If you ask me,nah who i go ask.....?
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
DOUBLE DATING WAHALA
Good day stella please help me post this asap.I am dating two guys(though not my fault really cos of my last heartbreak).Met the first guy lets say February and after much persuasions i decided to give it a trial cos i had already given up on love,he showed me love and i must say i have tested him in so many ways and he passed.
Fast forward to march met another guy tho i have known him since childhood we got talking and one thing led to another and we started dating on phone.So i began to lose interest in my first guy giving him attitudes and at times not picking his calls for days,let me put it to you we have been having sex oo.
So one bad evening so to say i was with this my first guy and was chatting with my second guy(tot he had slept)he took the phone from me,read all the chats i mean even the nasty ones,we fought and he texted my second guy and even sent pictures we took together on bed to him.For like three days i couldnt call or send any message to my second guy cos i was scared,i eventually composed one lie and called him ,he just laughed on phone and said its no big deal.
My first guy asked me to promise him am not gonna go back to my second guy which i fakely did.I was using my second guy's picture as dp on bbm and my first guy would call again bur i would just give one excuse,so i made a promise am gonna stop all communications with him and he believed.So last week i came to my first guys place, went to the saloon when i came back my second guy was calling so my first guy picked the call told him never to call me again and was mad at me for fooling him,we got really mad at each other and he beat the hell ouuta me after which he begged and begged.
So three days after,(i have not been picking my first guys calls since that day he hit me o)so in the afternoon my guy just called my second guy and started telling him stuffs how am his babe, how i got pregnant for him and even aborted ,how i have been lying to him(my second guy)and even some things he couldnt tell me.My second guy said nothing just told me he still loved me bur i should try and be plain to him that its not a big deal,he kept on assuring me of his love for me and nothing had changed bout him since then.
Now my first guy is begging me to come back that hes sorry for everything and that he was jealous, sent his friends to me to beg,his sisters too and i am even fed up to the extent that i have changed my line.I have already told him am no longer interested that i want to be with my second guy.
Please BV's especially guys i want to know if this my second guy truly loves me or i should just zero my mind on the both of them.Thanks.....Cussing is allowed ooo.
you are double dating two men who know that you are double dating them and you are thinking of which one to leave or wondering if you should put your hope on both of them?The easy with which you narrated your chronicle makes me think this is not the first time you are double dating...
I dont know if the second guy really loves you or just rendering service till he gets to your cookie jar.aLL I CAN TELL YOU IS TO STOP DOUBLE DATING and face one of them.
It's well
ReplyDelete*******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
poster sorry ohh,u don't need wat u.
DeleteIf I'm to advice you as myself, leave both of them. But men are the most jealous in relationship, ladies can easily forgive their men if they cheat on them, but men hard forgives, they will surely use it against you one day.
Delete*Larry was here*
To start with, you sounded like you are still a teen which I believe you are so pls calm down,face your book and pass jamb so that you can get admitted into a higher institution. And if you are an adult, then you need stella's slap. Gerarahere mehn!
DeleteA guys knw u are cheating and still begging, there is fire on d mountain run run run.becos wat most men don't easily forgive is a cheating partner. I jst op u are not in for a big surprise. Make I ask u self? If na u, ask u calming take a cheating man dat has no remorse. Hmmmmm wat do I knw self
Delete@poster: you are a fool and a big one at that.
DeleteI pray you will loose that second one.
Keep thinking with your watery toto.
Jst date their fathers#ashawo 10kobo///emjay pandon me oooo
DeleteEm jay how are doing ?
DeleteI need you to help me look for
MAKE MAKES YOU FUCK ALOT OF WOMEN......
He comment is needed
..you see this trash wey you just write? Na wetin dem dey use kii person!
DeleteHow do u sleep at night Emjay?? The air in ur brain shld keep u up thruout the night, its amazing hw a 30yrs old plus (gwegs) is so shallow minded, ure even proud of it, hian.... To the xtent of displayn ur real name and face, I jst gotta haill thee.. Ure one of a stupid kind.
DeleteStupidity is written all over this post
DeleteI have just a question for you...how old are you? You sound like a teenager who believes she's in the greatest dilemma of her life by fucking 2 guys at the same time *smh*
DeleteFucking bullshit poster. Until u rcv Cmon sense from d two guys den u wil advice urself. A disgrace to womanhood. It's ppl lik u tht make men abuse our gorg ladies... yeye dey rotten...
DeleteFucking bullshit poster. Until u rcv Cmon sense from d two guys den u wil advice urself. A disgrace to womanhood. It's ppl lik u tht make men abuse our gorg ladies... yeye dey rotten...
DeleteAnno 15:55,30+? Na u born em jay,u re d oracle of stupidity here,u will only use ur hate to bring luck to her mumu,u called her stupid,foolish,gwes,air filled brain, beggy beggy,no body mind u,u called debtor yet nobody listen,u called her borrow borrow,etc still same,bvs are tired of ur hate, shifttttt,we were course mates @ uni bck then,i knw her,if u see dis babe one on one,i bet u won't dare look at her in the eye,move on already she nor send u 1kobo, Ignoramus elecai.
