Hmmm!!..just Ne-go-du!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
DATING A BUSY MAN WHEN THE CLOCK IS 'TICKING
Hello Stella,
I'm grateful for the opportunity you have given to people to voice out their concerns and making us have a place to call home.
I'm an ardent BV and I really don't know where this my question or story fits.
I'm just interested in knowing how people who are dating or married to doctors cope. I'm 32, started dating a doctor about 6 months ago but we don't see or even talk. He talks to me like twice in two weeks and always giving the 'I am busy' kind of excuse.
I'm not getting younger and I always crave attention, sincerely, I don't know how to approach this issue. Sometimes, I feel I'm not being considerate and I'm asking for too much.
Please, help me out before I lose my senses!
Did you say dating?from what you described it isnt a relationship at all.when a man loves a woman he will make out time to see her.it sounds like you are the side chick.check well again
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
WHEN HIS GIRLFRIEND FALLS IN LOVE WITH YOU...
Hello Stella,
hope this mail meets you in good condition and keep up the good work,. Im an ardent reader of you blog and sometimes I comment under the name "******" lemme go straight to my issue......
I have this close friend of mine, we have been friends for like ages, did everything together and pretty close( though we are worlds apart, he is calm and gentle, im more of a cassanova and funny) We are both entrepreneurs and even though i dont want to admit it, i do pretty better than him and i am more open (he is very reserved).
The problem is more than 1 occasion when he introduces me to his gf, they end up breaking up with him their reasons is because they like me ( abi love me) more than him, i just cant understand, his very first gf broke up with him few days after meeting me and told me she prefers me to him ( though im more handsome than him) she didnt tell him her reason for breaking up but i knew and i didnt tell him (maybe because i slept with her).
Fast forward few months later he finds another girl of his dreams and the same thing happens, she told me she loves me and if i accept her she will break up with him, but i felt bad cos he is like a brother to me and i told him abt what she said and wants, he got angry and almost beat her to a pop, finally they broke up after police was involved....
Weeks back we traveled for a business proposal and he met this cute lawyer and somehow he introduced me to her as his brother... Fast forward to some days now, he lost his phone so he uses my phone to call her, now i have her number and we do chat on whatsapp, only for her to tell me she likes me and wants to break up with this dude again......
Stella at first it was fun and i felt flattered but now its looking weird and annoying.... Please i
Need fellow BVs advice!!!!!! I like this cute lawyer and besides she is endowed..... What should i do?
Just Negodu.
ReplyDelete@poster 1 ur dating yourself.
@poster2 oyo is ur name.
Poster 2 your are a terrible person. I no your type of person well. Women cannot be living the boy to start jumping on you. You are the one emotionally drawing them. Why were u chatting wiv the second one in the first place? Why are u making yourself available for them? U are not to be trusted. I pity that friend o. He should run far from you. Na only u dey wey woman go dey live their boyfriend to dey follow u. You must be doing something to attract them. Stop being over friendly and mind your fucking business. Don't try to strike any conversation. It is bad enough u are more open and handsome than your friend so why u trying to take all the shine from him. What kind of discussion were u having wiv them that would lead them to live their boyfriend in the first place? I just feel like slapping u. You are a devil
DeletePoster 1 Receive Sense, you should know by now that a man who wants you would always make time for you even if he works in hell fire.
DeletePoster 2 Your whole existence is actually a joke, you still call him "my brother" after killing him like a million times. You need Jesus
Poster 1: It's obvious the Doctor is either married or in a relationship with some1 else.Try to talk to him about it,if he still uses his job as an excuse,pls take the next available bus to where you an find love.Time is not in your side for this kind okro love. Poster 2: Oga please stay away from that guy's life.You are what I call a bad friend.You slept with his ex *gnash teeth* you are a real Casanova .
DeletePoster one,biko leave that man I beg you. As busy as any man is,if he actually wants you he will find time. Is he the only doctor there or the MD of the hospital? You are dating yourself Nne. Give it up.Don't bother discussing nothing with him.
DeletePoster 2,i have 3 hot slaps for you but let me save it for judgement day,i'm sure God has much more for backstabbing bastards like you. You are a standard idiot. You sleep with your friends girls and still proud to talk nonsense. You ain't better than him you will always stay beneath and chop his leftovers. Anuofia!
Narrative 2... I'm 90% sure u are a direct descendant of Judas. You are the real definition of kokoro ton jefo idi efo lowa. Wicked person. I'm so pissed! I don't want to use any swear words today!
DeletePoster 2. While do I have a feeling your showing those girls that ur better than ur friend. Your friend really need to stay away from you. Cos the way am looking at you, u will one day sleep with his wife.
Delete@ poster two he calls you brother but you are an enemy from within :(
DeletePoster one, he doesn't love you. Poster 2- You are an unfriendly friend. Please break that friendship now before you destroy his future marriage.
DeleteHmmm....poster 1,bin der,done dat, most likely wat stella said....poster 2hmn...is this for heal, if it is, you are not a very good friend at all
DeleteGhen ghen d chronicles is here if i dnt spread my dollar crested rug n read comments, Who will?
ReplyDeleteBrb
Me lol, better drop comment oooo cos I am here to read I came late today.
DeletePoster 1,u are side chick,no doubt.
DeletePoster 2,u ain't a true friend and a fool too.
Poster one, you are not compatible find someone who has more time for you and a more flexible job if you manage you will be frustrated and nagging him.
ReplyDeletePoster two, go and write your jamb all these teenagers with their dreamland stories una don leave Nairaland reach here abi
Chai, I was hoping to read a reply from the wife of yesterday's chronicles who prays before s£x....
ReplyDeleteMadam, please I need you to refute the story so I can also hear your side... Even though I know the man is right.
@Poster 1, any man that doesn't give me attention does not worth it. Use your tongue to count your teeth.
ReplyDelete@Poster 2, are you advertising to all SDK single ladies that you're that handsome? Did you even think we're joking here? Please grow up my friend
*Larry was here*
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteNobody is really busy. They all have time to eat and sleep. Only a dead man has no time
Kudos to you for dating a doctor, they are all broke tho
And at 32, I hope this marriage will fulfill your dreams and I hope you don't just want to change status by force because everybody is doing it?
Poster 2
You are a standard back-stabbing bastard. Na your type dem dey assassinate.
Please I need money maker to come and scatter gbagaun. Plsssssssssss
Couldn't have said it any better...agree to your comment for the first time. Yes!@ no body is too busy, they all have time to eat and sleep. Nice one!
DeleteYou are such a wise guy. I have found myself in his shoes several times. All I do is to limit my interactions with those girls. Sometimes, girls can be funny. Most times, they dont know what they want, left for a few of them. When a woman's mind is in something, she doesn't care who is hurt. My piece of advice for @poster2 is to desist from such because as MMYF... said, some guys wont spare you if you mess with them.
DeleteLol
DeleteDRs are broke yet when dey go on strike you join to castigate them. I know you sent that hilarious chronicle yesterday. Your writing style and humour.
