Hmmmm men also have Chronicles.....Deep ones!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
WHEN A MAN SHOWS TOO MUCH CARE .......
Hey Stella Nwanyioma. Good day!
Dear bvs, please pardon the lengthy mail just wanna get all the sincere advice from this family.
Okay I'm 29, live and work in PH. I met this lady on Facebook. She stays in lagos. we started talking, Everything was going well. We talked about our long term goals, favs, family, past experiences. It was fun. I was beginning to develop feelings for her, and I'm pretty sure she was too...except she was pretending. Just saying...... I'd call her before leaving for work, during lunch break and later at night...
Okay I'm 29, live and work in PH. I met this lady on Facebook. She stays in lagos. we started talking, Everything was going well. We talked about our long term goals, favs, family, past experiences. It was fun. I was beginning to develop feelings for her, and I'm pretty sure she was too...except she was pretending. Just saying...... I'd call her before leaving for work, during lunch break and later at night...
Everyday, it was the same routine...I was planning to take some time off work to go visit her in Lagos. Everything was going well till she started acting cold, I guess because of the care and 'over' attention I was giving her.
Then I decided to give some space, then suddenly she started complaining that I had changed, that I dont care about her anymore, no calls.... Honestly, I miss her but I just think it's wise to just let her be.
This has been my issue both in my past relationship(s) and I keep losing simply because I always wanna channel myself to what they want. But they just ain't satisfied. I seriously wanna settle down, not cos there's any pressure but I know am comfortable to start my own family.
So if my intention was for games, I wouldn't think about how they feel (i have always wanted the best outcome in all my relationships). My kind of job does not really give me enough time but I always try as I could never to sour the communication.
My question now is: where am I getting it wrong? How can I deal with the issue of communicating without trying to bore the other party / act like a pest to them.
Red pen don finish till tomorrow when i go buy.BV'S please help me advise him well...meanwhile deactivate that your mumu button...lol
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
HE SNOOPED AND ALL HELL BROKE LOOSE...
I am an ardent reader of this forum,I never even thought I would ever send my problem here cos I thought I can always solve my problem myself but truly God knows I can't cos am sure no superman, let me explain to you stella and readers the long story.
I have been in relationships for 4 years and 6 months, truly the relationship hasn't been anything to write home about but once a man loves a woman nothing changes his mind...
I have always suspected her but never caught her until 8 days after our introduction, I snooped and wished I didn't cos I saw things I couldn't believe .....
I saw how my gal has been cheating on me since 2011 when we started dating and how the other guy knew about me and they discuss everything about me and even my sexual performance, how she tells the guy her parents is forcing her on me, how she doesn't like my mum, I saw things!.
I saw how she sends her nude pics at his request, how she denies me Sex on order of the guy, how I send her monthly allowance and she shares it with him, how whenever I call she talks freely even if she was with him....
To cut the long story short she has been begging for the past 11 months and truly I haven't moved on, I consider forgiving but my question is, can someone truly change and be faithful to one man despite what she has shared with this guy?
What they shared is more than what we had?
Stella please all I need is RED INK?
NB
I Am Yoruba Muslim so is she and the guy is Igbo Christian.
Can she really change and be faithful to only me again? I need your sisterly advice cos I think I have feelings for her still.
Thank you
HIAN....
Betrayal of the highest order!...Sometimes once a thief,always a thief.
*runs out of red ink...*
It is well….
ReplyDeleteJoblesshousewife
Poster 1 run fast poster 2 run faster.
DeletePoster two. She loves the guy. But she can't marry him. I had a friend like her. She will eventually settle down and leave the other guy but you must know that if you maltreat her or anything, he will always be there. Married or nah.
DeletePoster two. She loves the guy. But she can't marry him. I had a friend like her. She will eventually settle down and leave the other guy but you must know that if you maltreat her or anything, he will always be there. Married or nah.
DeletePoster 1.. Lemme read comment
DeletePoster2 you need to forget about her cos you don't trust her anymore so I don't see how that can work
Men's chronicle?
DeleteSipping my kunu......
So men do send chronicle?
Kikikikikikikikikikikikikikikiki
Poster 1: Your girl friends sees ur weakness and uses it against you... Whenever you go into a relationship, try as much as possible to hide ur weakness... You might as well have a good relationship
DeletePoster 2: with ur narrative, don't dare go back to ur relationship.. You go chop Sand ooo
A word is enough for the wise
Poster 2,open ur eyes pls! Who talks ds way abt a supposed fiance? She ds nt love u and will never do. She's only begging cos her folks want u and not d Christian guy. Be careful of ds kinda marital decision pls n stop being sentimental. Get her off ur mind n move on! Sue
DeleteI can identify with poster 2, I’ll strongly suggest that you do yourself a favour. Step off, for sanity sake. Even if you try to mend it, your pretence towards trusting her wouldn’t last long. Memories of her betrayal will ALWAYS keep flooding back.
