STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
CHEATING ON A LAZY HUSBAND...
CHEATING ON A LAZY HUSBAND...
Hello Stella
Hope this mail finds you hale and hearty.
I am going straight to the point. I have cheated on my husband with an
ex. Well technically is not really an ex. It is a guy who has always
been on my case since secondary school. I gave him a chance before but
dumped him after and then this summer I gave him another chance, he is
very sweet.
Now a woman in general cannot cheat without a reason that
Now a woman in general cannot cheat without a reason that
I am sure of, except she is a Nympho!!!!!
I cheated on my husband because he is very lazy, so lazy that it
is repulsive and has become a big turn off and a major killer in our
sex life. I have tried helping him by encouraging, pushing him,
looking for jobs on his behalf. It just won't do!!!! We have no
children yet.
On the other hand the guy I am cheating on my husband with is very
driven and this just turns me on.
I am in my middle 20's, work and take care of my needs but sometimes
it is really nice to have your husband also treating you!!!!
P.S: My husband is a very nice, caring and gentle man.
Please Stellastico what shall I do? Please do not hold on your advice.
Also lovely BVs, I really appreciate your input.
Stella , please I would like to remain anonymous.
Many thanks
Okay so you cheated on him and have your side of the story..what do you want us to do?to clap for you?
Are you having guilt pangs and need moral justification for your actions?
WOMAN TAME YOUR TOHTOH!
*Sorry for my outburst*..lol
Okay so you cheated on him and have your side of the story..what do you want us to do?to clap for you?
Are you having guilt pangs and need moral justification for your actions?
WOMAN TAME YOUR TOHTOH!
*Sorry for my outburst*..lol
Chronicles…and yet another one.
ReplyDeleteBetter go watch the movie *Temptation,confessions of a marriage counselor by Tyler Perry* it should teach you a lesson or two...
DeleteLmao @Woman tame your Tohtoh
DeleteLmao! @ tame your toto
DeleteWhat exactly should we advice you about? You would have sent in your chronicles before you cheated.
DeleteCheating is a no no. Its better you walk and have peace of mind to do whatever you want than this kind of life you have chosen.
DeleteHow will you correct your own daughters?
Dis one sef join be chronicle..ok oh
DeleteYou seem happy what you're doing *kontunut*
Delete9 days for he thief and one day for he owner.
Have you tried praying for your husband? The race is not to the swift oh!! Abi didn't you know he was lazy before you married him? You were carried away by his 'calmness' Abi? Mscheew!
For anyone who'd judge this woman, be careful. My father is a terribly lazy man. It's horrible. I wish a real man would take care of my mom. She has never know what it's like to be taken care of! Even now that I give her money, it's strange to her. She has this insecurity...she's so used to being the provider, she literally can't believe it when I give her money. I honestly wish a good man can love her and treat her right!
DeleteAs for you poster, middle 20s is damn to young to hang with a lazy man! It's depressing cos when kids start coming, it will be worse.
CHRONICLES OF BLOG VISITORS
ReplyDeleteBrb!
Enigmatic Aboki where re thou boo?
*******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
Emjay empty brain beggy beggy borrow borrow idle debtor .You can never make sensible comment in your pathetic life.
DeleteOh shut it already Anon..sending hate messages to Emjay is becoming very irritating and annoying....Get a grip huh
DeleteNne
See as my belle dey boil! I hate it when people insult other people in anonymous mood, if know you can chew more than you can handle pls insult with your blog id.
DeleteI trust Em Jay she no go answer.
Na wah ohhh!
DeleteU just forged lies,oya show us proof,or forever remain silent mofo.
Fix it Jesus
ReplyDeletePoster clap for yaself. What do you want us to do? To tell you it's ok because your husband is lazy? Didn't you know he was that way before you got married? It's NEVER ok to cheat on a spouse, if you're no longer satisfied with your marriage you should move on and not cause the man unnecessary hurt.
DeleteA typical Nigerian woman would lie, steal, snoop, tell her kids to lie, fight, insult people, bring other women down but whennn it comes to cheating, they become saints. As far as they're concerned, cheating is the worst sin. Nigerian ladies have become slaves to idea of marriage that no matter what happens, they stay put. Cheating isn't good but who says it's the worst thing! Who are you to judge? Most of the critics of this post will be female. Too bad
DeleteChronicles!
ReplyDeleteI really don't understand this SDK women o... Have u all forgotten the anonymous POST? What difference does it make?? There is a point all a woman wants is to get married... Along the line there comes a times she longs to be desired by another man. Its natural. Even if the husband has all the coins. I sometimes allow my wife to enjoy other men advances/gifts/Admiration towards her.. It makes a woman young and fresh. It's fun.. We talk and laugh abt it. She let herself go tru CS to give me 2boys. I let her breathe jor.. Na wetin sef? I am not a saint on my part.
DeleteI don't see anything wrong with what she did... Women shld understand better... The will not to cheat is not so strong for everyone. If u HV ever been within such corridor... I'd nod ur head and smile
DeleteYou are just lose.... ah!
ReplyDeleteMrs poster your hubby being lazy is not an excuse for cheating on him. If you like change ur way of life if u like continue. Got no time to type epistle. Choice is yours.
DeleteAya... E-Hugs... Na advice you want? Lol yhu don miss road.
ReplyDeleteYour husband is lazy
ReplyDeleteIs that enough reason for you to cheat?
May God have mercy on you
Why don't you just divorce him so you can cheat in peace?
ReplyDeleteI hate broke ass men. I'd rather drink garri alone.
