Hmmmm....When a man wants a woman,really wants a woman,HE OVERLOOKS EVERYTHING just to be with her..wanna bet?
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
WHEN LE BOO'S BFF IS A TORN IN THE FLESH?
Stella well done o.....
I have been dating a Guy for 2 years plus, I know his family and every had been fine, but the issue is that I don't like his best friend, they have been friends since their University days and everybody knows them together as very good friends but his friend doesn't not treat me well, he can see me on the road and pretend not to see me.
he is very proud and arrogant to me and also to my boyfriend , he can walk out of us while we are talking and he is very disrespectful, I feel that he doesn't wish my bf well. How can I tell my bf all these ( open his eyes to see all these things) I dont want it to seem that am coming in between them but sincerely I don't like the guy.
Women and their wahala!
Both men were fine before you came in and now you have turned to a soothsayer with your assumptions?If he doesnt mean your BF well,let your BF find out by himself..why are you so bothered?
why are you taking so much notice?why not ignore him TOTALLY?or be nice to him.He is probably jealous and reacting to the fact that you have taken his BFF time away....Yes men can be jealous too.
Leave him alone and face your relationship okay?Thank you!
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
AGE DIFFERENCE IN A RELATIONSHIP.
Hello Stella,
I hope you are doing well.
I have sent chronicles before ooo! (Last year...Lol) regarding long distance relationship with someone who never bothers to call...claiming he is too busy. BVs helped me to view the matter objectively and in time i discovered he was just a serial time waster.
I am a 37 yr old single mum with a cute 4 yr old boy who is just living her life quietly since then but some months ago... I met a guy who because of the way we met, felt we are meant for each other, and fell so hard for me.
I am a 37 yr old single mum with a cute 4 yr old boy who is just living her life quietly since then but some months ago... I met a guy who because of the way we met, felt we are meant for each other, and fell so hard for me.
Now the problem is he is waaaayy younger than me (5 years)... I did everything to discourage him, he just wouldnt bulge. In the end i told him about the age gap plus the fact that i have a child. It still didnt matter to him. Now due to my past experiences, i have had time to reflect and in all comparison, i have never seen anyone treat me so much compassion like this guy.
He bends backwards to assist me, he tries to make me happy, he cares about my son. I have insisted that we can just be friends because the age matter ehn!!!...but he says he is not giving up, that he wants me for life. Infact, he has been using my picture as a screen saver.
I was forced to tell my closest friend about this development, and she said as long as the guy do not mind, why am i worried? She feels i should give it a shot. Especially that he is not a married man.
I am confused Stella, that age difference especially in the society we live is something i don't want to take lightly.
Please, i would like a general opinion on this matter please.
Thanks for sharing, Stella.
God bless you all
My dear he is 32yrs old and thats old enough.stop fighting it and give him a chance.being with someone your age or with someoen older doesnt mean that they will love you more.
What do women really want sef?Grab the opportunity in front of you if you are hell bent on getting hooked,if not then let him go abeg!
*wink*All the best and cross your legs and do the mermaid pretence until the right time..
Jesus fix it!
ReplyDelete*******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
Poster1,d idiot bon u,bon him (X10),disrespect u,disrespect d moron triple.
DeletePoster2 go ahead and marry him,age is just number,btw am 35yrs and about to marry 25yrs old guy.
WHO IS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH WALE CHARLES A. FROM IRELAND? THE IGWE 1 OF LIARS ,IRELAND CHAPTER? PLS STAND UP TO BE COUNTED!
Delete@poster1 : face front.
Delete@poster2 : don't give him your cookies yet.
Narrative 2
DeleteAge difference?
Age is just a number, stop prioritizing it.
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Poster one, I love to be in that position, ignore him totally, I don't give a shit eh eh eh( I hope you don't have a rotten character sha, cos some people don't know that their attitude stinks).
DeletePoster two, you don't have a problem as long as the guy is OK with the age difference,the only problem is if you look 37 or older, I hope you are not fat sha, I can date a man that is 10 years younger than I am, no one will know unless I tell them, the secret is look trimmed, sexy and act like an innocent child.
Poster 1, stella is right
DeleteI'm in tour shoes, my bfs bff is now distancing himself frm my bf cos he feels iv come btw them, and that's because my bf and I are so close and into each other too.
