Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative.

Hmm,this is the height of anything i have read...no retreat,no surrender!
NA WAH OHH!!!

STAND ALONE NARRATIVE

MARRIED TO AN IMPOSSIBLE SPOUSE.

My love Stella, please hide my name and email.
I have always known that I will send you my chronicle very soon but I was praying it never really happens.
Please bear with my lengthy story.
I got married 3 years ago to a Muslim man but am a Christian.I'm 28 and he's 47.

Stella and fellow bvs. I got married to this man because I wanted to see him happy.Before our marriage during our introduction his elder sister told me that she hopes this marriage will not end in court. I asked her why and she told me that the previous one ended in court. Which I was not aware of. Our cards were already out and distributed to friends and well wishers. I thought of withdrawing from the marriage but I remembered how happy my mother and siblings were about the marriage. I said to myself no need of calling it quits hoping that things will turn out well.which never did!

I cannot say everything in details because I don't even know where to start.

The problem started immediately after the traditional marriage.
The first night we spent as husband and wife was in bitterness. We did not talk for almost one month after the marriage. His problem being that during the traditional marriage he saw me hugging some guys. 

I told him that these guys came from far distance just to honour my invitation that I was just happy and all. He kept ignoring me.
I was thinking that will be all but my people it's worst now especially since we are trying to convince.
He keeps telling me that I deliberately don't want to get pregnant because I want guys to still be admiring me. If am working out to keep fit he tells me that am doing all these to remain attractive for me. He keeps telling me that am a slut.

He goes through my phone when am asleep. To see who called me and who I called. He goes through my Facebook msg, he checks on who liked my pictures and the comments. He writes down their names and accuses me of sleeping with them. He accuses me of sleeping with my clients. I cannot receive call in his presence because if I do, its big wahala! No cousins no friends is allowed to call me or visit me. If I call small kids my love he becomes jealous.

During my birthday, my friend used my picture on his dp and my husband saw it and called police for the guy. He told them that the guy is cheating with his wife that they should get him arrested. The guy(married) called me and told me that my husband reported him to the police because he used my picture on his whatsapp wall. My people, this man have access to my phones while his phone is locked permanently. I confronted my husband he said that am supporting my lover. That am wayward. That am useless and adulterous. 

That he will teach the guy a lesson. Finally my family and his family intervened in the Matter and my mother asked him to come and collect his bride price back that the marriage is over. I told my mother not to say that because I love my husband. He told me that if I want to leave, he will not hold me back because he is convinced that my people already have another man waiting for me.
We settled and barely two weeks he's at it again. 

On Saturday I caught him checking my undies for sperm  just because the previous night I was reading for exams when he demanded for sex and I told him that am reading for my exams that if we have sex that I will be tired and will not be able to study. I never knew that he was suspecting that I had sex that friday that's why I gave him the excuse. He believes that a woman cannot just not want to have sex except she is getting it elsewhere.

I went to the police yesterday and told them to arrest me and take me to prison maybe I will find peace in prison. My life is turning upside down.  Am broke, broken and bettered. Now I know why his ex wife left him with two kids. He keeps telling me that she cheated on him with the twin sister's husband.

I don't have friends anymore because he has driven them away.

 Am confused and I don't know what to do. Please help me. I prefer to be beaten than go through this emotional torture. My heart is messed up. I cannot confide in my husband without him turning it the other way round. I have NEVER cheated and I don't feel like it. I just need you guys advice so that I will know my next direction.

Thank you. 

Advice keh?You dont need advice oh,you need running shoes!

You caught him smelling your underpants?OMG,i need panadol !