You are a piece of shit!
ReplyDeleteWhy not pack your bag and leave rather than cheat.
Dirty woman and shame on you.
Now congratulations for cheating on your hubby.
ReplyDeleteWere you forced to marry him in the first place?
Was he working when you married him, and now he's no more working?
How hard working was he before you married?
Don't you see all this traces before you married him?
If you're not happy in a relationship, it's better you opt out.
*Larry was here*
Larry one million likes for this comment. Oya chop kiss. Madam I am in my mid twenties did your hubby just drop from the sky and you married him instantly? because I really do not know what has gotten over this generation.
DeleteLeave the mumu girl! Late they will come here insulting happy single girls who are trying so hard not to cheat on future life partner. Abeg shift!
DeleteHmmm
ReplyDeleteBeta u divorce ur husband, nd beside dat ur side dude is do stupid to be fucking sum ones wife knownly
DeleteDivorce your husband and marry the man you are cheating on him with...
ReplyDeleteWhat else do you want us to tell you????
What made you rush into marriage? And to think you are still in your mid 20s
DeleteWho no sabi how to marry fast but we all put somethings into consideration
1. Can this man take care of a family?
2. Check his income
I guess you dint put these things into consideration before you went ahead to marry him.
So what advice do you expect from us?
That you should leave your husband?
You better stop being a cheat before you birth a BASTARD child for him. Mtcheeeww
Abegiiii clean mouth as you don chop nice to hear a woman cheating for a change. Carry go
ReplyDeleteYou have expressed your freedom to give your pussy to who you deem fit
ReplyDeleteIt is ok
Your choice
Many women are like you
You are not alone.
Enjoy.
NB; I can lick pussy oh, as long as it does not smell. So we can hook up. Married toto sweet pass salvation.
Mmyflowws..... Lol... you are doomed oh.
DeletePoster you are still very young to be going through this...
ReplyDeleteSince you don't have a child yet,I will advise you to divorce you husband...
How long will you continue to endure this scam you called marriage?...
Some married women like me that cheat on our men do it for fun cos we are tired of fucking one dick...
Leave this marriage for good biko...
Forgive my curiosity, Linda, but doz ur husband read ds blog? Or anybody dat knws u or him?
DeleteHahahaha @cheat for fun. Enjoy jare
DeleteAre you really for real or is this just for fun?
DeleteQueen, how do I connect with you. I want to taste a married woman's punani.
Deletei hope you don't spend the money u collect after your cheating galore on him, else he wont move forward
ReplyDeletena u dey make d man unfortunate sef, madam change ur ways
kai, with this ur write-up sef u dey find style to justify this ur cheating thighy, biko fear God small naw
u no know say him lazy b4 u marry am? if u ain't interested in ur husband again, nne take a walk and stop disturbing us.. just have it at the back of your mind every action as it consequence.. #my2cent
How can a man be caring without money?
ReplyDeleteIf he's caring y are u cheating on him?
Didn't u see d signs of his lazy ass before u said I do?
Y are u complaining?
Y not move out and continue sleeping around legally?
What do u want we bv's to do with dis info?
How long is Ur side boo dick?
U forgot to tell us how good was d kpanshing.
NONSENSE AND INGREDIENTS CHRONICLE HISSSSSSSS
Lol @ your first line...Very apt!
DeleteWish u luck
ReplyDeleteWhat do you seek from us? You have cheated and you seem to have justification for your action.
ReplyDeleteHowever, remember there is a God up there who will judge you and your husband individually not because of what he did to you.
My sister the minus in your husband's life is making you see the plus in this your ex's life....
ReplyDeleteAll that glitters are not gold.
Stop cheating, and concentrate on your husband.
I believe in closing one door before opening another when it comes to relationship.
Thank you.
can you read your story again? maybe you will fine the answer. is better you take a gun and kill him than cheat on him, wish you well in ur game.
ReplyDeleteIssokay stop cheating on him, if you are not satisfied get out
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Hi Stella,
ReplyDeleteI'm sharing this because of yesterday's chronicles of BV. It may be long, but worth the read.
I dated my ex for about a year. At first, he was nice and all. Barely 3 months into the relationship, he started comparing me to his ex. He once mentioned that he showed my picture to his grandmother and she said I was ugly.
He began to tell me how to dress, the hairstyles to make, how my nails and make up should be. I tried doing all he requested because he had a way of linking it to submission. I remember a time he didn't speak to me for 2 weeks because I made a different hairstyle from what he wanted me to make! In all of this, he never gave me money. He would finish spending his salary before the month ends and borrow the little one I got as a house officer.
At some point he started saying I was fat (I've never weighed more than 57kg in my life). I wanted to please him so I hit the gym and started losing weight. I became skinny and looked ill that all my boss once asked if I had a terrible illness. In all of this, he wasn't satisfied.
He would show me pictures of ladies on his phone and tell me how they take him to see a movie, cook and clean for him etc . He would put up pictures of ladies in crop tops and bum shorts as his BBM dp. I was hurt but didn't have the nerve to leave as he mentioned that no man would want to marry a lady like me. I had lost all my self esteem. I was afraid of remaining single for the rest of my life.
One day I prayed to God to help me get out of that bondage of a relationship and I summoned up the courage to tell him that I didn't like the way I was being treated and he can fo ahead and date one of those girls he compared me to. That was it! The relationship ended.
I cried all the time. I felt my life was over. I even went back to beg him but he arrogantly told me he was done.