Like stella said, let the guy notice it himself.
Age is not just a number madam, but since he's insisting, give him a trial. He might be the one at the end dear. Since you're happy and he treats your son well, no problem.
DeletePoster one, IGNORE the mumu guy let him even begin to doubt his own existence. Don't tell your bf anything OK? Treat him the way he deserves to be treated. What's he feeling like? But poster, are you sure you haven't done something cos this is a one sided story. But if all you said is true, ignore the mumu jare.
Emjay
DeleteDon't give them cane to flog your back!
TMI
@emjay,Sand sand brain, na who be idiot pass you for this world ?
DeleteA fool @ 35 is a fool forever.
Emjay, you are 35? O wow!
DeleteDeceived and cheated, cool down for Jesus. When una see any man from Europe na to jump straight into him, fall in love. Why do you think most women in Europe don't get married? Cos men like dt idiot dt I don't know has messed up their minds and trust with serial cheating. My dear open your eyes biko.
DeleteEmjay u're a liar,who dash u 35 I know u well in Benin o,u're saying opposite u're dating a guy of 35 yrs while u're 25
DeleteU're the biggest fool & most stupid person ever,aunty gweggs like you,old cargo
DeleteHello...............
DeletePoster2,be careful of that 32yr old boy oo,i know their type:they always have excess dopamine in their system that makes them think they are in love whereas it's just catching feelings',i bet u have been giving him pu**y, and urs seem like the bomb type'#where is Mmyflawws #,so he's just tripping!be careful madam,u need a man that is totally matured emotionally,and has learnt to control his emotions.and again,have u tot of 10yrs from now?he will look like ur son and will cheat on u,den u are helpless!btw I also hope it's not ur money he's collecting that is making him seem loyal? Analyse all dese my dear sister,sorry I am harsh on him,but it's just dat dese young guys have become so untrustworthy,irresponsible pple.
DeleteUbong Aaron the Facebook rapist girls Pls be careful!
DeletePoster 2 you don't have a problem.
DeleteWale oooo.Ko ni da fun aiye e lai lai. Oba oni iro 1 of Ireland.
DeletePoster 1 I've been in that situation. Bf's best friend was simply jealous. Ignored him for a while and all became not ok but manageable. I eventually broke up with BF cos he was torn bw both of us. Heard they eventually quarreled when bf wanted to get married yrs later.
DeletePoster 1,mind ur business
ReplyDeletePoster 2,give him a chance biko.
Poster 1, seems ds is my story as it happened t me ds exact way. I almost that they were even gays cos d love was too much. So bad dat if he's on top of me n d guy calls,he wld lie n stand up. Now he has found a way t push me out. I just pray my ex sees his buddy for who he really is. Funny thns is I once said it here that I had t check his body t b sure he isn't gay n he's not.
Deletehey. i have been looking all over for you. n here u are. Glad to knw u are ok
DeletePoster 1,mind ur business
ReplyDeletePoster 2,give him a chance biko.
Age is just a number... sometimes.
DeletePoster 1,
ReplyDeleteMen don't leave their friends like that...BUT
Are you sure they are not fucking each other this one he dosent like you...
Hmmmmmm...
Poster 2,
We have treated this your predicament here before...
Biko,start dating him...age is just a number...
Meanwhile,I like them young!...
Enjoy!...
My tots exactly on poster one, I have been there.
DeleteMeet this well to do guy Frank in Enugu cos I have a 6months program there, the guy assured me he was srz but like 2 months into the matter,I noticed him and his bff who happens to be his housemate were unusually close n that one always puts up attitude each time I came around.
Note that frank is the owner of d house n pays all d bills,this oga C was just coming up.
I initially waved it n ignored d fellow n until I noticed that each time we are going out C ll rush front seat n Frank ll just look back to me an smile that I should be calm.
He had no prob telling oda of his friend to go to back seat that his baby have to sit in front but when it concerns C he ll be scared to talk.
I decided to rush d front seat one day o as we came out to enter n guess what, C found a stupid excuse to say he is not going out with us again lol F tried to convince him o but he insisted n me I was just smiling n waiting for F to say any rubbish.
We then went out o, F Suddenly turned sad lol d outing was so boring,he couldn't even drink hmm.
