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Ever dated someone who lied so much that your pants cling to your bum in fear when he walks in?lol

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DATING A CHRONIC LIAR

Good afternoon Stella and fellow bvs, I am so confused, I don't know where to start from, I met this guy about thirty months ago, I was thirty one years old then and he said he was forty two years old. He said he had been watching me for a very long time, that he loves me, that he wants me, that if things work out Fine he will marry me.                            

  So we started dating, and I have some senior friends they are male. So I met about two of them then and told them about this guy, differently, they both gave me same answer that is not  good person, both of them said that he can't marry a woman, that he has alot of bad character. But me I thought that they just want to spoil him.                    

One day, I  want to his place, as I was leaving, I saw one of my secondary school Friend mom, she asked me who I came to see in her neighbourhood, I told her she said my child, I don't even wish this kind of person for my enemy, that I should stop seeing him. But me I was blind. After thirty months, am now regretting, why I didn't listen to this people.                                          

This guy even satan no lie reach am, he lies when its not even necessary,and he loves making me unhappy, every time he says ''I just love you, you are not beautiful, you are too tall, you too huge, your shape is only a man  that have strong heart that can marry you, stop wearing trousers, stop wearing straight gowns''. These are the kinds of words he all use, anytime he sees me.                                                                  

 Then I became depressed I now went to one of my big friends, I told him every thing he said that these are signs of insecurity, that he want to make me feel bad, that since I am very tall and with good curves and good complexion and he is short is dark as kiwi polish, that he will be doing every thing to make me feel bad. After I discussed with my senior Friend, when I saw him he started those his useless talk, I told his God that gave me my height and curves, is not something that can be bought in the  market, from that day he stopped telling me those useless words.             

            But  now his lying aspect is going from worse to worst. The other day, I was buying fuel in a filling station I saw him entering his car, I called him, I  told him that I saw him, he said that is not him that he is in wedding ceremony, I now asked him to look to his left he saw me, he was smiling sheepishly. 

Yesterday, I saw him, I  went to visit somebody that lost her mom, I saw him sitting opposite the compound, I  called him,  I asked him where are you? He said I travelled to Benin, after about thirty minutes I called again, he said am still in Benin, I now asked him to look directly opposite, he saw me he kept quiet.                                                

 My question now, is that must he lie over nothing, since Yesterday I have been wondering, I decided to move on.                                                     

Fellow bvs, has anyone met this kind of chronic liar before?.

You are probably almost 34 now right?You dated him for 30months thinking he would change?His toasting line of saying he had been watching you and might probably marry you were all lies.

Good to know you have decided to move on...A leopard never changes its spots.

Mind you,most of these liars equally see you as a liar cos in their head,they are saying the truth and you are the one who isnt.MOVE ON AND KEEP WALKING.....