Barely a month after the break up, 3 guys started asking me out. I couldn't believe it was the same me 'no one would ever want to marry.' From nowhere, my ex started asking that we reconcile. I refused. He mentioned that whoever I was dating must be tasteless and that he'll 'wash plates at my wedding if I marry someone better than him'.
Fast forward to some years later, I got married to the most amazing man I've ever met-far better than him character wise, in looks and materially. He even wanted me to add a bit of weight.
Meanwhile when my ex heard I was engaged and about to get married, he kept asking me for the profile of my husband and even an invitation to the wedding. I decided to save him from embarrassment from my siblings and friends cos they insisted he was going to 'wash plates' if he attends. The ex he compared me to is also married. I let him remain on my BBM contact where I tormented him with dps and pms till I recently blocked him.
If I didn't open up to my parents, siblings and friends, I wouldn't have been able to leave him. I remember my dad said men like that suffer from inferiority complex and want to do the same to their prey.
I thank God, my family and friends for giving me the courage to move on.
Awww... Thank God for u dear
DeleteWow. I feel like hugging u. Damn! and I thought ve seen something. Thank God for you hun.
DeleteGood your left the low life .
DeleteThank you fr ds anon....der wld always be sm1 out dere who wuld love you for who you are and al dat u stand for.
DeleteI'm so happy for u
Delete@ anon dats a nice one,,...He doesn't deserve u...
Delete@ poster na wah ooooo...Cheating ur hubby is not the best option...
@ anon dats a nice one,,...He doesn't deserve u...
DeleteI thank God for you
DeleteThank you sister, I am happy about this. I was shocked at the number of women telling her to be greatful yesterday, it seems we have a poor understanding of what abuse is.
DeleteMy own ex was like that, he would cheat on me then call me fat and old, I was a year younger than him oh. I had zero self esteem dated him for 8 years. By the time I gathered courage to leave I was at the lowest of the low. Anyway I dated some idiots along the way but after enduring 8 years of trash I knew never to tolerate any sign of abuse. My ex got married and he flaunted the fact that she was younger amd prettier than me to my face, he will beg me to add him on BBm then start flaunting his perfect family to my face. I would always congratulate him genuinely when he had something positive happen. Anyway when he started getting on my case to sleep with him I deleted him. One day out of the blues he calls and begs me to add him. Apologised for his earlier behaviour I added him, he now started toastinge again I told him I had married he was shocked, sent him court wedding pictures this was someone who swore never to do court wedding and he hasn't with his wife. My husband was younger and hotter than him and far far richer too. Na so he just delete me from BBM oh. Hehehehehe when my wedding came he almost died as he could never have even dreamt of having half of the classy society wedding I had hehehehehe. Abeg women Learn to love yourself God will shame bad people on ya behalf
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DeleteThank God for u dear
DeleteYou should have send this to Stella for chronicles. Anyway back to the ASHAWO that send in this chronicle. You're cheating on ur husband because he's poor. God will never forgive u. I wish i could tell God never to give u a baby coz u don't deserve one. Tufiakwa GI. I spit on u. Ekwensu
DeletethankGod you got your senses back and left him
DeleteOhhhh!!! Praise God for your sake serves him right faggot oshi, my dear!! God of singles located u and u married the best.I tap from your blessed testimony. Useless men be acting like MM *hehehe
DeleteWell done darling, you got rid of that bloody scumbag, good for you, I really admire your courage
DeleteWow, thank God you were able to break free, been in your shoes though not as bad and since then I've become my own woman, my husband even loves me more for it!
DeleteMadam cheating on my hubby, pls leave your hubby or stop cheating, we won't encourage your cheating memes, all in the story of the guy being lazy
DeleteI'm happy you are better off now.
DeleteThank God for u. Ur Ex is wicked and heartless
DeleteNne from ue gist he's a doctor abi?y does ds sound like dr bi....,anyways I'm glad u walked away from dt damaged guy,ud hv had a miserable marriage
DeletePoster I don't knw what you want us to tell u, if u shud continue sleeping with ur ex or just divorce ur husband cos he's lazy, dats your bizness since cheating is sweet to u anyway Stella today's chronicle is empty.
DeletePowerful Story. Thank God for the ability to leave the idiot.
DeleteLadies read and learn O!
Thank God you worked on your esteem and gave yourself brain sharply. Enjoy your home and do not allow anyone dictate to you how to live life!
DeleteThank God for u o
DeleteMy dear! Am happy for u. Though I still don't understand why some women allow this negative habits from men. We are @fault here. If we do not tolerate this crap from them, they will behave. Ur one of the few ones. Just like that girl yesterday that's saying her fiance wants her to look like khloe kardashian. How will u see this and still walk into the relationship. If u are not an everyday make up kinda person, u will never meet up. If u wake up everyday a shadow of who u used to be and u aren't happy with it, please walk! Don't come here and tell stories that touch. How can we let guys treat us this way!!! It's not being submissive! It's having no self love and throwing urself @the feet of a man to use u as a rag! I just can't continue. Am too mad to think straight.
DeleteGbam u said it all,n a guy who complains all d time,has inferiority complex. Am hapi for u.
DeleteTo d poster: I really dnt undastand d kind of advise u want, ur husband is nice, so Wats ur point, accepted he is lazy, wat do u want to do abt ur lyf, stay or leave.if u can ans dat, then u av d solution.
@ Poster, inukwa akuko, jst negodu ur life!! Ur a whore Nne, ur jst looking for people 2help validate u. I always say it, nobody can turn u 2 what u are not. Not evn a cheating, lazy or randy husband.. so Babes, jst gerrarahia! Mtchewwwwww...