I didn't need to snoop to know there was more to that friendship mbok so I took off without a reason. He kept calling cos he was kinda desperate to settle down.
Guilty conscience almost killed him,he kept asking but I refused to talk mehn.
If u come across this Frank,this is d real reason y I left u. Yes I knew n some of ur friends knew too!
Poster 2: if he is younger, no future together except he is an "island"(I hope you understand)....
ReplyDeletePoster 2, some people can kill to get your man. Start dating him sharply
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ReplyDeleteJoblesshousewife
Poster 1,u are not serious.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,how did you become a single mother?
I hope u have stop colaboing anyhow.
WHO ELSE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP with WALE CHARLES A? The no one Liar and deceiver the world over.planning a wedding with one person and openly professing love for another person.
Deletechai..u ar so mean....
Delete*stopped
DeletePoster one
ReplyDeleteTuza Queen
Better face ur relationship
Poster 2
U are lucky
Give him a chance and see how it goes
Try and meet his family too and see if they will like u as a single mum
Goodluck dearie
Poster what's ur business with ur bf's bff?
ReplyDeleteAbi u dey like d guy?
If he ignores u can't u ignore him in return?
Abegi.
Poster two just open ya legs for him, therein lies vous answer.
Poster 1...akproko tins.....poster 2....a trial wunt hurt
ReplyDeletePoster 2 : do not go further with the relationship I bet you it will lead to no where as far he knows he is junior to you. Never not in Nigeria, it is a time waisted my sister because that will be his excuse later when he finally plans breaking up with you.
ReplyDelete*waste
DeletePoster 1-are you sure they both aint making out*asin*filling each other ass hole..if not !iignore him completely
DeletePoster 2-Am the kind of preson that will say go for it but after really taking time to notice how such always end,I give up but hey!!follow ya heart..
Slow day...
SDK thank you for your advice to N1, i don't get some women, they come in and tear their dh or lover's and their friends apart. N1, you are a bad lady.
ReplyDeleteHow do u know she is a bad lady? Miss truth? Abi u be soothsayer? Mtchew. U have to be in her shoes to conclude. Something might be fishy. Guys always have a way of being friendly with their friend's gf or at least talk well when she is around or try to be civil. And if he ain't doing all this, something must be passing him off where d girl is concerned. He might have feelings for the girl's bf without the guy knowing sef. It happens. And we women have a way of noticing these things.
DeleteKronicles ti de!!!! *spreads dollar crested rug*
ReplyDeletePoster 2. Give him a chance pls. And pray too.
ReplyDeletePoster 1. Let your bf make his own mistakes.
Poster 1: if he is proud and arrogant to both you and your bf, why are you the only one seeing it.. and if they have been friend for that long, I guess they go well or merge well. Don't try to spoil a friendship cos u don't like the guy. And most men believe it's women that separates friends don't be one of them.......
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Age is no barrier as long as you can cope...
poster 1 :we women ant to make correction,add and subtract from a man's life just cos he is dating u?for Gods sake u n the friend dont owe eachother anything.Mind ur business, date ur bloke.If hes been treated badly n he knows it nobody will tell him.Stop thinkimg what u shudnt bfor they use u to settle.If Bff pretends not to see u he isnt ur own BFF so mind ur business.Greeting u wont kill u
ReplyDeleteposter 1 :we women ant to make correction,add and subtract from a man's life just cos he is dating u?for Gods sake u n the friend dont owe eachother anything.Mind ur business, date ur bloke.If hes been treated badly n he knows it nobody will tell him.Stop thinkimg what u shudnt bfor they use u to settle.If Bff pretends not to see u he isnt ur own BFF so mind ur business.Greeting u wont kill u
ReplyDelete@1, Stella how is this a chronicle.
ReplyDelete@2, I can never feel comfortable dating a guy am older than, madam y not date someone older and considering d fact dat u ve a child, 5 yrs gap is too much abeg, how do u feel when u are fucking him, am sure u are d one financing d relationship cos u didn't tell us if he's rich, I bet u no rich young guy would want to marry a woman 5yrs older than him, u are too young to be a sugar mummy abeg, go and look for a matured man and leave d small boy alone, and what makes u think his family will accept u.
Your BET IS WRONG! I am engaged to a guy 5 YEARS MY JUNIOR. We gave dated for a couple of years and he has money and us from a very well to do family. He loves me and doesn't allow anything or anyone dare come between us,including his family and his parents. So poster number 2,don't mind age. Watch his actions and behaviours.