DeleteDisplay ur real name and face na anno15:55,weda nor be yansh opening dem gho take finish ur life,i had to check em jay's profile bcos of u,mehhh gurl is damn cute,u re glorifying her if u don't knw,30+ keh,u blind ni,btw she was given bedding today ohh,100% cotton for that matter ohhh,oya use ur head hit wall,ntorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
DeleteThis blog is fun sha. So you guys have not yet figured it out?
DeleteYou don't know it's Emjay that comes back to hate on herself just to garner support and popularity...
hmmmmm... woman wahala
ReplyDeleteLet me share ur space with u
DeletePoster,u don't nid advice
Poster, u'r such a child
DeleteLet me read
ReplyDeleteMy candid advice to you is to dump the two of them "amicably". Confess and apologise to them and then move on and change. In your next relationship; DO NOT CHEAT. Don't turn into a mumu, still be very careful and cautious because guys generally cannot be trusted, especially if they see you as a pushover. But at the same time, start conducting your relationships with honesty and fidelity. As far as those two you mentioned are concerned, you're playing a losing game. That your first guy is either keeping you sweet until he gets an opportunity to hit you where it really hurts. Or he's just too obsessed with you and that is never a good thing. Obsessed guys can kill for you, they can also kill you too. Heck, he's already turned violent towards you. Your second guy is definitely not in it for the right reasons. That guy is waiting to "hit it and run" or "hit it till he's tired, then run". With the way both your guys are behaving after finding out you're cheating on them, their demeanors are very suspicious. Run and change your ways while you still can........ Just Me
DeleteMy guy my guy my guy all over the place...
ReplyDeleteAbegiiiiiiiiiiii
Oma se oo help me ask da gala sharer
DeleteAs in eh , oh
DeleteAs in eh! I bet u she's no more than 23 years old. Coz na so so 23 yrs old people full this blog dey send yeye chronicles. Bia Stella I know the folder is empty but pls seive the stories u post for the sake of our IQs. So we don't all go dumb coz we're reading dumb stories abeg
DeleteReally annoying chronicle. Mschewwwwww
DeletePls what is d mail address for chronicles?
DeleteVery annoying. My guy, my guy. My first guy, my second guy. Mtschew. Make up your mind girl.
DeleteWon to sepe fun eleyi ni idle baba e. Poster you are a veeeery stupid girl. Continue wasting your life talking about guy guy guy. You had better go and look for work to do instead of sleeping with men up and down. Do you have parents? I am just vexed that a young girl can be so stupid!
DeleteYou don't need advice..shebi u know
ReplyDeleteYou ladies should try reading rather than having premarital sex.
ReplyDeleteWork and earn a living, build a life for you stop living for men.
poster is just a bitch. face ur studies and stop littering everywhere with my guy my guy. mscheew
DeletePlease let me perch here.
DeletePoster, a DOUBLE DATE is when two couples go out socially maybe to dinner, to the movies, beach, etc. Basically you and your partner with another couple go out on a DATE.
TWO TIMING (which is what you're looking for here) is when you're dating TWO people concurrently, i.e at the same time.
Thank you.
Advice: Its already messy. Leave them both. Would you stay with the guy who beats you or with the one who knows you were cheating on him?
Leave them both, take a break from dating. Read some books like Doppelganger up there suggested. And do not make the same mistakes again.
1 million likes, count your teeth with your tongue.
DeleteDopetaker, just shut up there. Shameless hypocrite.Follow my words, not my action.I wonder how u feel advising someone with all the piercings,noserings and lip rings all over your face.
DeleteWork hard,achieve ur goals if u av any.4get abt men 4 now,wen d right person cms u will know u won't need advice.��
DeleteChai! When there are so many problems in the world this one too is adding to the problems.My dear sister in the lord, see what u r doing to urself in d name of u were heartbroken n so? Na ur heart first break for this world? The both of them now knoe u r playing 007 on them, just get ready cos ur own dey wait u for front.And can we ladies stop this one thing led to another comment it's getting annoying jare.Abeg abeg abeg, sitdown and keep looking both of em will use u and become friends should we bet?
ReplyDeleteIf there is any of them that loves you,it is the first guy but right now,both of them are gona sleep with you and dump you like rag.foolish girl.
DeleteJust start afresh. It's already messy. Too many this one called the other one. Just stop. Pause. And start afresh. Mbok. It's too messy already. They both know u r dating the both of them so just run. Lol
ReplyDeletePoster,
ReplyDeleteHow can someone that has not married you do this to you...how dare him lay his hands on you for talking with another nigga...
He should pay your bride price let's know he now owns you..
My advise is for you to dump the guy...forget his pleas...
He is only coming back for revenge...
I like the fact that you are not putting all your eggs in one basket...
You are very funny
DeleteI can't stop laughing
.....I like the fact that you not putting ur eggs in one basket
Sis ehn, your advise for this blog na die. I like your sincerity though.
DeleteIdiot olofo ewu .see wetin u write na so ur life spoil reach???u no kuku dey man house i no surprise...gerarrahia n enter zoo wit ur coment...sad new boss
DeleteIdiot olofo ewu .see wetin u write na so ur life spoil reach???u no kuku dey man house i no surprise...gerarrahia n enter zoo wit ur coment...sad new boss
DeleteSdk she said she has started sex with d second guy.
ReplyDeleteBabe you are hot oh. Double dating and both guys know it and they r still with you?
