are trying to write fulani man right??.....
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    .
    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  14. Miss Ferragamo11 November 2015 at 13:09

    My ex taught me being good doesn't pay.

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  15. Tuscany - LUXURY BESPOKE SHOEMAKER @onimisibespoke11 November 2015 at 13:09

    I learned to forgive and let go cos at the end, u only hurt yourself more and transfer aggression while the one who hurt you is busy going about their own life.
    also, am always open about my intentions before hand...it just makes things easier and your conscience is free even if it ends horribly cos u only meant well.

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  16. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:09

    My ex husband, Cyril has taught me never trust a man,I forgive u for all you did and I leave you u in the hand of my creator.

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    1. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:45

      Give us gist, wat did he do??

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    2. Mystique11 November 2015 at 15:39

      Апоп амеьо

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    3. Irene Bernards11 November 2015 at 15:43

      Cyril,but why?

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    4. SDK FIRST SON11 November 2015 at 16:30

      Anonymous, wetin you wan use gist do lolz

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    5. xxxTrinityxxx11 November 2015 at 18:38

      Cyril y u do her lyk dis

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    6. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 18:39

      Cyril, Cyril, Cyril. ... why did you do what you did??? Give us full gist my sister,let me visit him in his sleep a teach him a lesson.

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  17. Alloy Chikezie 11 November 2015 at 13:10

    I learnt never to rush into conclusion. It caused a breakup with the most beautiful girl I've ever dated. Now I'm much calmer and takes my time to analyze an issue.

    Chai! See me waiting for ihn by 1pm Lol, I just remembered the time has changed. Lol.

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  18. Fine Sisi11 November 2015 at 13:10

    YORUBA Man!!!....... Stella my brothers don do you strong thing. Awon brothers mi ma nparo yeye, won le paro ki oku ji... Lmfao

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  19. Carina Kikelomo Jacob11 November 2015 at 13:10

    I can't wait to read comments!!!
    This will be funny and exciting.
    www.ckjacob.com

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  20. Temi11 November 2015 at 13:11

    My ex taught me that never date a broke guy and keep acting the girl is good because once they hammer they will start acting busy.

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  21. The Sexiest Mother Of This Blog 11 November 2015 at 13:13

    Let me read comments. Sorry never had an EX

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  22. ade4femi11 November 2015 at 13:13

    Patience, white soup, different soups.

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  23. MONTREAL11 November 2015 at 13:13

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  24. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:14

    I teach the lessons biko, ain't nobody gat time to be taken notes.

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  25. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:14

    taking*

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  26. lovely heart11 November 2015 at 13:14

    What's with this ex thing. Please move forward and leave the past where it ought to be.

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    1. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:48

      Ur past is right behind you, it contributed to whr u are.... Pretending it isn't thr or never happened wldnt make it evaporate *tongue out*..... Who put ur heart in a blender???pele

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  27. Bella11 November 2015 at 13:14

    Nada

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  28. Cí11 November 2015 at 13:15

    ....That therz always someone better for me out there....Who will appreciate and love me more than He did.

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  29. DOCTOR EESAH SULTAN HERBALS11 November 2015 at 13:16

    What did I learn from my ex? Have been thinking since and I can't remember one thing I learnt from my ex



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  30. Unknown11 November 2015 at 13:16

    Very interesting

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  31. Ixora11 November 2015 at 13:16

    Oh well my 'fine boy' ex who was very much in love with himself, taught me to stick with someone whose love for me was more than mine for him... and I lived happily ever after!

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    1. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 15:07

      a woman, any man I wanna be with must have a vision that's large enough to accommodate mine.

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    2. Unknown11 November 2015 at 15:07

      As if u r talking about Paul or Henry. Lmao. I don't have an ex though. *sideeyes*

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  32. calabar chick11 November 2015 at 13:16

    My X taught me to be a strong gal no mata what life throws at me.

