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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

WHEN AN EX BECOMES AN IN LAW....

Dear Stella,

I hope my mail meet you well. I recently discovered one of my ex girl friend is planning to get married to my cousin.

This ex girl friend happens to be my sister’s friend and we dated for some months, we however parted ways due to irreconcilable differences. She once told my sister that I am the destined guy for her and she was sure about it. I got married to another lady few years later and she was aware.

I recalled that few months to my wedding she tried to have sex me in my house but I just told her to move on that I have moved on myself,Even though I resisted the sex we still had romance.

We have been the trusting God for my cousin too because he is matured enough to settle down but am surprised he wants to settle with this lady. He is not aware that I have dated the lady in the past and I don’t want to be a spoiler. All my family members are aware of their relationship and I am worried of future family events. We still talk occasional but she treats me as if nothing ever happened in the past.

Regards

You sound a little jealous darling.let her find her own happiness.Ignore the past and try to be civil to her.behave as if nothing happened and flee if she tries to offer you her 'Kinikan' on a platter of gold again.

I know how uncomfortable this can be but if your Uncle ever finds out,do not agree that you dated her.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

LOST LIBIDO

Hello Dear Stella....

please post this in the chronicles....

I dated my husband for eight months before we got married . Before I

met him,I had an active sex life...I dated him alone for that eight

months.

We didn't have sex regularly then before marriage because he says he

feels guilty of sin after having it (not as if he was a born again). He

never has sex on Saturday night because he feels unclean before God

on Sunday in Church. So I was actually waiting to say I DO.....

Two days after our traditional marriage, his Church started a 40 days

fasting and prayer, we still had sex once in a while cos of that.

sometimes I will quarrel with him before we do. I was pregnant then.

He actually started doing it more after the fasting....but it was

kinda late because I was already loosing interest in sex. as my

pregnancy advanced I lost interest the more. I don't deny him sex but

I don't show interest again. I don't ask for it again. he complained

and I said it was the pregnancy.

I have delivered and still not interested in sex. I have never cheated

on him and I don't even feel like. please I need advice.....I want my

groove back,I can stay weeks without sex yet it doesn't bother me. I

know he isn't cheating on me and I don't want to give him reason to do

that.

What will I do? am so confused . I need to go back to my old self...I

think the denial of sex caused my loss of interest. Right now I need

to spice up my marriage because its becoming boring. thanks..

please hide my id.

What has happened to you happens to most women when they are pregnant and go through the whole process....sometimes the libido comes back on its own but sometimes help is needed.Discuss the problem with him and make una play more before nacking,you know,he should stimulate you more,that might help.

If not........na wah!

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