''Letting go Isnt easy'' - Click HERE to read it if you missed it.
'Hi Stella,
thanks for this platform, just so i don't bore you all, i will try to give it as much details as possible. i indulge your patience.( Stella please bear the typo errors and bad english where necessary)
After series of issues and severe pressure from this poster, i threatened to send in my chronicles so he will get to hear other peoples opinion since he wouldn't change, that's why he quickly sent in this Lie. As a young girl I am exposed to the opposite sex yet i chose to ignore and grow with this poster who doesn't want me to have any friend.
Earlier in our relationship, Poster pushed me to cheating on him by flaunting and making me feel i wasn't the only one in his life by keeping in touch with his Xes whose pictures were littered over his phone, and did i say he is in all social media? and flirts around yet would give me excuses that he doesn't sleep with them.(we both snooped).
I begged and he forgave me.N/B he also got back at me by sleeping with 5 GIRLS and still told me it was my fault.
This guy has trust issues to the extent he calls my mum and younger ones just to confirm my location, of which my mum complained bitterly because on some of those occasions of his calls, he had to wake the poor woman from sleep.
( who does that?) and i warned him to stop. Even his mum is not in support of the pressure he puts on me because of his insecurities,always thinking am cheating because that's what he does. e.g he chats dirty with these girls o and on one occasion he asked a babe to get to his house for him to check if he was the same way he left her but Stella i was angry but i still had to forgive him, even cooked that night for him, because i loved him silly and never told any one about it.
if i want to continue with the instances. ..hmmm we no go comot for here!.
TO THE MATTER:
With all that has happened and lessons i have learnt from peoples experience on this blog, i deserve a better man to avoid future chronicles.
This guy lies and believes his own Lies, Reports me to all his colleagues, neighbors, church members and anyone who cares to listen that am this and that...lol this people don't get to hear my side of the story as he always plays the victim.
THE BREAK UP:
This was as a result of him adding an X who happens to be a very good friend now long before i even met this poster.
On the 29th of September,2015 he added him on whatsapp. the guy in question is not even in the country.( this is not the guy i cheated on him with o.) my beloved bf started an interview session with this old friend of mine, and in the course of their discussions he dared to ask My ex the last time we had sex....hmm nawa o...
My friend replied and told him 2012, dear bf went ahead to narrate the story of my life and the amount of money he has spent on me so far, and how he recently got me an iPhone 6, and sponsored my last trip. in the end he was advised and given tips on how to bring back the fire back in the relationship of which he didn't listen and still painted me black to the guy...hmm the guy got upset and screen shot ALL the chat to me and equally advised me on how to cope with him so we can bring back the fire and blocked me on whatsapp
after reading the chat. I was devastated, betrayed, broken,embarrassed etc.
it was then it dawned on me that i deserve better.I am still in my early twenties and this trauma is not worth it at all, i have my life ahead and school to complete, acquire certificates and all. this guy doesn't waste time in making me feel less of myself, he even told me once that he doesn't gain anything from me sef .
hmmm i just have to stop here and leave you guys to be the judge.
N/B please constructive criticism is welcomed. Thank you.
All i have to say is that what you both have going is a SITUATIONSHIP...so much drama and you aint even married?Abeg abeg abeg abeg......
Ghen ghen!
ReplyDeleteMtchewwww
DeleteI like your decision abeg. More reason why I didn't comment in yesterday's chronicle. Dear brother pls let this lady go. Why should you call her parents to find out where she is? Abeg pls go and find another woman to choke. You sleep with women for fun yet expect a woman to also love you and do your biding.
DeleteI hate controlling men
Yesterday's poster has some characteristics of an abusive man. Poster, you deserve better. Please abstain from sex before marriage to avoid stories that touch. I pity whoever will marry such a sick man. He needs help.
DeleteEkpang Kukwo Recipe
Two of you are stupid n also deserves each other.