DeleteHiaaahh.
DeleteSee a Jambite wan challenge a Professor. Wonders shall never end.
Poster 2! U should be ashamed of urslf! *spits* poster 1 find urslf ur own man!
ReplyDeleteOdi,are you a saint now?Where is dat messed up girl?
DeletePoster 1, Stella has said it already...you are dating yourself, you deserve better I tell you.
ReplyDeletePoster 1
ReplyDeleteAt this point, invite him over, have a hearty talk with him and ask him where you both are headed.
It's either you guys get defined or call it quits.
Poster 2- hmnnnnnn.....
Where she won see d guy 2 invite when e no dey get her time? He doesnt luv her, if he does he wont let her rest so another guy wont collect her 4m him, even wit his busy life.
DeleteThe Boo of Life!
DeleteHaa@talk to him.
Babe is not even a side chic!
My advice? Just stop calling,stop trying,stay on your lane.
Two things will happen,he either breathes a sigh of relief and leave things the way they are,or he starts calling you because his ego was bruised.
Just know this, you do not need any man that cannot give you attention,cannot call you or does not worship the ground you walk on,doctor or no doctor!
Keep walking darlyn...
Narrative 1) is like you're dating yourself!
DeletePoster 1...RUNNNNNNNNNNN
ReplyDeleteDoctors are not that busy and they can lie eh...
"Peperenpe" sounds more like a liar to me madam Liar oops, pardon me I meant Lara.
DeleteLmao
ReplyDeleteThe koboko cracked me up.
Enyia, you are a wicked friend,really.
And your friend is too trusting, it's pitiable.
You slept with his gf?
Tf?!!
I'm sure you won't think twice about bedding his wife if she asks you.
I pray he finds out and keeps you as far away as possible from him.. Tufia!
Meanwhile, this says a lot of things about this generation of females and morals.
* smh *
#WhiteDiamondOut
U just spoke my mind smh
DeleteThey don't seem to have any morals. Imagine 17 year olds and 19 year olds sending us chronicles about sex and bf wahala!
DeleteMy thoughts mirrored! Poster 2 you're a bad friend, simple. I feel sorry for ur friend and I hope he finds out the kind of person you are soon enough. Oniranu. Describing himself as handsome. Mschewwwwww. Aunty Stella pls more of that slap abeg.
DeleteFeisty Bunny.
Poster 1: u should understand that u r alone in ur world, he might be married or in a serious rship, even busy doctors make time for the love of their life,do not make any excuse for him.Never ever believe @ the moment that u r the main chic, do not love hopelessly, guard ur heart so that if the worst happens u can deal with it.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: ur friend is unfortunate to have a horrible friend like u, imo u r the one giving all his girls green light and the innocent young man thinks he has a brother.What advice du need? Hey bro, keep telling us u r more handsome and richer than ur friend that's y his girls like u? I don't buy ur story.
Poster 2: GTFOH!!!
ReplyDeleteReading your story and the way you kept blowing your trumpet, I concluded you are just a good-for-nothing.
"I'm more handsome", "I do better than him", etc, gosh???
With friends like you, who needs an enemy?
You claim to be a friend/a brother but slept with his girlfriend. You are mad!
I pray God opens the other dude's eye fast enough to see clearly who he dines with. Idiot!
By the way, God punish you!! Mumu
Ugly fool @poster 2
DeleteBloody Ingrate with a tiny dick.
Fuck off
Best Comment...
DeletePoster 1: thunder fire that mouth u use talk this rubbish. You call yourself a friend? Tufia! May God open the eyes of that ur friend o, cuz u can kill I swear. You are the one giving those ladies green light, the won't just throw themselves at you! What? Do u have cryptonite hidden 'somewhere'? Abegi!!!
Better change!!! Oponu
Poster 1: you are using ogbono to do skipping rope mehn! You are a confirmed side chick or fuck buddy, don't fool yasef!!! Doctor my ass!!! Which man doesn't make time for his woman???
Oh geh, shine ya eye!!!
Thank you! Poster 2 is a shallow minded being. Describing himself like he's God's gift to women. Bad friend! Gerrarahere!
DeleteStop lying, it's either you are lusting after them or your mind is playing tricks on you.
ReplyDelete*AyahShehu*
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ReplyDeleteLmao @'do you think we are even joking here?'
DeleteThis cracked me up aswear.
#WhiteDiamondOut
poster1....have bin dere ooo....see ehn just leave dat dude alone mehn
ReplyDeleteposter2....u are a bloody fool...u not worthy to be called an human being, imagine shes endowed mschewwwwwwwww
Mtscheeeeeeeew. Poster 2 you're suffering from overfeeding.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, you are very stupid! You are a back staber and a demon in human looks. Idiot. God punish you a trillion folds. Anu mpama. I'm so pissed at your post right now. Shameless he-goat. Mtchewww. WAKA!
DeleteUna mouth no be here. Jesus oveefeeding kwa.lol
DeletePoster 2,
ReplyDeleteHe is like a brother to you yet you slept with his girlfriend.
Karma has got your address. Never forget that
Poster one,
ReplyDeleteAt 32 u still don't know if u are in a relationship or not? And u are always reading chronicles here? Na wa for women o... Seems as d age is going, and they aren't married, de get confused in desperation ...
Poster 1,
ReplyDeleteAt your age,you are still doing boyfriend and girlfriend...
Give your self some brain and leave this man cos he does not love you.....it's obvious you are dating your self cos no busy man will leave his lover for weeks without calling...
As busy as my man is,he calls me countless times a day...
He carries me along with whatever thing he is doing that sometimes,his calls irritates me...
Poster 2,
You are an idiot!...
A useless motherfucker...look at your mouth like you like her cos she endowed...
God please remove this kind of a person in my life...
You are a terrible friend and your type won't end well...
Continue liking her fool...
Let's bet it,someone else will snatch and fuck your wife if you ever get married sef...
Mark my words...
Mtchewww. Poster 2, if u like dis lawyer babe, date her biko. E concern u?
DeleteAmen ! Somebody must snatch his wife. They snatch it like that woman that ran abroad with her kid go meet lover. His narrative is making my tummy pain me. And the useless girls too,I pity una.
DeleteWell said Queen.
Delete@ Advice to P1 and P2....my tots too.
Smh @ poster 2!
ReplyDeleteWake up from your slumber...
Beta don't betray your friend.
With the way u sound, it seems uve bin d one deceiving the gals, and the yeye gals too keep falling. Mscheew
He has already betrayed his friend by sleeping with his girlfriend naa.
DeletePoster 2 if I were your friend I would run from you.
ReplyDeleteYou are a thief and jealousy will kill you.
Of all women in the world its your supposed bestfriend's own you want.
Ojukokoro oshi
Poster 1,u are shameless .
ReplyDeleteU are a nobody to him.
Dats the problem with all u women. When ever a man gbensh una something. He automatically becomes a fiance.
Smh
And no words for your fellow man,who is actually the shameless person here?
DeleteMM, fear God o.