DeleteI was in a relationship of 4years too. I trusted her 100%. I could vouch for her and stuff. Eventually after the “whatsapp” discovery, i was truly ashamed of myself. I thought I knew better. Truth is, a woman who wants to cheat and hide her ways, really know how to go about it.
Anyway, bro, do not attempt to “fix” your relationship, it’s gone beyond that. Take it or leave it.
The men should run...
DeleteIf na women, they should forgive abi?
Poster one pls I'm here . I love such attention and I sure know how to give it in return. This life na was. What another person is craving for someone is out there throwing it away.
DeletePoster 2 move on already . things can never be the same between you two.
Poster1: I know dat suffocating feeling a girl gets, i have a crazy stalker like dat from SnM last edition, my guy free her a bit and let her come choose u herself.
DeletePoster 2: Like stella said just NEGODU, stop any communications with her with immediate effect, Slap! Receive sense..... Not forgetting GERMAN JUICE, good to have u back
poster2) take to your heels. Meanwhile , I have a friend who is a Muslim and is single. If you are Interested send a mail to Halimatoseni4@gmail.com
Deleteposter2) take to your heels. Meanwhile , I have a friend who is a Muslim and is single. If you are Interested send a mail to Halimatoseni4@gmail.com
Delete@poster 2;trust is like A sticker,when removed and fixed back;it can never be as tight as it was before...
DeleteYou know the answer you seek;but just not strong enough to take the decision alone hence why you brought it here...
If we tell you to forgive her and continue with the marriage,and on the long run she doesn't change,are we going to be there to go through the pains with you??
My dear;some decisions are quite better when made by "self"..so whatever it turns out to be;you take the blame...
TRUST IS A LUXURY!!
Truth here is if eventually you marry this lady;you yourself would never be comfortable seeing her with any "male" colleague or friend even when she has no ulterior motive..you get scared and feel uncomfortable instantly! and you know what they say A marriage without trust is??
#Goodluck
@poster 2;human beings can never be pleased!!
Play all your part positively and if things just dont seem to work out;put in your best too..and if your best doesnt seem to be appreciated by your partner;then take A walk..
The worst that could happen to any man is staying where he/she isnt appreciated!!
LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING!! So,keep searching!! You would surely find ur missing rib who would appreciate just the little you do and you yourself would be surprised and happy as well...
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@MARTINS ABOY
I support Ur motion G J
DeleteTo add to what German Juice said, poster 1 while you are running fast and poster 2 running faster, try to overtake poster 2. Poster 2 don't let poster 1 catch you. Run like your life depends on it. It actually does.
DeletePoster 1 please look for me anywhere you can, find me and fall in love with me... I love that kinda three times a day calls.. Wetin i dey find, some women dey use them do foot mat... Uwa nka sef.. Mschewww
DeletePoster 1: never give up or change because of what women have put you through. Please don't be bad to the next lady you fall in love with, she might be the one and you would mess it up.. Keep having faith ok?... Poster 2:once a cheat, always a cheat. That babe harsh sha.. ahah.. Move on to a better well brought up lady abeg
DeletePoster 1 I think you just haven't found the right one. The lady probably doesn't have feelings for you OR your level of feelings for her is greater than what she feels for you. She's most likely using you to pass time. Please forget her and move on, you'll find someone else. You are young and you have a lot of time. Don't be in a hurry to settle down so that you do not make mistakes. All the best!
DeleteLol @kiks
DeletePoster 2 hmmmm a Leopard never loses its spots.
DeleteThe fact that you consider taking her back is beyond me cos there are some things that you just can't look past and most of the stuff she did to you are absolutely horrible and if I were in you're shoes I wouldn't know how to look past those actions.
Whatever you decide to do, I wish you all the best and I hope it works out for you.
Poster 2: It depends on the level of love. Even at that, it depends on u. If u want to let go u can. Yes, it possible to change n be faithful but most times, its difficult.
DeletePoster 1... it's so unfortunate that people who are really willing to receive love and give love in return just don't get it... I kindly need someone like you in my life,i really do, tired of relationship drama, am ready and willing to go into something new... if you're willing to try again with someone new reach me on 07067741104
DeletePoster 2 please move on.. no woman in her tight sense would send a pic to a guy without having strong affection for the guy... you better run now that God has relieved these things to you..
DeletePoster 2 please move on.. no woman in her tight sense would send a pic to a guy without having strong affection for the guy... you better run now that God has reviewed these things to you..
DeleteGerman juice I missed you for reals...no you don't know me#okbye
DeletePoster one is your name Kenneth?
DeletePoster two is your name Waheed?
DeleteJust Negodu!
ReplyDeleteAir-filled brain.... You're also shameless at ur age, FYI, i know u reach house, so its not just ur display of stupidity on this blog that makes me call u out, you're who u are everywhr u use those dead cell brains, so shameless that u owe ppl all over.
Deletemumu empty brain beggy beggy stupid and useless as always@emjay
DeletePoster2,chaiiiiiiiiiiii.