DeleteBtw,you two should get a job asap
This is a typical case of "back and forth on the same shit". drama makes me sick. There's no issue that one can actually hold on to as the real problem Other than, both of you are done with this but have been together too long to know what to do. I like you girl. You're on your way to freedom. Some people will see this kind of thing and still go ahead and marry the person. Y'all need to move on and never contact each other again
DeleteEzigbo situationship
DeleteTwo of you have lied.
DeleteIf you claim the guy is always boasting about. everything he did for you, how come he didn't tell us he bought you an iphone 6, at least it will been a big plus for him in yesterday's chronicle.
If you claim he's always in touch with his exes and have their pictures all over his phone, why are you still in touch with you own Ex? Don't you have his picture on your phone too? Or are not guilty too?
Oga why didn't you tell us, you cheated on her too? You painted her bad and became the saint abi?
I don't think you love each other as you claim.
All of you telling her to leave, how many of will leave your broke ass boyfriends that beat you, have not given common nokia torch, not to talk of an iphone 6, some of you saying leave, with not even dare to leave, cos all you girls talk About here is men with money.
I like replies die.
ReplyDeleteI like the fact that u know what u want, u wo should go ur separate ways. Insecurity at its peak!
DeleteMe too
Delete#yawns
DeleteThese two get time I swear!d most weak reply I have ever read on dis blog!@poster was also guilty of the cheating too.
Dey say he dat comes to equity must come in clean hands?...where are urs#rme
U just hop abt sharing ur bodies to random pple in a bid to get at each other,how low is dat?
Just move on madam u sef,get someone u love so u won't cheat!leave this guy since u said he's insecure...dont even know wat to say anymore.
Hmmmmm Yawns. Too much drama
ReplyDeleteToo much o, smh
DeleteYou are not meant for each other. Please part ways ASAP it might be hard but I have a friend that was once in a similar situationship like yours and YES they departed because it CANT work. I hate men that behaves live ds,,, from what he wrote yesterday I asked him tru my comment that I hope he's not the choking type as if I knew
DeleteAbeg am out
Both of you deserve someone else. Let him go
DeleteChronicles don land. Space booked
ReplyDeleteWell, nothing more to say. You left him and should let it stay that way.
DeleteThis relationship is a disaster waiting to happen.
But your bf is funny though. Why come on here where no one knows you to lie when you know she'd come here to spill the truth?
This need for validation from total strangers though.
You both have major faults, please let each other go cause this is just unnecesary drama.
@ replier, FYI, nobody can push you to cheat. If you want to date someone else, then break up with the current guy and free yourself first. Now, judging from both posts, you both sound immature, confused and delusional. Maybe you two should stay away from relationships for a while while you mature, once ready; please look for other people to date so you don't fall into the same routine, there's no love between you; just confusion.
DeleteNB: the two of you are too young for all these sexual partners etc. HIV is real o, so is HPV and the likes. Some of them will stay in your system for decades until you've settled down, made some money and are trying enjoy your hard earned money and boom! it pops up as one form of cancer or the other. You guys should read up on it. Condoms don't prevent everything anymore except pregnancy (most times) and certain STDs. Please protect yourselves and your futures. Stop these unnecessary sexcapades with multiple partners before you hurt yourselves and others......... Just Saying
U both should grow up, u have too many drama going, I don't think u can sustain a relationship like this.
ReplyDeletePls help yourselves and break up already,cos if u continue,u both might/will give younger people the wrong Impression of marriage.
DeleteAm lost .....somebody find me
ReplyDeleteRubbish! Kids here n there talking trash! Hey get busy n get a life! How old are you - DRAMA
DeleteAm lost .....somebody find me
ReplyDeleteStay lost!
DeleteSHARONNA
Who wan find u? Lost more na
DeleteHmmmmmmmmmmm short of words, Jesus let ur will be done.
ReplyDeleteYou people should just go your seperate ways,
ReplyDeleteCut off this relationship already...wetin una dey do?? this is real "SITUATIONSHIP!"
ReplyDeleteYou'll force yourselve to get married & end up agonizing chronicles. you both should go your separate ways abeg. "Lean on me no means say u go press me die".
