Hmmmm what is it with couples and Church?
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
CHOOSING WHICH CHURCH TO ATTEND WHEN HE PROPOSES..
Good day Stella, I will try and make this Brief.I have been dating my guy for the past 3years and we getting married next year. I love this Guy so much because he has every quality I need in a guy.
The issue here is that he's catholic while i am protestant. I don't think I can cope with being catholic, though i have started following him to his church but I just can't cope with the Doctrines and the guy no gree allow me go my own church . Bv's your advice is needed because i am confused.
Stella I choose to remain Annonymus.
Why is Church an issue when couples are getting married?I do not understand.I dont have anything to say on this cos its a very very sensitive issue.However i married a Catholic and i go with him to Church and there is nothing difficult about the Catholic doctrine.Why doesnt he allow you go to your own church?
Na wah!
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
CONFUSED
Greetings Stella..I comment some times comment as *******.
Well there is this guy who approached me when my sisters and I were leaving my cousins birthday party last 3/4 years and asked for my number,but I turned him down and left.few dayz later my phone rang and I picked and lo and behold it was same guy.
I asked how he got my number and he told me who gave him "a family friend".i was so angry I told him never to call my line again.but this guy is so stubborn that he wouldn't listen.he kept calling and I kept shunning him and most of the time I wouldn't pick.he asked for dates and I turned them all down but he summoned more courage and kept calling. some times once a week and so on and so forth,maybe it's because I had a bf then,i didnt want any distractions/temptations.
Fast forward to this year.last month I saw a birthday pop-up on my phone and it was his birthday.wow I remember I had him on fb and he also wrote with out response from me,i remembered how unfair have treated him and then decided to make up for it but dint no how to.so I wished him straight from my hub,he replied at once and I volunteered taking him out though I haven't met him once cause on that fateful day it was late at night and I couldn't see his face.
He laughed and i asked why,he replied and said he is in US now.
Wow I thought.didnt want it to seem like I am getting interested now that he is in US but to my greatest surprise he made his intentions known again after some time of constant communication.i told him I wasn't interested "lol
I nor wan fall my hand"but he is still insisting.
We talk and chat all the time.Stella he is so sweet..but the thing i am a year older than him but even at that he still doesn't care.he said age is just a number that he can't let me go now not after how many years of trying to get my attention.
I am confused Stella. what do I do he is so bent on taking me to the altar..
No cussing out please.
Stella please say something.NB-I am moving to US soon as well,my papers are stronger than hez cause I can go and come at any time and he is there to study so I am not a gold digger for those of you who might think so......
Please advice me blog family.
I dont know what to advise you except to tell you for now that you are in a relationship with yourself until you meet him.Make sure you spend some time getting to know him before you end up marrying yourself..lol
Chatting everyday means nothing.Sometimes i think also that age is nothing but a number and that is why you have to be very sure of the person.
Some men have big dreams and talk big but their character?It does not fit into their philosophies....just saying!
My Chronicles folder is almost empty.send in your narratives,good or bad and be sure that on this blog we beat the living daylights out of your problems until a solution arrives..lol
Just Negodu!
ReplyDeleteChai stella.
Chai "Anno d snub"
I will be right back.
*******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS******
U beat jhw... Go Girl!!! P2 pray before u date
DeleteP1 d bible says U'll leave ur parents house n cling to him.. So u need to attend his church, there is nothing like ur church, my church in marriage dear.. Except he is a Muslim or u guys have an understanding.
Emjay, pls na, I'm begging.... Make a reasonable comment, being first to comment dsnt add anythg to ur CV or make u admirable, its doing the xact opposite, proving ure trully brainless as they say..... And it baffles me hw ure so consistent in this shameless act, tufia.
DeletePoster 2, pray to God abt it & to ur instinct.
DeleteStella sometimes u make me wonder,is it that you forget easily,remember when Emjay was first to comment on almost all d post,the useless anno was already bullying her then,which popularity are you talking about,isn't she one of the most popular bv here?