DeleteWell love they say conquereth all,and covereth multitude of sin...If u think u can forgive her with ur whole heart,and accept her bck,who am I to stop u,gudluck!
Emjay nwanyi oma, biko permit me to perch here...
DeleteSometimes, when men go through stuff like this, I love it. Cz what you guys do to we ladies no be here!... I have seen nwii in you people's hand. Chai! Like my most recent, after 7 YEARS... Everything was thrown into the gutter just like that! Lol. I have learnt my lesson tho.
Now, I'm starting all over with someone new, the okuko-ex, is forming "Please forgive me, you were the best"... get behind me Satan!
God please let it be that this new guy is my own, not another person's. I don't tire, 30years no be puff puff. All my mates don marry, born pikin. It is well.
Ps: this new guy is EVERYTHING, got EVERYTHING! Lol. I just pray to GOD It remains so while I cross my legs like mammy_water.
I will send in my Chronicles of hope soon by God's grace.
Poster 2, if you know, you won't be able to forget all the things that happened in the past. Then don't bother wasting your time or hers.
DeleteClick on my name for Raw Virgin hairs and handmade wigs. sales now on
That one wey dey ask weda to run or forgive or this or that, I guess that should be a rhetorical question, person get mind do u this kain thing u still get mind to ask..biko do the needful u no be pikin again
DeleteSee yansh opening,oya anon show ur identity,if not jst negodu, emjjay ride on jor
DeleteLol @anon for person to borrow em Jay money that means she get levels na coz nobody go borrow agbaya money so free the babe abeg
Delete@anon is it your oweing? Is it your debt? Is emjay complaining? mechuonu!
DeleteSee love
DeleteHaba!, E never hard reach like that na. So please free em Jay A.K.A just negodu for us cos without her on this blog......
DeleteSo much hate anon! Y 4 fuck sakes!
DeleteGet a life and free the babe! Your stalking is becoming boring and dry. The babe sef no kukuma send you.
DeleteAnon 15:28 wetin emjay do u na.... life na jeje oooo
Deletepot calling kettle black
DeleteThis em Jay must be a huge threat to this anon's life, wow, u exist only for em Jay, u live ,eat and drink em Jay, she has such a strong hold on u. Everything about her affects u, funny how the em Jay doesn't even send u at all...I never met anyone this frustrated hahahahaha
DeleteBrb
ReplyDelete#1..stop givin her attention,ladies don't appreciate guys dat love n care about dem
Delete#2..continue with d relationship..lead her on until d wedding day n fail to show up @ d wedding venue...#showyourwickedside
Bitchplis speak for your sisters pls... There are ladies that appreciate men who actually care and give attention
Deletei have a 3 bedroom flat around grammer sch, if u are interested to sublet one of the rooms available( all rooms ensuit) chat me up via bbm on 562D1E29, pls the rent is 380k, chat me so i can show you pics. Thnx.
DeleteBotchplis, haba! You are bigger than this please
Delete
ReplyDelete*spreads dollar crested rug*
*sipping kunu ayan*
The Chronicles is here
Stunning Slim Shady is here to read comments
Lemme go bak n read d chronicles!
Brb
Brb.
ReplyDeletePoster 2- if you ever go back to that girl ehn, you're a full time mumu. Warris that? Sharing your money with the guy and denying you sex on the guys orders? Hehehe. Better run for your life!!
DeletePoster 1- honey, DO YOU!! You hear me? Be yourself. You can't always please everyone. How do you picture your ideal relationship? Then act accordingly. If anyone isn't comfortable with it, then they probably aren't right. The right person will fit like a glove. If you keep at trying to please every woman every time, then you will be as confused as you are now. Lastly, always ALWAYS ask a woman what she's looking for priori to the commencement of a relationship. Ask her very nicely and very nicely tell her the things you like or don't like. She would also do same so you guys are on the same page. Not all this NEPA-listic behaviors.
That said, I gave a sigh of relief when I saw both chronicles were from guys. Ehen! Make e no be say Na only women like to complain.
Una doh...
ReplyDeletePoster one..
You need to move on! Immediately!!!
Poster two..
You don't trust her anymore so it's never gonna work put between you two ever again! Let her go and move on..
#OffForSchoolRuns
Poster 2 broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
ReplyDeleteJust introduction, its not too late to back out.
Since she claims she is been forced let her go.
Poster 1 I don't know what to tell you.
*being.
Delete@Poster 1, but can't really get your problem. But lest I forget, you need to grow up, haba @29?
ReplyDelete@Poster 2, hummmm, I'm short of words, if you can honestly forgive her and you will never use it against her, please forgive her and marry her, if not, please don't force yourself to marry her. 11months torture is enough now, but to be candid, I don't think she through loves you, if not, why cheating with a guy she can't possibly settle down with? All the same, just negodu as Stella advised.