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  33. Adorable mummy11 November 2015 at 13:17

    Do u mean a German man stella?
    Hmmmmmm
    Umu nwoke anambra no be d ideal man to date ohhhh

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    1. le'femme11 November 2015 at 13:42

      Hahaha!!! my sister u never meet better person @anambra man

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    2. NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN (foot loose and fancy-free) 11 November 2015 at 14:38

      Anambra men are good, they take good care of their women, followed by yoruba men, then delta men.

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  34. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:17

    My ex taught me that what will be will be.
    I also learnt that it's possible to fall out of love wt someone you've been with for years for someone you just met within a month
    The end of our relationship also showed me how much in love with him I was and how fast it's easy to sink into depression and not wanna do anything or see anyone. Thank God that phase is over
    Most importantly, he taught me that for a woman, any man I wanna be with must have a vision that's large enough to accommodate mine. Those were his words. Meaning if im ambitious, I should only be with someone who wants a wife that's ambitious. If I want a large family with plenty of kids, he has to be on board too.

    Anyways, that time is over and I'm still looking forward to meeting someone that will be deservin of my love and trust.

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    1. Emjay11 November 2015 at 14:36

      God will grant ur hrt desires dearie.

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    2. Unknown11 November 2015 at 14:46

      No. You are still heartbroken and tied to your ex. I release you in Jesus name, Amen!

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    3. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 15:33

      No Precious darling, I'm nt heartbroken. Trust me, I don't live in denial. Please go up to read where I said that phase is over and that I'm looking forward to meeting someone who deserves my love and trust. Someone who's in love with her ex would still be scheming on how to get him back.

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    4. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 18:04

      Pls come and love me mbok..

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  35. Gbogbo Bigz girlz (GBG)11 November 2015 at 13:18

    I have no ex.
    Lucky me.

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  36. Doppelgänger11 November 2015 at 13:19

    My X taught me that after X is Y.

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  37. Ms.Nicey11 November 2015 at 13:19

    My past relationships has made me understand myself better, by knowing what I want & what I don't want in any relationship. My eyes have opened to a lot of things. Taking my time to enter another cos I don't want d count to be increasing anyhow. Count is 2 already. #sigh

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    1. Quiksilver11 November 2015 at 14:14

      No one asked about your blaaady count, miss.

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    2. Unknown11 November 2015 at 14:47

      Where this one emanate from? Mtchew count is two. Aunty who asked you?

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    3. Irene Bernards11 November 2015 at 15:48

      Quickie n Pre,Idonlaffgotouchekukeforhead

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  38. Yori Yori Princess11 November 2015 at 13:20

    Love yourself and be happy with yourself so that you will glow

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  39. NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN (foot loose and fancy-free) 11 November 2015 at 13:20

    Never assume..
    Do not assume..
    Don't even try to assume..

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    1. Nina11 November 2015 at 20:50

      Assumption is the mother of all eff ups. . That's what 1 of my lecturer's says

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  40. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:21

    I learnt that a man can be calling all the sweet names in this word,making u feel so special,but at the same time he is doing same to another woman.please a good makeup artist in agbor for traditional wedding.

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  41. Ammie11 November 2015 at 13:22

    My ex taught me how to love with my head
    I don't fall in love like someone without brain
    I fall in love in such a way that if anything happens, i go jejely dust my nyash waka
    No time to be crying for days for a man
    I don't love to an extent that I can't move on

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  42. Praise - dried and fresh snails, dried Ijebu ponmo, dried fish,etc. Ibadan11 November 2015 at 13:23

    Shout out to all the Yoruba men in the house... Lols. Stella is referring to you people

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    1. SUNSHINE11 November 2015 at 13:39

      She n gbo ashiere? Na only Yoruba be six letters.
      Urhobo na 10 letters abi?

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    2. Unknown11 November 2015 at 13:59

      If she was referring to urhobo she wudnt use "a", twud be an urbobo man bt it's probably yoruba cos she said a ******.lolz e neva reach 2provoke ok?take a chill pill

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    3. Manary Don11 November 2015 at 14:28

      Fulani na 15 letters too abi? Mumu godson..