Lollll to your last line
DeleteI think u both will be better off apart cos i can't even begin to imagine what kinda marriage u want to build on this messed up situationship
DeleteLove the lean on me quote
DeleteHian! Whatever.
ReplyDeleteN y would or should u both disturb blog visitors wiv ur cheating chronicles?..
Delete#aim oye
Mtcheeeew
This is purely an immature relationship I must say, both of you is not ready for a committed relationship. And should I say I didn't fully belief all what you said, so in that case, you're both free to end the SITUATIONSHIP. Ire oo
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Gbammmm
DeleteU be small pikin..u re promiscuous that's y he doesn't trust u!! It takes a lot for a man to trust u once that trust is broken...na only u get X? If I am ur bf,i will just move on and forget u jare..too much baggage
ReplyDeleteLong hissssssssssss
ReplyDeleteThe ball is in ur court.
ReplyDeleteInsecurity problem
ReplyDeleteSo because he got you an iphone 6 and paid for a trip that's why he is wailing..
ReplyDeleteIs it not his mates that sponsor their girlfriend's education abroad?...
Poster,you truly deserve thr best and you will be the highest Mugu if you dare go back to your vomit...
Move on!...
And to you mr man like I advised you yesterday,go and make money....
Deserve d best. If I hear! Like she didn't cheat on him. Mtchewww. Una two fit set. Wobbish. 2adulys behaving like kids. Biko bvs no bring this child's play here again as chronicles. U can bring it as Sat or Sun laffs.lol
DeleteLinda! U act like ndi mma
DeleteEverybody Is Replaceable, if you think He don't worth You Move Ahead, Cos It can Only Get Better.
ReplyDeleteAnyone can be replaced by what is described as small/big D
DeleteAnd I said it yday that the guy seems controlling. Sister pls remove your shoe/slippers, dust it....then pick race!
ReplyDeleteWhich kain relationship be dis? Better t I be single abeg, which kind of man goes calling everyone to know where u are, if u marry him ehnn, he will be locking you inside the house and carry the key so that he will be sure you are not going any where. Hiss*
---Peeticide
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeletechronicles!!!. hmmmm, I knew there was more to the story. nne, move on. a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
ReplyDeleteWasn't interested yesterday same with today, u guys should move on.
ReplyDeleteAs in eh.....both of them are very stupid and childish.What nonsense!!
DeleteTo think u guys aren't students and ur relationship is dis childish. I have nothing to say save make everybody go him own way.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, I knew this robust reply will come.oga u r so dumb n silly, I guess ppl already told u that yesterday.Jeez,if she wasn't a bv u could have lied this much naa. She is yet u no fear God.First,i knew u were too good to be true painting her in all horrible light possible.You think we r stupid? U keep begging to wife her yet u didn't say ur crime.From ur gist I knew u r a liar and a big FOOL jeez u r disgusting, u deserve all the insult ud get.
ReplyDeleteYou both should go your separate ways.
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing more to talk about this.
And Oga poster yesterday,thank you oh for lying yesterday.
Lying liar.
Why all this yeye drama?
ReplyDeleteFor what?
Abeg make una shift
what is this abeg...this sounds so childish....like seriously, u r both jonzing yourselves...comot jare
ReplyDeleteStella NEXT pls!!!!!!
There is nothing worst than dating or married to an insecured person. They are always the victim and you are always the villain. They will tell your business to everyone and anyone who will listen and make you look worst than the Satan himself. I have been the there. The best thing I ever done in my life was to drop him like bad habit cos he was draining me. Abeg delete that insecured idiot from your life permanently and never look back.
ReplyDeleteWahala dey o. Make yourself happy, girl.
ReplyDeleteAwon oni yeye meji.
ReplyDeleteStella you see why I say u are wise. Good a thing u gave her an opportunity to reply. Now both of you have brought the issue here if you. Are both ready to change then you can carry on but if not I think you both should just quit.
ReplyDeleteNonsence, nne please RUN. The guy is bad news.
