NARRATIVE NUMBER
WHEN HE DOESNT KNOW THAT YOU KNOW....
Dear Stella, kindly hide my email.
I think my husband is cheating or about to start.
I got married about 8months ago but we are still ttc.
My hubby treats me with utmost respect. Since after our wedding, he only uses my pics on his dp. Just a few days ago, I noticed a particular lady has been calling his phone very often, and he always ignores the call.
This made me curious, so I snooped and saved her numb on my fone. Her calls kept coming and hubby kept ignoring. I went through his call log few days ago and realized he usually calls her back when hes @ work. Yesterday she called again, I was in the room and hubby was in the sitting room. I knew she was the one calling cos hubby's fone usually calls out the caller's name. I listened from the room, waiting to see if hubby would pick the call. He did.
As soon as he picked, I left the room and came to joined him in the sitting room. Stella you won't believe hubby ended the call as soon as I came to the sitting room. The lady called yet again, and hubby ignored the call.
He went ahead to send her a text. I know all this because I was watching hubby from my seat. I waited patiently for him to shower so that I could snoop and I realized hubby had deleted her number from his call log, he also deleted whatever message he must have sent to her.
Dear bvs, I really love my hubby, I can't stand him cheating and so early into our young marriage. Please what should I do? How do I address this? Am I just making a mountain out of a mole hill?
NB: Hubby is an eye candy. Very cute. I know lots of women want him, but he chose me for his wife, and I think it's only fair he honors his vows.
May I also add that he is 33 and I'm 29. I never had any reason to believe he was cheating/ would try to cheat on me while we dated. I really need answers to clear my head. Don't know what to believe anymore.Thanx Stellz
This is a question for #Teamsnoop,however *side eyes* if you ask me i would SAY a confrontation is expected at this stage,a subtle confrontation.
Take him out to dinner,just as he is about to put the first bite in his mouth ask him ''So honey who is the lady you have been calling and texting..?''
WATCH HIS REACTION.
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
DATING A MAN WITH SHORT TEMPER...
Hi Madam Stelz...
I met this guy 2months ago... he started asking me out immediately.. but I told him I wasn't ready for something new as I just came out of a bad relationship. He's 34 and am 28. He's Ibo, am yoruba..
He got angry with my answer n also cos I didn't pick his calls thereafter and he deleted me off all social media except whatsapp. Called him but he ignored my calls so I let him be.. He called me d next day and apologized. I 4gave him. Weeks later,i said yes to him cos he was persistent. He was happy.
He got me gifts n sent me money without asking. I appreciated the gifts and kept them for future use. Then one day,i went visiting him... he made advances at me,i turned him down n he got angry again. He didn't call me that day to know if I got home safe. Then 2 days later,he sent me a message that he wants the gifts he gave me back cos they r meant for someone serious and ready for a relationship. I was very annoyed, called him up to know how to see him and he chose a venue and time.
I returned the gifts to him and then called to tell him he's a fuck boy and also to remind him I never asked for them, how he insulted my personalty with that act of his.... He became sober and started apologizing again and blamed it on his high temper. I forgave him. It's not even up to a week yet and we've had another fight and this time,it's about me sleeping over which wasn't discussed before and which I see as too soon...
Dear fellow BVs,do you think this relationship can get better cos he has his good sides also... but this incessant anger issues/ short tempers is something I can't deal with. Should I just walk away? It's still early for me to decide.
Kindly advice me accordingly.
Your red/blue pen would be appreciated also Stelz. Thanks and God bless.
Your red/blue pen would be appreciated also Stelz. Thanks and God bless.
He gives you gifts and collects them back when he is upset.?
Uncontrollable anger?
So wait oh,after seeing all these things what are you waiting for?A miracle?
pick up your behind and get out of that virus-ed relationship this minute.
If you decide to stay and end up with him forever,please send us your chronicles when the slaps and blows start landing on your medulla oblangata you hear?
Please save this pic on your phone.
Chronicles….
ReplyDeleteJoblesshousewife
Poster 2 na wa for you oh. Can't you see the guy just wants to "hit it and quit"? He probably budgeted a certain amount of money and time to get into your pants before taking off and that is why he is getting angry because u dey waste im time. I bet he is very coolheaded with his girlfriend. Abeg waka go front small- this one is not for you.
Delete@narrative number 2: is this your boo a lawyer? Cus i met someone like him Ibo, 36/37years oldlawyer last year and this was the same behaviour the guy had ... Please run
DeletePoster 1 as Stella said subtle confrontation would do.
DeletePoster 2. Dnt u dare think or dream of Goin back. He's really a fuck Boy. Who does that? Ask for a gift bck just after 1 week of dating wen d r/shp is supposed to still b shaking u nd gving u butterflies . FUCK BOY. Pls dnt u go bck in the name of God
Weldone jobless! U got 1st place!
DeleteStella Pls post my comment
DeletePoster 2 you are basically saying you're gonna fuck him but it's too soon. He doesn't love you or doesn't know how to express love but he wants to fuck you. You will eventually fuck but it's too soon. Whether you fuck him sooner or later, what will be, will be.
Poster 1 all hubby's cheat. One beauty pageant winner at UNIPORT just agreed to be my side chick. I will do HIV test for her and bang her raw and withdraw.
It's because when we were single and wanted to fuck, girls were saying its too soon. So we have never really cured our itch.
I love my wife but these affairs keep me sane.
Diaries of a Nigerian Husband
Poster 2:Na Man advising u now! abeg waka ! No waka sef just fly for ur safety..........
DeleteNarrative 2
DeleteSmh for u.
You just got out of a bad relationship, and the relationship which you've not even entered and the guy is behaving so childish coupled with his anger issues and you'll still asking if the relationship can get better? the relationship is already bad before it even started.
I thought you would have learnt from your past bad relationship. It's clear you haven't learnt.
Please that stupid thing you call relationship is not good for u, please don't go near it again.
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Lmao @save this pics on. Your phone.
DeletePoster 1, I feel for you. Confront him.
Poster 2, receive sense biko. He bought you a gift and collected it back? Did you add your brain to it? Get out of that relationship this minute
1. Pls what respect r u talking about? A man that cheats doesnt have respect. Also if she has the mind to be calling at all times its cos ur hubby has claimed you dont exist or u live outside the country else she wont be buzzin that much and at that time.
DeleteHe has something to hide and whatever it is, hmmmmm.