*Larry was here*
*sher truly
Delete*Larry was here*
I love chronicles from d mens" angle. @ least its a breath of fresh air. Hehehehehehehhehehehehehehehhe
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteYeah right
Lol. Bad girl
DeletePoster 1
ReplyDeleteWhat you are doing wrong is that you are not banging sufficient pussies and dating girls in high numbers. Believe me, when u do this, u will meet many characters in human form and you will understand how beautiful the human mind is. The human mind is diverse and beautiful and rich.
With this, you will meet the good, bad and ugly. And you will even meet the best girls sef. If You are lucky, you will choose the best one.
After fucking pussies, choose the one with Christ. Dump the world girls
Poster 2
God don show you
God don save you
Don't let the devil use you
Move ahead
You get luck sha
Today is Friday bitches, who is gonna sing for me?
The lady in question has a bomb pussy, that's why the niggar is hooked, he needs to find another bomb pussy with gud xter or else he'd 4ever be her slave..... In every 10 women, 2 has a bomb pussy.... And just one wld have a good xter plus her bomb pussy.
DeleteAlakori somebody,na so so pussy full ur brain,empty barrel makes d loudest noise.
DeleteOmg!lol@whos gonna sing for me?so the bitches are now kenari birds!may God agree to have mercy on u.smh
DeleteStella,its poster two dat is an emotional wreck with a mumu Button and not poster one;he is just a caring and emotional person that is usually committed in a relationship.@poster1,I think u should just try to hide ur emotions a bit,until u see that person that is like u,then u will be happy u are dat romantic!
Poster2,so after seeing all dat shit u are still asking us wat to do?how can u even think twice abt dis if u are ok?e be like say she don lace am' for vegetable soup give u abi?May God deliver and set u free from this Karishika,just say amen and it will be done.#eyelashes
My man you said it all but
DeleteKeep fucking pussies you hear, you think you are doing them abi you are losing yourself if you've not already lost your self. Deal with your demons before they destroy your eternity you want a Godfearing wife are you Godfearing ? It is well with your soul
DeleteLol...fckin guy!
DeleteU even know who christ be? Yeye sombori
DeleteGuy! Your craze no get rival! Your kolo no need back up! Still u too much. I hail!
DeleteCan someone please tell me the characteristics of a bomb pussy, and what it takes to have one. Thanks
DeleteIts well wit all thz relatnship wahala.
ReplyDeletePoster 1,
ReplyDeleteToo much if everything is bad...
You are not doing anything wrong...sometimes,women don't know what they want...
Poster 2,
Truth is women likes our men!...
I will advise you dump her biko...if someone says all that about me and my mum,I won't have anything to so with that person again...
Cancel every every...infact,she is a cheap olosho...
Who hacked ur account???? I thought u always advice ladies to chop men money!
DeleteGbam
DeleteWhat abt men? Do they really know what they want? Abegi nobody is perfect jaree.
DeletePoster 1, women like men that are in charge. Masculinity is sexiest. Be a man. Stop allowing women to control u. Mumu from Mumbai.
ReplyDeletePoster 3, keep moving on. Place the sign post ahead ahead on ur door. God will give u a better woman.
NAMASTE!!!
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DeleteTo poster 2,yes she may change after marriage, but I won't advice my bro to take that chance,
ReplyDeletePoster two. Hmmm
When the men cry!!! Poster1: she must be way out of ur league, go for ur class of lady that'd be ready to even fuck u in a public bathroom cus she feels genuine love for u, r/shp isnt meant to be unbalanced, its a sign of crack in the near future, if it isnt smooth sailing, then let it go..... if u evetually marry her, you'd wash her pants from the way ure sounding.
ReplyDeletePoster2: if only u snooped early enough, u wldnt hv wasted so mch time n enrgy on that bitch, y'all thinking snooping does more harm than good, u better weigh the pro n cons of teamSnoop. N
Washing pants does not mean one is not in control. I wash my wife's pants.
DeleteWhen men cry my dear!! Such a relief
DeleteThank u joor Iyke...back in sch days I had to beg the best boyfriend I had then not yo wash my pants cos he felt he could not show show how much he loved me without doing such cos he said he had never loved like that before and guess what...*no sex but smooches
DeleteGod bless you Iyke! Nigerians just get all the wrong wires crossed most of the time. Being a loving and caring husband doesn't mean you're a mumu. That's how some will never bathe their children or fix things when needed because they believe it's not a manly thing to do. Lord help Nigerian women o. And God bless all the men that will do anything, I mean anything for their wives and family irrespective of how the society would view it. Because I know it can't be easy to stand up alone in our society and be proud to show how much you love your wives and shower them with love, to show them consideration and dignity. To such men, your joy shall know no bounds!.
DeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDelete@poster2 lol come and marry me o, I'm a Muslim and need a Muslim man too, moreover I'm still a virgin.
ReplyDeleteDrop ur contacteeeee
DeleteSharrap der.... no only Virgin....
DeleteIyke Emma!! Drrop contact??? U wey just say u dey wash ur wife pant, now u wan collect virgin contact, #fear ur sef
DeleteToo much of everything is bad, u call her in d morning, lunch and at night, guess u also call to tell her u are in d toilet, do u give her money at all, cos love without money is dead.