ReplyDeleteHmmm,it will nt say u shld accept him back nd I would nt say u shld leave him,jst follow ur heart,all I will say is d devil we kno is btr dan d angel we dnt kno,it's well.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm! I cant deal mehn! It's obvious the two of u are kids bc do me I do u isn't a way forward in rship. U guys should go ur separate ways bc it can't work out.
ReplyDeleteWill just read comments might learn one or two tins from here...
ReplyDeleteHmmmm....
ReplyDeleteBabe please just walk away. You both deserve happiness. It's obvious this isn't working and you can't make each other happy.
Won't tell u to break up or continue u know what's best 4u...... Mehn so much drama going on here.
ReplyDeleteA break will do for now. Too possessive joor
ReplyDeleteNawa oo....and you both think you are in a relationship?...sleeping around anyhow..Hmmm...You two are immatured and as such shldnt be together!!
ReplyDeleteMove on both of you.
ReplyDeleteThis relationship is filled with drama and stress so just move on. There's no point in all this back and forth drama you're engaging in!
Men sef... You can't have your cake and eat it too!
Na wao. See d way d guy painted ds babe like devil yest BT I got curious when he was still asking for her forgiveness. May god sort u both out of ds mess or shld I borrow Stellas English situationship.
ReplyDelete#sniffs taaba#
ReplyDeletewoooow!!!!stori is better heard frm both parties...guy u shud grow up now,u painted her blck n stil want her bck??marriage is nt a childs play,cuz I c no maturity of de mind in ds story...TOMJERRYSWIT
ReplyDeleteWith the two sides of the story;all i can tag in this relationship of yours is:
ReplyDelete1)Insecurity
2)Jealousy
3)Fear of the unknown
4)selfishness on both side(ie cheating spree)
To the guy;you didn't do well if her accusations on you are all she stated above..please move on and look for love elsewhere,cos this lady here is wise courtesy of stella's blog.. she has read enough on this blog and is now wiser than you think hence why she is breaking up with you..She wanna end up Happily! And doesn't think she would find that happiness with you..
To the lady;this guy can poison you one day..he sounds like one whose jealousy can take control of his actions at A point...you deserve more my dear,and since you ve made your decision;Live with it..you will find A better man!! but please hold yourself then...Remember,cheating is for losers!!!
#Best Of Luck To You Both
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You also forgot to tell her to be more decent... a lady in her early 20's. She should stop cheating, it's for her own good. Both of them are at fault.
DeleteHave been waiting for this lemme read
ReplyDeleteBabe continue running,don't stop for any reason dearie,u made a very good decision,dont look back,i knw someone in d same situation as u were,,insecure guys can do anytin wen they re angry,abeg move on jare.
ReplyDeleteStella....lol abi oooo all I c is child's play
ReplyDeleteTwo much drama for two adult pikin. the two of you need to outline what you really want.
ReplyDeleteMtsheeeeew! I have no constructive criticism to offer you, so onum shut up!
ReplyDeleteHmm.......
ReplyDeleteSo whose version do we believe?
This two people una dey crase, this is called craze jam craze. I have to say that between both of you no one is losing. Una fit una slf wella.I throwaway my nyash for una. Belike this Bobo get small cash. brother buy me iphone 6 na.
ReplyDeleteOn a serious note both of you should just go your separate ways because the past you both have will continue to hunt you guys.
Two of you should just agree and have one last bomb and parting sex.
smh... this is joblessness o
ReplyDeleteTwo much drama for two adult pikin. the two of you need to outline what you really want.
ReplyDeleteI said yesterday and i say again, I wish you well in your future relationships. You deserve better.
ReplyDeleteStoopid immature boy!
Girl abeg 4get dt guy,its nt worth it.Imagine making u feel less of a human.Who is he & hw much does he hav mtcheeeew,coming here 2 cry lik a fowl.Pls look 4 a better man afterall luv is not by force.To u Mr man who asks an X useless questnz & tell him how he spends on his babe?U no get shame ni?Na ur type dey beat woman & disregard her family.Leave d girl alone Mr boyfrnd & sort out ur Complex problem.