2. You need 2 see a dr cos am sure you need some sort of evaluation. Its a different thing if you have been dating and hes now acting you can even form its cos u love him you r still there.
Your relationship is dead on arrival.
Poster 2.... u are Sooooooooo daft for Africa?! your daftness has first class degree. He will fuck u, and go to his village to get a young girl and believe me he will not beat or show anger to her... it's rare for u to see a yoruba lady marry an ibo man and not have issues... I have seen a few have good homes with ibo men but they are very rare. on the other hand, if an ibo girl marry yoruba man, they do enjoy their home... only God knows why????
DeletePoster 1: Na wa oooooO.....why are you trailing this man up and down. Give yourself a rest I beg. You don't even have your own time again...busy monitoring calls and text messages.
DeleteConfront him if you are sure of all these investigations.
Poster 2: Forget that guy...little thing after your wedding, he would ask back for his ring and bride price. That's divorce for you.
Click: Good reasons why some men Cheat In Relationship
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Yoruba girls should learn from Igbo girls how to keep a man simpu
DeletePoster 2: that your so called guy is not a man.. how can a man buy you gifts and ask you to bring them back? Abeg let the boy go b4 he go sleep with you dump you ooh
DeleteIt is well.
ReplyDeletePosters just read comments below. I tire to give advice.
DeleteStella.u r a clown as wear(good one o).see d way I laughed at d last pic u asked d lady to save.hahahhohohihihihuhuhheheh
DeleteSpontaneous pls what exactly is well? U wanted to be 1st but jobless knows her spot!
DeleteLet's see. . .
ReplyDeleteLmao.. stelly mama. Mama G of blog comedy worldwide. Dat picture is so funny mehn! Poster abeg use d picture do your wallpaper and screensaver too.
DeleteYou guys are funny. 8 months and y'all shouting. My ex got married in May, that's about 6 months ago. This fuck dude has been cAlling & texting me asking for us to meet. I've stopped picking his calls & I don't respond to his msgs. These kind of ppl have no regard for marital vows nor for their spouse's feelings. I was so heart broken when we broke up and even more so when he got married. Now I just feel sorry for him & his wife.
DeleteChronicles!
ReplyDelete*******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
Emjay u know jobless ll beat u to 1st so try harder next tym *wink*
DeleteJust Negodu.
ReplyDeletePoster two you are dating a boy. Hiannn yet some silly women will have young mature men and be looking for older agbaya.
ReplyDeletePoster two, I am extremely irritated with women who are afraid to speak with their spouses. You are giving a man your naked body yet you are afraid to ask if he is faithful. Una go dey fight side chick's upandan yet when una marry na to fear fear to talk. Abeg siddon
Poster pls quietly take a walk...He only wants ur cookies.... Shine your eyes to avoid sending another chronicle soon....
DeletePoster he is your hubby pls confront him like Stella said, take him out for dinner & pop the question to him.. Wish u good luck..apply wisdom too..
Jehovah Elohim fix it for them both...
Am sure she aint afraid! She just doesnt know how to approach her husby!
DeletePoster2 biko send in ur obituary b4 ur chronicles if u decide to go ahead!
ReplyDeleteKronicles ti de
*spreads dollar crested rug*
*sipping kunu ayan*
The Chronicles is here
Stunning Slim Shady is here to read comments
Lemme go bak n read d chronicles!
Brb
Ngwa make I join u for that dollar crested rug *wink*
DeletePoster 1: ur husband na wa o. In this your young marriage when the cookie is still fresh? Kai!!! Speechless
ReplyDeletePoster 2: you better leave that dude else...
Else another chronicle loading.
DeleteNa wah oo...problems everywhere
ReplyDeletePoster 1 you want to confront your hubby? You think that's the best thing to do? I doubt that
ReplyDeleteYou'd only make him get smarter with his acts.
If he is cheating or on the verge just 8 months after wedding, how long would you continue to confront for many other cheatings to come.
Stop snooping or you'd die young.
Because he chose you for a wife doesn't mean he won't look outside.
Poster 2 una two never know the breeze wet wet dey blow una.
He'd still chop you pieces and you'd like it.
Remember to buy boxing gloves and first aid box.
Team no snoop all the way!
DeleteKikikikiki @ remb to buy boxing gloves and 1st aid kit
I gbadun your comment
DeleteNa una sabi ooo. Dey dere dey talk Team no snoop and "because he chose you for a wife doesn't mean he won't look outside" as if na favour im do the poster... na the poster choose am, I sure say she bin get plenty chykers before she gree for am. na so person dey take get HIV or other diseases in the name of forget about the cheating. Women, na una dey fall una hand sef.. Mtschew! Poster- do as stella talk jare.
DeleteChronicles of life.
ReplyDeletePoster one ask him just as stella has advised and watch his reaction.
Poster 2
Run for ur life. As in piommmmmmmmmm
Oh dear! Your response to poster 2 is legendary! Both blue and red ink. And the picture sef! I think this is an epiphany in blogging - a blogpiphany!
ReplyDeleteDragginmuvafukcerssince1900
Lmao
ReplyDeleteD picture and d blue+red pen got me...limo
No comment today.
Poster 1... are you fat that your husband is trying to cheat on you. Your marraige is too early for complaint. I hope you were not forced on him. May God help you and cure the pains you are passing through.
ReplyDeletePoster 2.. you fall hand seriously. Any stupid man that give gifts and wants me to return it don enter 1 chance. Abeg leave that stupid guy for now. I hope you are not desperate for love. Love will get you when you did not notice it. It is well
NNE you no get brain.
DeleteI don't understand the "are you fat"
DeleteWatin you mean?
Ure very stupid 2 think that a man's reason 2 cheat will b based on if his wife is fat. Gosh u irritate me with ur senseless comment. If d lady is fat did d man not see DAT b4 he opt 2 marry her? Or did she suddenly get fat in 8months wen she is not even pregnant? U guys should just stop dis weight discrimination. Am so pissed
DeleteHaba @ fat. I think fat has nothing to do with a man cheating! A cheat ll alwaz cheat!
DeleteSo you too want to join the "Are you FAT?" stupid bandwagon on this blog? So it's only women on the big side that get cheated on by their spouses? "PASSING SIX NO BE PASSING SENSE" finally.
