Chronicles Of Blog Visitor Narratives..

Do i me i do you kinda Chronicle....*side yawn*

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

CALLING OUT SISTER IN LAW

Hello Stella of Life,

How are you, Family and work?

Firstly, thanks for placing my advert for a Driver on your blog...I did get plenty calls and settled for one nearest to the house, though I'm still observing him with your "side eye"..loool. Please I remain Anonymous. 

To the main reason I am posting my Chronicles.....

I'm from a polygamous home though my Dad never married any of his women at d same time..he would have divorced one before marrying another.. Guess he wasn't lucky with women! All the wife's are blessed with children and we are all doing fine and it's forbidden to even say we are step-children ‎because we are all trying to bond as much as possible.

Well, while growing up, this particular Step brother assisted financially in his own capacity and convenience when we the younger ones needed assistance especially pocket monies for Uni. I finished school and got a good job through God and He remains faithful...because today I'm a Management Team. I also need to state here that I'm a Single Parent. 

During Uni days I used to go spend hols in his house even though most of my other relatives doesn't because they say this SIL wasn't welcoming. But the truth is that some of these my female cousins used to "arrange" their friends for my bro..he like women die and he is rich! Anyways, my SIL NEVER dash me anything for her life even used items as student concern but she liked me because I was a bookworm and I don't arrange girls for my bro. ....loool

Sorry I need to give a little background gist... 

So months ago she ask me to lend her N500k to finish a job she was executing and will pay back in 10days and that I can have her Gold as collateral. So I told her I didn't have that much eventually borrowed her N200k and didn't take any Gold as collateral. Note that this isn't the first time she would ask of such, it's about the third time though I never oblige till this time. After 5weeks of not hearing from her I called her, she gave story of delays in finishing the project that I should give her another 2weeks after another 3 weeks, I called her again, it was another story for the gods... I had to tell her I need it for my child's school fees o.. still it didn't move this SIL.

 Eventually she paid me N100k after 11weeks... it's now 4months and she hasn't paid me the balance of N100k.  I sent her a text that if I knew it would be like this I won't have lend her the money. I'm a struggling Single Parent while she has her children schooling abroad...so financially I am no where near her and I have never gone to her for any assistance in my life. 

In fact I have given her  very small contracts in my office over the years, she has borrowed money from me even as a student in Uni, in fact, there was a time my Step Sister sent all we are younger ones pocket money of £10 each through her and because I was In school I didn't get mine then until I came on hols I asked her she kept posting me and never gave me the £10. She's never dash my child anything also.

I don't want to involve my bro or any family member because this will lead to a lot of bad blood. ‎I'm so passed off right now, I can't afford to dash her the N100k.

Please BVs...advise your own. Thank you.

Anonymous Super Single Mum.

Na wah,I dont see this ending well at all...I would advise you to visit her and use style to borrow her gold and hold unto it until she pays up...If she calls a family meeting,then bring up the issue that she is owing you and has refused to pay..

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

TOTALLY BROKEN

Fellow BVs this is your girl Andriana.

Down to my narrative,I spoke to my husband to be about my decision not to rush into marriage and avoidance of sex for now he agreed and promised to wait till whenever.2days later I snooped through his phone which was very wrong and saw his chats with his ex telling her they couldn't meet because he was busy, I confronted him and he begged and begged and even knelt down and cried until I forgave.days later he checked my phone and saw my chat with my male friend,munched it to me and got upset.

Two days later we were in church,when another of his ex walked pass us and asked him why he was staring at her,he was just laughing.He saw I was upset and tried talking me out of it.it upset me because before we started dating he told me about her and told me how he left the choir to avoid contact with her. Suddenly he rejoined choir and even calls her to leave church instructions for her.

I quarrelled over it but he said its Gods work Now today I was packing my stuffs cause I'm traveling to the southern side of Europe,I tried using his phone to do snapchat as I was snap chatting a message from whatsapp came and you know how iPhone notifications are.so a message from another of his ex saying "I am busy,I will be busy tonight".that is to say he's already making plans to have a meeting with her while I'm gone,I peacefully kept his phone and continued behaving normal he saw it in my face that my mood changed and tried cheering me up cause he checked his phone and noticed it's like I found out but couldn't bring the issue up but believe me I was broken down physically,mentally and emotionally....

Actually I texted him telling him I knew what he's doing to me but I'm gonna ignore and be happy.first he told me to do what pleases me then he started texting more that no matter what proof I have I should listen to his explanation or hear him out I didn't reply I just kept mute.i don't wanna tell him what I saw cause I just feel it changes nothing.Now I'm home am just weak so weak and feel like I'm cursed cause all my life I've dated 3 guys and the first 2 ended cause they kept contacting their ex's and reconciling with them and now I thought the spell was broken this came up.

People are gonna say I share too much of everything but believe me it's only because I found a family on this blog and because the last time I shared my narrative about my proposal people cussed me saying I was doing it to spite my ex but No!...I would never do that.He's human and so am I.

please I need your Advise on what to do :=(

Make i read comments my dear,I am a little bit unsettled and i almost got someone on a #hellochallenge,make i go find next victim....lol