DeleteYour BET IS WRONG! I am engaged to a guy 5 YEARS MY JUNIOR. We gave dated for a couple of years and he has money and us from a very well to do family. He loves me and doesn't allow anything or anyone dare come between us,including his family and his parents. So poster number 2,don't mind age. Watch his actions and behaviours.
DeleteNice advice. Pls my dear 2nd poster, take note.....am also in d same dilemma right now, though mine is worse cz am 32 and he is 27. In fact we are married and I just recently discovered, dts aw bad it is.
DeleteAnonymous 4:52
DeleteExpress clearly your displeasure at his deceit ask if there are other things he has hidden, now will be the time to lay all cards on the table
Give it time
Move on
I am married to a guy 3 yrs younger than I am. We have 3 great kids, he is d most mature man I ever dated. We love each other like kilode!!!!! I can't believe people still view this as an issue o @this age and time sha
DeleteAnon 15:62 lol women be lying about their age since 1800BC
DeletePoster 2, please don't listen to this angelray or whatever she calls herself. Your friend is 32, and q man (hoping he's matured) age isn't anything if maturity is present! If you can live with him, why not.
DeleteDo you look older than your age, because no one needs to know your age. If he respects you, that will be a prized secret for him to keep. Please keep your head up. If you e found love and happiness, don't chase it away
Hmmmmmmm,It is well.
ReplyDeleteJesus fix it for poster 1 n 2. Give dem wisdom
ReplyDeletePoster 1:biko be yourself in this relationship.
ReplyDeletePoster2:age is nothing but numbers,if you know that the guy really loves you and you have feelings for him and you are not looking 37,you guys can make a deal and you cut off your age when he wants 2 introduce you to his people..free your mind and let the love flow naturally.
Stella, what type of rubbish advise r u giving the first poster? Take time o. Poster 1: don't mind stella o. Ignore the guy big time, if possible snub him when u see him on the road but be the all loving GF in front of ur bf. When he sees that u don't av his time, he'll stay on his lane. He must be mad. U can tell ur bf if u want to.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: na wa 4 u o. Enjoy the relationship nau. And if it's leading to marriage, be happy
Narrative number 1, seer if life. What if your bf doesn't have future plans for you and the friend is trying to either be honest with you or let you go? For all you know, there is more to the way he is acting towards you. Let me tell you one painful truth; he is treating you exactly the way your bf treats you behind your back. If I were you, I'd be more concerned about my partner
ReplyDeleteThanks. Gbam.
Deletewhere do i send your kisses to?
DeleteI agree with you.I think the way your guy talk about you/regards you in your absence with hiss bff matters a lot.Or the bff is just jealous that you have taken an important place in his friends life.
DeleteGod bless u for this comment!
DeleteFrom my experience I agree
I used to hate one of my bf's friend cos he never treated well, I even complained to my then bf but nothing.
Guess what,the guy liked me n was angry that I was being blinded my love n allowing myself to be treated anyhow.
He ofcos couldn't snitch on his friend so that was his own way of telling me.
Na for Facebook I see my bf knell down dey propose to another babe while we were still supposed to be dating and all those his friends that used to treat me well didn't even hold back in splashing those pics all over the internet...
But guess what,Mr hater didn't put any up.n he was in there o but cos he knew I ll see it,he didn't put it.
I deleted all of them eventually and later tot abt it and realized that hey Mr hater prolly didn't hate me after all I mean if all his friends werent so deceiving,I would have given myself brain earlier
Hmmmmmm, u av point
Delete@call me expert...may your wisdom never diminish. Wise one! Poster 1: be observant and sensitive.
DeleteLol...judy is dat u?
Delete@poster two;is it more about what "The Society" would say? Or your own preference?
ReplyDeleteAre you of the "School of thought" that Age is just A Number?? If yes,then continue with this guy..but if the answer is the opposite;then leave him and look for someone within your spec..
Do it cos its what you need dear;cos life is too brief to be lived "For the society"..
All the best to you!!
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Age should really not be a barrier in love especially if the age is right..not them childbride or peodophile kinda type oo..