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E be like u be aje butter. Kpako like me can not cry because of a man.
DeleteHmm
DeleteHmmmmm,ladies should learn to leave relationship they don't achieve anythng from before deciding to marry such a person. Poster it's better you leave him instead of cheating on him
DeleteHmmm.... Na wa ooo.... Some guys sha...
DeleteThank God you regained your self esteem...
So happy for you hun...
I just dey shake my head at the number of pple that were telling her to praise God for a Man that didnt fancy her the way she was. Saying any1 telling her to leave was jealous. It is indeed very sad.
DeleteControl freaks have serious complex issues n wil always bring u down. U can ever fufil their fantasy no matter how hard you try.
Stella plss make a post on abroad husband...
DeleteAwww,I'm so happy u had the courage to move on,Weldone girl.
DeleteAshiri banko.... u didnt know he was lazy before marrying him, now u using it as a reason to cheat.
ReplyDeleteWhich advise u dey find??? Oya go & tell ur husband so it will motivate him to work.
Ashawo kobo kobo.
Married woman ko, married woman ni.
Welcome to this rugged generation, where women cheat & don't feel remorseful. No pastor/priest shld use that line "For better For worse".... That line is an old adage.
ReplyDeleteYou want advice from us yet no remorse, biko next ....
ReplyDeleteCongrats woman for cheating on your husband. Keep justifying your actions. By the time he finds out and throws you out of the house, you will come here with another chronicle of an abused woman.
ReplyDeleteP.S: My husband is a very nice, caring and gentle man.
ReplyDeleteI COPIED THE ABOVE FROM YOUR POST. And what are you?
1. Adulteress,
2. Impatient
3. Proud
4. inconsiderate
5. Ashawo (because you are benefiting from your so called ex)
Ladies AND GENTS, there is no reason to "cheat". I forgot to add;
6. cheater
IF YOU DO NOT LIKE A MAN OR WOMAN OR THE MARRIAGE ARRANGEMENTS; QUIT! Woman, I have one word for you; Repent or else you bring curses on yourself!
Now a woman in general cannot cheat without a reason that
ReplyDeleteI am sure of, except she is a Nympho!!!!!
This statement of yours,is absolute balderdash.
You don't have a reason for cheating.
Cheating is cheating,is cheating.
You did it because you wanted to, and you saw someone to do it with.
Even if he wasn't lazy,as you claim, I'm sure you still would have done it.
Kontinu!
#WhiteDiamondOut
Sometimes wrong marriages tend to make one justify evil.....but instead of been with Him and cheat why not divorce and be free of guilt?
ReplyDeleteGodwin
ReplyDeleteHow long has d marriage been sef??
ReplyDeleteWhy don't you just divorce him or since you want to remain MRS to him just continue cheating now
ReplyDeleteNgwa madam cheater clap for yourself ,we are all clapping for you ,so what is your chronicles about again .Broke ass men ntor ,even if he wasnt broke ass what made you think you wont cheat abeg comot for road
ReplyDeleteMadam u don't seem to be remorseful...
ReplyDeleteU want to validate ur sexcapades...
I won't judge u....
U will know the difference between aluminium and iron when u r caught. votre mari et vous sont des oiseaux de même plume.
Madam 'dumper' you sound unrepentant and very arrogant,
ReplyDeleteCan see you don't see anything wrong in what you are doing...smh!
Repent before you regret your actions.
Woman clap for your self nah..
ReplyDeleteClap one!,two!!
When you were about to marry your husband,didn't you know he was lazy?
Also did you marry your husband out of love or to bare the title mrs? Cos it seems u just like your husband caring,gentle man way.
You didn't give us enough detail to be able to picture your type of husband..
Did he just wake up one morning and become lazy,what are the obvious this he does that you call lazy, how old is your marriage,is your cheating partner married..
Finally do you want use to tell u to leave your husband..
Good afternoon,it is the Governor's lastborn.
#takes a bow.
Wow, this is great, congrats poster, may your EX continue to wash plates in wedding, nonsense boy wey dey kill people self esteem
ReplyDeleteFOR MORE THAN 4 YEARS, MY HUSBAND HAS NOT WORKED. NOT BECAUSE HE CAN'T, WE ARRANGED IT THAT WAY AND CIRCUMSTANTIALLY, IT FITS. HE BABY SITS FOR MY KIDS WHILE I WORK AND PAY THE BILLS. I RESPECT THE FOOTPRINTS OF THIS MAN BECAUSE HE IS A NICE LOVER AND LOVES GOD. I CAN'T EVEN CONTEMPLATE OF ANOTHER MAN KISSING ME LET ALONG "CHEATING"; OPENING ONE'S VAGINA FOR ANOTHER STRANGE PENIS? ABOMINATION!
ReplyDeleteWOMAN; YOU GAT NOT SHAME? SO YOU ONLY LOVE THIS MAN IF HE HAS MONEY? WELL THAT'S NOT LOVE. LET US DEFINE LOVE:
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
woman, read the scriptures and learn about this life and the one to come. Repent and love you husband and close your legs!
Waoh, all shades of women. The adulteress with a reason, the boss wife with a house husband? I bless una hussle o.
DeleteHmmm in Nigeria
DeleteNa I doubt she is in Nigerian. The man's friends and family would have ended that one kembe.
DeleteAsides from your husband being lazy like you said, you also extolled his good qualities.
ReplyDeleteWhy don't you weigh to see if his good qualities outweighs the bad(laziness) then you can come to a conclusion.