ReplyDelete@2, she spends ur hard earn money with another man, bros forget dat bitch, instead of her to collect money from him instead she's giving him ur own money, if u marry dat bitch she will so cheat on u.
She will even kill him and bring the other guy with African black mamba
DeleteI know you. You have a serious fetish for money. All those guys wey you chop their money both home and abroad are watching you in 7D.
DeleteInukwa!!! Sometimes I just wonder wat gals want. I tire jare.
ReplyDeletePamscrib.blogspot.com
Not all gals
DeleteSurname - sake or whatever... Lol
DeleteLmao Stella no kill person abeg. I dey beg you which one be deactivate mumu button & out of red ink dem dey sell am for supermarket ni. Don't know why am always good with your ink though so poster it remains to have sense. Good luck
ReplyDeleteI tire for stella oooo
DeletePoster 2: Nobody knws the gal in question here, so we cnt trully tell if she'd change or not...... But mind u, if ure considering taking her back cus ure not over her completely, its a terribl sign, ur heart is bound to long for the one u love no matter hw hard the r/shp hit th rock... You guys shld both find out what trully sustains a union, then make a list questioning ur women if they possess such qualities.
ReplyDeleteIf u ask now ....na only di..ks & p..skies be 99.9% answers u will get.....
DeleteP1, d two of una dey form, dats d prob, jst be ur normal self
ReplyDeleteP2,forget her,becos if she had any little feeling for u,she wldnt av cheated. U will definitely find someone who will luv u in totality not conditionally,besides even if u forgive,can u forget d pain. Marriage is not a trial and error. Think we'll my brother. Sometimes u men miss it, chasing beauty alone, forgeting good behaviour is d real beauty of a woman.
Good talk. God bless ur mama.
DeleteNNE are u married?
Lol, y do u ask?
DeleteAmen
DeletePoster 1...u are in an imaginary relationship
ReplyDeletePoster2. Take a serious walk and don't look back.
What is the formula for imaginary relationship?
DeleteChris, what is the formula for imaginary relationship?
Delete@poster 2,she can never change so pls, u'd better move on cuz wit wat I just read here,even if she breaks up wit d guy she would always go bak to him. That kind of closeness is not easy to let go. 4get her
ReplyDeleteStella, I think u shld try comedy too.. u r so funny! First u dnt ve red ink nd then we move further the red ink resurrects and the dies again. Lmao.
ReplyDeleteTo the business of the day, poster 2 did u say 11 months???????????? Wetin!!! All I wld say is if u were together nd she was cheating then what wld ve happened in the 11 months of begging? She dosent love u my dear, she is begging cuz she wants to stay away from shame. Abeg leave her
Poster 1: can I drop my number for u since she isn't appreciative enuf for u.
Please to all the highly successful babes dat double date how were u guys able to pull through?? I need to learn from my seniors biko so that what I am about to do can pay me wella. Na beg I dey beg pls!!!!
The red ink is Skiibi of 5Star music u knw what i mean. P2, Take this advice
DeleteStella funny die.... as in
Delete
ReplyDeletePoster 1
Ladies do that all the time just to know how much you love her and how much attention you are willing to give to her #shitty behaviour#
Poster 2
Forgive and take her back if ONLY you can still trust her but if you cant, you can forgive her but not take her back #cantdeal#
Poster 2: move on from that biatch! Cos she obviously prefers the other guy to you and is with you cos u are probably more loaded.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Pele. Guess you have not found one who truly loves you. Are u sure you aren't choking the 'babes'? Don't worry true love 'll locate you soonest.
Poster1- Nothing to say.
ReplyDeletePoster2- If you go back to her, you will marry her but she will still continue her relationship with the other guy. Then one day when they are tired of your presence, they will kill you.
Exactly
DeletePoster two, lyk stella said 'once a thief, always a thief.
ReplyDeleteWat abt the thief tht repented on the cross when Jesus was crucified? Sheee na thief b tht?
Delete@Natt; people change and people repent... Don't mind her
DeletePoster 1,methinks you are not telling us the truth version.every lady craves for the kind of attention you claim you offer.
ReplyDeleteExcept maybe you are the smouldering type,the type that always ask "what are you doing"? "Why didn't you reply my pings on time?". Blah blah blah.you can be caring without being overly suffocating and protective.a lady need time to exhale!
You are DEFINITELY doing something wrong.
Poster 2, you mata no be here oo.
In response to your answer regarding poster 1- No No No not every lady craves for that ridiculous attention. He wan suffocate the girl? It shows low self esteem abeg. A healthy relationship shdnt be like that. Dude needs to chill and focus on himself for now. Or who knows maybe home girl has someone else shes shacking. Better shine your eyes Mr man.
DeleteNot every girl but some do e.g;me... Although no one appreciates being suffocated. Twice or thrice a day isn't bad na
DeletePlease my boyfriend is the smouldering type o. Always asking 'where are you', 'what are you eating' 'what are you doing' 'why didn't you invite me to eat with you' 'when will you sleep' 'why didn't you reply me early'.... Should I be worried? It is really irritating to say the least.