ReplyDeleteYou should give him a chance and see what happens
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Poster1; they have been friends before u came in, So don't tear them apart. If he does not wish ur boyfriend well, then let ur boyfriend find out by himself and do the needful.
ReplyDeletePoster2..age is just a number. The young man is old enough to make decisions for himself. If u really love him, forget about the age difference and give him a chance...don't forget to tie ur legs until he does the needful.
1. Babe leave his friend alone and face your man. Be nice to him if you can and if not, mind your business so long as he's not leading your man astray.
ReplyDelete2. Give him a chance but be a mermaid to avoid stories.
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ReplyDeletePoster 1: leave dem alone o. Try to be nice to nice and if he continues same way, pray that smth wud happen soon to open your guys eyes to see things the way u see dem. There is this frnd of hubby who I don't like cos of d way he acts, thinking he.knows all and can control things and even ppl. I tried making hubby see things my way but his reaction made me leave dem alone. Hubby called me, no he sent msg first on how he hates it wen ppl he cud go extra miles for betrays him. I didn't understand where he was coming from until he called to tell me s frnd broke his hrt, how he betrayed him. This betrayals have been happening and I was telling him but he didn't see it until that one happened. They r still friends o, but I'm sure he wudnt go extra miles for him again. Poster 2: at 32, d guy no be baby again o. Since its no p to him, why r u bothered? Well expect u ain't telling us smth here.
ReplyDeleteStella you get mouth sha.
ReplyDeleteMake I sit down read comments. I've exhausted all the advise I have in my advise box abeg make una no vex.
PEACEFUL AND ENCOURAGING WIFE....
Nothing to advice here... make una use una head for here
ReplyDeleteP1.mind ur biz.wetin concern u wt his ffriend,ignore him tooo as long as it doesn't cause quarrel btw u and le booo.
ReplyDeleteP2. Age is notin but num.if d guy is okay, abeg give it a trial,i knw someone who is younger to wify like ur case. As long as each one understands his or her role according to our laws and culture.Watever pretend to be a mermaid
na wa oh lol stella ur advice for poster 2 get as e be some of us like sex oh me i nor fit do dat mermaid style....had sex with bae last night it was sooooooooo
ReplyDeleteNarrator 1... give ur bff chance. If your boyfriend marry you now, you go scatter the family if anyone give him side eyes. Dont be like my foolish brother's girlfriend that eventually lost out to another babe my brother is marrying come this december.
ReplyDeletePoster 2... Oyibo say age is a number. Give him a trial but i hope you never start to open your toto for him.
Who else is dating WALE CHARLES A of Ireland? A liar and a cheat of the highest order.
DeleteNa only YOU was cheated on jare as birds of the same feather lie together
DeleteStella, it is very hard to see someone you love being treated badly and not intervene. Chic talk to your bf about it, but do not let it turn to an argument. Come to think of it, it is normally gay men that display those jealous vibes. I hope that is not the case for you though. Pray well please!
ReplyDeleteP1 abeg if you nor stay make u waka, they 've been friends since university days, and his parents have nva complain about him why you. He pretends not to see you.. u wen see am, why you nor greet am..I see you as troublesome person... women aaah!
ReplyDeleteP2, if you are sure he loves you just the way u described it "bcos we women we know how to add sugar; then go for it.
Poster 1,nne why are u stressing yourself over some inconsequential ish?Wish I could meet u and give u Lesson 101 on how to ignore d said guy.
ReplyDeleteAnd tread softly too...u aren't married to dis guy....yet.he is just a Le boo.so pls be "nice"mind ya biz and keep ignoring him.
Poster 2...as long as he doesn't mind ma dear,I don't see a problem wit that.
Age is nothing but a no.one could be 40 years old and be behaving like an idiotic 6 year old.but u have someone that's 32,behaves his mature age and loves u.I mean,come on dear....
Free ya mind,relax and let life do u good.