Abeg who is your jazz man?
Na Don Jazzy do the jazz for her
DeleteAs in eh. They might be jobless sha. I have a way of classifying men. Alpha, beta, etc No alpha man will take that shit. Like non. I have dated two so I know. In fact if u r with an alpha man, u can't do shit with anybody. He alone occupies your being.
DeleteLol no jazz ooo her pussy dey sent like curry.lol
DeleteLol
DeleteAsin ehn. My exact thoughts.
DeleteHahahahahahahaha @ Scent like curry...
DeleteChick ooohhhhhh...
This poster no get work abeg. Better leave both of them and start afresh.
Silly geh.
You are dating two guys cuz it's nt ur fault??? Really??? So u know about heartbreak and you are asking who should u leave? Babe, please how old are you?
ReplyDeleteShe should be "23"
DeleteLol @Richbee 23 seems to be the "Sdk blog age" for toddlers right?
DeleteAs in eh... The reigning age of absolute stupidity.
DeleteMtchewwwww
Lmsao (laughing my strong ass out)
ReplyDeleteThat your second bf Na Casanova desperado.
Your first bf Na mumu, dummy and olodo
Advice? Keep playing ten ten with them
Advice........keep playing ten ten with your life
DeleteThat will be better
any guy who is okay with u having another guy besides him or better put, any guy who wants to go out with u even when he is aware u are with someone is not to be taken serious! its either he's ok with u as a side chick bcs he's ok with himself being a side guy or he just wants to hit and run... for the record, nobody likes to share! whichever person that says 'u can keep the 2 of us' is not real, he only wants to have a taste. my take though.
ReplyDeleteWhat should I send you
DeleteMONEY or KISS?
Your comment is bea
Lol
I like d 2nd guy's calmness..I bet he never fuck. Wait till he fucks u to his satisfaction n see his real side.
ReplyDeleteBoth would never trust u 100% pickbur life up n move on till u change to a reasonable person I'll meet a reasonable boo
ReplyDeleteMadam, both men must be very poor. Dats why you are making a fool of them.
ReplyDeleteNo successful man can waste his precious time with an Olosho. Even if you have a bomb Toto. There are thousands of other girls with better bomb Toto.
Those men are a disgrace to all men.
Apart from the razz innuendos, you hit the nail on the head.
DeleteBVMEMBER
MM, I love you for this reply!
DeleteLet her kep fooling herself thinking the second guy is in love.
My dear poster, he will use you like sponge, and dump you afterwards.
You think they are fools? I pity you gaaan.
Hehehehe.
Delete*Just whistling and passing by*
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More like those guys are jobless...no right thinking man will be begging after finding out you're double dating...wait till dey have money dts when u will know a man's true nature
DeleteMr money maker, ur words are too raw.....NA wa for u o
DeleteRhoRex
Exactly, I support you 100%. Those guys are broke ass niggas...Pls move on with your life and stop wasting it on mama thank you boys...when you meet the right guy you won't have any reason to cheat.
DeleteGbam!!!
DeleteMoney maker what happened to you today?
I didn't see your comment on the birthday post
Hahahahaha....
DeleteLol @ bomb Toto...
Delete@ poster weldone. .Ur tears is loading.....
Lol @ bomb Toto...
Delete@ poster weldone. .Ur tears is loading.....
Lol...toto sharing.Poster,stop fornicating!!!
DeleteAs in eh na really broke guys she dey with
DeleteAm with you here Stella. The way she was telling the story didn't exude someone in serious situation, so flippant with it. Probably that's what happened between u and the first guy. I don't know what to tell you honestly. You are the cause. And I hope they don't team up to deal with you. Get your acts together and be classy please
ReplyDeleteThis.poster sef! Na wah for una
ReplyDeleteNone of these men love you. I would've asked you to go back to the first guy, until i saw the beating ish... Walk away from them both! I'm very serious about this my advice lol
You don't know what other things they discussed about you behind your back and no one is gonna tell you. If you eventually leave this.guy for the second guy, your name will be sorry cos that one case go be worse.
Fpr example ; No respect for you again as a woman! He can't trust you ever again..meaning no true love! So better walk away from them both and find a new guy!
And this time please don't cheat/double date! Bye...
Not interested
ReplyDeleteMy advice to you bi**h u soon gonna die of std... muhf**ker u jux like my ex!!!! U all bitching about
ReplyDeleteThe 2nd guy is going to still punish u or deal with you for lying to him, u think guys love to share? if you were wise you would have sensed that ur 2nd guy behaviour is a bit abnormal. You are a JOKER, u better leave both of them and get a plain guy who doesn't know about your CHEATING ways and pls get a decent life, stop double dating, btw who keeps txt msgs and chats when u are double dating???? YOU CAN'T EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT! DON'T BE DECEIVED.
ReplyDeleteIts rare to come across a guy who knows his babe is cheating on him and not act up. There's something I can't place about the 2nd guy. He's unusually calm about your erring attitude. He's either bound by his supposedly true love for you or he's just playing along n waiting to treat your f-up. That said, stop cheating and you aren't even smart about your misdemeanors.