DeleteRemember your very first twins post u did,this anno bullied her on that post and many others,then he/she was complaining of her not reading before commenting,always using phrases,like "just negodu etc" how about the birthday post you posted,one thing I noticed here is,bvs here are copy cats,when they see somebody doing something,fiaaaaaaaaaan they start doing same,all the people that crucified her for commenting first before are fighting for it with their blood today,world people may the good lord have mercy on u all in Jesus name,Amenn!
As for d posters,try again later later,don't know what to advise u two.
@poster1 : if you can't cope with catholic doctrines, them quit the relationship or are you looking for a way to convert him to your own?
DeletePlease free the guy n look for a pentecostal like you, no be by force.
Na church be your own problem now!
@poster2 : OYO
Ladies should put this at the back of their mind that all relationship must not end in marriage.
Poster 1
DeleteWoman no get church.
Poster 2
What is confusing you inside this matter?
Madam Ur very funny, marriage is abt making sacrifices, ull make so many dat church will even b minor, as long as God is dere, oh well, marrry a protestant den..
DeleteP2 get to know Mr America first before u start dreaming. Oh well wat do I no......
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@ poster 2;there is nothing difficult about the catholic doctrine if i have to add..the only thing is that it is already in your mind that you dont want to attend the catholic church..
DeleteNobody is after you coming to church or not on sundays in the catholic church and also joining any of their group/society like the C.W.O(for married women) is quite optional for every individual..except that in the cases of death;u are on your own if u cant be recognised as A member in any of the church group! Cos the only thing the church can do is say a "Burial mass" for the deceased and that is it..
Alldsame, the church you are to attend after getting married shouldn't even be A debate between u and your prospective husband..or is it not same God again??
Just go to church on sundays at the catholic with him, and he does same with you too at your own church..it could even be rationed!! Like attending the catholic twice A month then your own church twice too..who knows?? You might even like the catholic church in the process or he likes yours in the process..
but if he is still bent on you attending solely the catholic church;then you can just attend on sundays with him;then during the week days;u can go for other fellowship at your own church or any other church around...
Catholic or Non-catholic doesn't necessary guarantee anyone going to heaven!!
#Good-Luck
@poster one;People are not always what they seem to be at first...
He might have had sincere motives towards you then and now that you just wished him A HBD;and also promising to take him out,thereby spiking up old feelings;he might just want to try his luck again;get back at you for the stress you gave him during the past years,eat your "cookie" if he can place his hands on it when u are finally at the States;and finally use that to console himself and bid you farewell...
Trade wisely and dont rush into this...
Most Men actually see HTG(hard to get) ladies in A different perspective when they finally get the lady!!
Also,He might mean good for you as well!! But be wise...
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Emjay what is Just Negodu,if u don't have anything to say just STFU must you comment,aint you tired of insult get a life abeg
Delete@anon 17:04 d pu**y f@#k! Y don't u STFU as well if all u f@#king know how to do is to bully emjay. If u aren't got Nuthing to say allow pple who have something to say and u go and DIE!
DeleteAnon. 15:54 a.k.a Em Jay.
DeleteHere's your chance to catch this grown baby. No space after punctuations.
Same spelling of anon (anno).
Emjay, a piece of advice.... stop this shit.
It wont garner sympathy for you.
Compare this comment and the one she made in IHN.
Poster2: you are funny. Just say you don't have desired boyfriend again so you opted for the available. He'll know you well n run away like the 4ma.
DeleteSunshine goan die.
DeleteSee this talking fuck.
DeleteIf you want attention, there are more classy ways to go about it.
Stupid something. With your nasty English
And em Jay replied sunshine??? Wonderful. Keep it up abeg
DeleteKeep wetin up Jasmine? Will you stand by her when the bile bursts?
DeleteShe's anon 17:04, 18:38 and 15:54.
Stop indulging this teletubby. Help curb this madness before she turns into something else.
Sunshine why did you let Emjay know you know its her? A lot of us know, have known and have been entertaining ourselves with her stupidity. Now you'll make her stop -_-
DeleteSunshine it's very obvious you are the crazy one, like seriously emjay want too be popular, are you that dumb, isn't she popular enough, the punctuation and other things you pointed out are cogent fool, besides i didn't see it there, so give it up already, and leave her the fuck alone, see the way you running your mouth like spoilt tap, sunshine leave emjay alone, or her matter break will your neck, if you like come here and shout emjay.