#WhiteDiamondOut
U r asking what u shld do? Gbensh gbensh gbensh! Those babes r not meant for him,when d right babe for him comes she'l not even give u a 2nd look
ReplyDeleteThat's all...
DeleteBitch please
DeleteBloody fool... someone will do that to your wife, sister and any female you cherish. You don't know the meaning of betrayal.
DeletePoster 1 just take a walk.....poster 2 leave ur friend's gf alone ooo,ojukokoro dey disturb u...
ReplyDeletePoster one:If he doesn't find time for you,he doesn't love you...take a walk,baby. Poster two:Wake up from your dream
ReplyDeletePoster 1,your doctor boo has a boo talking from experience.Poster 2,who need enemies with a friend like you?
ReplyDeletePoster 1 so for 6 months no other man has approached you? Stay there and be wasting your time.
ReplyDeleteMadam nosering and lip ring.Your brain is starting to work small small.
DeleteD other day, U can only say"LOL"
It's possible no man av approached for for a year.
DeletePoster two, u better to gather beat. U like this cute lawyer and she's very endowed. Are u serious? U no b better friend at all, u shagged his first gf. That one no do u, u still dey put ur eye for his cute lawyer body Abi? May d devil poke ur eye with his left hand. Ewu Gambia.. Just negodu.
ReplyDelete2.
ReplyDeleteU no well...
Now u wanna shag her cos shes endowed?
Peeps of these days arnt loyal at all.
U shld feel sad and tell ur frnd nt to introduce his babes to u. And what manner of gals does he even run into sef?
@ Poster 1, You are in a relationship with yourself. I see doctors having to place out calls to their lovers as soon as a patient steps out of the office.
ReplyDeleteHe does not miss you and is using work as an excuse.
Poster 2 Tueh
ReplyDeletePoster 2
ReplyDeleteOdale ni e
Poster 1..you are dating yourself. If he truly loves you, no matter how busy he is, he must create time for you.
ReplyDeleteposter 2; you betrayed your friend by sleeping with his first girl friend, the second broke up with him because of you, now, you want the lawyer he introduced you to, don't you have conscience? what you are doing to your friend is bad, please stop!
Na only me waka come???
ReplyDeleteJust negodu...mtchewww
ReplyDeletePoster 2,
ReplyDeleteIt s not ur fault if all his gfs likes u.The man must be a mumu.
How can a girl that a man had succeed in gbenshing suddenly suddenly wake up and say she no dey love again?
It is either he is a retard or he is a poor man.
Your a girl/ woman
Delete@poster 1 that guy does not like/love you, you are probably a side chick to him or he is married i don't want to imagine him not talking to you for a day not to talk of two weeks.. abeg borrow leg and run from that relationship @ poster2 pls don't call that guy your friend/brother cos you sleeping with is girlfriend is neither friendly nor brotherly... my advice to you is to avoid meeting his girlfriends even when you meet them don't collect their numbers.
ReplyDeletePoster 1. You are dating yourself, no matter how busy someone is he would always find time for you.
ReplyDeleteMoreso the medical field is not as demanding as he is painting for you!
2. You be wizkid and your friend Alibaba?
Lol don't know what to tell you jare.
Ur a very wicked guy, i wish i knew your friend i will tell him 2 keep his gf awaay 4m you.
ReplyDeletehmmm
ReplyDeletePoster1,even ur boo get a boo,poster2 u re not serious at all,even though u slept with her???
ReplyDeleteOya take 3 resounding slap to reset ur brain,just negodu!
Emjay, even though it took you time to comment .You still can't say something sensible.
DeletePoster 2 you just came to hype yourself and show how much of a traitor you are.you are not a friend at all. The "girls" all cannot just be smitten to the extent that they dump him for you.you try to attractt them cuz you already have this notion that that you a richer,better,more handsome and luckier than your friend..funny enough,he might be fine and and even be more of a man than you are. If you didn't feel flattered by attention,,you would maintain boundaries...so gerrarahere! Liar!
ReplyDeleteDon't mind him.
DeleteI'm sure he has a sly and slinky character.
You know, like a serpent.
#WhiteDiamondOut
*attract*
Delete*are richer*
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N2, u are such a baaaaaaaaad friend/brother. What happened to be ur brodas keeper. Am very sure u are d one giving them d light to fall for u just to prove a point. Can't u find ur own gf instead of ur friends own. Abeg work on ur self b4 u end of breaking his marriage too in future. N1, u are on ur own. Run b4 u clock 40 and still waiting for attention from him.
ReplyDeleteposter 1: you are dating yourself
ReplyDeleteposter 2: you are a joy killer.
Poster2. You're a very wicked friend to your friend. Am sure you fuck people's wife too pretending to be liked by them. I know your type. Just feeling for the guy that called u a friend because he has not find out the kind of backstabber you're. Idiot
ReplyDeletePoster2. You're a very wicked friend to your friend. Am sure you fuck people's wife too pretending to be liked by them. I know your type. Just feeling for the guy that called u a friend because he has not find out the kind of backstabber you're. Idiot
ReplyDeleteNa wah! Shamelessness among women tho
ReplyDeleteSee this interesting gist about lesbian & gay people here
Poster 2 is a big time snitch but ur frnd is more stupid to keep introducing stupid girls to you(well,I wont rili blame him,he sees u like a brother)poster,delete d girl nd find ur own gf.....
ReplyDeletePoster one u r dating ursef!
poster 1. are you sure you and dokita are dating?
ReplyDeleteposter 2. receive reality slap like Stella offered. dnt you have your own girlfriend? if you love yourself dnt let women destroy the relationship you claim to have with your friend. by the way, did I really read that you once slept with his babe? nawa for you o!
bella
Poster 1, You are in a situation. you should know when you are being manipulated or has your quest for wanting to settled subjected you to being impervious to reasoning?
ReplyDeletePoster 2, I put it to you that you are enjoying the show. You slept with your friend's gf(now ex) and you are crying He's like a brother to you. With the way you are describing this lawyer, you will sleep with her soon. You give these girls green light cos they wont just stand up one day claiming to prefer you to your friend. Stop what you are doing.
Sweetie u ain't asking for too much neither are u inconsiderate, u don't see him neither do u both communicate often, u are simply dating someone else's boo, no one is ever busy to ignore what he luvs, just 6 months and u r feeling ds way u stay longer I bet u wud b more frustrated. I think it's better u don't shut ur door to other prospective men cuz ds ur guy is not performing well. The fact u r 32yrs doesn't mean u shud stick to a boo who isn't giving the much needed attention! All the best
ReplyDeletePoster 2, forget the lawyer and her endowment, do not date her neither chop and clean mouth. I guess ur frnd keeps dating ladies he is not compatible with. I feel for him
Poster one: You are not in a relationship. At 32 you still don't know your bearing when it comes too relationship.
ReplyDeletePoster two: Are you a monitoring spirit? Must you be interested in any Lady your friend introduce to you. You are a big problem too your friend.