ReplyDeleteSee how I just wasted my precious time reading this childish story. Mtcheeew
ReplyDeleteThis chronicles is just sick. First and foremost,there is no excuse for double dating because you are toying with people's hearts and emotions and you have no right to do that.As to if to leave the second guy or not,I think you should let go of both of them. Reason being that this second guy could just be waiting for the right opportunity to give u a taste of your own medicine and for the first guy, he has hit you once and he can hit you again.
ReplyDeleteHe who has ears,let him hear
Confusion di gi nisi.
ReplyDeleteSo you "put it to us" that "you are having sex ooo"....i didnt get that part of the mail...mayb u meant d opposite
ReplyDeleteBut please grow up!!!
Its sooo childish d way u sound..my first guy, my second guy, my this, my that...claiming guys as lf dey are cones of icecream u can lick n forget about.
People's emotions are involved here!!
I blame the guys who enjoy being an option in people's lives...begging namsense.
U either get serious and be truthful to urself n the guys...or cut them loose for someone who will appreciate them.
Ndok!!
Childish chronicle.
ReplyDeleteOmor like dis ehn.... e bea 4 u to stay wif ur 1st guy cos d 2nd just want 2 get in between ur legs...
ReplyDeleteSent from my I phone 6
Why don't you hook up with another guy to make them 3? So we can give you a reasonable advice on tripple dating. Mtcheeeww
ReplyDeleteLong hiss..wasted my tym reading
ReplyDeleteAll I see in d first guy is genuine love but d second guy, hmmmmm! U'll regret it if u face him. Dude is totally fake. Be Der n let d second guy b deceiving u. U can see hw much love d first dude has for u Dat he is even ready to forgive u without u rendering any apologies yet u want an unrealistic guy. D choice is urs to make o. Girls b liking lies since existence
ReplyDeleteDon't think any would take you serious after leaving either of them.let them both be and start afresh.All the best
ReplyDeleteBoring chronicles of late, I miss chronicles like that of the lady that prays b4 sex.
ReplyDeleteYou are so childish from your mail and I must add stupid
ReplyDeleteStop daring the both of them and work on your self please.
Look at the kind of things you are spewing up and down. You are so jobless O must add and must be daring touts
I pity you. Those guys will eat you & none will end up with u. U really think guys are that foolish abi. Both of them will share the pussy & dump u when they're ready..just continue... Okporlor eye no be open eye.
ReplyDeleteReceive sense
ReplyDeleteThey are both going to mess your life up big time!
ReplyDeletethese men ehn , they know what they want.
Listen to me, that first guy is getting sex for free from you hence the begging(who wouldnt!?) and forming lovey lovey .
None of them will NEVER EVER have anything serious with you other than to satisfy their sexual urge.
Are you not too young for all dis double fuckery (lol i dey vex) ?LEAVE MEN ALONE, TIE YOUR LEGS AND FACE YOUR BOOK!!! HIV IS REAL!!!
Receive sense in jesus name...amen
ReplyDeleteOlosho......... HIV is real
ReplyDeletethelma enemuwe said....
ReplyDeleteIt's obvious uve rubbished ur image between both guys,salvage what little respect u have left and take a long walk.....av got a feeling ure gonna b dumped soonest by the second guy cos its so obvious he doesn't and will neva trust u cos ure full of lies and deceit... Of wat use z a rship witot trust?...
*faithful bv enemuwe thelma"
Help me tel ha oo..n d funny part is dt she'l b thinking shez a hot cake where as Dem just dey use her for her stupid kini..mtsew useless ladies every where spoiling d actual meaning of a true lady..msw
Deletethelma enemuwe said....
ReplyDeleteIt's obvious uve rubbished ur image between both guys,salvage what little respect u have left and take a long walk.....av got a feeling ure gonna b dumped soonest by the second guy cos its so obvious he doesn't and will neva trust u cos ure full of lies and deceit... Of wat use z a rship witot trust?...
*faithful bv enemuwe thelma"
Well, the thing is 1. Sex before marriage is a sin, stop it! 2. Double dating is morally wrong, dont do it again. 3. Test the 2nd guy the way you tested the first one, finish!
ReplyDeleteHow we go know the one wey better? You are in the position to know what is good for you madam
ReplyDeleteMy money maker has come back finally. Na wa for you ooo.
ReplyDeleteMadam Olosha, money maker don tell u finish
Poster,one question.
ReplyDeleteAre you 23?
Chronicles recently are just annoying.
#WhiteDiamondOut
I see why you call toto with easy cos you are female, tot you were a male.
ReplyDeleteSpontaneous thanks for the birthday wish, I responded this morning but I guess you didn't see it.
DeleteThat first guy that beat u is a no no for me. Then the second guy might still change his mind after everything. He might just be playing 'dummy' for now till he finds a real babe. My advise, leave both of them
ReplyDeletePls tell her. And poster, it's two-timing not double-dating.
DeleteGirl, I am very sure you are still an undergraduate from the way you write. don't carry boyfriend matter on your head like gala sellers or as if your existence depends on it. so, my dear face your studies, you have enough time to date later.
ReplyDeleteTu fia kua, negodu! u be typical olosho, all these young girls these days henn an wa ooo... keep fucking them you here, when the two guys chop you well well finish na that time your eye go clear...Am not sure both of them are serious with you. The second guys said it is normal no problem as long as him dey see osho free, the first guy am sure he is still intoxicated...with your punani by the wey him see another better girl wey e go marry your matter go be another Chronicles.