DeleteLoveme jeje
DeleteYour comment this time doesnt make sense at all. Just know that most men that cheat got the most beautiful wives especially my coursemate.. If you see her u wont know that he has 3 set of twins so think twice before you comment or just keep mute.
Sassy fire, it is only FAT women that uses the word."on the big side".bcos they don't want to admit that they are FAT. My question is :
DeleteAre you FAT?
Poster one: I tot dt I was d one dt wrote in this chronicles, I am planning to tell my hubby dt in my place if a man cheats on his wife he wil die or the wife wil die nd if we ve kids, our kids wil start die too, nd I wil tell him dt b4 d person wil die, the person wil be critical sick b4 d death after all he is nt from my tribe sef.
ReplyDeleteMadam what are u saying?
DeleteCould he be cheating cos of ur tenses?
DeleteFool you think your hubby will listen to that crab,no wonder he cheat on you empty brain
DeleteSmart woman!
DeleteDon't ever do that! Why on earth would you want to involve ur kids??? Huh??? I hope u know there is power in the tongue?
DeleteJust keep an open mind and brace up for any challenge(s) u face. And pls, in whatever u want to say, don't involve those innocent kids mbok. They were not there when u met ur husband.
Poster two ur bf is immature, no be only short temper....
ReplyDeleteStella dat pic cracked my ribs...hahahahahahahahaa
@1, dud u ever date a married man, if yes, take this as karma but if no, the bitter truth is, there's absolutely nothing u can do to change him, d hypocrites we ve here will tell u to pray, if he has money start saving for d rainy day cos u can't ve dat ur handsome hubby all to ursef.
ReplyDelete@2, when I tell u girls not to date broke ass Una no dey hear, no rich man will ask u to return d gifts he bought for, dump him asap.
Poster one:
ReplyDeleteIf he hasn't started, he soon will, seeing as he's not discussing it with you and the whole hide and seek.
But really, just 8 months into marriage?
This one pass me abeg.
But, finally, confronting him, not the lady o, is the best thing to do right now.
And bear it in mind that he'll deny, at first.
May God help your young marriage.
Poster two:
Recieve this 5 liters of sense \ __ / .
Mtchewww.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Only 5 liters? She ll need more than that
DeletePoster 1: it's simple if u want to confront him n u r too afraid that ur loud mouth will spoil everything drop him a note that reads" dearest hubby,a little birdy told me u r now enjoying the company of a strange woman just 8 months into our marriage.I had been feeling u will do this and u didn't disappoint.My question for u is, is it worth deleting her calls and ur love messages to her and calling her while u r @ work? Especially now we are ttc? If cheating gives u d happiness u seek knock yourself out.Love your dearest wife.When u r done, make dinner with large prawns, shrimps and everything uv never used to cook bfor believe me he ain't gon touch that dinner.Who wants to die?
ReplyDeleteGod bless the mother that gave birth to you
DeleteToo longggggggg! a note
Deletekai my one of a kind woman. i like
DeleteHahahahaha!!! This advice is the bomb.lmao!
DeleteOh mine! Salt E, I love your advise. Lol@who wants to die
DeleteLovely! salt E i like you already
DeleteGbam! @Poster- incase u no know how to put mouth talk am, another perfect opportunity. E make sense wella.
DeleteGbam! @Poster- incase u no know how to put mouth talk am, another perfect opportunity. E make sense wella.
DeletePoster 1,
ReplyDeleteYou better start using menses to cook for him...
But on a serious note,call the number and warn who ever she is to keep off!...
Na wah oh...
Just 8 months and he has started cheating..
Mtcheeeww...
Talk to your man and if he is still talking with her,get your self a lover biko...
Don't kill your self because of a man...
Poster 2
Walk away biko...
You don't love my brother...leave him alone!,..
Hian...
Btw,is your pussy laced with gold?...abeg carry am go one side...
Witch!!! U never fail to disappoint me devil!!! My God, your husband is finished chei!!! Linda the black witch Eze!!!!Amosu!!!
DeleteU this bitch u don come back from shop?will u get out of here! this place is not for razz market woman like u!!!
DeleteDon't take Linda serious on d mensis part oh pls.
DeleteHian! Which one is using menses to cook abeg?
DeleteWatttttttt? @ menses! I dey look u with my left eye!
DeleteI agree with start saving for raining days ooooo!
It is well
ReplyDeletePoster1 is your husband rich,what is wrong with all these women self,so because he married means his penis is yours forever.mtcheeew be crying wolf there.for the girl to be calling consistently it means he knew her long ago. All your hubby can do is to tell to stop calling when he's @ home. You can't stop him from eating other cookies
DeleteAnoda kill joy! *walks away
DeleteCan't remember what I read. All I see is the pic.
ReplyDeleteBv one...just manage it, afterall u do runs too when u were single, plus he's ignoring d lady, which means he prolly didn't tell her he's married daz y she calls everytime...she will get tired of been ignored at odd times.
ReplyDeleteEveryone is not d same dear anonymous.
DeleteHian! What if she didnt do runs? Madam I must comment *yeye dey smell
DeleteIgnore Kwa? He only ignores her calls wen he's at home... But calls her immediately he gets to d office.... For me, I think he's cheating already.... Some men tho......
DeleteShare this scripture with your husband after you have asked him Stella's question:
ReplyDeleteProverbs 23:26My son, give me your heart and let your eyes delight in my ways, 27for an adulterous woman is a deep pit, and a wayward wife is a narrow well. 28Like a bandit she lies in wait and multiplies the unfaithful among men.
Trust me if that worked, we wont av any cheatazoid in d world again!
DeletePoster 1 once you have the lady's number give it to your brother, male cousins or friends to find out what her name is. They will tell her they saw the number saved as princess on their phone and they are wondering who it was. By that you will get her name location and necessary data. Until you have necessary information don't confront your husband.
DeleteAnd when confronting your husband don't get angry, just tell him you know he communicates with so and so person and why was he doing anything that could destroy your marriage. Once you give your husband necessary details about the lady, he will know his wife is watching even when you are not.
NB Don't ask a lady to call her because she will guess it is one of the wives of the men she is cheating with. And you really need to be patient in dealing with this. Men hates getting caught.
I can't deal with men who has short temper, cos I don't tolorate !
ReplyDeleteBut do you TOLERATE?
DeletePOSTER 1: Share this scripture with your husband after you have asked him Stella's question:
ReplyDeleteProverbs 23:26My son, give me your heart and let your eyes delight in my ways, 27for an adulterous woman is a deep pit, and a wayward wife is a narrow well. 28Like a bandit she lies in wait and multiplies the unfaithful among men.