DeletePoster 1 & 2,
ReplyDeleteTwo of U don't have money. Dat is why women are making fool of u 2.
Lol! So MM, now it's money okwaya?
DeleteNot that they are FAT?
Smh
Lol. Money is not everything
DeleteWhat do u mean? Poster pays his girl monthly allowance that she shares with your broke brother.
DeleteGawd I can't stand this money maker dude. Daft comments all the time.
DeleteMM, you are wired! This one nah advise abi na contribution.. kikiki
DeleteI tire oooo
DeleteNa akawo no be contribution.. Lol
DeleteAnon 16:50,Please. I am not talking about yeye money. I am talking about cool money. Lots of cash.
DeletePoster 1... Facebook love is nothing to write home abeg. There are many cheats on Facebook. Look for a girl in Port Harcourt to follow na. Abi you no get money for port harcourt girls.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 ... Move on since you have said your own side of the story. Your woman will come now and blame you for everything. WILL BE WAITING FOR PART 2 AND PART 3 OF UNA CHRONICLES.
Christian you want to spoil a yoruba girl abi? and you wont marry her.
I agree. 100%
DeleteAsin ph girls rock only if you're boxed up sha.. Lol
DeleteNa wa!
ReplyDeletePlease is there anyone that stays in Enugu with a job that a student can do on weekends because I have school from Monday to Friday and I really need money because I don't want to die here please I'm ready to do any job except those that partake to sex or doing anything immoral...
ReplyDeleteThanks
Poster 2....run ....she can never be faithful
ReplyDeleteIgbo boys doing their job since 1960
ReplyDeleteJust negodu.chai
ReplyDeleteA cheat will always be a cheat,poster 2 please go and borrow Serena William's shoe and take off.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 u are broke
ReplyDeletePoster 2 u can't fuck well
Na u get de gist pass.
DeleteWell said anon 15:49
DeleteJust image poster 1 is the one travelling to Lagos to c d girl.when she should be d one coming to him.
And poster 2,His gf is sending nude pics and yeye money to her ex.after u ve bin togeda for years. U are not a full man abegi
Dear Poster 2,
ReplyDeleteThis is the first time I'll comment on this blog but i'll break my silence for you. I was in your shoes a year ago & I will tell you what I was told and it worked for me.
That lady will NEVER,I repeat NEVER be faithful to you. She's in love with that guy and the good part is that He's not in love with her, He's just using her and will dump her soon (no guy in love will share his woman).
Thank the Lord you snooped (Team Snoop for Life). That's how your wife would have brought another man's kid into your home.
Firstly, please cut all communication (Facebook , BBM, even mental) with her Please relax. Don't be in a hurry to get married or find love again. What you need now is a distraction. Have a couple of emotional flings (avoid having sex with them but feel free to press breast), you need a couple of women liking/loving you to remind you that you are special.
Secondly, Put more energy and more time into your work so you think less. Avoid clubs, alcohol or drugs, that wont help you. Give it more time and please ensure you see other women, you need to 'get out there', mingle. Don't brood about someone who does not know what the word 'commitment' is.
Finally, but be rest assured there are better days ahead and there's someone out there who'll make you happier than she ever did. Move on. She was never for you. Be happy and pray for the man that ends up with her.
Signed,
Uncle Bros
Uncle bros, just negodu feel free to press breast. Poster 2 regardless of the situation do to others what you want dem to do to you i.e don't mess with others if you don't want dem to mess with you. Good luck.
DeleteNa wa! Poster 2 just move on. She might do worse if you take her back and she doesn't like your mum. Can you deal? Move on o!
ReplyDeletePoster1 sometimes we ladies don't know what we want. Just focus on urself and use ur head to think. I am sure she has someone that she prefers to u. U might just be her next in line guy, if her real boo f**k up.
ReplyDeletePoster2, if u are sure u will forgiv e her sincerely, and not use all she did to haunt her later, u can forgive her and move on. But from what u said, I think she is not considering u as a husband. I might be wrong sha. Tread with caution.
Poster 2 if you don't want to father another man's child please go ahead with the marriage.
ReplyDeleteHow can a lady be cheating with the same person for 4yrs and you are still thinking of marrying her?
What if you didn't snoop then someone somewhere will be using your temple with you. ...
Forgive her but never marry her or else include chronicles writing in your time table coz you will write till you tired.
Poster 1 I don't understand u, maybe u are d prudent type sha dats y she's giving u attitude. First timer of d blog
ReplyDeleteIt is well oh.
ReplyDeleteP1...find a mature woman who will appreciate your good nature. This is not being a mumu, it is being a man. Half of these girls don't know what a good relationship is, if the man isn't treating them like dust they think he is dry. Go and find a mature girl.
ReplyDeleteP2...God opened your eyes and you are still there doing when a man loves. Please don't be stupid brother. She is begging cause her source of income is going away. That igbo boy won't marry her, you will and she will continue with her lover. Go and find a girl who has sense.