DeleteReal life or social media,people will always be what they are,drinking panadol on top another man head ache..Mind your biz sunshine and her likes..
DeleteHmmm…
ReplyDeleteTwo foolish narratives...
ReplyDeleteVery foolish narratives
DeleteNo b small foolish,,,,,
DeleteNa real foolish. You did not remember he was catholic when e de sweet you. Please go and sit down. Na your own doctrine e fit cope with. If you cant please free him. Afterall he didnt use gun to hold you to the relationship, inugo?
DeleteFoolishness i swear
DeleteInfact the foolishness na grade 1
DeletePoster one abeg follow him respectfully that is what marriage is about if you can't leave him and marry your fellow Protestant.
ReplyDeletePoster two calm down don't start planning wedding in your mind wait and meet first
Don't advice poster one
DeleteShe is high on cheap drugs
After 3yrs she is just realizing the guy is a Catholic
Naija babes and marriage...Mscheeeew! U never too sabi the guy u don dey dream alter.
DeletePoster one God punish u there mtchewww
Delete@ poster 1 this topic has been discuss her......
ReplyDeleteWill be back.
Y'all posters should listen to Stella. *catwalks out*
DeletePoster 1,Nada
ReplyDeletePoster 2,Nada
I don't want to comment today cos both chronicles are meaningless.
ReplyDeleteYou just did
DeletePoster 1- you guys should discuss the issue properly. It looks like a simple matter but it's not.
ReplyDeleteYou guys have to find a middle ground. When tje kids starts coming, what church will they be attending? It's either you begin to adjust towards being a catholic or try to make him see reasons why you should stick with your church which I doubt he would. Catholics are very disciplined when it comes to their religion or place of family worship. You may just have to bend or call it quits with the relationship.
Poster 2- hmnnnnn!
Poster 1 you're not ready for marriage.
ReplyDeleteDidn't you know his doctrine before you agrees to date him?
Bring a real problem when you have one please.
As usual girl says the guy doesn't allow her attend his church. Hmm, tomorrow the guy will send in right of reply and say the girl stopped attending her church cos they were getting married.Anyway, catholic church is the simplest u can attend without too much talk.
ReplyDeleteSimplest?
DeleteOh, the mother of apostasy, you mean
Name one catholic doctrine that's in the Bible...
I'm waiting .....
Poster one: Follow him to his chruch nah, i don't like Catholic too but i gats to go there cos it's hubby's church.
ReplyDeletePoster two: Forget about the age thingy and try to get to know him better first. It's a good thing you'll be joining him over there soon, as that'll give you two the opportunity to see each other more.
But don't give it up yet...till you're comfortable with him and who he is. Or till he puts a ring on it. All the best..
@ poster 1 and 2, I pray that God intercede on you pple case...
ReplyDeleteP1 you have to accept him and his religion, most Catholics are staunch Believers of theor doctrine,m you cant just come after 3yrs and make him stop, aren't we all Christians 1st befor our denominations? Attend sunday sunday Church with him, go for weekly activities in your church, maybe you can convince him to start following you.
ReplyDeleteP2 one year difference isn't much na, at lease he knows the truth and doesn't mind.
Poster 1,
ReplyDeleteSince you don't want to follow him to his church,why don't you dump his ass so someone else that will love him and his church can grab him...
Idiot!!...
Poster 2,
What happend to your boyfriend?...taaa!,..
You are not going to any US...you just want to use that part to confuse us so we won't bash you...
You started giving him attention since he told you his location...
Trust me,there is nothing in US oh...I know guys there that are suffering...
Some of them even beg money from you that came in from Naija...
Well being a gold digger is allowed sha...
LE, I just read your advice to poster 1 and I burst into a very loud laughter.
DeleteYou nor just good.
Buahahahahhaaahaa esp the "idiot" part.
You no well I swear.
Lmaooooo
Compromise is a word that comes into play wen ur married or intending to get married, poster1, u need to pick ur poison, personally I don't care about my partner joining me to my place of worship, talk to couples that hv suffered and found a way around this dilemma... There's always a comma in our partners, you just have to look for the one that's worth one card of panadol once in a while.