POSTER 2;- Ahahahahahahahhahah
ReplyDelete1. Pls what respect r u talking about? A man that cheats doesnt have respect. Also if she has the mind to be calling at all times its cos ur hubby has claimed you dont exist or u live outside the country else she wont be buzzin that much and at that time.
DeleteHe has something to hide and whatever it is, hmmmmm.
2. You need 2 see a dr cos am sure you need some sort of evaluation. Its a different thing if you have been dating and hes now acting you can even form its cos u love him you r still there.
Your relationship is dead on arrival.
Lol Stella hw I love ur response to poster 2.women can let their emotions be clouds their sense of reasoning. U can see all the signs yet u are asking for advice. Poster 1 u need to confront ur hubby let him know u have noticed him all dis while. He should face his home ur marriage is still too young for all dis. Wish you luck.
ReplyDeletePoster one, subtle confrontation is the key. It may not necessarily be on a date....just choose a day you guys are relaxed and in a good mood to pop the question.
ReplyDeleteYou can start with 'please don't be angry but can I ask you a question'?
Try as much as possible not to allow ur body language or tone to be confrontational.
It works most times coz you will act as a reminder of how good it is currently with u guys and the small force that will drag him back from taking that step.
Poster 2, few months rship and all these drama already?
Not only is he short tempered but also childish...taking away gifts given in fits of anger?
I hate when people ask questions when the answers are staring them in the face!
@ poster2 knows the answer and what to do but I guess she is looking @ her age n thinking marriage
DeletePoster 1 pls confront him,d earlier d better,do it now so he can control himelf n realize its quite early for him to start having extra-marital affairs,jst 8months old marriage tufiakwa,it's not healthy for u both @all,make him to come bck to his senses ,may God heal ur heart dear.poster 2 OYO is ur case if u choose to remain in that inbalanced r/tionship abi situationship,pls allow him deal wit his anger issue,flee for ur life biko
ReplyDeletePoster 1, do confront your hubby in a subtle manner like Stella advised. I like the fact that you are smart enough to save the lady's number on your mobile. 'Snoopingly', follow her up on her social media.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, all the signs are there now but you chose to ignore them. The guy too is immature in his own way, collecting gifts after giving them out? Tueh! Save the pics up there and remember to attach it if you end up with the immature, stingy guy while posting the real chronicle.
I've been thinking n wondering so hard....
ReplyDeleteIf we so believe that men re so bad n so not worth it y then do we need them? Sex? Lesbiansm is there 2 help wit that right? Money? Ain't we miss independent again? Pls why do women need men? Mk una dey una lane n let d chronicles end biko.
I agree with u jare but culture and the need to multiply according to God's way will always make women to need men as husbands in their lives.its only ppl with hard mind that can tow this ur way o
DeleteBwhahahhahaha
ReplyDeleteSdk, You are one helluva special case
Epic reply for poster two. Nonsense and ingredient .
#YourLegacyLivesOnProfDoraAkunyili*7/6/14
*Prayer For Nigeria in Distress x10 Daily*
Poster 1 communication is the key. Poster 2 Run.
ReplyDeleteHahahhahahahahahahhahaahahahahah@poster2:please try and save that picture ok,naa so beating take dey start.
ReplyDeleteIs he short?
Y did you return the gifts he gave you?
Will he return your chilled toto when he finally hits it?
Leave him now....the earlier the better.
@poster1 : am proudly team snoop!
Is better you as you find out so that you will guide yourself from the unknown.
If you confront your hubby at this stage, he will start locking his fone or start being more careful.
Just tag along 4 now n get some kinda of evidence 2 back it up if not, she will turn 2 his imaginary sister/colleague.
pOSTER 2: tHANKS STELLA FOR WHAT YOU TOLD POSTER 2.
ReplyDeleteShe is even ready to "open legs" but "not too soon". Chei women! What kind of potato packed brain do SOME women have. Why receive gifts from a man that you have not even known if you will ever like?
My igbo brothers don come again but this one is a very foolish one, he isnt worth your time.
ReplyDeleteMadam confront your hubby before one of these desperate dirty smelly prostitute steal your man.
Lmaooooo. STELLA U R WICKED CHOI
ReplyDeletePOSTOR 2....Receive sense IJN.
POSTOR1....call that lady...st her up and beat her blie black....lmaoo
What if she doesn't know he's married, he might be deceiving her too
DeleteStella is just a clown
ReplyDeleteIt is well
ReplyDeletePoster 1...your marriage is too young for this drama. Confront him, let him know you know about the hide and seek game he is playing.
ReplyDeletePoster2: u are still asking questions after seeing all the danger signs. Continue at ur own risk.
POSTER 1
ReplyDelete- PLEASE DONT CONFRONT HIM.
- BE VERY NICE
- START VIGILS FOR 21 DAYS
- HE LADY IS A STRANGE WOMAN
- GO TO MOUNTAIN O FIRE FOR DELIVERANCE OR PRAYERS
- IT CAN DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE
- DONT GIVE UP ON YOUR MARRIAGE FIGHT FOR IT
- HE DOES NOT KNOW WHAT HE IS UP TO
- PARY PRAY PRAY
MY DEAR SISTER
D prayer pipol don show!
DeleteKai! Dis blog and diff personalities! Them go tell u to pray pray pray pray pray witout action! Issori poster 1 u fit join d association
First Chronicle - You need to catch him red - handed. Since you have access to the phone,install a spyware on his phone.i will redirect all his msgs,whatsapp and phone call to a server so you can listen in aftewards,
ReplyDeleteAfter you are certain of what is going on,follow stella's advice and this time you will be speaking fact!
Second Chronicle - SDK don talk am finish!Save that pic on your phone.When it happens,use one of those apps to put your 2pics side by side.
It's very simple.his temper is WAAAAAY TOOOOO SHORT!!before he will throw ur pikin from upstairs one day like the guy in "for coloured women"
Babe@poster two,
DeleteLeave him,or else your case will be like that photo Stella posted.
Be wise.
Poster 1,a subtle confrontation would do,
DeleteGood luck.