Lol, dt koboko thing cracked me up, poster1 ur a side chic believe it or not, wen a guy love's a woman he makes out time for her. Poster2 u better respect urself.
ReplyDeleteSince you ladies say what makes you happy is to give you money and to give you money and to give you money and just to give you money, p1, keep collecting money from him and your happiness would arrive and p2 advice your friend to start giving her girl monkey and more money and as for you stop giving your friends girls money and more money if you no more comfortable with being taken over by your friends girls.
ReplyDeletePoster one: You are not in a relationship. At 32 you still don't know your bearing when it comes too relationship.
ReplyDeletePoster two: Are you a monitoring spirit? Must you be interested in any Lady your friend introduce to you. You are a big problem too your friend.
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeletePoster2---you're such a SNEAKY fellow,u nor be person wey dem supose to they carry join body,negodu you sleeping with ur suposed friend's babe and ure here yarning dust!!,what stops you from putting them off when they come with their advances eh?,why didn't you delete the lawyers(gf)contact off ur phone when your friend finished talking to her?,why did you add her up and kept chating with her on wtsapp??you're delibratingly letting these gfs of ur friend fall for you cos ure a casanova with sweet mouth,why do you keep having sudden interest in ur friend's gfs,you still had the enffrontery to describe the lawyers boobs and bums,ure conveting your friends gfss,ure a snake,a real definition of an unfriendly friend...take heed lest you regret these actions of urs..olojukokoro oshi
Poster1--sowi to say this but ure so not in a relationship,BEN CARSON had,have and is still having time for his wife despite the fact that he's a renowned surgeon,so what kinda xcuses is ur suposed bf giving you??,doesn't he bath,sleep,eat and brush?so what's with the flimsy excuses he's giving you,abi na im b d first 2 be a doc??...@32,kindly do urslf a favour and scout elsewhere 4 a rship.
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeletePoster2---you're such a SNEAKY fellow,u nor be person wey dem supose to they carry join body,negodu you sleeping with ur suposed friend's babe and ure here yarning dust!!,what stops you from putting them off when they come with their advances eh?,why didn't you delete the lawyers(gf)contact off ur phone when your friend finished talking to her?,why did you add her up and kept chating with her on wtsapp??you're delibratingly letting these gfs of ur friend fall for you cos ure a casanova with sweet mouth,why do you keep having sudden interest in ur friend's gfs,you still had the enffrontery to describe the lawyers boobs and bums,ure conveting your friends gfss,ure a snake,a real definition of an unfriendly friend...take heed lest you regret these actions of urs..olojukokoro oshi
Poster1--sowi to say this but ure so not in a relationship,BEN CARSON had,have and is still having time for his wife despite the fact that he's a renowned surgeon,so what kinda xcuses is ur suposed bf giving you??,doesn't he bath,sleep,eat and brush?so what's with the flimsy excuses he's giving you,abi na im b d first 2 be a doc??...@32,kindly do urslf a favour and scout elsewhere 4 a rship.
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeletePoster2---you're such a SNEAKY fellow,u nor be person wey dem supose to they carry join body,negodu you sleeping with ur suposed friend's babe and ure here yarning dust!!,what stops you from putting them off when they come with their advances eh?,why didn't you delete the lawyers(gf)contact off ur phone when your friend finished talking to her?,why did you add her up and kept chating with her on wtsapp??you're delibratingly letting these gfs of ur friend fall for you cos ure a casanova with sweet mouth,why do you keep having sudden interest in ur friend's gfs,you still had the enffrontery to describe the lawyers boobs and bums,ure conveting your friends gfss,ure a snake,a real definition of an unfriendly friend...take heed lest you regret these actions of urs..olojukokoro oshi
Poster1--sowi to say this but ure so not in a relationship,BEN CARSON had,have and is still having time for his wife despite the fact that he's a renowned surgeon,so what kinda xcuses is ur suposed bf giving you??,doesn't he bath,sleep,eat and brush?so what's with the flimsy excuses he's giving you,abi na im b d first 2 be a doc??...@32,kindly do urslf a favour and scout elsewhere 4 a rship.
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Dt koboko thing cracked me up, poster1 ur dating ur self, if he loves you he will make out time, poster2 respect urself.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 you are a fool, idiot and a disgrace.
ReplyDeleteDon't you have your own gfs? Or you don't carry them along when hanging out with your friend and co.?
As fine as you think you are, you don't know how to toast your own babe, okwaya???. Always fronting and boasting in the midst of your friend n his babe, just to take advantage of his calmness and stealing the show from him??? Gerrarahia
Is the bastard even fine? Asshole with the lowest of esteems.
DeletePoster 2,keep playing with fire, that "thing" you're looking for, you will soon find it. Poster 1: you're dating yourself, that's all I can tell you.
ReplyDeleteStella i love this your reality slap and koboko on poster 2. yeye man girls like you. am sure you are using talisman on this girls whenever your friend show you his girl. Abeg better go and wash your face well.
ReplyDeletePoster 2.. your doctor is not working in emergency unit so why the forming too busy. abeg you be chick no 4. go and get another man and leave your ever busy doctor. even baba go slow get time for his wife as he carry nija matter for head
Poster 1 please forget about that Dr no matter how busy he is he can make out space for you.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 in your mind you were feeling fly, pls tell your friend to stop introducing his girlfriends to you for peace to reign.
Poster 2, you do not deserve to be called a friend....what kind of person would betray his friend this way? You are a disgrace.
ReplyDeleteSorry bros you are a VERY BAD friend, keep away from anything called his and look for your own woman, as a matter of fact you are the one snatching your friends women.See you, you have stated to access the lawyer,*endowed* you never seen an endowed lady before her? take more resetting slapsssssssssssssssss from me you baga!
ReplyDeletePoster 1.. You are dating yourself.
ReplyDeletePoster 2.. Arrogance! You reek of it! You are finer than him, smarter than him, more outgoing, blah blah! This post in fact was to rub your stupid silly ego.
I am so sure you are the one who is acting all nice to the ladies (they are fools though) and giving them either attention or money than your friend would.
You are very shallow.. Very very shallow and it stinks to the highest heavens.
And to think you want the girl because she is "endowed", you are just foolish in all ramifications.
Better sit your overbloated ego down and ask yourself why you are always going after whoever your friend has had first, you bloody remnant consumer.
I could smell your pride about sleeping with your friend's girlfriend from here...Useless mofo!
I am so pissed!
U are really pissed. I can feel it from here. Iced vodka will do.
DeleteThank you! He goes after what his friend has because his friend is obviously better than him.then he tells himself he is better than his friend so as to feel good... His types are the ones who make calls to the president whenever they are with others so that people will think they are balling..he is a fool.
DeletePoster 1, YOU'RE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, What are you Saying? It's obvious you're the one attracted to all these ladies. You even slept with the first one and you're coming here so people will pity you and tell you what? Sorry? *Gives you a hot knock for that*
You're not a good person and you know it deep within your heart. If truly you're concerned about your friend, tell her that you can't and he's your friend and stop admiring her. You're wicked jor, Gerrarahere you wicked friend.