This doesn't call for any kinda advice really.you cheated and there is no excuse for that.
What you did was chop and clean mouth.let it pass and try to build your home.except you are tired of living with the lazy man,you say so and let him move on.
All that glitters aint gold you know?
Thanks a lot for your advice. I know what I've done is dead wrong. It was all done in the heat of the moment but I know this is still not an excuse.
DeleteThank God for life
ReplyDeleteOya Stella release other comment we don read this one
Aunty Stella has said it all. You're just looking for justification coz you're feeling guilty.
ReplyDeletePoster it had been said many atimes here!cheating doesn't solve problems. If are tired of him like u said he is lazy bla bla bla, leave him, divorce him n stop making flimsy excuses for cheating on ur hubby. I don't like insulting ppl but u really need a re winding slap. Stella pls give her one.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand the meaning of this chronicle. Did u cone for confession or confirmation?
ReplyDeleteU cheated on your husband and? U need award or something?
U don't have a child yet, u have a job and u are in your mid twenties, I presume ur marriage is young, and u are already cheating? By the time u start have kids or u lose your job, you'd probably stay in a brothel. Mtchwwww
Woman let's sing;
ReplyDeleteHe is lazy, I am a cheat
I am a hoe
I am a cutlass
I am a wore
I am a whore
I am a harlot
I am a hoe
I am a digger
I am a hoe
I am a beach
I am a hoe, hoe, hoe
So who is better and who's bitter?
What an interesting poem.
DeleteI'm happy 4 u
ReplyDeleteThank God for u @Anon. Stupid men everywhere
ReplyDeleteI dont get.
ReplyDeleteYour husband is nice and caring, you love him, you are repulsed by his lazy attitude...and decided to cheat??
you just degraded urself c'mon!!
I was expecting to see "I hid some money n bought a land for myself"...n all I get is u cheated with an ex...really??? c'mon!!!! In Lucious Lyon's voice!!
You have asked questions I cant answer...but here's one...did the cheating help???
There is no good excuse or reason to cheat.
ReplyDeleteIt's a sin dear.
If he bores, irritates and repulse u. Then leave him
Thanks God for your life. Men like that are always hard to please
ReplyDeleteMadam clap for ya selv
ReplyDeletePoster 1... I wonder why women always give reason to commit adultery including men too. Sorry for you all. Hell fire is real for una oooo.
ReplyDeleteContinue enjoying your ex you expect me to say stop na lie you lie.
Anon 15:09.. thank God for speaking out and your family helping you out. you would have allowed your ex to wash plates for your wedding. you fall hand too much
Wow!
ReplyDeleteNegodu d fool said he will wash plates,u for allow am joor.
So you want us to applaud you and encourage you to continue......*Madam fear God
ReplyDeleteWao poster thanks for this.just gave me d courage to do what I have been dreading to do.
ReplyDeleteLet me not glorify you by calling you "a hoe" because you cannot even be used to farm. I will not call you a prostitute because prostitutes sleep with some men even when they don't have money. I won't even call you an adulteress because adulteresses do not curse their husbands. lET ME NOT CALL YOU A VAGINA BECAUSE VAGINAS ARE SANE ENOUGH TO BE CLOSED EXCEPT THE LEGS OPEN THEM. What of pussy; NAY . . . PUSSIES SAY MEOOOH AND YOU CAN'T EVEN SAY THAT. So what do I call you . . . . . mhhhhhhmhhhhh Just "a HOLE"; yes, a big "HOLE"; fit only for a rod or screw!.
ReplyDeleteJeez! You r mean o, lmao
DeletePoster you have no reason to cheat on ur hubby whether he is lazy or not. Please stop it now
This your analysis carry power.... Lol
DeleteI tank Good for u too @ anon chronicles, @ poster so u husband is loving and caring bla bla bla bla yet u still fuck someone abi? May Amadioha blast ur mouth and intestine. So u tink we the BV are stupid abi? OR we dnt av anytin to do dan to give stupid bitches advice wey dem no go hear shey. Well for ur info we are here to give honest advice to ppl who truely need it and not some shamless wife who is on a sex crusade. Mtcheeeew stella mind ursef ooh and stop posting rubbish biko
ReplyDeleteLet me not glorify you by calling you "a hoe" because you cannot even be used to farm. I will not call you a prostitute because prostitutes sleep with some men even when they don't have money. I won't even call you an adulteress because adulteresses do not curse their husbands. lET ME NOT CALL YOU A VAGINA BECAUSE VAGINAS ARE SANE ENOUGH TO BE CLOSED EXCEPT THE LEGS OPEN THEM. What of pussy; NAY . . . PUSSIES SAY MEOOOH AND YOU CAN'T EVEN SAY THAT. So what do I call you . . . . . mhhhhhhmhhhhh Just "a HOLE"; yes, a big "HOLE"; fit only for a rod or screw!.
ReplyDeleteCheated cos he's lazy, Nne that's not an excuse. U just wanted another dick. Give us a break.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 15:09, are we talking about the same person... only difference is you met me slim and forcing me to add weight.. that other girls want him. I know he likes them fleshy... how I wan do. He started comparing... omo I gave myself brain after my friend told me he complained to her that he is just managing me and he will leave when he can't take it again. Somebody that wear just jersey and one jeans and two slippers. Be changing dp and be saying his ex babes want him back.. thank God it was just a year plus relationship but mehn.. guys are mad. Before he ruins my self esteem I packed my things. Ko worth e rara. Sorry for the epistle.