ReplyDeleteSmall children play
ReplyDeleteHonestly, u are not smart. The fact that they both know each is a red flag. What if they are planing for u. Rule #1 of double dating, they must never meet. Even if the second one is still claiming love how are u sure he trusts u and doesn't have an hidden agenda. My advice is just free them both. But the ball is in ur court love. Be wise
ReplyDeleteImagine! dating 2 guys at a time,I'm nt a saint but pls be careful with ur life and chose one or stop and start afresh abeg to avoid the story that touch! dating one person will help u learn things about the person in case if u need to change ur mind. double dating won't help at u!
ReplyDeleteMy dear to me u were so excited while typing ur chronicle, may be it's a game for you to play with ur future by dating to guys that kns you re double dating nd u really think even the second guy takes u seriously right? Pls have a rethink and settle for one before it's too late.
ReplyDeleteStella don't blame us women, na men cause dese things. In previous relationships,i was so faithful and honest, that even if another guy approaches me, I will immediately report to my bf. I was too faithful, neva imagined dating or sleeping with 2 guys, wondered how women did it.
ReplyDeleteMy dear after being constantly cheated on, and my last heartbreak which was so bad, my enemy almost committed suicide bcos we were engaged. After that my heart is now stone o. And iv sworn neva to put my hope in one guy.
I am also currently dating 2guys, luckily one doesn't live in d same state as me. When I go and visit him, I just tell the oda guy im tired of Abuja, I want to go to Lagos for a while to see my family, I cum to lagos and spend time with the other guy.
When either of them is messing up and acting up,i just concentrate on the other one. It doesn't even bother me. When one isn't giving me attention, I go to the other one. If one dumps me as men do, I have the other one to fall back on. Unfortunately none of them are talkn marriage yet, I just dey look them.
If I meet any other guy now that fits my standard and his ready to marry me by next yr. My dears im gone. Na whoever bring the ring first and can take care of me, I will go to. I just met a 3rd guy by the way, still talking and not met physically, but if he fits my criteria for marriage, im so goneThrough my dating yrs, all I do is cry over men that have cheated on me, dumped me without looking back. I'm sorry if I break anyone's heart, but my 1st priority is safeguarding my own heart.
Well said anonymous 15:27. You've learnt your lesson. Never put all your eggs in one basket until a serious guy comes your way and ties the knot. Ps: hope you're not spreading your legs to each man you date sha. Now that's another stupidity cuz if they're getting sex from you everytime, non wont commit to marriage. Date men but no sex. That way you're not emotionally involved, men will respect/value you more and you're guarding your heart. (Sex brings more bond and emotions because it shd be shared btwn a married man/woman. Wish I knew about this back in my dating years. I still thank God regardless)
DeleteThe second guy don't love u at all because nothing piss him off, do not break up with ur first guy he truly loves u.
ReplyDeleteit is obvious none of the 2 men love you, seeing as both of them know you are double dating and have been quiet about it. men are territorial by nature and its just a matter of time before both of them dump you!, love adiro na nke a.
ReplyDeleteIf you have a ditch in front of you, simply telling yourself that it does not exist will not stop a most inevitable fall. We need to empty our cups and get advice from a male. After all, "WHY DO MEN CHEAT" is a question for a man.
Women often complain about how men treat them (without respect, as objects, etc.). But women must remember that men are very visual creatures, and a woman’s body language usually dictates how a man will treat her..... http://www.martinschikespeaks.blogspot.com.ng/2015/10/to-attract-instead-of-dressing.html
Madame how old are you again? You sound so immature. Who starts giving a good guy attitude because she starts double dating? This your narrative got me confused with the 'so' everywhere. I don't even think you should be dating at all. Leave those two guys till you are more mature to handle double dating abeg or stick to one partner. HIV is real
ReplyDeleteMadame how old are you again? You sound so immature. Who starts giving a good guy attitude because she starts double dating? This your narrative got me confused with the 'so' everywhere. I don't even think you should be dating at all. Leave those two guys till you are more mature to handle double dating abeg or stick to one partner. HIV is real
ReplyDeleteIdiot
ReplyDeleteMind you they're both going to dump you
You don't allow the other party know the other,i pirry. You cos you got no guy yet
Yeye narrative..my first guy dis,my second guy dat...jobless guys..mshewww...no advice for you jare..lost interest in the second paragraph...
ReplyDeleteYou get mind oo, just leave both of them for now, the one who truly loves you will be persistent. But you sef no try at all, dating and gbenshing two guys at the same time? I wonder what the two of them are looking for since they knew it. Deal with it.
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ReplyDeleteposter you're very silly for coming here to waste our precious time spent on the blogosphere n our mb. rubbish. ure very stupid in fact. you think the second guy loves you? he's just assuring u n like the fool u are,ure there believing him. When he'll start dealing with you ehn...ure will see ween. I'm not a supporter of domestic violence o but some girls make me feel like giving their boyfriends cane to thrash nonsense out of their buttocks. ndito ino everywhere.
ReplyDeleteI guess you should be jobless or something similar bcos if you''re not,you won't have the strength to doule date.To date 1 alone na big wahala,left alone 2....babe calmdown
ReplyDeleteMy dear,i understand how u feel but left alone to me I advice u follow your heart and stop double dating....