Plus I don't believe you, there's more to the story! I pray that same happens to you.
Jeez he even has the guts to be confident and be saying nonsense. I'm sorry for you Walahi.
Poster1, pls move ahead with your life. If he can't give u attention now, he wont give u later.
ReplyDeletePoster2, u really havent been a good friend. U sleeping with the first girl, u found this last one fun and are even gushing about how endowed she is. My dear, please tell this girl NO and keep ur distance.Be a true friend for once. Be mature about this.
Poster one,either he's married or u r a side chic, docs run shifts..gorrit?
ReplyDeletePoster two...pls u r d one giving them d green light. If u snub them, they won't throw themselves at u unless they are worth 500naira a night.
You are an idiot. When your friend finds out, he is going to kill you. Mr. Fine boy. Don't say what you have been telling these ladies. Oloshi
ReplyDeletePoster two,
ReplyDeleteYou are a wicked friend... Don't think your friend doesnt know what you ate doing, someday u will receive his wrought.
That's how u will continue and even sleep with his wife someday, when when u do that, both of will be joined together. Just continue o
Poster one , he should make out time when he is not on call but the truth is doctors are extremely busy professional who equally needs full concentration on their jobs.
ReplyDeletePoster two, You are a bad news to your friend , pls distant yourself from him, with friends like u who need an enemy
poster 1: am dating a doc presently, and he calls every little chance he get, esp early morning and before going to bed. so please check well if you are the side chick.
ReplyDeleteposter 2: sorry to say this, YOU ARE A FOOL. receive this double SLAP. if indeed your friend is like a brother to you, tell him to stop introducing his friends to you, that your prik can't stay one place. IDIOT!!!
Your friend will get married one day and you will probably sleep with his wife. The fact is no matter how attractive you are than your friend you can still chose to ignore any advances from your friend lovers, if you truly cherish the relationship you have with him. We get tempted on a daily basis. It could also be the way you strike conversation with them when your friend is not around, women are very emotional, stop tampering with their emotions. Don't prey on your friend's weakness, you also have an element of pride in you over him.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 u na wah for uuuuu..
ReplyDeleteU alone.
Na only u waka come.
Take time..
Poster u r d side chick..
He's in love with someone..
Oga Poster 2, ur crazy o. U may think ur better than him but u are not! All those girls r stupid! They r feeding ur stupid ego so ur high on that. Get off ur high horse n leave ur friend's stupid girls alone! Onye ara. U r doung so well n u cant even get a woman of ur own. Rubbish!
ReplyDeleteHahahaha @poster 2, well deserved slap.
ReplyDeleteHmmm....just strolling by
ReplyDeleteLmao! Sounds like that poster 2 sent in the dream he had last night hehehe
ReplyDeleteStella after watching greys anatomy, the only advise I have is that doctors should date each other or someone in the field who totally understands. They can be really busy. Besides I once dated a student doctor don't know if it counts though. The problem we had was he was always busy and I do most of the calling which sometimes sef he won't pick. When he might have chance we will hear again that something came up. Abeg I couldn't deal. So it takes an extremely patient person to date a doctor. Or in fact doctors should date themselves abeg. So that there will be full understanding. Most of them sef are fully engrossed in their carrier. To get to the next stage is their priority so they hardly get married in time. Since u feel u are of age I think u should give other guys a chance if any. Just keep him on the side so that u won't hear the kind of stories one doctor living in our boys quarters then told his gf of many years before travelling out to further his doctor wareva. Beware, be warned, don't fall a victim. Nigerian film Don enter my mouth lol.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, YOU'RE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, What are you Saying? It's obvious you're the one attracted to all these ladies. You even slept with the first one and you're coming here so people will pity you and tell you what? Sorry? *Gives you a hot knock for that*
You're not a good person and you know it deep within your heart. If truly you're concerned about your friend, tell her that you can't and he's your friend and stop admiring her. You're wicked jor, Gerrarahere you wicked friend.
Plus I don't believe you, there's more to the story! I pray that same happens to you.
Jeez he even has the guts to be confident and be saying nonsense. I'm sorry for you Walahi.
2nd poster u re a BIG FOOL!
ReplyDeleteIts ur type tht will sleep with his frnd's wife.. kontinue & be feeling like Omar Borkan Al gala. Ur doom is near.
@poster 1; better snoop on that dude. U seem to be d side chic!
Poster1- I am married to a doctor, he is out of the country now but we talk and chat everyday...in fact we talk all the time. Even when we were dating we were always in contact. I knew his timetable like my own. I knew when he was on call and when he wasn't so I don't understand this your own relationship o. That your guy hand no pure.
ReplyDeletePoster2- I don't trust your waka o. Maybe you are too friendly. Besides why should you be having conversations with your friend's girls when he isn't there. Cant you find your own babe yourself. You said you are more handsome and doing better financially so what is your problem? If you sleep with someone's bae, someone else will sleep with your own bae too...so wait its coming.
May God rescue us from people like u poster 2, why will u sleep with ur friends gf, knowing how he feels towards them???? Better change and stop any much communication with them.
ReplyDeleteWhat's chronicle 1 again? Can't remember what I just read.
Poster 1. You are not in a relationship. Poster 2 you are a bad friend. Does your friend know, about your little chats with his girlfriend, behind his back? Why can't you get your own girlfriend instead of pinching your friend's girlfriend.
ReplyDelete"When a man loves a woman, he will create time" na so na so but 2ce in 2 weeks is bend. He myt d kinda guy dat can't handle pressure so balancing a family or social life cud be tough. Maybe he's not just that into you or prabably "testing" you. Hmn na so.
ReplyDeleteNumber 2! Ole, olojukokoro, alatenuje, wobia, Ebina ni e. R u sure u dint flirt wit dem gone girls. U like the young lawyer yet u call dis friend ur brother. So u cud fall inlove with ur brother's wife, are u sane. Oniranu aja igboro. Abeg which kan advice u want make we giv u. Barawo..
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ReplyDeletePoster 1. You are dating yourself simple. What sort of busy schedule is that, at least there are many married Doctors around biko. Just let him go and find someone else who is worth your time.
ReplyDeletePoster2 you are not worth being called a friend or even brother sef. Your type can kill, infact you are bad news and shouldn't be with that ur friend. Its ur type we call frenemy. If the so called girls like or love you at least for the friendship you both share and for the fact that he calls you brother is enough for you to ignore those ladies, even if you don't tell him but ignore them and find one for urself simple. May God help you, cos if ur friend finds out uve been sleeping with his gfrnds behind him na u know. Handsome and richer my foot.
JUST NEGODU!!!!. poster 2, please respect yourself and distance yourself from.this one if indeed you have a conscience.
ReplyDeleteposter 1, anybody that truly loves you will make out time for u, busy saving the world or not! God will bring your man to you sooner than you think!