ReplyDelete@ Poster1, you better tame your ******* as Stella advice. What is wrong with this generation for heavens sake, coming to the social media and telling us how you cheat on your hubby and expect us to clap for you!! I guess you need deliverance and confession. Is marriage not suppose to be for better for worse? was your husband jobless when you married him? oh, because there is no Job now you are now spreading your Vjay for another man. Tell me, what is the other man giving you than money for you to stoop so low, are you sure you are working and taking care of yourself, yet you say your hubby is caring, shame on you. What happens tomorrow when he gets a good Job with fat salary? I guess you are the Nympho...Shikena!
ReplyDeleteStella I understand her, Men of this generation ain't loyal but my dear cheating is not the best option, be warned n be wise like a serpent *Amoutofhere
ReplyDeleteWhat made you rush into marriage? And to think you are still in your mid 20s
DeleteWho no sabi how to marry fast but we all put somethings into consideration
1. Can this man take care of a family?
2. Check his income
I guess you dint put these things into consideration before you went ahead to marry him.
So what advice do you expect from us?
That you should leave your husband?
You better stop being a cheat before you birth a BASTARD child for him. Mtcheeeww
Correct babe, chop knuckle.
ReplyDeleteHere is caring, he is nice and a gentleman, yet u proudly cheated on him. Please stop cheating on ur husband...
ReplyDeleteIf you are not comfortable with him is better you divorce him since there is no child yet. Cheating at this early stage is a no no for me.
ReplyDeleteGirl! I am glad your story ended well!!!
ReplyDeleteP.S. Your dad is right!
Babe don't justify your reason to cheat on your husband. You said he's lazy and doesn't take care of your needs and on the other hand, he's caring. How na?
ReplyDeleteYou said your side boo is not your ex. How? If he's that good, why didn't you marry him? You are married, quit cheating on your husband before God go vex for you.
Madam, wat do u want us to say? Hian!!!
ReplyDeleteOnce u are married there is no excuse to be a cheat. I am sure u can remember those vows u made...........when u get tired of a situation that would never change u get out of it,not sit there giving me shitty reasons to be adulterous shameless and sinful.
DeleteThat is why I don't read chronicles so many annoying stories .if u are not ready to suffer and and face all these challanges better stay single and enjoy your life not to jump into marriage and come here and start telling us the other side of the story from Adele boyfriend.
U looking for a moral justification fr ur actions bah?y get married in d first instance? Cos I don't dig ur story @ all. Can't judge Nvr will but wat is bad is bad u re n were suppose to be ur husband helpmate not condemning him
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm.clap for urself.na u get sense pass.better divorce your husband
ReplyDeleteMadam, na wa 4u, u cheated what do you want us to do???u should av left instead of adding more to ur poor husband problem. Like u forgot dis is Africa, like it's a curse abi...smh unless he did not pay ur bride price. Dis was how a frind was doing same to her husband, and she and d husband started loosing kids...till it it was found out dat the wife was sleeping out and bringing d money home. Plz woman marriage is not a MUST, or a do or die Affair, if e tire u leave. Woman I pity. Ur poor husband.
ReplyDeletePoster one
ReplyDeleteChronicle of a fornicator an ingrate, unsatisfied and heartless somebody.
Poster two
Chronicle of a judicious and focused somebody.
No#advice# today#may#be#tomorrow.
Didn't you know he is lazy before you got married to him?Abeg if you are tired of him,file for a divorce and stop giving lame excuses.Married women stop cheating on your husband.gbam
ReplyDeleteWhat made you rush into marriage? And to think you are still in your mid 20s
DeleteWho no sabi how to marry fast but we all put somethings into consideration
1. Can this man take care of a family?
2. Check his income
I guess you dint put these things into consideration before you went ahead to marry him.
So what advice do you expect from us?
That you should leave your husband?
You better stop being a cheat before you birth a BASTARD child for him. Mtcheeeww
Another silly chapter from Stella's book of Chronicles!
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahhaahaha
DeleteHahhhaaaaaaa!! Well said! Madam pls continue. It is well with u
DeleteU cheated so what???na today?
ReplyDeleteWell...all these ladies..like u don't know he was lazy before acepting to date..court and marry him?.why complain..pls ladies..take time before you make the final decision about who to settle down with
ReplyDeleteMy dear! Am happy for u. Though I still don't understand why some women allow this negative habits from men. We are @fault here. If we do not tolerate this crap from them, they will behave. Ur one of the few ones. Just like that girl yesterday that's saying her fiance wants her to look like khloe kardashian. How will u see this and still walk into the relationship. If u are not an everyday make up kinda person, u will never meet up. If u wake up everyday a shadow of who u used to be and u aren't happy with it, please walk! Don't come here and tell stories that touch. How can we let guys treat us this way!!! It's not being submissive! It's having no self love and throwing urself @the feet of a man to use u as a rag! I just can't continue. Am too mad to think straight.
ReplyDeleteWow @ anonymous. That is deep.
ReplyDeletePoster...stop cheating on your husband, you have no excuse.
On a side note...Eesah was here, i cannot sing. The funny part is that i have the most beautiful voice ever but i cant carry a tune. I cant sing to save Biafra.
If you listen to my voice when i speak, you will "cum" countless times yet i cant sing with the same voice.
I sing in my shower though.
I sing to my Lord Jesus. That is enough. Then again i know good singers and have no tolerance for people whose mission in life is to spoil my eardrums with their croaked voice.
You have to do your duet on your own. However, if you ever need a gorgeous queen to feature in your video, i might consider out of my large heart but you have to make sure the song is bomb.