ReplyDeletePoster2: Follow ur heart!
Seriously @ P2, Y don't I believe the fact that you have ur papers already? D same person u rejected years back n Neva gave even d tiniest bit of attention is all of a sudden perfect in ur eyes! 9ja gals deceiving themselves since 'since'.... I've got no advice for ya.
ReplyDeleteWho is this anony?
DeleteDon't I just love you.
My exact sentiment which prompted my "hmnnnn"
Poster 2, poster 2, hmnnnnn!
Love u too bloggie!.... D fight on ds blog won't allow one leave anonymous mood.
DeleteI av aving same problem wit yah poster 1,mhen I just can't deal wit dia doctrines mhen, well I guess I will av to mange. I av made up my mind dat sunday service will be in his but mid week will be in mine. Dat way we are even.
ReplyDeleteSmart girl I am proud of you. Good thinking. You will make a good wife.NA
DeleteThis appears to be a good compromise.
DeleteNarrative two) e blike say u don dey turn to gwez na make u remember dat guy,,,, imagine u saying he's so sweet someone u turn down several times oooo chai if I may ask Wat do u know about him dat is sweet?
ReplyDeleteMe don turn Jehovah witness ooooo God na God..... Abeg talk to Ur man.
Poster one :
ReplyDeleteYou both love each other, right?
So, your denominations should not be a barrier.
Either of you should reach a compromise, afterall, it's one God we serve.
The way you're talking about not understanding the catholic doctrine, like it's rocket science.
My dad is catholic, mum protestant. MFM infact.
We went with mum to church occasionally, when we were younger and dad wasn't around.
Now, she goes alone to church, we go to ours.
During some programmes though as we were growing up, anyone that wanted to,went with her.
It worked for my parents, they've been together for decades, and I love the 'variety ' of knowing about the doctrines of two different denominations.
I love their aggressive way of praying sef...lol
It might not work for you both though, depending on how much you understand each other.
So, you could consider joining him to his church.
Afterall, you knew he was a catholic when you started dating him.
In the end, it's one God we'll all answer to.
Poster two:
Use your head, to avoid sending another chronicles.
Good luck.
#WhiteDiamondOut
No advice today
ReplyDeleteMy Fellow Members of Bv, over to y'all
See me having political meeting, waka waka don make me meet people i no wan meet now...
ReplyDeletePoster 1, you both should settle on a neutral church.. Anglican, cherubium...etc
Be back to.comment on poster 2..
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Cherubim na neutral?
DeleteHere to read comments
ReplyDeleteP1, if you love him to marry him, you have to marry his church too. If you have reservation for Catholic doctrines, why befriend her faithfuls?Expecting your hubby to allow you attend your own church is selfishness. When kids are involved later in your marriage, whose church will they attend? Yours or your husband's? Child dedication nko?
ReplyDeleteSTFU Bi**tch what the hell do you know to want to contribute? Slow poke
DeleteGhost, go back to your grave!
DeleteSee me having political meeting, waka waka don make me meet people i no wan meet now...
ReplyDeleteA. Audu don still plenty money oh
Poster 1, you both should settle on a neutral church.. Anglican, cherubium...etc
Be back to.comment on poster 2..
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Poster 1, if he doesn't respect your wishes now, is it after you've tied d knot? if you can't reach a compromise then let him go pls, this church ish aint that trivial.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, chill, when you get to the US and get to know him better then we can have this conversation. Personally o, I consider the age cos guys emit this ego n complex vibe most times and its not easy to cope with "let me keep quiet o so he wont say its because I'm older than him".
Hmm... Christianity alone has 34,000 different sub groups, cus the bible is subject to interpretation, when u read it you'd say "I think Jesus meant this? Oh no, he meant that... so u have the seventh day adventists, the catholics, Protestants etc, and a divided church is no church at all.... spewing up conflicts and fragmentations in 2days world... make i no begin get to the root of religion jo, Poster1: you both should find a common group, if ure both inlove u'd definately find a way.
ReplyDeletePoster 1:theres nothing wrong with going to a catholic except you want your kids to be confused when you have them.some husband do allow their spouse to attend their church but I don't like it.