Amen
DeletePoster 2, u are a devil's advocate..infact you have no right to be called a friend. I'm sure wen dey flirt with u,u reciprocate forgetting hw u play a role in destroying ur friends life..continue feeling on top of d world, Karma z not far from u
ReplyDeletePoster 2, u are a devil's advocate..infact you have no right to be called a friend. I'm sure wen dey flirt with u,u reciprocate forgetting hw u play a role in destroying ur friends life..continue feeling on top of d world, Karma z not far from u
ReplyDeletePoster 2, u are a devil's advocate..infact you have no right to be called a friend. I'm sure wen dey flirt with u,u reciprocate forgetting hw u play a role in destroying ur friends life..continue feeling on top of d world, Karma z not far from u
ReplyDeletePoster 1, I am sorry to say this but you are dating yourself honey and you’re most probably his side chick. I am the same age as you are so I can understand your frustrations.
ReplyDeleteThe problem is that the dude sees you a desperate (due to your age) therefore he does not feel he need to make an effort with you. My dear, there is nothing wrong with being 32yrs and single but from my experience with dating or trying to date Nigerian BOYs, is that they assumed we are desperate solely because we are over 30.
My advice to you to is to shun the loser and make the fool your side boyfriend or fuck buddy. Most Nigerian guys are dogs so the only way to deal with their pathetic ass is to make yourself too much money legitimately.
Once you do that, you will most certainly attract the losers, gold diggers and boys but you will also become more confident thereby attracting the right guys for you.
Just get on your knees and pray to God for a hubby and then get busy making money. Money talks…..Bullshit walks and so do all the pathetic BOYS due to their insecurities.
Poster 2, you are a pathetic boy I described in my advice above. Everything about you makes me sick. The way you write, the way you reason and the way you think.
With friends like you, your so called brother needs no enemies.
I bet your dick is really small too. Empty vessel making loud noises.
KMT.
Poster 2 na wa for u oooo. Just put yourself in your friends shoes .. Would u like it? Find a way out bcos its ur type that ends up sleeping with ur friends wife in d name of “she says she likes me” #oponu
ReplyDeletePoster 1 u r highly on ya own. #sidechickthings!
Poster 1 that is a huge ass lie.i am dating a doctor nd we communicate everyday. In a relationship it is what u allow that hppns dear.
ReplyDeletePoster one:Stella has said it all,u b sidechick
ReplyDeletePoster two:Take this from me,you be thief,what my people call OLOJUKOKORO!!! I join Stella dash u e-blows
Poster 2 you sound foolish. See your description of yourself. Very vain. And u don't sound remorseful. U r even saying the lawyer girl is endowed so u wanna hit it right? U might be under some kind of curse n u don't know and it might end up ruining your friendship or putting u in deep trouble. Just avoid that girl and go for a deliverance. Either u or your friend needs deliverance. I hardly talk about deliverance but I feel something is kinda not right in this case.
ReplyDeletePoster 1
ReplyDeleteIrrespective of a man's schedule, he always has some personal time to himself and if he truly cares, would make efforts to reach out to the most important people in his life, atmost via chat. So it doesn't really matter if he is a junior or senior Reg, consultant or Professor, he can do better than twice a week. Try discussing this with him and let him know your deepest concerns, show some care while at it and pick up strong points from his response so you can corroborate them with his antecedents and also use them as a determinant for your next action, but don't be too quick to end the rshp....wish you the best.
Poster 2
It's quite unfortunate that you donot understand the depth of friendship and clearly lack any form of maturity, dignity or self-respect.
Your narrative is quite childish and i'll ask you just a question...If you feel you're better looking and maybe more successful as you said...how come he attracts women who you end up picking interests in ? Guess that shows you have innate issues. I'll leave you with this message.....Taking pride in wrongdoings is like jumping on shaky scaffolds, the fall is imminent and when it occurs, no bones are spared....Grow up and act your age.
Li-yon Vls.
Don't mind the narcissistic empty-vesseled mofo.
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DeletePoster one... U are the side chick.
ReplyDeletePoster two.. The problem is from you.. You are d one leading them on...
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Whoever wrote that second post is mad as fuck though.....
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2nd poster, common leav ur frnds girlfrnds alone... Wat is wrong with you? Btwn m single and unseriously searching, lets unhook up... Lmao... But seriously leave the girls ur frnd like... It aint gon end well... Wats dt saying u guys hv again sef... Bros over hoes...biko hapum aka! * stellas side eyes
ReplyDeleteNonye, u claim to be single on blogs, so ur bf u flaunt on fb is for what? Girls sha
DeletePoster 1, pls dont be desperate bcos ure 32, some1 better would turn up. @ poster 2, r u rili that hot? U even slept wit 1 of his girlfriends, ure a bad friend
ReplyDeleteChronicles....
ReplyDeleteNarrative one 1, that ur doctor is not in 4u, no matter how busy he claim he is, if he loves u. U will sure hear 4rm him @ least 2times a day, even if self na president, a man who don't love u always end up with pls babe I'm busy. Not that he wrks under the water. U are not getting younger as u said. Will advise u start another relationship, Bcos the next thing u will hear or see is his wedding update on facebook. Den he will start making up stories that the girl is pregnant 4him but he don't love. Infact 2 cut the long story short the doctor na wash wash...
ReplyDeletenarrative two. Naa u Sabi,
ReplyDeleteHe is obviously meeting greedy girls. Why would i be dating a guy then start liking his friend??????? You are not a good friend sef, why would you chat with the girl even if she is on your phone? You give these girls green light and the girls have no self respect for themselves. Oga, please be mature and stop encouraging these girls.....you are more handsome and so? You are attracting greedy & obnoxious girls cuz you are that way.
ReplyDeleteAnother reality slap.....
Poster 2, do u have conscience at all? Na wah for you! You are not a good friend to that young man. You are just wicked.
ReplyDeletePoster one: You are not his girlfriend, you are not even his side chick trust me. As the saying goes when a person loves you they always make out time to be with you. At 32 you should be able to identify a man that is serious with you. My sister create room for other men to enter your life because you are on a long thing with this Doc.
ReplyDeletePoster two: I understand what you are saying because I have seen it happen several times. Sorry to say this, but you are not a good and loyal friend. If you are a true friend you won't even consider any of the girlfriends nor have sex with them. You are human and a man we know but seriously you should try and stay away from your guy's girlfriends. Try to keep your distance from them, I mean you can be friendly without getting close.
@poster1 : at 32 u are still asking stupid questions!
ReplyDeleteSomeone calls you twice in two weeks and you call that dating....my dear,u are wasting your time n age is no longer on your side.
Be wise and move on.
@poster2 : that guy trust you, just don't break that trust
When they come talking to you, tell them how cheap n worth less they are....they them something that will make them feel bad.
I just hope u don't take advantage of the fact that they approach you!
Btw, are you that cute that they are flocking around you like bees?
Dude, watch u brothers back.
Cheap girls everywhere.