Poster 2: Why is it very easy for us to tell people to quit? Who is without a sin? We are all imperfect beings made whole by grace. If this guy was our brother would we had asked him to quit? Isn't anger better than a cheating spouse? Poster, my hubby then fiance had anger issues but I helped him out. Weigh his good and his short coming then make your choice. Avoid him/be calm when he is angry. Peacefully talk him out. Google on how to handle anger crisis with your spouse. Pray n let ur kindness win him over.
DeletePoster 2: Its quiet a pity. So young a marriage to be messed with. You must talk to him and not nag #heart2heart
Pls how do I go about installing a spyware in my hubby's phone b4 the anger in me pushes me to do something stupid?
Delete1 time commenter
DeleteAbeg whats d name of the spyware *side eyes
La sweet
DeleteAm sending you blow job right away
LA sweet, are you the new holy spirit?
Delete@ P1 ur husband cheating level never enter gear 2, he still has a fragment of his heart left and 4 that I say thank God. He obviously loves u and feels bad about what he is doing.
ReplyDeleteAs Stella talk na calm confrontation but don't mention u have seen d messages. Just say u noticed a lady always calls n he ignores, who she be n why he ignoring. Tease him n ask if she is a toaster den see what he says. Weigh ur words n actions, don't let things escalate.
Lmao @ aswear I still love him
ReplyDeleteThat picture is epic..
DeleteLwkmd..I must remain there by force by fire..
Stella u had to use your red/blue pen for poster 2...lol!
ReplyDeletePoster 1, pls confront your hubby politely, that shld change ge his mind.
Pls don't make trouble with him, that wld even make him go to the other woman
Wisdom is needed pls. Takia.
Poster 2, dt guy is a boy, who does that?
Buys you a gift and ask for it back?
Smh! Pls leave him alone now else it will get worse.
Poster number 1, do not confront Ur husband, he still hides it and still ignores d lady, means he loves and respect u, in my opinion d lady is d desperate one and I wud send a word of advice to her if she doesn't want anyone dragging her husband with her in future.
ReplyDeleteLmao ooooo @ Sdk. Ur advice is the same as mine.
ReplyDeleteread
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
Poster two got me really laughing so hard.... those questions are rhetorical abeg. Stella that pinchure is just the best reply for her.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, Hmmmmm try n talk to him in a very calm way.... cos arguing with him will only push him away from u
Stella Kork is spot on in both scenarios. I echo her exact sentiments!
ReplyDeleteGhanaman signing out!
Poster 2, you are dating a chewing gum boy abeg. Run as fast as your legs can
ReplyDeleteI love Stella's advise on both case... sisters, una don hear am... #StillWonderingIfChroniclesIsFemaleOnly
ReplyDeletePoster 1 am so sorry babe, ur hubby neva told me he ws married. No wonder he ignored all my calls recently n cudnt giv a beta reason 4 dat. He's so cute n marrying him is so on my mind. What help can I render now cos am spendin my life wit him n no1 would do us apart
ReplyDeleteTah shut up dia... u wan just create drama for where e no dey... abeg commot for road
DeleteWTF! Are u for real or just seeking attention?
DeleteBiko leave her hubby for her n go get anoda man, if not u ll never av/ find peace of mind in ur life!
Hahahahahah! Ur reply is such a relief! I thot it was me but on a second thought, that can't be me cos I don't call.
DeleteLike seriously????? Now u know he's married.... So pls, madam husband snatcher, get d fuck outta their lives... Go get a life fool nd allow d newly weds to enjoy a blissfull marriage..... Ogumagana...
DeletePoster one: I really love stella's advice pls go with it.
ReplyDeleteTwo: Y u still dey find who go advice you? I knw u r contemplating in ur mind and u av given urself d right answer. If u continue wit him,expect d slaps to come okay.cos u are in a relationship with an immature man.
Lord have mercy
ReplyDeleteStella,your advice to poster 2 is hilarious and that picture, Omg! Lol
ReplyDeleteThis one am just laughing anyhow today *sideeyesatself*
Stellla eeh u dey craze ooop, so because she said red and blue you come use both join. hahahahaha
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Pray to God to restore back ur marriage. I won't blame u for snooping cos almost every other girl does when their partner's mood change. He's only with her for a while n will surely be back to ur arms bt only wit prayers.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: forget d Gee,he isn't ur bf. He's fake,immature n arrogant. He luvs only ur cookies n once he gets dt,u're gone. Plks stay away no matter hoe much he apologise. How wil a grown up man collects back gifts cos of a lil issue . Sex is nt luv n money neither.
Poster 1: Pray to God to restore back ur marriage. I won't blame u for snooping cos almost every other girl does when their partner's mood change. He's only with her for a while n will surely be back to ur arms bt only wit prayers.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: forget d Gee,he isn't ur bf. He's fake,immature n arrogant. He luvs only ur cookies n once he gets dt,u're gone. Plks stay away no matter hoe much he apologise. How wil a grown up man collects back gifts cos of a lil issue . Sex is nt luv n money neither.
Lol! Stella I love you dearly.
ReplyDeletePoster 1:
DeleteI think he cheated on you before in the relationship or an old flame who won't leave him alone. Its a tell tale sign of that. Not really cheating
I can't be sure but
-cheats are more coded. A man sneaking after 8months of his marriage will be more creepy. Won't even let his fone ring plus the woman won't even call him at ungodly hours that often.
Looks like she's disturbing your man for something. In any case, your hubby hasn't been 100 percent truthful. Maybe he's protecting you from what it the woman has to say. Could be anything from an old fling to a baby mama. That's why he calls her in d office to warn her to stop calling him at home or texts her that. In anycase, your hubby is wrong.
Keeping secrets helps no one in marriage. That thing he's trying to protect u from and trying to fix or praying it stops will still come back to haunt. A woman that calls a man like that knowing he has a family, is dangerous. Your husband, cheating or not, is very inexperienced.
The solution is to confront him. To know exactly what it is. It could even be worse dan cheating. After seeing those calls and ignoring them, how is his countenance?
1st, you must be open n make him know you're a confidant n uve seen it all. Make him understand he can tell yoi anything.
After a while, confront him at the oddest time possible, during a tv show, after morning devotion, while he's eating or anytime that will throw him off balance 1st. Watch his first reaction, the very 1st.
When he can't give you a plausible reply, go ahead and tell him in a slightly threatening low voice that you have zero tolerance for cheating and secrets. Tell him there's a very thin line between love and hate. Make him know that he should never act in a way that puts doubt in your heart. Don't tell him the "or", just stop at that. If he tries to beg you, don't just start crying and spoil the game. Still form 'hard' like nothing happened and you're just telling him just in case and you're back to your lovely wife mode.