My dear, dont be deceived, i know many people who are older than their husbands but they'll never come out to say, and yes AS MUCH AS 5 YEARS. You've seen d one that is 32 and a human being or you wanna wait for the one that is 40 and like a child
ReplyDeleteTRust me
ReplyDeletego for him
i had the same problem, infact his over likeness made me leave him
he would play with my hair till i slept and woke up,
would do snything for me and yet was still mature
Though my husband loves me so much, abeg that younger one was best. I wish i cld still see him
if hes mature, age shouldnt matter hun
go for it
poster 2,I hope you are not the useless Benin lady that lives in Germany ..if you are,then better be ready to take whatever comes your way..if coincidently you are the one then I must tell you clearly that you are joker kos and a great liar at that...well let me keep cool for now kos he I that I know very well is not upto that age unless he lied just to make you comfortable.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: THANKS STELLA FOR THAT LAST LINE; "CLOSING LEGS". This is usually the albatross of women! This man will so much respect you if you close your legs. It will show him that whatever happened with your son was a mistake that you have corrected in your life. Opening legs will make him believe that you are still "all man wife" and desperate "hoe with a hole". Once he pays the bride price, allow him to "browse".
ReplyDelete...that's how my husband and his brother were so close until his brother married a skinny girl who did not only separate my husband and his brother but the entire family. I took her as a sister and she betrayed me woefully. Ds girl is the most active person in her Redeem church oo. I have learnt my lesson and am so far from her even though she's trying to make me friends again. Tufiakwaaaaaa not after she fought me on my child's birthday. She abused me ehnnnnn on top say she dint get hot pounded Yam and vegetable soup. Help me ask her whether I sent her to come at 7:30pm after the party had ended since it started at 1pm. I fear who no fear Abeokuta girls. Am not generalizing ooooo. Ladies please don't be unnecessarily close to co-wives in your husband's side. My 25 cents.
ReplyDeleteLol, funny
DeleteSo because of one bad experience, every lady shouldn't be close to their co wife eh?
Delete@ anonymous, is ur husband and his brother from the maje...... family? From abeokuta? Haaa I beg u in the name of God, if it is pls reply!! May ur child not marry a wrong person ijn! pls is ur husband brother abroad? Seem i knw this person! Jezes!! Stella pls post ooooo! May u not land in a wrong net! Mbok post this i need to be sure I'm having a married man as fiance!!!
DeleteYou are generalising... what does her being from Abeokuta have to do with a bad attitude, is it the town that trained her? Pls use sense sometimes
DeletePoster1, if they have been fine before your observations, don't you think you are the problem? I understand woman instinct, but in this case just relax and let it play out, make sure you ignore so you don't do something rash.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, if you ask me I will say 'nwa ya rie ihe okwu muru anya, ya arahu," I feel that will be the case, forget stella ' s advice oo, the age issue will definitely come up in the future, and trust me it doesn't always end good.
If twin boys are still as close as they were when they were little, trust me dem neva marry. Women and wahala.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, must you marry now now? Enjoy his company but close your legs so you can have better judgement.
Poster1, men don't leave deir frd just like dat so just leave dem alone.
ReplyDeletePoster2, age is just a number Wat r u waiting for. Husband cost now.
Bia, I have a revelation for U. U are Em Jay's twin sister. I mean the yoruba version of Em Jay..tueh. brain unu wu cha sawdust. Akakpo
DeletePoster 1, pretend as if he doesn't exist Buh sha give him his due respect n show ur man enough love..
ReplyDeletePoster 2, if he insist, then go ahead with him but cross ur legs like a mermaid to avoid story that tickles
So far, amongst all d comments ve read, most people keep saying tie your legs, do mermaid style et al Abegi make una shift go one corner. U guys wld be fucking nd messing around and come here to say tie ur legs! Biko is there no other advice in the world other than that? What ever happened to use your brain and others?
ReplyDeleteNyways, poster 1 u just want to find trouble. Not everybody would like u all u need to do is be at peace with all men. If he greet u answer, if he dosent greet him. It can't remove ur left breast.
Poster 2, since you are after what people would say ehen lemme just start it for u..... leave him for we single babes so we can hook up with him kia kia.
N.B you seem to forget we only live once.
poster 2,I hope you are not the useless Benin lady that lives in Germany ..if you are,then better be ready to take whatever comes your way..if coincidently you are the one then I must tell you clearly that you are a joker and a great liar at that...well let me keep cool for now kos he that i know very well is not upto that age unless he lied just to make you comfortable.
ReplyDelete...this one sound like where person wake up for traffic just put mouth for wetin no concern am
DeleteSome women are bad fine but not this poster1 cos a good bff would be happy for his friend finding the love of his life but a bad one would act strange even when there's no quarrel he starts ignoring instead of encouraging the new relationship, he's obviously the one being a thorn...*not all long time friends are good friends cos they also turn out to be behind long time secret travails and when a good, loving and highly instinctive woman comes along they automatically act up in this same pattern...