ReplyDeleteStella haba your RUDENESS sometimes baffles me, they want advice and not telling off. Please no one is perfect and always gives your little advice when necessary or save your red ink. Dear poster please if you don't want again move on............
ReplyDeleteThe guys talks too much,free him please.
ReplyDeleteAm glad you broke up with him.he"s just a selfish jerk
ReplyDeleteStella haba your RUDENESS sometimes baffles me, they want advice and not telling off. Please no one is perfect and always gives your little advice when necessary or save your red ink. Dear poster please if you don't want again move on............
ReplyDeletePlease abeg!
ReplyDeleteHmmmm..., I no get advice for u both oo
ReplyDeleteChilds play
ReplyDeleteInshort na ur type dey request 4 wetin u give ur girl back wen r/ship scata.If she is dis bad y r u still goin after her,U dey luk 4 pity mtcheew.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm, nne this your reply get as e be o. Ur boo clearly stated that u cheated on him, and now u just confirmed it by saying YOU DID, BUT NOT WITH YOUR EX, u clearly dodged that aspect WHY???. Now to my advice: like Stella said u both are in a "confusionship" and jealousy is taking over, there is no atom of trust in ur relationship abi "confusionship".I will advice u both to take a break. ( No be Do me I Do na )
ReplyDeleteGirl abeg 4get dt guy,its nt worth it.Imagine making u feel less of a human.Who is he & hw much does he hav mtcheeeew,coming here 2 cry lik a fowl.Pls look 4 a better man afterall luv is not by force.To u Mr man who asks an X useless questnz & tell him how he spends on his babe?U no get shame ni?Na ur type dey beat woman & disregard her family.Leave d girl alone Mr boyfrnd & sort out ur Complex problem.
ReplyDeleteThis whole thing sounds like a lie, sounds like a lie lie article written by Diezani, sounds like a 5year old essay, lie lie reply, chick should take several sits abeg and keep her lying ass on it for a long time
ReplyDeleteIt's not. I promise you its not. The girl is probably drained after all the drama.
DeleteShe doesn't have the energy to write more than she has written. She's just not as detailed as the guy.
DeleteLmao! I said it yesterday that your bf wasn't being honest. I know his type, always playing the victim. You guys cheated on each other so you're even!
ReplyDeleteI suggest you let go this toxic and dysfunctional relationship. If you marry him, he will show you HELL! He will blame you every time he cheats. Such guys are obsessive malicious, vengeful and violent. Stay far away from him.
Imagine him waking your mom from sleep! Ordinary bf ! Your mom must be a nice peaceful woman to have given him audience. Rubbish !
Situation ship indeed.
ReplyDeleteI knew it that the guy was lieing ...foolish man
ReplyDeleteBabe thank God u dumped his sorry ass, I hate men who talk too much, if he really wants u back tell him to borrow money and buy u a 2014 Range cos I no he can't afford it, how much did he spend on u sef,you ve paid back by fucking him so he should lick his dirty wound and move d hell on.
ReplyDeletePoster I expected your response once he narrated yesterday that you are a bv. My dear, broken relationship is better than broken marriage. I cannot beg you here to forgive and go back to that relationship. Babe follow your instincts. If the doubt and untrust in this relationship supersedes the love, walk as fast as your shoe would carry you. Both of you deserves better in life.
ReplyDeleteMctheeeeeeeeeeew,these people are not serious at all.
ReplyDeleteWith all these drama you guys should have broken up long ago, bros that posted yesterday no need for begging u guys should stay broken up cos from her point she's obviously fedup of your immaturity
ReplyDeleteI knew that guy was lying infact, he sounded like he invented the word lie. Meanwhile babe you sound like a kid. Leave that guy please, his environment is damn too corrosive for you.
ReplyDeleteLol
ReplyDeleteDrama!!
Stella where is your Reset Slaps. Both of them need it now.
ReplyDelete22 something all you think is sex sex sex.
girl go and do something needful in your live. leave prick alone for the time being.