May God bless your mum..
DeletePoster 2 pls run along without looking back. God has intervene in ur case to avoid stories DAT touches d heart...
ReplyDeletePoster talk a walk also....
Jehovah fix anything fixed able in der life...
Poster 1;Keep being you and trust me, the right one is on her way. But also n most importantly, be a man. Seems like you're the overtly emotional type.
ReplyDeletePoster 2; If I were you, I wouldn't settle for her. Can you ever trust her? You definitely never forget what she did and you'll keep on wondering what she's up to and if she's really changed and you can necer be too sure about that. So, take a hike!
Poster1 - The solution to your problem lie in your hands
ReplyDeletePoster2- Do not get married to that bitch.
Poster 1 com let me treat u right, dt chick is confused.
ReplyDeleteHahaha Stella o! No offence to the posters but the Red ink, blue ink replies got me rolling! Madam Kork I love ur creativity o.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, the babe is acting up so that you can define the relationship. Because if I understand you well, both of you have not defined what you want from each other. She probably may have been snubbing some other suitors because of you, hence the attitude. My advise for you is to come out clearly to tell her how you feel, whatever is the outcome from there, you will know what decision to take. Goodluck.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. I don't know what to tell you ohh!
Poster 1, the babe is acting up so that you can define the relationship. Because if I understand you well, both of you have not defined what you want from each other. She probably may have been snubbing some other suitors because of you, hence the attitude. My advise for you is to come out clearly to tell her how you feel, whatever is the outcome from there, you will know what decision to take. Goodluck.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. I don't know what to tell you ohh!
Poster 1-She's not all that into you
ReplyDeletePoster 2- She's not all that into you.
When a woman loves, she loooveees!
Poster I, you need to grow up. Poster 2, like Stella said once a thief always a thief.
ReplyDeleteLove lost @ both posters
ReplyDeletePoster one- i need ur type of person in my life joor! just that youre too young hahhaaa. every woman loves attention and if ur girl dsnt appreciate it, means there's someone else
ReplyDeletePoster two- forget the girl. She can never change.
Poster 2,run for your life
ReplyDelete#1 and #2, 'fashi' both babes o jare! Babes don finish for PH where you dey poster 1?
ReplyDeleteShe won't be faithful to you poster 2 because she is being forced to marry you! 'Habatical!' Sharing the allowee you give her with him? Meaning she will share the chop money you will give her after marriage ke! She does not have sex with you on the days he said so ba? That means, he will be the one to dictate your bedroom affairs in your matrimonial home! Send her naked pictures to him? E don finish! She will send the video of your love making to him, to see with his korokoro eyes your sexual performance! Abeg, the babe is all shades of trouble!
Poster 1: you'll lose yourself worth when you call someone too much. Pick up your self esteem, be a man and work on yourself. Find happiness within yourself first before looking for a life partner. If you don't, you'll continue to have same problem in dating department. We Human being naturally like a challenge, be it man or woman (men more). See how she came running back to you when u didn't call her. Let her miss you, let her want you and most importantly, work on your self worth/esteem. So yea, Goodluck.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: God showed you a clear warning sign...as in veryyyy clear yet you're seeking for answers here. If you marry that girl, you'll be miserable for the rest of your life. She is NOT your woman. She's either bored with you (no excitement in the relationship), not happy with you or simply does not know what she wants. You guys were dating for years yet didn't find out until its close to your wedding ceremony. Can't you see its a clear warning sign from God. If you marry her, you'll never ever trust her. That image of her cheating on you will always be there. (My ex bf cheated on me and i couldn't get over it. Had to break off the relationship) My best advise, cut all communications completely from her so you can start to heal. (Change your number if you have to). Let your family know why you've decided not to go further with the relationship. If you end up with her, be ready to bear the consequences. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. By the way, the so called igbo Christian is not a real Christian, he's just religious. A genuine Christian will never ever do that. That's not christ like at all.
Poster 1 and 2,
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you.
Move on with your lives and also expect better things to fall in place for you in the nearest future.
PEACEFUL AND ENCOURAGING WIFE...
Sincerely for me ooh, I don't think you should marry her, since she claimed she is being forced on you and the intimacy with the other dude is just too much.
ReplyDeleteP1; don't stop being what you are bcuz some peopledon't appreciate it else you will become fake. You are created in that special way for a special person.....
Poster 2 move on jare, that marriage cannot work, no need of deceiving yourself. She bluntly open up that they are forcing you on her so let her go to her heart desire. Poster 1 Just Negodu.