ReplyDeletePoster 2:Age is not a number,the bond will be stronger when you get there and hope he is really serious.best of luck
*just*
ReplyDeletePoster 1.... sorry for you
ReplyDeletePoster 2.... Dont open your vagina if you go there to know more about him. This one your body dey totori you so. It is well.
U dnt wnt 2go 2catholic church bcs u dnt get understand deir doctrines,bt u av been wwit him all dis years,u knew he was catholic so y complain nw?abi u didn't plan 2marry him? Well choose btw d man u love n ur church.
ReplyDeleteHi Stellz, My life is a super chronicle bordering on dilemma. Please how can I send in my story? Before I go totally bunkers!
ReplyDeleteYawning
ReplyDeleteI SENT IN ONE YOU REFUSED TO PUBLISH, IS IT FAIR?
ReplyDeleteI don't like this church issues especially when you knew all along. Abeg fix yourself.
ReplyDelete2. I have no words for you.
All I have to say is that I love you advice to the second poster Stella. hnmmmm
ReplyDeletePoster 1,biko u have no choice than 2 follow him 2 his church,a yoruba saying says iyawo ile ko ni esin,so u must 4lo him 2 catholic,@least na d same God we dey pray to,be it catholic,protestant,muslim..
ReplyDeleteThink well
ReplyDeletePoster 1, catholic is not bad ooo, I will adapt okay, since u love him n he loves u too.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, give him a trial Buh remember ((mermaid style) to avoid story that tickles
I can relate with poster 1...make I luk for answers too
ReplyDeletePoster1, the truth is if you are a true Christian, such things won't matter to you. I don't know why people segregate in the house of God. We serve one God. There's nothing wrong with going to catholic. My advice to is, if you won't go same church with him, then quit to avoid division in the family. Remember, family that prays together stays together.
ReplyDeleteThere's idolatry in the Catholic Church and God hates it!
DeletePoster1, the truth is if you are a true Christian, such things won't matter to you. I don't know why people segregate in the house of God. We serve one God. There's nothing wrong with going to catholic. My advice to is, if you won't go same church with him, then quit to avoid division in the family. Remember, family that prays together stays together.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 marry him&follow him to catholic church with time u gonna fall in love wit d church.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, you are still in a relationship and not yet married.if you can't cope with being a catholic, and your bf is hell bent on you attending his church,now would be a good time to make a decision.you either quit the relationship or learn to embrace the catholic church.cos if you eventually get married with this issue hanging over your neck,it will cause lots of problems in your matrimonial home.
ReplyDeleteI don't know why people have issues with churches.I was born a catholic,and I attend the catholic church, I also attend living faith church and RGC.and while I'd wish to get married to a catholic,I'm cool with getting married to someone from any other church.as long as it is not jehovah's witness,or cherubim and seraphim,I'm cool with that.
Poster 2 Lol @ my papers are stronger than his.just make up your mind,you know what you want.before you know it, he'll start sending out his wedding invitation card.make haste!
Stella,maybe I shld send my chronicles..
ReplyDelete@chummy choo choo,na so we see am o.I loved(still do) dat babe with d whole of my life,but life happened. Now,I'm in a state where atimes I feel I shld av just left wen dat babe help my hand n accused me wrongly of staring @ her alwayz makin her uncomfy or when a friend sent me her sister's contact,maybe I shldnt have agreed to meet her
Kontinue..
DeletePlx explain.
Both posters are just creating problems where there are none.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: why go out with someone who you can't tolerate or accept his religious leanings? You can't eat your cake and still have it! Pack up the relationship or shut up and comply after all, if you guys get married na the church the family go dey attend.
ReplyDeleteposter 2: You have not said anything yet. Get to meet the guy, see if you guys can flow together. Stop building castles in the air. Have a good day.
today's chronicles tho
ReplyDeleteNarrative no1..se oro ni yen? u guys should just agree on which church to attend. am a muslima nd my wife is a Christian.she dey go her church and I dey pray my own 4 house..no be dsame God we dey serve? ABEGIII!!!!
ReplyDeleteY u make me beliv say na mi type dis comment? Hmm diffrent ppl with same words n typos!! God is great.
DeletePoster 1:his denomination is now a concern to you after dating for a whole 3 years.I don't think you knw wat u want.