ReplyDeleteMy dear,i understand how u feel but left alone to me I advice u follow your heart and stop double dating....
ReplyDeleteE be like say the second guy do pass the first one,but seriously how can be dating two guys without even hiding it,Nne how cheap are you?
ReplyDeleteFor your information u mean nothing to both of them,if u do they wont be sharing u like phone charger.
@money maker I swear I dnt get u, so a man can double date 4 gals and a gal can't double date unless the men are poor shey. Hahahahahha dat a big fat lie, hmmmmmm don't make me talk abeg
ReplyDeleteHot chic... my first guy!!! my second guy!!! you lost me... which one you dey knack?
ReplyDeleteMy 1st guy, My 2nd guy. I pity ur life.
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ReplyDeleteThe second guy is just bidding his time. To him she's not a serious gf. Just fuck and clean mouth type. The first guy is just stupid
DeleteBold girl! Babe, there's no way we'll know if the 2nd guy loves you o. It's obvious you think you love him more than the first guy as per all your shakara and unrivalled insult on him(the first guy).
ReplyDeleteBut one thing I'm very sure of is that no genuine guy will see it as no big deal that his love interest is two-timing and isn't even remorseful about it. It's messy
Soooo, nwa baby, the second guy will leave eventually and the first guy will still beat you... As it is now, you are 'boyfriendless'.
Next time you want to double/triple date, take lessons on how to be a player. What you are doing is really stressful sha.
Asewo olobo tankansul!!!!! Kip on rocky it's alright as e no be your fault so na my own....
ReplyDeleteI piry you akunakuna ...nyagurube.
Let me tell u,not of those two will take u serious,as they both know u are dating both of them,just leave both of them.
ReplyDeleteU think u are smart,u are foolish for not being careful enuf to let dem know. They will fool u at last.if u like choose one of dem,anyone uy choose will still make a fool of u,its better u leave both of dem. And be smart next time,I know men always break hearts,that's how they are wired,they are wired to be heartless,the good ones are so so few.
Hmmmm. Babe hmmmm.
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I av seen really really successful men I mean bachelors ooooooh not sugar daddy break each odas windscreen on the street bcoz of me, and yes I av a bomb toto.biko free the gal jooor. If na man wey get 3 galfrnds u all cal him a real nigga wiaras u cal the ladies dem oloshos. Thunder will fire and twist anybodys mouth and intestine who will say nonsense over my comment. Mtchheeeeeew play ur games honey but u gat to be smart bout it.#playsafe
ReplyDeleteIf it gets to a point where men embarrass themselves because of you, it simply means that you are very "unintelligent" whore
DeleteNa the men I pity. Plenty body counts,no wonder you dey treat different diseases for ya pussy everyday. If this is your method of attention seeking,then you are devaluing yourself.
DeleteSkipping this. When there is a sensible post will comment.
ReplyDeleteKai Money Maker hennn! The ease at which you mention the T hennn! lol
ReplyDeletePoster, honestly with the way you narrated your story, i just hope you ain't heading for another heart break. The two niggas are aware that you are dating them and you think they won't end up being friends after breaking your heart? The first guy is a no no cos he had no right to baptize you. Be careful with the second guy too, this one he's calm and saying no problem and all that. He may just be after getting enough of something before showing his true self. He may even have a main chick sef
You will be fooling yourself if you continue with any of them
ReplyDeleteAnd the 2nd guy is more dangerous
So my 1 kobo move on
All I see is my first guy and second guy....so madam u want us to help you choose abi....just negodu!
ReplyDeleteOma se oo help me ask da gala sharer....
ReplyDeleteChoi see as sumburi dey share her gala just like sovenaire!!!!
You are simply ''' A-aja /abashaaaaaaa...
ReplyDeleteFirst of all.....naaah, don't go down low..lol.
Well, firstly you need to ask yourself what you hope to achieve by keeping concurrent relationships when both parties are aware of their existence. In such cases, you expose yourself to becoming nothing else but a contrivance for sexual satisfaction and it becomes difficult for you to discern cos you might be emotionally attached to both of them.
I strongly feel that most likely, both relationships would head no where, so you can gradually pull out and start working on your self; empower your mind, re-orientate your beliefs and develop your morals. Prepare yourself for the future and when you are truly ready, you can give love a chance but with a renewed vision and perspective.
Be in a relationship for the right reasons and not to flow with d perceived societal tide or for gains other than love, trust, faithfulness and companionship.
All the best.
Li-yon Vls.
Li-yons I might have just fallen in love with u ...I have a strong crush on u ....ur posts r phenomenal
DeleteOmg that was a joke
DeleteWhat he said•
DeleteAwwwwwww....thnx for d joke Funke. lol
DeleteLi-yon Vls.
@The "Sin and dog of this blog" stop encouraging women to endure beatings in the name of being married. No man should beat a lady even in marriage.
ReplyDeleteHmn @poster u must be very stupid,are u in sane? Seems to me u r trying to justify the animalistic behaviour u r in to..may God deliver you n fyi..both guys wont take,u for real so beter take a walk n refresh ur whole system before starting over...please i beg of u
Delete@The "Sin and dog of this blog" stop encouraging women to endure beatings in the name of being married. No man should beat a lady even in marriage.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, the name "linda" means "snake" google it.