I want D'jia and Niyola to sing that "Hello" song
XoxonotMystery, stop trolling.
XOXO MYSTERY
U think we are so dumb?be fooling your self u are also xoxo not mystery.
DeleteAnnoy with d gist. HMMMMMM. Pple go thru a lot oh. I'm glad u dumped him in gud time.
ReplyDeletePoster. U no get problem, jst pretend it never happened.
Poster,the truth is that you CHEATED on your husband and it is wrong.
ReplyDeleteTrying to justify your actions won't eliminate the fact that you cheated.
One thing is sure in a relationship, you are either in or out. Let him go instead of cheating on him.
Poster 1 u are a nymphomaniac. You need a nymphomic help!! U got married for all the wrong reasons nd u are proud of yourself.... *yimu*
ReplyDeleteWow! You are so brave to av taken a bold step
ReplyDeleteHey poster, you know see am before you marry am???? You are only trying to justify that you are a cheat, and it is unjustifiable. You are just an ASHAWO TEN KOBO.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm dat is bad
ReplyDeleteHmmm.
ReplyDeleteThank God for your life. May God continually deliver us from the wrong men.
Pls bvs,I and my boyfriend have decided to tk it to d next level wen we discover he is OSU(outcast in igboland)my life revolves around him,my family don't marry OSU,he is all I want in a man,I love him so much and he is a practicing christian,wat do I do? What if I decide to leave tradition and do wat makes me happy for life.....trying so hard to forget him,but d more I try is the more I love him..,pls evrybdy help me out and does with experience say smtin pls
ReplyDeleteOsu still dey reign???
DeleteOsu is a strong thing in Igboland.
DeleteEjekwala!
Don't go!
I'm really not into all this traditional stuff but I dread Osu alot.
Let him go.
Don't know Much about this osu thing... e- hugs dear
DeleteDon't know Much about this osu thing... e- hugs dear
DeleteMost Osu people are succesful...
DeleteMarry him jare if he is rich afterall you are not going to live in the village...
You cheated on your husband because he is lazy, even repulsive.
ReplyDeleteAnd yet again you are telling us that he is nice and caring.
*rollingmyeyes
What made you rush into marriage? And to think you are still in your mid 20s
DeleteWho no sabi how to marry fast but we all put somethings into consideration
1. Can this man take care of a family?
2. Check his income
I guess you dint put these things into consideration before you went ahead to marry him.
So what advice do you expect from us?
That you should leave your husband?
You better stop being a cheat before you birth a BASTARD child for him. Mtcheeeww
abeg, take several seats at the uncommon stadium in uyo jare, just say you want to hype yourself that is the reason for your tasteless chronicles or was he not lazy before you married him? all this by fire by force marriages, see where it leads to
ReplyDeleteMay God bless u 4 dis.ladies shud learn 4rm dis.Men like dis r like d other chronicler's huby dt watch porn & was carrying out d experiment on d wife.So insatiable.
ReplyDeleteMay God bless u 4 dis.ladies shud learn 4rm dis.Men like dis r like d other chronicler's huby dt watch porn & was carrying out d experiment on d wife.So insatiable.
ReplyDeleteWhat made you rush into marriage? And to think you are still in your mid 20s
ReplyDeleteWho no sabi how to marry fast but we all put somethings into consideration
1. Can this man take care of a family?
2. Check his income
I guess you dint put these things into consideration before you went ahead to marry him.
So what advice do you expect from us?
That you should leave your husband?
You better stop being a cheat before you birth a BASTARD child for him. Mtcheeeww
Esther Ade its ok na,haba
DeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThis Chronicles is not complete Na, madam Na wetin you say make we advice you?
ReplyDeleteExactly the question....
DeleteShame on you poster. He is caring yet you cheated on him not once or twice. Mtchewwwww
ReplyDelete@Anonymous 16:28: HE IS "OSU" HE IS A "PRACTICING CHRISTIAN".
ReplyDeleteWHAT ARE YOU? If you are a Christian too; then do what your "heavenly family" do; forget tradition and Marry the Man that you love who belongs to Christ!
Galatians 3:28 There is neither Jew nor Gentile, NEITHER SLAVE NOR FREE, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
IF YOUR DAD'S FAMILY DECIDES TO PERSECUTE YOU FOR THIS; ENDURE IT FOR IT IS THE CROSS THAT A CHRISTIAN SHOULD CARRY.2 Tim. 3:12
Give what belongs to ceaser to ceaser and to God what belongs to God,,, tradition still exist if u like be a born again christain
DeleteThank you La'creamie
DeletePoster Woman,
ReplyDeleteI can only refer you to the book of Esther; Read the whole of it.
You don't know that is what you are doing that is tying your hubby down. Please go down on your knees and pray to God for forgiveness. You don't have any reason or whatsoever to cheat on your hubby. Most people just take that vow for vowing sake. That "Vow" is a STRONG Covenant but people don't know.
Please to those who will be getting married soon, if you know you won't keep your promise please don't bother making one. Don't take a vow you can't keep. Just remain single and enjoy yourself.
Dear poster, Come to my office and see women who are bread winners in their home. They do it with all joy and their marriage is very peaceful. You were created to be a help mate. Why can't you support your hubby and also put him in prayers.
The time you spend opening your Toto to fuck and Moan, use it to pray for him. Woman there's joy in taking charge of your home. All of us can never have same luck in marriage. There's someone out there envying your marriage.
Woman stop doing longer throat. No two marriages can ever be same. wait for your turn of enjoyment to come. Some women dey carry bad luck enter marriage. Check yourself well to know where the problem is from.