Poster 2 you need to fight that spirit of covetousness inside of u, how can u claim u are not happy with what u are doing, meanwhile u are chatting up with his latest babe, leave what belongs to ur friend and find yours, when he finds a new girl, please keep ur distance, u are acting this way kos u think u are better than him, no worry till the day he finds out all ur evil doings, and beat the spirit out of you.
ReplyDelete2nd poster,u r a bad frnd,u dnt deserve 2 be his frnd.Poster 1,U r on a longgg ting,dating ursef @ dt age.Dr has a wify somwhere so better luk 4 urs.
ReplyDelete2nd poster,u r a bad frnd,u dnt deserve 2 be his frnd.Poster 1,U r on a longgg ting,dating ursef @ dt age.Dr has a wify somwhere so better luk 4 urs.
ReplyDeletePoster1: Please stop daring yourself, move on. Poster2: You are the one chasing these girls, stop betraying your friend.
ReplyDeleteI tell u.. Poster two a very bad friend.
DeleteWhat happened to my comment naw?poster1 is either u are a side chick or he doesn't love u.doctors are like that.i was dating one early this year but I took a walk when he started acting busy cus I believe that a man is in love can never be too busy for his spouse even is he's the PA to the president and he fool of himself.dear pls take a walk.poster2 u are a betrayal and don't worth a friend like him.u need christ ASAP
ReplyDeleteBe specific, the Dr you met was like that.
Delete@poster2 : sorry, I didn't read that last part.......
ReplyDeleteYou are a greedy, selfish, wicked and also a betrayal.
Is she the only lawyer that is endowed?
Y not ignore her.....I don't understand why most me like going 4 a whore!
Your type disgust me
I puck on you #
Lol. These are jokes right?
ReplyDeleteStories that touch
ReplyDeleteposter1,i agree with stella,u are a side chic,u have time for who or what u love. poster2,may God have mercy on u.u will surely get ur comeuppance.wicked soul.ino.ole.barawo buruku
ReplyDeletePoster 2, you are not his real friend, after he gets married you will also seduce his wife all in the name of her liking you? I sincerely hope his eyes open's before you ruin his life. I used to have this kind of issue with my friends girlfriends sometime back but i never even considered sleeping with them because some real friends will always have your back but this kind of girls they come and go and besides if you do not stop this your murderous lifestyle you will get it where it huts most soonest, Kama they say is a b..tch. Before i forget, because you make more money than he does now does not mean your life is better than his and enough of your empty bragging.
ReplyDeleteUhmm, I think you should tell your friend about everything(since he's like a brother to you) and stay off the lawyer lady,because you know even after they break up and she stays with you deep down your hommie won't be cool with it,and it might create a rift between you guys..in general put yourself in his position before doing anything... #disciplineyourself
ReplyDeletePOSTER 2......YOU ARE THE DEVIL HIMSELF.GOSH
ReplyDeletePoster 1, u are his side chick obviously. I dated a site engr who was always claiming busy I decided to pay him a visit while there he called his main chick right in front of me & they talked for over two hours. I felt devasted and took a walk. Two months later I met this amazing man, a doctor who treats me like a lady. We talk everyday, he calls me in d morning b4 he goes to d office & when he's less busy we chat during d day we also talk b4 going to bed. If ur man truly loves u he'll make time for u two. As for poster 2. May thunder plunk off dat dick of urs, stupid excuse of a man. Ur post recks of immaturity. Unrepentant fool
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Don't mind WOMEN, they re always confused. That was how my friend's wife lured me to sleep with her. Women enjoy the attention they get from outside men. My colleague in office refuse to tell anyone she was married with kids, pestered me till we had sex. One i saw her with another guy not knowing it was her DH. Shock wan kee me. Since then i am avoiding anything with a lined eyebrows. For 2yrs now am asking God to forgive me. Believing that my wife will come.
ReplyDeleteBut what is the assurance that I won't go and marry a woman that will sleep with my gatekeeper?? I am so AFRAID of Woman. I need to start a home. God please forgive me.
poster 2 you belong to the dregs of the earth. you must be really feeling cool with yourself with that horrible post that you sent. I hope your friend will wake up and realise the kind of person you are before its too late. I am more good looking, I earn more,I am an extrovert etc. imagine the impudence. alakori ni iwo bobo yi sha. you do all the chasing and the fools fall for your deviousness. Stella please don't bring such chronicles here,treat their ailment in your inbox jare cos it's so annoying.
ReplyDeleteposter 1 you are dating yourself,shikena!
@Poster 2,you are the true epitome of the kind of friend we all should pray God takes away from our lives. You are busy snatching your friend's gfs and there is no joy or pride in it. Your day of reckoning shall come.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. This is d truth about you.
ReplyDeleteYou are a Casanova and a womaniser. Because of this, you are master in the game of deceiving women and making every lady fall for you. You know what ladies want, and you fake it to them. This is the trick you are using on ur friend's girlfriends. You are doing it intentionally. You make them your friend, you give them amazing compliments etc, when dey ve any issue w their guy (ur friend) ur proffer solution. You eventually walk and work your way into their hearts. And some ladies being gullible, dey fall for you. You also, intentionally use your looks and money to accomplish this. You have betrayed and backstabbed your friend countless time and funny enough, he loves you and trusts you. despite u r more handsome and richer, he is not threatened or feel inferior or wants to compete w u. so, why betray him? if you don't repent and desist, God will eventually destroy you. I mean it. so, the choice is yours.
poster 1:
ReplyDeleteside chick na ur middle name
poster2: yinmu!
u be james bond abi??? Tel ur frend to stop introducing u to his galfwends nau.
At poster 2,I've never commented on sdk before but I just had to comment..you are so damn full of yourself! You are arrogant and wicked and selfish!!who do you think you are?? Going about blowing your trumpet n snatching all d gfs your friend has!!let me ask you,how long do you think he'll keep having you as a friend?or because you feel you're better than him you don't need his friendship abi??be careful o! Lest you see d evil side of him..people have killed for a lot less..I even think you deliberately turn on your charms for the girls so they can like you. You are evil,horrible n I hate Pepple like you who deliberately hurt other people cos they feel they can!!May God help you!i wish someone does even worse to you!!haba 3times??
ReplyDeleteI am a christian but permit me to say you are cocky AF!
ReplyDelete1. He is not that into you. Move on
ReplyDelete2. Slimy disgusting "friend". You sound very immature. Hope your friend discovers exactly what type of person you are and cuts you off!
Poster 2 Ntoooooooooooor! you see 95% of SDKS were against your action. Come to think of it how would you feel if somebody/friend sleep with your girl friend/wife. You claim you're more handsome than him and more successful than him, it should not be enough reason. Your better grow up before mmiri ama gi n'anya UCHU! and remember what goes around comes around so wait for your turn because "IT WILL DEFINITELY HAPPEN"
ReplyDeletePoster 1:
ReplyDeletebe alert! u can see the red flags already n u r busy asking us jamb quentioms. A man who doesn't make out time for u in d 1st 6 months u av dated him wud probably not offer much in d next 6 months. If wot u r seeing in r/ship is nt good enof then am afraid marriage wud b worse. No man is eva too busy to reach out to d one he loves especialy now dt tech has made things so easy
*voice notes
*sms
*video calls and so on.