ReplyDeletePoster 2:my advice to you is wait till u guys see each other physically,then u can make up your mind.Your relationship is still by proxy.
Poster 1: We are all worshiping one true God, whether Catholic or Anglican etc, Church is a thing of the heart and on the last day, one God will judge us all
ReplyDeletePoster 2 Age is nothing but a mere number, if he is mature and responsible enough to walk you down the aisle, why not?
All the best you two!
Poster1, and the two shall become one.
ReplyDeletePoster2, you are not a gold digger but your antenna received signals when you discovered he is in the US.
You can't cope being a Catholic and you think is easy to be protestant. My dear i am catholic and can't cope with you protestants.
ReplyDeleteClap for yourself, u have contributed meaningfully to this post.
DeleteHow has ur selfish self centered comment help both poster 1&2
N1, you are just like me. So I av to read comment on dis one bc am waiting to gain a word or two from intelligent BV'S. N2, some are good chatter but ain't good doer. So be careful.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 no big deal, love him back jare. Poster one, what do you think is in catholic doctrine. Except if you never ready to marry.
ReplyDeleteI wish i started following this blog earlier. A lot wid av been different. I really wish i cud just walk out
ReplyDeleteYou can walk as long as you've made up your mind.
DeleteI am to be married next month, had same issue with husby to be. After much tutoring from my mom though, i am giving in. Let me give you my mums piece of advise. she told me to go, that whatever church i find myself and whatever doctrine they practise, i should never take God off my mind.Catholic is not a bad church at all, my sister your church does not determine you but the love and God's words you have in your heart and daily Practise. For peace sake,like my mum stated move ahead with him, but always talk to God on everything.
ReplyDeleteI am to be married next month, had same issue with husby to be. After much tutoring from my mom though, i am giving in. Let me give you my mums piece of advise. she told me to go, that whatever church i find myself and whatever doctrine they practise, i should never take God off my mind.Catholic is not a bad church at all, my sister your church does not determine you but the love and God's words you have in your heart and daily Practise. For peace sake,like my mum stated move ahead with him, but always talk to God on everything.
ReplyDeleteI am to be married next month, had same issue with husby to be. After much tutoring from my mom though, i am giving in. Let me give you my mums piece of advise. she told me to go, that whatever church i find myself and whatever doctrine they practise, i should never take God off my mind.Catholic is not a bad church at all, my sister your church does not determine you but the love and God's words you have in your heart and daily Practise. For peace sake,like my mum stated move ahead with him, but always talk to God on everything.
ReplyDeletePoster one,U are not ready for marriage. U don't want to b submissive, U want to have ur way at all cost from where I'm sitting. Didn't U know he was Catholic all this while. And U knew he is the type not to allow diff faiths, now U are disturbing our ears.pls stop making issues where there us none.either U go to his church or U leave him,since ur church is so special.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, as Stella said U are not in a relationship yet,y are U bothering ur pretty head already for a guy U hardly know. Pls chill joor,U no get problem only to much shakara they worry U,lol
Your mum is a wish woman.
DeletePoster 1-you claim you love him,and yet you can't stand the catholic doctrine,abi?ok,oooo.i married a catholic while I was a pentecostal,but as soon as I started attending,the doctrine became clear.
ReplyDeleteNo go carry ur hand drive person wey God give you because of one church matter wey God no recognize except our relationship with him.
Poster 2- be very careful,once you get to the US get to know him,then come back with your narrative.
Best of luck to you both.
Poster 1-you claim you love him,and yet you can't stand the catholic doctrine,abi?ok,oooo.i married a catholic while I was a pentecostal,but as soon as I started attending,the doctrine became clear.
ReplyDeleteNo go carry ur hand drive person wey God give you because of one church matter wey God no recognize except our relationship with him.
Poster 2- be very careful,once you get to the US get to know him,then come back with your narrative.
Best of luck to you both.
Lol.... .
ReplyDeleteNo comment jawe.
It is well.
No problem here biko!
ReplyDeleteLol.. ..
ReplyDeleteNo comment jawe
It is well.
Jesus fix
ReplyDeleteChurch shouldn't be an issue jhoor....