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    4. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 14:28

      Fulani na 15 letters too abi? Mumu godson..

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    5. Unknown11 November 2015 at 14:48

      Sunshine help me ask am. All this agbaya decoders. Who ask una?

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    6. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 14:55

      if it was urhobo,it would have been "an"before the coded word but it says "a" before the coded word,besides that joke is everywhere,it is yoruba and everyone knows yoruba men makes the worst husband,they cheat too much,love independent women and can easily abscond,commitment is difficult for them

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    7. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 19:05

      'make the worst husbands'

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  43. Osariemen11 November 2015 at 13:24

    I learnt never to Love with my whole heart.

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  44. ADAOBI 11 November 2015 at 13:24

    I learnt never to love a man more, also complain wen he goes wrong and never overlook tins wen he goes wrong becos I love him so much nd don't want him to get angry..it will make u cheat on him..once He knows He will use it against you nd never know his flaws..you will get more hurt.. all d same I will apply my past lesson nd mistakes to d next relationship I will have..for now I'm single nd I think it's okay to connect with someone who will know ur worth, , wisely.. anyway it's okay I have kip calm nd praying for God to connect me with my soul mate

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    1. Unknown11 November 2015 at 14:34

      Take your time honey. You will be happy again.

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  45. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:25

    My ex thought me to look very verydeep before I leap oo. Twale for Yoruba men. Devil na learner beside Yoruba men when it comes to lying.

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    1. A GIRL HAS NO NAME11 November 2015 at 13:46

      Lol..
      We shouldn't generalize..

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    2. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 20:09

      Lol..i totally agree
      Yoruba men eh, their lies is on anoda level and am speakin from a recent experience from SnM..T.T uknw yasef
      My ex taught me dat if he hits u once he is gonna hit u over n over again so dnt be fooled by his pleas n cries never to do so

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  46. Unknown11 November 2015 at 13:25

    My lesson was... It is not all about love, when he loves you but still won't make out time to see and be with you. Or always gives stories that touch as to why he can't be where you are... Just Negodu for him and hurry out because you are in for a down roll... #WhichKainLoveBeThat

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    1. Unknown11 November 2015 at 14:49

      Is he a banker or a doctor?

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    2. mrs okechukwu11 November 2015 at 19:10

      Chiamy, he cannot be wit u cos he's married wit 3 beautiful kids. I knw cos he's my husband and I ve seen u wit him. Be deceiving urself while he keeps lying to u. One day wil be one day, monkey will go market but to return go hard. Be warned!

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  47. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:25

    Learnt that u can finish fucking the living day light out of a man,giving him all the snake and monkey style shadow (for ur mind u are the main chick o,he is even talking marriage),but while u are on the bed with him,he is pinging another babe ,telling her that her own side of the bed is cold,imagine!

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    1. A GIRL HAS NO NAME11 November 2015 at 13:47

      Aww..
      That is so mean of him..

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    2. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:48

      Lol....ewo!

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    3. Unknown11 November 2015 at 13:55

      Lmao badoski

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    4. Emjay11 November 2015 at 14:42

      Ur last sentence got me,still laughing.

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    5. Unknown11 November 2015 at 14:50

      Ouch. Sorry hun.

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    6. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 14:59

      men are afraid of girls who give too nuch styles before marriage the worst part is he will discuss u with his friends and they will be laughing and pointing fingers at u without u knowing .pre marital sex comes with shame and unhappiness

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    7. swankylicious11 November 2015 at 15:25

      Very true oooo... Some men shaaa..still Lafin

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  48. Unknown11 November 2015 at 13:25

    I learnt to love selflessly...

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  49. ThatArochukwuBabe11 November 2015 at 13:26

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    1. SUNSHINE11 November 2015 at 13:40

      You are quite foolish dear.
      The asterix na seven?
      Yoruba na seven letters?

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    2. LA11 November 2015 at 14:18

      And u had to refer to her as 'foolish'. Hope u feel better with yourself?