I wud advise u to be calm. Dnt be desperate cos of ur age.
Frend zone him(so dat ur expectations of him wud reduce) n kip ur options open; no man owns u until he's put a ring on u.
Its well wt u, if u deem fit kindly partcipate in d next S n M.
Expecting ur chronicle of hope soonest,
Cheers
Poster 1 & 2: Just Negodu! No advice 2day biko.
ReplyDelete*****MhizDerbyViaIG*****
N1, you are less than a side chick, at 32 you are still this senseless???!!!..hmmm... N2, with friends like you no one need's an enemy. You are a back stabbing bastard.
ReplyDeleteposter one I'm dating a CMD of a federal institution who also has a private practice. We talk put together average of 30 minutes everyday except days I don't want to be bothered. So wish him bye bye and face other guys.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, watch out. You are not the smartest guy
ReplyDeleteN2, You are more handsome and have more money but can't get your own girl abi? ANUOFIA!
ReplyDelete#1: Sweetie, no, you aren't asking for too much. You're only backing up the wrong tree. There are certain men who, by virtue of their professional endeavours, can't give the average lady the attention she craves or needs. Medical doctors are high on that list, same as politicians and celebrities, so you must brace yourself and be sure you can take the heat which comes with dating or marrying a man whose 1st love is his profession or career.
ReplyDeleteCalling twice in two weeks which averages a call a week, is a tad unusual for a man who is interested in a lady he has been seeing for only 6 months. That's usually the "honeymoon" phase in a healthy relationship, no?. I know doctors are very busy and being primary care givers, their jobs are verydemanding. The scariest part is, it gets worse after marriage because the average man stops chasing whom he has already conquered. If a lady doesn't keep her hubby on his toes by being spontaneous and mysterious, over-familiarity sets in very fast. So imagine being married to a man in high demand. I know a lot of doctors' wives, including a couple of my sisters-in-law, who had to train themselves to cope with being doctors' wives. Some are still very miserable in spite of the fact that they have loving husbands.
Honey, the truth is we can't be absolutely sure of his feelings, or lack thereof, for you but from your story, it seems you are taking the relationship more seriously than he is. I'm guessing your concerns about your age isn't helping matters too. I'm actually curious, did he propose marriage to you or are you the one taking "a leap of faith"? If he has told you his intentions, shouldn't it reflect in his actions? I understand not being able to spend quality time with you or make/ return calls but shouldn't he be super sweet when you get to talk on phone? Certainly he can do better than an "I'm busy" type of excuses, if he really wants you. A man who is really into a woman will always find a way of showing it. At least his efforts will be evident.
If you never see nor communicate with him, why should marrying him even be a consideration? I hope you aren't the one initiating the twice in 2 week calls, though? My darling, I know the idea of marrying a doctor can be exhilarating but the reality could be less exciting. Marrying a doctor who is in love with you is challenging enough so imagine marrying a doctor who really isn't that into you!
Stop all you're doing to make the relationship work and see if he notices and tries to get you back. If he doesn't think you are worth his time and effort, then please let the relationship die a natural death. Some relationships don't deserve to be placed under life support, pulling the plug would be the most humane thing to do for both parties. I'm so sorry, my love.
#e-bearhugs.
Narrative 1) u guys started dating
ReplyDelete6months ago and u're talking about time is nolonger on ur side? Babe please move on fast. u both had a fling that's how d guy sees it... Stop seeing it as a relationship!
,( 2) if only u know d meaning of best friend .... My dear you're not a friend but an in house enemy.
I do not believe people can be this stupid @ poster 1 n 2.mschewwwww
ReplyDeletePoster 2 u r so full of ursef and u tink its by ur own making that u r beta than ur frend. Kontinue!
ReplyDeleteI lack words to reel out to u. U r a frenemy n frm ur writing n moves, u wud most likely than not bed ur frend's wife n probably his daughters. Tufiakwaá
Most certainly u n ur dear frend needs deliverance.
*prayer mode*
Dear Lord cut us off frm frenemies lyk poster 2.
Its well o.
I missed y'all.
ReplyDeleteSex-prayer wife of previous chronicles well done oh! Make your hubby free you go meet woman wey no dey pray before the action. Even Rev/pastor no dey pray before action talk more of you.
Today chronicles; poster1, please break your engagement and move on with your life. A man who loves his woman can never be busy. Na so my ex dey always hide under I am busy. Na so I go visit one day, see am with him friends dey gist. I just shake my head. I see pictures for him phone wey him hang hand for woman neck for beer parlour. I ask am shebi na ur being busy be this? I had to break off the relationship jor. Now, I am peacefully married biko. My hubby showed me true definition of "when a man is in love with a woman". You dare not risk it bec other men are waiting to take her. Babes on your heels biko.
See you self, you don clock 32 still dey jonze urslf. abeg come make I borrow u brain.
The lady that allowed her bf to be beating her hope you have recovered? Please let go and find love in yourself this time around. May God help you pass through this. You will get a better man that knows your worth okay. God loves you more than any man can love you.
Ciao.... PEACEFUL AND ENCOURAGING WIFE.
I missed y'all.
ReplyDeleteSex-prayer wife of previous chronicles well done oh! Make your hubby free you go meet woman wey no dey pray before the action. Even Rev/pastor no dey pray before action talk more of you.
Today chronicles; poster1, please break your engagement and move on with your life. A man who loves his woman can never be busy. Na so my ex dey always hide under I am busy. Na so I go visit one day, see am with him friends dey gist. I just shake my head. I see pictures for him phone wey him hang hand for woman neck for beer parlour. I ask am shebi na ur being busy be this? I had to break off the relationship jor. Now, I am peacefully married biko. My hubby showed me true definition of "when a man is in love with a woman". You dare not risk it bec other men are waiting to take her. Babes on your heels biko.
See you self, you don clock 32 still dey jonze urslf. abeg come make I borrow u brain.
The lady that allowed her bf to be beating her hope you have recovered? Please let go and find love in yourself this time around. May God help you pass through this. You will get a better man that knows your worth okay. God loves you more than any man can love you.
Ciao.... PEACEFUL AND ENCOURAGING WIFE.
Poster 2 biko get away from here!! Wicked friend. Karma will deal with you. See ur mouth like brother. Aunty Stella no slap and flog u reach. Mschewwwwww!
ReplyDeleteP1, we always have time for who we love no matter how busy bre we are. Twice in a week, naa. P2, that your friend better disfriend you because if he finally gets married you might lay his wife and ut iggt bring death because dude will kill you. Maybe you think he doesn't know all this things you wrote down, deh there deh form more handsome
ReplyDeletePoster 2- You are a wicked somebody* jokes apart, how can you do such to some1 you call your friend. And you have such effontery to say rubbish, put yourself in your friends shoes, how would you feel if the tables were turned?
ReplyDeleteMay I never meet a friend like you...Amen