ReplyDelete@ Poster 1, my gaydar is tilting towards 10 on the richter scale. Guys are normally level headed when it comes to their friends girlfriend. Even if they don't like you they do a good job of hiding itt. The gay vibes is so high hehn.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 I feel u shld totaly ignor d guy since ur bF is nt complaining like stella said let him find out himself dat his frnd doesn't mean well 4 him ok
ReplyDeletePoster 2 I clearly understand ur point considering d society we ar in, but I feel u shld giv him a chance since u av seen he means well for u nd ur kid bt don't test the depth of water with both legs, all d best dearie.
Poster 1, look deeper. If u so wish, pray to God and ask Him to show you if there is any evil secret b/w ur man and his " so-called best friend" becos from ur narrative, it is safe to assume that there is something unhealthy about their relationship.
ReplyDeleteposter 2, I am a married father of one. My wife is two years and about two months older than me and it doesn't matter in the least bit to me. When I took her home for the intro, one of my nosey sisters asked me how old she is and I told her that we're both age mates and that ended the matter. As long as God is behind any matter, people's opinion can burn to ashes for all I care.
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Poster 1 na wah oooo,some girls sef. Person wey no like u make u no like the person sef. He see you bone ewo you bone am back. My dear face ur guy please. Poster 2 na becos u senior the guy it is an issue now but if the guy senior you it won't be any issue. Forget society and follow ur heart. Abi them write the guy age paste for I'm forehead neh? Carry go but remember don't do the do till after marriage.
ReplyDeleteGod fix it for both..
ReplyDeleteGod fix it for both..
ReplyDeleteP1, please face your man and leave his friend alone. P2, I have them lilr that but its not my kind of thing even though i know it works very well. One mans meat is another man's poison. Give him a chance if he's that serious and if you sincerely love him
ReplyDelete5yrs age difference is no big deal, i really do not see the difference between a 70yr old and a 75yr old. It is so insignificant especially since so many women take care of themself these days and look great right up into their 60s.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,He treats you so well & "He uses your pix as his dp" are women still this daft? Wait until you Fuck him 22 times & come back here to tell me how he's changed.I am guy,I used to like older girls.Same age gap.Do you know what I enjoyed in them? Seeing them beneath me,conquered. Mark my words. Except this is a 99 to 1 exception,this guy can't be real.He's infatuated. Trust me.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 you are sharing your boyfriend with a man. Open your eyes. What kind of stupid attitude? Who gave him dt audacity? There is an ish going on and dt guy sees in you a rival. It's only you dt know the best action to take.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, better make up your mind now before dt guy change his mind. Besides what is age where there is true love. Just find out if the guy is truly in love. Good luck to you.
Nice chronicles with so much nice comments to learn from
ReplyDeleteNA wah o
ReplyDeleteDabota married a man much older than her, she was cussed out!
ReplyDeleteLawani married a man much younger than her, she was also cussed out!
Yet, they come here and say, age is just a number?
Poster, you were among those who cussed these people, because you know, age is just NOT number! Especially a gap of 5 years and above! If it is less than 2 years, you won't have bother to ask bvs, and you are both in your 30's, and not spring chickens! My advice; Leave that relationship! Women age faster than men, he will use it to cuss you someday during heated quarrels!
You don't like your BF friend because of his attitude, and these are few reasons;
You are NOT the main chick!
Your bf says trash about you behind!
He is trying to pass a message to you!
Your bf probably tell him things you discuss together and about him.
Poster, when eating eba with hot soup, it is from the corner of the plate you take the soup, so as not to get your fingers scalded!
POSTER 1:- You get wahala for body, for your information your boyfriend knows who his friend is, stop sealing your attitude else you will lose him.
ReplyDeletePOSTER 2:- Swallow your pride and accept his proposal else if you miss him, you will regret it for life.
@ lovely heart. You must be sick upstairs for responding to me that way. Go back and read my post where I advised ladies here not to be unnecessarily close to co-wives. Being close is one thing while being unnecessarily close is another thing. You and your rubbish lovely heart should take a chill pill.
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