I don't see your husband to be someone with a strong heart, that conversation, he will keep at the back of his mind. He might still cheat oh but it may create an impact.
I wish u all the best
Poster 1 block her on your Hubby's phone. Use true caller to dial her not to know her identity. Then you can prayerfully confront him.
DeletePoster2 The person wet carry mumu do you no try at all, intact God go punish the person. Receive brain resetting slap raise to power seven.
Poster 1: Pray to God to restore back ur marriage. I won't blame u for snooping cos almost every other girl does when their partner's mood change. He's only with her for a while n will surely be back to ur arms bt only wit prayers.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: forget d Gee,he isn't ur bf. He's fake,immature n arrogant. He luvs only ur cookies n once he gets dt,u're gone. Plks stay away no matter hoe much he apologise. How wil a grown up man collects back gifts cos of a lil issue . Sex is nt luv n money neither.
Poster 2: u are not in. Relationship oooo but a situationship....'i said yes to him cos he was persistent." Not becos u love him oooooo....na wa ooo
ReplyDeletelaughing @ please save this pix! Women, they never learn. They will see the handwriting clearly and still demand for an interpretation after which they will still do what's on their mind. Odiegwu o
ReplyDelete1st poster@ I admire your calmness.
Poster 1: Pray to God to restore back ur marriage. I won't blame u for snooping cos almost every other girl does when their partner's mood change. He's only with her for a while n will surely be back to ur arms bt only wit prayers.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: forget d Gee,he isn't ur bf. He's fake,immature n arrogant. He luvs only ur cookies n once he gets dt,u're gone. Plks stay away no matter hoe much he apologise. How wil a grown up man collects back gifts cos of a lil issue . Sex is nt luv n money neither.
These are the first sensible chronicles we've read in ages in this blog.. My first advice too.
ReplyDeletePoster1. My advice to you is to treat this matter calmly.
You can start up by being nicer than normal to your oga, do this for like one week, and makes sure he becomes aware of how nicer you've become, then take Stella's advice in a good Friday evening
Please Remember to ask him in a subtle, calm and gentle manner.... it will make it harder for him to shrug off the matter and whatever he tells you, act like you believe him even if you don't. Do not make him feel suspected even if you don't trust him (that is if he continues ooo) Let him feel trusted while you continue your snooping.
If you eventually catch him red handed, he'll do anything to win back your trust.
But I pray the nicened attitude and the advent dinners will so the job. Goodluck dearie.
Poster2.. That man is insane..
You don't want to be a victim of domestic violence..... God has a better plan that is going to come along with a better man for you. God bless you.
Lol! Stella, I love you dearly.You are an embodiment of wisdom.
ReplyDeleteThese are the first sensible chronicles we've read in ages in this blog.. My first advice too.
ReplyDeletePoster1. My advice to you is to treat this matter calmly.
You can start up by being nicer than normal to your oga, do this for like one week, and makes sure he becomes aware of how nicer you've become, then take Stella's advice in a good Friday evening
Please Remember to ask him in a subtle, calm and gentle manner.... it will make it harder for him to shrug off the matter and whatever he tells you, act like you believe him even if you don't. Do not make him feel suspected even if you don't trust him (that is if he continues ooo) Let him feel trusted while you continue your snooping.
If you eventually catch him red handed, he'll do anything to win back your trust.
But I pray the nicened attitude and the advent dinners will so the job. Goodluck dearie.
Poster2.. That man is insane..
You don't want to be a victim of domestic violence..... God has a better plan that is going to come along with a better man for you. God bless you.
Yimmmuuuu to u! So there are sensible chronicles??? Oriegwu!
Deletestella u r a comedian.... u actually used yur red and blue pen lmfao
ReplyDeleteI'm with Stella on this. Her advice is so on point.
ReplyDeleteStella that your pic na die. Poster 2, did you meet this guy on single and mingle, he seems very similar to a guy that added me and later deleted me. He's 34 and Igbo, that's why im asking.
ReplyDeleteWhen I even asked him how he got my pin bcos its been a while, he was rude, called me all manner of names....when I started paraing, na so e begin beg me. From my little interactions with him, the guy be like psycho. I just leave am with intention to soon delete him. Few days later he had deleted me. I just smile.....
Pls don't be desperate, this guy definitely has an anger problem. Pls since you guys just met few mnths, atlst ur not attached yet. Stella advised you well, his behaviour is a behaviour of an abuser. They don't start off slapping you believe me, it starts much later.
Poster 1, that ur man is cheating.....just take it as that. That girl is probably a side-chick from when you guys were dating. Do you know its possible girly may not even know ur hubby is a married man. he fit dey say he's fone is always on silent dats why he's always missing her call. Confront him, but when you guys are in a loving mood, just slide it in and watch his reaction? knowing most men, he will still deny it. Most men until u catch dem untop woman physically, they will always deny. Good luck
I concur
ReplyDeleteOh Stella. I love u so much for ur poster 2 response. Lool
ReplyDeletePOSTER 2; are you okay, is something wrong with you. Should you even be asking us that question.
ReplyDeleteYOU BETTER DELETE HIM FROM YOUR LIFE. That guy is a BIIIIG FUCK BOY
Lmao at that pic stella still recovering from Eesah's hello now this? Poster 1 the moment u guys realize that naija guys aren't faithful d better for u stop giving urself headache u are even lucky it's just a particular gurl and he doesn't sleep around
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha, Stella oooo. Poster 2, Ejo run as fast and as far as your legs your legs can carry you. Poster 1, I'm not into team snoop, it breaks d heart, but you can sha take Stella's advice.
ReplyDeletefirst chronicle i think stella has said it all, dinner nd let d qstn follow. then 2nd caller my qstn is wat class r u in sec schl? cause wat u just narrated is like sec schl love. nd if u are really a secondary schl kid den i'll say face your book nd leave boys alone. cause ow else do i explain dat a full grown ass nigga nd a girl are behaving like a children? gift nd collected back? nd u're still sending chronicle to ask jamb qstns if u are to stay or not.na wa oo
ReplyDeleteLmao @the advice for second poster. Odiegwu. Ife umuazi. So when he gets angry he takes back his gifts. Chai childish mofo. Yoruba geh if u don't want to be like that Iyawo up there please leave that my Igbo brother. If u like igbo guys, don't worry u will meet a sane one. This one is insane. Poster one- No matter how incriminating an evidence please verify first. And in a very very quiet and non troublesome way. It's for ur own good. Since he treats u well. Don't spoil it by rushing into conclusion. I bet a hundred dollars he will hit that b*tch real soon. Hehehehehe and she might not even know he is married hence d persistent calling like an angry gf.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: confront ya husband.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: you are very funny. Ditch the ewure!