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    3. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 14:48

      Sunshine AKA Toluwase's boo, how market? Ever since that your Toluwase dumped your sorry ass, you have been going about vomiting your bile on any body who dares make any comment about your tribe. Calm the heck down babes, life is not that serious. Learn to take this life easy and you'd be marveled at the so many lovely things that can happen to you. You never can tell, this your very bitter attitude towards life might be the reason you are losing them boos. Just a piece of advice from someone who cares. Peace!

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    4. SUNSHINE11 November 2015 at 15:10

      Anon. 14:48, Okay hoe.
      Oh*
      Noted. ;)

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    5. ThatArochukwuBabe11 November 2015 at 15:25

      Sunshine, I wanted to reply you but then I remembered the weird fact number 3 of ystdy or so abt not reacting wen pissed. I know your life is miserable. When last have u been laid? You need some good fuckery. Rmber dt mallam down ur street? call him.

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    6. Beautiful butterfly11 November 2015 at 19:40

      Jesus!; you chicks need to calm the heck down.

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  50. Unknown11 November 2015 at 13:26

    I learnt to trust my instincts, never believe anything said till I confirm it and think with my head not my heart.

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  51. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:27

    the lesson my ex taught me is never say never, and expect the unexpected.

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  52. Frying-Pan11 November 2015 at 13:28

    Learnt that silence is golden, and anger is useless. My ex doesn't get angry, or maybe he learnt not to ever show it...I wonder how he does it. He would just be quiet, looking at you like bottle.

    He travelled out. Still miss him though.

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    1. Jasmine11 November 2015 at 14:47

      Lol @ looking at u like bottle

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    2. Unknown11 November 2015 at 14:51

      Lmao @looking at you like bottle. I have learnt a new one.

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    3. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 15:03

      he probably knew he wont marry u so no need to waste his saliva

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  53. Bianca Bruno11 November 2015 at 13:29

    I learnt that since the days of John d Baptist the earth suffereth violence and only the violent taketh it by force.

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  54. Blackberry11 November 2015 at 13:30

    Taught me to sip the water before gulping! Make I no go gulp poison. Figuratively.

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  55. Mr_SouL Get Naija Twitter/IG followers/7AB109CB11 November 2015 at 13:31

    That 3 rounds is still fore play? Yea, u are right, she is from calabar

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    1. Irene Bernards11 November 2015 at 15:52

      Are you the guy that had convulsion after 6rounds?. Na one member of bv gist us o

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  56. Praise - dried and fresh snails, dried Ijebu ponmo, dried fish,etc. Ibadan11 November 2015 at 13:31

    I learnt that u should not tell ur people ur partner's age, they will use it against him or her. They will start comparing the age with that of other family members to know who should respect who and whether the prospective in law is older than his or age. If they ask for your partner's age, tell them it is your business, That his/her age is okay. They don't have any right to know. Don't inflate or decrease the age for your folks. Speaking from experience.

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    1. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)11 November 2015 at 13:48

      You are right...

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    2. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 15:07

      Preach on sir!!!

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    3. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 16:53

      No wonder your comment up there...Confirmed Yoruba suffer head wife
      Yoruba in law can break a home because she didn't call her 'aunty'

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  57. Unknown11 November 2015 at 13:32

    I learnt dat no matter how good Ur ex is/are if u guys are not meant to be together d relationship can never work! Something most happen dat will make d relationship expire.

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  58. lois sam11 November 2015 at 13:33

    I learnt that the term 'opposites attract' is just a myth, you will end up killing yourself.

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  59. Unknown11 November 2015 at 13:33

    Never ever trust anybody apart from yourself.

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  60. Unknown11 November 2015 at 13:33

    I learnt lies upon lies, times lies* raised to power lies, ^expanded with deceit [] and cunningly guided with pretentious harmless look.

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  61. Unknown11 November 2015 at 13:34

    Ex?

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  62. Unknown11 November 2015 at 13:34

    I learnt lies upon lies, times lies* raised to power lies, ^expanded with deceit [] and cunningly guided with pretentious harmless look.