Hmmmm my dear, the second guy might break ur hrt real good Buh all the same, try to love with ur head not ur hrt... be careful sha
ReplyDeleteBut chai this your men are mumu o I can't see where intelligent and focused men would know they are sharing a lady with another man and would still stay.
ReplyDeleteAnyway dump both of them and start a fresh relationship because both will dump you at the end and na you go loose.
You no b miss world of don't think you are special, plenty dey outside
Quite empathize with you in your plight. What I would add here is for you young lady to "close your legs". I have counselled ladies over the years in the course of my work and I have come to discover that majority of the ladies that do not "move on" whenever a relationship does not work out are those who had given in to sexual pressures, committed abortions or gotten infections from their partners. They keep sulking even a decade after the break up whereas their male counterparts had moved on, married and had kids. This later scenario usually adds to the lady's predicament. On the other hand, those who "closed their legs" have more secure and trustworthy marriages apart from "moving on" faster. Also lady, spice your spiritual life with God's word. Learn to read your scriptures (New Testament -you can google it and read on your mobile phones or tablets) and find out what LOVE means.
ReplyDelete1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails. . .
As IT IS, YOU SEEM TO BE THE ONE "SEEKING YOUR OWN". THE FIRST MAN HAS ALSO DISHONORED YOU BY "BEATING YOU" BUT KNOW THAT YOU CHEAPENED YOURSELF TO INTERCOURSE BEFORE MARRIAGE TO WARRANT THAT.
Dis babe is preparing for future chronicle....hhhaaahhhaa laffing at u in swahili
ReplyDeleteALL I SEE IS A HOE WITH ONE HOLE COLLECTING TWO DICKS, PRETENDING TO LOVE ONE WHEREAS BOTH ARE WAITING TO BROWSE HER AND FLEE!
ReplyDeleteDump both of them and start afresh,they would both use and dump yyou.Btw stop sharing tohtoh it's not healthy
ReplyDeletePoster ur 2nd boo also has a boo. That is why the bobo is never pissed off when all dese ur ish happens. No man in his right senses wants to share his woman, I repeat NO MAN. Even if a guy is cheating on you, they are very selfish they still will neva condone their women cheating. They can be sleeping with 10women n still expect u to be faithful. I advice you to be very cautious with him, he knows what he's doing. After he sleeps with you seems like d type dat ull be using fone to chase. Then he will remind you how you are a cheat.
ReplyDeleteFirst guy seems to love you, even with ur shit. I don't understand that kind love sha. In all be cautious with both guys, and if none can satisfy you, free them both. If a man is satisfying you all round and is genuine for marriage, you wont even feel d need for back-up. A true guy sef wont agree to be smone back-up knowingly, not even codedly o.
Why are you like this?
ReplyDeleteYou cheated, you were caught and they forgave and you are not scared for your life?
Are you nuts?
You dey craze small small?
Nne, you get sugar for pussy? Cos that's what the both of them are after. Maybe your blowjob is over the hook, or you are so tight.
You do not have a boyfriend in either of them. Move on and find the next set of mumu to tie down with your pussy.
By the way..how do you people double date and get caught? I believe when you doubledate, it's because you have prepared to fight the odds no matter what and you are ready to hold it down.
I have dated two guys for almost two years now and I have never been caught. Infact they both want to marry me but i am not going to marry either of them. I would start dating "Intended DH" next year...
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Double dating is for the coldhearted; if you are not, stay out of it.
Don't blame me. I'm bipolar.
I think you already have the answers you seek.
ReplyDeleteMSCHEW! Which kain small pickin narrative be this kwa?
ReplyDeleteAnd those talking about no pre-marital sex, biko, who were the over 1000 people that commented in the anonymous 1&2 posts? go and siddon jo! Preach to men also, you hear? Abi did she fuck herself?
Babe biko face one local govt inugo
ReplyDeletePoster oya receive sense & chop e- slap mteeww see your mouth like my first guy my second guy rubbish, na so una dey use spread virus.
ReplyDeleteBabe how olD are u n wot do u do for a living? U just switching btw two guys lyk generator n phcn lyk u hav nothing else to do wt ur life..... Whew! Stella nwunye Korkus abeg share pop corn cos I lack words f ds poster a.k.a Keziah...
ReplyDeletemy dear i advice you to leave those two guys for now,for me i think that the second will definitely dump you when he is done .
ReplyDeletemy dear i advice you to leave those guys,please do not go back to the first guys because more beating is coming,secondly the second will dump you now or later.
ReplyDeleteI hardly comment, but I can boldly say dat u her very daft,u sound like a lowlife gal dat dnt have value 4 her body not her virtues,in ur mind now u are smart & hot cos u have 2 equal lowlifes drooling ova you, am sure u were raised in an inpoverished setting.cos no correct butter kid will act dis daft & digusting,sharing ur Congo aimlessly all in d name of not putting eggs in one basket. Disgracing womanhood haba , u had beta dump the both of them & start a new life.(and linda eze pls stay off comment sections coz ur ghetto ass neva has nutin postive 2 always render) typically example of an opportunitst with the lowest mentally u beta get yrself enrolled into (poise academy )@ ilupeju so u can be upgraded & stop all this ur razzmatazz .u can take a gal out of d ghetto but d ghetto can't be taken out of her gutter rat, okbye.