Too much drama ,normal sha for that age,if you dont get drama in your 20 s then you didnt enjoy your youth
DeleteThis Chronicles doesn't even add up! One word C R A P!!!!! Stella it's chronicles like this that doesn't make ur chronicles credible! biko avoid dem so as not to taint it
ReplyDeleteKelvin dat Edo Boi
okay.. the part2 is here... i knew that guy was less of a man... no real nigga post such nonsense he posted yesterday.. o'girl..get a real nigga for urself
ReplyDeleteMy EX has same attitude,the annoying thing was he's an adult for that matter @35 behaving like a 23yr old boy I cldnt cope I just ended the relationship,nao am a happy person
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry for both of you.
ReplyDeleteUseless boyfriend and empty headed girlfriend who slept around to gain validation for self.
You want constructive criticism for what? *yimu
See cheating and snooping allegations flying up and down.
ReplyDeleteNawa!
So, Mr Poster, seems you're a schemer with esteem issues as well, else why send a false sob story.
You both are better off apart than together abeg.
Mtchewww
#WhiteDiamondOut
Lol! My dear just leave this drama King n move on with ur life biko
ReplyDeletePoster, u are in ur early twenties with all these drama?
ReplyDeleteU are 2 young for this.Face ur education.
Reject the mumu forever. He is a looser.
i didnt read
ReplyDeleteDid you say early twenties and all these drama? Nah wa oh. Girl move on with your bad self and date other people.
ReplyDeleteAs in if this much drama before the marriage I wonder what will happen afterwards
ReplyDeleteSinging "speechless" by Michael Jackson to both of u...hohohohoho
ReplyDeletei follow talk abeg abeg abeg
ReplyDeleteGhen ghen!!! Una two still need 2 grow up. If at d relationship level, there z lack of trust....is it wen u guys are married dt u'll start trusting each oda? My advice 2 both party z dt; YOU GUYS DON'T DESERVE EACH ODA....its better 2 part ways now dt d signs are glaring so dt future chronicles & DV would be avoided . #OkayBye!!!
ReplyDelete*****MhizDerbyViaIG*****
Re right of reply.
ReplyDeletePpl pilory me because i talk outside the box. I would have minded my business but i realised that at least one person learns from my trash. This generation has been damaged by our parents and this generation has gone wacko. It is said that honor your mother and father.....it is a dishonor for a man to bring a gf to his father's house or a woman to let her parents know she has a bf. Now if you bring your gf to your fathers house or knowledge or let your parents know you have a bf, do they imagine just as I would that you ppl might be having sex. To them is it still an illegal or illicit sex? Yet they encourage you. What audacity does a mere boy have to queery a mother the whereabouts of her daughter even waking her up. If your parents let you know that it is an illicit affair and do not condone it you, whether male or female will do it in secrete. What will you achieve. It is that you will reason with your brain and decide what you want in your so called relationship and avoid all these nonsense we are daily assailed with. Imagine a girl whose parents have told how illicit and unacceptable bf gf is, will she not avoid situations that would lead to abortions because such parents would never supput you in your childlessness with your bfs and then ending up with another man. Women ( Gil's mothers,sisters, relatives and friends) are their worst enemies. Now what will I be stiil doing with a woman I conceive in my heart and call with my mouth a prostitute. Again what reasonable woman would want to spend the next minute with me after I call her a slot, rightly or wrongly. What face would a real parent use to look at his/ her daughter being describe to him/her how many men that have sexed them and how many abortions they have had. Trust me parents of to defend their children by blaming the bfs. Can u eat your cake and stiil have, today's generation says yes and old school says no. So young lady it is only a shameless person that will tell the whole world this type of story andvtrust me no reseanable man will marry you with this knowledge but birds of a feather.