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  63. CANADA BLOGBRITY 11 November 2015 at 13:35

    Time to read comments... **recommended glasses please!!

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    1. Sugaraddict11 November 2015 at 15:38

      To be very very sincere from the bottom of my heart u are not exactly ugly but u are not fine stall... And just becos bvs were praising u and your hippopotamus below yesterday cos u were slightly clean and old in ur photos does not give u the license to talk anyhow .kpomo lips

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    2. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 15:53

      Someone killed you in one post like that. Do you really have stretmark?

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  64. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:35

    I learnt there's always sum1 better out there, you just have to find them.

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  65. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:36

    I learnt from my ex to walk away early!i started seeing the signs early last year,i thot maybe it's cos we were not in the same town,we kept fighting n sorting issues out,been with him for soooo long,our families finally met last year,i thot tins were falling into place but it's one fight or the other!the last fight brought out d beast in me,i called him names,i shdnt have anyways but I was frustrated,dude got no plans for me,it was as if we were going in diff directions,well he based his decision on the fight we had!he wanted space..hmmm but I don't need to be told,there was someone else,he was all shady n all...so I decided to find closure b4 I left his place cos I knew tins wld fall apart after I had gone...am I fatter..he said no...I don't cook well...no...I don't fuck u well again...he said no,then why am I not worthy of your love again?oga no see talk talk...he said he has not made up his mind....lol...he wants to string me along until I'm 35!i finally left his place,and after trying to pretend all was well for some few weeks!bam...no communication...I just advise my self not to keep waiting cos the next tin I will see is his wedding I.V...lessons learnt!i should have walked away since the beginning of the problem last year...at least I will have had a year to heal b4 I clocked 30years!I asked him if he will ever considered that I have stuck with him for 10years and he said "ohhhh don't be sentimental about the years!i don't want a woman that keeps fighting me,like I just wake up in d middle of d nite n starts fighting!hmmmmm....so while still trying not to think about it!meanwhile I have not had any single guy ask me out in agessssss!my friends said I shdnt have kept all my eggs in one basket!hmmmm...Lesson 2!bam came a call one fine evening!this guy was trying to ask me out but I kept laughing at him!probably bcos I thot I had met my soulmate!and first question he asked is if I was married?he is also just coming out of a bad relationship! Now this dude is obsessed with me in a good way...I feel loved!first time a guy will ask me why I haven't added something else to my certificate since I left school...this one has plans and purpose but I'm still praying...lesson3(your own miracle won't pass u by if u believe God)just say enough is enough and walk out of any relationship in which u feel u deserve better!!!im sending my testimony soon...watch out y'all

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    1. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)11 November 2015 at 13:48

      Na wah oh...

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    2. A GIRL HAS NO NAME11 November 2015 at 13:52

      Wow..
      Thanks for sharing anon..
      I learnt few things from this comment of yours..

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    3. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 14:18

      Story of my life,my own case was even the worst, he said so many things to me ,at last he said he was not ready for marriage,only for me to find out try chats that he has another chick ,so that is why I became a boring person all of a sudden,but I thank God I left him before he dumps me,as God will have it God brought another wonderful man my way,my ex started begging ,crying ,sending all his ancestors to beg me to come back when I told him I was engaged,I dey craze make I come back?,shey u said am not good na,but God done prove u wrong,the truth is u will never find another mumu like me again,na fire na em u go cry last last.

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    4. Unknown11 November 2015 at 14:31

      Will be here to read your testimony Sis.

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    5. Unknown11 November 2015 at 14:54

      Wow.

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    6. my opinion11 November 2015 at 14:54

      This touched me! Sorry u went through that

      U see that ur ex, he will come calling back!!! There is a quote "a man must 1st find himself before he finds his woman; else he will damage whatever woman he comes in contact with"

      He is the one that damaged u! All ur quarells is his fault... he is in his confusion stage and feels u know him too much that's why he treated u that way! (but he loved u sha)

      Thank God u are happier now!!! Nonetheless, the grass isn't greener anywhr! This current boo must have messed up anor person b4 u, that's y he's mending his ways with u. Oga ex will still mend for someone else later sha. Buh stick with current Boo (he'll treat u better NOW)

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    7. Mma cee11 November 2015 at 19:07

      Fornicating openly and calling God ????
      Nna mehn !