My sister REPENT AND QUIT LONGER THROAT.
PEACEFUL AND ENCOURAGING WIFE.......
Poster Woman,
ReplyDeleteI can only refer you to the book of Esther; Read the whole of it.
You don't know that is what you are doing that is tying your hubby down. Please go down on your knees and pray to God for forgiveness. You don't have any reason or whatsoever to cheat on your hubby. Most people just take that vow for vowing sake. That "Vow" is a STRONG Covenant but people don't know.
Please to those who will be getting married soon, if you know you won't keep your promise please don't bother making one. Don't take a vow you can't keep. Just remain single and enjoy yourself.
Dear poster, Come to my office and see women who are bread winners in their home. They do it with all joy and their marriage is very peaceful. You were created to be a help mate. Why can't you support your hubby and also put him in prayers.
The time you spend opening your Toto to fuck and Moan, use it to pray for him. Woman there's joy in taking charge of your home. All of us can never have same luck in marriage. There's someone out there envying your marriage.
Woman stop doing longer throat. No two marriages can ever be same. wait for your turn of enjoyment to come. Some women dey carry bad luck enter marriage. Check yourself well to know where the problem is from.
My sister REPENT AND QUIT LONGER THROAT.
PEACEFUL AND ENCOURAGING WIFE.......
Woman,ur cheating is wat may be affecting ur husband's success,pls stop cheating. Although,I know that once ur husband becomes successful,he will chase all d babes he eventually comes in contact with. Biko stop cheating.
ReplyDeleteD reason why a woman's cheating is like abomination is bcos she is the home maker,she makes babies,she is the helper,a woman plays the most important role in her family. Altho,our men misbehave a lot,the many idiots.
Just stop cheating.
What you did is very bad.. is better to divorce him than cheat on him with your ex. May God forgive you
ReplyDeleteThere is no justification for a woman that committed infidelity against her husband
ReplyDeleteLet's sing another song:
ReplyDeleteThe Queen and boss of hoes
The Queen and boss of cutlASS
The Queen and boss of deceiving women
The Queen and boss of LazyBEANS
tHE Queen is boss of LazyBians
The Queen is box of licking pussynanni
The Queen is box of boastings
The queen is box of synagogue
Say; pussynani, punani,pussy licker
The queen is boss of bat -usu
Yet; the queen is box of "married"?
What kind of married queen licks the pusinani
The queen is boss is neither bird nor animal
The queen, the queen, the queen
Ladies, believe her to your own peril
The queen is boX of doom!
Doom, doom, doom, doooom,
The queen is box of doomsday!
Let's sing another song:
ReplyDeleteThe Queen and boss of hoes
The Queen and boss of cutlASS
The Queen and boss of deceiving women
The Queen and boss of LazyBEANS
tHE Queen is boss of LazyBians
The Queen is box of licking pussynanni
The Queen is box of boastings
The queen is box of synagogue
Say; pussynani, punani,pussy licker
The queen is boss of bat -usu
Yet; the queen is box of "married"?
What kind of married queen licks the pusinani
The queen is boss is neither bird nor animal
The queen, the queen, the queen
Ladies, believe her to your own peril
The queen is boX of doom!
Doom, doom, doom, doooom,
The queen is box of doomsday!
LADIES, shebi una read the "in-house Gist" on "the friend that was never married that advised another lady not to cook for her husband while pregnant. Eventually, she found that she wasn't even married". That is the correct description of wooomen like LIerNda Ezi; the queen and boss of liars! She want all of you to believe that "cheating is fun" right? Well, the other of her sister: Ezinwanyi has run away. This one is just bidding her time. She has been commissioned by the "father of all liars; the boss of all liars" to scatter families. She is here to scatter marriages. Ladies beware!
ReplyDeleteClap for urself. Big hiss
ReplyDeleteYour spirits husband and your badluck are fellowing your innocent husband around
ReplyDeleteand blocking all his favour and luck,,i was in ur husband shoe after i married for
years,but that very day i have problems with my wife and i move out of the house from
her,every body that knows me know how God blessed me with millions that same week
Your spirits husband and your badluck are fellowing your innocent husband around
ReplyDeleteand blocking all his favour and luck,,i was in ur husband shoe after i married for
years,but that very day i have problems with my wife and i move out of the house from
her,every body that knows me know how God blessed me with millions that same week
Didnt you see he was lazy before you married him. Anyways, continue cheating until you get caught.
ReplyDeleteToo bad madam. Try and make peace with God, thats all that matters
ReplyDeleteLinda, the mother of all liars working for the devil, the father of deceit! Believe this useless being at your own peril! Cheating wife, siddon there and be justifying what you did! The way i cuss out cheating men, it's same way, i will cuss you out! Lazy you say? Didn't you see that before marriage? And you think your lover respects you? Useless man that will have trust issue with his own wife in future. Leave that man and marry your lover then! ONIRANU!
ReplyDeleteWho is this mumu
DeleteHmmmm! so true i agree with you anonymous.
ReplyDeleteIts very unfair to judge. Some men can frustrate the hell out of their wives nd will cause dem to cheat on them. Do you kno the emotional instability when a man leaves a woman to do all his responsibilities. Its easy to judge and condemn but you never kno the circumstances that leads to a cheating wife. Most of you ladies on this blog are bloody fornicators, liars, theives, malicious minded nd lots of what the bible condemns. Let he who has not sinned cast the first stone. See them judging a fellow sinner like themselves. Hypocrites. Stella if you like dont post my comment at least the truth is staring in your face.
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