ReplyDeleteposter1 follow your husband to be to church, there is nothing wrong with that. Poster2 just take your time and pray about it.May God see you through.
ReplyDeleteJesus fix
ReplyDeletePoster two u re just a hungry person! Plus Ur English na wa!
ReplyDeleteMy main guy is churchy, no sex before marriage, sweet and worships the ground I walk on.
ReplyDeleteBut I have this guy that we are strictly on a sexual basis, that was the plan, have sex no attachment. The plan was to do this till December cos main boo wants us to do intro by May latest.
"fuck and pass" guy is aware but nigga seems to be loving up. See me see wahala. Reminded him to fuck me like he'll miss Mr while he was on top yesterday and nigga withdrew and became mushy about how he feels we are MORE than sexual partners and all...
Mcheew. Oshisco.
P.S just needed to let this out, no be say i get problem.'
Hahaha! Love your attitude! All men do the same, in fact your main guy with the "no sex before marriage" principle might just be catching his own fun too. Continue!
DeleteReminds of the song 'Ex's & ohs'
DeletePoster 1. I think you guys should be able to sit and talk about it, I see nothing wrong in attending Catholic. You can attend ur church during weekdays and read your bible, pray to God. That's all
ReplyDeleteWhich one be "my papers are stronger than his cos I can go and come back" can't he do same?
ReplyDeleteTgif......
ReplyDeletePôster 1: If you wish to marry d guy,then you must be SUBMISSIVE !!!PRIDE COMES BEFORE A FALL.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: the guy Is sincere But are you???
Hey you! poster1 if u can't go to his church then look for a husband that goes to the church of your choice don't come here and write another chronicle. You can't attend his church Mchewwwwwwww.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Family that prays together, stays together... If u dnt want dat man! Kindly chip his contact make we marry am
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Get serious with ur life
Poster 1, If you unequally yokes through denomination then go your way. You obviously do not want anything to do with Catholicism so why fake something so fundamental to an individual just for a ring?
ReplyDeletePoster 2, You have to examine why you did not want to be with him in the first place. You have to study yourself to see why for 3/4 yrs he could not get anything positive out of you all he tried.
Poster 1 you don't have any issue,maybe your church will marry you. Poster 2 you are on your own
ReplyDeleteSome Nigerians woman dont know what is love,they only love man money or character..
ReplyDeleteposter one ,,,,
you love him but you dont accept his church?is love not to accept and loving every
thing about the person?
poster 2,
for 2 to 3 years you never accepted the guy but once you her US,love come dey,,
feeling him just come out from your brain,,,he become a sweet and loving person?right?
if he tell you that he has relocated to his village cos he can not pay for his
house rent,will you still calling him a sweet person?well na wen he chop you his
eyes go open
Poster 1 hmmm i am very picky wd religion oh, i dnt joke with ma faith its a NO NO for me. I dnt understand catholic doctrines so i know i wouldn't date one tackles of marrying one. but u dated him for 3 years so means u must have prepared ur mind for this year 1 or 2 of dating him, why are u forming confused or takin aback. didn't u know he was catholic before? dint u guys talk about it? what did u say then or u just wanted to answer Mrs and now it is dawning on u.. OYO is ur case
ReplyDeletePoster 1- what have you been doing while dating him. Getting to know someone and his beliefs is very important. You have not any effort to discuss and understand those doctrines you find strange and you said you love him. The fact is that you're afraid of you don't know and jumped to conclusions like every other ingorant comments on this blog. Talk with your guy if you have any chance to be together. The truth of the matter is that if you are with genuine Catholic you'll get the most sincere friendship.
ReplyDeleteI am a born catholic and one of my criteria for dating is the guy must be a catholic, cuz I can afford not to wed in the catholic church. But that does not mean I can't attend any other church. Presently where I am I attend House on the Rock and I enjoy their service. So I can marry from any denomination but the guy must marry me in my Catholic Church so I can recieve my sacramentals anyday, anywhere, anytime.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. See ladies, what I don't get is why u allow a guy that has never even had a physical meeting with tell u he wants to marry u, and u r acting all giddy and ish. Have some damn respect for itself. As if marriage is all that matters in life
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