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  66. Unknown11 November 2015 at 13:36

    I learnt "love" could actually mean LUST!

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  67. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:38

    I learnt never open up to a man.. they dont deserve the truth, and never let a man know you love him, never tell a man your shortcomings, i learnt if there was a girl in the picture, a stupid girl that has a boyfriend, and your boyfriend wont get over her.. leave them alone. I leant never to ignore my intuition.

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  68. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:38

    My Ex gave me the best BJ ever, I'm no longer in love with her but still long for the BJ, I don't knw hw she keeps her mouth while sucking that makes it sweeter than my wifes own, I wish she cld teach her the technique..... Besides that my wife is definately better in all ways, who blowjob help???

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    1. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)11 November 2015 at 13:44

      Thank God you know..

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    2. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 15:56

      Teach her

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    3. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 20:03

      Ojukokoro, if you don't stop lusting, one day monkey go go market and e no go return.

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  69. Epignosis11 November 2015 at 13:40

    Wow. I learned from my ex that what really makes a healthy relationship is not what we feel or how we feel (cos feelings evaporate) but how much we respect each other. It's been years since we broke up but we are still friends and civil to each other. There was no sex or even kissing. We only talked and talked in fact the communication was great. He is married now and blessed with 2 Sons. I appreciate him. Am also doing great. God blessed me too #shineshappyface

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  70. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:40

    I tried escaping from my relationship of 3yrs plus cos my partner traveled even tho he was still being all gud to me and then I fell into a totally wrong hand I was over the moon and he just suddenly blanked out on me without a word till this minute...I learnt there ain't no other man worth ditching my man for even if he ain't here I'd stick to him like that cos my peace and love is guaranteed from him. I learnt to love and cherish what I have as they say a bird at hand is worth more than hundreds in the bush..in fact these days na rubbish dey bush.Yoruba men I hail thee...highly deceptive humans!

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  71. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:42

    My ex....
    That yeye messed up Yoruba girl taught me to always shine my eyes,,,
    Never underestimate a girl/woman cos if they wan cheat ehn.. Before u find out u for don enter grave...

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  72. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:42

    My ex taught me that nothing can keep a man.. I'm hard working, beautiful and all but he still left me and got married to one ugly chibok gal. Well his loss tho cus my current guy adores me and he's God-fearing, cuter and richer than my ex. My ex still tries to get my attention but watin I wan do with married man? He's full of regrets but who cares

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  73. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 13:49

    ...no one is worth loving so much cos no one really loves that much
    ...only love yourself and let the man love more BUT ALL'S STILL SO STRANGE 2mi

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  74. Ice Queen11 November 2015 at 13:53

    Who ex help

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  75. OLORI11 November 2015 at 14:00

    He had taught me to be more stronger emotionally

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  76. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 14:03

    if youre my Ex then you never exist

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  77. MissPrettyW11 November 2015 at 14:07

    Hmmmm....still learning atm

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  78. Uriel (Freshdew)11 November 2015 at 14:10

    Here to read comments

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  79. Calabar Gal11 November 2015 at 14:22

    @Eesah Official - I sent my email to "nominate@nigerianwritersaward.com" and got a failed delivery......

    Wetin dey happen? Make una contact the organisers oh! their email address no dey work!!

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    1. Amazing Jesz11 November 2015 at 18:02

      I had the same problem until I realised I missed the 's' in awards.

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  80. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 14:24

    Stella that tribe is Yoruba I'm very sure. Why are you hiding it? They will soon come to vomit under my comment. Ndi ala.

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  81. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 14:50

    My husband taught me never trust a man no matter if he marries u or not cos he fucks our sales gal in d mornin n me @ 9t. My dears if u cc ds school drop out wey I always dey pity n encourage. I Hv learnt to love mysef o. Ladies dnt ever trust a MAN!!!!