Stella, u don craze finish o. Afi save d picture. Poster 1, I think u need to confront him but subtly. My hubby did same but it wasn't all d time d Lady called. Smx he wud answer but you wud know he wasn't comfy. One day I picked up and said hello in d most sexy and gentle manner, the lady dropped. I called back immediately with Hubby's number she didn't pick up. I guess that was wen she stopped calling. D one pissing me off is d one that flashes and send 'pls call me back' and hubby wud call back wen I'm not with him. Umu nwoke!!! Hubby never hides the fact he is married from dem, that I'm sure but I wonder what d want. He doesn't have enof money to throw about but cute.
ReplyDeletePoster 1..Stella's advise is fantastic. Do it.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. Run before its too late. That dude would beat you up soon.
I need a stinkingly rich dude in my life.Where are all of them in this country?!
Poster one, confront him. Simple. Listen to him and ask why he avoids her calls in your presence and deletes her number from the log. If he wants to start behaving like Akamu, tell him you're his wife and you have the right to go through his phone. Don't allow him shift blames and make you feel bad, that's their specialty.
ReplyDeletePoster two, see your life? What are you asking for? What exactly do you want us to tell you? Can't you read the signs? Must they slap you first before you know what's up? What's wrong with all these girls sef? He'll even collect his gifts back??? See ehn, don't collect ANYTHING from him again and please run for your life. What is wrong with you nao? Please Receive sense abeg I'm getting pissed as I'm typing sef.
Please ignore any typo......
poster 1
ReplyDeleteYour le hubby is cheating and naso e dey take start ,since you have the ladies number try confront the lady politely because he might be your hubby boss .Who knows!.. and please stop trying to snoop, you will only hurt yourself..this one u talk sey le hubby is cute..Are u ugly madam???
poster 2
Aunty Stella Don tell u ooo..lmao,you are so desperate madam.,the signs are so clear ,you still they wait for Us to tell you to RUN.he is so immature.He has no self respect for you .Short temper my foot.he just wan shine your Congo that is what is after..so be a mermaid, your Man will come soon.TrustGod
Stella you are wicked ooo....That picture is epic.Woman, you have heard!
ReplyDeleteSit him down n talk to him simple, u re just too young in Dat marriage to start stressing ur self. No 2 u r not in a relationship.
ReplyDeleteLmao! Madam Stella your advice to P1 is hilarious.
ReplyDeleteMadam please confront your husband, he is already cheating on you, even if it's emotionally.
Poster 2 please leave that guy, he sounds like someone who can hit a woman. He can't control his anger, he should go for anger management.
P1, go on your knees, the marriage is too young to witnes all this. Even if you ask him with all subtleness and humility he will still deny it. My anger is that didn't he tell the babe he's married? Why calling him aftet office hours? It is well with your home my dear. P2, They can be very nice and very aggressive. This one that is taking back gifts is even worse. I would rather you let him go because one day in a fit of anger or jealousy he might hit you.
ReplyDeleteLolzzzz!!!. Stella u won't kill someone o! Lol @poster 2 Stella's advice is just enough 4u also poster 1. Never been married, sorry I can't advice much. But I pray u well.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahaha Stellz ohhhhhhh! Lmao!
ReplyDelete@ Poster one, now is the time to get down on your knees and Prayyyyyyy, and yes I agree with Stella on the confrontation.
@ Poster two, see the attached pic if you wuldnt like that to be you start running. Attitudes like that dont change overnight.
He seems like a guy that added me on s n m. In lagos. And fair..we were chatting nd he was asking me some questions about relationships.. I told him I will be bk I need. To take my bath..wasted lil time after bathing..had to run to some errand..wen I was free tried to answer him noticed he had deleted me..mine was easy because I'm far from him...maybe u guys r in same city dats why he still adds you back. Please run along..he is for the cookie
ReplyDeleteYour marriage is way too young for this. I'll tell you what I tell every snooping wife, get involved with yourself. Financially,academically,spiritually and career wise. It wouldn't make him stop cheating but he'll know you can hold your own with or without him and he'll thread carefully. Plus No,he didnt just start. A man who starts acting funny 8months into his marriage is no novice,this particular side chick just has no chill.
ReplyDeletePoster 2
I'm calling on Em Jay,and in togetherness I say
'Jesus Fix it'
Gbammest comment so far!
DeleteChop kiss
Sira,bEen a while....
DeleteP1, plz talk 2 him gently and ask him his reasons,if there is something u are not doing well,so that u can adjust.it is well dear and above all involve the almighty.
ReplyDeleteP2 take a long walk while walking don't look back so u won't turn to salt,it is well... leave him asap he is not worthy of your love.
Chronicles from married women have a way of affecting me psychologically.
ReplyDeleteAt times I feel same thing might happen to me. I get super scared because most married women on this blog has one problem or the other with hubby (cheating especially).
Maybe I should be reading chronicles from married women with a nonchalant attitude. Truly I get scared each day I read chronicles like that of poster1.
PEACEFUL AND ENCOURAGING WIFE....
the second chronicle so funny.... my dear fleeeeeee because you said it in your chronicle that it was because u didnt give in to his sexual advances dat was y he called you to return his gifts..... dis shows all he wants is ur honey pot.
ReplyDeletePoster two just follow Stella's advise... confront him shikena
poster 1: do what Stella ask u to do but with a gentle voice pls!
ReplyDeleteposter2: I wonder what u want to know again blcos the Ibo guy have display his evil u are lucky He didn't hide till after marriage. i married one of his kind hmmmmmm what I saw is only God dt save MEoooh, let ME give u brief summary, he will beat u when he is angry, seize my phone for weeks and clothes he bought for me i will start wearing the one i came with before marriage, if I'm driving and he is angry with me guess what? he will stop the car then u will come down while he drive home without looking back if he is the one that bought the handbag u are holding at that moment, he takes it with him. this happen so many timesooooo as Ibo girl I start hiding money on my tight incase of emergency Lol blcos u have try to see if the marriage will work! this is few out of many u will experience in the marriage. will he beg Oh yes! he will as if it won't happen again but the next will b bitter than the previous one. when I said enough is enough I can't continue my dear he strip me of everything he bought for me. well I'm alive but the experience is bad and I don't wish my worse enemy's daughter to go through it blcos is horrible dear so runnnnnnnnnnnnnoooo! before it happenoooooo!