Return his iPhone and breakup. the guy has invested and doesn't want his investments to waste lol
ReplyDeleteIts obvious he is still a child grow some balls asshole, how old is he sef? Mhen I can't deal with shit coz I might end up serving him sniper in a cup of tea or coffee. Leave d motherfucker he has no respect for you or your mum. Anyone who tries dat shit wit me will be singing lots of Hyme in HELL
ReplyDeleteI HATE TO HEAR THIS; "I CHEATED ON HIM, HE CHEATED ON ME"; WHAT! YOU FOLKS ARE NOT MARRIED YET ; YOU ARE CHEATING YOURSELVES. ONCE SEX STARTS A RELATIONSHIP, TRUST LEAVES AND THAT IS WHAT IS HAPPENING HERE. YOU ARE CHEATING YOURSELVES AND CHEATING ON GOD WHO MADE SEX TO BE WITHIN THE CONFINES ON MARRIAGE.
ReplyDeleteYou see why cheating is a terrible thing...once u cheat on a man and he finds out, your relationship will never be the same again. If u are unhappy, just leave. Your problem stems from the fact that you cheated on him probably to get back at him and he could no longer trust you. My dear, You should have left a long time ago,its not too late to do so cos u both are obviously not compatible.
ReplyDeleteMove on! I don't see any future in your relationship. And next time you don't tell your man you cheated! Deny even when caught! Learn to delete chats that will incriminate you!
ReplyDeleteLol ebod of a Man
ReplyDeleteAbeg abeg abeg....I join Stella for the reply
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My dear move on with your life. No time for rubbish. The dram are is too much
ReplyDeletePeaceful and Encouraging Wife will always tell you to take it to the lord in prayer.
ReplyDeleteMay God help you both in whatever decision you make.
Peaceful and Encouraging Wife.
Peaceful and Encouraging Wife will always tell you to take it to the lord in prayer.
ReplyDeleteMay God help you both in whatever decision you make.
Peaceful and Encouraging Wife.
Babe, focus on your studies for now. You guys shod give yourselves some breathing space and then see if you can get back together, matured and able to tackle the things of life. For now una still de play ten-ten de go .
ReplyDeleteSo much drama, cheating, revenge, trust issue.... Blablabla yall need a break abeg!!! I hate guys who is in all social media....
ReplyDeleteDis guy is bad ojare
ReplyDeleteHow can someone make you to cheat? Did he put the guys dick into you.
ReplyDelete"This guy lies and believes his own Lies, Reports me to all his colleagues, neighbors, church members and anyone who cares to listen that am this and that...lol this people don't get to hear my side of the story as he always plays the victim."
ReplyDeleteYes oh he will not be the first nor the last to do the above.
Both of you need to work on your self esteem love yourselves. You are both looking for void ro be filled in wrong places.
You attract what you got.
The mistake I made in similar situation was still to be friends and not work on my self. I was publicly disgraced I no learn lessons. Thinks its being gracious please I was a doormat. Learn from your elders and work on yourself.
You guys should stay broken up, this is too messy n silly. Give him back his iPhone if that's his problem. Hiss
ReplyDeleteGirl you deserve better.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm, i said it and that was why i refused to comment. That is nothing but a big lia, their type will always beat and still collect tears from your eyes in other for you not to cry. My dear pls move on, u deserve a better life, beside its my hubby seeing guys crying life ewu from the hands of ladies.
ReplyDeleteThis reply is the dumbest I have read here. At your early twenties you are even proud to say you cheated?? Abeg abeg abeg gerrarahere girl!
ReplyDeleteBoth of you should get a life! Face your education. Your write up is irritating to read. No structure. Just everywhere.
Stop all these drama...both of you. You both have compatibility issue.
Dear poster, prepare for your future now by focussing on your studies. Thank me later
Abeg....I can't deal....mtcchheeewww
ReplyDeleteThe guy was right though for saying u cheat and u have said it here too but
ReplyDeletei will advice both of u move on cos there is no trust and you are stupid
by saying you love a man u cheated,do you know what love mean?nigeria and there love
I don't know if both parties are lying here. They should go and find something better to do.
ReplyDeleteUr narrative sounded just like my relationship wit ex!! We deserve better just glad that I've moved on too pls do same!!!!
ReplyDeleteu cheated and he cheated with 5..... Geez!!!! 2 wrongs can never make a right. u guys go yur separate ways already. Too much drama. If u decide to still build this relationship, yu would definitely have trust issues, which i dont knw how you would manage.
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