ReplyDeletePOSTER 2: RUN FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE. RUNNNNNNNNNN (A word is enough for the wise)
ReplyDeletePoster 2 It's it advisable to marry her. You will always have this incidence at the back of ur mind and never trust her. What's the point of marrying who u dont trust. Poster 1. When u meet the right woman ur calls or attention won't be too much for her.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: I know a lot of people will tell u to change bla bla bla but trust me, if u change, it will mean that you will stop being yourself whih i am sure you won't enjoy. My opinion is that you should be your real self and be sensitive to some cues here and there....at the right time, you will find theright girl who will treat you equally.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: from what you wrote up there, thos girl is not really sorry. Infact, she is only apologising because you caught her and it will be a thing of shame for her after the introduction. Let her go! Loving someone does not mean you should allow such person toy with your emotions and sincerely, all what you read from her phone will not leave mind, it will keep flashing back and it will eventually affect your marriage if you decide to marry her.
@Poster 2, pls move on, emotionally she isnt yours.if u marry her,u will regret cos u aren't her bestfriend she can talk to.U can give her benefit of doubt but marriage is not gamble.best of luck
ReplyDeletePoster 1 just in case u are using style to do S & M, you can reply this comment. I'm jejely looking for attention and 1 woman is throwing it away.
ReplyDeleteI am the poster.please drop your contact.
Delete#1: Sweetie, it's all about striking a fine balance. It's human nature to take advantage of whatever comes too easily and is readily available. Even if you're lucky to find the love of your life who loves you right back, you must master the art using absence to increase fondness. Never give too much, too fast and too soon. You'll only end up diminishing your true value. This is very common with ladies because by nature we are nuturers so we tend to go full throttle with our need to love and be loved but, unfortunately, we end up smothering the object of our affections. The repercussion is they withdraw or run the opposite direction, leaving us feeling used, hurt and taken for granted.
ReplyDeleteYou have to learn to tone it down a notch and put yourself out there and realise that in the quest for true love, battle scars may be inevitable. Pray to God to guide you and send the right lady your way.
Personally, I think calling your love interest 3 times a day is a tad excessive, especially before the bond of love has been established. Remember you met online and have been cyber dating, have you considered whether or not she's ready for a serious relationship? Perhaps she has someone else on her mind but needs a bit of distraction. She might even be using a faux profile and meeting you in person may blow her cover. The possibilities are endless.
My general advice to you is, calm down and date to know more about a person without having marriage at the back of your mind even if that's the main objective, then with time you can then start checking to see if you can spend the rest of your life with this person. Date more than one girl at a time but don't get intimate with any of them yet and be open to them about your other dates. Full disclosure is healthy in relationships and trust me, competition brings out the best in people. I'll give the same advice to a lady. Channelling all your affection to one person isn't the healthiest, unless you are married to that person. Imagine if you had 3 ladies on your mind, I doubt you'll be able to maintain that routine of calling each 3 times daily. Come to think of it, if you call her 3 times a day, when does she have the time to call you back or even miss not hearing from you?
It's unfortunate that nowadays the term "going out", or "dating" or "courting" is laced with sexual overtures, apparently you are expected to have sex with all your dates, which defeats the whole idea of dating. As long as you have discipline from your waist down, I see no reason why you can't date more than one girl so you can know who is a better wife material. The truth is we tend to place a high value on what we "win" in a contest than what is thrown at us just for the taking. There's this sense of accomplishment when we know out of a selected few, we won 1st place.
Most importantly, online dating can be tricky. It's easier to be caught up in the whole cyber illusion and be sorely disappointed when you meet your date in person. It's very easy to paint the perfect picture behind any device and mask all the vices. Please be very careful and don't ignore red flags because of a pretty face or a banging body or both.
#e-bearhugs.
Mbok leave that girl, she's always going to cheat on u. What are u even saying sef, how can you still love someone with such EVIL heart. Let me tell you, marriage would be a living helll for if u marry her. Walk away!!!! Most people who cheat while dating usually never stop cheat.
ReplyDeleteNo.1. We are only hearing your side. Are you sure you are not the obsessive type that will not give a girl breathing space? If you are, you need to work on yourself to know what real love is all about. It's not about being a monitoring spirit. She may just be scared as they're a lot of psychos on FB, or she may already be in a steady relationship. If you can get to see her, you may be able to tell what really is up.
ReplyDeleteNo.2: Hmm, when one is in love with the wrong one it is usually struggles all the way. Real love is not that hard, inspite of the challenges. I echo others who have said you should jump and pass. Without trust you are wasting your time. She may change, but that's a gamble you cannot afford to lose.
Poster your own side of the story....
ReplyDeleteD's just sounded like my story but a little twist..
I didn't change, I have always be here..u don't call in weeks,I see u change dps on BBM and u don't chat.
you know I always appreciated the attention I got
I felt I should give u the space u wanted.I don't read minds am only human.
I really felt something for you and still do.
Poster 1. Ignore the comments stating that you're a mumu or that you're clingy. Just coz Stella used that word, her mindless zombies here will copy it.
ReplyDeleteYou must be one of the good, nice ones around but the foolish ones will not appreciate you. They will only love men who abuse and treat them like trash.
I think you should have a heart to heart with her. By now she must know you like her. So, talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she's no feeling you in the same way, then move on OK. You'd find a good girl who'd love you for you. Just continue to be your good self coz there are good girls out there.
Goodluck.