Poster 1 don't be afraid, confront him. It's better u nip it in d bud now than regret later. I hope it's not too late. Poster 2 ur matter tire me ooo. At 28 u can't make good judgement.
ReplyDeleteOgeeee so u don carry ur matter enter blog. But pls i want u to ask urself dis questions. Y did he go bk to his ex just 8 months after he married u? Y cant he let her go. Y cant u make ur husband faithful to u at least for 2 yrs. All tru d tym u dated were u faithful to him. U think he has forgetten
ReplyDeleteWho be u???
DeletePoster 2: u are not in. Relationship oooo but a situationship....'i said yes to him cos he was persistent." Not becos u love him oooooo....na wa ooo
ReplyDelete'Honey, who is that lady that calls n texts u?'chaiii women don suffer.
ReplyDeleteHian! At that last picture.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, immature boyfriend is better quit and let him go.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, just put everything in God hand and be patient wit him.
Seriously girls can just kill my spirit, how can a guy treat u like that n u still keep ur ass there Na by force to love ni abi u be Holy Spirit that wants to change him
ReplyDeleteP2, u knw d answer already...God allows all dese signs for a purpose...some pple r unfortunate, dey dnt c any signs until dey r married!!! Gdlk
ReplyDeleteThank u so much for posting Stella. I'll just chill and gather more concrete evidence before I confront hubby. Cos I know he'd deny it outrightly if I confront him without evidence. Still can't believe this is hapning 2 me. Neva dated a married man before, as in NEVER.
ReplyDeletePS: for those who asked, I'm neither fat nor ugly.
#Poster 1
Hmmm, na wa oooo,
ReplyDeletePoster 1, Pls pray and let God direct you on what to do.
Anon 15:30, am sure you are looking for DRAMA, cos I doubt if you are Poster 1's DH's side chick. But if you are , ehennnnnnn, no let that woman pray thunder and fire for your heard ooo. Its a good thing, you said you DID NOT KNOW, so leave him quietly, now THAT YOU KNOW!!!
Lady with the angry suitor-He is courting you and you are fighting everyweek, then he is so erratic. No one is perfect but this man needs to work on his temperament. He is the type that is quick to use abusive words or raise his hands. Please sister, no one is meant to act out like this. Be guided.
ReplyDeleteLady with the Cheating Husband-I do not understand Nigerian women. We do not prayerfully confront our cheating wives, we do not calmly talk to you when you cheat. Who sold you women these lies. You can exchange bodily fluids with a man but you can not ask him why he is cheating? You want to confront the woman? Is she your husband? Your husband swore fidelity to you. You deserve to be respected. Your husband cheating on you means he does not respect you. We do not cheat on who we respect. Do not let any of these men lie to you. I will tell you what I tell my sisters. A man who is able to chase and follow another woman does not in anyway respect you. He might have love for you but he is obviously not scared to lose you. If I know that cheating will cause my wife to leave or deal with me or anger God, I will keep my trousers zipped. See women telling her he does not know what he is doing. Ladies, we are not children. We are the heads of the home. How can you submit to a man who can not ward off destructive women? Please lady and all ladies being cheated on...confront the situation and stop being silly.
Stella o, love gbakwa oku
ReplyDeleteWowwww @ Salt E, this is epic. @ least poster 1 will know the truth. This is truly a diplomatic way to resolve the problem.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, you actually said "you can't deal with it" therein lies your answer. Make haste whilst the sun still shines...
ReplyDeleteI'm out!
poster 2, your boyfriend is still very childish and immature, the day he asked for the gifts back would be the day i would end the relationship, get ready for more drama if you still want to remain in the r/ship, and we await your chronicles when he starts beating you.
ReplyDeleteposter 1, i think you should confront your hubby but in a nicely manner, i think, one part of him is tempting him to cheat and another part of him is cautioning him, so confronting him about the matter would actually bring his senses back, since he knows that you know his moves.
Eh see men! He deleted her number, soon he will get another phone for all his side chicas. Na wa o! NAIJA men CHANGE o! Madam, before you approach him about anything have proof and make sure you make a good number of copies and hide in different locations. God is your strength! I have been there and even though I almost killed somebody, it made me more aware of the shenanigans of these beings that claim to be our heads.
ReplyDelete@ poster 1 you don't have to take him out for dinner before asking.next time that call comes and he doesn't pick, ask him why he is not picking and tell you what you have observed.do it in a nice manner. Don't shout or threaten.
ReplyDeletePoster 2.. Ben Johnson kiakiakia.no waste time. Bad news.
All I see is the pix with the battered face....it cracked my ribs real good.
ReplyDeletePosters, SDKers have said it all.
Take the good ones and leave the rest
I wish you both luck.
All I see is the pix with the battered face....it cracked my ribs real good.
ReplyDeletePosters, SDKers have said it all.
Take the good ones and leave the rest
I wish you both luck.
Poster 1, I think you should ask your hubby questions about the calls and sms. Poster 2 hmmmm you are still asking what to do abi. My friend better run for your dear life and save the pix as Stella suggested.
ReplyDeletePoster one I use God beg you do not confront him o, your marriage is still young so do not I repeat set the pace of fighting and argument because there will be no peace.
ReplyDeleteUse ya head
Get another SIM card and start txting your hubby to stay away from this lady but first try and find out who she is and if she is married or single. If she is married oya start txting your hubby threats to stay away from your wife and laying big big curses that if he doesn't stay away you will kill him and his wife and that you know where he lives and works.
Then sit back and watch the show kikikikikikikiki
Please do not confront him just use your head. Don't even tx the lady he will be the one to chase her away her leg won't touch the ground and they will never suspect you and she will deny it to your husband and he will never believe her heheheheheh
Poster 1 pray and seek for wisdom. Well you basing the worth of your marriage that he chooses you as he is eye candy. Need I say more. Please face God and let the spirit of lust be vamoosed from your house. And get to know God
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