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    1. Viktor10511 November 2015 at 16:24

      Ma'am your Husband cheating on u with your sales girls, don't mean you should Generalized and give such advice to others

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  82. Mamannukusdkblogceleb ��11 November 2015 at 14:50

    Let the comments roll in
    Please note that this post is not just what ur ex taught u but what u taught ur ex
    before everbody go full here now begin claim victims

    **grabs popcorn*

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  83. Jasmine11 November 2015 at 14:51

    My ex taught me that love alone can not sustain a relationship

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    1. Viktor10511 November 2015 at 16:27

      Yeah Jasmine Love is never enough in a Relationship.

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    2. Viktor10511 November 2015 at 16:27

      Yeah Jasmine Love is never enough in a Relationship.

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  84. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 15:46

    Ex taught me never to accept physical abuse. He was so abusive it made me realize that once they start they never stop. Thank u dear ex for opening my eyes. Made me choose a life partner well. Been married 15 yrs and never been hit.

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  85. Bimpeforever11 November 2015 at 16:05

    My Ex taught me, always know where a man lives, his friends and all, before you enter one chance, that's how I was going out with one Toyin dude for London, gave him money, shelter and all, the day I fell sick, the guy took off for days and returned back after 2-3days, trust me, I no show m say I even vex for am, the way I dumped him was like fufu mscheeeew, I just in front of his best friend went to spend a night with my current boo that time, he was calling me and begging me, he wants to come and pick me @ the guy's place, I say, I no even know road reach dere, as the guy na him come pick me *looool* afterwards na story, left the other dude becos na *seperatee* now married to the bestest guy jareee, that was over 12yrs though

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  86. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 16:24

    Seriously the issue of exes and lessons learnt is totally undermined. There won't be exes in the first place if we understood the concept of relationship. A man or woman who doesn't discover himself can never help the other discover themselves. Again, if you don't love God truly, you can never love your partner genuinely. You both are gonna have issues, and how you react is a function of your understanding, cuz you could end up punching the hell out of your partner. In cases where it doesn't work, God is too big to mismanage anybody's life or time. Learn to define your worth else a wrong partner will prize you cheap.
    Lest i forget, shoutout to my love. Your love is fresh to me every moment. Hey Cookie, Remember what I told you? Your love is a gift from God, so am OBLIGATED to honour it. Love you till my frail and toothless age

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  87. FINNY aka SWEET TROUBLE 11 November 2015 at 16:31

    Choi my ex tot me how to receive a head and my Oooooh my I am so enjoying it now. Plus I aint got no time to learn coz I aint a learner am a teacher I teach u life great lessons dat will sustain u in ur next life if u adhere to my lessons. #Badgal

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  88. FINNY aka SWEET TROUBLE 11 November 2015 at 16:32

    Plus bad gals don't get DUMPED only good gals.

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  89. FINNY aka SWEET TROUBLE 11 November 2015 at 16:32

    Choi my ex tot me how to receive a head and my Oooooh my I am so enjoying it now. Plus I aint got no time to learn coz I aint a learner am a teacher I teach u life great lessons dat will sustain u in ur next life if u adhere to my lessons. #Badgal

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  90. Nemerem11 November 2015 at 16:53

    I learnt the true meaning of selflessness and true love. He was good to me.
    Now my hubby is enjoying all the lessons.
    RIP D. J.

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  91. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 17:11

    My ex thought me never to doubt my instincts.

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  92. Unknown11 November 2015 at 17:39

    I am nobodyz ex oooooo,once we breakup,bia,i dont know you from adam ni ooooo!

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  93. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 17:56

    I taught my ex that when I say goodbye, I ain't coming back to his cheating ass ever. Married to a man 100x better.

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  94. Anonymous11 November 2015 at 18:09

    I feel like this blog is full of jobless innuendos.. Now don't dare attack me cos I'm a supper loaded monster.. I got all your details, anon confessions via your ip etc.. Just embrace it guys.. Y'all are JOBLESS

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