ReplyDeleteObviously d two mean are broke arses n have self esteem issues. O ga eme gi voom na anya. Dem go dump u lyk a pack of cards...
ReplyDeleteYou better leave this guys alone or they would set up and gangrape you someday. They both know you are dating them and you think any of them would still want you for keeps? They are just there while it last, honestly.
ReplyDeleteAm tired of this my first and second guy story.Did you just finish secondary school?**STARCHILD**
ReplyDeleteLeave d guys alone.dey ll nt b serious with u
ReplyDeleteOne word to describe you "TUAT"..... Ntcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew
ReplyDeleteAll I can say is both guys re jobless n broke, the first guy is even more jobless! And u are just a confused child! Go to school and read Ur books!
ReplyDeleteThe way some ladies sleep around tis days ehn, on top one pussy you allow different different dicks enter, TUFIA! little whore, sorry little girl go and get a 3rd and 4th guy and come back for advice.
ReplyDeleteYou're a ho! But who am I to judge you. Hahahaha
ReplyDeleteYou are a confused young girl who doesn't know what she wants in life and has misplaced priorities. A young girl who thinks that the bad road most young girl trail is ideal and ok. Mind the kind of friends you keep and know that the road you are walking down on will lead you to damnation and doom. Retrace your steps now and stop chasing shadows. Go after what matters in life and equip yourself.
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What a silly question. How should we if he truly loves you? Hiss
ReplyDeleteMaryjane u don bring ur gist come ds blog?
ReplyDeleteU no get shame oh.
Anon 19:17,Maryjane as in Emjay.
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Dear poster, u must really be feeling cute with urself....I laugh at u in spanish. Babe, u cant claim u're double dating cos someone broke ur heart, u are double dating cos u feel like it. Your first guy loved u buh u went ahead to start cheating on him. I dont support d beating buh u kinda deserved it. Btw, ur second guy has his own chic and he's using u to pass time. NO GUY can be dah calm after finding out he's a side guy. Berra stop deceiving urself, leave them both and face ur life.
ReplyDeleteArrant rubbish.
ReplyDeleteCHRISTIE.
You are two timing and you are happy? Guys can never be fooled. Be sure they are both doing what you are doing to them. They are only having fun and looking out for the right person to marry. Very soon you will be the one begging. Yemeni dey smell.
ReplyDeleteAll I see is a very Dangerous game! Quit now for your own good! *my two cents*
ReplyDeleteMy dear, u r stupid.....sharing ur Toto btw two guys who knows each other.... D first guy would have been perfect but he has laid his hand on u and d 2nd guy is just waiting for the perfect time to start his missionary work on u. Dump the two of them girl
ReplyDeleteAny woman i open my mouth and beg after seeing her cheated on me
ReplyDeletego suffer in my hand after marriage,only if she was the one that beg me
to forgive her past and sorry about her past then i will giving her a great love.
Sweetie, apparently your maturity level is spectacularly low. You got your heart broken and, in your mind, that gives you the right to further degrade your womanhood? Quite sad. It's like cutting off your nose to spite your face, whatever faux "power" you derive from doing double dutch with guys, it's like that euphoric feeling some people experience just before they die. That last surge of brain activity that gives false hope of recovery only for death to occur shortly.
ReplyDeleteI understand how exciting it must be for a broken hearted girl to suddenly discover that she has the "power" to wrap 2 guys around her little finger. Naturally, my love, it gives you the validation you crave to feel you are lovable after all so it's the loss of the "loser" who broke your heart. Why pine over 1 jerk when you can easily play around with two, no? As logical as it may sound, it's actually the opposite of commonsense and therein lies the problem. An emotionally wounded amateur playing the game yet to be bested by professional emotional pirates. Predictably, you're gonna get burnt big time.
I'm all for multiple dating provided there's full disclosure and the no sex rule applies. Most ladies who chant that ridiculously infamous line "two can play that game" are usually emotionally shattered and seek empowerment by cheating on the man who cheated on them. Deep down it doesn't fill the void caused by the pain of a broken heart, it only makes them cynical and bitter. The minute you allow a man's actions unleash the wild feline in you, you've further handed over to him more power. Not only did he break your heart, you've allowed him reduce your morals to that of a stray cat. Isn't that too much power to place in the hands of a man who never really thought you were worth his time?
My darling, keep "them legs" closed and allow yourself heal completely. If you can't be happy without a man in your life then, sadly, you're a prisoner of your mentality. Whether Boy "A" loves you or Boy "B" loves you more is hardly what you should be pondering over at the stage. Rather you should concentrate on working towards loving yourself more and protecting the dignity of your womanhood. You don't have a di*k, please quit acting like you have one.
#e-bearhugs.
Hmmmmmm.....babe keep on gbenshing around.HIV is real o. biko,d second guy no love u thats why he isn't bothered about your escapades but enjoys brushing your Congo at his free will.receive sense dear
ReplyDeleteBoth of them will never take you serious no matter wat.
ReplyDeleteHow old are you? you seem so immature.
ReplyDeleteThe second guy never loves you, just playing along.
Umu.aka. how old una dey sef. Pls remind me.
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